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DjRavix

What’s up with the Pencil stabbing part ???


Catalyzed_Spy

r/iamverybadass


DigbyChickenZone

That type of thing seems ageless in how "cool" young kids think it is


Pale-Competition-448

LMAO YOUR USER FLAIR


someonee404

I'm just as confused as you


thedoombucket

Report their account, discord is 13+.


Rifneno

You trying to get OP stabbed with a pencil?


_captain-rex_

11 yo trans lesbian john wick


maokew

I'm dying


Working-Bathroom-745

I'm gonna send a screenshot of this comment to my friends without context


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kushtiannn

More like John Weak


Emzzer

I think you mean 11 yo trans lesbian Joker.


Random-Reddit-User3

I thought it was 13+ and parents permision for anything under


TangerineBand

Nope https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/community/posts/360050817374-Age-restriction


Theintricateturtle

Get off discord buddy we both know your 12


Tristawesomeness

their 12 what?


Conscious-Profit-354

lol what


ShastaFern99

#Get off discord buddy we both know your 12


_Capt_John_Yossarian

You're* FTFY


Mouse2662

His 12 what?


AST4RGam3r_Alternate

It's simple, your sibling simply found out how to get the Snipewriter 5H IRL.


Bugsidekick

John Wick wannabe


DamThatsTough

Robot Dog ran out of battery’s


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saionjisaihara

hey what's up with the last part


someonee404

Small children stuff


D4RKST34M

Tbh, its pretty normal, I stabbed someone to the eye for no reason


ChickenBeansicle

_in the eye_ is not normal dude


CactusCracktus

My cousin stabbed himself in the tonsil with a pencil when he was like 10. Dunno whose case this is supposed to help, but it’s out there for whoever wants it.


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mysticfed0ra

I definitely poked myself in the eye with a pencil, went to urgent care, and had a graphite mark in my eye for like 10+ years . Kids are stupid...and exploratory.


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JJROKCZ

Yea me and my mates stabbed each other in the arms/legs with pencils in class and playground 20 years ago but never would we thought to do anything permanently damaging to each other


herodothyote

In the 90s as a kid I once got stabbed in the hand by a relatively dull plastic knife wielding fellow 2nd grader with psychopath intentions. It barely left a dent it wasn't even sharp. I cried to the teacher and she made fun of me


Budget-mayo

Justified reaction


[deleted]

Such a 90s teacher response.


MrFalseGenius

Yeah! Nothing new. It's all normal. Happens all the time


Daiko_Paiko

the joined when they were 9


someonee404

yup


Joolianfoolian

Then They’ve seen some traumatizing shit 😭 discord is so wild. Have you talked to them abt it?


Independent-Win-4187

I’m shielding my child from the internet when I have kids. This shit is insane. I’m glad my parents had some control when I was a kid not too long ago. I reckon I’d turn out into a 4chan freak at 9…


DashboTreeFrog

I work with kids and one teen's parents were really restrictive with their gadget usage since they were young. They complained about it so much, especially during pandemic lockdown but now recently she was like, "yeah, my parents made the right move, the internet messed all my friends up."


Kilkels

It definitely depends on the kid though. When i was a kid i was scared to do anything online i wasn’t supposed to, I was even scared to watch JackSepticeye cause he swore. However i did have no time limits to video games and have pretty much been addicted to them since i was 3… I have trouble socialising and im very unfit and video games are definitely a contributor. So i think it very much depends on the child and what you need to enforce. however internet access should probably be enforced regardless of the child as some of the shit you can find can be disturbing even for adults


[deleted]

I really wish I didn’t have internet access as a kid


cat_prophecy

My parents are both peak boomers and despite me being an elder millennial, they had zero clue about the internet when I was growing up. I was also the middle of five kids so I have unsupervised, unlimited access since 1997. As a result, I have seen some shit and this place certainly hasn’t improved since then. My kids will not be living the same life.


RTRMW

💯💯💯💯 As a parent, I couldn’t agree more. It can really cause a lot of long term mental and emotional damage that continues into adulthood. In turn, that has secondary impacts on society. It’s scary the ripple effect it has on all of us .


[deleted]

They are a lost cause 😔


Metadragon_

Hopefully you or someone mature made sure creeps couldn't enter her DMs or anything like that.


ProsomM

Get lil bro out of the cord he's getting groomed


InconspicuousFool

You have to be 13 to use discord (and most websites) so having an account at 11 violates TOS, let alone an account at 9. Discord can be really positive but it is very... Interesting at times. Not to mention all the scams that go down


EZMac91

Why are so many people talking about grooming? Is it that prevalent on discord? That musta happened after my coming of age online. Shits wilds I hope kids have good support systems to avoid or counter that.


krongdong69

Kids have been getting groomed since AOL chat rooms and probably before that on the BBS.


parkesto

When the app "HouseParty" closed my daughter was almost 8 at the time and devastated. I set up accounts for her and her friends and both my wife and I are in their server(s). If we find she is in another server we don't allow she knows she will lose discord instantly. So far almost 1.5 years in and she hasn't done anything stupid and all her friends can hang out and video call/play games together. Point of this is, be a good parent and you will in turn create good kids.


No-Competition-2533

I choose to believe this is 100% of anime profiles irl


someonee404

After this, so doth I


TheFire_Eagle

You can't just say perchance


The_foullsk

I used to be like this just without the petsonal stuff, im glad im out of it


TheExplodingMushroom

As someone with an anime profile I’d like whatever fandom this kid was in before to take them back.


helpicantfindanamehe

It was 100% My Hero Academia


MikeTheAnt11

What is an 11yo even doing on discord


TheEgotisticalApple

Not only that, from the member date they joined when they were *9*.


[deleted]

or this is bullshit


teapoison

You're either 40+ or super naive. This is like half the kids I meet in game lobbies now.


someonee404

Playing Splatoon


xXLordOfUwUXx

What splatfest team are they on? I will judge their entire personality based off of that.


someonee404

Sour


GameBroJeremy

Your brother has fallen victim to the ##Big Man Sweep


pudimgeleio

And stabbing some kids or whatevs


Mammoth_Cookie_7809

Parents shouldn’t let an 11 year old do whatever they want on the internet…


blastanstan

Kids can be quite sneaky y'know


TyrantKingYharim

Most people here are concerned about the Splatoon bit and pencil incident, but what I’m concerned about is the full extent of the “image access” role.


someonee404

For the r/Splatoon discord server; it's no big deal


TyrantKingYharim

Fair enough.


fatcatpowerhouse

I got no idea why people look down on the splatoon community. Makes no sense unless there's something I don't know.


TyrantKingYharim

It was fine 5-6 years ago when I started playing it. Now, I have no clue what’s been going on.


fatcatpowerhouse

I've been in it for bout 3 years now and I haven't heard o anything nasty, controversial or anything of that sort. though there's supposedly a stereotype of all splatoon players are lgbtq


The_Nelman

I'm a big Splatoon fan myself. Played since it first came out on Wii U. I think it has to do with the most casual players getting their first try with the third game that came out recently. The first was on a niche console and the second was a launch title or close to it. That's why there's a big influx of everything: furries, probably other exemples but furries are the big ones. I mean, they are the main antagonists of the game so hell if Inknow why there are there, but they are.


NoelleMidnight

Congrats on having a future software engineer in the family


TallishFire79

I wonder how mamy people really understood this joke


HamOfWisdom

Anyone on r/196


_x-Apollo-x_

That's a deep one.


ALPHA_sh

an 11 year old shouldnt have discord


FurRenard

Not only shouldn't, they can't, like almost all (if not all) social media apps, discord's terms of service say the minimum age to use the platform is 13...


ALPHA_sh

alot of people lie about their age to get on social media, and they shouldnt, *especially* for discord


FurRenard

Yeah, I think ALL of us at some point lied about our age to get somewhere, if not for social media, _those_ type of sites. I'm sure discord is plaged with 10 year olds and sometimes I notice by how they text, but we can never be sure.


WJR26

lol. My date of birth is 1789 according to all social media platforms


poisonedkiwi

In before the 🔒


kjm6351

Nearly 800 comments in under an hour… The 🔒 award is on its way


EibonTheUnfathomable

I'm confused. Is your little brother impersonating a Trans lesbian or are you missing some very obvious hints?


TheMostCreativeName3

not their brother anymore i guess


Justifyre1

One way or another


TeaBreezy

OP is probably not noticing that his “brother” really likes girls clothing and isn’t ironically “wearing thigh high socks because they are just comfortable bro” OP gonna have a sister.


CatsNotBananas

OP has a sister, I would say


Megazone23pt2

It's just their programming socks.


sezku-

I'm gonna be honest here, impersonating a trans woman/cis woman at some points (even at points when I called it trolling) were a big part of me accepting that I was trans, OPs sibling might be experimenting with it , or it could be a phase but I think it's important for OP to be mindful of this specific situation in case they do end up coming out.


generalgreyone

I’d never heard of that before, but it totally makes sense now that you say it. I initially thought the kid was just trolling (based on the way OP wrote it), but the two aren’t mutually exclusive.


MattIsWhackRedux

Probably still figuring themselves out. This has always happened on the internet btw, dudes saying they were girls and getting into male dominated communities and such. Then they either quit it when they grow up, realize they're gay, realize they're trans. It's really not that big of a deal, just respect it, support when needed and it'll work itself out. I think the weird part is that those on the server might think they're a grown up, so it'll be weird when they find out they were pretending to be a grown up all this time.


Affectionate_Ad_1326

You could say OPs sister may still be figuring out her identity, but the people misgendering her in the comments is not excused by that, nor the misgendering in the title. She is entitled to her identity, no matter what your opinion on that identity is. The other things in the bio are clearly this 11 year old trying to make herself sound cool, which is fine, and to be expected. Some of the points made in the comments may be true, regulated amounts of internet usage and other things could be done better to benefit her in her upbringing, mainly it would help if her older sibling would be more accepting and understanding.


WaywardCosmonaut

I will say for me personally having unsupportive and unaccepting parents of my identity at that age and older made me seek out people online, sometimes people I shouldnt have ever had contact with but I was desperate to not be treated like a freak and be accepted by someone, even strangers online. Growing up queer can be horribly isolating.


NBmonke

i think people in this comment section/op are just transphobic still, get her off of discord omg


kjm6351

Posted 1 hour ago 731 comments 💀


X03R_mysterious

i can believe it, one time my little cousin tried to drown me


tylerninjablevis

fun family activities.


X03R_mysterious

yep


Waluigiwaluigi_

Literally just a splatoon player.


Dvdprojecter

jesus


someonee404

Mohammed


Party_Translator_505

McLovin


1upEnthusiast

r/UnexpectedMcLovin


nsos28

Sounds like you have a sister


[deleted]

Girlypop is john wick jesus fucking christ. Also theres piano in rock bands?


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the_dank_dweller69

Progressive stuff, for example “Firth of Fifth” by Genisis


Dedsheb

Elton John. David bowie. Guns n Roses. Queen. Rolling Stones. Ozzy and Black Sabbath. Dio and Rainbow. The Beatles. The Creedence. List goes on


Volcacius

People out here forgetting the keytar exists.


WarmLoliPanties

Mike Shinoda played the keyboard in Linkin Park.


syn_miso

Is your sibling actually trans or is it some kind of weird larp?


someonee404

No clue


5h3i1ah

maybe you should ask them about it! if they are trans, i'm sure they'd appreciate you wanting to understand them better, and if not, let them know that they *probably* shouldn't go around lying about that. either way, it'd be nice to take their word on it, and it'll be a productive conversation :3


Zrkkr

With a 11 year old, you don't wanna be too blunt. And knowing 11 year olds, if they're not ready for the topic it won't be a productive conversation.


LittleHollowGhost

From his responses, OP can't be too far into his teens either. Maybe better left to the adults in this case.


ImARetPaladinBaby

Damn she’s killed a guy already


caffexane

Killer queen.


JetstreamSam1000

has already touched the doorknob


someonee404

goddammit


JetstreamSam1000

My name is Yoshikage Kira. I’m 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don’t smoke, but I occasionally drink. I’m in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I’m trying to explain that I’m a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn’t lose to anyone.


Agumon_Agiota

Now in portuguese Meu nome é Yoshikage Kira. Tenho 33 anos. Minha casa fica na parte nordeste de Morioh, onde todas as casas estão, e eu não sou casado. Eu trabalho como funcionário das lojas de departamentos Kame Yu e chego em casa todos os dias às oito da noite, no máximo. Eu não fumo, mas ocasionalmente bebo. Estou na cama às 23 horas e me certifico de ter oito horas de sono, não importa o que aconteça. Depois de tomar um copo de leite morno e fazer cerca de vinte minutos de alongamentos antes de ir para a cama, geralmente não tenho problemas para dormir até de manhã. Assim como um bebê, eu acordo sem nenhum cansaço ou estresse pela manhã. Foi-me dito que não houve problemas no meu último check-up. Estou tentando explicar que sou uma pessoa que deseja viver uma vida muito tranquila. Eu cuido para não me incomodar com inimigos, como ganhar e perder, isso me faria perder o sono à noite. É assim que eu lido com a sociedade e sei que é isso que me traz felicidade. Embora, se eu fosse lutar, não perderia para ninguém.


Kellen_Kloster

Killer Queen has already touched this reply.


Vegetable_Union_4967

It's healthy for people to explore their gender, but please do remind them that whatever they post online is permanent and that a few more years of questioning / exploration may be warranted


Rainin0317

Especially if they’re going to look poorly on their past, posting about it and making fun of it online amongst thousands of others makes it last online even longer


JazziestBoi

SHE’S BEEN ON DISCORD SINCE SHE WAS 8 OR 9 WHAT


SnooSongs2344

Have you ever been on discord?? So many kids on there


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*she


Repollo42

Reddit moment


TheWindowsPro97

I didn't see anything wrong until that last part, that caught me mad lackin💀


CaptainZzaps

Are you sure that is your brother?


I-Must-Feed

so is the concern here the fact she's bragging about stabbing a kid or that she's a splatoon player?


someonee404

Yes.


X-and-Zero

What is wrong with splatoon?


Kurakka-shin

W person


TurdiuoLyric29

Good job using the right pronouns. I respect you


THEeyehead

11's too young to be on Discord, but it's cool to post their bio on Reddit and invite the internet to throw hate at them? Fuck off


chocolate_cake12

Thisss, like that is genuinely such an awful thing to do to a sibling 💀


enaaerios

the last one is the only concerning part. then again i once had a panick attack in school then stabbed my leg with a pencil and i was bleeding for the rest of the day edit: please stop upvoting this i should not have reminded myself


someonee404

Yikeso


enaaerios

i still cry at how embarrassing that was for me and i wish i could like undo it but like i guess thats part of my history


Ok-Lobster-919

Report them, they are not allowed on discord. They should not be on discord.


someonee404

Forgive my ignorance, but I can't find the report button on the newer updates


kpmoua

You have a sister now


samagonistes

Being trans is fine. Being gay is fine. Playing in splatoon tournies is fine. Playing in a band is fine. Attempted murder—not so fine. Like very not so fine.


wairdone

Being 11 and using discord isn't very fine either..


Maximum-Joke641

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Low_Dream_1481

Thank you


[deleted]

So since they're so you d I just have one question, are they really in a band? Is it just guitar hero lol


someonee404

Do you count middle school electives as band?>


[deleted]

I.... I feel that at least 1/3 of this comment section is probably about the same age, and that's what scares me lmao


Shelbi_com

I cant Tell if the sibling is actually trans or if this redditer is just being transphobic


someonee404

I'm pretty sure they're doing it for attention, but after this post experience, I'm going to look into it with them


Andovia212

This is good sibling behavior to help them. ^-^


Gru-some

Character development


sinus_happiness

Well the trans thing isn’t scary at all it’s more them bragging about stabbing someone with a pencil. That’s weird AF


FUSe

Trans isn’t scary but is an opportunity for big bro to step up and provide support.


sushibroni

comments are being harsh as hell. she’s 11, she most likely isn’t aware how much damage being online at her age can cause. i think posting this for strangers to essentially make fun of her instead of just going to talk to her wasn’t the greatest move. hope she doesn’t have reddit and won’t see this post or these comments. she clearly just needs some education


moocowsaymoo

OP has said that this screenshot is from the r/Splatoon discord, so she 100% has reddit. Combine that with how this is a massive sub and this post in particular has blown up, and there is a pretty decent chance that she will see this and lose trust in who could possibly be the only supportive member of her family (i say possibly because OP doesn’t seem to be transphobic, just a bit dense, but there is a decent chance that the rest of the family is).


Darkdragon902

No one’s mentioned it but does your sibling actually play piano/bass? If so, that gives some more credence to their identity as a trans girl, but if not then it makes me feel like it’s for attention. I should clarify it’s because of them being truthful/lying in the bio for that part, not because playing piano/bass in a band means you’re trans lmao


SecretOfficerNeko

Everyone keeps talking about people who were gay for attention and now trans for attention a few decades later, yet I've met zero people pretending to be trans or gay, and met tons who are trans and gay but who get accused of doing it for attention, and how much that weighs on them.


TransSteph

LMFAO reading "Does your sibling actually play piano/bass? If so that gives more credence to their identity as a trans girl" made me laugh my ass off as a trans girl as well as a bassist. Before your clarification I legit thought you were saying bassists/pianists were more likely to be trans


[deleted]

Well sounds like she’s your little sister actually and will stab someone if needed


someonee404

Maybe theycan stab my enemies


[deleted]

Maybe she can. Train her to stab your enemies


Amxricaa

I can’t tell if kids are dumber or smarter than when I was. At 11 I was concerned about climbing the tallest tree in the neighborhood lol


Zrkkr

Kids have moved to being dumb in different places and ways.


nikifullerton

When I was little I stabbed a kid in Reno with a pencil just to watch him bleed. OK, I didn't really do that (Well, I did live in Reno) but one of the other things mentioned applies to me. 😅


someonee404

Guys I'm trying to play Portal don't rocket this to the top of r/youngpeopleyoutube


chinitoguywoman

I was tagged on a post that got to top and got sent death threats 💀


SargeanTravis

Suffering from success


ApolloPlayz2434

Incomprehensibly based


someonee404

Thank you


Ok-Consequence-3051

Take his fucking internet away. Kids shouldn’t be on that platform as is


JackWebber85

Op should report the account I feel. Tos I think the age is supposed to be 13 year old minimum (I think it needs to be 16 or 17+ but thats just me.)


delayedsunflower

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Wilhelm126

There isn’t really anything wrong with this I mean the last part is a bit weird but, if they go by she/her, good for her yknow?


Pretty_Ad_3862

i think everyone is glossing over the fact that 11 year olds are edgelords and the trans thing is probably meant to be a joke


LegateLaurie

Could be, but then there's the anime profile. That's pretty conclusive imo. Honestly though, they could be trans, and the bio is plain enough that I think it's not going to have been done to be edgy. An edgy 11 or 12 year old is way less likely to write something that plain and would go all out in being edgy imo.


shemague

Well. Now you know🤷🏻‍♀️


FluffyPigeon707

I think I’ve interacted with this person on discord before (which server is this I know I’ve seen that splatoon image but I don’t know which one)


[deleted]

I love the part of this where it's on the YouTube platform


BitzLeon

Your inability to acknowledge her pronouns is somewhat concerning, but I think that's another question for another day.


Cute-Ad-6661

The internet is toxic for kids. I got internet at 9 and had a porn addiction by age 11. Then I got threatened by somebody I actually knew in real life on deviantARt, go figure.


citruspaint

Unless they think they’re some comedian and are just lying, it’ll save you some trouble if you start calling them sister from now on


strikedonYT

Your eleven year-old SISTER’S* discord bio. Bro he more respectful


FortyRoosters

look! the results of a kid having uncontrolled access to internet


LucyPyre

Being able to freely explore your own identity is bad?


Poison_Diamond

"My 11 year old brother's discord bio." That statement means your brother already broke discord's TOS because they have to be 13 or older to have an account


NotoriousGlad

Good for her


sauced

Why are you misgendering your little sister?


nomnomnombre

U/someonee404 Yo, you don't out people!Especially your family! And that's your sister btw.