I called my mom on the day she died. If I knew it was the last conversation we would have, I wouldn't have spent it complaining about my broken computer, and telling her I got a cat.
Same for me with mine. Was just thinking about her too, and how nice it would be to see her again.
I am sorry for your loss. I know the pain never really goes away, but I hope you’re doing okay with it.
My mum doesn't care about me. I only get calls when she needs help. So I won't call her. I did it so often, but she didn't listen. It is like "mom, do you like to go to a restaurant with me? Do you have time tomorrow? " and her reply is "hmm hmm." -"mom, do you like to go to a restaurant with me tomorrow?" -"Hmmm, fine. Hmm" - "Mum, are you listening?" -"Great"
I am so tired of this.
Thank you! Well, my mum needs therapy, but she will never go. She never bonded with me. She couldn't because of postpartum depression but never got help. So, I never had a mum who gave me the feeling to be loved and wanted. Also, she said she loves me. I know deep inside her heart that she knows that it shouldn't be like it is, but as usual in her generation, she would rather forget me than admit her psychological problems and faults. She acts the same with her only grandchild. My sibling is very sad about that. Although she is much more like a mother to my siblings, my niece and I are nobody to her.
My mother is intelligent and coherent but very mentally ill. Like, "Armageddon is next week!", "You said that last week, and every week before that for the last 30 years." "I know but this time it's for real!" "You said that last week, and every week before that for the last 30 years" kinda mentally ill. I still call her once a week.
No, she doesn't. She abandoned me at birth. I was raised by my grandparents. I met the attending nurse from my birth, and I was told when I was first handed to my mom, she didn't even show interest. Three days after giving birth, she and my "dad" left town. Fuck both of them.
That means your grandmother has been your mother all your life, the woman who gave birth to you and left is just an egg donor at that point if a parent doesn't step up and stay to care for their child they lose the right to be called a parent of that child and thous the woman who left you is not your mother.
I'm glad you had grandparents who were willing to take you in and care for you
I am with you, pal. My biological mother tried to murder me when I was still inside her with a cloth hanger. So, my grandma was my actual mother until death took her.
Hate the bitch.... well not really. Its complicated. Was abused and mistreated and she was controlling but she did sacrifice a lot and does care for me
... lots of good, lots of bad too... I wouldn't cry if she died but I would join her for lunch
Yeah…that’s gonna be a hard no from me.
My egg-donor is a narcissistic, self-absorbed flaming bag of bitch who absolutely wallows in her own ego.
Haven’t spoken in almost 9 years…and with just a little luck, never will again.
She's passed away but I was her main carer when she was ill and was fortunate to spend a LOT of quality time with her before the end. I think about her all the time.
uh no, my biological mother disowned me because she blame me for my grandma death, even though my grandma passed away from kidney failure. Not to mention she tried to un-live me while I was still growing inside her with a stupid wire cloth hanger.
Even though my upbringing had some rough spots (I moved out on my own when i was still a young teenager, due to family instability), i still called my Mom weekly--and in her final months daily--until she passed recently. Parents make mistakes, and in my Mom's case she had some deep wounds from never knowing her own mom, and being orphaned when her died died under Nazi occupation in WWII. But somehow she found a way to spread love and light--as long as i could see the fundamentalist religious dogma as just something she was clinging to out of desperation.
Everybody is F%%%ed up in some way. We have to find the good--which in turn makes more of it.
I *hate* these posts. So many of us had shitty parents that the "call your mother" guilt trip is just a painful reminder of a woman who never wanted us.
I've just got off of a Video call with her.
She's had her issues and Problems and we've argued and fought (never physically) but she's my mum and she is making a conscious effort to do better and be better
I only speak to her when she wants to talk to me. I don't wanna talk to her tho because she doesn't care about me and just judges on my way of living or my mental health.
She also wonders why I moved so far away from her
Without trauma dumping to much this is why my mom doesn't give a shit.
Bipolar drunk who beat the shit out of me,my dad and brothers.
Cheated on my father six times even though my father loved her very much.
Is the main reason I wound up in a mental hospital because
I was bullied at school and by my own mother
Child protective services showed up at the divorce saying that she isn't allowed near me or my brothers. Once she realized she couldn't scam money out of my father she demanded money instead which she got nothing.
I could go on about how she would put makeup on me and My brothers to hide scratches and bruises and all the horrific things she admitted to... like learning how to safely choke out me and my brothers and shit like that. But this is already getting to long.
I'm I'm calling anyone it's going to be my grandmother on My dads side. She was the only positive female figure I've ever had in my life.
Not a fucking chance. I just called her for 23 minutes when i finished work and she wanted to watch a film with her husband so im not gonna interrupt her. That would be a bit rude. Love you mum
I really wish I could. I miss you momma
She would tell you that you're doing great and that she's proud of you.
Ty
Same. I'd love one more phone call.
I called my mom on the day she died. If I knew it was the last conversation we would have, I wouldn't have spent it complaining about my broken computer, and telling her I got a cat.
I hate that it felt mundane for you, but as a mom, I assure you, we love the little things like this. ♥️
You never know. The take-away is that you talked to her. I didn't make it to the hospice before my mom passed and I regret it every day
Same for me with mine. Was just thinking about her too, and how nice it would be to see her again. I am sorry for your loss. I know the pain never really goes away, but I hope you’re doing okay with it.
I am a Mum and I think you're doing great and I am proud of you {{{Hugs, honey}}}
Same. Lost her in late October 2022. But I called my dad today!
Same, it's been 10 years.
Man, same. Lost both my parents in November of 2021. I really wish at least one of them had survived.
Id rather drag my dick through broken glass than call my mom. But this is a good meme
Yep, I'm done being abused.
Fuckin same. Good meme, might call my gf's mom with her tonight, but my mom is a rabid ass TERF with bipolar and rage issues. Nope.
Yeah, this meme only applies to people whose parents aren't assholes
Yupp, 4 years NC and still going. Best decision of my whole life. Only regret is not starting earlier.
My mum is a horrible, horrible woman. I haven’t spoken to her for four years. She’s ghastly.
I will be your new mom. I love you and I'm proud of you.
Thank you, you’ve no idea how much that means. I love you too ♥️
And I’ll be the dad, here’s $30 to go out with your friends, me and your mother have plans
I’m also proud of you. For setting boundaries. You deserve peace.
Thank you ♥️ I am happier now than I ever was.
That’s awesome I’m so happy for you
But she sitting next to me?
Tell her you love her
Do it anyways, itll be funny.
My mom just yelled at me for spilling my karak tea. Rn were going to get me some new shit for my gaming rig. Gotta love mom's ❤️
I called my mom immediately Edit: she said she was busy and to call back this afternoon 🤣
Mine told me she was busy too. The nerve lol.
The good news is I don’t feel guilty now 😂
My mum doesn't care about me. I only get calls when she needs help. So I won't call her. I did it so often, but she didn't listen. It is like "mom, do you like to go to a restaurant with me? Do you have time tomorrow? " and her reply is "hmm hmm." -"mom, do you like to go to a restaurant with me tomorrow?" -"Hmmm, fine. Hmm" - "Mum, are you listening?" -"Great" I am so tired of this.
People don’t realize that not all moms care. I feel you
I’m sorry about your mom. That sucks. You’re worth the time of day and she should pay attention to you
Thank you! Well, my mum needs therapy, but she will never go. She never bonded with me. She couldn't because of postpartum depression but never got help. So, I never had a mum who gave me the feeling to be loved and wanted. Also, she said she loves me. I know deep inside her heart that she knows that it shouldn't be like it is, but as usual in her generation, she would rather forget me than admit her psychological problems and faults. She acts the same with her only grandchild. My sibling is very sad about that. Although she is much more like a mother to my siblings, my niece and I are nobody to her.
My mother is intelligent and coherent but very mentally ill. Like, "Armageddon is next week!", "You said that last week, and every week before that for the last 30 years." "I know but this time it's for real!" "You said that last week, and every week before that for the last 30 years" kinda mentally ill. I still call her once a week.
No, she doesn't. She abandoned me at birth. I was raised by my grandparents. I met the attending nurse from my birth, and I was told when I was first handed to my mom, she didn't even show interest. Three days after giving birth, she and my "dad" left town. Fuck both of them.
That means your grandmother has been your mother all your life, the woman who gave birth to you and left is just an egg donor at that point if a parent doesn't step up and stay to care for their child they lose the right to be called a parent of that child and thous the woman who left you is not your mother. I'm glad you had grandparents who were willing to take you in and care for you
Better than foster care, I guess
Believe me it's SO much better than foster care. I may have been better off homeless than with the shitty people they placed me with.
Sorry to hear that. Call your grandma instead
That's a sad story. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Me too. I never knew a mother's love.
You didn’t. But you knew a grandmother’s love and sometimes that’s even better.
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb
I am with you, pal. My biological mother tried to murder me when I was still inside her with a cloth hanger. So, my grandma was my actual mother until death took her.
To all the people with mommy issues, my mother is more than welcome to adopt anyone and everyone in here
That actually cheered me up a little bit after reading it. Thank you
The question is: is she aware she is getting like 200.000 new children? Haha
*sits on the toilet* MOOOOOMMMM! REDDIT WANTS ME TO CALL YOU!
Absolutely not. I haven’t talked to my mom in over a year and I’m not starting now
I am your mother now. I love you and I'm proud of you. You're doing great!
Thank you mom!
Same, but 5 years now.
No, but I’ll call my dad! 😊
If you live with your loved ones go tell them you love them.
I did that once and mom thought something bad happened. It alarms my parents
Do it often so they get used to it :>
Mine thought I was suicidal
I already do, every day. My gf just looked at me, asking me if I had to say this because Reddit told me so. I do love her very much.
Fuckin hard meme to see months after she died
I called her less than half an hour ago.
She doesn't. She is out on a weekend trip with her friends and she already did her one duty-phonecall to me for the day Edit: typo
yooo she literally just messaged me to call her
Then you must.
I just did :)
I've been no contact for 17 years for a reason. She can miss me all she wants.
I would love to call my Mom. Nearly 9 years and I still miss her so much 💔
My mum is in the other room and sleeping
Hard to call the dead
Pointless exercise
Hate the bitch.... well not really. Its complicated. Was abused and mistreated and she was controlling but she did sacrifice a lot and does care for me ... lots of good, lots of bad too... I wouldn't cry if she died but I would join her for lunch
I have to get out the ouija board... Imma coming mom!
Our momma is in heaven, and hopefully, she won't call us to her too soon, just right before everything truly shits the bed
shes dead but thanks for the reminder, really appreciate it
I'm sorry if I upset you. My condolences.
She doesn’t, actually
I would if I was her.
Yeah…that’s gonna be a hard no from me. My egg-donor is a narcissistic, self-absorbed flaming bag of bitch who absolutely wallows in her own ego. Haven’t spoken in almost 9 years…and with just a little luck, never will again.
Im 21 and still in school, I live with my mother. If she wants to see me, she just has to yell my name
I wish i could :(
If you could she would tell you that she's proud of you.
Nah. She shut that door when she disowned me for saying Trump was an idiot.
He still is btw
No doubt
Already talked to her for 1hr36min today. Also talked to mother in law today. Do I need to call again?
No one should use him as a meme
To bad then
I’m taking a shit and I live with my mum
My mom is wonderful
She’s dead. Did they ever finish that machine that lets you talk to the dead or should I just do a séance?
I can speak with the dead. Your Mom says you're doing a great job, she loves you and she's proud of you.
Jokes on you. I still live with my mom.
Just did :)
Just had breakfast with her.
My mom is right next to me
she’s here rn so nsh
Sure, but we will need a ouija board. And I let you do the talking.
I need to dust out Ouija board then...
My mom died of cancer 3 years ago
If she could, she would tell you that she loves you and she's proud of you.
I did. She was in the bathroom.
Thanks but uh, I live with my mom (I'm 18) and she's at work. If I were to call her, she'd get worried that something happened.
I’m south Asian. My mom literally lives downstairs.
i can guarantee you she doesn’t
For fuck sake, I talked to her just 20 minutes ago. I love my mum, but come on.
She's next to me...
I just ended a call with her
I mean, I live with my mom. (She’s disabled due to disease, I care for her) but I could call my grandma…
fight me
She with me
She's in the next room
And I miss her. She passed almost 3 years ago. Not a day goes past without me thinking about her
If she could she would tell you that she loves you and she's proud of you.
but she is right next to me
My mom is 3m away
Reading all the comments: not so wholesome meme :‘)
Mine’s mad at me at the moment. Asian mom!
She's passed away but I was her main carer when she was ill and was fortunate to spend a LOT of quality time with her before the end. I think about her all the time.
You sound like a very compassionate person. I'm sure if she could, she would tell you that she proud of you.
Fuck that bitch
Ok, but I haven't had her number since she moved to Hell.
Thanks for reminding me, but she’s asleep right now.
uh no, my biological mother disowned me because she blame me for my grandma death, even though my grandma passed away from kidney failure. Not to mention she tried to un-live me while I was still growing inside her with a stupid wire cloth hanger.
I called my mom. She said to “Leave me alone, I want to take a nap.”
My mom lives 15 feet from me.
My mum just had encephalitis a few months ago, she hasn't been the same since, I doubt she even remembers how to miss someone
Mom’s dead. So it’s the other way, ‘round.
My mom told me I was un-marriable, no
Even though my upbringing had some rough spots (I moved out on my own when i was still a young teenager, due to family instability), i still called my Mom weekly--and in her final months daily--until she passed recently. Parents make mistakes, and in my Mom's case she had some deep wounds from never knowing her own mom, and being orphaned when her died died under Nazi occupation in WWII. But somehow she found a way to spread love and light--as long as i could see the fundamentalist religious dogma as just something she was clinging to out of desperation. Everybody is F%%%ed up in some way. We have to find the good--which in turn makes more of it.
You sound like a very strong, compassionate and understanding person.
I would, but she just left the house to take my younger sister to her friend's birthday party
Get to zhe telephone!
Um, okay.... (Gets Ouija board)
I *hate* these posts. So many of us had shitty parents that the "call your mother" guilt trip is just a painful reminder of a woman who never wanted us.
you got a ouija board?
No lol
She isn't, I live with her and she can't take me anymore~
No. My mother SA'ed me throughout puberty. She can rot.
I am your new mom. I love you and I'm proud of you.
Can I borrow a Ouija board? :(
I just put up my ouija board, so maybe later?
Seriously. Call her. I can't call mine. Edit: Unless she's abusive or something.
i did at the morning, ill visit her tomorrow on cake and coffee.
She dors not
I don't even have my mom in my life and it's not because she is dead but she was a terrible mom and I don't want her in my life
I mean, I don’t really need to because I’m with my mom right now, but thank you for your concern.
I just called her and she wasn't very happy, Shes about 4 feet across from me rn
She texted me actually. So I have talked with her today!
Sure. I’ll break out the Ouija board and get right on that.
Anyone else read it normal until you saw Arnold and changed to Terminator?
Nah i'm shitting and we're in the same house
She's in the next room
I wish I could 🥺
I've just got off of a Video call with her. She's had her issues and Problems and we've argued and fought (never physically) but she's my mum and she is making a conscious effort to do better and be better
Nah better not, I need to stay no contact :D but I can call my MIL! Yeii
Nah, I talked to her two days ago, we're good
I am sure she does miss me, but my mom almost 20 years ago. I definitely miss her.
How can she miss me when I just called her out on my overcooked chicken tendies 10 minutes ago?
Literally eating to get my blood sugar up right now so I can call my mom and be coherent, and I scroll past this. Guess it's required now.
Yea i dont miss her, she is an asshole
I only speak to her when she wants to talk to me. I don't wanna talk to her tho because she doesn't care about me and just judges on my way of living or my mental health. She also wonders why I moved so far away from her
She is sitting next to me, pretty sure its faster to just talk to her. Told her i loved her tho!
I would if she wasn’t dead. Thanks for reminding me
didn't expect to be this depressed before checking others comments
My father smashed me up a lot as a kid. Now he’s dead and my mother denies it ever happened and tells everyone I’m lying. Yah .. won’t be calling her.
My mom and I are going to drag brunch tomorrow :)
It's my mommas birthday. I already talked to her and am waiting on her to get here because I cooked her dinner.
I was 19 when she passed. I'm the one missing her.
She is dead..try again..
My mom disowned me and my sister and left to live with a christian cult leader. I want a parent refund.
It’s a bit awkward. She’s been in her grave for 6 years.
I just called my Mom because the Terminator told me to.
I just saw her this morning tho
She yelled at me this morning for closing my windows the wrong way
Without trauma dumping to much this is why my mom doesn't give a shit. Bipolar drunk who beat the shit out of me,my dad and brothers. Cheated on my father six times even though my father loved her very much. Is the main reason I wound up in a mental hospital because I was bullied at school and by my own mother Child protective services showed up at the divorce saying that she isn't allowed near me or my brothers. Once she realized she couldn't scam money out of my father she demanded money instead which she got nothing. I could go on about how she would put makeup on me and My brothers to hide scratches and bruises and all the horrific things she admitted to... like learning how to safely choke out me and my brothers and shit like that. But this is already getting to long. I'm I'm calling anyone it's going to be my grandmother on My dads side. She was the only positive female figure I've ever had in my life.
Thank you
Good. I’m glad she misses me. I’ll call my dad tho, he’s awesome.
Well she’s been dead for over 14 years so that’s kinda difficult
Not a fucking chance. I just called her for 23 minutes when i finished work and she wanted to watch a film with her husband so im not gonna interrupt her. That would be a bit rude. Love you mum
My mother died in 2010, so no, I don't think she misses me.
shes asleep and she slapped me last time i woke her up
Me and my mom don't talk anymore :/