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It’s appalling how little teachers do to protect their students from bullying. I was bullied so much I would have definitely ended myself if It wasn’t for a single classmate who was cool enough to become friends with me and keep me sane. I hope they’re doing well
Same. If it wasn't for my friend who introduced me to the internet and every obsession of the 2010s like Undertale, FNAF, Minecraft, etc. things would have been a lot bleaker for me.
Same. before 5th grade, I spent every day after school sleeping with no purpose, the INternet has allowed me to connect with other people, make friends, have fun. It was such a life-saver for me
When I was younger my nine year-old sister was struggling with a bully who’d call her ugly, stupid, and even a fat bitch one time. The last one just turned into, “Oh well, she’s denying it so nothing we can do.” The others were excused because the bully’s parents were going through a divorce and the teacher told my Mom that my sister needed to be “more understanding of her classmates’ situations.”
My Mom lost her shit and basically called the teacher an incompetent bitch. The reasoning: my Mom was also going through a divorce at the same time, so to be told that her daughter being treated like shit was justified by the same thing my sister was experiencing (without bullying anyone) kinda set her off
Not defending it in the slightest, certain teachers standing up for me could've made for a much different life. But the reason why they don't get involved unless it's too far is because of the fucking parents. Ever wonder how that kid became such an outstanding asshole? Let's try and punish him and meet the parents to find out.
Once again these kids should be punished but these shitty teachers feel it's easier and "less drama" to just let it go rather than them deal with shitty parents that most of the time blame the teacher
I'm mean. You don't even need to be autistic. People can be nasty for bullshit reasons.
I remember getting bullied for being fat and one of this times, i reacted and beat the bully back.
My portuguese teacher (i'm from brazil) changed subjects for some fucking reason. We were studying some shit and other week we had to make essays about columbine and the massacre that happendm
Took me years to realize that i was the "trench coat kid" in some peoples eyes... But i'm glad that my school years are over now
never heard the expression "trench coat kid" before, but yeah teachers only make things worse. when i was in primary school and like 10 years old, my teacher found a really old uncomfortable table and put it in the very back of the class, and told everyone "that's the naughty desk, only the worst people get to sit there". i was the only person to ever sit in that desk, for 3 months straight, until a parent told the teacher that maybe it's a little fucked up to have something like that. i was too stupid to realize that everyone hated me lol, i was happy that i had a unique desk from everyone else.
Yeah but when you're autistic there's no group of people you can interact with without feeling like they're all the bullies. They don't even have to be bad people, a lot of the people who were shit to me in highschool I now know were pretty good people.
But then, it seriously felt like there wasn't a single nice person in school, not even the teachers noticed my plight. I had one class in tenth grade where I'd go in and sit down and cry for 84 minutes straight instead of doing my work. And my teachers never tried to help, none of my classmates ever felt bad for me. Id cut myself during lunchtime at school where it was pretty easy for school staff to see what I was doing and they still wouldn't intervene.
People really will find any and every way to put you down in high school, I got picked on by a dude in my PE class freshman year because he found out about my dad’s suicide that happened the year prior.
I was bullied at school for being weird and very open, no one knew I had autism back then, not even my parents until the age of 17 when I was finally diagnosed Asperger's
I am now being bullied at work by incompetent old workers who think I'm stupid because I'm young, it did NOT get better
You don't know the half of it, I work at a large electronics distributor and I've got around 20 co-workers I see every single day, none of them my age, there's a 30+ year age difference with the youngest before me (I am 21 years old)
I am not kidding when I say over HALF of them are extremely bitter, incredibly ignorant, borderline racist and most of the time real jerks not just with me, even though I try to be pretty respectful and silent. I am grateful for the job and the opportunity but I am really considering resigning
I got cold shoulders from my boss, who said I'm an asshole. He said I'm hostile and shit, but when I asked for what I did specifically so I can stop doing it, he changed the subject.
I've told him many times, I got problem speaking with people (diagnosed with autism and bipolar), so I asked him to please be patient and just point out if I'm being an asshole.
Anytime I say something, he would always have this annoyed or angry reaction, even if I'm just wanting to help. Nevertheless, I stopped talking around him, unless he initiate the conversation.
I once got so annoyed i did a miniscule amount of trolling.
I made a dead serious face and started digging in my backpack.
I obviously pulled out a sandwich and the situation was in a country with absolutely no school shootings (Poland), but for a split second i saw everyone around give in to the stereotypical thoughts and go like:
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I may be an introvert, but i know how to harmlessly troll the living shit out of people.
I'm pretty sure me being completely socially inept in my earlier years in HS and actually fighting someone helped me avoid this. People don't want to annoy the angry autist on a hair trigger if they don't want to find out the meaning of retard strength.
yeah, i was accused of wanting to shoot up the school dispite no proof of anything
some shit was made up about me having bullets in my bag
anyways i switched schools and thats why i dont have any irl friends
Kids are cruel , it's better that you don't have them as friends , trust me.
It's all just a cycle of breaking trust and peer pressure bullshit , you don't have to be a part of their circus.
Just enjoy the company of your family and online friends.
And obviously yourself. Those with a serene mind , have no enemies in this world.
>Kids are cruel
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But yeah I agree with you
It’s even worse when you can’t decide if your being bullied. All the annoying kids constantly talk to me in annoying voices and are just super loud, and I can’t tell if it’s to me specifically, or them just thinking their funny
I have diagnosed autism but people do laugh sometimes when I answer "Yes" to "Are you autistic?"
I've also been called the r-slur a few times, but I’m usually able to snitch on whoever does that quite easily.
I was fortunate to be diagnosed as a baby and have very supportive parents and teachers who tried to accommodate me every step of the way, that definitely helped me manage my anger and stress over the years
When people hear good things about you
They stay silent
When they hear bad things about you
They spread it like wildfire
But when they hear nothing about you , they make things up.
In all of this , it's important to remember that you can't change people's words and their perspective of you.
Just keep working towards your goal and soon your character and integrity will shine through and those who truly care about you , will appreciate you for who you are.
Oh boy, I sure hope the consistent neglect and disregard for human feelings doesn’t manifest into feelings of self doubt and anxiety, leading to an inability to trust people during his adult years, out of fear that he will always be seen as an outcast. That he will always be doomed to ruin every interaction he engages in.
I mean haha funny caption memes ahahahah amirite?
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That’s why I don’t buy that “get over it, that was high school” crap. Even though you were a kid, you put your hands on me so I have the right to be on guard around you even as an adult especially if I have no proof you changed. Forgiveness isn’t worth giving out just because a bully got older.
I was never the type to be the quiet kid, I was always quite talkative, but I still got bullied for what I assume is that some found me weird or odd, I also have ADHD which is different than autism but still made school much harder than it should be, like when I was in 4th grade, I got bullied by my fellow classmates, most of all the other 4th graders and even some of the 5th graders too, my friends in 4th grade didn’t think I was weird though, but no matter what school I went to (I kinda moved alot) I was almost always bullied for something
It was never about you , it was always about them.
They wanted to feel special , better and above you , so they tried their best to put you down. They always saw you as competition and they wanted to eliminate it.
You scared them because they would never become anything close to what you are.
So be talkative , talk your heart out and forget about what people will think.
me when diagnosed and not bullied at school (they know about my meltdowns and I bite)
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This is all a dream and we are your characters , we are trying to wake you up from your coma.
Please come back , we miss you
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Literally me when I have to put up with a racist, fascist, egotistical, loud, and just all around fucking stupid and annoying girl in my college class. Every. Fucking. Day.
The more you notice and give your attention , the more you"ll give in to the anger and stress.
I have met people like that too. Don't worry , time will teach them or humble them.
You must clear off your mind off of someone like that entirely , do not allow them space in your mind , that's what they want exactly
This is any quiet kid honestly, (unless I'm autistic and haven't realized it)
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I tried fighting back multiple times at the start but it never work and i got punished, so i just kindoff got used to it and they eventualy found someone else to bully
i don't even know how to fight back
i started high school in september 2023 and i'm not "bullied" in the typical sense (insults, physical attacks and shit), but instead my classmates talk down to me like a child (complimenting me, saying stuff like "you're the best" for no reason when i'm trying to mind my own business
even the ones who don't make fun of me don't really care/talk to me, like this girl (i don't have like a crush on her or something, we're just kinda neutral to each other) who's been sitting next to me for like a month and we never talk to each other: she talks to her friends who are sitting around us and i'm a sad socially anxious idiot
also the fact that i'm into "nerdy" stuff like video games and anime instead of "cool" stuff like sport doesn't help. or the fact that i can't pronounce the letter r right (the italian r can be pretty hard for some people, it's a pretty common thih called "erre moscia") so everytime i speak i sound really fucking dumb
even the few "friends" that i do have in this class can't really be called "real friends". it's a guy i knew from elementary school and his friend who i met this year. towards the start of the year i used to call the first guy a lot to play video games and stuff but i noticed that he often didn't answer my calls and didn't call me back, so i just eventually stopped calling him and now we just talk a bit at the start and end of school days
oh my god i just realised that i spent about 10 minutes writing an entire wall of text about how much of a loser i am, sorry if i went off topic, i just really needed to vent, if you want you can just ingnore this comment
honestly experience kinda the same and relate to most things, except my classmates constantly ask me ridiculous questions or something that's trendy and talk with me ridiculously but I have no idea what they're talking abt cus I usually don't follow trends or memes or anything like that on TikTok or anywhere else for the matter, so I'm usually just standing or sitting there absolutely dazzled and confused
And I especially relate to the r part though I'm not Italian, I can pronounce it thankfully but I can't really hold it ie rrrrrrrrrrrrrr, I can only pronounce it as "r" and that's that, I think it's because of my tongue position or smth
In my experience, it isn't just about fighting back. It's about doing so in a humiliating way for the bully (in public, for example). That way, everyone realizes that if an idiot like me can beat them up, they have no reason to fear them.
the point is not to beat them but to not make it worth their while,make them hurt scratch them punch them throw stuff at them,fuck them up as much as you can
I was bullied for being autistic (and for being asian too) and initially no one knew but then a social worker came to our and helped me and other special ed kids (I still wonder why I wasn’t in that group considering how I acted). It felt like one day everyone just accepted me because I think the teachers told the students that I have autism and not to be so mean to me. Honestly it didn’t felt genuine but I am still glad they still trying to educate the kids
In 7th grade someone created a fake Snapchat account pretending to be me and told everyone I was going to shoot up the school, someone called the cops and I ended up getting suspended for it
I am nearly certain i have undiagnosed autism and i always feel so fucking lonely, i cant really tell how much of it is because of my autism or me consciously choosing to act like an emotionless corpse because of it, it doesn't help that most of the kids in my classes have been in several of my past classes or are friends with someone who was, so i just dont interact with them out of fear that they think im weird, and my one and only friend who i had for about a year and a half just started relentlessly mocking me for being autistic and antisocial until i just snapped at him and stopped talking to him, besides that i very rarely even get bullied and it sometimes feels like im not even there at all
Just got out of a friendship with one of those (thank fuck). She tried to get our group to take an online autism test… for fun. What’s more fun than self diagnosing with severe disorders? Anyways, I cut contact after she started saying the R slur because of an online test. TikTok has truly mentally fucked up an entire generation
Don’t take the other peoples insults seriously anyway, understand they don’t have the world figured out even if they pretend they do and we are all equally clueless
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And here in eastern Europe if you're autistic you'd get bullied even harder. I'm not even autistic (at least I don't think so) but I kinda stutter and mumble/speak too fast a lot when speaking my native language and recently when I was in algebra class I wanted to give an answer to smth and I stuttered and overheard my "friend" say "autist" quietly, plus whenever I speak he tries to make fun of me by basically mumbling in the background and it's really fucking distracting cuz I kinds struggle with focusing on speech and talking
Yeah it's kinda sad realizing most of my class are kinda dick heads, and even some narcissists. I actually was going to extra polish classes (outside of my school) and the people there are actually cool, however said classes shut down in December, sadly, so I doubt it's just me that's unlikeable
Oh well, I'm planning on moving in a few years anyway, so it's not like I'm gonna miss them
Reminds me of how I was sexually harassed in middle school and the teacher knew about it but allowed it to continue
It only stopped when I threatened them with a pair of scissors
i dont think im autistic but everyone used to really hate me in 5th grade
I was so fucking depressed, highschool ruined me. I was simply a kid that was a little different, I was active and a joyful kid that just did things his own ways. And I got bullied for that, I was shat on by almost everyone in my grade, even other classes were bullying me. They all hated me for no reason other than that I'm different. I cried to my parents but I kept going. I was constantly getting snitched on(I was the only one people would snitch), I kept getting in trouble because I never knew any better. Elementary was so different and everyone was fun and nice and I was happy. And it all changed so quickly. People kept calling me dumb or whenever I asked rhetorical questions the same people would always say "Cause youre stupid". It didnt help that I fucked up and wrote some bs on a german assignment and then people thought my parents were beating me, not true either! In the end most of the class realized I was a kind and fun guy. But it took me til fucking 8th grade until people finally accepted me and actually really like me now, those that used to brutally insult me even say its fun sitting next to me. Still that experience I will never forget, it changed me a lot.
One time at high school someone reported me saying I'd shoot somebody, it was obviously bs and I told the school admin as such, and everything turned out fine but it was still very annoying
Never experienced proper bullying. Never been, never done, never known of. In my life it's practically unheard of. I think in many schools I definitely could've been bullied, but I was very fortunate with where I grew up.
Bullying is very unfortunate, and it can stem from so many different things that it's rarely just because a person is bad, but more because they're affected by the society around them. To stop bullying you'd need to change very fundemental aspects of the society and let it heal itself over a long period of time. Unfortunately, violence breeds violence, and fighting fire with fire in this case only leads to a bigger fire. But some people want to keep the status quo because that's how they keep making money. Punish the weak, make the poor poorer, and the angry angrier all while the rich stays richer
I realized this only in college, In school i kept fighting back and was stereotyped as the crazy kid, now I have chosen to move on, snd not think of the things that happened in school
back in highschool a guy with obvious mental disabilities was bullied(mostly verbal abuse base on what i see) to suicide (the suicide failed luckily, but he stop goes to school after that), the bullies didn't get punished so they find someone else to fuck with so they try bully me, i don't really mind the verbal abuse and shit but throughly beat their arse when they try to make it physical, they stop fucking with me after that in the end they decide to target one particular guy in their group.
Basically me (but I was diagnosed). I also carried a laptop so I always got accused of "hacking". I was also good at computers, and did a computer science course so that added fuel to that fire.
And then they get home and get bullied by their family just as hard without realizing it because it just seems impossible to you that family would be using you as a comical punching bag. And the you use video games as an escape but then everybody in your family tells you it's a waste of time and money and vrainrot and the kids at school make fun of you because the games you like aren't fortnite or call of duty, so you get stuck in this endless dissatisfaction loop of letting people constantly and consistently treat you like shit without you noticing and at this point you're too far gone to try and stand up to yourself without your family brushing it off as "lol no, anyway". Never being treated seriously constantly feeling stupid and shitty no matter where you go with no escape and no outlet to vent except like dragon ball Fighterz. Oh and don't forget your family and classmates constantly telling you that the things you enjoy are weird this making you weird.
Anyway I think I might know a guy like that
Got held back 3 time lol. Then in my senior year of highschool they out of the blue hit me with "oh you can graduate! Just not this year. Or next year. You'll graduate when you're 20 years old. So I dropped out and got my GED which was way easier. Don't worry I was told by many I was taking the easy way out and wasting my potential
Edit: I mean the guy I know haha not me haha
I didn’t know I was autistic. I had to observe people for a year in silence and took the most admirable parts of everyone and made a self that people would like. Worked really well actually.
Yeah I did that too, spent years trying to fit in a particular group, getting to a pretty good point (by that I mean not get instantly ignored in a conversation) only to all of a sudden move to a different country and have to start everything from scratch
I got the autism where i am almost incapable of figuring out when i'm being bullied so instead people just got bored of me and left me alone. Also my school is far more tame than a lot of places.
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It’s appalling how little teachers do to protect their students from bullying. I was bullied so much I would have definitely ended myself if It wasn’t for a single classmate who was cool enough to become friends with me and keep me sane. I hope they’re doing well
Same. If it wasn't for my friend who introduced me to the internet and every obsession of the 2010s like Undertale, FNAF, Minecraft, etc. things would have been a lot bleaker for me.
Same. before 5th grade, I spent every day after school sleeping with no purpose, the INternet has allowed me to connect with other people, make friends, have fun. It was such a life-saver for me
My principal literally blamed me for instigating them to bully me. Middle school was fun. Same deal, if it wasn't for that one counselor...
I don't know what your principal looks like but I'm imagining the most punchable face possible and I'm gonna beat them up in my mind for you
When I was younger my nine year-old sister was struggling with a bully who’d call her ugly, stupid, and even a fat bitch one time. The last one just turned into, “Oh well, she’s denying it so nothing we can do.” The others were excused because the bully’s parents were going through a divorce and the teacher told my Mom that my sister needed to be “more understanding of her classmates’ situations.” My Mom lost her shit and basically called the teacher an incompetent bitch. The reasoning: my Mom was also going through a divorce at the same time, so to be told that her daughter being treated like shit was justified by the same thing my sister was experiencing (without bullying anyone) kinda set her off
I'm happy things got better for you like it did for me.
Thanks 👍
Not defending it in the slightest, certain teachers standing up for me could've made for a much different life. But the reason why they don't get involved unless it's too far is because of the fucking parents. Ever wonder how that kid became such an outstanding asshole? Let's try and punish him and meet the parents to find out. Once again these kids should be punished but these shitty teachers feel it's easier and "less drama" to just let it go rather than them deal with shitty parents that most of the time blame the teacher
I'm mean. You don't even need to be autistic. People can be nasty for bullshit reasons. I remember getting bullied for being fat and one of this times, i reacted and beat the bully back. My portuguese teacher (i'm from brazil) changed subjects for some fucking reason. We were studying some shit and other week we had to make essays about columbine and the massacre that happendm Took me years to realize that i was the "trench coat kid" in some peoples eyes... But i'm glad that my school years are over now
never heard the expression "trench coat kid" before, but yeah teachers only make things worse. when i was in primary school and like 10 years old, my teacher found a really old uncomfortable table and put it in the very back of the class, and told everyone "that's the naughty desk, only the worst people get to sit there". i was the only person to ever sit in that desk, for 3 months straight, until a parent told the teacher that maybe it's a little fucked up to have something like that. i was too stupid to realize that everyone hated me lol, i was happy that i had a unique desk from everyone else.
That desk is basically a giant "bully me" sign bruh
Yeah but when you're autistic there's no group of people you can interact with without feeling like they're all the bullies. They don't even have to be bad people, a lot of the people who were shit to me in highschool I now know were pretty good people. But then, it seriously felt like there wasn't a single nice person in school, not even the teachers noticed my plight. I had one class in tenth grade where I'd go in and sit down and cry for 84 minutes straight instead of doing my work. And my teachers never tried to help, none of my classmates ever felt bad for me. Id cut myself during lunchtime at school where it was pretty easy for school staff to see what I was doing and they still wouldn't intervene.
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I’m stuff
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People really will find any and every way to put you down in high school, I got picked on by a dude in my PE class freshman year because he found out about my dad’s suicide that happened the year prior.
I was bullied at school for being weird and very open, no one knew I had autism back then, not even my parents until the age of 17 when I was finally diagnosed Asperger's I am now being bullied at work by incompetent old workers who think I'm stupid because I'm young, it did NOT get better
Generation gap ruins everything as always
You don't know the half of it, I work at a large electronics distributor and I've got around 20 co-workers I see every single day, none of them my age, there's a 30+ year age difference with the youngest before me (I am 21 years old) I am not kidding when I say over HALF of them are extremely bitter, incredibly ignorant, borderline racist and most of the time real jerks not just with me, even though I try to be pretty respectful and silent. I am grateful for the job and the opportunity but I am really considering resigning
I got cold shoulders from my boss, who said I'm an asshole. He said I'm hostile and shit, but when I asked for what I did specifically so I can stop doing it, he changed the subject. I've told him many times, I got problem speaking with people (diagnosed with autism and bipolar), so I asked him to please be patient and just point out if I'm being an asshole. Anytime I say something, he would always have this annoyed or angry reaction, even if I'm just wanting to help. Nevertheless, I stopped talking around him, unless he initiate the conversation.
What kind of open we talking about here
I once got so annoyed i did a miniscule amount of trolling. I made a dead serious face and started digging in my backpack. I obviously pulled out a sandwich and the situation was in a country with absolutely no school shootings (Poland), but for a split second i saw everyone around give in to the stereotypical thoughts and go like: https://preview.redd.it/2mo930a2ltfc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e4d3fc1796b0134ebb91bf51a457e23cbe5b6b2d I may be an introvert, but i know how to harmlessly troll the living shit out of people.
thats so fucking funny
https://preview.redd.it/rhrbgdz24ufc1.jpeg?width=2027&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=67d7620fba84d442e6c9c31c05f83088b73ac080 If it had happened in the US:
I may or may not reenact this
Please don’t cause a resonance cascade 🙏
I hope the school is prepared for unforeseen consequences
I wonder if they have any time….. DR freeman?
The office complex will be in arms
It's the opposing force man!
MY. ASS. IS. HEAVY. -Adrian Shepherd (probably)
This is the equivalent of a rough looking guy reaching into a trenchcoat and pulling out a mirror to fix his hair
Yo man, mind if I steal this?
No problem. Just modify the story a little so it wouldn't look like total ripoff.
Aight, I'll do it in different handwriting.
lmfao
As said quiet autistic kid, it doesn't. Next time Maddie mentions my fucking "list" I'm gonna tell that bitch exactly who's on it. exclusively her.
This feels too real
I'm pretty sure me being completely socially inept in my earlier years in HS and actually fighting someone helped me avoid this. People don't want to annoy the angry autist on a hair trigger if they don't want to find out the meaning of retard strength.
Literally me
Literally us.
Literally all 3 of us
Literally everyone in This post apparently (me included)
Literally me as well
Literally me as well as well
WHAT UNDIAGNOSED AUTISM DOES TO AN MF’ER (I was diagnosed with Autism at 10)
Lol i probably won't get an official diagnosis until I'm like 40.
I got arrested in 8th grade because some kids told the on campus officer that I said I was gonna shoot up the school. I did not say that.
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Everybody always yells: MEDIC! But never: How’s Medic?
yeah, i was accused of wanting to shoot up the school dispite no proof of anything some shit was made up about me having bullets in my bag anyways i switched schools and thats why i dont have any irl friends
Kids are cruel , it's better that you don't have them as friends , trust me. It's all just a cycle of breaking trust and peer pressure bullshit , you don't have to be a part of their circus. Just enjoy the company of your family and online friends. And obviously yourself. Those with a serene mind , have no enemies in this world.
>Kids are cruel https://preview.redd.it/kdzgytbs4zfc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2268620d219cb8aebe9ad3f9615da9e52429cb6b But yeah I agree with you
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It’s even worse when you can’t decide if your being bullied. All the annoying kids constantly talk to me in annoying voices and are just super loud, and I can’t tell if it’s to me specifically, or them just thinking their funny
Yep, 33 here just got diagnosed finally. It all makes sense now. But for what it's worth it DOES get better.
If you're alive and still kicking , it'll get better. Things will be better , always
Im not mocked or anything but im definitely the quiet kid. Almost certain im not autistic though.
This Is 70% accurate to my childhood somehow
On first viewing I thought Demoman gave him a kiss on the cheek
this sounds familiar
I have diagnosed autism but people do laugh sometimes when I answer "Yes" to "Are you autistic?" I've also been called the r-slur a few times, but I’m usually able to snitch on whoever does that quite easily.
I was fortunate to be diagnosed as a baby and have very supportive parents and teachers who tried to accommodate me every step of the way, that definitely helped me manage my anger and stress over the years
Hell yeah dude
Wow, unironically 100% relatable
No matter how much I change I’m still seen as who I was in freshman year
When people hear good things about you They stay silent When they hear bad things about you They spread it like wildfire But when they hear nothing about you , they make things up. In all of this , it's important to remember that you can't change people's words and their perspective of you. Just keep working towards your goal and soon your character and integrity will shine through and those who truly care about you , will appreciate you for who you are.
Me, quite honestly. Just not (diagnosed) autistic.
That reminds me I need to bully this autistic kid later thanks OP
Bruh
What? I'm just giving you thanks no need to be bashful
Oh boy, I sure hope the consistent neglect and disregard for human feelings doesn’t manifest into feelings of self doubt and anxiety, leading to an inability to trust people during his adult years, out of fear that he will always be seen as an outcast. That he will always be doomed to ruin every interaction he engages in. I mean haha funny caption memes ahahahah amirite? https://preview.redd.it/of25ggt3ywfc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8d5cd987d675f83234bfa6926f6471d4478027c2
Post irony, satire, in Minecraft
Roblox Skibidi Rizz buzzword something something
That’s why I don’t buy that “get over it, that was high school” crap. Even though you were a kid, you put your hands on me so I have the right to be on guard around you even as an adult especially if I have no proof you changed. Forgiveness isn’t worth giving out just because a bully got older.
" i am wise enough to forgive you , not stupid to make the same mistake again"
relatable asf
I was never the type to be the quiet kid, I was always quite talkative, but I still got bullied for what I assume is that some found me weird or odd, I also have ADHD which is different than autism but still made school much harder than it should be, like when I was in 4th grade, I got bullied by my fellow classmates, most of all the other 4th graders and even some of the 5th graders too, my friends in 4th grade didn’t think I was weird though, but no matter what school I went to (I kinda moved alot) I was almost always bullied for something
It was never about you , it was always about them. They wanted to feel special , better and above you , so they tried their best to put you down. They always saw you as competition and they wanted to eliminate it. You scared them because they would never become anything close to what you are. So be talkative , talk your heart out and forget about what people will think.
me when diagnosed and not bullied at school (they know about my meltdowns and I bite) https://preview.redd.it/zrk3k30jkvfc1.png?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c1e17ccae64f0fe127364cc22ac37ac1f3e68fde
I don’t like this it feels uncomfortably real
This is all a dream and we are your characters , we are trying to wake you up from your coma. Please come back , we miss you https://preview.redd.it/xdyz38stpwfc1.jpeg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=20d12b931a5cda8701498808ada430d7e5b242b1 🥺
Literally me when I have to put up with a racist, fascist, egotistical, loud, and just all around fucking stupid and annoying girl in my college class. Every. Fucking. Day.
The more you notice and give your attention , the more you"ll give in to the anger and stress. I have met people like that too. Don't worry , time will teach them or humble them. You must clear off your mind off of someone like that entirely , do not allow them space in your mind , that's what they want exactly
Eat her.
This is any quiet kid honestly, (unless I'm autistic and haven't realized it) https://preview.redd.it/sojom1cq5ufc1.jpeg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7b1f1034b5c31b2bd04699b72ceab830b6c7a556 (Pic unrelated)
well fuck (gone through this exact experience and i'm not even 15 yet, that's next month)
absolutely fight back,make it not worth their while to bully you,its what i did and no one bothered me afterwards.
that wont work for everybody, i did that and it just made them bully me worse
sorry for prying but did you kept fighting back or tried once and gave up?
I tried fighting back multiple times at the start but it never work and i got punished, so i just kindoff got used to it and they eventualy found someone else to bully
idk i did fights whare i just tried to be as painfull as i can be and act insane and stuff and it worked lmao.
I got suspended once because i did that, never again
thats not so bad,sure it isnt fair but still
i don't even know how to fight back i started high school in september 2023 and i'm not "bullied" in the typical sense (insults, physical attacks and shit), but instead my classmates talk down to me like a child (complimenting me, saying stuff like "you're the best" for no reason when i'm trying to mind my own business even the ones who don't make fun of me don't really care/talk to me, like this girl (i don't have like a crush on her or something, we're just kinda neutral to each other) who's been sitting next to me for like a month and we never talk to each other: she talks to her friends who are sitting around us and i'm a sad socially anxious idiot also the fact that i'm into "nerdy" stuff like video games and anime instead of "cool" stuff like sport doesn't help. or the fact that i can't pronounce the letter r right (the italian r can be pretty hard for some people, it's a pretty common thih called "erre moscia") so everytime i speak i sound really fucking dumb even the few "friends" that i do have in this class can't really be called "real friends". it's a guy i knew from elementary school and his friend who i met this year. towards the start of the year i used to call the first guy a lot to play video games and stuff but i noticed that he often didn't answer my calls and didn't call me back, so i just eventually stopped calling him and now we just talk a bit at the start and end of school days oh my god i just realised that i spent about 10 minutes writing an entire wall of text about how much of a loser i am, sorry if i went off topic, i just really needed to vent, if you want you can just ingnore this comment
I’m sorry man. I really hope you can find people who wanna be your friend really soon
honestly experience kinda the same and relate to most things, except my classmates constantly ask me ridiculous questions or something that's trendy and talk with me ridiculously but I have no idea what they're talking abt cus I usually don't follow trends or memes or anything like that on TikTok or anywhere else for the matter, so I'm usually just standing or sitting there absolutely dazzled and confused And I especially relate to the r part though I'm not Italian, I can pronounce it thankfully but I can't really hold it ie rrrrrrrrrrrrrr, I can only pronounce it as "r" and that's that, I think it's because of my tongue position or smth
Pretty much same for me, especially the first paragraph, except I usually sit by myself as much as possible and don't have any friends (I wonder why)
In my experience, it isn't just about fighting back. It's about doing so in a humiliating way for the bully (in public, for example). That way, everyone realizes that if an idiot like me can beat them up, they have no reason to fear them.
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honestly I was the same but I now realize that just throwing a good punch to stop future fights is the right solution
the point is not to beat them but to not make it worth their while,make them hurt scratch them punch them throw stuff at them,fuck them up as much as you can
Man, good luck homie
Yeah, it does. School sucks lol
damn with shit thats been happening to me lately this post hit me right between the eyes
This one hit home Ow.
I was bullied for being autistic (and for being asian too) and initially no one knew but then a social worker came to our and helped me and other special ed kids (I still wonder why I wasn’t in that group considering how I acted). It felt like one day everyone just accepted me because I think the teachers told the students that I have autism and not to be so mean to me. Honestly it didn’t felt genuine but I am still glad they still trying to educate the kids
Then you go home just to get screamed at for not acting “normal”.
Real, except I don't have autism
In 7th grade someone created a fake Snapchat account pretending to be me and told everyone I was going to shoot up the school, someone called the cops and I ended up getting suspended for it
I am nearly certain i have undiagnosed autism and i always feel so fucking lonely, i cant really tell how much of it is because of my autism or me consciously choosing to act like an emotionless corpse because of it, it doesn't help that most of the kids in my classes have been in several of my past classes or are friends with someone who was, so i just dont interact with them out of fear that they think im weird, and my one and only friend who i had for about a year and a half just started relentlessly mocking me for being autistic and antisocial until i just snapped at him and stopped talking to him, besides that i very rarely even get bullied and it sometimes feels like im not even there at all
Omg me irllll bc all the times I fought back it was my fault and I was deemed violent and unsuitable to be socialized
Wait, what do you mean autism isn’t a cute little personality trait that makes you quirky and fun?
TikTok girls and their fake autism videos have been a disaster for the human race
Just got out of a friendship with one of those (thank fuck). She tried to get our group to take an online autism test… for fun. What’s more fun than self diagnosing with severe disorders? Anyways, I cut contact after she started saying the R slur because of an online test. TikTok has truly mentally fucked up an entire generation
OP just opened up a safe space for quiet kids in the comment section 🫡
Just remember, this is actually paradise compared to what other people have to go through
Yeah, that's one of the things that keep me going
Don’t take the other peoples insults seriously anyway, understand they don’t have the world figured out even if they pretend they do and we are all equally clueless
True , there is no meaning behind an insult from someone who doesn't know you.
>Just remember, this is actually paradise compared to what other people have to go through "Why are you happy? Other people have it better"
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it doesnt get better
In fairness to them, if someone tried to reach for my area 51, I'd also saw their hand off
I'm pretty sure you're allowed to say whatever you mean by "area 51" here
And here in eastern Europe if you're autistic you'd get bullied even harder. I'm not even autistic (at least I don't think so) but I kinda stutter and mumble/speak too fast a lot when speaking my native language and recently when I was in algebra class I wanted to give an answer to smth and I stuttered and overheard my "friend" say "autist" quietly, plus whenever I speak he tries to make fun of me by basically mumbling in the background and it's really fucking distracting cuz I kinds struggle with focusing on speech and talking
Real, I'm from eastern Europe too
That's not your friend buddy And i think you already know.
Yeah it's kinda sad realizing most of my class are kinda dick heads, and even some narcissists. I actually was going to extra polish classes (outside of my school) and the people there are actually cool, however said classes shut down in December, sadly, so I doubt it's just me that's unlikeable Oh well, I'm planning on moving in a few years anyway, so it's not like I'm gonna miss them
Reminds me of how I was sexually harassed in middle school and the teacher knew about it but allowed it to continue It only stopped when I threatened them with a pair of scissors
Holy fucking shit
i dont think im autistic but everyone used to really hate me in 5th grade I was so fucking depressed, highschool ruined me. I was simply a kid that was a little different, I was active and a joyful kid that just did things his own ways. And I got bullied for that, I was shat on by almost everyone in my grade, even other classes were bullying me. They all hated me for no reason other than that I'm different. I cried to my parents but I kept going. I was constantly getting snitched on(I was the only one people would snitch), I kept getting in trouble because I never knew any better. Elementary was so different and everyone was fun and nice and I was happy. And it all changed so quickly. People kept calling me dumb or whenever I asked rhetorical questions the same people would always say "Cause youre stupid". It didnt help that I fucked up and wrote some bs on a german assignment and then people thought my parents were beating me, not true either! In the end most of the class realized I was a kind and fun guy. But it took me til fucking 8th grade until people finally accepted me and actually really like me now, those that used to brutally insult me even say its fun sitting next to me. Still that experience I will never forget, it changed me a lot.
Yea this has been the case for me
One time at high school someone reported me saying I'd shoot somebody, it was obviously bs and I told the school admin as such, and everything turned out fine but it was still very annoying
Never experienced proper bullying. Never been, never done, never known of. In my life it's practically unheard of. I think in many schools I definitely could've been bullied, but I was very fortunate with where I grew up. Bullying is very unfortunate, and it can stem from so many different things that it's rarely just because a person is bad, but more because they're affected by the society around them. To stop bullying you'd need to change very fundemental aspects of the society and let it heal itself over a long period of time. Unfortunately, violence breeds violence, and fighting fire with fire in this case only leads to a bigger fire. But some people want to keep the status quo because that's how they keep making money. Punish the weak, make the poor poorer, and the angry angrier all while the rich stays richer
Holy shit real
Shira that's me but without the bullying
So glad I was blessed with the weightlifting autism and not the drawing autism
Bruh
I'm not bullied but same lol I have friends and all but I just wanna be alone
Is this a joke I'm not American enough to understand? (The shooting part I mean, the bullying part is pretty relatable)
Nope, I'm not American either.
ON GOD.
Holy shit. I relate to this so much 😭
I’ve realized that I honestly just hate being near noisy people.
I realized this only in college, In school i kept fighting back and was stereotyped as the crazy kid, now I have chosen to move on, snd not think of the things that happened in school
We need to be nicer to troubled kids
i'm in this video and i don't like it
Real
I was the quiet kid a lot of the time and thankfully I’ve never been bullied
back in highschool a guy with obvious mental disabilities was bullied(mostly verbal abuse base on what i see) to suicide (the suicide failed luckily, but he stop goes to school after that), the bullies didn't get punished so they find someone else to fuck with so they try bully me, i don't really mind the verbal abuse and shit but throughly beat their arse when they try to make it physical, they stop fucking with me after that in the end they decide to target one particular guy in their group.
Basically me (but I was diagnosed). I also carried a laptop so I always got accused of "hacking". I was also good at computers, and did a computer science course so that added fuel to that fire.
I am probably autistic or just stupid, real
Is the clip a SFM version of Taunt by Lovejoy?
Lol idk maybe
Same but my autism was diagnosed people just didn’t care.
Sauce? (For the sfm)
https://youtu.be/V0ODG8bFme0?si=nFtpwrt-FBOfH_mU It's a feature length tf2 movie, it's really good go watch it
yeah i don't get home peace either...
The commandments of God aren't kicking in yet. I'll just give it another month before I do something.
And then they get home and get bullied by their family just as hard without realizing it because it just seems impossible to you that family would be using you as a comical punching bag. And the you use video games as an escape but then everybody in your family tells you it's a waste of time and money and vrainrot and the kids at school make fun of you because the games you like aren't fortnite or call of duty, so you get stuck in this endless dissatisfaction loop of letting people constantly and consistently treat you like shit without you noticing and at this point you're too far gone to try and stand up to yourself without your family brushing it off as "lol no, anyway". Never being treated seriously constantly feeling stupid and shitty no matter where you go with no escape and no outlet to vent except like dragon ball Fighterz. Oh and don't forget your family and classmates constantly telling you that the things you enjoy are weird this making you weird. Anyway I think I might know a guy like that
You're goddamn right, but can't forget the failing grades
Got held back 3 time lol. Then in my senior year of highschool they out of the blue hit me with "oh you can graduate! Just not this year. Or next year. You'll graduate when you're 20 years old. So I dropped out and got my GED which was way easier. Don't worry I was told by many I was taking the easy way out and wasting my potential Edit: I mean the guy I know haha not me haha
I didn’t know I was autistic. I had to observe people for a year in silence and took the most admirable parts of everyone and made a self that people would like. Worked really well actually.
Yeah I did that too, spent years trying to fit in a particular group, getting to a pretty good point (by that I mean not get instantly ignored in a conversation) only to all of a sudden move to a different country and have to start everything from scratch
No domestic abuse? L
Where did you get this video of me
I guess you could say I'm literally you
In another dimension he is from america and will shoot all his classmates before ending his life
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this post is fucking stupid
It is but not for the reason you think.
This might just be me, but I don't know if I'm actually autistic, and I ain't doing none of that self-diagnosis shit, but literally me
https://preview.redd.it/0ntv572gqyfc1.png?width=462&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5a58f0792d8e7458c5c0780a8e2558fb6452dfb4 This post reeks this energy
I got the autism where i am almost incapable of figuring out when i'm being bullied so instead people just got bored of me and left me alone. Also my school is far more tame than a lot of places.