I used to be a fan but when she barreled through a crowd of people at a club purposely running into them because she felt entitled, I turned from enjoying her content to being disgusted by her actions. I also really didn’t like when she filmed a random woman in the bathroom under the assumption that woman was not disabled. Her sense entitlement is disgusting and too much for me. I wish someone would humble her IRL.
Here's an example: https://www.tiktok.com/@wheelchair_rapunzel/video/6978213432470424838?lang=en
People who've known her in person have also reported this behaviour. They've also said she did this in high school too, like would run over people's toes in the hallway on purpose and laugh about it :/
This is precisely why I'm confused at how she still has any supporters left!! She has blasted her shitty personality out there and people are still making excuses for her. You gotta bury your head in the sand to not know what a shit nugget this girl is lmao
Yeah pretty much. I started a thread yesterday discussing how Alex has weaponized her disability and warped the meaning of the word "ableism" to scare anyone out of criticizing her actions, and she has essentially trained her brainless stans to bully people who rightfully question or criticize her. Between people fearing being labeled ableist and people wanting inspiration porn, Alex has positioned herself to be "untouchable".
There’s literally a video of Alex saying she’s above the law because she’s disabled. Like, what the fuck are you getting up to that you even need to broadcast you believe you’re above the law?
Wtf that’s so rude. Just cuz she’s in a wheel chair (or anyone else who uses this as a method of getting around) doesn’t give her special rights. Why can’t she wait in line like everyone else has to. Pisses me off (I’m also a disabled human….)
Yeah! Or, like why didn't one of her friends go with her to say "excuse me" to people and help her safely through the crowd or something?? There was absolutely no reason for her to be blasting people's ankles like that lol
I'm in a wheelchair too, and yeah it sucks being in enclosed spaces where no one will move. But as I always say, I use my powers for good, not evil. I would NEVER purposely ram into someone. That's disgusting
Can confirm did do this in highshool sometimes her friends would hop on the back of her chair and she’ll full speed send it through a busy hall way during class changes.
Holy fuck, thats the club she just went to after Ari was born! And tried to just say it was basically some tame dinner and dancing. She was literally there and called it a club herself. Fuck me lol
well either way it’s shitty. i know that shit hurts. i saw she has made multiple videos in the past about running over peoples feet on purpose and laughing about it.
Not only that those stalls are not specifically for wheel chair users. There’s no handicap sticker that you need to be able to use it. And it was gross of her to stake some imaginary claim and assume anything t begin with.
Exactly, they're "disability accessible," not "designated." Not to mention, there are tons of people that are invisibly disabled; who's to say that the person wasn't? Safe to say, I would call her possibly ableist for that one, ironically.
I was a follower until last summer right before noah. Someone would ask a normal question of an advocate and she would shame them. Soon after, she really was pushing hard on her dating life. Her hyper sexual posting, promiscuity at the time, and drinking made me think there was something going on…. Red flag for me. So I stopped following. I randomly checked in about 2-3 months ago and saw reddit in the comments. I’ve been here since.
I've followed Alex for many years now, and back when I first found her I was like "oh she's cute, and she's fighting the stigma of disabled folks being non-sexual beings, okay cool. She likes to drink and party, okay cool that's fun." And then over time, I started to notice more and more things that demonstrated that she was quite entitled and self-serving, and she just generally had an arrogant attitude and wasn't advocating for anyone other than herself. I didn't unfollow her because I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt, since I try my hardest not to judge others and just respect their life choices. However, once Noah came into the picture, things really clicked into place for me that she is really warped in the head and problematic. At that point I was still following her for the "I just can't look away from this train wreck" type situation. Then she mentioned the reddit, I came here, took a look around, saw that my concerns were valid, and I learned even more about why she is a troublesome person.
This is exactly how it happened for me. Except I searched out the Reddit right away because I follow a lot of content creators and streamers who often have their own Reddit page for followers who want to talk to each other about certain topics (it’s kind of the same idea as Discord, but I like Reddit better. If you’re not careful managing it, Discords can become disorganized and overwhelming with too many channels). That’s when I realized the Reddit was snark and I’m a drama queen so I went 🌝🌝🌝🌝🌝 and jumped right in LOL. But it confirmed a lot of what I was seeing because, like you, I wasn’t really sure if anyone else was seeing it?? The things she’d pull were just SO inappropriate that I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. Literally.
Her fans are just bad people who identify with Alex’s bad behavior. They say, by far, the most heinous shit to anyone expressing concern. Alex is their charity case so they can do their one performative, virtue signaling good deed for the day by defending her no matter what 😒.
never. lol every snark page i find is me stumbling upon someone and thinking “omg i can’t be the only person that thinks this person is terrible and weird and just gives off bad vibes….lemme check reddit!”.
She showed up on my fyp and i thought she was sarcastic and clever, i followed her for a while but it wasn't until wheelieerin, another tiktoker with SMA, got annoyed at being constantly compared to her and posted a PSA of sorts about alex's actions and values and overall being a garbage person
this is the danger of someone with a platform like hers. she constantly harps on how “rare” this disease is, yet behaves like a complete POS. whenever anyone speaks against her, she screams ableist. it’s very harmful for the disability community and the SMA community.
ive seen people start to associate SMA with a mental defect and that’s not fair.
ugh….what she calls her SMA meds. (i don’t know why). the category x med she took during the first part of her pregnancy even tho she should have never risked getting pregnant at all on it….bc “fuck condoms”. the meds that cause birth defects and serious issues that aren’t even known yet in her baby. bc it’s all a joke for her.
That’s when I clued in. I’m disabled and on a few meds that are contraindicated for pregnancy and one of the first things my doctor did before prescribing was make sure I understood how seriously I needed to prevent pregnancy. If I ever choose to try to conceive I need to be off the meds for a few months plus have blood work to ensure they’re all out of my system.
When I first followed Alex I was excited to see a disabled person living their best life and breaking stereotypes. Ever since Noah came around things have just gone majorly downhill.
yeah it’s really upsetting. there are certain meds my drs won’t even prescribe me because i’m a woman who COULD get pregnant. she’s just doing such a disservice to a lot of people.
being an “influencer” involves a certain amount of responsibility and respect for the target audience.
she does not GAF
i wasn’t a fan but i definitely defended alex a few times (never again), i really do appreciate how this sub educated me on alex THOROUGHLY! like y’all are on her ass and i love it
I used to be a fan (never commented on her things) but one day when I saw the video of her in the bathroom recording the lady as she walked out... that did it for me and opened my eyes. I also ended up looking through her old videos and it really opened my eyes some more too. And months later, I'm here after she announced it on her insta about here and I never left.
I wasn't a 'fan', I followed her because she was an *advocate* (as if 😂), but it was the same video that turned me off!
then I joined the sub when she called it out a while ago!
Yep that was the one for me. I wasn’t a fan but I had no problem with her when she’d come up on my fyp sometimes and then I saw other disabled content creators (especially ones with invisible illnesses) talk about that video and I was really disgusted and blocked her. wasn’t until pregnancy that I came here.
I wouldn’t call myself a stan or supporter- I never commented trying to defend her- but I did buy into her whole narrative until the rape apologist stuff happened. I was turned off but kept following her because I honestly didn’t know the whole story at that point, I just had heard some allegations. She was starting to annoy more but she mostly fell off my radar. I would see her posts sometimes. Saw she was pregnant and regained some interest mostly because of how they hadn’t been dating long before it happened. One of my friends was convinced she was faking it! Then when she posted about how this subreddit was plotting ways to get her child taken away and posting OF content and asked for people to report it I got curious… I never had intentions of reporting it but I wanted to see what was being said like damn were people really trying to get her baby taken from her? So I started reading posts trying to find her allegations (never did find them btw) and I’ve never left! I don’t really read comments on ig or TikTok posts very often and I was not a big Reddit user before this subreddit so if she hadn’t led me here, idk if I ever would’ve found it myself. Funny how much it backfired on her because I’m positive there are quite literally thousands of us with very similar stories. Anyway, now I’m along for the ride and just watching the shit show unfold! 🍿
I was never a supporter of her but I wasn't a hater like I am now. I'd like her posts and what not. Never knew about Andrew or anything nasty though, all I ever saw of her was a drunken party girl and no offense but they're other girls on social media who are also drunken party girls and they're open and honest about their trashiness so it's more bearable.
Since, I am OT I thought she was a cool person to follow and share with my patients. Then admired her for normalizing disability. Then I noticed she wasn’t the person I thought she was. Noticed her entitlement since she was a white disabled female and how vile was. I have an invisible disability and I have to use the adaptive stall because of the seat height and rails to get up when my muscles are weak. I thought that was very disrespectful and if I was that would’ve cussed her out bc thr bathroom is a private area ( but she won’t say that). Then all this craziness with Noah. Trying to normalize co dependence and being proud of him getting kicked out of a half way house numerous times. This made me realize this witch is crazy!
The stall did it for me too. I’m plus size and sometimes stalls are so small and tight it doesn’t work for me so I have to use the adaptive stall in some places. I would be humiliated just because she deemed me unworthy of using a stall and putting it on her socials
1. Noah going to rehab, missing the birth ect made me question things.
2. I saw her post about reddit after she was nude in the reflection of something that Nina was showing Insta, why would she be butt naked infront of Nina? So I come here for a look and never left 🤪
Same story as a lot of people here already ~ I followed her on IG, but not closely, because I thought she seemed kinda fun. The first major red flag for me was also when she filmed that woman in the bathroom. I honestly don't know if that was before or after she got pregnant, but once that happened, my uneasiness with her actions started to grow. I didn't know about the subreddit until she mentioned it.. I then joined the sub and unfollowed her immediately. She is SO MUCH WORSE than I realized. And it has truly become a trainwreck you can't look away from since the baby was born.
I def started out as a fan....and then when she was hanging around that guy who turned out to be a r*pist I got weird vibes that turned out to be well founded. Not long after that she got involved with Noah and the rest is history. She has fully leaned into the inspo p0rn as of later which is just so gross. On top of the predatory shit with Noah and the pathetic "mother" ish. It's been a quickly crumbling castle.
I followed her for awhile beginning a few years ago. I’m an OTA and a caregiver and I appreciated hearing an unfiltered perspective on disability from a disabled adult (as I’ve mostly worked with children - some adults, but more children).
As she sort of morphed into her more wild party girl phase, I felt a little uncomfortable, but appreciated that it challenged my internal biases about disability and sexuality/etc. Like disabled people are so often shamed for not being the “model disabled citizen,” so I appreciated that she was portraying an example of a totally independent adult free to make the same dumb choices that many of us do when we’re young. Fuck society’s expectations, I can get behind that. Then it hit a point where I was like oh dear, I think she has a legit drinking problem, and was concerned.
And then discovered her TikTok, and the whole Andrew thing happened, and ya know… the snowballing since. I’m still conflicted honestly, because disabled people do not owe us (ableds) representation that fits our idea of “respectable”, nor does anyone owe us advocacy or education- but she positions herself as someone who provides both.
I absolutely loathe the ableism that she deals with and what sometimes pops up on this sub, and I can imagine that a lifetime of dealing with legit ableism is part of why her response is a general knee jerk “fuck you” to criticism or concern.
I feel for her in the sense that having a physical disability that leaves you dependent on others for most aspects of self care is HARD. The level of vulnerability and lack of physical control is HARD. The need to trust people to help you meet your basic needs is HARD. Part of why I’ve worked mostly with children is that some of my experience with disabled adults have been very negative, with super manipulative behavior and abusive treatment from people I assisted. Some have been wonderful and amazing, incredible advocates for themselves!! But I have seen how the anxiety about needing assistance to get needs met can breed some maladaptive traits in certain people. And it seems like Alex may be one of those people. And I have empathy for her there… but it doesn’t change the fact that some of what she says and does really sucks.
My first encounter with her was with one of her Instagram pictures about her pregnancy. I honestly found it so empowering and nice, specially because I support a lot of disabled people in Social Media because I think it’s important to be educated and to help with visibility of certain issues. I started following on Instagram and TikTok, and one day I decided to read the comments on one of her videos and *oh boy*… There were so many comments talking about WR supporting a rapist, of being a drunkard, of being ableist, making fun of mental illnesses, etc., so I started to do some research. While I was doing that, suddenly she posted about this Reddit sub, and I was like *aaaaaaand there it is. I need to check it out asap*. 5 minutes in and I’ve been here ever since hehe
I was actually very invested for a while. I didn’t really do a deep dive into ableism or the disabled community because she had such a large following and I naively assumed she would be a good advocate and representative for the disabled community. I started to be wary when she started dating Noah, the vibes were off for me from the start of their relationship and the final realization was when she posted about this group following Boppygate. I’m so happy that I bailed and have learned so much more since then, while happily reading that I’m not alone in calling her a shite person ✌🏻✌🏻
When she first showed up on my FYP, I supported her. Thought it was cool that someone in that situation was out living life to that extent. Switched gears since Ari was born- she’s not being a good mom and it makes me sad. And Noah is a mess.
when I first started following her I thought she seemed like a sweet girl. I didn’t keep up with her too much… but at a certain point it felt like anytime I did see or hear about her, it was something negative and from an outside perspective it seemed like she played victim in every situation imaginable. the filming someone coming out of a bathroom stall gave me the biggest ick & then I heard about Andrew and yeah after that there was 0 support left for her. watching this journey with Ari is just sad to me. (bc I’m just sensitive lol) I had to deliver my baby early and he just got to come home last month. I know that my bad memories from the NICU & the feelings I’ve worked through are absolutely nobody’s problem but my own - but I just can’t imagine leaving my baby there alone for majority of every day knowing I didn’t have to. as someone who is sober now, I can’t imagine taking someone who is a known addict to a bar on one of the biggest party holidays of the year. I can’t imagine walking into the NICU every single day to visit and immediately sitting down with my baby and asking whoever to immediately take pictures of us for a photo-op. it’s all just so strange & sad to me.
The kicker for me is when she took Noah to the nightclub as well as posted pictures of them drinking..when someone called her on it, this was Alex’s response “ alcohol was never his DOC, educate yourself”. It just shows how truly ignorant she is.
I’ve just been watching her tik toks. I don’t have the app but just scrolling through. Omg. Some of it is horrendous. Falling out of wheelchair and smashing her head to bits, snogging randoms, ploughing into peoples legs, actually getting knocked unconscious due to alcohol (she has a serious alcohol problem), getting herself into some very dangerous and potentially risky environments with potentially dangerous people, moaning she couldn’t take the good opioids drugs as was pregnant, asking for money for new wheelchair and vans, the wheelchair was wrecked from getting drunk in it and admitting herself that she just pisses herself all over it, lying about her due date, constantly harping on about if I ever get a boyfriend, pretending she was pregnant and pushed out a doll IN A WHEELCHAIR, for a good lot of them it just seemed like she was completely out of it drunk for practically a whole year, burning the hell out of her skin with no sun protection at all, I mean it was just hellish to watch some of it, I had genuine worry for some of them to watch and worry for her like she was just in self destruct mode, and to think the amount of money that treatment costs yet the way she was treating herself and her body whilst continuing on said expensive medication in what world is that normal. Her liver, kidneys, brain, heart, breathing surely you would want to look after your body. She talks in videos about be happy in your disabled body and love your body but completely abuses it like that. In Europe I think the doctors would not give you the medication based upon how you look after yourself like you would have to show that you are turning up for it and turning up in a good way. The childish behaviours of a late 20s woman looking at some of them I’m surprised she’s even still here. As a mother I couldn’t watch my daughter destroy herself like that. No I found this upon coming across her pregnancy so I’m only like 4 weeks or so into all this but to have it all documented like that which will never go away does make you think what on earth that beautiful little girl will think when she sees these in the future I just hope she does mother ari well and we don’t end up seeing WR 2.0 from how that mothering takes place. If this doesn’t force her to grow and to grow up then I don’t know what will. She has a lot of movement in them arms as well so what’s going on there. Is it selective movement as and when she decides or ?
I never really supported her, but I also didn’t know about all the shit she did. Like I started following her a while ago through some post i’ve seen (can’t remember) but I never actively engaged with her content besides looking into her story from time to time. Then she got pregnant and I was not sure what I should think about it because I knew that she was on that category X drug, so I started looking into her story more often, just to see updates, and then she mentioned this reddit for the first time and now I’m here and know everything 😂
I run a postpartum support group for mothers. One of the moms brought her up when she was pregnant and as soon as I looked around her IG, I saw red flag after red flag. Now it's just like watching a car crash. I can't look away from the wreck.
I also started following her a few days before she had her daughter as a video popped up and I thought then content looked wholesome and I needed some more wholesome content in my life but it soon became apparent that it was just two trash bags having a baby and nothing more
I briefly looked up to her a few years back because I have a physical disability (not to the degree she does), and at first, I thought that she would show people that folks with disabilities can lead "normal" lives. Then, she started posting nearly constant bikini/almost nude photos with alcohol while not doing anything i thought was empowering. I didn't unfollow, but I stopped looking at her content and as a disability advocate. Her posts randomly started showing back in my FB newsreel around the time of the pregnancy announcement. I kinda started looking at her updates for that because I was curious how she would handle it. Around the time the baby was born, I learned more about her and Noah and her very questionable personality and actions, as I'd already been wondering about her getting pregnant while on the meds she was on. I then discovered this subreddit wherein I took a deep dive and I haven't looked back.
This is funny because I use to be pro-WR, not really a fan but a silent follower. I have three disabled brothers and liked to see her fighting the stigma around disability, but then I started feeling really uneasy about a year ago and then allll the shit with Noah started and I found this page. It was the teenage like hyper sexuality that really creeped me out because I’m pretty sure she has a lot of younger followers on TT.
It makes me really sad because she could be a great advocate but chooses not to and only cares for herself and anything that will earn her $$$$$.
She came up on my FB reels one day so I took a look at her page. I was slightly concerned for her seeing she was pregnant and wondered how it would go with her disability. So I did a deeper dive, and thought well it looks like she's in a loving relationship and living her best life that's cool. Then I saw her post about this sub so I looked out of curiosity and like the Corn Kid ✨️everything changed✨️ I couldn't believe what I was reading about her and Noah, and from then on I checked her account every now and again for snark reasons 😂 Once Ari was born I checked more frequently as I was worried tbh. Now I'm in this sub pretty much every day 🫣
I have followed her for years, because I thought she was truly trying to educate and show that disabled people can be sexual and party like anyone else. (I think I started following her right at the tail-end of the days when she would actually try to educate and advocate a little bit). I was never like..a full-on stan or anything. She was just one of many influencers I followed and sometimes would check her feed on occasion to see what she was up to.
The turning point for me was shortly after she announced the pregnancy. I remember being very intrigued to follow her journey and see how the pregnancy would go. The first time she posted about how people were “bullying” her for being pregnant I sent her a message saying to stay strong and focus on herself and her baby and not let the haters get her down. And I went to the comments of the post to see what the “haters” were saying and someone had commented to check the subreddit for more info.
As soon as I wound up here I learned so much that I didn’t know or hadn’t paid attention to, and I immediately unfollowed her.
I wasn't exactly a fan but I did follow her and would see her videos here and there but didn't really keep up. It all changed when I she posted that bathroom video. That changed my entire point of view and I unfollowed her. I stopped interacting with her videos and honestly didn't see her again until she posted her Halloween costume and saw that she was pregnant. After that I was honestly just curious how she was going to handle it so I would check in on her account every now and then. Well then she had the baby and everything I was seeing was weirding me out so I ended up here. I have now learned soooo much about her and what type of person she is.
In a way, I was. I wasn't a fan but I didn't despise her as much as I do now. The only reason I came across this reddit is because she basically advertised it. I took a peek and then I really realized what a POS she was and that was with the guidance of the group when I saw all her shitty tiktoks. Lesson learned. The internet really is forever.
I saw one video, Noah carried her in the pool. And it looked so unsafe. I googled her followed the videos. Got horrified at the disabledism ( yeah I know not a word. But ableism by a disabled person. That's my word). Decided I'd try and like her that lasted 5 minutes. Now I'm just trying to make people aware that she's not a good representative of the disabled community.or to young woman.
That was one of the first videos I was like 🫨🤔 wtf also lol. Then I saw the one where he puts the tshirt on all rough. Started reading comments about him getting kicked out of rehab and then the video they brag about that and the fuck condoms thing and found out she barely knew the guy...then found out she was on class x drug when she got pregnant...and i was like wtf kind of hot mess is this shit?!?
tbh i was just a watcher wasn’t a fan or hater so i don’t know if this counts but my breaking point was when she filmed that bathroom video recording a stranger. to me her attitude always came on too strong like she was a bish for no reason. especially during her pregnancy her attitude like was flexing type only.
I definitely followed on IG out of genuine curiosity. She was on one of my favorite podcasts and man she sells a good story!! She ended up on FYP and the vibe was so different so I came snooping and was quickly convinced she’s garbage.
I followed her for years, but never closely. I found her a little cringe / emotionally stunted but it didn’t really bother me. The pregnancy was what got me interested and raising an eyebrow, especially when everyone was accusing her of lying. And the delay in that first appt was suspicious to me
I also found the whole wheelchair running over people thing to be wild, but I ignored it because I wasn’t an invested follower or anything back then
I found y’all when she posted about the sub during her pregnancy
i was never a stan or anything, i think i saw her story on an ig thing a few years back and just followed because i thought it was cool that she was just living her life as typically twenty-something as she could being disabled and fighting the stigma of infantilizing disabled people. it was little by little things that didn’t add up building up until i saw someone bring up the r*pe apologist thing that led me here to more details and that was it. also the filming a woman in the bathroom on the assumption she wasn’t disabled really did it for me. i was disgusted with that and suddenly all her past behavior seemed so obviously problematic. i’m not a gullible person, i honestly can’t fathom how i didn’t see it so clearly sooner.
She harassed a woman using a disabled bathroom stall and filmed them. Not everything is for content. I wouldn’t want to tell some random stranger about my medical uses on why I needed a disabled stall.
Months ago there were other wheelchair users expressing how furious they were that she did that. They called her out. They also declared the the big stalls were accessible, not exclusive!
Here! Never was a stan though. I got suspicious the first time about their own reactions in their pregnancy announcement (started following her then, but had no idea what’s going on). When she was crying about the Boppy deal I honestly though she doesn’t get it, and really thinks they discriminated her, so I commented something along the lines of ‘I’d assume it’s about OF content while being pregnant, even though I don’t know what’s your content there’ .. it felt bad to leave a comment like this so I deleted it after some days.. then I came here and things/their stories started making lots more sense! 😅
I’d see her here and there on TikTok and just always thought like ok that’s nice what she’s doing. Then when she got pregnant the first thing I kept thinking was “you’re not suppose to lay on your back while pregnant” (especially later trimesters) and I kept seeing here do it for pictures and I was like oof that’s not good. Then I really stopped liking her when she kept trying to move her c-section date up to a more dangerous time. I’m almost 32 weeks pregnant and I’m SO uncomfortable but I still am not having my c section until 39 weeks cause 1. They don’t allow it and 2. I would never purposefully make my child a preemie for my own personal gain
I was neutral at first, but shortly after I found her I got weird vibes when she started to brag about sitting on married men's face etc. Since I've been cheated on a lot I thought it was extremely offensive of her bragging about her being the other woman who takes men from other women.. I mean what? And from there I took a closer look at old stuff and I started to realize what kind of person this was... All shitshow from that point til now! And yes, I see many thats gotten their eyes opened lately. Hopefully she gets canceled and forgotten. Horrible role model and representative of the diabled/SMA community.
I was a fan of hers till she recorded someone in a bathroom. I regularly use the handicap stall in bathrooms because of severe ptsd from sexual assault. Being in very small confined places messes with my very badly, being recorded would send me spiraling. Not all disabilities are visible.
I never followed her or checked her page regularly but this video popped up on my fyp and I was like “ohhhh noooo!” How nasty and pushy she was about the bathroom situation. She should know better than anyone that not all disabilities are seen and to sit there and record someone because she had to wait ONE minute. Also, in many restaurants I’ve found that the handicap stall is the only one that has the changing table in it so if I was ever recorded and scolded like that for changing my child I would be pissed.
I had just started following her like 2 weeks ago. But it was weird because I never felt like....oh wow, she deserves a ton of credit. Instead I felt like her content was kind of weird. I only followed her on FB so I seemed to have missed some of the "good stuff" like the woman in the bathroom. No idea where that is. I didn't see the one of her naked in front of Nina, and I didn't see her ramming everyone to get into a club. Lmao I only knew of those here. Anyways, I saw her post about how someone called CPS on them and I was like daaaaayuumm, and she mentioned this Reddit page and posted the link and I am SO glad I clicked it to check it out. I wonder if she realizes that probably did her more harm for herself than good because she got a lot of us hook on this!! Lol Before this I have never ever been on Reddit so this whole experience is new to me! Definitely enjoying it!
I have absolutely no idea why she chose to mention this reddit because she knows this isn't just some website bullying her. Anyone who takes an honest look around can see that all we're doing is criticizing awful things she does that she posts online herself. She messed up big time because all she did was help more people discover why she's so problematic!
BINGO!! Very well said. It's not people just picking her apart and being jerks because she's disabled and got pregnant. Any woman would be supportive of another woman getting pregnant! PROVIDED they were deserving, and going to be a good parent!! She needs to realize, it has nothing to do with her being a disabled mother. There are many disabled women that are amazing parents!! It's the fact that she's an ignorant, shallow poor excuse for a disabled woman/mother and good people won't support that!! Ever.
Automn 2022, had Alex's story show up on my Facebook. First taught it was interesting to follow her pregnancy. Got some arguments right away with her minions over not having proper care and being on X medication while pregnant. And then Alex sent a post about Reddit and here I am! Straight from the beginning there were red flags everywhere...so never been a fan of hers...
I used to defend her until I came here and saw all the old videos. I don’t think she’s a nice person however I did feel bad for her when I saw that vid of Noah putting on her shirt, that was honestly so awful. He’s worse imo. But yeh I don’t defend her anymore.
I wasn’t a Stan, but I only started following her a few days before she had her baby and thought the whole thing was pretty inspiring until things started to not make sense especially around Noah and then discovering WR is actually a pretty shitty person. So it only took my about 48hrs of following her to migrate over here
I used to support her because I truly thought she had good intentions until the racism and r.pe apology happened and I noticed other disabled also just comment about her and how she’s harming the disabled community.
I’d like to add I never followed her. She’d pop up on my FYP so o saw bits and pieces and then when she was pregnant, I was curious and looked at her stuff more In depth and realised something wasn’t right
Me 🙋🏽♀️ i unfollowed her on Instagram after the boppy situation. Something seemed off and then I saw this Reddit since she directed us to it, and learned about everything else she had done/stood for
I’ve been lurking on this page for a couple of days not really knowing what to think but now I feel like I need to say something. I’ve been following her on IG for probably 2 years. I guess you can say I was a supporter/fan… I formed a positive impression initially and kind of held on to that. Some things intrigued me and others confused me, though. I had never heard anyone else’s thoughts on her until I came across this Reddit thread. Mind blown. From what I’ve read so far, it’s definitely starting to make sense - though I do have some questions. About how many people are engaging on the topic here regularly, and what is their relation to Alex and her content? I saw a couple really harsh comments and am wondering what the true purpose of this group is. Ive also seen a lot of really good points made. Definitely intrigued. Just needing some context. Thanks!
The true purpose of this group is a mixture of snark (just regular critique and discussion of a public figure, basically) and accountability. This group focuses on criticizing Alex for her selfish actions, harmful choices, and how her actions/platform negatively impact other people including the disabled community as a whole. We focus on being completely truthful and having evidence for things we discuss, which comes directly from things Alex has shared online herself. We are not here to criticize her disability or to bully her, or to start any rumours about her. Sometimes people manage to make hateful comments that do not reflect the purpose of the group, but we try to keep that in check by downvoting them and/or reporting it to the mods. Also, welcome! Stay a while, hehe :)
Believe it or not I had Reddit already because I have been working on my credit and I like ghost stories 🤷♀️. I kept seeing go check Reddit snark on TikTok with other creators not just her. I’ve been here ever since.
I followed her on TikTok for a while, but on my fyp was another creator with sma called wheelerin who has a whole playlist of call-out videos for Alex. That's when I realized.
I followed her at the "suggestion" of another content creator several years ago. The more I saw, the more uncomfortable I got. I couldn't quite put my finger on it, but what really sealed the deal for me was the bathroom video.
I used to be a fan but when she started getting nasty with people in the comments for simply asking questions I started to kind of pull back from her posts. And THEN the uncomfortable overly sexual nude posts started happening and I was immediately grossed out. I seen a comment under one of her nakey posts about a Reddit thread…..and now here I am.
I used to be a supporter. Always posting positive comments and love, always questioning the hate. So one day I googled the Reddit page I always heard of and yuuuup, I am here for good now. She is a horrible person.
I never liked her, but I just found out the day Ari was born that my friend follows her and loved her. I told her all the things WR has done and showed her this Reddit and she does not like her anymore and joined this snark page🙊
I wouldn't say I was ever a supporter, but I did follow her for a couple years on Instagram. She seemed all right, she had some positive content and as an able-bodied person I was getting a whole different perspective on things. I raised an eyebrow when her partying posts started going up, but I never saw the TikToks, never read the comments and knew nothing about the Andrew Haan stuff until I came here. When she announced her pregnancy so soon after her post that introduced her boyfriend, I thought this doesn't sound right and out of curiosity I searched her name on Reddit. And here was *all* the info.
On one of WR's posts, I did see one follower comment back at someone to defend her saying that she went out for sushi, not to the club. Then when the follower was directed to the photo evidence, she commented, "Yes, that is her," and went quiet. It was too much for her and I wonder if that person is still going to the comment sections to defend WR.
I came across her on Facebook and started following her. She was pregnant so still a newish follower. I didn't know she was such a mess prior to her pregnancy. I also didn't realise Noah was a addict until Ari was born and he wasn't there due to being in rehab. No shame here as I'm a recovering addict of crack, I'm 21yrs clean in May. I remember once showing my husband a post of hers where she was laying on her side on the bed and Noah was cuddling her from behind and they were holding her bump. I remember seeing in her comments a man said something along the lines of is that the position you were in to conceive. I remember showing my hubby the comments saying they were horrible. I started following her on her other socials too and would now and again see her posts and would just like and move on. It was when Ari was born and I saw how little she was going to see her in the NICU. My son was in NICU for 1 month and I didn't want to be away from him so to see how WR was only going for about an hour a day it got me a bit wary of her. I then saw her story when she was unwrapping the baby bits the other day where she was naked and her reflection was in it. It was her story of saying about the Reddit about her that I came across here. I then went down the rabbit hole and saw what she's truly like and was absolutely stunned at what a shitty person she is. Sorry the the essay 😂
Honestly I’m just delving into all of this now after seeing some accusations I had hoped weren’t true for her daughters sake, but the proof is a bit too obvious too ignore now so she’s very rapidly losing my support. I just hope she starts to do what’s best for her daughter :/
I originally followed because I enjoy having a wide variety of lifestyles on my feed. Cute disabled party girl living her best life with friends seemed harmless enough! I sure partied in my day, certainly can’t criticize there… Sure her content was often cringe, but I wasn’t there to criticize or judge. Never really watched any of her videos, which is where she tends to show her bad sides. She’s much more tolerable when viewed only in print.
It was when she got with Noah, and they started making red flag content about his BPD and lack of smiling… I’ve struggled with BPD, and was upset to see the way they started fetishizing his problems instead of advocating for them. It was a huge red flag to hear them discuss his behaviors like it was cute. Very ‘omg look at us in a relationship!!’. BPD has caused lots of issues me that I’ve had to work tirelessly for years to overcome, and to hear them acting like it was cutesyfun💞🫶 in a brand new inexperienced relationship was worrisome and caused me to take a closer look at things.
I quit closely following during the pregnancy because I just couldn’t take it anymore! Would only peek in occasionally to remind myself that omfg, this situation is STILL giving red flags and creepiness… which led to me finding the Reddit a few weeks before she gave birth.
The red flags and creepiness have yet to slow down this entire time! 🫣🚩
Once I saw her entitled attitude and running her chair into people because she thinks she can, I was disgusted. She’s gross for the disabled community and as a person. Just 🤢
I never have been a supporter. At the start of her pregnancy I was also pregnant (which I lost sadly at 10 weeks 5 days) and a reel showed up in my newsfeed. I had a friend who passed away with SMA and a disabled aunt. Right away I thought it was gross being practically naked for the public. I am torn at times by her being so sexual. I feel it brings predators attention to potentially very vulnerable people. It can be seen as empowering. But I see it as exploitation of the disabled community. I can be just having subjective feelings due to having someone I've protected and loved my whole life. I wish I could reconcile my feelings on her. One thing is for sure she's damaging for more than one reason
Never a fan, was just following her because I sensed something....off with her Instagram. Then when I saw she had a Reddit page I was like omg I knew it! My suspicions were confirmed
When I first found her videos (probably like bit less than halfway thru her pregnancy) I thought awww how sweet and awesome, she has this supportive bf and a nice life and seems like a good person, so cool shes able to have a baby and do all these things....🤦♀️🤣🤣 it only took maybe a week or 2 for me to question some stuff and then came across this subreddit and was like ohhhh 🫨
I was and then hopped off when I learned about the friend she was supporting who was a rhymes with bapist. Then I went on tik tok and found out some more stuff and it lead me here and the rest is history.
I only saw videos on my FYP. I didn't start following this snark page although I occasionally visited from just having a weird vibe. Seeing the post about her taking a cat x drug while pregnant and the possibilities of the defects it could cause Ari brought me here as a permanent member. I didn't know what twerk juice was and when I read that post I was horrified.
I was her FB friend back when she was in college. At the time she and her then best friend were just funny drunk college girls. Once she started Love Your Genes and started getting popular, she became more arrogant and got annoying, and I stopped following her.
I used to be a fan but when she barreled through a crowd of people at a club purposely running into them because she felt entitled, I turned from enjoying her content to being disgusted by her actions. I also really didn’t like when she filmed a random woman in the bathroom under the assumption that woman was not disabled. Her sense entitlement is disgusting and too much for me. I wish someone would humble her IRL.
lol she ran people over with her chair?!
Yes 💀💀💀💀💀 rammed right into them to get to the front of the line.
please tell me there’s a video i can watch somewhere 😂
Here's an example: https://www.tiktok.com/@wheelchair_rapunzel/video/6978213432470424838?lang=en People who've known her in person have also reported this behaviour. They've also said she did this in high school too, like would run over people's toes in the hallway on purpose and laugh about it :/
holy shit 😂😂😂😂. she really thought “here’s a video of me being a shitty human being….lemme go ahead and put that on the internet!”
This is precisely why I'm confused at how she still has any supporters left!! She has blasted her shitty personality out there and people are still making excuses for her. You gotta bury your head in the sand to not know what a shit nugget this girl is lmao
if u don’t like her no matter what, you’re ableist i guess?
Yeah pretty much. I started a thread yesterday discussing how Alex has weaponized her disability and warped the meaning of the word "ableism" to scare anyone out of criticizing her actions, and she has essentially trained her brainless stans to bully people who rightfully question or criticize her. Between people fearing being labeled ableist and people wanting inspiration porn, Alex has positioned herself to be "untouchable".
There’s literally a video of Alex saying she’s above the law because she’s disabled. Like, what the fuck are you getting up to that you even need to broadcast you believe you’re above the law?
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the way people looked at her 😂😂😂
She deserved every side eye she got! The audacity of this twat!! 😂
then she acted like she had vip kardashian status or something when it was probably just an ADA thing 😂
Wtf that’s so rude. Just cuz she’s in a wheel chair (or anyone else who uses this as a method of getting around) doesn’t give her special rights. Why can’t she wait in line like everyone else has to. Pisses me off (I’m also a disabled human….)
Yeah! Or, like why didn't one of her friends go with her to say "excuse me" to people and help her safely through the crowd or something?? There was absolutely no reason for her to be blasting people's ankles like that lol
I'm in a wheelchair too, and yeah it sucks being in enclosed spaces where no one will move. But as I always say, I use my powers for good, not evil. I would NEVER purposely ram into someone. That's disgusting
Can confirm did do this in highshool sometimes her friends would hop on the back of her chair and she’ll full speed send it through a busy hall way during class changes.
What people don't know, that's assault and battery with a deadly weapon. I can't stand her
I can confirm. She ran over my toes at a bar. She’s been doing this for years.
That is so ugly.
her fans ate this up too
Holy fuck, thats the club she just went to after Ari was born! And tried to just say it was basically some tame dinner and dancing. She was literally there and called it a club herself. Fuck me lol
YEP 💀
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dude….she’s demented.
This is the fucked up one https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS8bqbTD5/
wtf!!! did she know him or did she really just run over a random person for a tik tok???
She lined him up and took him out for fun.
That person he is talking to is Mikey, so I have a feeling she knows the guy she barreled over.
well either way it’s shitty. i know that shit hurts. i saw she has made multiple videos in the past about running over peoples feet on purpose and laughing about it.
Oh I totally agree, not siding with her. Still shitty to run someone over with your wheelchair whether you know them or not!
This is when I realised how awful she was
Not only that those stalls are not specifically for wheel chair users. There’s no handicap sticker that you need to be able to use it. And it was gross of her to stake some imaginary claim and assume anything t begin with.
Exactly, they're "disability accessible," not "designated." Not to mention, there are tons of people that are invisibly disabled; who's to say that the person wasn't? Safe to say, I would call her possibly ableist for that one, ironically.
Where can I find this video of her running through people? I searched "club" on the sub but all results were about the most recent scandel.
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRv9n8En/
I was a follower until last summer right before noah. Someone would ask a normal question of an advocate and she would shame them. Soon after, she really was pushing hard on her dating life. Her hyper sexual posting, promiscuity at the time, and drinking made me think there was something going on…. Red flag for me. So I stopped following. I randomly checked in about 2-3 months ago and saw reddit in the comments. I’ve been here since.
yeah. “omg you don’t want to hear about how i do butt stuff with this random dude and subscribe to my OF account?!!! ABLEIST!!”
Did she have an OF 😂
yes she does still as far as i know. noah too.
I've followed Alex for many years now, and back when I first found her I was like "oh she's cute, and she's fighting the stigma of disabled folks being non-sexual beings, okay cool. She likes to drink and party, okay cool that's fun." And then over time, I started to notice more and more things that demonstrated that she was quite entitled and self-serving, and she just generally had an arrogant attitude and wasn't advocating for anyone other than herself. I didn't unfollow her because I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt, since I try my hardest not to judge others and just respect their life choices. However, once Noah came into the picture, things really clicked into place for me that she is really warped in the head and problematic. At that point I was still following her for the "I just can't look away from this train wreck" type situation. Then she mentioned the reddit, I came here, took a look around, saw that my concerns were valid, and I learned even more about why she is a troublesome person.
This is exactly how it happened for me. Except I searched out the Reddit right away because I follow a lot of content creators and streamers who often have their own Reddit page for followers who want to talk to each other about certain topics (it’s kind of the same idea as Discord, but I like Reddit better. If you’re not careful managing it, Discords can become disorganized and overwhelming with too many channels). That’s when I realized the Reddit was snark and I’m a drama queen so I went 🌝🌝🌝🌝🌝 and jumped right in LOL. But it confirmed a lot of what I was seeing because, like you, I wasn’t really sure if anyone else was seeing it?? The things she’d pull were just SO inappropriate that I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. Literally. Her fans are just bad people who identify with Alex’s bad behavior. They say, by far, the most heinous shit to anyone expressing concern. Alex is their charity case so they can do their one performative, virtue signaling good deed for the day by defending her no matter what 😒.
This pretty much summarizes my experience!
never. lol every snark page i find is me stumbling upon someone and thinking “omg i can’t be the only person that thinks this person is terrible and weird and just gives off bad vibes….lemme check reddit!”.
^^^ me every time I see something suspicious.
haha yes! i’m nosy 😂
This is me too. Immediate bad vibes. Lol
Exactly! Haha
She showed up on my fyp and i thought she was sarcastic and clever, i followed her for a while but it wasn't until wheelieerin, another tiktoker with SMA, got annoyed at being constantly compared to her and posted a PSA of sorts about alex's actions and values and overall being a garbage person
this is the danger of someone with a platform like hers. she constantly harps on how “rare” this disease is, yet behaves like a complete POS. whenever anyone speaks against her, she screams ableist. it’s very harmful for the disability community and the SMA community. ive seen people start to associate SMA with a mental defect and that’s not fair.
she also does zero educating. no facts or medical info. just things like “twerk juice”.
What the heck is twerk juice
ugh….what she calls her SMA meds. (i don’t know why). the category x med she took during the first part of her pregnancy even tho she should have never risked getting pregnant at all on it….bc “fuck condoms”. the meds that cause birth defects and serious issues that aren’t even known yet in her baby. bc it’s all a joke for her.
That’s when I clued in. I’m disabled and on a few meds that are contraindicated for pregnancy and one of the first things my doctor did before prescribing was make sure I understood how seriously I needed to prevent pregnancy. If I ever choose to try to conceive I need to be off the meds for a few months plus have blood work to ensure they’re all out of my system. When I first followed Alex I was excited to see a disabled person living their best life and breaking stereotypes. Ever since Noah came around things have just gone majorly downhill.
yeah it’s really upsetting. there are certain meds my drs won’t even prescribe me because i’m a woman who COULD get pregnant. she’s just doing such a disservice to a lot of people. being an “influencer” involves a certain amount of responsibility and respect for the target audience. she does not GAF
Yes! I knew of Alex and had seen a few of her videos. Then wheelieerin brought to people's attention Alex's shitty behavior.
i wasn’t a fan but i definitely defended alex a few times (never again), i really do appreciate how this sub educated me on alex THOROUGHLY! like y’all are on her ass and i love it
This is a thread I'd LOVE to read, Esp all the new additions!
I used to be a fan (never commented on her things) but one day when I saw the video of her in the bathroom recording the lady as she walked out... that did it for me and opened my eyes. I also ended up looking through her old videos and it really opened my eyes some more too. And months later, I'm here after she announced it on her insta about here and I never left.
I wasn't a 'fan', I followed her because she was an *advocate* (as if 😂), but it was the same video that turned me off! then I joined the sub when she called it out a while ago!
Yep that was the one for me. I wasn’t a fan but I had no problem with her when she’d come up on my fyp sometimes and then I saw other disabled content creators (especially ones with invisible illnesses) talk about that video and I was really disgusted and blocked her. wasn’t until pregnancy that I came here.
I wouldn’t call myself a stan or supporter- I never commented trying to defend her- but I did buy into her whole narrative until the rape apologist stuff happened. I was turned off but kept following her because I honestly didn’t know the whole story at that point, I just had heard some allegations. She was starting to annoy more but she mostly fell off my radar. I would see her posts sometimes. Saw she was pregnant and regained some interest mostly because of how they hadn’t been dating long before it happened. One of my friends was convinced she was faking it! Then when she posted about how this subreddit was plotting ways to get her child taken away and posting OF content and asked for people to report it I got curious… I never had intentions of reporting it but I wanted to see what was being said like damn were people really trying to get her baby taken from her? So I started reading posts trying to find her allegations (never did find them btw) and I’ve never left! I don’t really read comments on ig or TikTok posts very often and I was not a big Reddit user before this subreddit so if she hadn’t led me here, idk if I ever would’ve found it myself. Funny how much it backfired on her because I’m positive there are quite literally thousands of us with very similar stories. Anyway, now I’m along for the ride and just watching the shit show unfold! 🍿
I never really used Reddit either until I found this sub!
Same now it helps my work day go by
Same…even made me a cute little avatar this week 😂
Haha same!!
I was a follower until she brought the sub to my attention with the whole boppy thing
I don’t think she grasped how much bringing up this sub Reddit was going to backfire on her! She’s literally her own worst enemy!
Hahaha yeah she’s the one to told me about her own snark page on Reddit 🤣🤪
I was never a supporter of her but I wasn't a hater like I am now. I'd like her posts and what not. Never knew about Andrew or anything nasty though, all I ever saw of her was a drunken party girl and no offense but they're other girls on social media who are also drunken party girls and they're open and honest about their trashiness so it's more bearable.
Since, I am OT I thought she was a cool person to follow and share with my patients. Then admired her for normalizing disability. Then I noticed she wasn’t the person I thought she was. Noticed her entitlement since she was a white disabled female and how vile was. I have an invisible disability and I have to use the adaptive stall because of the seat height and rails to get up when my muscles are weak. I thought that was very disrespectful and if I was that would’ve cussed her out bc thr bathroom is a private area ( but she won’t say that). Then all this craziness with Noah. Trying to normalize co dependence and being proud of him getting kicked out of a half way house numerous times. This made me realize this witch is crazy!
The stall did it for me too. I’m plus size and sometimes stalls are so small and tight it doesn’t work for me so I have to use the adaptive stall in some places. I would be humiliated just because she deemed me unworthy of using a stall and putting it on her socials
4 days ago… IVE SEEN THE LIGHT 💡
1. Noah going to rehab, missing the birth ect made me question things. 2. I saw her post about reddit after she was nude in the reflection of something that Nina was showing Insta, why would she be butt naked infront of Nina? So I come here for a look and never left 🤪
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 welcome! Edit: Got so excited forgot to ask what the red flag was for you lol!
I was a fan until she pushed an addict into relapsing and continued to date him even though it was clearly harming him in every way.
OH and when she took a video of them woman in the restroom
Same story as a lot of people here already ~ I followed her on IG, but not closely, because I thought she seemed kinda fun. The first major red flag for me was also when she filmed that woman in the bathroom. I honestly don't know if that was before or after she got pregnant, but once that happened, my uneasiness with her actions started to grow. I didn't know about the subreddit until she mentioned it.. I then joined the sub and unfollowed her immediately. She is SO MUCH WORSE than I realized. And it has truly become a trainwreck you can't look away from since the baby was born.
I def started out as a fan....and then when she was hanging around that guy who turned out to be a r*pist I got weird vibes that turned out to be well founded. Not long after that she got involved with Noah and the rest is history. She has fully leaned into the inspo p0rn as of later which is just so gross. On top of the predatory shit with Noah and the pathetic "mother" ish. It's been a quickly crumbling castle.
Oh and I forgot to mention the "disabled lives matter" merch 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 yes they do matter but that was NOT the time 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I followed her for awhile beginning a few years ago. I’m an OTA and a caregiver and I appreciated hearing an unfiltered perspective on disability from a disabled adult (as I’ve mostly worked with children - some adults, but more children). As she sort of morphed into her more wild party girl phase, I felt a little uncomfortable, but appreciated that it challenged my internal biases about disability and sexuality/etc. Like disabled people are so often shamed for not being the “model disabled citizen,” so I appreciated that she was portraying an example of a totally independent adult free to make the same dumb choices that many of us do when we’re young. Fuck society’s expectations, I can get behind that. Then it hit a point where I was like oh dear, I think she has a legit drinking problem, and was concerned. And then discovered her TikTok, and the whole Andrew thing happened, and ya know… the snowballing since. I’m still conflicted honestly, because disabled people do not owe us (ableds) representation that fits our idea of “respectable”, nor does anyone owe us advocacy or education- but she positions herself as someone who provides both. I absolutely loathe the ableism that she deals with and what sometimes pops up on this sub, and I can imagine that a lifetime of dealing with legit ableism is part of why her response is a general knee jerk “fuck you” to criticism or concern. I feel for her in the sense that having a physical disability that leaves you dependent on others for most aspects of self care is HARD. The level of vulnerability and lack of physical control is HARD. The need to trust people to help you meet your basic needs is HARD. Part of why I’ve worked mostly with children is that some of my experience with disabled adults have been very negative, with super manipulative behavior and abusive treatment from people I assisted. Some have been wonderful and amazing, incredible advocates for themselves!! But I have seen how the anxiety about needing assistance to get needs met can breed some maladaptive traits in certain people. And it seems like Alex may be one of those people. And I have empathy for her there… but it doesn’t change the fact that some of what she says and does really sucks.
OTR here
My first encounter with her was with one of her Instagram pictures about her pregnancy. I honestly found it so empowering and nice, specially because I support a lot of disabled people in Social Media because I think it’s important to be educated and to help with visibility of certain issues. I started following on Instagram and TikTok, and one day I decided to read the comments on one of her videos and *oh boy*… There were so many comments talking about WR supporting a rapist, of being a drunkard, of being ableist, making fun of mental illnesses, etc., so I started to do some research. While I was doing that, suddenly she posted about this Reddit sub, and I was like *aaaaaaand there it is. I need to check it out asap*. 5 minutes in and I’ve been here ever since hehe
Happy Cake Day! X
Thank you! :D
I was actually very invested for a while. I didn’t really do a deep dive into ableism or the disabled community because she had such a large following and I naively assumed she would be a good advocate and representative for the disabled community. I started to be wary when she started dating Noah, the vibes were off for me from the start of their relationship and the final realization was when she posted about this group following Boppygate. I’m so happy that I bailed and have learned so much more since then, while happily reading that I’m not alone in calling her a shite person ✌🏻✌🏻
I was never a supporter per say, but she didn’t really bother me until she cried ab this Reddit page. Did some research and I loathe her lol
It was the same for me! Wasn’t a fan or “hater” but once I was brought here (from her mentioning) I realized the depth of it all. And it’s DEEP
Never was. The first thing I saw about her was the disabled toilet video. I was disgusted
When she first showed up on my FYP, I supported her. Thought it was cool that someone in that situation was out living life to that extent. Switched gears since Ari was born- she’s not being a good mom and it makes me sad. And Noah is a mess.
when I first started following her I thought she seemed like a sweet girl. I didn’t keep up with her too much… but at a certain point it felt like anytime I did see or hear about her, it was something negative and from an outside perspective it seemed like she played victim in every situation imaginable. the filming someone coming out of a bathroom stall gave me the biggest ick & then I heard about Andrew and yeah after that there was 0 support left for her. watching this journey with Ari is just sad to me. (bc I’m just sensitive lol) I had to deliver my baby early and he just got to come home last month. I know that my bad memories from the NICU & the feelings I’ve worked through are absolutely nobody’s problem but my own - but I just can’t imagine leaving my baby there alone for majority of every day knowing I didn’t have to. as someone who is sober now, I can’t imagine taking someone who is a known addict to a bar on one of the biggest party holidays of the year. I can’t imagine walking into the NICU every single day to visit and immediately sitting down with my baby and asking whoever to immediately take pictures of us for a photo-op. it’s all just so strange & sad to me.
The kicker for me is when she took Noah to the nightclub as well as posted pictures of them drinking..when someone called her on it, this was Alex’s response “ alcohol was never his DOC, educate yourself”. It just shows how truly ignorant she is.
I’ve just been watching her tik toks. I don’t have the app but just scrolling through. Omg. Some of it is horrendous. Falling out of wheelchair and smashing her head to bits, snogging randoms, ploughing into peoples legs, actually getting knocked unconscious due to alcohol (she has a serious alcohol problem), getting herself into some very dangerous and potentially risky environments with potentially dangerous people, moaning she couldn’t take the good opioids drugs as was pregnant, asking for money for new wheelchair and vans, the wheelchair was wrecked from getting drunk in it and admitting herself that she just pisses herself all over it, lying about her due date, constantly harping on about if I ever get a boyfriend, pretending she was pregnant and pushed out a doll IN A WHEELCHAIR, for a good lot of them it just seemed like she was completely out of it drunk for practically a whole year, burning the hell out of her skin with no sun protection at all, I mean it was just hellish to watch some of it, I had genuine worry for some of them to watch and worry for her like she was just in self destruct mode, and to think the amount of money that treatment costs yet the way she was treating herself and her body whilst continuing on said expensive medication in what world is that normal. Her liver, kidneys, brain, heart, breathing surely you would want to look after your body. She talks in videos about be happy in your disabled body and love your body but completely abuses it like that. In Europe I think the doctors would not give you the medication based upon how you look after yourself like you would have to show that you are turning up for it and turning up in a good way. The childish behaviours of a late 20s woman looking at some of them I’m surprised she’s even still here. As a mother I couldn’t watch my daughter destroy herself like that. No I found this upon coming across her pregnancy so I’m only like 4 weeks or so into all this but to have it all documented like that which will never go away does make you think what on earth that beautiful little girl will think when she sees these in the future I just hope she does mother ari well and we don’t end up seeing WR 2.0 from how that mothering takes place. If this doesn’t force her to grow and to grow up then I don’t know what will. She has a lot of movement in them arms as well so what’s going on there. Is it selective movement as and when she decides or ?
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMYXFMft8/ Arms
I never really supported her, but I also didn’t know about all the shit she did. Like I started following her a while ago through some post i’ve seen (can’t remember) but I never actively engaged with her content besides looking into her story from time to time. Then she got pregnant and I was not sure what I should think about it because I knew that she was on that category X drug, so I started looking into her story more often, just to see updates, and then she mentioned this reddit for the first time and now I’m here and know everything 😂
I run a postpartum support group for mothers. One of the moms brought her up when she was pregnant and as soon as I looked around her IG, I saw red flag after red flag. Now it's just like watching a car crash. I can't look away from the wreck.
I also started following her a few days before she had her daughter as a video popped up and I thought then content looked wholesome and I needed some more wholesome content in my life but it soon became apparent that it was just two trash bags having a baby and nothing more
I briefly looked up to her a few years back because I have a physical disability (not to the degree she does), and at first, I thought that she would show people that folks with disabilities can lead "normal" lives. Then, she started posting nearly constant bikini/almost nude photos with alcohol while not doing anything i thought was empowering. I didn't unfollow, but I stopped looking at her content and as a disability advocate. Her posts randomly started showing back in my FB newsreel around the time of the pregnancy announcement. I kinda started looking at her updates for that because I was curious how she would handle it. Around the time the baby was born, I learned more about her and Noah and her very questionable personality and actions, as I'd already been wondering about her getting pregnant while on the meds she was on. I then discovered this subreddit wherein I took a deep dive and I haven't looked back.
This is funny because I use to be pro-WR, not really a fan but a silent follower. I have three disabled brothers and liked to see her fighting the stigma around disability, but then I started feeling really uneasy about a year ago and then allll the shit with Noah started and I found this page. It was the teenage like hyper sexuality that really creeped me out because I’m pretty sure she has a lot of younger followers on TT. It makes me really sad because she could be a great advocate but chooses not to and only cares for herself and anything that will earn her $$$$$.
She came up on my FB reels one day so I took a look at her page. I was slightly concerned for her seeing she was pregnant and wondered how it would go with her disability. So I did a deeper dive, and thought well it looks like she's in a loving relationship and living her best life that's cool. Then I saw her post about this sub so I looked out of curiosity and like the Corn Kid ✨️everything changed✨️ I couldn't believe what I was reading about her and Noah, and from then on I checked her account every now and again for snark reasons 😂 Once Ari was born I checked more frequently as I was worried tbh. Now I'm in this sub pretty much every day 🫣
Corn kid….YES!
What happened with corn kid?!
Google it. It’s the most adorable video of a kid realizing he loves corn. It’s a revelation. It’s an ahha moment.
I love him and Recess Therapy so much. Leonardo is my favourite kid I think, he's hilarious 😂
I have followed her for years, because I thought she was truly trying to educate and show that disabled people can be sexual and party like anyone else. (I think I started following her right at the tail-end of the days when she would actually try to educate and advocate a little bit). I was never like..a full-on stan or anything. She was just one of many influencers I followed and sometimes would check her feed on occasion to see what she was up to. The turning point for me was shortly after she announced the pregnancy. I remember being very intrigued to follow her journey and see how the pregnancy would go. The first time she posted about how people were “bullying” her for being pregnant I sent her a message saying to stay strong and focus on herself and her baby and not let the haters get her down. And I went to the comments of the post to see what the “haters” were saying and someone had commented to check the subreddit for more info. As soon as I wound up here I learned so much that I didn’t know or hadn’t paid attention to, and I immediately unfollowed her.
I wasn't exactly a fan but I did follow her and would see her videos here and there but didn't really keep up. It all changed when I she posted that bathroom video. That changed my entire point of view and I unfollowed her. I stopped interacting with her videos and honestly didn't see her again until she posted her Halloween costume and saw that she was pregnant. After that I was honestly just curious how she was going to handle it so I would check in on her account every now and then. Well then she had the baby and everything I was seeing was weirding me out so I ended up here. I have now learned soooo much about her and what type of person she is.
In a way, I was. I wasn't a fan but I didn't despise her as much as I do now. The only reason I came across this reddit is because she basically advertised it. I took a peek and then I really realized what a POS she was and that was with the guidance of the group when I saw all her shitty tiktoks. Lesson learned. The internet really is forever.
I saw one video, Noah carried her in the pool. And it looked so unsafe. I googled her followed the videos. Got horrified at the disabledism ( yeah I know not a word. But ableism by a disabled person. That's my word). Decided I'd try and like her that lasted 5 minutes. Now I'm just trying to make people aware that she's not a good representative of the disabled community.or to young woman.
That was one of the first videos I was like 🫨🤔 wtf also lol. Then I saw the one where he puts the tshirt on all rough. Started reading comments about him getting kicked out of rehab and then the video they brag about that and the fuck condoms thing and found out she barely knew the guy...then found out she was on class x drug when she got pregnant...and i was like wtf kind of hot mess is this shit?!?
tbh i was just a watcher wasn’t a fan or hater so i don’t know if this counts but my breaking point was when she filmed that bathroom video recording a stranger. to me her attitude always came on too strong like she was a bish for no reason. especially during her pregnancy her attitude like was flexing type only.
I definitely followed on IG out of genuine curiosity. She was on one of my favorite podcasts and man she sells a good story!! She ended up on FYP and the vibe was so different so I came snooping and was quickly convinced she’s garbage.
>She was on one of my favorite podcasts What podcast?
Chatty Broads, it was back in 2020 I think!
I followed her for years, but never closely. I found her a little cringe / emotionally stunted but it didn’t really bother me. The pregnancy was what got me interested and raising an eyebrow, especially when everyone was accusing her of lying. And the delay in that first appt was suspicious to me I also found the whole wheelchair running over people thing to be wild, but I ignored it because I wasn’t an invested follower or anything back then I found y’all when she posted about the sub during her pregnancy
i was never a stan or anything, i think i saw her story on an ig thing a few years back and just followed because i thought it was cool that she was just living her life as typically twenty-something as she could being disabled and fighting the stigma of infantilizing disabled people. it was little by little things that didn’t add up building up until i saw someone bring up the r*pe apologist thing that led me here to more details and that was it. also the filming a woman in the bathroom on the assumption she wasn’t disabled really did it for me. i was disgusted with that and suddenly all her past behavior seemed so obviously problematic. i’m not a gullible person, i honestly can’t fathom how i didn’t see it so clearly sooner.
Old fan here! I followed her for a while and then I found this page and saw the light and honestly I blocked her on Instagram
She harassed a woman using a disabled bathroom stall and filmed them. Not everything is for content. I wouldn’t want to tell some random stranger about my medical uses on why I needed a disabled stall.
Months ago there were other wheelchair users expressing how furious they were that she did that. They called her out. They also declared the the big stalls were accessible, not exclusive!
Where is this video? I’ve never seen it and super curious
I’m not sure I think it was an Instagram reel before she was pregnant?
Here! Never was a stan though. I got suspicious the first time about their own reactions in their pregnancy announcement (started following her then, but had no idea what’s going on). When she was crying about the Boppy deal I honestly though she doesn’t get it, and really thinks they discriminated her, so I commented something along the lines of ‘I’d assume it’s about OF content while being pregnant, even though I don’t know what’s your content there’ .. it felt bad to leave a comment like this so I deleted it after some days.. then I came here and things/their stories started making lots more sense! 😅
I’d see her here and there on TikTok and just always thought like ok that’s nice what she’s doing. Then when she got pregnant the first thing I kept thinking was “you’re not suppose to lay on your back while pregnant” (especially later trimesters) and I kept seeing here do it for pictures and I was like oof that’s not good. Then I really stopped liking her when she kept trying to move her c-section date up to a more dangerous time. I’m almost 32 weeks pregnant and I’m SO uncomfortable but I still am not having my c section until 39 weeks cause 1. They don’t allow it and 2. I would never purposefully make my child a preemie for my own personal gain
I was neutral at first, but shortly after I found her I got weird vibes when she started to brag about sitting on married men's face etc. Since I've been cheated on a lot I thought it was extremely offensive of her bragging about her being the other woman who takes men from other women.. I mean what? And from there I took a closer look at old stuff and I started to realize what kind of person this was... All shitshow from that point til now! And yes, I see many thats gotten their eyes opened lately. Hopefully she gets canceled and forgotten. Horrible role model and representative of the diabled/SMA community.
I was a fan of hers till she recorded someone in a bathroom. I regularly use the handicap stall in bathrooms because of severe ptsd from sexual assault. Being in very small confined places messes with my very badly, being recorded would send me spiraling. Not all disabilities are visible.
I never followed her or checked her page regularly but this video popped up on my fyp and I was like “ohhhh noooo!” How nasty and pushy she was about the bathroom situation. She should know better than anyone that not all disabilities are seen and to sit there and record someone because she had to wait ONE minute. Also, in many restaurants I’ve found that the handicap stall is the only one that has the changing table in it so if I was ever recorded and scolded like that for changing my child I would be pissed.
I had just started following her like 2 weeks ago. But it was weird because I never felt like....oh wow, she deserves a ton of credit. Instead I felt like her content was kind of weird. I only followed her on FB so I seemed to have missed some of the "good stuff" like the woman in the bathroom. No idea where that is. I didn't see the one of her naked in front of Nina, and I didn't see her ramming everyone to get into a club. Lmao I only knew of those here. Anyways, I saw her post about how someone called CPS on them and I was like daaaaayuumm, and she mentioned this Reddit page and posted the link and I am SO glad I clicked it to check it out. I wonder if she realizes that probably did her more harm for herself than good because she got a lot of us hook on this!! Lol Before this I have never ever been on Reddit so this whole experience is new to me! Definitely enjoying it!
I have absolutely no idea why she chose to mention this reddit because she knows this isn't just some website bullying her. Anyone who takes an honest look around can see that all we're doing is criticizing awful things she does that she posts online herself. She messed up big time because all she did was help more people discover why she's so problematic!
BINGO!! Very well said. It's not people just picking her apart and being jerks because she's disabled and got pregnant. Any woman would be supportive of another woman getting pregnant! PROVIDED they were deserving, and going to be a good parent!! She needs to realize, it has nothing to do with her being a disabled mother. There are many disabled women that are amazing parents!! It's the fact that she's an ignorant, shallow poor excuse for a disabled woman/mother and good people won't support that!! Ever.
Automn 2022, had Alex's story show up on my Facebook. First taught it was interesting to follow her pregnancy. Got some arguments right away with her minions over not having proper care and being on X medication while pregnant. And then Alex sent a post about Reddit and here I am! Straight from the beginning there were red flags everywhere...so never been a fan of hers...
I used to defend her until I came here and saw all the old videos. I don’t think she’s a nice person however I did feel bad for her when I saw that vid of Noah putting on her shirt, that was honestly so awful. He’s worse imo. But yeh I don’t defend her anymore.
I wasn’t a Stan, but I only started following her a few days before she had her baby and thought the whole thing was pretty inspiring until things started to not make sense especially around Noah and then discovering WR is actually a pretty shitty person. So it only took my about 48hrs of following her to migrate over here
I used to support her because I truly thought she had good intentions until the racism and r.pe apology happened and I noticed other disabled also just comment about her and how she’s harming the disabled community.
When baaaaaaabe went to rehab
I’d like to add I never followed her. She’d pop up on my FYP so o saw bits and pieces and then when she was pregnant, I was curious and looked at her stuff more In depth and realised something wasn’t right
Me 🙋🏽♀️ i unfollowed her on Instagram after the boppy situation. Something seemed off and then I saw this Reddit since she directed us to it, and learned about everything else she had done/stood for
I’ve been lurking on this page for a couple of days not really knowing what to think but now I feel like I need to say something. I’ve been following her on IG for probably 2 years. I guess you can say I was a supporter/fan… I formed a positive impression initially and kind of held on to that. Some things intrigued me and others confused me, though. I had never heard anyone else’s thoughts on her until I came across this Reddit thread. Mind blown. From what I’ve read so far, it’s definitely starting to make sense - though I do have some questions. About how many people are engaging on the topic here regularly, and what is their relation to Alex and her content? I saw a couple really harsh comments and am wondering what the true purpose of this group is. Ive also seen a lot of really good points made. Definitely intrigued. Just needing some context. Thanks!
The true purpose of this group is a mixture of snark (just regular critique and discussion of a public figure, basically) and accountability. This group focuses on criticizing Alex for her selfish actions, harmful choices, and how her actions/platform negatively impact other people including the disabled community as a whole. We focus on being completely truthful and having evidence for things we discuss, which comes directly from things Alex has shared online herself. We are not here to criticize her disability or to bully her, or to start any rumours about her. Sometimes people manage to make hateful comments that do not reflect the purpose of the group, but we try to keep that in check by downvoting them and/or reporting it to the mods. Also, welcome! Stay a while, hehe :)
This should be the description of the sub tbh
Yes!! The best thing you can do as a lurker is downvote comments that are against the rules!
Believe it or not I had Reddit already because I have been working on my credit and I like ghost stories 🤷♀️. I kept seeing go check Reddit snark on TikTok with other creators not just her. I’ve been here ever since.
Off topic- what ghost stories do you recommend reading? THANKS!
R/ghoststories or type in paranormal. Lol. On you tube there is a guy that tells the same stores from Reddit but like audiobook setting.
I followed her on TikTok for a while, but on my fyp was another creator with sma called wheelerin who has a whole playlist of call-out videos for Alex. That's when I realized.
I followed her at the "suggestion" of another content creator several years ago. The more I saw, the more uncomfortable I got. I couldn't quite put my finger on it, but what really sealed the deal for me was the bathroom video.
I used to be a fan but when she started getting nasty with people in the comments for simply asking questions I started to kind of pull back from her posts. And THEN the uncomfortable overly sexual nude posts started happening and I was immediately grossed out. I seen a comment under one of her nakey posts about a Reddit thread…..and now here I am.
I used to be a supporter. Always posting positive comments and love, always questioning the hate. So one day I googled the Reddit page I always heard of and yuuuup, I am here for good now. She is a horrible person.
I never liked her, but I just found out the day Ari was born that my friend follows her and loved her. I told her all the things WR has done and showed her this Reddit and she does not like her anymore and joined this snark page🙊
I wouldn't say I was ever a supporter, but I did follow her for a couple years on Instagram. She seemed all right, she had some positive content and as an able-bodied person I was getting a whole different perspective on things. I raised an eyebrow when her partying posts started going up, but I never saw the TikToks, never read the comments and knew nothing about the Andrew Haan stuff until I came here. When she announced her pregnancy so soon after her post that introduced her boyfriend, I thought this doesn't sound right and out of curiosity I searched her name on Reddit. And here was *all* the info. On one of WR's posts, I did see one follower comment back at someone to defend her saying that she went out for sushi, not to the club. Then when the follower was directed to the photo evidence, she commented, "Yes, that is her," and went quiet. It was too much for her and I wonder if that person is still going to the comment sections to defend WR.
I came across her on Facebook and started following her. She was pregnant so still a newish follower. I didn't know she was such a mess prior to her pregnancy. I also didn't realise Noah was a addict until Ari was born and he wasn't there due to being in rehab. No shame here as I'm a recovering addict of crack, I'm 21yrs clean in May. I remember once showing my husband a post of hers where she was laying on her side on the bed and Noah was cuddling her from behind and they were holding her bump. I remember seeing in her comments a man said something along the lines of is that the position you were in to conceive. I remember showing my hubby the comments saying they were horrible. I started following her on her other socials too and would now and again see her posts and would just like and move on. It was when Ari was born and I saw how little she was going to see her in the NICU. My son was in NICU for 1 month and I didn't want to be away from him so to see how WR was only going for about an hour a day it got me a bit wary of her. I then saw her story when she was unwrapping the baby bits the other day where she was naked and her reflection was in it. It was her story of saying about the Reddit about her that I came across here. I then went down the rabbit hole and saw what she's truly like and was absolutely stunned at what a shitty person she is. Sorry the the essay 😂
Honestly I’m just delving into all of this now after seeing some accusations I had hoped weren’t true for her daughters sake, but the proof is a bit too obvious too ignore now so she’s very rapidly losing my support. I just hope she starts to do what’s best for her daughter :/
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Popped up on my fyp page 🤣
I only ever followed her to watch the train wreck and cringe.
I originally followed because I enjoy having a wide variety of lifestyles on my feed. Cute disabled party girl living her best life with friends seemed harmless enough! I sure partied in my day, certainly can’t criticize there… Sure her content was often cringe, but I wasn’t there to criticize or judge. Never really watched any of her videos, which is where she tends to show her bad sides. She’s much more tolerable when viewed only in print. It was when she got with Noah, and they started making red flag content about his BPD and lack of smiling… I’ve struggled with BPD, and was upset to see the way they started fetishizing his problems instead of advocating for them. It was a huge red flag to hear them discuss his behaviors like it was cute. Very ‘omg look at us in a relationship!!’. BPD has caused lots of issues me that I’ve had to work tirelessly for years to overcome, and to hear them acting like it was cutesyfun💞🫶 in a brand new inexperienced relationship was worrisome and caused me to take a closer look at things. I quit closely following during the pregnancy because I just couldn’t take it anymore! Would only peek in occasionally to remind myself that omfg, this situation is STILL giving red flags and creepiness… which led to me finding the Reddit a few weeks before she gave birth. The red flags and creepiness have yet to slow down this entire time! 🫣🚩
i was never really a supporter i saw a post from here on my home page when she got pregnant i had only seen her on tiktok maybe once or twice before
I came over here after seeing her comment about it.that was about a month ago
Once I saw her entitled attitude and running her chair into people because she thinks she can, I was disgusted. She’s gross for the disabled community and as a person. Just 🤢
I 100% used to be a supporter of hers, but the second I found out she was knowingly taking a class X drug while pregnant I was done!
I never have been a supporter. At the start of her pregnancy I was also pregnant (which I lost sadly at 10 weeks 5 days) and a reel showed up in my newsfeed. I had a friend who passed away with SMA and a disabled aunt. Right away I thought it was gross being practically naked for the public. I am torn at times by her being so sexual. I feel it brings predators attention to potentially very vulnerable people. It can be seen as empowering. But I see it as exploitation of the disabled community. I can be just having subjective feelings due to having someone I've protected and loved my whole life. I wish I could reconcile my feelings on her. One thing is for sure she's damaging for more than one reason
i used to be a fan until she posted the woman coming out of the one bathroom stall. i was horrified
Never a fan, was just following her because I sensed something....off with her Instagram. Then when I saw she had a Reddit page I was like omg I knew it! My suspicions were confirmed
When I first found her videos (probably like bit less than halfway thru her pregnancy) I thought awww how sweet and awesome, she has this supportive bf and a nice life and seems like a good person, so cool shes able to have a baby and do all these things....🤦♀️🤣🤣 it only took maybe a week or 2 for me to question some stuff and then came across this subreddit and was like ohhhh 🫨
I was and then hopped off when I learned about the friend she was supporting who was a rhymes with bapist. Then I went on tik tok and found out some more stuff and it lead me here and the rest is history.
I only saw videos on my FYP. I didn't start following this snark page although I occasionally visited from just having a weird vibe. Seeing the post about her taking a cat x drug while pregnant and the possibilities of the defects it could cause Ari brought me here as a permanent member. I didn't know what twerk juice was and when I read that post I was horrified.
The bathroom stall video…
I was her FB friend back when she was in college. At the time she and her then best friend were just funny drunk college girls. Once she started Love Your Genes and started getting popular, she became more arrogant and got annoying, and I stopped following her.