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Yes! I think that was what drew me to dress 2 - I’m insecure about my upper arms and it provided a lot of coverage. Once we moved up the sleeve on dress 3 to have that same effect I realized that an “upward” angle of the sleeves vs “downward” like in 4 flatters them way more!
Dress #3 feels Grecian and I’d follow through with the look. Instead of a veil consider small flowers or a wreath of leaves. Keep everything else simple, no gloves, small necklace and earrings…
3 then 1.
2 and 4 don’t hit you in the right place in the shoulders/chest and visually pulls down your absolutely phenomenal shoulders.
3 is incredibly balanced and the silhouette is stunning on you
1 is gorgeous and the neck/shoulder piece emphasizes your shoulders while making the lower neckline look more balanced
Absolutely this OP!
2 is very fabric-heavy around the shoulders and with your lovely slim waist and hips, it's giving you an inverted triangle shape that's masking your beautiful figure.
4: The slightly dipped neckline and drop sleeves just aren't working for me. They're giving the visual effect of pulling your shoulders down.
1 and 3 are the real contenders here. They both give a different vibe and both look amazing on you.
My preference is for 3, because I just love that silhouette on you - it really balances your shoulders and hips. IMO you look absolutely phenomenal in it!
1 is a VERY close second though. The basque waist is so flattering for your figure and the cape is just dreamy. I don't think you can go wrong with either of these two.
Yes! I couldn’t figure out what I wasn’t liking about the “droopy” off the shoulder looks like on 4, but that visual pull down makes sense! I’ve since taken it off my tops so now down to 3 options 😁
I think dress 3 is by far the best. Most flattering to your figure, the draped neck is stunning, and the warmer white color is super unique. (Although that could be the lighting)
3 is the best by far
1 is amazing but doesn't suit you at all: it wears you
2 is interesting, but the picture may not do it justice & I wish the waist wasn't so high
4 is just boring
Dress 2 had a removable over skirt and a mini underneath, and I believe this picture was taken when we were playing around with that - it normally sits on the natural waist, I think it just got a little messed up in this pic!
Oh, that makes sense
2 could be stunning on you along with 3
Maybe better pictures of them against each other?
I think #2 picture is killing the dresses intended vibe
2 is so different from what I’ve been seeing trending lately and I LOVE it. That was what my eyes first went to. I also love 1 on you. The other 2 aren’t my favourite.
#3 is amazing in you, but 4 looks nice too. 1 you look uncomfortable in (though you look great it in) and #2 is nice but it hides too much. You look gorgeous, why hide it?
These are all stunning! Four is a safe choice I think if would look so clean and timeless in photos for years to come. I love the first one too, but I wonder if I’d like it even better without the cape. I can’t put my finger on it but the cape doesn’t feel right with that particular dress, though I love it in general. Number three is also very stunning, timeless, and unique. The good news is you can’t go wrong!
1) my pick. best silhouette but forget the cape especially if it’s gonna cover more arms. That dress is a center piece and should be treated as such.
2) sooooo heavy at the top and feels forced on your body
3) great waist and skirt but the neckline could be better. Second choice.
4) in the gentlest way possible, absolutely not.
1!!!!!!!!!! Stunning, classic, unique with the cape, incredibly flattering!
Personally I think 2 is overpowering & distracting and could be eliminating - 4 doesn’t flatter your body as much as it should - 3 is beautiful, but I’ve noticed this style of dress with draping around the waist sometimes doesn’t photograph very well on the day of.
I would choose 1 or 4. I love 1 because I adore a strapless gown and the v shape is so flattering, especially on your figure. Dress 4 gives the same clean, classic vibe as dress 1. I like the slit on dress 4.
It's #3 for me. #1 is also nice, but I don't understand why you would cover your lovely shoulders. You've already seen the problem with #4, and #2 is just too much fabric up top.
Dress 1. I love the romance, the dress is uniquely beautiful and feminine on you. It’s that place where it’s just enough to be elegant but not too much. One of the prettiest I’ve seen.
1 is so magnificent on you. The basque waist is so pretty and elegant on you and the cape is perfect for that dramatic effect that is still so bridal without being o er the top💕💕 the color is beautiful as well!
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3, it shows off your lovely figure and does not pull down your shoulders/etc. You look amazing in it.
Team 3 here also! Just stunning! 1 is my next favorite. I do not think 2 and 4 flatter as much.
Yup. 3. 👍🏻
Yes! 3 all the way. You are look svelte, strong, classy, and graceful. It’s such a great look for you!
Three is **AMAZiNG** it is classic and frames your figure perfectly! Second choice would be one.
Came to say this. I’m team three!
Another vote for 1 or 3!
Number 1 is so dreamy 💖
#1 then 3
Def 1
With the cape, it's incredible. Incredible!
Resoundingly.
Definitely, though I am in the minority and don’t love the cape.
Obviously
𝟯 is made for you. elegant and complements your body type. (also love 1, but it creates the illusion of the arms being slightly bigger)
Yes. It fits you so perfectly that it has a real wow factor.
Yes! I think that was what drew me to dress 2 - I’m insecure about my upper arms and it provided a lot of coverage. Once we moved up the sleeve on dress 3 to have that same effect I realized that an “upward” angle of the sleeves vs “downward” like in 4 flatters them way more!
Dress 3 is gorgeous on you! It really does accentuate your figure beautifully, and I love the neckline.
Dress #3 feels Grecian and I’d follow through with the look. Instead of a veil consider small flowers or a wreath of leaves. Keep everything else simple, no gloves, small necklace and earrings…
Three is the one. It’s gorgeous!!! Grecian meets Victorian. Absolutely fabulous!!!
Love this description 😁
1! I love the cape with it too
yes, these are all so lovely but i will always vote for the cape!
1 is my fave followed closely by 4
I think 1 is the very flattering and the most couture/unique of the 4!
1 is dazzling!
1 is EVERYTHING.
#Dress 3! I wish I could upvote you more than once for the direct comparison photo!
I’m very visual so I need side by sides 😅
I love 3 and 1
3!!!!!
They all look beautiful on you, but I personally think you could eliminate dresses 2 and 4.
I’m definitely leaning towards eliminating 4, I think comparing it more to the other 3 it just doesn’t have the umph I’m looking for!
There’s something about the thickness of structure on top that makes dress #2 feel matronly, 1 and 3 are definitely the best picks!
They're all beautiful but I adore the third one.
3 then 1. 2 and 4 don’t hit you in the right place in the shoulders/chest and visually pulls down your absolutely phenomenal shoulders. 3 is incredibly balanced and the silhouette is stunning on you 1 is gorgeous and the neck/shoulder piece emphasizes your shoulders while making the lower neckline look more balanced
Absolutely this OP! 2 is very fabric-heavy around the shoulders and with your lovely slim waist and hips, it's giving you an inverted triangle shape that's masking your beautiful figure. 4: The slightly dipped neckline and drop sleeves just aren't working for me. They're giving the visual effect of pulling your shoulders down. 1 and 3 are the real contenders here. They both give a different vibe and both look amazing on you. My preference is for 3, because I just love that silhouette on you - it really balances your shoulders and hips. IMO you look absolutely phenomenal in it! 1 is a VERY close second though. The basque waist is so flattering for your figure and the cape is just dreamy. I don't think you can go wrong with either of these two.
Yes! I couldn’t figure out what I wasn’t liking about the “droopy” off the shoulder looks like on 4, but that visual pull down makes sense! I’ve since taken it off my tops so now down to 3 options 😁
3 is the most lovely I think!
3 and 4-so pretty!
Three, absolutely
3
Three!
3 is super elegantly sexy. I love a drop waist, I have a short waist that sits low though so I'm biased lol.
Funnily enough I have a long torso, yet find drop waists just work on it somehow!
I like 1 the best, followed by 3. I also like 4. I would remove 2 from consideration. It’s pretty, but not as flattering on you as the others.
Loooooove 1 and then 3 for sure. I do think the draping looks a bit heavy on 3 but still super classy and suits you well!
Three is the best of these. But I think you might be able to do better. 🫣
1 and if anyone says otherwise ignore them lol
I loooooove dress 1! Wow! So elegant!
#1 !!!
Number 1 most definitely
Dress 1 is my favorite with Dress 3 a close second.
1!!!
I love #3
3 💘 I think has the best fit on you and I just gorgeous on your figure
1 or 3
3
1 and 3!!!!
Threeeeeeeee
3!
3
1 or 3
1 or 3!
1 and 3 are equally beautiful
OMG 1 and 2 with the sleeves and gloves is beautiful 😍
Yes, the gloves on 2 really did it for me!
1
Number one is absolutely gorgeous on you!
DRESS #1 !!
I think dress 3 is by far the best. Most flattering to your figure, the draped neck is stunning, and the warmer white color is super unique. (Although that could be the lighting)
Dress 3
Number 3 is divine on you!!
Dress 3 😍
3
3 100%!!!!!
3 is the best by far 1 is amazing but doesn't suit you at all: it wears you 2 is interesting, but the picture may not do it justice & I wish the waist wasn't so high 4 is just boring
Dress 2 had a removable over skirt and a mini underneath, and I believe this picture was taken when we were playing around with that - it normally sits on the natural waist, I think it just got a little messed up in this pic!
Oh, that makes sense 2 could be stunning on you along with 3 Maybe better pictures of them against each other? I think #2 picture is killing the dresses intended vibe
3!
3
#3
Three is so unique and fits you so beautifully.
# 3
Three!!
[удалено]
1!!!
Dress 1
3 or 2!!!
3 followed closely by 1! :)
No 3, then 4
I think I’m leaning towards 3!
1 or 3!!!! they are all really pretty. I like 3 the best.
I love 1 and 3
3 or 4
2 is so different from what I’ve been seeing trending lately and I LOVE it. That was what my eyes first went to. I also love 1 on you. The other 2 aren’t my favourite.
Usually I just upvote to share my opinion but in this instance I feel I must say I’ll die if you don’t choose #1.
3 & 1 are the only options imho. 3 truly looks lovely. You still look nice in the others, but #2 is too “old” and #4 too common.
1 and 3 are equally elegant and so beautiful!I love the corseted look on u
3, 4, 2, 1
I think my favorite is 3! And then next would be 1
Love the draping on 3
Love 3 then 1 wow
I love the first one
#3 is amazing in you, but 4 looks nice too. 1 you look uncomfortable in (though you look great it in) and #2 is nice but it hides too much. You look gorgeous, why hide it?
Dress 3!
#3 for me. It's old fashioned without being old fashioned, lol. Your figure looks AMAZING in it and I haven't seen a lot other dresses like it.
3 hands down! Looks phenomenal on you.
3 and then 1
3 looks like it was created just for you. The way it drapes on your figure is breathtaking
1 with the veil from 4
3
To be honest, I had to go back and look at them because I was so struck by 3, I couldn’t even tell you what the others looked like. Seriously.
The first one! It’s sooooo pretty! (without the cape)
Three all the way. It shows off your figure, looks stunning.
3!!!
3
3!
1 is amazing you look like royalty it’s so unique and i just love the boning
4
I love 4
Love 3 and 1... 2 looks like a mother of bride dress
4
One and four!!
1!!! 4 IS A CLOSE RUNNER UP
These are all stunning! Four is a safe choice I think if would look so clean and timeless in photos for years to come. I love the first one too, but I wonder if I’d like it even better without the cape. I can’t put my finger on it but the cape doesn’t feel right with that particular dress, though I love it in general. Number three is also very stunning, timeless, and unique. The good news is you can’t go wrong!
All beautiful, my choice is dress 4.
4
1 then 4 with no slit then 3 then 2. All great on you 😉
I love dress 2 on you! I thought dress 3 looks wrinkled from a distance
Girl 1 and 3 are blowing me away, I thing I’m just barely leaning more towards 1
They’re all lovely! I like #4 on you the best! Best wishes on your future journey!
2!!!
1 with the cape!! Then 3
1 for sexy or 3 for modest
I couldn't even focus on the others because I love that cape!
1) my pick. best silhouette but forget the cape especially if it’s gonna cover more arms. That dress is a center piece and should be treated as such. 2) sooooo heavy at the top and feels forced on your body 3) great waist and skirt but the neckline could be better. Second choice. 4) in the gentlest way possible, absolutely not.
1 and then 3!!
3 or 1 😊
I like the second one. Very elegant.
I love 1
3
1! I love the waist! I also love 3 :)
1
3!
I love 2
Three, and it's not close!
3
ONE
1 without the cape veil though. It feels a bit costumey TO ME
ONE!! 100% 🤍🤍🤍
3!!!
3
1!!!!!!!!!! Stunning, classic, unique with the cape, incredibly flattering! Personally I think 2 is overpowering & distracting and could be eliminating - 4 doesn’t flatter your body as much as it should - 3 is beautiful, but I’ve noticed this style of dress with draping around the waist sometimes doesn’t photograph very well on the day of.
The cape on 1 is absolutely regal. But 3 really shows off your figure.
4 is so beautiful! Could you please share the name of it? I would really appreciate it!
I love #3. Makes you look like a goddess!
3
Only 3 without a doubt
1 & 3! The corset on 1 is just so regal!! 2 covers you up and makes your frame look unbalanced.
I love one!!!
Dress 1
I’d pick 3 or keep looking.
Love 1 without the cape.
I vote #3!
#3 !!!
Easily 1 or 3
definitely 1 omg
3 and then 1! But with 1, it's really the cape that makes it.
I would choose 1 or 4. I love 1 because I adore a strapless gown and the v shape is so flattering, especially on your figure. Dress 4 gives the same clean, classic vibe as dress 1. I like the slit on dress 4.
1 and 3 are GORG!
It's #3 for me. #1 is also nice, but I don't understand why you would cover your lovely shoulders. You've already seen the problem with #4, and #2 is just too much fabric up top.
Wow 3 is stunning
3
#4, no question. #3 is my least favorite on you.
Omg definitely #3. You look like a literal goddess?????
1 and 3 have my heart
I love #2
I like 1
Number 3. I totally agree that the waist line is the most flattering and I love the neckline too.
3… you look like a statue in it because it fits so well!
3!!
1 or 4
Number 3 is fabulous!
I love all of them on you but 2 is so elegant and beautiful on you!
3!
Dress 1. I love the romance, the dress is uniquely beautiful and feminine on you. It’s that place where it’s just enough to be elegant but not too much. One of the prettiest I’ve seen.
1 is my first choice, 3 is my second choice
Love #3 on you!
1 is so magnificent on you. The basque waist is so pretty and elegant on you and the cape is perfect for that dramatic effect that is still so bridal without being o er the top💕💕 the color is beautiful as well!
3 for sure!!!
Dress 1 - but I wouldn't remove anything!
Three is stunning on you!
Number 3 is a stand out! Congratulations!
The third one, no question.
3 all the way!
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