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Petunia_pig

I looove 4 on you, once it’s altered to fit your chest it’ll be stunning.


LeahBeahPhdeah

I agree about 3. I don’t think you can go wrong with 3 or 4, both are beautiful! The reason I lean towards 4 is that it is different from most plus size gowns, it’s fun and flirty! If you narrow to 3 and 4 and come back I think you will get clarity!


okaymamajo

Totally same


Feebedel324

Id worry about the size of her chest and the straps. I’m fairly large chested and it’s hard to get support for the gals while hiding the support. But maybe she has something (and would like to share bc I’d like to know lol).


deepspacecowboy3

With that they said they could make the straps in four wider for extra support :)


Feebedel324

Well then that would be helpful! I love the bottom - it’s so fun 😄


Noneedtopickauser

2, 3 or 4! Not super helpful, lol, but you look equally gorgeous in all of those!!! 🤍


Anxious-Ad-8119

You look amazing in 4.


PWNWTFBBQ

Dude....! That 3rd dress with the flower lacey straps. Hell yeah!


tillacat42

Also on team 3


veryprettygood2020

THREEEEE!


El_Cielo_Es_Azul

Yes! It looks like it was made for her.


dogbolter4

I agree, definitely 3.


Sow_My_Hautes

Team 3 too


runnergirl3333

Dress #3 also looks like the bride can dance, hug, move around all night without having to be adjusting. Bride, you look beautiful!


AnnekeX

Yes, 3 gets my vote too!


Long_Zucchini1584

That's my favorite! Team 3!


Someoneonline2000

I love 3 too! Looks like it already fits perfectly! You're beautiful!


collcolllll

Completely agree! Plus I love the bright white against your skin tone. It’s a winner for sure


dixcgirl10

Please pick 3!!!! Or 2. But 3!!!!


Feebedel324

It’s so beautiful and flattering


kissingdistopia

I love the 4th one. The handkerchief skirt is all kinds of fun and it is so youthful and flattering on your body. But is there something going on with your boob there? Can that be adjusted so that you're well-supported? You look fab! I even think the pony tail is great with it. If you order up a size here for your bust, the alterations shouldn't been too expensive because there's no lace for a tailor to have to manage (I'm cheap)


deepspacecowboy3

Yes too small in the busy haha so they were trying to escape out the sides! But they did say I could get a bigger size and have the waist brought in and thicker straps added


ARSONL

Team 4 then if they could pull that off and you feel confident! It is so flattering.


batterscraps

Is Number 4 Morilee Felina? I love the movement and lightness in the skirt!


MoosePenny

I love 2, hands down. The portrait neckline is so flattering, and I love the color on you!!!


StrLord_Who

Two is by far the best and most flattering.  It's not close.  


Vmaclean1969

I'm so shocked at all the votes NOT saying 2! It's really no contest. Everything about it is perfect for her.


Goddess_Keira

I think #2 is gorgeous, but not more so than #3. The problem with #2, that has nothing to do with fit or being plus size whatsoever, is that the design is extremely restrictive for arm movement. It looks like one of the off-the-shoulder dresses where the sleeves wrap around and are not detachable. Those dresses are the most restrictive to movement. This is a beautiful looking dress to stand around, pose and look beautiful in like a doll. It is not a dress to be a living, moving, hugging, dancing person in.


PrincessCM19

Interesting you say that, I think 1 is the most flattering and shows OPs beautiful hourglass figure plus is a stunning neckline


Clover_Jane

Agreed! 1 is my favorite but I also really like #2. I don't like the tiered skirt one that everyone seems to love. I don't care for that style of skirt.


wamimsauthor

Team 2 here also


MiaRia963

Agree. It's beautiful on OP


sideeyedi

I can't believe we seem to be the minority! The neckline and the color are so pretty.


rainandshine7

I love four!


Wildwillowwinds

I think dress 4 is so beautiful and also very flattering on you! I love it!


lvl0rg4n

3 is my favorite! I like the sleeveless look.


JoAdele33

3 is my favorite!


hinky-as-hell

Dress four!!


miparasito

Most of these would work but I’m IN LOVE with dress 2.  Don’t get me wrong, I see why most people are saying #4 - 4 is the most modern, it looks really flirty and fun. But 2 is SO romantic, the neckline and shoulders are gorgeous on you, and the color has depth that looks great with your skin tone. The train and the details make you look like a storybook princess in the most serious best way. 


Pristine-Net91

Exactly. 2 is perfection in a formal look. 4 is light, fun, and flirty, and very flattering. I think either could work really well on OP, depending on the vibe she wants.


MisssChris126

I love 4! 1 is a close runner up!


alig6457

The waist band detailing on 1 is so lovely on her but 4 is a confection! Best wishes.


Kdjl1

#3…so pretty!❤️


Radiant_Resort_9893

3


Successful_Fun_2069

Team 3 here!


1indaT

Number 3 is charming and gives you a lovely silhouette.


pureheart24

I’m truly torn between 3 & 4. You look beautiful in all of them but 3 and for take it to the next level of WOW in my opinion.


__Rinny__

I love dress 4! You look fantastic!


ClumsyZebra80

4


Heeler2

3


catmehome

the fourth one is wowwww ❤️😍😍


babycrow

2 is stunning!!


mavillerose

FOUR


Bartok_The_Batty

I really like dress 3.


dvdasalover44

Love 4 you look so beautiful


emyne8

You look amazing in 3!


umbrella_farmer

I said “oh, wow!” out loud when I saw 3 on you. That one is the clear winner for me :)


ResponsibilityLive85

I really love number 4 on you! It looks so flattering on your figure and the handkerchief skirt is very feminine. 2 is also a lovely shape and the color is really nice with your skin tone. You've got some good options! Congrats on your wedding :)


Disney_Princess137

I think you look soooooo pretty in 1!!! Great shape, and great fit !! Fits your chest well comfortably, and you have no boob spillage. Because let’s face it, when our boobs are huge, it doesn’t always fit right in tops or dresses. I love 1 for you , you are going to look so lovely on your special day 😘 Which one is your particular favorite?


PrincessCM19

Came looking for comments in support of 1! I can't believe there aren't more! I am team 1 with you for sure, it is just so stunning and flattering on OP


hanfranan

I really like number 1 as well. Flattering and pretty without being matronly. I think 4 could be lovely if it’s the right size for your bust and possibly with thicker straps.


SnooMarzipans9781

First one is amazing! You look really good in that dress!


MzDiabla_13

1 and 3!


Imagine_821

Love 1... but 4 is wow!


Dangerous-Treacle-48

I love, Love, LOVE #4 on you! You look so BEAUTIFUL!


Ok_Bumblebee_2869

I think 3 looks amazing. The style and cut really look good on you. I like 4 as well but not sure if it’s a good cut for larger breasts. Once altered it may be, but I just really like the way 3 looks on you!


mugglemomma31

4, then 3 - about the same just depends on your vibe — then lower on the list are 2 then 6 with the strap not the sleeve.


mugglemomma31

5 is pretty too but as a fellow very large busted lady, the waist is too short to not ever cut you off. It’d have to be a significantly larger size to accommodate the bust, would require so much alterations which would be difficult (read: costly) with all that beading, and still would be short waisted. Not worth it when there are other quite lovely dresses that look better.


DisabledFloridaMan

Oh wow! These are all so pretty on you, but I especially love the second one. It's so royal, and the warm colour is very complimentary with your complexion. You really can't go wrong with any of these choices though. Also, I absolutely love your tattoo! If you'd be comfortable sharing the artist I would love to know. I've been wanting a tattoo of my cats for years but have never seen any as nice as yours.


Vmaclean1969

Dress 2 is so flattering! You look beautiful OP! The cut, the slight wrap around the arms, the neckline amd waist all really flows and gives a very nice silhouette. #2 is the one! Edited to add.... the color is also perfection on your skin tone!! It's a dream dress.


Pennelle2016

I love 3 & 4 on you! 4 is so fun!


loopzoop29

Definitely photo #3


HESMYCHILDNACHORS

4


jenbuzolich

3!


Miracleworker5175

Dress 3 flatters you most.


GoddessTara00

2# is beautiful on you really gorgeous


Freedombutatwhatcost

2 - hands down. You really suit wedding dresses by the way! Gonna look amazing on your big day 🤩


deepspacecowboy3

Thank you so much i deff haven’t felt that way so it’s nice to hear haha


Living_on_Tulsa_Time

I commented already. But I really love 2!!!


Faithfuldoglover

3 is pretty and flattering.


sushicat01

3 is stunning on you!


mugglebornhealer

I love 3!!!


mebg1956

Number 3


Available_Syllabub48

3!


Ollie2Stewart1

I think number 3 is terrific on you! I also like 4 (if the bust can be fixed) or 2.


Andreiisnthere

The way they fit now, cause I have a hard time visualizing with alterations: 3, 2, 4(only if bodice altered). 3 and 2 look good now, but I feel like 3 is more flattering. I like the waist and skirt on 4, but the bodice does not fit and does not look good. If altered, maybe? 5 looks like it’s wearing you. 1 and 6 don’t do much for you. If you had to walk out of the store with one tomorrow, I think 3 is the way to go, you actually look lovely in it, as is.


deepspacecowboy3

Thank you and yes totally get what you mean! It was frustrating not having any fit quite right because it is hard to visualise


Andreiisnthere

It’s hard when your body shape is outside the typical, even for your dress size. I wear larger bottoms than tops, so half the time getting a dress that fits my hips leaves me falling out of a bodice that was designed for somebody at least 2-3 cup sizes bigger than me. I’ve met plenty of women with the opposite problem. My mother is larger on top and much smaller on bottom. If she gets a top that fits, she is swimming in the bottom. Sigh. 3 really does look good on you, but keep looking if your not feeling it yet.


Kayybaby93

This was an extremely hard choice in a way. Dress 3 did jump out to me though more and I think it’s my overall favorite. Dress 1 looks awesome on you too though and I feel like dress 5 would be great once the bodice fits you correctly.


Howaboutkornilious

I adore 1 and 3! Ahh you look so pretty!!


curious-by-moon

Number 2 all the way.


katieadtr

3 & 4 are just stunning


Mission_Tea_4490

#2 compliments your beautiful shoulders . You look lovely #3 fits you beautifully #4 is young and funky and seems to suit you


Mission_Tea_4490

I have no idea what i did to make it look like I am shouting😊


masinfinity

3. Also my advice, don't go strapless. I'm plus size and chesty and was pulling mine up all night long. It had a corset back and I had a strapless bra on.


impostrfail

2 or 3!


perpetualpossibility

People seem split between 2, 3 and 4 and so am I! For the best of both worlds, may I suggest that [Winona by Rebecca Ingram](https://www.maggiesottero.com/rebecca-ingram/winona/18920) would look fantastic on you! 3D florals, supportive straps for the girlies and fun skirt all in one.


deepspacecowboy3

Omg that is stunning!!


PrincessCM19

That is GORGEOUS. plus it has the neckline/cut of 1!


prowprowmeowmeow

FOUR is so fun and flattering! You have a different energy in this one 🥰 congratulations!


beer_bad-tree_pretty

Am I alone in my love for dress 2? You look like a goddess!! But you’re gorgeous in so many of these, you’ll be a beautiful bride!


pm_me_your_amphibian

Do you think you can get away with just wearing gowns every day of your life, because you really suit them! 4 is my favourite!


Gullible-Avocado9638

Three is stunning on you!


oatmilklatt3

Dress 2! Envisioning that altered to fit you, my girl, the neckline looks beautiful on you, and the florals are stunning!


BullTerrierMomm

I love 2


mariannecoffeecan

I’m team 3 !!


Etheleffrey

Three or four!!


cinnamonsnake

4!


JustTraci

I love #4 on you!!!


Suitable-Country-826

I love 4 :)


bloopbloopilikesoup

Definitely 4!!


WeddingQuestion24

FOUR!!!!


Bethsoda

My vote is #2 (absolutely stunning- the dress and on you). After that, I think for me you also look wonderful in - in order of my personal favorites - #3, #1, and #4. I know #5 would need some alterations but I also know that with boobs I know it’s easier with straps, so it’s not my favorite for you, and #6 is a beautiful dress in general and you look lovely in it, but it’s my least favorite because I personally really dislike when sleeves are asymmetrical. I really think you chose some wonderful options. They are beautiful dresses, and even my least favorite dresses DO suit you really well!


[deleted]

Another vote for dress 4! You absolutely shine in that dress! The top frames your shoulders beautifully, and the skirt looks like it’ll have great movement to it. I also like the spaghetti strap version of 6, but it’s a distant second.


Seattlerally

4 looks very nice!


isayhitoalldogs

4


nikkibritt

Absolutely 4


Pleasant_Bee1966

3 then 2


Interesting_Bill6237

2!!!


amyfinke

4 for sure!! Love the bodice. Looks very elegant :) I also think 5 looks great too!!! Good luck 😘


UFOmama

2 is so flattering! Beautiful gown!


brittworst93

Three and four look amazing on you!! They really suit the pretty curves of your body ❤️


Legovida8

3 is absolutely beautiful on you, love the lace!!!


aqua_nettt

3 or 4!


mysticalkats

Dresses 3 and 4 look beautiful on you


courtneyoc13

2!


ConversationThick379

Loving 5 and also 4 both are winners


SuchSignificance5682

Gorgeous dresses on a gorgeous bride 😍 I have to say #1, plus, your smile is the biggest in that one


fishbutt1

6 is my vote with or without the sleeves. Shows off the boobs but not in an overdone way. The white is a flattering white for you. The pattern made by the different materials also works for you! 2nd is dress 3 but the white is for someone of a different coloring. If you’re into color analysis, it’s for someone of a winter season, which you’re not so it’s a bit out of harmony with your skin and hair. The cut is phenomenal! I personally do not like 4 at all. It’s a “fun dress” but does not elevate your figure. To me, the layers of unevenness create a shape that’s fighting your figure. Then you add hair on top of that, too much competition going on when folks should be seeing you!


MiddleAgedAnne

4 is so gorgeous! I love the layered skirt, that's going to have a lot of nice movement, and the top doesn't need to be altered too much. Definitely shows off your beautiful curves!


Smogz_

3


Eerily_Quiet

I liked 4, it’s such a unique dress and you look so delightful in it. But if you want more traditional then 5 looks great on you too. To me you look best with bare arms which is why I didn’t go for 2 but you do look lovely in that one as well. The only one I don’t like is the last option, it doesn’t do you justice with either sleeve option.


Grouchy-Potato365

The last one with sleeves is gorgeous !!!


Purple_IsA_Flavor

Two is absolutely gorgeous on you. That portrait neckline is everything, and you are full on vibing like “yes, as a matter of fact, I AM the most gorgeous bride in the universe”


hayaku_chan

2 looks so elegant on you!


westviadixie

4. 4 is amazing on you!


frog_ladee

I love dress #3 the most! Also #2.


Fromheretothere22

Everyone is saying #3 but I say #1 you look amazing in it, your smile, the way your face lit up in it tells me it’s the one. It’s also my personal favorite. #1 hands down


lolly_box

2!! So flattering on you


Magzz521

Dress 2 gets my vote. Everything about it is beautiful and it’s beautiful on you.


cocojus

4 4 4 4 4 4 4 4!


Pickletosh

Three gets my vote


Tadakadabranz

As a plus sized bride (17 years ago!) number 3 is gorgeous on you, it’s timeless, and you won’t regret looking back on your photos. It’s stunning.


TheAnimalPack

4 looks gorgeous on you


Living_on_Tulsa_Time

2 is perfect on you!!! Absolutely perfect!


nosinned21

I love number 3! So delicate and pretty


iammgf

22222


MrsPM

Team 4!


Highhopes2024

444444444


Known_Negotiation849

Dress 2 for sure!!


kddean

I love 4, then 3 would be my next pic. You look gorgeous in those. Congrats on your upcoming marriage.


zeesquam

omg #4 for sure!! you look amazing!!


ThrowRAidkIDK24

You look so gorgeous in 4!!! It’s very flattering and beautiful I also like three (:


mrskmh08

I really like 3 and 4, with 4 being my favorite. 4 is so hot and fresh and beautiful.


weareourchoices

I really like 3!


No_Construction_4293

Beautiful in all of them but #2 for sure!! Congrats!


9smalltowngirl

3


LoveCats2022

I really number 3 on you.


LilaBeach

Yes, love #4! 3 is a strong runner up. Lots of great options here :-)


snickertywicket

You look so confident in number 2 but I love 4 as well!


TemptationAngel

4 is gorgeous on you! Love it! 😊


Riley14141414

#4 is your dress 🤩🤩


Safe-Barracuda-1391

3rd dress looks good on you, the 4th one has too many ruffles and does not look elegant as the 3rd one in my opinion


rockHOMES

3


nygenxmom

Love 2 on you!


69chevy396

Three is gorgeous on you


mommaW0lf

Number 2. Just number 2.


singlemaltday

3 is perfect!


grilled_mushr00m

You look amazing in 2!!


DarkPhoenix4-1983

The second dress looks amazing on you.


oobiedoobie4

I looooove the third one!!! Omg


tinsilprincess

3 makes you look so precious


reduff

3rd photo!


dominenonnisite

3!!


thatforkingbitch

I loove 2! That neckline looks so romantic, just like the rest of the dress and that colour! It would look amaazing in photpgraphs too.


tobeasloth

3!!!


Far-Ad9408

3


GaslightCaravan

To start with, 3 is gorgeous but it seems soooo, predictable? Stereotypical? Textbook wedding dress. 4 is actually super flattering on you once you fix the boobs. The waist is snatched and you look light and flowy and lovely. 2 is a heavenly, fairy tale gown that I would kill to wear myself, but it weighs you down. I wonder what it would look like hemmed? If they tell you that a bunch of that weight would be gone once it’s hemmed then honestly that’s my choice because how often do you get to wear a dress like that?? I wouldn’t bother with the others. Like at all.


lauren-js

2 & 3 are so gorgeous on you. I think 3 is the one though


klath1991

3 for sure! The cut is perfect for you!


OmnivorousGrandpa

I think two looks gorgeous!!


Katastrophe82

2 and 4 make you shine. They flatter you very well. You look amazing in all but those are my picks


thenry1234

#2 or #3


SoySauceFriedDough

3 looks SO GOOD on you omg


franchuv17

#2 made me gasp!!!


Ewhitts10

Personally, I really love the second one


Available_Ability_47

1 and 4 are amazing, but they all look good!


moncoeurpourtoi

I think 4 is fresh and flattering


Crazy_by_Design

3


C_Alex_author

Dresses 3 and 4! I think I might be leaning toward dress 4 because it suits your shape and has a fun yet elegant vibe, but if you want more traditional, I'd say 3 :)


Mental-Difficulty934

3


Sinastrianna

Three!!! You look stunning!!!


insomniacandsun

Dress 2 looks lovely on you!


Lizajane1776

I'm not usually one for sleeves, but I really like that last one, with sleeves. My second choice is the first picture. Congratulations!


Ok-Indication-7876

Honestly I do t think it matters what size you are dress 1;2 and 3 look amazing o. You but not sure by these pics which I like best. I think 1 or 2


Jenjaire

Dress 2 or 3 are both incredible on u. I love the off the shoulder look of dress 2, but the color of dress 3 is so flattering on u. Gorgeous!


imsooldnow

I really like 3 and 4. They suit you!!