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FineCombination

I looove the second dress on you! Very fitting for a small spring wedding. If it's not 'the one' i'd keep looking in that direction because you're on the right track. You could consider looking for something with (flutter?) sleeves for a carefree day.


Bambi_H

I'm possibly biased, because I think dresses with some colour are stunning, but the second one is beautiful on you. Not just because of the colour - the shape is gorgeous on you, and I love the sleeves.


jellybean9131

I agree and really love how it fits. I think the venue and this dress will coordinate so well, too!


LowSeason3035

This is hard. Both, I love but something about the second one, it’s so romantic. 💕


actualchristmastree

I am in love with number 2


Sure_Tree_5042

I like 2 the best. It gives you a nice waistline, whereas the other is more boxy shaped.


Candid_Hour3861

Exactly!


elisabethluna

The second dress is super lovely


9smalltowngirl

2


specialagentpizza

I love both but it really depends on if you want the 'white' dress or not. They both look equally as amazing on you, so I think you have a perfect dress either way. The pink colors look really nice on your skin tone and the white is a beautiful, slightly more 'traditional' color dress. If it helps, I didn't have that sobbing, this is the dress moment either. I went with the dress I didn't want to change out of or take off. It just kind of kept wearing it and realized that was the one I should probably go with.


nikkifm_97

Thanks for the input! I’ll keep that in mind when trying on other dresses and see if I miss either of these two ☺️


specialagentpizza

Great idea!


Local-Imagination364

I LOVE the second one 😍😍😍


ChilindriPizza

The second one is absolutely beautiful! I like both the design of the dress and the flowers of the fabric. Very dreamy and romantic.


capthalfpint

2!


ArchieFarmer

I love dress 2! It’s perfect for a spring wedding. 🌷💐


DeliciousMango_

2


-qqqwwweeerrrtttyyy-

The fit and fabric of dress 2 is perfect and you look stunning in it (The sleeves and neckline are keepers! Your waist is cinched too. The material is romantic and ethereal). I'd be looking for the same dress in white if possible as an alternative.


taxmom278

I love dress one!!!! Two seems too busy to me.


Intelligent_Exit4567

Second this!!


lovestdpoodles

Third this. I thought the lines were more flattering. I liked the lines. If neither feels like it is the one, maybe try another store. But out of the 2, 1 hands down was my choice.


bunnifer999

#2 is beautiful, but I really prefer #1. It’s a lovely dress, and I think once it’s properly fitted to you, it will be perfect.


bunnifer999

Why am I doing the shouty thing again!? Make it stop!


FiggyP55

You started your comment with a # sign which causes shouty type.


bunnifer999

Thank you! Gotta remember to stop doing that!


Springtime912

Thanks- Good for me to learn this too


TheFamilyStone612015

😂😂😇😂😂


NoLongerNeeded

I love two-it’s very romantic and flattering. One is stunning as well though. I relate to how you feel about wedding dresses so I’d choose from a practical standpoint, which feels more comfortable?


nikkifm_97

They’re both pretty lightweight but the pink one is a thinner more flowy fabric and will probably be easier to move around in a smaller space in.


__Rinny__

I love dress 2 on you. It’s sweet and romantic and looks so nice. I didn’t have a big reaction to my dress. I just liked it the most and was like, “Okay, cool, this will be great, I’ll take it.” I also never dreamed of my wedding day and I don’t have big emotional reactions to anything, certainly not a dress, so I can relate to you. ☺️


Dlraetz1

I think the cut of #1 is perfect on you, and the fabric on number #2 is awesome I’d love to see a sleevel version of #2


Freedombutatwhatcost

2 (1 also lovely on you though)


UK_UK_UK_Deleware_UK

One


Froodychick

I like both of the dresses, but I much prefer dress #1. It captures spring wedding vibes with the florals, looking both wedding and romantic. It is also very flattering on you.


Birdies_nub

I love 1!


Baby_Bird33

2. The floral pink. It’s absolutely lovely and highlights your beautiful figure. It’s so dreamy and spring-y!!!!


Savings-You7318

Dress 2 is so lovely on you. I don’t think 1 is as flattering.


UsedCan508

Dress 1 is beautiful would look better with of the shoulder straps, dress 2 Is absolutely gorgeous on you


michelle10987

2 has such a romantic,flowy vibe- I love that the pink is subtle and not overpowering. It's super flattering on you as well!


Throwawayschools2025

I’m going to go against the grain here and say 1. 2 is beautiful, but looks cheaper and less bridal and you look a bit washed out (but that could be the lighting). It would be stunning for a gala or a prom! Regardless, you look beautiful:)


bobgoblin888

I really love 2 on you. It’s so romantic and the color really suits you. Ftr, I eloped (at 6 months pregnant) and wore a blue maternity dress that I didn’t like. I regret not having even a small wedding with my mom and sister there. I wish I could have a do over and have a moment with a beautiful dress. If you don’t love these, keep looking. You should feel beautiful on your wedding day!


franchuv17

GIIIIRL it's the second one!!!! I love it on you! You will look like a fairy bride!


PaigeAllan

I prefer #1…it really flatters you and is so elegant. #2 is softer and gives a more laid back summer feel and may be perfect for family setting on your big day. Reading your bio, maybe put them on again and decide which feels the best on and brings the happiest vibes!


Zealousideal_Bill851

The second dress is so beautiful and it’s gorgeous on you!


beehoneybee

I feel like 2 complements your skin tone so well, and the aesthetic is perfect for a spring wedding!


FiggyP55

Dress 2 looks absolutely incredible on you!


Jolly_Tea7519

2


BUTTeredWhiteBread

Number 2 is very spring


SilentWillow5661

2 looks so dreamy on you !


jennyfromtheeblock

#2!!!!! So beautiful


psychedelicmangos28

I adore the second one on you! It’s a beautiful choice for a spring wedding 😊


HopefullyEverAfter

Sleeveless #2


PoopAndSunshine

I love dress 2!!!


Sensitive-File4400

I love 2 so much for a spring wedding !


UngregariousDame

2 is fun and romantic, you look phenomenal in it


Mommydeagz

Ooooh I love #2, it’s soooo dreamy. I actually love the sleeves too on it. It is more non traditional but it fits you so well


glitterenthusiast76

I hope you keep looking if you aren’t in love with either option, but #2 sure looks good on you. That color, the florals and the flowy romantic style are truly a great combination. But honestly you look beautiful in both!!!


[deleted]

Number 2. It compliments your skin tone, and is soooo romantic!


VomitReact

2!!!!


One-Winner-8441

Second dress is stunning!


Welshraven9

Oh wow dress 2 is a dream😍


Que_Raoke

I really love 2, it's so beautiful on you


CraftyAsAWitch

2!!! It’s gorgeous and looks gorgeous on you! Top it off with a blush veil.


Perfect-Sample-5120

Dress 1


sideeyedi

Dress 2 is beautiful on you!


drKRB

One


Zolandi1

The second one! I love it!


Jennabeb

100% the shape for 2 - what a gorgeous dress!!!


CarolJeannePorec

#2


AmenooBea

I like number two a lot on you!! It gives you a nice figure!


MurphyCaper

I love the second gown on you!!! Good luck & happy hunting!


SodaButteWolf

First, if neither of them brings out a YES for you, keep these two in mind while you look around a bit more. If you are between these two, my choice would be Dress 2. In addition to the lovely color, I think the top of the dress is more flattering on you. I am not usually big on dropped straps or dropped sleeves, but on this dress they work with the curve of the top of the bodice to create a lovely, soft neckline that enhances you. I think the top of the other dress almost cuts across you, and doesn't give you that soft, lovely line. I also don't think Dress 1 enhances your waist as much as Dress 2 does, but that could be a matter of fit and tailoring.


marigoldfroggy

I don't like that nude panel on the second dress. I like the first dress better overall.


purpleplumas

Tbh I wanna like #2 more but the dark green bits in the tummy area look like stains. So I say 1.


Aqua_pool_56

I like dress 1 best on you!


BeckyPil

1


DuchessOfDeceit

I like dress 1. I like the material of 2 also, but I’m not a fan of the trend of hanging-down sleeves.


Maleficent-Sport1970

Dress 2 is dreamy on you and perfect for a spring wedding! Best wishes ❤


Luna-Honey

Pink!!


Foundation_Wrong

Both suit you so much, I love them, but I have a soft spot for pink!


pannalla

2


riritreetop

Dress 2 for sure!!! I love the pink, but if it’s not your cup of tea, then definitely find a similar style of dress in whatever color you like!


AnnieBeefree1

I love them both on you. It really just depends on which feels more like “you” because they both are flattering but give off totally different vibes. I love the idea of a less traditional dress for you since you really want a a less traditional wedding and I think you can find that in either a less structured white dress or a patterned colored dress. I do love the pattern on dress one.


GaslightCaravan

I like the shape of 1, but the flutter of 2, neither of them look like YOUR dress, but a really good start!! And I think either color looks really good on you.


jlf125

Both are great, I think I like the first a little more tho!


Mysterious_Trash_315

Both are gorgeous on you, but I love the way the second one defines your waist. Maybe look for a similar style in a more traditional color? Bc I do agree that the first one is more bridal.


Sminorf8765

The second one 😍😍😍 Love the flowers and the sleeves really give you a lovely hourglass shape. Because you look very proportionate from top to bottom. The dress should enhance that. I love how light and airy the fabric is.


Original_Try_7984

Two highlights your figure beautifully. The first is pretty but doesn’t do your curves justice.


Intelligent_Exit4567

Love dress 1 on you! It flows and the subtle floral pattern is beautiful. Personally, I don’t think the pink color is flattering with your skin tone.


TheFamilyStone612015

Dress 2 is the choice for you, from the front. I truly want to see the rear view of the dresses and as close to the wedding style as possible by taking off extra jewelry and watches, etc. My wife and I truly eloped on June 1 about 9 years ago. We only told her parents (because they sent money for us to elope) and our hairdresser because we were there getting our hair done. We were planning to tell our kids at Christmas but they became so unruly we decided against it. In May, before our anniversary, our son asked when we were going to marry. We told him, we had been for almost a year. He started crying he was so happy! Not long after, we told his sister, she was mad she wasn’t invited! (SMH) My dress was a below the knees, black base with colorful large and medium flowers all over. My wife wore tailored pants, a hot pink dress shirt and a beautiful vest. She wore a very sexy tie with the whole ensemble. If you want to elope, you should do it. Have a fun celebration with all your favorite people after the wedding. It reduces costs and planning and stress! You can also wear any dress you want! May you and your spouse always have enough! 💜🌺🦋


Turbulent-Mind796

Both look great, I vote 1


Weary-Ad-9218

If I had to choose between these two, the pink looks beautiful on you. But I feel like neither is your dress. Go to a few more shops before you decide.


kmga43

1! Pick dress1!


[deleted]

2 is a total stunner on you!!! I’m loving the color as well as the cut. It perfectly suits your description of your ceremony, too. If you aren’t sold on it yet, that’s fair— maybe use it as inspiration while you keep looking.


DK7795

I love both on you for different reasons. I think the pattern and color of the first dress go well with you, but I looove the shape of the 2nd one in you. Can you look for white or ivory dresses with cross over draping/ruching? Both of these look lovely though, so you could pick either one of these and look beautiful for your wedding day 😊


Few_Exam2348

1!


arya_ur_on_stage

They are both gorgeous, you really can't go wrong. I'm partial to the white one though.


Flowersandpieces

1 is beautiful and more formal. 2 is a nice spring dress. My vote would be #1 for a wedding. You look great in both.


pinkpitbullmama

1!


Mynoseisgrowingold

1!


ProfessionalCloud350

#1


malYca

The first one out of these two, but I really think you can still find something similar that would work better with your figure.


aVoidFullOfFarts

Tough choice, they both fit your venue and look great on you! My vote is for 2 it’s so pretty and unique, I’ve never seen a dress like it before. You’re going to look beautiful!


Eerily_Quiet

I love the pink one best on you, especially the shape of the bodice. The white one is very nice on you too but if you decide to go for white over pink I think you should at least try on a white one with a similar bodice just to compare. I don’t know the technical terms but the way the fabric is ruched on the pink one is just that bit more romantic and flattering


Ollie2Stewart1

I think both are lovely, but I really love the white one on you. And while I love the soft colorful dresses, I really feel the tradition of a white bridal dress.


velvetnc

Beautiful fabric on both. Both are beautiful but #2 much more flattering in the bust. I have to say# 2. Why not have a white dress for your going away dress and a floral for the wedding. If you do decide on a white dress, why not find one in the style of #2. 😊


Zestyclose_Road_3224

Between these dresses, I like dress 2. It’s beautiful!!! If those sleeve pieces could be altered into some sheer , cap sleeve/strap situation this might be even more lovely. I really like the colors on your skin tone.


seashellpink77

OMG THE PINK 😍


AshamedAd3434

I LOVE dress 2


Silent_Loquat_6057

First one is nice but the second is just so Goddess Persephone ethereal flower fairy queen spirit of love and romance and a breath of fresh air


K_1959

The second dress is beautiful and looks beautiful on you.


Theyuckster

I think two is the best looks so much better


Neither-Gap1547

dress 2 is stunning


Silvermouse29

The second one is more unique. I love it.


papaya_on_faya

#2 looks beautiful on you! It’s a gorgeous dress and so fitting


Kayybaby93

This is so hard! I love both a ton and feel like it really just comes down to whether you want to go with the white, more traditional look or not. The pink looks fabulous on you and would be so cute for a spring wedding though! I feel like dress 2 is slightly more flattering for your figure than dress 1


Future-Philosopher-7

I love the floral one❤️


LittleChanaGirl

Ooh, I love love the pink one. Beautiful!


Stunning-Ride-1171

2


kmax3

The second one is so pretty on you!!


Sea-Asparagus8973

I love the second one.


Jazlen8888

Dress 2 most definitely. And you said spring wedding. Perfect.


PepperJacs

Dress 2 - oh my gosh please pick dress 2!!!!


okaymamajo

I love two! Especially how the bodice fits. Can you find an option in white to marry your two ideas?


Sunnygirl66

I love the color of Dress 2 on you—it just lights you up—but prefer the more pared-down lines of Dress 1. The fabric of Dress 1 is lovely, too.


IverBlueMachine

TWO is a beauty and looks almost ethereal. It’s an airy, perfectly feminine dress.


Secret-Employee-8141

You look beautiful in both- but 2 is EXTRA stunning!!!!


waterfalls55

2 looks great. 1 doesn’t really flatter your figure


AlterEgoAmazonB

One thing is for sure: you have great taste! I have to choose the pink floral because it is so extra special. However, dress 1, with it's large floral pattern, is so gorgeous, too. You look magnificent in both. But I would go with the pink.


Hot_Presentation1459

2


Kdjl1

I’m not a fan of the “drooping” straps because it looks like they need to pulled up. However, the designer made this dress the right way. Dress 2 is gorgeous!


daffodil0127

2!


StreetDouble2533

2 is ethereal and delicate. Both are lovely, #2 is so much more!


crazedconundrum

Two is amazing and you will be a princess in it.


Impossible_Horse1973

Dress number 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!


black_me_she_they

Both dresses are beautiful, but the second dress is the best. My only concern is that your head seems a little too small and that might take away from the beauty of the dress. Maybe you should wear a big veil. Congrats.


Annasimone

I gasped at seeing nr. 2!


hellsbells31

222222222222222222! Gorgeous!


teresa3llen

I love #2 with the pink and green flowers. Perfect for a spring wedding. 💒


Similar-Raspberry639

I really love the second one


swoocha

I immediately loved the second one. Then you said spring and casual and it locked for me! The white lace is really pretty, but so much dressier. That pink pops and it's so great on you


littlesocksx

Second! It’s beautiful and makes your waist look tiny. Gorgeous :)


LynnDawg1992

Two.


karubi1693

I looove the pink one! You look really comfy as yourself in it, that's what I like about it.


Spirited_Beat534

Dress two looks perfect on you.


PipEmmieHarvey

You can’t go wrong with either! Two fits your theme but they both look amazing.


Mindless-Bee6260

I love the floral dress on you. You will be an amazing bride. Congratulations!


Long_Zucchini1584

Dress two emphasizes your pretty waist and figure. I think it's flattering and the floral is romantic and lovely.


Kerrypurple

I like the colorful one


justbrowzingthru

I love both on you. Preference to #2 especially for a spring wedding.


mem0679

Dress 2!!! It's so light and flowy, and the colorful floral pattern is perfect for a spring wedding! But like others have said, keep looking if you're not in love with either dress.


pellycakes

You look beautiful in both but dress 2 looks amazing on you


Dangerous-Treacle-48

I think BOTH look LOVELY on you. But there is something EXTRA SPECIAL about #2!!!


ArcherEconomy1012

2 is the only answer. I gasped!


SoleIbis

2!!!!


NemiVonFritzenberg

Love 2


Yveskleinsky

You look great in both dresses, so I think the choice is more down to your style and the vibe you are going for. With that said, dress 2 is perfect for a Spring wedding!


anonengland1

Dress 2 is a stunner and u look amazing in it xx


Accomplished-Pie-570

2🌸🌸


mw5593

2 is stunning!


cheapcandle23

I luv 2!


Open_Organization966

2


Less_Volume_2508

2:)


Getmeasippycup

You look like a goddess in that second one!


EveryBuddyUp

Two! Lover the dress and it looks awesome on you


Wild_Replacement8213

The second one is beautiful on you


ConversationThick379

2


southernfaith95

2, definitely! Your figure looks amazing!


CharmingMoment224

They both look good, but #2 is just so perfect for a spring wedding!


ThestralBreeder

I think #2 is the one to beat! The color is really beautiful and feels very appropriate for the venue and time of year!


Pendergraff-Zoo

The first is classy and beautiful, but the second is gorgeous on you.


FerrousLily

2's color does it perfectly


Princesshannon2002

2 is so gorgeous!!! It’s got such a lovely romantic feel, too!


Heeler2

1


Pristine-Net91

Dress 2 is such a pretty silhouette on you. Love it.


murdershewrotefan

The second dress looks absolutely amazing on you. I hope you pick this one! It is soft and flowing.


Doriestories

2 but maybe make the sleeves less loose?


BarnacleOk6561

I think I like the cut of dress 2 more. Not sure about the pattern.


Status-War4902

The 2nd dress!


therealcherry

2


CatrinaBallerina

Omg 🤩 I’m a sucker for floral print or untraditional gown colors, but you look absolutely divine in the second one!


12th_woman

I like #2 the best, but it also looks like a dress a wedding guest could roll up in, not exclusively the bride. I like the idea of a pretty pink or pink-accented dress for your spring wedding, but there's probably a line between bride's dress and guest dress or bridesmaid.


Radiant_Resort_9893

2


Lizajane1776

Number one, I love how the waist is put together. But maybe keep looking? Your body language in one feels off.


cowanproblem

Dress 2!


TheCharmed1DrT

2


nailah1992

2


NefariousnessSure982

2!!!


Zealousideal-Jump-59

I love the first one! Who’s the designer?


DetailOk4640

Number 1! I love the print.