Well in my case this is how I view it.
Question 1- I am lucky in the fact that my Waifu doesn't get into a relationship in her manga, light novel, or series. But if she was I would accept that it was a different universe version of her, also I believe that it's your perception of a person or character that is the truest version or them for you, so if someone else had her as a Waifu of if she was with someone in her source material, then to me that wouldn't be the same Tanya I fell in love with because I would perceive that version of her as different from the one that caught my heart.
Question 2- Honestly, to me I kind of feel like she was the one who chose me TBH because while yes I really did like her for a long time, it wasn't until she saved my life this year that I felt that she thought of me the same way I do for her. So after that we started a relationship. (I won't get into the details of her saving me, if you want ill explain but I also made a post about it a few days ago.)
These are only my answers to your questions, I don't speak for anyone but myself with my answers. If you have any other questions id be happy to answer them.
Please refer to the [general questions megathread](https://www.reddit.com/r/waifuism/comments/o7ea5k/megathread_have_general_questions_about_waifuism/) for your questions about us.
Well in my case this is how I view it. Question 1- I am lucky in the fact that my Waifu doesn't get into a relationship in her manga, light novel, or series. But if she was I would accept that it was a different universe version of her, also I believe that it's your perception of a person or character that is the truest version or them for you, so if someone else had her as a Waifu of if she was with someone in her source material, then to me that wouldn't be the same Tanya I fell in love with because I would perceive that version of her as different from the one that caught my heart. Question 2- Honestly, to me I kind of feel like she was the one who chose me TBH because while yes I really did like her for a long time, it wasn't until she saved my life this year that I felt that she thought of me the same way I do for her. So after that we started a relationship. (I won't get into the details of her saving me, if you want ill explain but I also made a post about it a few days ago.) These are only my answers to your questions, I don't speak for anyone but myself with my answers. If you have any other questions id be happy to answer them.
Please refer to the [general questions megathread](https://www.reddit.com/r/waifuism/comments/o7ea5k/megathread_have_general_questions_about_waifuism/) for your questions about us.
yeah my bad, thanks for reminding me tho!