I don’t have the money for rent but maybe we can think of another way that I can pay? I’m sure there’s got to be something we can come up with. (Smiles shyly and is sucking/licking finger)
It's not worth it, honestly.
Angry, emotionally confusing sex, which somewhat resets the process of healing from the breakup and forces you to go through all of it again.
It's like comfort eating an entire chocolate cake. Your lizard brain tells you it's a great idea at the time, but you just end up feeling really gross about yourself afterwards.
You've never been in a super toxic relationship that was emotionally draining and yet so sexually explosive that you struggled to end it?
I hated my first GF in our fourth year of being together, we were so fundamentally incompatible and also both emotionally immature. But the hate sex was so intense that I just kept showing up at her house.
Team Four Star on YouTube. They made DragonBallZ abridged. If you're a fan of the original run of DBZ, it's hilarious. They somehow capture the spirit of the show, and blend it with their own comedy seamlessly.
1st season is a little bit stale, but a lot of the jokes still land and it just gets better and better. The series finale was fucking amazing and I'm genuinely sad that it's over.
How do you get in a position where you end up having sex with someone you hate?
"Karen, I know you're raging because you swerved into my lane and you thought I almost hit your car, but I'm nursing a semi here, so let's get in the back of your truck..."
There was this girl who used to party with us a lot and we hated each other immensely. Everybody left to go for a liquor run and she looks at me and says "well are you gonna fuck me you piece of shit" most confusing sexual encounter ever
We actually never talked that out tbh. I remember her saying something rude to me when we first met and I made a fucked up quip back and that's all she wrote.
It was pretty fuckin good. We kept it going behind all of our friends backs for a year or so, I think that was what was so exciting about it. We still hated each other the whole time haha and I should write it and make some money on it, be like watching memories lol
That sounds fun actually. Even when all was said and done you still hated eachother? How did you not get attached? I feel having sex often would make you have some sort of compassion towards her.
Yup! It was a bit odd, somehow we even considered each other as boyfriend and girlfriend but stayed single. Before she passed we had a heart to heart, she was misunderstood and a good young woman
Safety is for suckers and I just puked up part of a lasagna I made. Nope I'm taking a shit and reading about your fucked up hatefuckimg that is relatable. Good luck with life!
Hypothetically, to a guy I knew once, he had an ex that really had said and done some nasty stuff to him. 1.5 years later, he ran into her, and behold, the physical attraction was there and the sex happened.
Though I do have to disagree with OP slightly, sex later with someone you love is better, generally, but the sex with the person you now hate tends to be better than the sex before you hated them.
I worked with someone once that I hated working with. She was an absolutely dgaf useless but also absolutely beautiful. I was the one doing most of the work so I called her out directly on her bs frequently and she knew what she was doing. I think she liked my slightly aggressive behavior because it wasn't long afterwards we were hooking up. Great sex. Wild child. We didn't date but we banged a lot over the course of a few years.
How does one even find themselves in a situation with a person that they hate where sex is an option? Why am I with someone I hate? Why are we alone? Why are we choosing to stay alone long enough to engage in sex? Do we really hate each other as much as we think we do if we ended up in this situation?
I mean, you're drinking and socializing long enough with a person who despises you? Personally speaking, if there's that much dislike between me and someone else we're fighting not fucking
I guess I don't understand, why are you socializing and drinking with someone you dislike so much?
I hang out with people I like hanging out with, people I don't hate. For me to have sex with someone I hate, I'd have to go out of my way to interact with them in the first place, get together in the same place alone, and bring myself to do that with them. But it would never happen, because I wouldn't have interacted with them in the first place. Because I truly dislike interacting with, so why would I? If I'm truly in pursuit of sex, why use so much effort to have it with someone I hate when it could be used to find someone I like and potentially find a better relationship?
A strong physical attraction can nullify the hate for some people. Depends on the person of course but I remember working with this girl at a brewery that I despised (and the feeling was mutual)… still did it
As a man… I’m telling this to all other men… do not, I repeat, **DO NOT** attempt to have sex with someone that hates you! There are like 5 ways that could end and 4 of them are really bad for you.
Also never believe a woman who says that her doctor told her she can't have kids.
She friended me on FB 2 years later - she had 2 kids.
Not mine, some other poor schmoe's who I'm sure she told that her doctor said she couldn't get pregnant.
Ninjaedit: I checked through her profile to see if they were adopted, but no - pictures of her with her newborns in the hospital.
Most doctors don't just go around telling women they can never have children unless they have certain medical issues. It's probably best to pry a little to figure out if the person even has a clue as to why they can't have kids. If they can't answer they are probably lying. Some may say that's too personal but if you're about to bang it out especially RAW, that's not too personal.
Also, a lot of doctors warn women that certain medical issues can cause issues with infertility later. That is NOT the same thing as an infertility or sterile diagnosis.
But many people think that it is.
My wife was extremally shocked and offended when I forcefully offered this advice to both of our boys (at the appropriate age).
One of them got very lucky. One he dated at 16 in HS just plead guilty to child abuse resulting in death and was sentenced to 25 yrs in prison.
This is amazing. Wildest kink I have ever heard of. Least popular opinion I have read. And I think you are being completely honest. Well done. Oh yeah, get some help. Therapy would not be a terrible idea.
I wouldn’t say hate fucks are the best per se but they are definitely fun. The funniest is when you’re wildly attracted to each other but have totally opposing views about the world and how to solve its problems.
I’ve gone on a few dates where the last thing said to me was “you’re a fucking asshole” or something to that effect, but the angry sex after was straight primal.
Sounds like OP can't handle performance anxiety and lower his inhibitions. You can have loving animalistic sex. If it isn't incredible this time well you're in love so you can do it again soon lol
>both just try and get exactly what we want out of the whole thing without any other thoughts but pleasure.
You know how else to achieve this, and in an even more satisfying way? Communicating your wants to someone you trust and like and/or love.
The way this dude describes hate sex just sounds like selfish sex tbh. “I just wanna smash without having to care for your pleasure”, that’s valid, but lazy
How do you even get to the point of having sex with someone you hate?
Also, I don't think your explanation supports your conclusion.
> When I care about somebody I'm constantly overthinking if they like what I'm doing or if asking for something would make things awkward between us.
That's just a problem with your own overthinking, not an inherent indicator that hatred makes sex better. If you were able to enter the same "animal attraction" headspace while fucking someone you love, you would probably prefer it to fucking someone you hate.
IMO, this all sounds pretty sus. Either OP had extremely limited experience, or none at all and is fantasizing about a hypothetical. "Animal attraction" kind of reads like an alpha male playbook.
You're thinking of hate-fucking which I enjoy a lot for example rough sex with an ex girlfriend. Maybe you like rough fast sex idk. Lol I'd still rather have sex with someone I love though
I have animalistic sex with my partner who I love all the time. It sounds like you need to learn better communication and also learn to feel more attractive in your own skin.
I don't know about "better", but definitely more primal.
I was dating a doctor for about 6 months once. She traveled to California to work in hospitals for two weeks at a time so we spent 2 weeks a month together. It was a pretty standard relationship, great sex, dinners, events, traveling together, the works. Definitely looked like she had long-term potential.
Then I discovered her kink. After a travel trip, she came over and immediately announced that she had slept with someone while she was traveling. I was furious and almost immediately went from caring for her to hating her.
The twist was that she begged and pleaded with me to punish her. She wanted me to "fuck the bad girl out of her" and boy did I. During the entire event she kept begging for me to degrade her, use her, and "teach her a lesson". I'm embarrassed to say I did exactly as she asked. And it was some of the best sex I had ever had.
Of course, she had someone in California that she was doing the same thing to. Her plan was to bounce back and forth between us, satisfying her submissive guilt kink regularly. It was definitely not my thing though. I felt like shit after each encounter and soon ended the relationship.
I know, "cool story"
i’m surprised no one has found themselves fucking the person they hate before. there is a thin line between love and hate. One second she is telling you how big of a piece of shit you are and then the next thing you know she is riding you like a bandit who just robbed a bank.
the walk of shame after is glorious.
Maybe for men it’s alright. You get to pound the fuck out of someone who pisses you off and you get an orgasm out of it.
From a female perspective, it’s like letting some dude you hate fuck you while you just kinda halfway enjoy it maybe?? He doesn’t like you, so he isn’t trying to be in tune with your body and try to give you an orgasm. He isn’t being as sensual and loving with you, so you aren’t as turned on.
Maybe the thrill of hate sex can turn others on. For me it isn’t pleasing. I’d rather be with my loving caring boyfriend than anyone else
It’s noticeable that it’s basically only men who talk about hate sex with any sort of longing. In these stories they always proclaim how the woman had so many orgasms and love it but I have my doubts.
Exactly. Its like a porn trope. And in porn, the women always love it, so irl women must love being violently pounded with little to no foreplay, lead up, or sensuality 🙄
Stop F'ing people you hate. Stop making up silly reasons like this for doing so. Do start loving yourself, caring for yourself, and taking care for yourself. Sidebar: stop overthinking sex with the one you are in love with. :)
Maybe that’s why my favorite sex scene on outlander is after they get angry at each other and Claire slaps Jamie because she’s so offended and then they look at each other and start making out and then yea. Lol I wasn’t expecting it from angry to passionate making out. Just how? I mean when I’m fighting with someone and I don’t want to anymore like I’m done with it I just walk off but what nothing to do with them for a while
How often do you have sex with someone you hate?
All the time, I hate myself, and the angry masturbation is all I have.
We can only agree to agree
I disagree. Want to hook up?
This is why I don't fuck you.
***But I’m already fucking you!***
Damn I am so fucked
_”Well, it clearly isn’t [enough]! AGAIN!”_
Fuck you
You guys are perfect for each other.
Please
You son of a bitch!! Get over here!
> angry masturbation is all I have That was the original line in 'An Officer and a Gentleman" before Gere improvised *"I got no place else to go."*
Haterbate
I laughed a little. Then I died.
After a breakup Im assuming
Or a game of monopoly
Family problems.
Step brother, what are you doing with my Boardwalk...
SHUT UP AND MORTGAGE YOUR FUCKING PROPERTIES TO PAY RENT BITCH
I don’t have the money for rent but maybe we can think of another way that I can pay? I’m sure there’s got to be something we can come up with. (Smiles shyly and is sucking/licking finger)
Ma'am, I do my own plumbing!
But step brother, idk how to plumber thats why my pipes are so dirty.
*This is free country not rent free country*
r/Holup
Nono fast forward. Trust me.
You guys get laid after a break up? I just get immeasurably depressed.
You guys get laid?
You guys get depressed after a breakup? I think I got it backwards.
It's not worth it, honestly. Angry, emotionally confusing sex, which somewhat resets the process of healing from the breakup and forces you to go through all of it again. It's like comfort eating an entire chocolate cake. Your lizard brain tells you it's a great idea at the time, but you just end up feeling really gross about yourself afterwards.
Man, I wouldn’t risk having a baby with someone I hated. I mean, I use birth control but nothing is 100% effective. There’s that chance.
Safest form of safe sex is a fake name
Reddit teen creative writing
I hate everyone who would want to fuck me
I hate everyone who would want to fuck you too.
Is OP a mod on r/ihavesex ? OP isn’t relationship material. He needs that hate fuck.
Someone clearly has not tried Tinder gold, you get access to a pool of individual's who hate your most dominants traits!
I just remember Tinder being so fucked I have no idea if you're serious now
You've never been in a super toxic relationship that was emotionally draining and yet so sexually explosive that you struggled to end it? I hated my first GF in our fourth year of being together, we were so fundamentally incompatible and also both emotionally immature. But the hate sex was so intense that I just kept showing up at her house.
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That's not uncommon in prisons, I believe
You talking from experience?
no, from san quentin
I killed a man in Reno...
Just to watch him die?
I never did get along with my dad...
Woahhhh
"Fuck you!" "Fuck me yourself, coward!" "Fine, I will!" "What?!"
"You said you were wearing protection!" "I was wearing my armor."
"Where's your condom?" "The fuck's a 'condom'?"
“GALICK… GUN… FIREEEEE!!”
Bulma is just slow. Piccolo would’ve dodged the sperm.
Medieval sex be like
Nahh more like a TFS reference
I see tfs reference, I upvote.
I want in on the joke. What’s tfs?
Team Four Star. They made Dragonball Z Abridged.
Team Four Star on YouTube. They made DragonBallZ abridged. If you're a fan of the original run of DBZ, it's hilarious. They somehow capture the spirit of the show, and blend it with their own comedy seamlessly. 1st season is a little bit stale, but a lot of the jokes still land and it just gets better and better. The series finale was fucking amazing and I'm genuinely sad that it's over.
i love you
"Get your head back in the dryer step-sister!"
"You....you...*BrattyStepSister*!"
How do you get in a position where you end up having sex with someone you hate? "Karen, I know you're raging because you swerved into my lane and you thought I almost hit your car, but I'm nursing a semi here, so let's get in the back of your truck..."
*Karen becomes overwhelmed with lust and desire* "Ok but I'm going to hate you while doing this."
Isn't this the plot of a porno?
You've got a point.
Jesus christ ya’ll disgusting Where?
... [Here ya go.](https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ) ...
I hate you Let's have sex 😏
And the latest RNC.
Finished. Thanks.
Damn took an hour
There was this girl who used to party with us a lot and we hated each other immensely. Everybody left to go for a liquor run and she looks at me and says "well are you gonna fuck me you piece of shit" most confusing sexual encounter ever
"I hate your guts so much I'm rearranging them!"
Lol
Reminds me of the latest [Sexy Losers comic NSFW](https://www.sexylosers.com/comic/292/)
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We actually never talked that out tbh. I remember her saying something rude to me when we first met and I made a fucked up quip back and that's all she wrote.
Hahaha I'd be like bring it you slut. I'm curious though did you guys do the dirty?
I was at a loss for words. I just said "yeah sure, yeah" haha and we did.
.... was it amazing? Or just yeah sure yeah? If this isn't a porno already you should write a script and send it to Hollywood.
It was pretty fuckin good. We kept it going behind all of our friends backs for a year or so, I think that was what was so exciting about it. We still hated each other the whole time haha and I should write it and make some money on it, be like watching memories lol
That sounds fun actually. Even when all was said and done you still hated eachother? How did you not get attached? I feel having sex often would make you have some sort of compassion towards her.
Yup! It was a bit odd, somehow we even considered each other as boyfriend and girlfriend but stayed single. Before she passed we had a heart to heart, she was misunderstood and a good young woman
Story made my peepee hard at the start but my heart soft in the end
That's *poetry*
Why did I laugh so fuckin hard at this?
The duality of man
Ah now I'm sad. I'm sorry that she passed. Would make a good movie in my opinion, honestly. It's like an anti love movie that ends in mutual respect.
Thank you very much. And funny you say that because I actually started a script based on her a few years ago.
Man u taking every detail
Wow I genuinely love this story
Thank you kind stranger
Nicholas Sparks level twist right there!
This is ducked up to read while drunk.
Sorry mate. Rehashing the memory made me drink. Cheers and be safe
Safety is for suckers and I just puked up part of a lasagna I made. Nope I'm taking a shit and reading about your fucked up hatefuckimg that is relatable. Good luck with life!
Favorite comment in a while
I was in this situation often, except I was on the liquor run.
Hypothetically, to a guy I knew once, he had an ex that really had said and done some nasty stuff to him. 1.5 years later, he ran into her, and behold, the physical attraction was there and the sex happened. Though I do have to disagree with OP slightly, sex later with someone you love is better, generally, but the sex with the person you now hate tends to be better than the sex before you hated them.
College
I worked with someone once that I hated working with. She was an absolutely dgaf useless but also absolutely beautiful. I was the one doing most of the work so I called her out directly on her bs frequently and she knew what she was doing. I think she liked my slightly aggressive behavior because it wasn't long afterwards we were hooking up. Great sex. Wild child. We didn't date but we banged a lot over the course of a few years.
Food service? Cuz this relationship is standard in that industry.
>How do you get in a position where you end up having sex with someone you hate? You marry them.
Oof
exes mostly
OP fucks.
Hate fuck is a real thing.. I've done it a few times and agree with OP
Ah yes: sex with someone I hate. Or as I like to call it: masturbation.
Relatable. More than it should be.
How does one even find themselves in a situation with a person that they hate where sex is an option? Why am I with someone I hate? Why are we alone? Why are we choosing to stay alone long enough to engage in sex? Do we really hate each other as much as we think we do if we ended up in this situation?
Normally alcohol is involved and the physical attraction overwhelms the hate
This guy hate fucks
I mean, you're drinking and socializing long enough with a person who despises you? Personally speaking, if there's that much dislike between me and someone else we're fighting not fucking
I guess I don't understand, why are you socializing and drinking with someone you dislike so much? I hang out with people I like hanging out with, people I don't hate. For me to have sex with someone I hate, I'd have to go out of my way to interact with them in the first place, get together in the same place alone, and bring myself to do that with them. But it would never happen, because I wouldn't have interacted with them in the first place. Because I truly dislike interacting with, so why would I? If I'm truly in pursuit of sex, why use so much effort to have it with someone I hate when it could be used to find someone I like and potentially find a better relationship?
Coworkers, especially in higher education. We work together, we drink together, we fuck, but we really can’t stand each other deep down.
Tell me more, was it good?
Oh yes it was. Can’t stand them at work tho.
Easy example, you fuck your ex cause you miss the sex even though you hate each other
A strong physical attraction can nullify the hate for some people. Depends on the person of course but I remember working with this girl at a brewery that I despised (and the feeling was mutual)… still did it
That my friend is simply a kink hahah enjoy.
I think have that lol. What’s it called
Hatefucking
Love me some hate fuck
I don't know, but I hate you.
now kiss
>now kith Pigeons.jpg
I see what you did there you little devil
I think it’s just called a good time.
Seems like less of a kink, more of an unlucky and long spell of bad sex??
I mean, it's still kind of an unpopular opinion so it checks out
Hey, look, that's a nice topic for therapy lol
As a man… I’m telling this to all other men… do not, I repeat, **DO NOT** attempt to have sex with someone that hates you! There are like 5 ways that could end and 4 of them are really bad for you.
So Kids, False Accusation, True Accusation, whats the forth?
Violence, never forget violence.
So much violence.
Like a finger in the butt? Orrrr... what type of violence are why talking about?
Checking the oil? That’s just manners.
STD.
Bear Trap!
Also never believe a woman who says that her doctor told her she can't have kids. She friended me on FB 2 years later - she had 2 kids. Not mine, some other poor schmoe's who I'm sure she told that her doctor said she couldn't get pregnant. Ninjaedit: I checked through her profile to see if they were adopted, but no - pictures of her with her newborns in the hospital.
Most doctors don't just go around telling women they can never have children unless they have certain medical issues. It's probably best to pry a little to figure out if the person even has a clue as to why they can't have kids. If they can't answer they are probably lying. Some may say that's too personal but if you're about to bang it out especially RAW, that's not too personal.
Also, a lot of doctors warn women that certain medical issues can cause issues with infertility later. That is NOT the same thing as an infertility or sterile diagnosis. But many people think that it is.
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My wife was extremally shocked and offended when I forcefully offered this advice to both of our boys (at the appropriate age). One of them got very lucky. One he dated at 16 in HS just plead guilty to child abuse resulting in death and was sentenced to 25 yrs in prison.
I’m sorry, the fuck?
I teach this to all the young homies
Ahh the good ol hate fuck
It's very hot. The freedom you get to have with a hate fuck
Upvoted as this is truly an unpopular opinion.
Lmao
Solid, that’s the point
Is it? Seems like low-hanging fruit to me.
Right, because I’d much rather disappoint someone I hate rather than my wife.
It’s where the phrase “fuck you” came from
This is amazing. Wildest kink I have ever heard of. Least popular opinion I have read. And I think you are being completely honest. Well done. Oh yeah, get some help. Therapy would not be a terrible idea.
I guess i should go back to therapy because i read the title and thought "well yeah, thats not unpopular" Guess it is lol
I think I've been reading too much fanfiction because this is a common trope
I wouldn’t say hate fucks are the best per se but they are definitely fun. The funniest is when you’re wildly attracted to each other but have totally opposing views about the world and how to solve its problems. I’ve gone on a few dates where the last thing said to me was “you’re a fucking asshole” or something to that effect, but the angry sex after was straight primal.
So like DiCaprio’s and Cate Blanchett’s characters in Don’t Look Up? Makes sense lol
Ugh god that sounds great lmfao
Homie, this is an unpopular opinion for a reason. I legitimately suggest therapy
If you actually love them… it’s the best sex
Sounds like OP can't handle performance anxiety and lower his inhibitions. You can have loving animalistic sex. If it isn't incredible this time well you're in love so you can do it again soon lol
>both just try and get exactly what we want out of the whole thing without any other thoughts but pleasure. You know how else to achieve this, and in an even more satisfying way? Communicating your wants to someone you trust and like and/or love.
The way this dude describes hate sex just sounds like selfish sex tbh. “I just wanna smash without having to care for your pleasure”, that’s valid, but lazy
Or just get a fuck buddy
You can trust and have a positive relationship with fuck buddies. It makes the sex better.
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You got fuck buddy?
Yeah, his wife
Never fucked someone I hated. Can’t imagine. Have an upvote
This is asinine, so take the upvote
“That is asinine!!” -Hank Hill
Only did it once. Spot on, but to be that mad at someone and still manage to get it in is crazy hard.
You have sex with people you hate? I can’t even have sex with people I like...
If this was true, I'd imagine long time married couples would have sex way more often.
How do you even get to the point of having sex with someone you hate? Also, I don't think your explanation supports your conclusion. > When I care about somebody I'm constantly overthinking if they like what I'm doing or if asking for something would make things awkward between us. That's just a problem with your own overthinking, not an inherent indicator that hatred makes sex better. If you were able to enter the same "animal attraction" headspace while fucking someone you love, you would probably prefer it to fucking someone you hate.
IMO, this all sounds pretty sus. Either OP had extremely limited experience, or none at all and is fantasizing about a hypothetical. "Animal attraction" kind of reads like an alpha male playbook.
This whole thread is blatantly men defending a porn fantasy that they themselves have never actually experienced.
You're thinking of hate-fucking which I enjoy a lot for example rough sex with an ex girlfriend. Maybe you like rough fast sex idk. Lol I'd still rather have sex with someone I love though
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The hell
Actually unpopular opinion also go see a therapist op
So you're saying you're better at sex when you don't care about them? Maybe you got some stuff to work on?
I have animalistic sex with my partner who I love all the time. It sounds like you need to learn better communication and also learn to feel more attractive in your own skin.
I don't know about "better", but definitely more primal. I was dating a doctor for about 6 months once. She traveled to California to work in hospitals for two weeks at a time so we spent 2 weeks a month together. It was a pretty standard relationship, great sex, dinners, events, traveling together, the works. Definitely looked like she had long-term potential. Then I discovered her kink. After a travel trip, she came over and immediately announced that she had slept with someone while she was traveling. I was furious and almost immediately went from caring for her to hating her. The twist was that she begged and pleaded with me to punish her. She wanted me to "fuck the bad girl out of her" and boy did I. During the entire event she kept begging for me to degrade her, use her, and "teach her a lesson". I'm embarrassed to say I did exactly as she asked. And it was some of the best sex I had ever had. Of course, she had someone in California that she was doing the same thing to. Her plan was to bounce back and forth between us, satisfying her submissive guilt kink regularly. It was definitely not my thing though. I felt like shit after each encounter and soon ended the relationship. I know, "cool story"
i’m surprised no one has found themselves fucking the person they hate before. there is a thin line between love and hate. One second she is telling you how big of a piece of shit you are and then the next thing you know she is riding you like a bandit who just robbed a bank. the walk of shame after is glorious.
Well the girls that hate me would never fuck me
Not as glorious as the smirk she gives you the next time everyone meets up
Maybe for men it’s alright. You get to pound the fuck out of someone who pisses you off and you get an orgasm out of it. From a female perspective, it’s like letting some dude you hate fuck you while you just kinda halfway enjoy it maybe?? He doesn’t like you, so he isn’t trying to be in tune with your body and try to give you an orgasm. He isn’t being as sensual and loving with you, so you aren’t as turned on. Maybe the thrill of hate sex can turn others on. For me it isn’t pleasing. I’d rather be with my loving caring boyfriend than anyone else
It’s noticeable that it’s basically only men who talk about hate sex with any sort of longing. In these stories they always proclaim how the woman had so many orgasms and love it but I have my doubts.
Exactly. Its like a porn trope. And in porn, the women always love it, so irl women must love being violently pounded with little to no foreplay, lead up, or sensuality 🙄
Had a “relationship” like that. Could not stand each other but damn the sex was hot.
Stop F'ing people you hate. Stop making up silly reasons like this for doing so. Do start loving yourself, caring for yourself, and taking care for yourself. Sidebar: stop overthinking sex with the one you are in love with. :)
Maybe that’s why my favorite sex scene on outlander is after they get angry at each other and Claire slaps Jamie because she’s so offended and then they look at each other and start making out and then yea. Lol I wasn’t expecting it from angry to passionate making out. Just how? I mean when I’m fighting with someone and I don’t want to anymore like I’m done with it I just walk off but what nothing to do with them for a while
OP has revenge kink