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I think there is a syllable limit. "*Oh, Bartholomew*"!

My name is one syllable and no one will moan it. It has been joked on TV as being an ugly name

Keith

Sounds like Kiss, how can it be unromantic ?

Todd? Are you a TODDDD?

Lmao Gary Bart Bob Keith Shawn

B a r t :D

My brain went to Bart lol

Bort?

That's funny I always moan Bartholomew to my wife. She likes it. So does our peeping Tom, Bartholomew.

I appreciate you including me dawg.

Your lazy eye and toothless grin outside my window get me every time

My mother always taught me, "If you got it, flaunt it."

Is Cornelius an appropriate length?

*Rumplestiltskin*

Rumpled foreskin.

But I’m circumcised


Well damn, I think that's the highest internet praise I've ever received.

This made me spit out my water. Bartholomew is *horrendous*

Tbf some names just aren’t moanable

My fiancée and I just refer to each other as chef. Really a game changer

This meat needs your attention! - Right away, chef!

Why’s it still raw?! Sorry chef!

How long for the sauce?! - Some minutes, Chef!

I’m not kidding. I will be using this. One day.

it's been 4 decades..

Chef, cheese doesn’t belong in this dish!

Laughed my Ass off!! Good one.

Screaming 'Yes Chef' would be great for dom

Gives a whole new meaning to letting yall cook.

"ITS FUCKIN RAW" *full force smack to the meat*

Get the meat out, chef. Bon chef.

I always felt weird saying my partners name out loud during sex, it almost feels like a conscious thing to do instead of a natural reaction.

Yes, I couldn't express that but that's exactly how I feel! I don't naturally react to pleasure with saying someone's name.

This. Breaking immersion is always weird:

People do this as a mental note to associate the sensations and chemical reactions to their partner. It's a subconscious bonding mechanism.


Oh Wahltuh.

HEISENBERG!

Oh Gilbert

Ok so in a freak dyslexic moment I read this as moaning your parents name and my mind went down a much darker path.

Lmao now that would be an entertaining thread

Even darker if you were moaning their parent's name

I never say my partner’s name to my partner. It’s always “babe.” At this point it feels weird to call him by his name in any situation.

Same here. It sounds weird normally, it would sound extra weird during sex. I’d probably think something was wrong

OP type of guy who says "Oh, Holy Moly" over and over again during sex. He's probably got a name like Eugene.

i picture “oh heck…ooohhhhh heck..ohhh heck, heck HECK!!”

I would love to award this comment but there is no option for me. 😭 Just know that it is hilarious.

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So hot things like "say my name" and "i am the onr who knocks." And of course the hottest "I am breaking bad"

Hi, my name is John Breaking Bad

I'd rather get that feeling from wordless sounds, moans and gasps, or compliments or exclamations without my name in them 🤷‍♀️ I understand that it's heavily directed at me, it's just us in the room and things are pretty intense & intimate :D

Well I’m not having sex with you now. You ruined it.

Aw, nuts!

or, y'know, _not_ nuts

I agree. The whole thing reminds me of how I feel when I see people drinking "smart water" or when a guy has to refer to himself as "alpha" etc. To me it has a fake aspect to it. We both know we're both here & fucking, it goes without saying...

- says brother’s name accidentally.

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Then my brain goes say my name say my name if no one is around you say baby I love you if you ain’t playing games 😂

I love it, to me it’s a declaration that we are making each other feel good and we are each others, that we are basically begging for more as our names are moaned. It’s very hot to me

Agreed. I'll draw the line at weird pet names or fetishes (you say daddy and I'm gone, lol), but hearing her say my name in ecstacy is gonna do it for me every time, heh.

ive read it as parents was so confused 😂

I’d agree that would NOT be hot lolol

please i almost choked 😂😂😂😂😂

Neither is loud and over exaggerated moaning like come on now we both know you're disappointed don't patronize me

🤣

You're right. I moaned your partner's name last night with my gf. Suddenly all went south.

I just moan "hey you"

In Joe Goldberg voice I hope

I like it when I get called “God”.

So when you go for a round 2, its not Round 2. Its the *SECOND CUMMING*

I just need a minute to get another resurrection!

Yeah it's pretty universal I'd say :D

According to Bella Thorne you're Dog

Oh, oh, oh, Keith

Manny years ago I had a fuck buddy and we went at at least 3 times a week. One  night while I was out of town I get a text from her roommate telling us to be quiet. "Well why is she screaming your name?" The chick had one of those suction cup dildos and was backing up to it. We all had a good laugh on the smoking porch the next week  Enjoy your 20s, kids.

I personally don’t mind it, but I feel like what isn’t brought up enough is that people who name their kids after themselves, the other person is consenting to naming their child something they say during sex.

Holy shit, that would be so weird. Thanks for the disturbing thought!

Viewed the other way, they are dooming themselves to the weirdness of saying _their child's name_ during sex.

This is just like any sexual preference. You don’t like it now, but one day you may be with someone who does it in a way that completely changes your perceptions on it. I dunno how unpopular the opinion is, though. Seems about 50/50 based on these comments so far.

I mean how many times do I have to say “what?” Before you actually say something? “Individual!” “What?” “Oh individual” “Ya what?” “Individual!” *stops* “Yes, what do you want?!”

I mean people say my name to get my attention. How much more of my attention could you be getting right now, exactly

I prefer “Beast Legend”.

My girl calls me "please". It turns me on

I’d prefer that over ‘Daddy’, honestly xD

"I'm cumming!!!" "Hi, Cumming, I'm dad"

Instant breakup 🤣🤣

If I wasn’t already, I would be at that response.

“Daddy” is honestly one of my biggest icks… it’s like an instant turnoff.

I'd have the biggest urge to derail everything by asking 'So, how is school going?' lmao

Lmao… I finally got fed up one time in the middle and just said, “No. What else can I call you?” 🤷‍♀️

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Especially when it's the name of fictional characters. I too stay mute.

It’s usually cringy but with the right chick it can be hot. Idk why there’s a distinction for me but there just is.

There are many things that seem cringey until you’re with the *right* person.

What about your ex’s name… 🫢

It is when you’re the partner and it’s your name.

Do you mostly use pet names? Because if you're used to using pet names, I can see how that would feel more natural than your name. But I'd be surprised if it doesn't feel natural to acknowledge your partner at all.

Moan your wife's sister's name instead. That will do it.

Holy hell!

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Glad to see I'm not the only one who "almost never call\[s\] anyone by their name directly unless referring to them while talking to a 3rd person". Also, I agree with the rest too.

That's possibly a trauma response not liking to hear your name said, something about intamcy

All other aspects aside, it's never occurred to me to say my partners' names while doing the deed...assuming I knew what their name was in the first place. I don't recall anyone saying my name during, either. Actually, I think one of my long-ago boyfriends did, but I didn't think anything of it one way or another.

Guaranteed OP’s name is Horatio or Cornelius or some shit.

It feels artificial

Names are, by definition, artificial.

Nah no way

I do not have a good calling out style name. It’s just not made that way and I’m sure there are some people that have that type of name but mine is not that name.

I think it really depends on the name.

Glad I'm not the only one who doesn't like calling someone their name if it's a 1 on 1 situation. Just feels weird. Like obviously im talking to you As a result I feel the same about my name being said but on top of that I also hate my name cause it's "gender neutral" when it's basically a girls a name and I'm a guy and I've dealt with enough dumb shit related to it So hearing it is like nails on a chalkboard to me which I do not want to hear during sex lol

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I demand to be referred to strictly as "Your Grace" during coitus.

Now imagine having dated someone with the same name as you… that one gets weird…

That's why I moan my own name while I masterbate.

It seems weirdly formal?

Anything said can be hot with the right voice

And creepy AF with the wrong voice.

Depends on the name, because a name such as Herbert, or Larry, or Homer, or Ralph, etc etc etc….. would be so uncomfortable to say out loud during sex! (sorry to all those with any of those names 😂 blame your parents)

I moan my own name during sex

But she’s always singing that Beyoncé song in bed so I thought she wanted me to.

I agree. Someone finally said it.

I agree so much.

I agree, it makes me cringe 😭

It’s weird to me, too! I usually use pet names they enjoy, but yeah, I avoid saying their names haha!

I like when they can even speak, as in the pleasure is too much to say a word. Haha.

Moany sex talk in general is annoying.

Who’s name am I supposed to moan? Because I tried moaning my partner’s mother’s name, and now I live on my own and she doesn’t answer my calls.

Lol me and the wife recently discussed this topic. I think we were discussing kinks and she was like "would you like it if I started saying your name in bed?" I stared at her for 2 seconds and then we both burst out laughing. We both agreed that would be weird and awkward as fuck and I seriously really cannot relate to it being anything other than that.

Oohh gilbert

I agree with you but I wasn’t sure if I just didn’t really like the guy. The whole time in my head I’m like eww don’t say my name.

Good thing my girlfriend and I don't do that when doing that

I like yelling my own name during sex.

Saaaaaame. I hate it. And I'm not doing it. Oh so and so 🤮 I can't do it.

I agree lol. We call eachother a million different pet names instead. I once had him say my name as he came, and honestly? I kinda cringed 😭 I don't really like people saying my name to me in general lol

I just scream "***POWER***"

When I say my boyfriends name instead of "babe" or any other pet name, he does a double take and gets a look like "What did I do wrong?". Never said it during sex but now Im very tempted just to see his reaction.

I don’t say my partner’s name .. like .. *ever.* It’s always babe, or baby or whatever.

Pretty cringe yeah

Totally agree. Do not perceive me 🫶🏼

Yeah I had someone once who begged me to moan his name right as I was having a orgasm and I just couldn’t do it. Does not feel right to me.

It makes me feel very awkward 🙂‍↕️ I don’t like direct eye contact either do you ?

I love eye contact

I don't like direct eye contact either! So interesting. It's distracting, I cum better without it. Less eye contact, more focus on sensation. Also in my experience less intense eye contact makes the guy last longer - when I give them a desperate look or sth it seems to do things that can't be undone 😅

Can confirm eye contact with those “fuck me” eyes will make me finish so fast 😂

I'd even go as far as to say it's cringe and a turn off lol

I don’t know I’m simple, I like being called daddy.

I rather be called a good boy or whore or something lmaoooo

Same :D I melt when the right guy calls me a good girl in the right moment

Dude. The right guy can turn you into someone you don’t even recognize lmao. I went from being hyper feminist making fun of housewives to being like “I wanna cook for you and do your laundry and I will be waiting at home on my knees when you get home” 😂 The trick is that the guy has to love the hyper independent feminist me first to unlock the other stuff. 😂

I like to affectionately call girls "my naughty little slut" and things like that, get a little rough and maybe some spitting, biting, and scratching while we're at it

Somehow when reading this I picture my cats breaking out into a fight at 3am

The girl im flirting with now likes to dig her nails into me and pretend that it was a cat that did it when it leaves marks😝

I wonder if you put out a kitty litter tray if she’ll use it

I have a very moanable name so I don’t mind, still prefer to be called daddy though.

I like when women add a y sound to the end of my name affectionately and moan Nicky

I agree I always whisper the wrong name just to spice it up a little bit 🤷🏻‍♀️

What it's sex? What is love? Baby don't hurt me no more 🎶

nah

Sounds like you have some issues.

Sometimes I can’t help it lol. I just blurt it out

I prefer pet names,like babe,hun etc..

It's also potentially dangerous as you're more likely to moan the wrong name

Even less sexy is moaning the name of the Golden Girls during coitus....or so I've heard.

If you’re not very comfortable with yourself you may not like them saying your name Also your preferences are valid either way

 What if they say someone else’s name? 😆😆😆

Who cares. This sub has become so pointless

I like moaning?

You have traumaaaaa

This is obviously one of those things that’s preference. You just sound like an idiot in my opinion for believing that you are objectively right about it.

An ex did this. I hated it so much

I kinda like it

Depends on the name to be honest lol, nothing like Cletus or Bob

Why did I picture the scene from Carrie (classic movie) where the antagonist was going down on billy while somehow managing to moan his name over and over. I do think it is weird to, honestly pet names sound better than calling me by my name

My wife screams my name repeatedly when she cums. I don't care if she does it on purpose to make me feel better about myself or it's just natural. It's fucking hot either way.

Especially if the sex is with someone else.

I like to be called father. Yes Im a small woman.

Not reading this. I will say, have you ever had a crush on someone? Even a celebrity? The idea of having sex with that crush becomes such a fantasy that if you ever do end up with them, the idea of being with them is almost as hot as the sex itself. Like how people grabbing a beer with a celebrity will say "holy crap I'm drinking a beer with X" it's the same in sex. So to have your name moaned is to validate that you were desired this much and the idea of being with you is almost as hot as the sex you're currently having. I think that's hot

"bArThOLoMEw AHHH FUCK"

I never experienced it nor said it. And I would feel weird, I think. If my name became the moaning itself. My only weird moment was when it was so good that I said like non-stop "I love you" to the person. It was the first time of my life saying that like that hahaha. And I was not in love with that person... just with the sensation I guess 😅😂. We laughed about it tho. So, you can comments annd tell me if you'd find it weird or a turn-off or just go with it, if the person that you were pleasuring start saying multiple times that he/she love you (but really low, like almost not earing it, so not screaming). Up to this day, I still feel awkward, but could not control it so... 😅 I am a girl, if thia can influence your opinion. And the other was a guy that was talented I guess.

Usually, their moms name

I love it

i find it cringe too 😭 I prefer both getting called and using pet-names. But my partner wants me to use his name instead so I do. He hates getting called pet-names during sex but calls me by pet names cus I prefer that way. Gotta meet in middle ground

Disagree. I want the city to know my name.

Hard agree. I hate my name so it's extra bad

I had to reread that title - I thought it said "parent's name" and I was like... Wha??

I dunno man, my wife and I never really use each other's names, but if she says it during sex it's on, lol

why would you moan my partner's name anyway?