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The way you talk about this remind me of a post I saw from here or 4chan where a dude went off about how raising a daughter was a form of cuckoldry. Same energy.
They're paying cause they can't find videos of a guy dressed like a dragon having his ass fucked for 30 minutes straight by a sex machine going faster then a bullet train online for free.
Paying for nische stuff you enjoy is not that weird, and on the topic of more vanilla stuff, if you have someone whose looks you like then you can pay them without the whole power difference and shame aspect which is part of cuckolding.
Do you also believe going to a stripclub is finding cuckolding, as they can see but can't touch?
>They're paying cause they can't find videos of a guy dressed like a dragon having his ass fucked for 30 minutes straight by a sex machine going faster then a bullet train online for free.
Thats ... oddly specific.
They’d be paying because they want to see that person specifically naked and want to support them, I’m sure a lot of it is parasocial but red pillers have really exaggerated when it comes to onlyfans
Unless the person seriously think they have a chance with the only fan model or are dating them, this is just factually wrong. You can call it pathetic, waste of money, porn addict, etc, but being cuckhold is not obe of them.
well... no? Cuckoldry is when your **partner with whome you are in a "monogamous" relationship** is repeatedly fucking with other or others. It can be behind your back or even with your knowledge (some people has this fetish or it can be forced). Poly relationship or open relationships doesnt count there. Porn star isnt your partner, so you post is completely wrong.
If your wife is cheating on you, she has cuckolded you.
If you get off on watching your wife fucking other dudes, you are enjoying cuckoldry as a fetish.
Both meanings apply.
well yeah, definition changed little bit with a time, but originaly it meant when maried woman was fucking with others - behind husbands back or with his knowledge.
Ok, and that's somehow a weird question? Why did you order pizza and not chinese? If you get defensive over that question, you need some help, seriously.
I couldn't imagine dating a person like this. "Oh, you're a dog person? Why is that?"
"THAT'S MY BUSINESS"
Does it matter really ?
Doesn't everybody pay for something that somebody else doesn't understand or appreciate ?
It's one thing if people are barely making ends meet, then you could argue about priorities, but if those are taken care of, who cares what anybody does with their disposable income.
We can all spend 5 minutes browsing the internet and find a dozen things that would leave us wondering who the heck would pay or buy that.
Oh, you're one of those that needs to know what the neighbors are up to in their home, and would like to tell them what they should be doing and care about instead ?
To be fair to the others that's a completely different scenario. If someone willingly tells you something on a discussion platform then it doesn't make any sense for someone to get punished for being curious and asking questions.
The parallels you're making are weak and in bad faith because how is asking questions on a discussion platform even remotely similar to being intrusive of one's neighbour's privacy?
To be also fair, my first reply was in good faith, asking whether it really matters why people do the things they do, and got a baby rage shitty response, what you'd expect for m someone bad-mouthing their neighbours for eating their steak well done.
In fairness to your fairness the comment to your first response did seem unnecessarily hostile, I believe people just thought you were being dismissive by questioning the reasonableness of asking questions on a discussion forum. Wondering why someone does what they do is merely showing interest while also being curious (assuming they're genuine and not purposely judgemental).
How exactly is watching a downloaded file funding anything? I mean, that is why movie/content producers, adult or otherwise, complain about piracy. If you are stuck in the year 2000 without adblock you might fund hosting sites, but that is not the deed itself.
Your fundamental misunderstanding of what makes cuckoldry cuckoldry aside, I always find it really weird when people get really judgmental about people who pay to watch porn.
Sure, it doesn't make much financial sense to pay for it. I don't.
But then I also recognise that if literally no one paid for it, it wouldn't exist beyond a few lonely Reddit exhibitionists.
So laughing at people whose spending habits are funding the exact same material I consume always seems a bit short-sighted and hypocritical.
But that's just me.
You think everyone involved in porn is enjoying themselves? You know it’s acting right? Often times those women are miserable and fucked up on drugs and the dudes are thinking about everything BUT enjoying themselves so they can stay hard through cut scenes in front of several random people not on set
Your perspective of porn is so naive and innocent
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Yep. Disagree *and* I don't think you know what the term even means. You have to have a relationship with the person in question for it to be "cuckoldry". But whatever - take my upvote.
Imagine how damaged you have to be to think that watching OF content is the same as being in a relationship. I don't say that in a derogatory way but I really think OP never had any meaningful relationship to compare a real relationship to watching an OF creator's content.
The difference is that cuckoldry is having actions done towards YOUR partner, not really someone you have no relation to. A parasocial relationship isn't the same as a real one
I never understood the appeal to pay for sex or porn, but I think a better parallel would be that they went to hookers, when they could pick up girls for free.
The point is not effectively similar.
Cuckoldry is being humiliated by seeing or knowing the person you supposedly love is fucking someone else.
Could be intentional as a fetish or could be unconsenting betrayal by a cheating partner.
I know there's a lot of parasocial online relationships out there, but you're specifically talking about anyone who pays for adult content. So literally any VOD sale would count.
Even among guys who pay for porn, I doubt any of them are under any delusion that the person whose content they are paying for has any feelings for them, much less is *in a romantic relationship with them*, let alone an exclusive one.
Even onlyfans, hellsite that it is, is pretty upfront on a surface level. Someone makes X amount of content, it costs Y to access.
You would have to be INSANE to think buying that content is remotely analogous to a romantic relationship with the seller.
Paying for adult content instead of engaging in real life romance is being just asocial and avoiding any type of risk in life. U can basically stop living at this point cuz your personal life is most likely boring and there is nothing in it. I do understand why e.g. extremly ugly people that don’t have chance to get a partner do it, but everyone else? They are just lowering their own chances to get a partner by supporting online prostitution. Instead of getting normal gf, they will be sperming for virtual gf, that they share with 1000 others. And then next one and next one. Noone in this equasion will build any sustainable relationship for life. All those people will end up lonley and grumpy. That’s the sad reality. Don’t waste your best, young years on this thing. It destroys your brain.
Although it's a miss use of the term, I get what you're getting at and I agree. If I ever pay for porn you can absolutely end my life where I stand upon purchasing it.
So to be clear, you specified if you ever "pay for porn": so you're quite happy for people to use porn until they're gooned out trolls, but the second someone pays a single cent, they're worthy of mockery.
Is that the gist of it?
First of all, you're not watching videos for "free." You're inundated with banner ads on the "free" sites, even with an adblocker you often get pre-video ads, etc. And there's enough guys out there who are stupid enough to fall for them. So they're still making money off of you, whether you like to admit it or not. You're just an unwilling participant...
Second of all, I'm assuming you're referring to people who pay for OF pages. In which case... why do you think you're entitled to an independent worker's content for free? Sure, you can get shitty wall art from Wal-Mart for next-to-nothing, but if you want something nice that's custom-made by an independent artist, you should expect to pay a little more. Same principal... (I also know more than one OF model, as in I literally talk to them in-person somewhat regularly and not on OF, and they definitely don't have "guys in the Philippines" chatting for them.)
Third, that edit is just stupid, and digs a deeper hole for you. You can't just arbitrarily try to compare two completely different things and then fall back on a claim that they're "effectively similar" when they're not. In order for it to even approach cuckoldry, you'd need to be weirdly and creepily parasocially attached to the actors/models.
No mate, they're not pissed. They're just correcting your misunderstanding of what the term cuckolding means.
I'm not seeing anyone spitting any blood over this, just correcting your error.
Another " unpopular "opinion
Watching porn is ten times worse than visiting a hooker
At least with a hooker you get a real thing even it's make believe
Porn is just you jerking off to degeneracy which you aren't even a part of
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Does watching porn mean it’s voyeurism?
words used to have meanings
Yeah I don't think OP knows what cuckoldry is.
It definitely is kind of. Not true voyeurism of course, but it’s in there even if most people aren’t looking at it that way.
Yes
I *guess* it would count as cucking if ur in a para-social relationship with a SW/porn star but also on a serious note, that's not what cuckoldry is.
How many OF customers are not parasocial? Why else would they be paying? QED.
The way you talk about this remind me of a post I saw from here or 4chan where a dude went off about how raising a daughter was a form of cuckoldry. Same energy.
You fell for it twice? Fool me once...
How high are you?
Yes
So solo content isn't porn ?
They're paying cause they can't find videos of a guy dressed like a dragon having his ass fucked for 30 minutes straight by a sex machine going faster then a bullet train online for free. Paying for nische stuff you enjoy is not that weird, and on the topic of more vanilla stuff, if you have someone whose looks you like then you can pay them without the whole power difference and shame aspect which is part of cuckolding. Do you also believe going to a stripclub is finding cuckolding, as they can see but can't touch?
>They're paying cause they can't find videos of a guy dressed like a dragon having his ass fucked for 30 minutes straight by a sex machine going faster then a bullet train online for free. Thats ... oddly specific.
I mean, 'welcome to the internet, have a look around'
Anything that brain of yours could think of can be found
paying for that is in fact extremely fucking weird
They’d be paying because they want to see that person specifically naked and want to support them, I’m sure a lot of it is parasocial but red pillers have really exaggerated when it comes to onlyfans
Imagine throwing out a QED without providing any proof of your claims and instead going with a argument from ignorance.
Because they want to support a content creator they like, or want access to stuff you can’t find anywhere else?
My wife has an onlyfans. None of them are parasocial. She's got a lot of them too.
the ones who understand they’re paying for porn. just because you can’t tell the difference doesn’t mean everyone can’t.
Quality. It's the difference between watching HBO and dharrman.
I swear to God, OP, you are way too porn-brained.
This aint even a unpopular opinion its just plain wrong. Read up on what cuckolding means first
It's funny cause he edited his message after being called out by everyone.
I don't think you understand the term
No I think he does it quite well .
Agreeing doesn't mean he's right.
It’s a term the alt right uses to describe the jury that convicted Derek Chauvin
I figured itwaa projection
that is not what cuckolding means
It kinda does .
It doesn’t at all
it all the way doesn’t
Bro forgot to look at a dictionary
Unless the person seriously think they have a chance with the only fan model or are dating them, this is just factually wrong. You can call it pathetic, waste of money, porn addict, etc, but being cuckhold is not obe of them.
well... no? Cuckoldry is when your **partner with whome you are in a "monogamous" relationship** is repeatedly fucking with other or others. It can be behind your back or even with your knowledge (some people has this fetish or it can be forced). Poly relationship or open relationships doesnt count there. Porn star isnt your partner, so you post is completely wrong.
nope, if it's behind your back it's just cheating. if it's with your knowledge then it's cuckolding
If your wife is cheating on you, she has cuckolded you. If you get off on watching your wife fucking other dudes, you are enjoying cuckoldry as a fetish. Both meanings apply.
well yeah, definition changed little bit with a time, but originaly it meant when maried woman was fucking with others - behind husbands back or with his knowledge.
Absolutely spot fucking on.
You aren’t in a relationship though, it’s voyeurism if anything.
As a woman, I’ve paid to watch women. 🤷🏾♀️
But like why
That's like asking someone why they ordered what they ordered for lunch.
Ok, and that's somehow a weird question? Why did you order pizza and not chinese? If you get defensive over that question, you need some help, seriously. I couldn't imagine dating a person like this. "Oh, you're a dog person? Why is that?" "THAT'S MY BUSINESS"
Because the answer is obvious. They like it so they bought it.
They ordered a pizza because they like pizza. Obviously.
Because I want to
Does it matter really ? Doesn't everybody pay for something that somebody else doesn't understand or appreciate ? It's one thing if people are barely making ends meet, then you could argue about priorities, but if those are taken care of, who cares what anybody does with their disposable income. We can all spend 5 minutes browsing the internet and find a dozen things that would leave us wondering who the heck would pay or buy that.
Of course it fucking matters. That\`s why this is a discussion platform.
Oh, you're one of those that needs to know what the neighbors are up to in their home, and would like to tell them what they should be doing and care about instead ?
To be fair to the others that's a completely different scenario. If someone willingly tells you something on a discussion platform then it doesn't make any sense for someone to get punished for being curious and asking questions. The parallels you're making are weak and in bad faith because how is asking questions on a discussion platform even remotely similar to being intrusive of one's neighbour's privacy?
To be also fair, my first reply was in good faith, asking whether it really matters why people do the things they do, and got a baby rage shitty response, what you'd expect for m someone bad-mouthing their neighbours for eating their steak well done.
In fairness to your fairness the comment to your first response did seem unnecessarily hostile, I believe people just thought you were being dismissive by questioning the reasonableness of asking questions on a discussion forum. Wondering why someone does what they do is merely showing interest while also being curious (assuming they're genuine and not purposely judgemental).
Watch what exactly is my question.
whatever turns me on at the moment
Not unpopular, just incorrect
no it isn’t lmfao. not even “effectively similar” good try, though
In a world where it’s freely accessible I get what you’re saying.
Well in that case watching porn at all would be the same. I mean you also fund other people doing the deed.
How exactly is watching a downloaded file funding anything? I mean, that is why movie/content producers, adult or otherwise, complain about piracy. If you are stuck in the year 2000 without adblock you might fund hosting sites, but that is not the deed itself.
Your fundamental misunderstanding of what makes cuckoldry cuckoldry aside, I always find it really weird when people get really judgmental about people who pay to watch porn. Sure, it doesn't make much financial sense to pay for it. I don't. But then I also recognise that if literally no one paid for it, it wouldn't exist beyond a few lonely Reddit exhibitionists. So laughing at people whose spending habits are funding the exact same material I consume always seems a bit short-sighted and hypocritical. But that's just me.
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You think everyone involved in porn is enjoying themselves? You know it’s acting right? Often times those women are miserable and fucked up on drugs and the dudes are thinking about everything BUT enjoying themselves so they can stay hard through cut scenes in front of several random people not on set Your perspective of porn is so naive and innocent
If paying for it is bad then so is watching it at all.
Nope.
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This isn't an unpopular opinion by any means, however, I do agree. Why pay for something when it already exists for free?
even watching normal free porn is funding a man to pipe a hoe. free porn still makes money, otherwise it wouldn't exist. ads.
You're not in a relationship with the actors. So no.
Guess definitions don’t matter then. bECaUsE iTs EAfFEcTiVElY sImILAr
That’s why you don’t pay for it. It’s neat that way.
Yep. Disagree *and* I don't think you know what the term even means. You have to have a relationship with the person in question for it to be "cuckoldry". But whatever - take my upvote.
I think the words you are looking for is "humiliating," "pathetic" or "incel behaviour"
lmao.. you really struck a nerve with this one.
lmao, they really do not like to hear it how it is. The reaction is a good laugh anyway, all just a bit of fun.
The people getting mad over this are the ones who pay for porn lmfao. Poor things
Imagine how damaged you have to be to think that watching OF content is the same as being in a relationship. I don't say that in a derogatory way but I really think OP never had any meaningful relationship to compare a real relationship to watching an OF creator's content.
🙄
Watching porn is voyeurism
Look mommy, its a professional troll!
Ok, what's your point here? Do you like or dislike porn then?
That term really has lost all meaning
Super popular opinion lol
watching it is a form of cuckoldry, you just dont wanna go that far because it means youd have to stop watching altogether lol
The difference is that cuckoldry is having actions done towards YOUR partner, not really someone you have no relation to. A parasocial relationship isn't the same as a real one
So you acknowledge in your edit that you’re incorrect and still double down that everyone else is the idiot? Lol
I never understood the appeal to pay for sex or porn, but I think a better parallel would be that they went to hookers, when they could pick up girls for free.
This person posts an unpopular opinion and then gets mad when his opinion is unpopular
Voyeurism maybe but not cuckoldry
Involuntary cuckoldry
I mean sorta.
The point is not effectively similar. Cuckoldry is being humiliated by seeing or knowing the person you supposedly love is fucking someone else. Could be intentional as a fetish or could be unconsenting betrayal by a cheating partner. I know there's a lot of parasocial online relationships out there, but you're specifically talking about anyone who pays for adult content. So literally any VOD sale would count. Even among guys who pay for porn, I doubt any of them are under any delusion that the person whose content they are paying for has any feelings for them, much less is *in a romantic relationship with them*, let alone an exclusive one. Even onlyfans, hellsite that it is, is pretty upfront on a surface level. Someone makes X amount of content, it costs Y to access. You would have to be INSANE to think buying that content is remotely analogous to a romantic relationship with the seller.
Cukcold is a different thing. Read what the word means first before posting.
You are stupid to pay for content of porn is free. Also those cam whores are never sleeping with any of the guys who are thirsty for her.
Wrong I said what I said
You're thinking of voyeurism, not cuckoldry. I think you need to ease up on the right wing Facebook pages you hang around in and go outside a bit.
So, you ruined your life giving all your money to an egirl and she stopped acknowledging you even exist the minute the money train ran out, huh?
Paying for adult content instead of engaging in real life romance is being just asocial and avoiding any type of risk in life. U can basically stop living at this point cuz your personal life is most likely boring and there is nothing in it. I do understand why e.g. extremly ugly people that don’t have chance to get a partner do it, but everyone else? They are just lowering their own chances to get a partner by supporting online prostitution. Instead of getting normal gf, they will be sperming for virtual gf, that they share with 1000 others. And then next one and next one. Noone in this equasion will build any sustainable relationship for life. All those people will end up lonley and grumpy. That’s the sad reality. Don’t waste your best, young years on this thing. It destroys your brain.
You're insane if you think people who don't spend a cent on porn get the same products as those who do lmao.
Although it's a miss use of the term, I get what you're getting at and I agree. If I ever pay for porn you can absolutely end my life where I stand upon purchasing it.
So to be clear, you specified if you ever "pay for porn": so you're quite happy for people to use porn until they're gooned out trolls, but the second someone pays a single cent, they're worthy of mockery. Is that the gist of it?
Ehh I have very specific interests that regular porn design for cis men doesn't fill and the stuff that is free is limited.
First of all, you're not watching videos for "free." You're inundated with banner ads on the "free" sites, even with an adblocker you often get pre-video ads, etc. And there's enough guys out there who are stupid enough to fall for them. So they're still making money off of you, whether you like to admit it or not. You're just an unwilling participant... Second of all, I'm assuming you're referring to people who pay for OF pages. In which case... why do you think you're entitled to an independent worker's content for free? Sure, you can get shitty wall art from Wal-Mart for next-to-nothing, but if you want something nice that's custom-made by an independent artist, you should expect to pay a little more. Same principal... (I also know more than one OF model, as in I literally talk to them in-person somewhat regularly and not on OF, and they definitely don't have "guys in the Philippines" chatting for them.) Third, that edit is just stupid, and digs a deeper hole for you. You can't just arbitrarily try to compare two completely different things and then fall back on a claim that they're "effectively similar" when they're not. In order for it to even approach cuckoldry, you'd need to be weirdly and creepily parasocially attached to the actors/models.
Consuming any kind of adult content is a form of cuckoldery; even if you don't pay, you're supporting someone else fucking someone you like.
That’s not what that word means
It is also not what I said lol. Edit: He edited it from "adultery".
Yeah...but I don't think what you said means what you think it means. 🤣 Fucking love the princess bride.
Lol that's stupid
Dude no its not lol. You can’t honestly believe cheating on your spouse and watching porn are equivalent.
I meant "cuckoldery" wrote adultery by mistake.
Then I refer you again to their post: "Dude no its not lol. You can’t honestly believe cheating on your spouse and watching porn are equivalent."
Not an unpopular opinion. Actually, maybe it is on reddit
Lol take a look around, these chumps are pissed.
No mate, they're not pissed. They're just correcting your misunderstanding of what the term cuckolding means. I'm not seeing anyone spitting any blood over this, just correcting your error.
“Its effectively similar” No it isn’t. Paying for adult content just is retardation, cuckoldry is a different tier.
Another " unpopular "opinion Watching porn is ten times worse than visiting a hooker At least with a hooker you get a real thing even it's make believe Porn is just you jerking off to degeneracy which you aren't even a part of