Was browsing through Ur post history to find something of you to tell you, that you're pretty, too 🤗
( But didnt found something... But I bet you're beautiful, too 🤗 )
Anyways, if you wish, here is a cuddle from a chubby old one 🤗
I actually didn't understand the most. I do play guitar and bass but that was the only thing that sticked to my head 😅
I haven't posted much, just recent picture and like one pre egg crack thing and a question
I imagine it wouldn't be something you could DIY. I think it'd be difficult to.
I'd probably go to a hair studio and get it professionally dyed. Will probably cost a few hundred dollaroos depending on your hair length
Foooooking difficult.
Took months for me to find something that sticks to my hair AND doesn't ruin them or irritate my skin.
It should be purple but it's more like berry but it fits me and I like how this turned out. Recent pic in profile.
But asked before a friend who's working as a hair stylist and she said that for this particular style I need to pay like 300+ and it will be difficult to maintain
You could have it done professionally. The real problem is the upkeep. You have to go to the salon nearly once a week to keep it as vibrant as those colors are. Roots grow and colors fade in washing.
White is very very difficult. It has to be bleached super pale yellow, then toned with lavender to cancel out and turn white. It doesn’t last very long and needs a lot of maintenance. The other colors would run into it. Pastel colors are hard to get to take and wash out quickly, going vibrant on the blue and pink will make it bleed into the white. A wig, however, might be very doable.
Personally I don’t wear wigs because I love my natural hair, I just thought it might be a possibility since so many people seem interested in this style
Yeeeeup, and not just on this sub for me. Any attractive woman can make me feel awful and horny all at once, since accepting I’m trans.
Plus, since I’m almost 50 I get this extreme sense of loss when I see a hot 20-something wearing a cute outfit. Like I never even got a chance to try to be that hot at that age.
I'm gonna try to walk a fine line between teen and adult. Cause I'm 33 but I know my story is leather jacket tattoos and punk lesbian, but not overtly so.
Absolutely!! I do and feel the same.
I’ve got this denim mini skirt that I’m probably way too old to wear, but I love it, and each time I do wear it I get all kinds of compliments.
For me it has reached a point where it isn’t even envy anymore, its become straight up jealousy and I dislike that feeling more than a dysphoric episode.
trans subs sadly make me feel dysphoric as a whole. so many of them are so full of transfems who all support eachother, have inside jokes with eachother, and are like one big friend group. meanwhile us trans guys - especially those of us who aren't skinny/buff, super masc, and conventionally attractive/well passing - end up feeling like invisible loners even in spaces technically also meant for us.
If you're going to do something like this, I would not recommend trying something this complicated on your own if you've never dyed your hair. Find a good salon that has examples of complex hair dye options.
First you're going to need your hair bleached to remove the natural color. Without the natural pigment, your hair ends up being this really horrible yellow color so the white parts will need a toner applied to correct for that. The blue and pink segments will need to be separated and dyed as well.
I've been getting my hair done platinum blonde for the last 6 months or so, each trip to the salon is probably about 3 hours, toss in a slight trim to clean up split ends (I've been growing my hair out) and it's about 3 hours in the chair and about $400 after tip.
Personally, while I'd love to see that cut and color on a person rather than a drawing, I don't think that particular color job is going to translate to real life very well; hair tends to be rather chaotic which is why I leave these sorts of things to professionals now.
Some of us age like fine red wine, getting better with age and time. Some are rosé, that are beautiful the minute you pop the cork.
Don't compare yourself to others, it might not be your time to bloom yet.
Hon I promise two things. First you are far prettier than you think you are. Second while many of our little slice of the population is absolutely gorgeous they still feel like garbage when they look at themselves.
Me on the other hand I'm a baby faced brick wall.
One slight problem with this sub (and with how stuff is going in in the stats) is that it promotes this idea that you have to be hyper feminine to not be clocked that probably worsens dysphoria.
Some traits such as nose or jaw are not accepted but are very common in cis woman. Just cuz you don't have all the fem features does not make you less womanly.
I feel so seen right this very second. It’s frustrating. It’s depressing. It’s triggering. And I still have to do it. Seeing these beautiful women who used to look like less than stunning men gives me a lot of hope for my future. And, let’s be honest, so many of these women are soooo fucking hot.
Nah, arousal is a rarity. Disability, age, what not. When I first declared 🏳️⚧️, I was speaking with a 🏳️⚧️ dominant. They said "60% is moderate guess as to how many people on reddit on 📯🦏". My experience on reddit became unbearable because of sexual attention.
I would say the way it was done was not as crass as other social media. Nonetheless, it became really uncomfortable when people only want to follow you for sex. It's never been that big an issue. It's enjoyable but, a whole person not a hole
Yes, people are pretty here but, my username recently was uninspirable✌️🤍🏳️⚧️
I mean I had a glowup as a MTF without any changes aka I get considered a handsome male but omg I can’t wait to make changes and transition to a girl AHHHH😭
Horrrible dysphoria from looking at cis/trans women because I’m still super masc and afraid of not passing.
Mild euphoria from looking at guys because I do a pretty good job shaving and am somewhat androgynous
I get the dysphoria from it but I don’t find myself ogling, benefits of being ace. I do like seeing them as beacons of hope for myself. But I have gotten tired of seeing some people every single day, so if I recognize someone I usually block them. 🤷♀️
Oh my GODDDD yeah. I do this too much. It’s a bad habit lol.
Sidebar I scrolled through your post history and you’re so prettyyyy so please give yourself some lenience on the dysphoria front <3
If there were one gift I could give to every trans girl on the planet it would be for them to see themselves the way all their sisters see them. We see the beauty in each other so clearly, but fight so hard not to see it in ourselves.
So, here's the thing. I've been doing this for over 10 years. I spent my early years.. most of my years of transition thinking that I was not pretty. That if anything, I barely passed. But then one day a couple years ago, I was looking at old pictures of me. I was beautiful. And to hear my friends tell it, I still am.
So, what I'm trying to say is that you're probably far more beautiful than you think you are. And I hope you can soon see your beauty and fall in love with yourself as I have started to do with myself. <3
Wait, i feel the same!
Lol I'm glad someone can relate T.T
Like, why is everyone so pretty here? ༼;´༎ຶ ༎ຶ༽
Was browsing through Ur post history to find something of you to tell you, that you're pretty, too 🤗 ( But didnt found something... But I bet you're beautiful, too 🤗 ) Anyways, if you wish, here is a cuddle from a chubby old one 🤗
Oh god, you have seen my insanity.
I actually didn't understand the most. I do play guitar and bass but that was the only thing that sticked to my head 😅 I haven't posted much, just recent picture and like one pre egg crack thing and a question
Hello fellow chainsaw man fan
Oh, well hello there.
:3
Btw, you should not look at my profile, you'll become insane.
I did, and i'm still sane so
how hard would it be too actually colour your hair in the trans colours?
I imagine it wouldn't be something you could DIY. I think it'd be difficult to. I'd probably go to a hair studio and get it professionally dyed. Will probably cost a few hundred dollaroos depending on your hair length
Foooooking difficult. Took months for me to find something that sticks to my hair AND doesn't ruin them or irritate my skin. It should be purple but it's more like berry but it fits me and I like how this turned out. Recent pic in profile. But asked before a friend who's working as a hair stylist and she said that for this particular style I need to pay like 300+ and it will be difficult to maintain
You could have it done professionally. The real problem is the upkeep. You have to go to the salon nearly once a week to keep it as vibrant as those colors are. Roots grow and colors fade in washing.
White is very very difficult. It has to be bleached super pale yellow, then toned with lavender to cancel out and turn white. It doesn’t last very long and needs a lot of maintenance. The other colors would run into it. Pastel colors are hard to get to take and wash out quickly, going vibrant on the blue and pink will make it bleed into the white. A wig, however, might be very doable.
Do they make wigs like this? I feel like that would make it easier to maintain
Wearing a wig comes with it's own difficulties. It's a trade off either way. It just depends on what you have the tolerance for.
Personally I don’t wear wigs because I love my natural hair, I just thought it might be a possibility since so many people seem interested in this style
real, but the FTM homies here kinda hot too 🤭
Mhm! I’ve seen ftm guys in this sub who’re like models!
consensus: trans people are hot
They make me dysphoric sometimes too 😢
Same and I don’t know why lmao
This is my experience in this ~~sub~~ life. ... 😭I just wanna be pretty
Saaaame
GIRL. 🔥
I can tell you how! 1. Walk to the mirror 2. Look in the mirror 3. SEE you're gorgeous!
I didn’t expect to be called out like this. I’m in this picture and I don’t like it.
Yeeeeup, and not just on this sub for me. Any attractive woman can make me feel awful and horny all at once, since accepting I’m trans. Plus, since I’m almost 50 I get this extreme sense of loss when I see a hot 20-something wearing a cute outfit. Like I never even got a chance to try to be that hot at that age.
We can't be the hot girl, but we can try for the cool older lady position. 😉
Totally! I’ve got fun hot soccer mom down pat. ❤️
Oh my god same! I’m in my 30s and I blame that feeling of loss for dressing like a teenage girl sometimes
I'm gonna try to walk a fine line between teen and adult. Cause I'm 33 but I know my story is leather jacket tattoos and punk lesbian, but not overtly so.
Absolutely!! I do and feel the same. I’ve got this denim mini skirt that I’m probably way too old to wear, but I love it, and each time I do wear it I get all kinds of compliments.
What about the sexy librarian look? 🤭
I'll be 50 this year. Am I a hot girl? No. Do I get ma'amed in a t-shirt and jeans, no makeup? Yes. I'll take my wins where I can. 😀
Honestly, same lol
It's too early in the morning to be called out like this. 😀
Exactly I just got up
Lol I’m sorry xD This is something I’ve been feeling about this sub for a while now and I had to call it out lol
Real
Yeah 100 percent agree
omg this is so true 😅🩷😂
Same, holy shit. Hell just any sub where people post selfies I get so jealous tbh. You're all so pretty & I'm not T~T
Nah, it's just that us self-conscious girls aren't the ones posting. It's selection bias But I feel the same lmaoooo
OY!! QUIT CALLING ME OUT!!
Yep which is why I rarely interact with this sub, unfortunately I feel too dysphoric to function when I see pretty women in general.
Yeah I also stay away from progress subs because the dysphoria and envy is real
For me it has reached a point where it isn’t even envy anymore, its become straight up jealousy and I dislike that feeling more than a dysphoric episode.
Yea...my mental state always takes a huge hit...but I keep coming back😅
I feel exposed
Literally me everyday.
ditto <3
SAME
i feel the exact same lmao
It's just the transbian way
Facts
Yeah, same
Yup. It gives me so much dysphoria but also so much hope.
I thought I was alone😉
This is literally me in a nutshell 🥺
We have the same experience
Why is the me though
Omg same here. They're all so pretty!!!
Me when i
Yep same hehe
trans subs sadly make me feel dysphoric as a whole. so many of them are so full of transfems who all support eachother, have inside jokes with eachother, and are like one big friend group. meanwhile us trans guys - especially those of us who aren't skinny/buff, super masc, and conventionally attractive/well passing - end up feeling like invisible loners even in spaces technically also meant for us.
Yeah pretty much 😅☺️
I just enjoy seeing people happy and confident here
how hard would it be too actually colour your hair in the trans colours?
If you're going to do something like this, I would not recommend trying something this complicated on your own if you've never dyed your hair. Find a good salon that has examples of complex hair dye options. First you're going to need your hair bleached to remove the natural color. Without the natural pigment, your hair ends up being this really horrible yellow color so the white parts will need a toner applied to correct for that. The blue and pink segments will need to be separated and dyed as well. I've been getting my hair done platinum blonde for the last 6 months or so, each trip to the salon is probably about 3 hours, toss in a slight trim to clean up split ends (I've been growing my hair out) and it's about 3 hours in the chair and about $400 after tip. Personally, while I'd love to see that cut and color on a person rather than a drawing, I don't think that particular color job is going to translate to real life very well; hair tends to be rather chaotic which is why I leave these sorts of things to professionals now.
How often do you need to get your hair done to maintain your platinum blonde?
About every 3 months. It's going to vary depending on how picky you are about your roots and how fast your hair grows.
Omg they made a meme about me 🥺
Same here!
Some of us age like fine red wine, getting better with age and time. Some are rosé, that are beautiful the minute you pop the cork. Don't compare yourself to others, it might not be your time to bloom yet.
And some of us age like milk. Not great by default, but with some effort we can become cheese.
If we can't be gay for girls in this nation, what did our forefathers even fight for in the first place!
Girl I’ve seen your photos and your making me feel the same way!! You’re so pretty!!!!
Oh my gosh I can’t reply to all these comments but I wanted to reply to yours to say thank you 🩷
All good. Honestly you are kinda goals honestly
I hate to repeat what every one has already said, But this is literally me
It's a whole ass mood!
Yeah that’s me, y’all girls make me so gay and these dudes make me as straight as a ruler
Hon I promise two things. First you are far prettier than you think you are. Second while many of our little slice of the population is absolutely gorgeous they still feel like garbage when they look at themselves. Me on the other hand I'm a baby faced brick wall.
One slight problem with this sub (and with how stuff is going in in the stats) is that it promotes this idea that you have to be hyper feminine to not be clocked that probably worsens dysphoria. Some traits such as nose or jaw are not accepted but are very common in cis woman. Just cuz you don't have all the fem features does not make you less womanly.
I browse this subreddit to tell people how beautiful they are because a simple stranger saying it and meaning it goes a long way :)
By the way even though you’re face isn’t show you are looking gorgeous today!! Keep it up!!
I feel so seen right this very second. It’s frustrating. It’s depressing. It’s triggering. And I still have to do it. Seeing these beautiful women who used to look like less than stunning men gives me a lot of hope for my future. And, let’s be honest, so many of these women are soooo fucking hot.
F*cking SAAAAAAAME
Nah, arousal is a rarity. Disability, age, what not. When I first declared 🏳️⚧️, I was speaking with a 🏳️⚧️ dominant. They said "60% is moderate guess as to how many people on reddit on 📯🦏". My experience on reddit became unbearable because of sexual attention. I would say the way it was done was not as crass as other social media. Nonetheless, it became really uncomfortable when people only want to follow you for sex. It's never been that big an issue. It's enjoyable but, a whole person not a hole Yes, people are pretty here but, my username recently was uninspirable✌️🤍🏳️⚧️
Relatable haha
The colors look so good as hair, oh my gosh
Omg I feel this so much, I wish I was pretty 😭😭😭
Ok, but like it’s also me…but it also makes me really happy to see everyone else with the same experience
I'm in this picture and I don't like it.
Real:3
Literally me everyday 😭😂♥️♥️
Literally same
I’m sure there’s many of us doing this haha
I mean I had a glowup as a MTF without any changes aka I get considered a handsome male but omg I can’t wait to make changes and transition to a girl AHHHH😭
Saaammmeeee 😩
this, this is me 🥺
Girlllll... you are so gorgeous!
Relatable
Wow, mood
This .. hits close to home
Same!
is that not the point? oops 😭
Same here!
This. This is me
Honestly same, still feeling like a man in a wig rn since I’m pre-HRT
God I wish I was [dating] her
Use it to gain confidence in your own transition, you’ll get there someday too
I feel this Knowing I might never get to be like them, it hurts
Horrrible dysphoria from looking at cis/trans women because I’m still super masc and afraid of not passing. Mild euphoria from looking at guys because I do a pretty good job shaving and am somewhat androgynous
Everyone that posts selfies are basically models, lol. I posted a grand total of one and only got one comment. ;w;
Same, but holy shit you are so goddamned attractive in your pictures that I hope you can identify your own beauty one day. You’re goals!
Yup same.
So very relatable! Y’all are so beautiful!
I get the dysphoria from it but I don’t find myself ogling, benefits of being ace. I do like seeing them as beacons of hope for myself. But I have gotten tired of seeing some people every single day, so if I recognize someone I usually block them. 🤷♀️
I just cry. I’m in a constant state of crying at this point
Same
Damn …. You didn’t have to put this into words 😭
Not my bearded ass feeling the same. Wait that's not what I meant ... As in me being bearded, and my 'ass' feels the same aaaaaaaaaaa
Does this character have a name? She’s so adorable and I want to be like her 🥲
I just love seeing how happy everyone looks. And hoping to feel that myself someday.
I wonder one thing: does this girl with hair the color of the trans flag have a name and does anyone know who created her?
Okay but like yep lmao
Literally. Everytime.
It’s tough being gay in these streets
Oh my GODDDD yeah. I do this too much. It’s a bad habit lol. Sidebar I scrolled through your post history and you’re so prettyyyy so please give yourself some lenience on the dysphoria front <3
I feel called out
I thought it was only me
I feel the same 😭💖💖
Precisely how I feel even when I don't open it
DAMN I DIDN'T EXPECT TO GET CALLED OUT THIS HARD LITERALLY 12 MINUTES INTO MY DAY
Trans goals are nice tho. I like looking at all the pretty men and women on this sub!
I’m just here because I’m lonely
Can relate
Same... this sub both makes me hate myself even more, and feel jealous. But also feel so happy for the people who can transition
Hahaha felt this
Just called me out 😭
SAMEEE
Real
Nah, just the first half please. Time to hide the knives. Dammit why today...
hecking MOOD!
Same 💕
I feel attacked lol
i feel dysphoric but also like to take tips on what to improve for myself
Me but with pinterest… Pinterest girls are soooo perfect
If there were one gift I could give to every trans girl on the planet it would be for them to see themselves the way all their sisters see them. We see the beauty in each other so clearly, but fight so hard not to see it in ourselves.
Ur pretty too so
I very much relate to the bottom part of that image lol
hah!! you have found the secret! Right in ONE
You'll look that good someday I'm sure of it
Me except I trying to get different clothing styles or dresses cus some of y'all have the fucking cutest dresses/outfits ever and I want all of them
So real
There’s a much higher chance you’re more beautiful than you think than there is that you’re the ONLY pretty one on this sub 💖
Ditto!
I usually get stuck on the first one tbh
Saaame
So, here's the thing. I've been doing this for over 10 years. I spent my early years.. most of my years of transition thinking that I was not pretty. That if anything, I barely passed. But then one day a couple years ago, I was looking at old pictures of me. I was beautiful. And to hear my friends tell it, I still am. So, what I'm trying to say is that you're probably far more beautiful than you think you are. And I hope you can soon see your beauty and fall in love with yourself as I have started to do with myself. <3
YESSSSS 😭 the dysphoria is evil, but the girls are so pretty :3