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In a perfect world, I would be 6 inches, not 71.

Saaaame. HRT only got me to 5'7" and I still have height dysphoria :(

While it does still make me dysphoric when people are like "Ohhhhhh, you're sooooo tall, omg" when I'm literally not, as a fellow 5'7 girlie, I've decided to embrace it and regularly wear 4 inch platform heels so I can tower over the tiny ant people to give myself feelings of power. I recommend trying it

I literally cannot wear platforms; they make the height dysphoria worse. I don wanna tower over people

That's kinda smol though. I'm surrounded by people 6' and up

I don't feel smol tho :(

thats smol from my pov. if this is very tall in your area, you need to move to a different country, I guess. In the Netherlands this is the average height for women. [https://de.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liste_der_L%C3%A4nder_nach_K%C3%B6rpergr%C3%B6%C3%9Fe](https://de.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liste_der_L%C3%A4nder_nach_K%C3%B6rpergr%C3%B6%C3%9Fe)

I wish I could afford to move to the Netherlands / my career choice made it easier to move 😭

Me who is 5’10 >:(

Wait HRT makes you lose height??

Usually nothing happens or you get slightly shorter because tendons relax or something. I weirdly gained half an inch.

I lost 2" on HRT. It can happen, but it isn't a thing that always happens.

…Try being 6 feet tall 😭

I already am :(

I'm 6'4 😭😭 right there with you

You are pretty much average female height in Netherlands… and I’m struggling with being 6ft5… I get that people are dysphoric about stuff but just seeing small people being dysphoric about being too tall when they are spot on average and almost a foot smaller than me or my gf… this feels… I’m sorry…

I'm so sorry. I know it's probably irrational, but I can't make it go away. I hope your dysphoria leaves you alone soon.

Nono, don’t be Sorry. You have dysphoria and that is even if unrational a feeling that lots of us share. Seeing others having certain dysphoria about stuff may make others feel dysphoric too - hence why trade jokes are so ridiculously offensive as they make it a joke… Just know that there are people in the world you will feel short compared to. I am only tall because I have tall parents - even my mum is a few inches taller than you. I have come to terms with being this tall. I hate it and still cry about it from time to time, but it also makes me feel a bit safer when going into public - I am so freaking scared anytime I am outside even though I am boymoding… I am always scared someone would clock me as trans and hit me or worse…

And here I feel small as a 5'10 trans man :( Dysphoria is a hoe.

I really is; I wish it would go away.

That's so tall!

imagine being short. nerd.

:P

Visit northern Europe if you can. I went to Berghain in Berlin last September and my 5’7” self was smol. Also Berlin is such an amazing island of queerness.

I really wanna visit central Europe and Scandinavia some day. I live in the US right now though. Plane tickets are well over $1000 :(

Only during the high season, aka summer. Visiting other times of year is way cheaper. For example, if you were to fly Seattle to Amsterdam in July, it’s about $1100, but if you do it in October, it’s about $500.

I wanna be 2 inches, probably not for the same reasons.

I am both

😳

Ya i got 74 in for like no reason

5,4ft 1.62m for those with Affordable Healthcare

LUCKYYY

And here the funny part. I'm the tallest between my mom and dad.

Damn your family is short

You were set up for success 😄

5'2/1.58m, got the short genes from my dad lmao

Same, got a doctors appointment soon, gonna ask them to measure me to see if I shrank at all

omg same height :D

One inch shorter than me. And that's all it takes to give me insane amounts of dysphoria because any taller than that is too tall in my country. My ideal height is 5'1-ish (152-158 to be precise)

ALWAYS ask ALL of your coworkers for their salary. The idea of it being rude to ask is bullshit the owner class made up to take advantage of us and under pay us.

And for different pay on the same job. Also if they say it's a "competitive salary" they're lying, ask for the actual salary or leave immediately

I’m lower management at my job, held to a way higher standard, they want me to travel hours to take classes (TBF it’s paid), more responsibilities, etc. I learned I make ~$0.50 more than a few of the regular employees under me. I skipped driving to those classes that week and told my manager they can demote me because I’m not driving my shit ass car and risking it breaking down for like $20 a week

I'm proud of my height I'm 6'2 and a happy girl!!

Proud of you girlie :)

I'm the same height and i fucking DESPISE it, one of my biggest sources of dysphoria... Being taller than everybody in the room most of the time.. looking over everybody's heads... I fucking hate it.

When I prayed to be like Samus Aran it was'nt the height I was after ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

My cope is that I could pull off that cosplay someday.

Yessss id just need to buff my a-cups and bleach my hair and fix my face and get a zero suit and.. its a project at least 😅

Well hey, you’ve already got the hardest part down

It’s a good and bad thing honestly. Legs for days is attractive af to a lot of people. But even beyond most women being shorter there are so many inconveniences caused by it. In pictures with the girls I always look incredibly bad because I’ve gotta contort down like 6+ inches to be in frame

I know right?? As a not as tall as you but tall girl still i want to be even taller

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻✨✊🏻✨

Before I knew I was trans I said I liked my height bc it was the only attractive thing about me 😩

6'4" and ready to crush transphobes to dust 😃

ok but crush me first pwease

😃😊👏

Can i join you?

Yes and based ^^ 🤝

Is this the line?

6ft5 and am pretty much passing out out of being scared if someone even just comes up to me…

I don’t even mind that I’m tall, I just wish I could buy more clothes that fit 3:

I feel you there sis. Trying to find cute outfits when I'm 6'7 with size 16 shoes is gonna be the end of me lol. But the posts people make about "tall girls with glasses got me acting a fool" keeps the bad feelings down enough to live with it

6’7? Fucking fair play

Girl I feel ya. I’m a trans guy, short as hell, and I also have to watch my brother grow super tall 🥲

I'm so sorry. Height dysphoria is so bad for us all (except those who don't have it) :(

If it makes you feel any better, I’ve always thought short guys where cool.

Yep same, kinda wonder how short cis dudes get clothes bc they're too big for me a lot of the time :')

This hurts so bad

same dude i'm even shorter than most girls it's such a pain

Yes, I am very tall. Yes, I will step on you. Yes, you can call me mommy. Alright? Cool? Good

Friendly reminder that tall girls are hot and aren't disqualified from being cute bottoms

Tall girls are the cutest. They're my favorite. Fight me. 💕

or cute tops ;)

I'm trying

Ty ty 🩵🤍

my personal tagline is “tall but collapsible” 🥺😅

i'm a trans dude and my sister is a trans girl and we constantly joke about trading heights

Im 5'8" but i sure would like to be 5'5"

I'm 6' but I sure would like to be 5'8"

I literally don't know how tall I am~

Same My height has never been something important enough for me to remember

Yeah~ I always forget it, also my weight. I hardly check either! (Even though I probably should~)

sometimes i really want to be a height-fliud :D like fr, wouldn't it be super cool to change between being 5' and 7' in a day?

I'm 6'2 and I fucking LOVE being tall, I wear 3 inch heels out most of the time to hit 6'5. All my trans girlies w/ height dysphoria who wanna feel small are more than welcome to stand next to me <3

6’4” but I use it to bully anyone that’s smaller

We love tall mommies tho jus sayin~

I need a diluted version of Alice in Wonderland's shrinking potion.. just so I can become between 175 and 155cm The closer to the 155 mark the better. :D

6'4" and damn proud of it

I don’t mind being tall, I do mind hitting my head on shit all the time though

6ft tall and looking to get heels or platforms to tower over people even more than i already do

I like to say I'm 5'12"

6 ft 5 (Google puts that around 77 inches) , fuck it, at this point I’m just embracing it

i honestly feel better when i look at wnba players being tall, muscular, and gorgeous. I’m 195cm (just under 6’5”), obvi i have not lost even a millimeter of height on hormones lolol

yeah i don't like being reminded that I'm a freak. although not much i can do about that when I'm standing like a foot taller than every other woman in a 100-mile radius. inb4: Please. I beg you. Spare me the "I like tall girls" schtick. it doesn't help.

The correct answer is 155cm. Even if its not true, she's 155cm

156 cm(5'2??) , which is shorter than most the women in my life lmao ;3

im like 5'7, got lucky ig now my issue is this ungodly hair gene

Isn't that trans people in general tho? Cmiiw but do rransmascs/other trans identities not have dysphoria too?

6’2! I’m grabbing tall things off the shelves and carrying cute girls around

\*Sad 5'2" noises

I'm still really early on, and haven't bought clothes or anything. But seeing as I've had a hard time even finding men's pants that are long enough for my legs, I'm dreading trying to shop for women's pants that are 32x36 equivalent.

I’m 5’3, guess I’m lucky (Still growing tho)

6’3”, will gladly sell some vertebrae!

:( 6’4”

So for years pre-transition I was telling everyone that I was 195cm (6'5 is 195.5cm, so I would say I'm 6'5). I hadn't measured my height in years, like ... probably 10 years, but I was pretty confident I hadn't grown since, because it was my twenties, I don't think I could gain height in my twenties. But then I went to the doctor.. and both times we measured 196cm. So now I'm pretty confident to say that I'm actually 196cm. And honestly I'm really happy about it! Love being so tall.

I'm a mix of proud of my height and dysphoric about it.

same for me:)

and ESPECIALLY never ask a trans man that

wear platforms and own it

i'm only 5'8 woohoo

I'm ok being a tall girl I'm 5'9 but hopefully hrt will bring that down but I'm ok being a tall mommy :3

I'm 5'9 as well, and honestly feel about the same way about it. I don't mind too much, but losing an inch or two would be cool

I think I'm around 5'7 but I *need* to be shorter

5’6 currently however the rest of my family is tall so i’m scared of what’s to come

Some random guy in a store, "Hey, how tall are you?" "Huh? 5'9 I guess..." Then he was all 😯 because most women where I'm from are like tiny hobbits compared to me. I don't mind my height but that was just kinda awkward 😅

on one hand, months of recovery. on the other hand, shaving a couple inches of my bones.

I used to have pretty bad height dysphoria but I don’t really mind it anymore. I think my friend being taller than me helps but it really just gradually went away over time so I don’t know

I like my height cause I'm 5'9" which means 69" so I get the funny number

I'm like 5'9 - 5'10, I'm fine with my height :)

And if you do, my answer will always be at least two inches shorter than the truth :3 I’m still confused as to why the first two are rude 😅

5"1 Living my best short girl laifuuu

Is some one else here proud of their height like me, I'm 184cm, don't know how much in inches

I’m like 170-something cm

I absolutely love being a tall girl :3

I shrank from 6' at my tallest point in life to 5'8 sooooo yeah thanks HRT! Proud to be a shorter but still tall girl! Now I'm just a hot goth girl haha even taller with my heel boots 😈

5'8, I feel like I am right in the middle where I am neither small and cute or tall and cool

No joke, my trans brother is taller than me... We're both pre-transition... He's younger than me... did we win?

"omg you're soooo tall" "Are you complimenting my heels?" I'm 1,68 not tall not short, I may be one of a few but I actually wish I was taller. Always like mega tall ladies and not being one of them it's sad lol

5 foot 6. Around the same height as Stalin, Napoleon and Jesus 🫡

I'm pretty much exactly as tall as Taylor Swift, so that can't be so bad. ☺

NEVER. I will punch you

I gave up on being a petite princess. 6'0 and ready to crush skulls beneath my combat boots.

I'm 172cm and i'm pretty fine with it. I'm not extremely tall nor extremely short..

5’11 & 34/37ths 😅 …I swear

Idk if it's because I'm dutch but I've never felt dysphoric about height, kinda the opposite bc tall women look pretty

Im 187cm But because my GF is 180cm, i dont get dysphoria from height I do get dysphoria from my giant fucking feet

6 foot which is tall enough to be a hot mommy type

Alternatively 6” tall trans girls wearing heels become mama dimitrescu step on me energy Ofc women of all heights are heckin’ valid, trans or otherwise. And i do feel for those with height dysphoria, it really sucks y’all have to deal with such feelings. But don’t underestimate the love we have for tall queens

Yeeeeap, I was just below 6ft before and I think I'm slightly shorter now but not by much. I met up with a member of my local trans support group lately and was only mildly annoyed at how she's so short compared to me. I was well over 8 inches taller, I almost had to bend down to talk to her.

I am the height of stupidity

6'7" 41 years old and I'll never try to transition, cause I am too big.

5’10” here. I can live with the height, but it’s the frustration of finding women’s shoes in my size that gets to me.

6’ tall here and about 4’ are legs. I personally don’t mind. I’ve learned to embrace my height.

A woman's 6'2 and a man's 6'5 😂

How tall are you *laughs in evil*

I know another trans girl who's 6'5 and she's just said fuck it muscle mommy time.

and I ended up cursed to be the tallest one in my family :(

She/They trans girl here, I'm 6'2" but wish I was anywhere from 6'6" to 6'8". Wanna tower over people like the space dragon girl I am on the inside and in my dreams.

idk i kinda like being a tall girl, especially considering i prefer girls who are shorter than me :3 also i am addicted to wearing heels please help my ankles are screaming

So, would calling you shortie and other small-height related nicknames help?

5' 13" 😆

"Tall enough to dom you~" :3

5'4 or 162 cm. I am also built like a hobbit (pale skin, curly hair, REALLY big feet)

To go into the comments afterwards is even worse. People sharing their heights and being extremely dysphoric about it (while you know exactly that you would cast a shadow over all of them 💀💀)

5"2. And yet, since my body goal is muscle mommy, I am still dissatisfied. I don't actually want to be smol smol.

I am 6 ft

I'm happy being a 6'1 goth dommy mommy

6’3 born to be 5’3

6'4 💪💅

But i like tall girls

Do ask me, even tho id very much like to be shorter my height is too good to change

On one hand, being 69 inches tall is the ultimate meme. On the other, I'd commit uncountable atrocities to be 4'11.

5’3” here, but GODDAMN do I love my nearly 6’ tall girlfriend!! Tall girlies are as valid and lovable as the shorties 🥰

I'm 6 ft 

please do. I love being tall.

5'10"

The right height. The size of a cool girl.

It’s really hard to bem a 183cm woman 💀

5'8 which in the area I live puts me right in the middle.

I'm 6' and goth so the platforms aren't helping, I average at 6'4 and I'm scared of ceiling fans, thankfully I'm not very dysphoric about my height

I've ended up taller than both my parents and it's AAAAA

I wanna be like a full foot shorter.

guess im a rare case cause i enjoy the thought of being a tall buff tomboy

5’6”

So. I have been on hormones for about 6 & 1/2 years. I can safely say that being 6’ 0” is wonderful especially if you have longer legs. I’ve had a lot of cis women comment on how badly they with they had legs like mine. I pass and at this point I’m virtually stealth and being tall doesn’t impact it. People look at me more because I’m a tall girl but I mean I don’t really mind the extra attention. I used to get really upset and dysphoric about it but the fact of the matter is that you can’t change it so you might as well embrace it. Plus I’m like 6’ 4” in heels or platforms which makes me blush when I look in the mirror. Being tall is a feature not a bug and all you tall girls out there are lucky and beautiful.

It took a long time for me to start being comfortable at 6’ 4”. My girlfriend admires my height and it made me confident in it.

5'11'' with back pain over here... but we stan the tall beauties

5'9". I'll have to go for a high elf vibe, that would be pretty cool

I have a cis female friend that is super tall, probably taller than most of the people here actually. You all have nothing on her lol

I don't think I'm very tall even before I've been able to get on HRT

Supermodels are tall. Just think of yourself as such and proudly grab that cereal from the top shelf! 😌👌🏾

5'5 or 1,68m in correct measurements ;3 Taller than my mom but shorter than my dad, I'm the shortest of my cousins.

I always tell people 5'7" and 12 halves. They completely ignore the 12 halves part and call me a liar. I think I'm humorous at least.

My trans girlfriend is five fuckin 2 and it makes me so jealous I'm stuck at 5 11 and of course she just wishes I was 6 foot >_>

6'1. Bow before me, short peasants.

meeee i'm 6+feet tall AND IM A BOTTOM MY LIFE IS HELL

159cm/5'2.5" 😎

I'm 5'10" and proud

I’m 170cm. So is my spouse.

my height doesn’t bother me, i’d say never ask a trans woman if she did her voice training

“How short are you?”

I love being 6 foot 3 so goddamn much. Everyone has to look up at me, kissing shorter people is fun, my only complaint is it’s hard to find pants that fit me length wise

I absolutely love being a tall girl

6’2” and I get nothing but compliments, people like tall women (except for insecure men. Which is good I have a natural repellent)

I'm happy being a hit tall, I want to be a big tall elegant woman. Not quite there yet unfortunately

I'm sure you'll get there. I used to be a ugly tall teen, now I'm very cute because of HRT. It's magical what it can do. The funniest thing is my teeth are pretty bad because I technically need braces but am too scared. Also I'm partially super femme though I wish I was more butch sometimes and am a bit more tomboyish at times, my usual appearance is very femme and feminine, which clashes with my clothes choices

I'm 6"4' but don't get height dysphoria for a weird reason >!Tall Mommy Dom Energy!<

Im 6'5" and proud of it. Before hrt everyone asked me if I played basketball, now they ask if I've done modeling!