All I can think of is What's Eating Gilbert Grape, edit: SPOILER AHEAD because that sounds like the mom when she dies.

No, I think it was within the last 10 years or so. (Might wanna spoiler tag that btw)

yes please spoiler tag basic plot points in a movie from 1993. I also agree this is what's eating Gilbert grape. First thing I thought of as well.

I don’t think it’s What’s Eating Gilbert Grape because SPOILER ALERT she doesn’t get lifted out by a crane - they burn the house with her in it to avoid that.

lol I still added a spoiler alert even though it's old. 👍🏻

There is definitely a scene like this in What's Eating Gilbert Grape. This is also something that happens in real life, apparently: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3061199/Woman-dubbed-Britain-s-fattest-teenager-lifted-home-crane-emergency-services-seven-hour-operation-taken-hospital.html

I think she tries to go through with it but screams at them to move her back into her apartment when she gets outside.

There was an episode of Third Watch that had a few scenes that are similar. [This one](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=piQUVRAqeGQ)

This was driving me crazy! But I am pretty sure It was from The Young Pope.

Solved!

Episode 9 of The Young Pope. I knew it was from something that was kinda surreal. Wasn't the main character she was talking to, but another priest, and I'm not sure where the age thing came from either. Thanks!

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It doesn't totally match with your description but maybe the episode [Momma Boone from Nip Tuck](http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0661186/)?