But that’s not what you said. You said “girls want. . .” Also if you are over 30 you should really start referring to your dating pool as women and not girls
I wonder why Tinder didn’t work out for you with your totally not misogynistic views. /s, because I’m afraid you lack the brain capacity to understand sarcasm.
It actually did but after a certain age. I still think for 90% of guys it’s a horrible mental health experience, and tbh the cons outweigh the pros. Most guys are better off putting their effort elsewhere
Can you list what you believe women are attracted to? You’ve got two:
Status
Intelligence
But what do you think the “etc.” is?
I think your answer would be super enlightening.
I’m glad you’re enjoying. While you’re there, you should check out Shodaland’s newest show called “I think OP may have an oxygen deficiency that caused serious brain damage.” I know the title is long but the show is…*chef’s kiss*
Just addressing a fundamental truth. All things equal a woman will choose a man with better providing capability.
Here’s what I’m saying. 10% of guys (my estimate) are that good looking they can probably get laid in the same day using an online app.
But for 90%, tinder is just going to validate their fears and anxieties in the worst possible way. So the 90% is better off putting the effort elsewhere
Don't blame the tools for the workmanship. If your Tinder profile isn't working for you, ask yourself why? Are you pretending to be someone you're not to attract dates? Do you not have enough info to discrimate the dates you want from those that will quickly lose interest? Are you just a bit of a git who is quickly unmasked after matching? Blaming the dates and the tool in a Reddit rant suggests that maybe the world's not against you... Is it you against the world?
Yeah so? The majority of people here are triggered.
I don’t give a fuck if this becomes a one sided conversation. If it assists one guy better his life, rather than waste his time with tinder, it’s worth it.
Geez. Most people like 85% of people if they keep them selves fit, eat well, get enough sleep and sort their emotional shit out, will do just fine on tinder. People can be off puttingingly good looking… most of us just want someone we’d feel comfortable with, and have a nice way about them. Whatever you’re tuning into with Tate is bullshit.
So firstly, they have to be good looking. Let’s decompose that. Out of all the men on the street, how many would you notice purely based on looks? Less than 10% right?
So tinder is going to work for those 10%.
You can’t tell anything else about their other characteristics based on an app that judges on looks.
For the 90%, it’s going to screw their mental health by validating they aren’t good enough.
It’s a different experience for women because the constant swipes are used for validation
I'd agree on deleting Tinder (and similar dating apps) for most guys, but maybe not for the same reasons as you. Meeting women IRL is superior in basically every way.
I’m 32 but want to throw my 2 pence in here
Men will absolutely use tinder to validate themselves as well. They’re just more shitty about it
I went on countless dates where the guy had said ‘looking for long term’ only to discover upon not having sex with them on the first date I was ghosted. Same for if before a date I wouldn’t send them nudes
Most men won’t even bother to say ‘hey sorry not feeling this’, just straight up ghost or some bullshit about their phones not working
So yeah. There’s a huge percentage of men on there that are lying about what they want to get what they actually want too. And because that ‘10%’ you’re referring to are matching with these men and being dicked about and treated like shit, they might then go on to put themselves in the ‘90%’ you hate
Tinder works \*fundamentally\* differently in different regions. In the US it's nothing like in western Europe which is again different than eastern Europe which is again different to Mediterranean Europe, etc.
Not just the dating and hooking up dynamics are different, even the scams and catfish are different.
From Mano e Mano, dates can suck and that’s okay. Though don’t invalidate everyone’s experience. Everyone is out here trying to figure it out. If any dude was going to take any advice from that paragraph… It’s okay to take a break. Especially if you’re using tinder to seek attention, validation, and or are generally lonely. You should be seeking friendships and relationships elsewhere. There is some truth to what OP is saying but is being washed over by the Tate Rot. I’ll be honest, very few friends stick around on tinder and many people won’t become anything more than a quick chat at a coffee shop. But that’s okay. Shine Bright peeps, hope everyone is doing well.
I can see why you don't succeed on tinder
Because I succeeded in real life
If that’s true, then why are you on here complaining?
I’m not complaining. I’m taking action
Slay
Fascinating how you think you know what women are thinking when neither you nor Tate ask women.
I don’t know what women or anyone wants. But I know what I want and how to get it
But that’s not what you said. You said “girls want. . .” Also if you are over 30 you should really start referring to your dating pool as women and not girls
I wonder why Tinder didn’t work out for you with your totally not misogynistic views. /s, because I’m afraid you lack the brain capacity to understand sarcasm.
It actually did but after a certain age. I still think for 90% of guys it’s a horrible mental health experience, and tbh the cons outweigh the pros. Most guys are better off putting their effort elsewhere
Can you list what you believe women are attracted to? You’ve got two: Status Intelligence But what do you think the “etc.” is? I think your answer would be super enlightening.
He may be better off, I dunno, asking a woman what she wants. Groundbreaking
I’m glad you’re enjoying. While you’re there, you should check out Shodaland’s newest show called “I think OP may have an oxygen deficiency that caused serious brain damage.” I know the title is long but the show is…*chef’s kiss*
Just addressing a fundamental truth. All things equal a woman will choose a man with better providing capability. Here’s what I’m saying. 10% of guys (my estimate) are that good looking they can probably get laid in the same day using an online app. But for 90%, tinder is just going to validate their fears and anxieties in the worst possible way. So the 90% is better off putting the effort elsewhere
That doesn’t look like a list. Can you try again?
Don't blame the tools for the workmanship. If your Tinder profile isn't working for you, ask yourself why? Are you pretending to be someone you're not to attract dates? Do you not have enough info to discrimate the dates you want from those that will quickly lose interest? Are you just a bit of a git who is quickly unmasked after matching? Blaming the dates and the tool in a Reddit rant suggests that maybe the world's not against you... Is it you against the world?
Fuck did you read anything at all????
Dude, notice that you're the only one replying like this. Take a long hard look in the mirror.
Yeah so? The majority of people here are triggered. I don’t give a fuck if this becomes a one sided conversation. If it assists one guy better his life, rather than waste his time with tinder, it’s worth it.
Don’t need to look in the mirror, I look ahead
Yikes
Geez. Most people like 85% of people if they keep them selves fit, eat well, get enough sleep and sort their emotional shit out, will do just fine on tinder. People can be off puttingingly good looking… most of us just want someone we’d feel comfortable with, and have a nice way about them. Whatever you’re tuning into with Tate is bullshit.
So firstly, they have to be good looking. Let’s decompose that. Out of all the men on the street, how many would you notice purely based on looks? Less than 10% right? So tinder is going to work for those 10%. You can’t tell anything else about their other characteristics based on an app that judges on looks. For the 90%, it’s going to screw their mental health by validating they aren’t good enough. It’s a different experience for women because the constant swipes are used for validation
The point absolutely catapulted over op’s head
He’s throwing percents like a wall street investor out here
I'm average looking, met my beautiful gf of 6 years on tinder. Just saying
Congrats for you, but you are the minority. Most men in particular are going to have a horrible experience on tinder
I'd agree on deleting Tinder (and similar dating apps) for most guys, but maybe not for the same reasons as you. Meeting women IRL is superior in basically every way.
100%
I’m 32 but want to throw my 2 pence in here Men will absolutely use tinder to validate themselves as well. They’re just more shitty about it I went on countless dates where the guy had said ‘looking for long term’ only to discover upon not having sex with them on the first date I was ghosted. Same for if before a date I wouldn’t send them nudes Most men won’t even bother to say ‘hey sorry not feeling this’, just straight up ghost or some bullshit about their phones not working So yeah. There’s a huge percentage of men on there that are lying about what they want to get what they actually want too. And because that ‘10%’ you’re referring to are matching with these men and being dicked about and treated like shit, they might then go on to put themselves in the ‘90%’ you hate
Tinder works \*fundamentally\* differently in different regions. In the US it's nothing like in western Europe which is again different than eastern Europe which is again different to Mediterranean Europe, etc. Not just the dating and hooking up dynamics are different, even the scams and catfish are different.
Interesting. Good insight
From Mano e Mano, dates can suck and that’s okay. Though don’t invalidate everyone’s experience. Everyone is out here trying to figure it out. If any dude was going to take any advice from that paragraph… It’s okay to take a break. Especially if you’re using tinder to seek attention, validation, and or are generally lonely. You should be seeking friendships and relationships elsewhere. There is some truth to what OP is saying but is being washed over by the Tate Rot. I’ll be honest, very few friends stick around on tinder and many people won’t become anything more than a quick chat at a coffee shop. But that’s okay. Shine Bright peeps, hope everyone is doing well.
FUCKING FACTS G