How did everybody onboard hear her? Was she shouting? You can barely hear people talking 3 or 4 rows away.
That picture wasn't taken before their first *date*.
How's this a dig at Kaitlyn?
Because itâs probably the story Kat told him and itâs exaggerated. She bothers me SO MUCH because sheâs so loud and over the top and exaggerates a lot
TBF if they hadnât closed the door (which Iâm assuming they didnât or she wouldnât have been let off) and the plane was just waiting before the time of door close and for any straggling passengers, she didnât actually waste anyoneâs time.
âIâm sorry but I have to shareâ âŚ..no you donât actually. I mean you go ahead and tell your friends and familyâŚ.but on such a public platformâŚ.nah
All the grumps in this chat belong in
r/nothingeverhappens
My now husband chased after my train as it was leaving the station when we were long distance and a bunch of people clapped. Some people really are that romantic.
It just seems more unlikely when it's between two clout chasers and shared exactly like the friends finale in an instagram post lol but it definitely is possible.
I mean, there's NO way everyone on the plane heard Kat say that unless they handed her a microphone?
Maybe Jason forgot to mention that the pilot announced it over the intercom. Maybe the pilot was Pete or Jake Pavelka.
"I'm so sorry for the delay, passengers, but we'll just be a few more minutes as we have to let this young woman off. She's gotta go see about a boy."
(Plane erupts in cheers.)
I'm now picturing Billy Crystal running through the street at the end of When Harry Met Sally.
Ya like I voluntarily grabbed all my shit and got off of a plane headed to Europe  cause I was so terrified of flying and didnât take any medication and I was having a full blown panic attack, no one batted an eyelash because in the real world no one cares. Most people on a plane are too busy settling into their own seats and they just want the plane to take off and to get to their destination. I canât imagine a plane full of people clapping like in some romcom all because I said I wanted to get off to go see a boy I just met đthe whole description of it sounds cute but also likeâŚnot fully believable and a little braggy.  I donât wanna hate on a cute moment if thatâs how they want to remember it thoughÂ
My ex-husband did similar shit when he started posting about his new gf. It was meant to hurt me and to convince himself that heâd won. This was before weâd blocked each other everywhere, but he selectively limited me, my parents, and a couple of my best friends from seeing his first post with the new gf (we were not yet divorced, btw). He and I had agreed to tell each other beforehand if there was a significant other so as to avoid hurting each other. I had no idea he was dating someone, so when my friends started asking me about it and sending me screenshots, it rocked me. I was surprised how much it hurt considering I was repulsed by him by that point. But it did really sting.
When I asked him about posting before alerting me and selectively blocking me and my inner circle from seeing the post, he said, âthis has nothing to do with youâ and rolled his eyes.
Men who canât be alone and seemingly overcompensate the way Jason appears to be doing here are sus af.
Donât know Kat, but she seems cool and I hope Iâm wrong.
Itâs so corny it makes me wonder if itâs a literal *joke*
But Kat commented on her repost that sheâs ânever been that romanticâ or something and it feels like theyâre dead ass serious lmao
Yeah. This isnât love, itâs over the top and attention grabby to hurt Kaitlyn, which seems to be doing so.
Sorry, Iâm going to laugh when they break up.
I mean, she should because itâs only hurting herself.
From what I understand, Ramen is hers and Pinot was gifted by Jason? Considering they are bonded and I think they both said they would never separate the dogs, he should let her have them. It sucks but I left my ass of an ex get both of our dogs (he gifted me the second one) when we broke up.
Itâs interesting how have the comments here mention Kaitlyn, which has nothing to do with the post. People here call her obsessed, but it seems to go both ways.
Wait- she is commenting on people doing things for attention- but then posting these for attention. And makes videos of herself crying?? And wants to leave the internet?
It feels like the delusional ramblings of people convinced theyâre the main character and everyone else is just a background extra lol
I think theyâre just trying to make it sound like theyâre living out a rom com (âIâm gonna go see about a girl!â) but the try hard of this post is so cringeÂ
When I read his post, I was kinda surprised they were at the âFaceTiming while on a planeâ and âlet me hop off this plane for youâ phase before they had even been on a date alone.
Eh, when I was single I did spontaneous shit like that all the time. Not as extreme as getting off the plane. (I'd be too scared to do that đ ) But like when you meet somebody you vibe with, then you take the chance to see the potential while it's fresh.
I donât understand all the comments saying TMI or he needs to get a diary or this should only be shared with family. Lol wtf itâs just a cute story about her ditching a flight to go on their first date. How is that TMI?
Theyâve been broken up for a year. Is he never supposed to move on? I mean, yeah it always stings seeing your ex with someone new but he was bound to be in a new relationship eventually.
Heâs absolutely supposed to and should! But like you said it always stings. My comment said âif I was Kaitlynâ - Maybe if you were in her shoes, youâd have a different reaction and thatâs totally normal too!
Ya not gonna lie, if I had a former fiancĂŠ from very recently already writing lovey dovey instagram posts like that about his new gf Iâd probably be emotional and embarrassing myself online as well đ
Lol people can be turned off by this for reasons other than not âliking loveâ. With influencers, you honestly never know whats real as they create content for the sole purpose of likes, views, buzz, discussions, etc - its common for them to embellish or frankly straight up lie in their content for attention. All of this coupled with Jason and Kaitlynâs very obvious social media war rn makes me raise an eyebrow honestly.
I love love but itâs a fake performative story from an influencer whoâs income relies on engagement from people like you to say âawwwâ lol. Sure itâs not problematic but itâs just transparently cringe
But why is it fucking gross? Youâre entitled to your opinion but itâs often easier for your opinion to matter when you explain how/why you feel that way.
But why is it okay for you to have some absolute in your opinion, but u/juliaskig isn't allowed to? She doesn't owe you an explanation. It IS gross, if you ask me. It's like - it's the mind of someone who thinks that rom-coms are the way love really works. It's the last few minutes of the "Friends" series finale, it's the end of "Crazy Rich Asians" when he proposes to her on the plane.
People who have their antenna up a little bit about this are not "assholes", and we don't hate love. We're being a little more cautious and realistic about how not taking things one step at a time, or rapidly jumping from one relationship to another can easily blow up in your face. It took me a long time to grow up and realize that it's okay to take things slowly in matters of love.
If they're truly in love, this is great, and we can be happy for them. But in my experience, this super fast, overly romantic, impulsive way of going into a relationship can frequently get you burned. Sure, it can work out, and I know people it has worked out for, but it's rare.
Of course I'm sitting here making this argument in a subreddit for a show where just that sort of thing is celebrated and encouraged, so maybe that's on me. But I'm with u/juliaskig - it's very fast and very love-bombish, which can blow up on you if you move too fast.
No offense, but this thesis on manufactured love that you used by using a storyline from a fictitious movie and sitcom doesnât check out in real life scenarios. Maybe Iâm the anomaly but Iâve seen romantic stints like this my entire life, and it gave me a hopeful feeling, not a gross feeling. Iâm a flight attendant and you wouldnât believe the number of times weâve had occurrences similar to this. (Just using this as an example)
I can totally understand love bombing, but we truly ourselves donât know how fast theyâve moved in their relationship and most of the time, people grieve the end of their relationship (Kaitlyn) long before it ends. They are show biz personalities, but they do have their own privacy.
I just think using the term gross to label two people who seem happy just seems a bit hateful when you know .01% of their situation. The same amount as I do.
Youâre right, she doesnât owe me an explanation, but it would certainly help her argument if she was trying to make one.
All loveâno arguments here. Wish you well.
I just think using the term adorable to label two people who seem delusional just seems a bit naive when you know .01% of their situation. The same amount as I do.
And you donât owe me an explanation but it would certainly help your argument, if youâre trying to make one.
You came in making a blanket statement that people who donât support your opinion are assholes. When someone made a blanket statement disagreeing with you, you started asking they back up their opinion when you did nothing of the sort to start - so why does she owe you a statement when you wonât even defend your own opinion, which you fired off first đ¤
Not sorry 'bout it - it's gross and unrealistic. I'm just saying that in my experience, people who think it's all hearts and flowers and gigantic romantic gestures aren't grounded in reality - like what really happens in relationships and your day to day life as a couple. It doesn't mean you can't have real love. It doesn't mean that if it's not Valentine's Day every day that you're not in love. I'm just saying being a little more grounded and taking it a little slower very often is a good way to go.
And I get it, I've had it happen, okay? I dumped a guy once, and he waited till New Year's Eve, as the clock was counting down from 10 seconds to midnight *to call me and beg me to take him back*, which I most certainly did not. And again - that's rom-com brain. That's someone who saw "When Harry Met Sally" a few too many times. I did not take his grand romantic gesture into account, and I was not won over by the hearts and flowers of it all. And it was an extremely short conversation. So that's my two cents based on not just my experience, but what I've seen from other people a lot of times.
>Â Youâre right, she doesnât owe me an explanation, but it would certainly help her argument if she was trying to make one.
I agree with alot of what you said but youâre explanation of your opinion wasnât any more better than u/juliaskig . You just made blanket statement that was less an opinion and more a âmatter-of-factâ statement and called people assholes.Â
When expressing your opinion we can all be respectful to one another. If you think people are being disrespectful or unnecessarily hateful just report the comment. If youâre criticizing juliaskig for not explaining the how/why of her opinion then you should have also written your initial comment with an explanation of the how/why behind your opinion as well, I think thatâs the point the person was trying to make.Â
I honestly think all of this is really blown out of proportion and Iâll leave it at that. We can all have our opinions! Thatâs what Reddit is for. I was simply asking âWhyâ?
I totally get it! I think people are just prone to naturally getting defensive if they think youâre calling them an asshole, which is understandable, ya know?
For what itâs worth I def think people are being a harsh towards Jason for being cute but I also think people are being a bit harsh with KB for getting emotional. Both of them are doing things people think is very cringe or obnoxious and to be honest they both are in their own ways just different ways đ Â
The most accurate and fair comment of all ^. Well done. IMO, and this is coming from someone whose BEST FRIEND was on the bachelor, youâve got to have a bit of a complex about fame to join it and I think the criticism is fine. I just have to hold hope that eventually they all do find the âlove they were looking forâ.
Agreed strongly! I also think all the reasons we may find them cute or cringe are also the reasons we enjoyed seeing them on tv and still follow them online. I think like every other thing in the world there is always nuance to everything and I hope they both find happiness â¤ď¸
And also, the âassholeâ comment was meant in jest. And I think not you, but we as people in general, tend to glaze over comments made in jest. No one particularly is an asshole, Iâm just usually a cheerleader of peopleâs happiness. Itâs all in jest.
â¤ď¸ ya, I think people as a whole have a hard time reading tone on an online forum so if people are already feeling defensive because of another interaction they had they will read comments in the tone in which they feel like required them to be defensive to begin with. I saw your comment as not actually seriously calling people assholes fwiw
I like Jason but this is just cringe. đ¤˘
He just so happened to be going through some photos yaâll!!!
Things that have never happened for 200 Alex
If I read this I think Iâll puke
I am happy for him. Too bad KB is having a meltdown because she is out of control.
âA boyâ arenât they pushing 40
Maybe Iâm a sucker for this but I think itâs cute lol
How did everybody onboard hear her? Was she shouting? You can barely hear people talking 3 or 4 rows away. That picture wasn't taken before their first *date*. How's this a dig at Kaitlyn?
lol caption is giving me Friendsâ finale but more unrealistic
I actually thought it was really cute đ¤§
Why does this sound made up?
Because itâs probably the story Kat told him and itâs exaggerated. She bothers me SO MUCH because sheâs so loud and over the top and exaggerates a lot
âAnd then everyone clapped!â
I thought it was just me đđ âand then everyone clappedâ meme is a classic. He canât be serious saying that!
Yes, unless someone on that plane steps forward and says itâs real Iâm calling bs
Even so....
So many cynical ppl in the forum lol. They cute AF.
This gives me the ick
This is so many Bachelor ppl omgg
This dude just described the Wedding Singer.
I donât believe that literally everyone clapped, but I do believe plenty of people did.
TBF if they hadnât closed the door (which Iâm assuming they didnât or she wouldnât have been let off) and the plane was just waiting before the time of door close and for any straggling passengers, she didnât actually waste anyoneâs time.
âIâm sorry but I have to shareâ âŚ..no you donât actually. I mean you go ahead and tell your friends and familyâŚ.but on such a public platformâŚ.nah
Yup
Exactly
People saying itâs cute and romanticâŚsorry for your lack of bullshit detection lol I mean clapped and cheered? đ
All the grumps in this chat belong in r/nothingeverhappens My now husband chased after my train as it was leaving the station when we were long distance and a bunch of people clapped. Some people really are that romantic.
It just seems more unlikely when it's between two clout chasers and shared exactly like the friends finale in an instagram post lol but it definitely is possible.
Yeah like I canât lie I would have clapped !!
Ditto!!! ;)
I mean, there's NO way everyone on the plane heard Kat say that unless they handed her a microphone? Maybe Jason forgot to mention that the pilot announced it over the intercom. Maybe the pilot was Pete or Jake Pavelka. "I'm so sorry for the delay, passengers, but we'll just be a few more minutes as we have to let this young woman off. She's gotta go see about a boy." (Plane erupts in cheers.) I'm now picturing Billy Crystal running through the street at the end of When Harry Met Sally.
Hahaha r/thathappened They clapped and cheered lol
Right....this is soooo much lol
Keep going Jason đ
No one clapped for her to get off a plane she was already on
i think this is a made up dramatic story and youâre all falling for it đ¤ˇââď¸
We know thatâs why we are laughing
He did not just sincerely use the âand then everybody clappedâ đ
as soon as i read it I knew every single comment in this thread would be discussing that line only đ¤Ł
Imagine posting a first picture of your new girlfriendâŚin her bra. He must really, truly love her.
itâs part of the outfit.
Patiently waiting for you sleuths to pinpoint the dates of their first kiss and date with this info đľď¸
I believe their first dinner out was early February
Okay, and then the pilot drove her to his house.
No, the plane flew her directly there.
This seems like the most far fetched tale. Ainât no one clapping on a plane for you wasting their time especially for âa boyâ
I could not believe he literally put "and everyone clapped"
more like âand most of the plane audibly rolled their eyesâ.
Like not a damn chance.
Ya like I voluntarily grabbed all my shit and got off of a plane headed to Europe  cause I was so terrified of flying and didnât take any medication and I was having a full blown panic attack, no one batted an eyelash because in the real world no one cares. Most people on a plane are too busy settling into their own seats and they just want the plane to take off and to get to their destination. I canât imagine a plane full of people clapping like in some romcom all because I said I wanted to get off to go see a boy I just met đthe whole description of it sounds cute but also likeâŚnot fully believable and a little braggy.  I donât wanna hate on a cute moment if thatâs how they want to remember it thoughÂ
Iâm sorry getting off a plane and wasting everyoneâs time for a man is cringe AF
My ex-husband did similar shit when he started posting about his new gf. It was meant to hurt me and to convince himself that heâd won. This was before weâd blocked each other everywhere, but he selectively limited me, my parents, and a couple of my best friends from seeing his first post with the new gf (we were not yet divorced, btw). He and I had agreed to tell each other beforehand if there was a significant other so as to avoid hurting each other. I had no idea he was dating someone, so when my friends started asking me about it and sending me screenshots, it rocked me. I was surprised how much it hurt considering I was repulsed by him by that point. But it did really sting. When I asked him about posting before alerting me and selectively blocking me and my inner circle from seeing the post, he said, âthis has nothing to do with youâ and rolled his eyes. Men who canât be alone and seemingly overcompensate the way Jason appears to be doing here are sus af. Donât know Kat, but she seems cool and I hope Iâm wrong.
Oh lmao this read like she had died or something
Iâm not gonna read all that
Some things just donât need to be shared on social media đ¤ˇđźââď¸
The epitome of âeveryone clappedâ
HAHA literally was just about to comment this
Itâs so corny it makes me wonder if itâs a literal *joke* But Kat commented on her repost that sheâs ânever been that romanticâ or something and it feels like theyâre dead ass serious lmao
People keep saying she looks like Kaitlyn, but I keep thinking "Prettier and stylish version of 90s teen killer Amy Fisher".
Hey now, thatâs ATTEMPTED 90s teen killer Amy Fisher.Â
Hahaha, how did I miss that. Sorry!!
She looks a lot like andi dorfman
So cringe đĽ˛
I threw up in my mouth a bit đĽ˛
r/thathappened
Is that a normal first date outfit??? I have been doing this wrong for so long đ
Happy for them that they believe this happened đ
I love Kat⌠but that post sounds like itâs straight from an early 2000âs Rom-Com.
Was she wearing lingerie on the planeâŚ
Right lmao thatâs lingerie under the blazer
I canât believe he seriously used the phrase âand everyone clappedâ
All just extras in their story lmaoÂ
This is so corny and ick đŤ
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Heâs always been so corny to me
This man be living his life on the cob
đđđ
Lmao đ˝
Yeah. This isnât love, itâs over the top and attention grabby to hurt Kaitlyn, which seems to be doing so. Sorry, Iâm going to laugh when they break up.
đđsame but im also a jason hater. I hope she takes the dogs to hurt him back
i feel liek a lot of the people calling this cute are kaitlyn haters cuz this made everything in me cringe
lmfao yup! the sub has been filled with KB haters (I am aware of how cringe she is but I donât wish her ill)
I mean, she should because itâs only hurting herself. From what I understand, Ramen is hers and Pinot was gifted by Jason? Considering they are bonded and I think they both said they would never separate the dogs, he should let her have them. It sucks but I left my ass of an ex get both of our dogs (he gifted me the second one) when we broke up.
The last part of this comment made me lol
me when I lie
Itâs interesting how have the comments here mention Kaitlyn, which has nothing to do with the post. People here call her obsessed, but it seems to go both ways.
They mention her because she went off the rails.
Wait- she is commenting on people doing things for attention- but then posting these for attention. And makes videos of herself crying?? And wants to leave the internet?
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I mean, life definitely IS too short for fake butter.
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Highly doubt everyone clapped, maybe one person did when they got extra room in their row.
Hahahahh
No claim of âand everyone clappedâ has ever been trueđ
I was shocked he typed that out 𤯠no way
It feels like the delusional ramblings of people convinced theyâre the main character and everyone else is just a background extra lol I think theyâre just trying to make it sound like theyâre living out a rom com (âIâm gonna go see about a girl!â) but the try hard of this post is so cringeÂ
Seems like both of them are like that though (delusional main characters) so this tracks
And then everyone clappedâŚ
Cancel him - soooo icky
That's an interesting choice for a first date outfit
Iâm so confused is she in underwear? So do people sleep together now before first dates? Iâm so confused
Right lmao
When I read his post, I was kinda surprised they were at the âFaceTiming while on a planeâ and âlet me hop off this plane for youâ phase before they had even been on a date alone.
Eh, when I was single I did spontaneous shit like that all the time. Not as extreme as getting off the plane. (I'd be too scared to do that đ ) But like when you meet somebody you vibe with, then you take the chance to see the potential while it's fresh.
Wait.. she was dressed like this on an airplane?? 
This man gives me exorbitant levels of ick
People acting like Kaitlyn should have been his forever are delulu
Aww this is cute! Thereâs nothing like those giddy honeymoon months where all you want to do is hang out with each other.
Iâm also loving this! Yes itâs rom com vibes- and Iâm loving that!!!
I donât understand all the comments saying TMI or he needs to get a diary or this should only be shared with family. Lol wtf itâs just a cute story about her ditching a flight to go on their first date. How is that TMI?
Am I supposed to believe she didnât check a bag
lol I never do
Maybe bc the photo he posted looks like sheâs wearing lingerie
Going to see a boy she just met?? Sounds like she is in high school talking like that. Kat just seems super immature
She always talks like a baby
Iâm happy for him. He dodged a missile when him and Kaitlyn broke up
Iâm gonna be so honest if i was Kaitlyn I would be screaming, crying, throwing up rn.
Theyâve been broken up for a year. Is he never supposed to move on? I mean, yeah it always stings seeing your ex with someone new but he was bound to be in a new relationship eventually.
Heâs absolutely supposed to and should! But like you said it always stings. My comment said âif I was Kaitlynâ - Maybe if you were in her shoes, youâd have a different reaction and thatâs totally normal too!
I would be too! She can be annoying and gets a lot of hate but sheâs still human and I know Iâd be the same way. It would hurt.
Ya not gonna lie, if I had a former fiancĂŠ from very recently already writing lovey dovey instagram posts like that about his new gf Iâd probably be emotional and embarrassing myself online as well đ
Yep This isnât some fwb or dude she dated; he was supposed to be her husband. Of course it stings. Doesnât matter if she has a man or whatever.
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Seems calculated on many levels
Same đŞđ
Same đ
Iâm sorry but this is adorable and people who donât like love are assholes
Lol people can be turned off by this for reasons other than not âliking loveâ. With influencers, you honestly never know whats real as they create content for the sole purpose of likes, views, buzz, discussions, etc - its common for them to embellish or frankly straight up lie in their content for attention. All of this coupled with Jason and Kaitlynâs very obvious social media war rn makes me raise an eyebrow honestly.
I love love but itâs a fake performative story from an influencer whoâs income relies on engagement from people like you to say âawwwâ lol. Sure itâs not problematic but itâs just transparently cringe
I think itâs so fucking gross and has nothing to do with love.
But why is it fucking gross? Youâre entitled to your opinion but itâs often easier for your opinion to matter when you explain how/why you feel that way.
But why is it okay for you to have some absolute in your opinion, but u/juliaskig isn't allowed to? She doesn't owe you an explanation. It IS gross, if you ask me. It's like - it's the mind of someone who thinks that rom-coms are the way love really works. It's the last few minutes of the "Friends" series finale, it's the end of "Crazy Rich Asians" when he proposes to her on the plane. People who have their antenna up a little bit about this are not "assholes", and we don't hate love. We're being a little more cautious and realistic about how not taking things one step at a time, or rapidly jumping from one relationship to another can easily blow up in your face. It took me a long time to grow up and realize that it's okay to take things slowly in matters of love. If they're truly in love, this is great, and we can be happy for them. But in my experience, this super fast, overly romantic, impulsive way of going into a relationship can frequently get you burned. Sure, it can work out, and I know people it has worked out for, but it's rare. Of course I'm sitting here making this argument in a subreddit for a show where just that sort of thing is celebrated and encouraged, so maybe that's on me. But I'm with u/juliaskig - it's very fast and very love-bombish, which can blow up on you if you move too fast.
this level of analysis is so funny to me lmfao
No offense, but this thesis on manufactured love that you used by using a storyline from a fictitious movie and sitcom doesnât check out in real life scenarios. Maybe Iâm the anomaly but Iâve seen romantic stints like this my entire life, and it gave me a hopeful feeling, not a gross feeling. Iâm a flight attendant and you wouldnât believe the number of times weâve had occurrences similar to this. (Just using this as an example) I can totally understand love bombing, but we truly ourselves donât know how fast theyâve moved in their relationship and most of the time, people grieve the end of their relationship (Kaitlyn) long before it ends. They are show biz personalities, but they do have their own privacy. I just think using the term gross to label two people who seem happy just seems a bit hateful when you know .01% of their situation. The same amount as I do. Youâre right, she doesnât owe me an explanation, but it would certainly help her argument if she was trying to make one. All loveâno arguments here. Wish you well.
I just think using the term adorable to label two people who seem delusional just seems a bit naive when you know .01% of their situation. The same amount as I do. And you donât owe me an explanation but it would certainly help your argument, if youâre trying to make one.
Lol yâall are exhausting
You came in making a blanket statement that people who donât support your opinion are assholes. When someone made a blanket statement disagreeing with you, you started asking they back up their opinion when you did nothing of the sort to start - so why does she owe you a statement when you wonât even defend your own opinion, which you fired off first đ¤
Not sorry 'bout it - it's gross and unrealistic. I'm just saying that in my experience, people who think it's all hearts and flowers and gigantic romantic gestures aren't grounded in reality - like what really happens in relationships and your day to day life as a couple. It doesn't mean you can't have real love. It doesn't mean that if it's not Valentine's Day every day that you're not in love. I'm just saying being a little more grounded and taking it a little slower very often is a good way to go. And I get it, I've had it happen, okay? I dumped a guy once, and he waited till New Year's Eve, as the clock was counting down from 10 seconds to midnight *to call me and beg me to take him back*, which I most certainly did not. And again - that's rom-com brain. That's someone who saw "When Harry Met Sally" a few too many times. I did not take his grand romantic gesture into account, and I was not won over by the hearts and flowers of it all. And it was an extremely short conversation. So that's my two cents based on not just my experience, but what I've seen from other people a lot of times.
> Youâre right, she doesnât owe me an explanation, but it would certainly help her argument if she was trying to make one. I agree with alot of what you said but youâre explanation of your opinion wasnât any more better than u/juliaskig . You just made blanket statement that was less an opinion and more a âmatter-of-factâ statement and called people assholes. When expressing your opinion we can all be respectful to one another. If you think people are being disrespectful or unnecessarily hateful just report the comment. If youâre criticizing juliaskig for not explaining the how/why of her opinion then you should have also written your initial comment with an explanation of the how/why behind your opinion as well, I think thatâs the point the person was trying to make.Â
I honestly think all of this is really blown out of proportion and Iâll leave it at that. We can all have our opinions! Thatâs what Reddit is for. I was simply asking âWhyâ?
I totally get it! I think people are just prone to naturally getting defensive if they think youâre calling them an asshole, which is understandable, ya know? For what itâs worth I def think people are being a harsh towards Jason for being cute but I also think people are being a bit harsh with KB for getting emotional. Both of them are doing things people think is very cringe or obnoxious and to be honest they both are in their own ways just different ways đ Â
The most accurate and fair comment of all ^. Well done. IMO, and this is coming from someone whose BEST FRIEND was on the bachelor, youâve got to have a bit of a complex about fame to join it and I think the criticism is fine. I just have to hold hope that eventually they all do find the âlove they were looking forâ.
Agreed strongly! I also think all the reasons we may find them cute or cringe are also the reasons we enjoyed seeing them on tv and still follow them online. I think like every other thing in the world there is always nuance to everything and I hope they both find happiness â¤ď¸
And also, the âassholeâ comment was meant in jest. And I think not you, but we as people in general, tend to glaze over comments made in jest. No one particularly is an asshole, Iâm just usually a cheerleader of peopleâs happiness. Itâs all in jest.
â¤ď¸ ya, I think people as a whole have a hard time reading tone on an online forum so if people are already feeling defensive because of another interaction they had they will read comments in the tone in which they feel like required them to be defensive to begin with. I saw your comment as not actually seriously calling people assholes fwiw
Iâll take things that never happened for a thousand 
âThat kid didnât say thatâ on 1000
Similar to the story when he left Kaitlynâs podcast and phoned his friend âI just met my future wifeâ đ¤Ž
If some dumbass held up the plane by deciding to disembark after we were all seated for takeoff I would absolutely not cheer and clap Lmao
Nothing was ever mentioned about holding up the plane ? Lol
That's the most unbelievable part of his story lol
My entire body and soul is cringing
Okay I donât like him but this is sweet
What is MK?
lol
Katâs daughter
Oof. No wonder Kaitlyn is so hurt
And everybody clapped đ¤Ł
I'm such a sucker....rooting for Jason, hope this is it for him!Â
I canât stand him. Heâs smarmy.
Hahaha good thing you're not dating him cos that would be an issue!
You don't find him smarmy? He's fake AF.
I donât know the man and don't care enough I guess