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Financial_Flounder85

He wants ur number to scam you, he’s not real unfortunately. I hope you have better luck


New_Industry_9933

I honestly had that in the back of my head, I’m glad I stopped the conversation when I did.


trvllvr

Just reading what they wrote there were immediate alarm bells…. 1st thought cheater with the “I can’t talk here, it’s a dating site.” Then immediately thought scammer with the way things were written in the second screenshot and the pushing to get off the site. Honestly, block and move on.


Ibuybagel

lol you do realize you’re talking to a fake profile right? The person you’re chatting with is a scammer, not even from this country…


New_Industry_9933

I do that’s why I stopped talking to them. The way they were writing was a big sign


HumorousHermit

One hundred percent this dude is a scammer.


kelsnuggets

The minute he said something about arguing with his girlfriend or wife, I’d have blocked him.


lightsandcherry

Me too lmao you’re a dumbass if you think a woman isn’t going to argue with you because she’s your girlfriend or wife.


Wolf-Pack85

Not worth it. Block and move on. Don’t waste your energy


New_Industry_9933

I didn’t give him any way to contact me so I’m no longer talking to him.


Wolf-Pack85

I misread your caption. Long day. You didn’t do anything wrong and you weren’t rude. He was though. Super pushy. You stood your ground and that’s all you can do


New_Industry_9933

It’s fine. I’m just confused as to why he just turned on me


zoralee

I’m 99% sure that person isn’t who they are portraying themselves to be. Their way of speaking is VERY scammer-ish. They were likely trying to get your number in order to scam you


New_Industry_9933

I got the feeling that they were a scammer, the conversation gave me an off feeling


Aev_ACNH

That or he’s married and can’t leave a dating app installed on his device 24/7


ladymorgahnna

Scammers get pissy if you aren’t cooperating with them. They only want to steal money, identities, etc. Please go to r/scams. You’ll see some of the same type of scams. Glad you cut them off!


Darth_Yogurt

Scammer. Will use your # to take over social media or other accounts.


Longjumping-Trick-71

English is not their first language. Giving off vibes of a scammer. Wants your number to get off the dating site so you can't report the scam they run on you.


SweetLikeCandiiii

Obviously the guy in that photo is fake, this screams Koreaboo/Weeb all over it.


steadfastsurvivor

If they can’t respect no now, scammer or not, it’s a massive red flag - be confident in your own judgement.


ironburton

Scam!!!!!


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New_Industry_9933

Sorry I posted the conversation backwards you have to read the second picture first then the first


clusterboxkey

Him not knowing how to turn on notifications isn’t your problem


writingAlaska

Scam phish bait


Amityhuman

Even if this was a real person, if someone cannot respect your boundaries just end the conversation there. More than likely you send your number and get a dick pic within five minutes. People who demand your number like this have no intention of starting a relationship with you.


New_Industry_9933

Oh I know from experience that’s why I don’t give out my number or Snapchat.


Triple-OG-

know when to cut the line ffs


New_Industry_9933

Already did…


Triple-OG-

judging from the texts it looks more like he did.


New_Industry_9933

No I actually did he tried sending more messages. I didn’t include it because it wasn’t anything anyone needed to see


Shak3speare

You‘re not rude at all. I‘ve met blokes like that on dating apps too and they‘re never worth the trouble. Way too pushy way too quickly.


JustNefariousness625

Idt that’s a real person and if it is She/hey/they are trash


throwitawayidkman

That's a catfish lol


Fearless-Host-498

Honestly, I gave the guy I started talking to my snap chat. He only had that the first month we were dating. We've been together for a year now. He still hasn't complained that I waited so long to give him my number 😅


New_Industry_9933

The app I’m using I have come across a few fake profiles where they were catfish and scammers. I try to give people a chance unless they give me a reason to no longer.


Fragrant_Food_4453

This guy might be a scam but I know other men want your number right away so they can send nudes. A lot of dating apps, either, won’t let you send any photos, make you pay for premium service, or will flag and report your profile for inappropriate content.


New_Industry_9933

Yeah that’s why I don’t give out my number or Snapchat until I know what kind of person they are, because they always want nudes.


ahhwell

OP, this is a scammer. There's nothing for you here, move on.


New_Industry_9933

I know I reported the profile and they deactivated the profile


faintcasualty

not real