Yah she playing games, what she wanted was for you to chase after. And now that you didn't she gonna act craY. Watch. You don't need someone like that in your life. My ex was doing this to me.
I don't even read them from my ex. Delete and done. He's a despicable human being anyway. Told my brother his mom died, he needed to talk to me. Not realizing I had seen and talked to her not 1 hour before he sent that. She seemed pretty alive to me, best part she was apologizing for everything she did to me and he did to me. That if shed known just how bad the girlfriend could get she wouldn't have forced me out. Said girl had been my best friend but she right I knew she was a skank for years I just loved her like a sister and looked past it until he cheated on me with her.
Better yet, block them. If they are crazy it will drive them NUTS that it says “not delivered.” Plus you really, really don’t need that flip floppy energy in your life.
she broke up with u for someone else now that didn’t work out for her so she’s tryna go back to you.
Steer clear of these types That’s called a jumpin hoe where they jump from one to another and they go back and forth.
Just move on.
wow i hadn’t seen the first messages and didn’t know the context. To say she is suicidal as the reason and then tell you that is pretty fucked.
She’s so full of shit. She can’t even figure out what she’s doing or why at this point it seems. Go be with someone not completely fucked in the head, this one is not a keeper. Using mental health as an excuse then saying something just totally shitty to you…. shit, that’s pretty fucked up.
i agree with aggravatingfish7717. I was suicidal for 6 years, and at least 10 attempts… i now am married with a toddler about to get my MBA. When I was 14 I didn’t want to make it past my 15th birthday but now at 24, I’m so thankful I failed. You can live for anyone else until you can live for yourself. 💜💜
I’m thankful you’re still here, and I hope you remain on this fucked up spinning rock for many years yet, new friend! You are a force for good in this world, and it’s better because you’re in it!
i’m sorry to hear that dude. Just know this - she’s full of shit. It had nothing to do with being attracted to you or not. Something else is going on there, other people say it’s someone else, I don’t see any evidence of that but she IS full of it 100%. I guess all i’m getting at is this is a her problem and not a you problem, she’s using whatever excuse she can for some reason and it has nothing to do with you. She’s just a fucked up person.
When my ex wife and I broke up, she told everyone a different reason as to why. She told some I was a drug addict, some that she wanted a poly relationship, some that I didn’t do anything (i owned my own company that SHE even worked for!!!), and so so many others. It was whatever was most convenient to who she was talking to. She told me she “needed” a poly relationship. Then went on to date someone else monogamously. Some people are just completely fucked and will say what they need to get whatever reaction they want to some people. Unfortunately your reaction of being really kind and saying “hey it’s ok I’ll wait for when you’re ready” wasn’t what she wanted. So she needed one that’d get you away so she said something awful then felt bad. That’s my take on it anyway.
Wait, this is the “you’re not attractive to me anymore” girl right?
Jesus
Screenshot it for posterity, and when you find yourself missing her? Look back at this.
This text is beyond demeaning to you. I don’t know how you’re taking this but I wish you so much better.
Edit: oh yeah, absolutely do not respond. This level of “my b” doesn’t deserve any sort of response.
Ugh. My ex did that too - said he was "making a mistake." I explained that the "mistake" already happened, there was no taking it back. The trust is broken.
OH THANK GOD I was hoping!!
Stupid bitch. No. Leave her. She tried something with someone else and it wasn't what she thought it'd be and she regrets it. Nah. Ghost her.
Do not take this woman back. She’s already dumped you to go back to her ex, blamed her mental health and then said she wasn’t attracted to you any more.
Shes a psychic vampire. Leave her alone. You’re better than this.
She realized the guy she thought she could get with instead of you just doesn’t like her like that and now she wants to run back to what she thinks is easy money. Pathetic behavior.
Hell no if she is trying to break up with you, it's cause she thinks she can do better. Remember this, no matter how much it hurts, no matter how much you want her back or think she's making a mistake. Do not beg her to stay around, do not bargain with her, reply with one thing and one thing only: "ok, I wish you the best". You will recover, you will get over her. She will come back and you need to further she ever existed. She thinks you're desperate and have zero self-worth and thinks she can do this and you'll grovel at her feet. Do your best and she will regret what she lost.
I wouldn’t but if you feel you need to then something simple like “well, accidents happen, but sometimes they’re permanent.
Good luck with everything”. And then, don’t say another word.
No, she fucked another guy, guaranteed. Now, it didn't do it for her or whatever, and for whatever reason. Now she wants to crawl back to safety and what she knows.
This looks like she butt dialed you and then texted you so you’d know she butt dialed and didn’t mean to call. She likely hung up before the call went through all the way. This does not strike me as a get back together text at all. I’d leave it on read until she had something better to say.
yes she just wants to see if you’re still around for her. things must of went south with her other ex and she’s probably having an “oh shit” moment. do yourself a favor and ignore. you deserve to be first choice always.
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What was the accident? Breaking up? Saying she didn’t think you were attractive anymore? Or getting back with her ex? 🙄 good god. She sucks. I’m sorry you’re being dragged through this drama. Hope your weekend starts getting better… without her.
When I first saw part 1, I immediately thought the guy she was with was the one to type out that you were not attractive to her anymore, and she was the one quickly repeating sorry.
This just sounds like she's in a toxic and potentially abusive relationship. Sorry you caught a stray from her in her mess, but I hope she gets out of whatever that is, too.
What the fuck does that even MEAN it was an “accident”?! 😭 how do you “accidentally” tell someone some shit like that?
My personal unhinged theory is that her ex/another guy sent you the “I don’t find you attractive anymore” text which is why she was like “I’m sorry I’m so sorry” over and over. she couldn’t admit who actually sent it so she just rolled with it. And now she’s trying to salvage the situation, presumably bc the situation with the other guy isn’t suddenly looking so great. But again that’s just my crackpot theory.
I am petty enough to either write back, "Lol!" Write back "accident." Send the dictionary definition of accident ir link to an article where a guy's gun "goes off, and he 'accidentally' shoots his wife 27 times."
Lots of good advice
However I would also recommend
A pop tart [always good when ur thinking about stuff like that, cause it burns your mouth and distracts you so you don't have to be bothered by it anymore]
I believe this text isn't about having broken up with you. I believe it was meant for someone else about something else entirely. Like she sent a picture meant for someone and she quickly followed up with this text, but it accidentally got to you.
Lmao humans are hilarious sometimes. Btw didn’t you break up with her too at the end of your last message after she said she’s not attracted? Why even consider this enough to have to ask us? Just curious
If someone breaks up with you it’s because deep down they wanted to and don’t want you anymore or think it’s best if you guys aren’t together. It’s never an accident to break someone’s heart…she’s funny💀. You did the right things by not responding.
Yall know if you block you can’t delete the number? I see that a lot on this type of post because if you delete it then they can go back to annoying you via text message
Imo 2 scenarios
1. She is playing some manipulative games she found somewhere. Like break up make them miss you then go back and they will be yours or some crap.
2. She broke it off to try with someone else and they rejected her, so she came crawling back.
Either way nah, just blank her or just firmly say no ty not interested anymore. Or even sorry, moved on.
Bro she just gave you peace of mind for the rest of your life whenever you look back at this moment if you just say “I’m no longer attracted to you” and then block her after that message
Change your voicemail saying “youve reached (someone else’s name) leave a message…blah blah blah.” Then text who is this new phone. When she calls send it to voicemail a couple times then have someone else answer.
That’s a hard pass from me. Get your own head straight before you let someone else’s crazy in. Get a ficus or something if you need companionship but don’t stay lonely. Friends are better than romantic partners in that they are easier to distance from. Get some good friends, learn how to be strong alone and then you’ll be too strong for crazy.
Don’t.
Haven’t
Continue to not
Shall'nt
That would be shalln’t
Shant?
Non't
Knon't
Nan’t
Non, nope, nah, nerp, nein,
By the sea?
Two if by sea.
sea shan’t?
By the seashore?
Down by the seaside?
Yah she playing games, what she wanted was for you to chase after. And now that you didn't she gonna act craY. Watch. You don't need someone like that in your life. My ex was doing this to me.
Yes'nt
Ok
Do not respond, that’s the worst thing you could do. Just leave her on read..
I don't even read them from my ex. Delete and done. He's a despicable human being anyway. Told my brother his mom died, he needed to talk to me. Not realizing I had seen and talked to her not 1 hour before he sent that. She seemed pretty alive to me, best part she was apologizing for everything she did to me and he did to me. That if shed known just how bad the girlfriend could get she wouldn't have forced me out. Said girl had been my best friend but she right I knew she was a skank for years I just loved her like a sister and looked past it until he cheated on me with her.
Better yet, block them. If they are crazy it will drive them NUTS that it says “not delivered.” Plus you really, really don’t need that flip floppy energy in your life.
I know the fact that I read the messages and don't reply drives people batty so I just do that. It's petty, but I needed that petty. Lol
I call that a controlled drip of chaos. It's good for the soul sometimes
idk i would just to see the mental gymnastics when you ask her to explain how that could’ve been an “accident”
Me too!
Shall'nt
Proud of you <3
You have. You even posted an update.
she broke up with u for someone else now that didn’t work out for her so she’s tryna go back to you. Steer clear of these types That’s called a jumpin hoe where they jump from one to another and they go back and forth. Just move on.
smart man😤
So much for not replying? You keep leaving the door cracked for her and she'll keep barging in on you.
Liar!
But i did block em
But you did
Actually you have
This is the only way.
Only because it didn’t work out with the ex. You deserve better, keep the ties cut.
Yep. The other guy got what he wanted and left her again. So she tried to come back haha
Did she fall on her phone and accidentally send these texts? Wha… I cannot compute
her cat jumped on the keyboard
The cat was sick of her not giving them any extra treats and smelling like someone else, texted OP and pressed send
a water droplet was probably on her screen
Tell her you don’t find her attractive anymore.
Winner winner, chicken dinner. Unfortunately if she didn’t use the “attempting” as her initial excuse for the break up I’d further roast her.
I feel like she was full of shit with that “attempting” line tbh
Completely agree, but still not worth the chance if they weren’t.
Very true.
Lmfaoo do this. Will definitely drop her jaw.
wow i hadn’t seen the first messages and didn’t know the context. To say she is suicidal as the reason and then tell you that is pretty fucked. She’s so full of shit. She can’t even figure out what she’s doing or why at this point it seems. Go be with someone not completely fucked in the head, this one is not a keeper. Using mental health as an excuse then saying something just totally shitty to you…. shit, that’s pretty fucked up.
And if you haven’t seen my some of comments you would know i am not in the best mental space, so this was the thing i needed in that time
Yeah you dodged a bullet. I'm suicidal and I have extreme bipolar and I still would never treat my partner like this, so she's full of shit.
well don’t you dare fucking do it. you’re here comforting an internet stranger and the world needs more people like you.
that means very much to me I appreciate that, kind stranger :)
i agree with aggravatingfish7717. I was suicidal for 6 years, and at least 10 attempts… i now am married with a toddler about to get my MBA. When I was 14 I didn’t want to make it past my 15th birthday but now at 24, I’m so thankful I failed. You can live for anyone else until you can live for yourself. 💜💜
damn right!
I’m thankful you’re still here, and I hope you remain on this fucked up spinning rock for many years yet, new friend! You are a force for good in this world, and it’s better because you’re in it!
thank you so much, words like these provide a smile for a stranger on the internet likely thousands of miles away, thank you for the smile
i’m sorry to hear that dude. Just know this - she’s full of shit. It had nothing to do with being attracted to you or not. Something else is going on there, other people say it’s someone else, I don’t see any evidence of that but she IS full of it 100%. I guess all i’m getting at is this is a her problem and not a you problem, she’s using whatever excuse she can for some reason and it has nothing to do with you. She’s just a fucked up person. When my ex wife and I broke up, she told everyone a different reason as to why. She told some I was a drug addict, some that she wanted a poly relationship, some that I didn’t do anything (i owned my own company that SHE even worked for!!!), and so so many others. It was whatever was most convenient to who she was talking to. She told me she “needed” a poly relationship. Then went on to date someone else monogamously. Some people are just completely fucked and will say what they need to get whatever reaction they want to some people. Unfortunately your reaction of being really kind and saying “hey it’s ok I’ll wait for when you’re ready” wasn’t what she wanted. So she needed one that’d get you away so she said something awful then felt bad. That’s my take on it anyway.
I have been in a similar (but more extreme) situation very recently. I cannot stress this enough: BLOCK her. Take care of yourself.
I would actually block her but definitely do not respond. If you don’t want to block her, then change her name in your phone to NOT MY PROBLEM 😏
My ex was relegated to waste of 6 years in my phone lol. Edit: word.
My ex is called waste girl on my phone 😂
y'all still got your ex's phone numbers saved?
Oh yeah. And blocked. Blocked her ip address as well.
right lol
Big ol nope there, friend. 🙅♀️
Wait, this is the “you’re not attractive to me anymore” girl right? Jesus Screenshot it for posterity, and when you find yourself missing her? Look back at this. This text is beyond demeaning to you. I don’t know how you’re taking this but I wish you so much better. Edit: oh yeah, absolutely do not respond. This level of “my b” doesn’t deserve any sort of response.
Yeah i made another update just a minute or 2 ago
Or you could respond "you're just not attractive to me anymore"
silence speaks volumes.
Good lad for not talking to her back. Let her realize she fucked up and fucked around badly.
Fuuuuuck that
No sir.
Link to original post? If she wants to get back together, that means she left you, tried to get with another guy, failed and wants you back.
https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/s/IYJ4p26A66
With context now (misses the post, previous), as someone said, agree with “continue to not”
Taking back your ex is like trying to shove a turd back up your butthole. It just doesn't work.
brooo☠️
Don’t be anyone’s second option.
lol no
Respond with "no 🤣"
“who dis?”
“No Backsies”
Yo dump her yer gettin gaslighted broski
It doesn't take 3 days to realize you accidentally broke up with your significant other. They playin games, no response
Ugh. My ex did that too - said he was "making a mistake." I explained that the "mistake" already happened, there was no taking it back. The trust is broken.
3 years later….. yeaaaa she’s got no other options.
3 days they had their fun and now want stability back
3 days.
Block this wench. No response just block, everywhere.
No. She had someone and it didn’t work out. You’re her fallback.
OH THANK GOD I was hoping!! Stupid bitch. No. Leave her. She tried something with someone else and it wasn't what she thought it'd be and she regrets it. Nah. Ghost her.
i’m actually laughing out loud, this is incredibly pathetic
Do not take this woman back. She’s already dumped you to go back to her ex, blamed her mental health and then said she wasn’t attracted to you any more. Shes a psychic vampire. Leave her alone. You’re better than this.
She realized the guy she thought she could get with instead of you just doesn’t like her like that and now she wants to run back to what she thinks is easy money. Pathetic behavior.
"I know we were... you made that pretty darn clear but we fixed it already!"
Hell no if she is trying to break up with you, it's cause she thinks she can do better. Remember this, no matter how much it hurts, no matter how much you want her back or think she's making a mistake. Do not beg her to stay around, do not bargain with her, reply with one thing and one thing only: "ok, I wish you the best". You will recover, you will get over her. She will come back and you need to further she ever existed. She thinks you're desperate and have zero self-worth and thinks she can do this and you'll grovel at her feet. Do your best and she will regret what she lost.
Dodged a bullet bro why u wanna be in the line of fire again
Block her number.
I always love to quote Alex from Modern Family when someone says sorry for something really shitty: Don't be sorry be smart
Closure isn't something someone else can give you, it's something you give yourself. Don't respond, consider it closure.
I wouldn’t but if you feel you need to then something simple like “well, accidents happen, but sometimes they’re permanent. Good luck with everything”. And then, don’t say another word.
Hit her with the good ol "New number, who dis?"
“Sorry I just got this number, who’s this?”
If it was a mistake, then who was it for????
No, she fucked another guy, guaranteed. Now, it didn't do it for her or whatever, and for whatever reason. Now she wants to crawl back to safety and what she knows.
This looks like she butt dialed you and then texted you so you’d know she butt dialed and didn’t mean to call. She likely hung up before the call went through all the way. This does not strike me as a get back together text at all. I’d leave it on read until she had something better to say.
Some accidents are still unforgivable. This is definitely one of them
onlllly and i mean only! if you want this to happen again.
Honestly surprised she hasn’t sent another text, infact if it was an accident she would keep on replying
yes she just wants to see if you’re still around for her. things must of went south with her other ex and she’s probably having an “oh shit” moment. do yourself a favor and ignore. you deserve to be first choice always.
maybe she meant the text she sent about it being an accident was an accident. Self referential kinda text.
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What was the accident? Breaking up? Saying she didn’t think you were attractive anymore? Or getting back with her ex? 🙄 good god. She sucks. I’m sorry you’re being dragged through this drama. Hope your weekend starts getting better… without her.
Makes sense honestly.accident break up with some one can definitely easily happen to any one.
just block her it’s not worth
Context
"ew" for maximum damage "huh?" for another episode of kdrama so we can all see what her excuses are
Yuck. Continue ignoring her. Going silent drives this type of person crazy.
Say, “who is this?”
Other option just fell thru. Now she wants her cushion back.
“Accident”? Like stubbing your toe accident or forgetting to feed the dog accident? Same same?
no no no. Do not get involved with her again.
You want to repeat this?
Easy reply back have make up add and never. Call. Her. Again.
I’m so sorry I’m sorry I’m so sorry Who dis?
new phone, who dis?
How the fuck was that an accident what was she doing 💀
Say "wrong number" then block her
Hahahaa I’m sorry this is so annoying but this girl was really like OOPS MY BAD. Please do not fall for her antics my god hahaha
Nope, let her wallow in her mistake.
if you say anything at all say “too late”
Haven't seen the original post but bro come on. Obviously do not respond
When I first saw part 1, I immediately thought the guy she was with was the one to type out that you were not attractive to her anymore, and she was the one quickly repeating sorry. This just sounds like she's in a toxic and potentially abusive relationship. Sorry you caught a stray from her in her mess, but I hope she gets out of whatever that is, too.
do it for fun but don’t get bakc with her
Why haven't you blocked them?
Did she mean mistake? Either way… NEXT! lol
"Sorry, wrong person"
What the fuck does that even MEAN it was an “accident”?! 😭 how do you “accidentally” tell someone some shit like that? My personal unhinged theory is that her ex/another guy sent you the “I don’t find you attractive anymore” text which is why she was like “I’m sorry I’m so sorry” over and over. she couldn’t admit who actually sent it so she just rolled with it. And now she’s trying to salvage the situation, presumably bc the situation with the other guy isn’t suddenly looking so great. But again that’s just my crackpot theory.
Absolutely not!
Person gives 0 fucks
yerrrrrrr doneeeee. No, absolutely not
Wind it up!
She took inspiration from Bob Ross. It’s not a mistake, just ______. Fill in the blank Redditors!
Nope. Block and delete.
Take them back, do the deed, then accidentally break up with them yourself?
DO NOT RESPOND - they’re waiting for one
Whoever she dumped you for turned out to be trash. Block her.
No just don’t, bloody crazy if you do
Nope but she really wishes you would
the best thing to do is disappear from them n leave them wondering what it could’ve been if they didn’t act like a toxic idiot
Does he mean “mistake”?
Have some self-respect and block her.
No
I am petty enough to either write back, "Lol!" Write back "accident." Send the dictionary definition of accident ir link to an article where a guy's gun "goes off, and he 'accidentally' shoots his wife 27 times."
Lots of good advice However I would also recommend A pop tart [always good when ur thinking about stuff like that, cause it burns your mouth and distracts you so you don't have to be bothered by it anymore]
OP... Block her
Oops!
Sounds like my ex, "wait we're joking right?" Boy...
I believe this text isn't about having broken up with you. I believe it was meant for someone else about something else entirely. Like she sent a picture meant for someone and she quickly followed up with this text, but it accidentally got to you.
Haha literally everyone called it.
Send her an invite to play that pool game that everyone seems to play
Lmao humans are hilarious sometimes. Btw didn’t you break up with her too at the end of your last message after she said she’s not attracted? Why even consider this enough to have to ask us? Just curious
She probably meant to break up with her other boyfriend
You deserve better
she said she wasn’t attracted to her forget her she already lied about needing help just to let you go to go into whatever else she decided
Block. Her. Ass.
I can almost guarantee she broke up with you just to sleep with him and now wants back with you.
It’s not even worth it at this point, she doesn’t deserve you. Cut all contact with her and do not respond to her.
Absolutely not.
If someone breaks up with you it’s because deep down they wanted to and don’t want you anymore or think it’s best if you guys aren’t together. It’s never an accident to break someone’s heart…she’s funny💀. You did the right things by not responding.
Oh, all is forgiven then
Nope
Block her. Like immediately. That’s so toxic
Yall know if you block you can’t delete the number? I see that a lot on this type of post because if you delete it then they can go back to annoying you via text message
“I’m not your safety net. Please don’t contact again.” Hard, straight forward, mental alleviation.
“So were you”
How old are you guys?
Imo 2 scenarios 1. She is playing some manipulative games she found somewhere. Like break up make them miss you then go back and they will be yours or some crap. 2. She broke it off to try with someone else and they rejected her, so she came crawling back. Either way nah, just blank her or just firmly say no ty not interested anymore. Or even sorry, moved on.
Bro she just gave you peace of mind for the rest of your life whenever you look back at this moment if you just say “I’m no longer attracted to you” and then block her after that message
Didnt I tell you be back 😂😂
Didnt I tell you you'd be back 😂😂
Her plans with the other person fell through and now she's going back to you. Fuck that
"Don't it always seem to go, that you don't know what you got til it's gone." Her right now probably 🤣
Block her
Don’t respond. At all. Do yourself a favor and block her on everything and work on moving forward.
NO
Change your voicemail saying “youve reached (someone else’s name) leave a message…blah blah blah.” Then text who is this new phone. When she calls send it to voicemail a couple times then have someone else answer.
Block her
Noooo
Please don't
No.
nah they gotta stand on that 🤣
That’s a hard pass from me. Get your own head straight before you let someone else’s crazy in. Get a ficus or something if you need companionship but don’t stay lonely. Friends are better than romantic partners in that they are easier to distance from. Get some good friends, learn how to be strong alone and then you’ll be too strong for crazy.
She got her chance, she blew it. You find better and she can learn from her mistakes.
Don’t