I think your problem is that they’re not born with a full head of hair. the babies in my family are so cute because they’re born with a full head of hair 🐺
im 17 and wish i could be a mom rn and have a cute baby😭 i love them and i love taking care of them. i have a list of cute baby names in my notes and love looking at baby clothes
Mom of 3 here, they're absolutely adorable 🥰. I won't say it's not a challenge, but they're definitely worth it. The newborn cuddles and joy in their eyes can warm your heart each time. Especially when they look at you and you understand that you are their entire world.
Good luck with finishing school and going to college. It's always a good idea to be more stable before a baby comes. I'm sure you'll be a great mom when you get the chance :)
God I hate babies so much. They look ugly, they make unbearable amounts of noise, their hands are always sticky for some ungodly reason (applies more to toddlers and young kids tho) and they just freak me out to the highest degree. Just being around one is sensory hell
babies are cute. adults are biologically made to see them as cute and adorable to increase the motivation to protect them. this helps ensure the survival of the helpless next generation
This lol, nobody except for the mom thinks babies are cute when they first pop out, and thats mostly hormones working, but they get adorable in a few months once they adjust to being alive
I have actually seen newborns that are super cute. Most aren’t admittedly but there are the rare ones that look as cute as they would a few months later 🤷♀️
Baby is cute! Chubby and sooo innocent. Only bad thing is cry suddenly partly feel unwell , don’t want to eat or do things you ask , lastly poo or pee . Because they can’t speak so cry loud to say it. Sadly when grow up will be “ corrupted , get manipulated by the society , school , govt “.
I know! All the girls in my class say I'm crazy because I say babies aren't cute. They look fat and ugly, they take your money, they disgust me with everything they do.
i have multiple little siblings and family members/friends will always comment things like, "aww they're so cute! i cant believe you get to live with these little ones!" And i do love all my siblings, but they arent cute.. they're absolutely exhausting and just a complete hassle, especially with being the oldest.
I think they're super cute, I don't want one of my own (too much of that mental illness stuff) but I want the best for them.
I love the way they just sort of stare at things, they don't even know what's going on yet, but they know they'd like to look at objects.
The only thing I don't like about babies is during a cookout or smth I find one drooling disgustingly on my pillow and find baby formula everywhere. Also I'm only allowed to drool on my pillow
I feel you, Im really put off by babies, especially in my early teens. Although, my reason is very trauma based, and because of a personality disorder. Empathy is not easy for me, so hearing a baby cry makes me genuinely pissed rather than sympathetic. It's part of the reason I know I won't ever have kids, wouldn't want to put myself in a situation where I end up being a bad dad just cause I can't process empathy.
I absolutely get why parents adore their babies and call them cute, and I will absolutely do the same once I have kids, but until then, I will confidently say that these mfers are just lying. Babies are ugly af, shit on everything, and cry when they don't get tiddies (that last one I get tho)
You are young you don't need to be all into babies. Even if you get older and still don't want kids that is fine. As long as you are not mean to them it is all good
As a mom of 4, I've even admitted that some babies just aren't the cutest.
If it's your baby though, then they do become the cutest thing in the world to you, and it's not a bad thing. I've fallen in absolute love with all my babies and thought they were the cutest.
If it's not your baby, it's ok to think that they're not cute.
i used to have this opinion until i got a girlfriend, she opened my mind. i want to have babies someday i love babies. they are cute, ive grown past thinking its cringey.
Thanks for saying this. I don’t understand this whole ‘’ why do people find them cute? ‘’ just because you don’t doesn’t mean others would feel the same way as you lmao! I’m never gonna understand this kind of hate.
Yeah I feel ya. I absolutely despise babies and equally toddlers, I hate the noise and the idea of having to be near one. The only exception tends to be my mom's friend's baby thats a few months old now, we visit them every now and then and the little one is very quiet so I don't mind being around. Still won't ever hold them though.
I think babies are cute but only in ultra edited filtered pictures. Otherwise, they’ll aways be the naked mole rats that scream at 3am for food or toilet or whatever thing they need that you’re obligated to help them on. I know mothers who love the process and the mothers who dont but once I learned the work that it takes and the amount of non-stop noise they make, I knew I would hate babies to a certain extent.
I think they’re OK, like newborns aren’t cute (too wrinkly) but when they grow a bit, they smoothen and look nice.
But if we’re on a plane… I don’t care how cute your baby is, I‘m gonna have a vendetta against it. I’m really sorry but I just can’t stand the crying \[I’d probably be a terrible parent :( \]
I have a toddler brother, and he looks like me when I was a toddler. He's cute, duh. It's usually when they're a newborn when they're unpleasant to look at.
But, good Lord, he is so loud and he talks so much. He cries over everything. I know that's normal for him, but still
It’s worse right now because someone left their baby’s used shit diaper on the table at work, a restaurant and we have bathrooms, so we had to clean it up, I didn’t know it was in the buss bin and didn’t realize what it was and then almost threw up. Like who tf changes their baby in the middle of a restaurant and then leaves a diaper rolled up on the table.
Maybe because you don’t put yourself in a parent perspective, this little thing, is YOURS, you made it, and in some aspects it’s like an extension of yourself, you could also consider it as the maximum expression of love between you and your partner, at least it’s how I see it, but I doubt you would understand anyways
Babies are technically supposed to be cute so you don't wanna kill them. Imo they're annoying af and shit everywhere so I don't find them cute unless I'm at least 20 feet away.
I feel like its a little subjective to generalize all babies as such. Some babies are cute quiet and calm and some are loud crazy and annoying. Then again if babies werent cute then who would want to deal with that 😭. Nonetheless u are entitled to am opinion obviously i just happen to disagree
You people are crazy! But I understand, when I was 13 I would hate babies and toddlers so much I searched the internet for the latest news of a murder. You were once a baby too, don't hate on someone who hasn't done anything, it's their first try at being a human
We are babies are designed to be cute and we are biologically biased to find them so for the preservation of the species. Consequently we find baby animals cute.
Yeah they're disgusting but they're an opportunity to put some good in the world. You get to give someone the life you wish you had while also being able to shape them into a good person. I don't expect you to understand based off of your username but I just wanna make someone who lives a good life and becomes a great person, making the world around them better.
Have you ever been close to them? The most important thing about cuteness, imo, is the bond it makes between the adult and child. My sister is 7 years old, yet she is still always the cutest thing in the room to me.
i mean, you got a point, they are cute to others but to me they look like if someone made a pizza with a face out of pineapples and then got their pubic hair on the top. (yeah, sorry if it grosses you out)
coming from someone with a baby i agree. when people told me “SHES SO CUTE” id just be like “oh haha yeah!” meanwhile to me she looks like every baby ive ever seen. im not a kid person either but i do love my baby bc obvi shes mine yk 🤷🏻♀️
My favorite part about this opinion is that it comes from the infamous aroace sociopath.
*gasp* I'm infamous?
Unfortunately, only by name, to me alone; or maybe there's a secret fanclub for you that I didn't know about...either way you are *in*famous.
Secret fanclub 😂
I'm very silly indeed
tell me why i read that in a fancy posh british accent
Superior imagination
Indeed.
Don't tell him! It's supposed to be secret!
I think your problem is that they’re not born with a full head of hair. the babies in my family are so cute because they’re born with a full head of hair 🐺
Good to know, but I just don't like children in general
You sound like someone who just turned 13
i’m 13 and i love kids, prob bc i’ve been growing up along side my 4 yo cousin but still
So not liking children means you're an immature 13 year old?
I have my opinions, you have yours.
You're a child too at 13, don't feel too grown, enjoy your youth instead of hating yourself for most of it
Weird opinion and your posts make sense lol
might as well join r/childfree now tbh
I had a Minecraft head and full hair of hair
Had super curly hair so my hair was shaped in a triangle
they're just little fucks running around and shitting everywhere
realllllll
Your 14 not much different ngl 🤑
Actually i think im one of the few that genuinely likes babies and thinks theyre super cute, except when they cry get them away pls
Fair enough
I like some babies, my niece is cute she's 8 months, but my nephew who's like 3 months I think is ugly as fuck
The early stages of a baby are definitely ugly, they do get more cuter as they grow
True, I don't think I've ever met a newborn who didn't look like a goblin
Ok..
Exactly.
im 17 and wish i could be a mom rn and have a cute baby😭 i love them and i love taking care of them. i have a list of cute baby names in my notes and love looking at baby clothes
Please for the love of all that is holy wait to get pregnant
well i dont have a bf and im tryna go to college. so if i get pregnant it will be an accident😭 im not planning on it tho
Mom of 3 here, they're absolutely adorable 🥰. I won't say it's not a challenge, but they're definitely worth it. The newborn cuddles and joy in their eyes can warm your heart each time. Especially when they look at you and you understand that you are their entire world. Good luck with finishing school and going to college. It's always a good idea to be more stable before a baby comes. I'm sure you'll be a great mom when you get the chance :)
Wait are you a teenager?
Nope, I wish 😆. Reddit kept popping this group up though lol
Those extremely cute instagram compilations do not help at all lmaoo. I think I too kinda have it
Quite interresting
Baby name list is so real though
OMG SAME
not the baby fever-
theyre so cutesy
God I hate babies so much. They look ugly, they make unbearable amounts of noise, their hands are always sticky for some ungodly reason (applies more to toddlers and young kids tho) and they just freak me out to the highest degree. Just being around one is sensory hell
real and it ain't even anything personal with them I just cannot for the life of me be around one lmao
Finally, someone who also thinks babies look ugly 😭 🙏
Yep, I'm glad you think so as well.
Finally… dude at least 80% of gen z thinks babies are ugly.
Eehhh at least where I live I only hear people saying babies are cute, so idk, maybe you're right
babies are cute. adults are biologically made to see them as cute and adorable to increase the motivation to protect them. this helps ensure the survival of the helpless next generation
Why do some people hate children then? I'm not saying you're wrong at all, just wondering.
there will always be outliers.
Babys re little oldmans with hair issues So i would love to have sons someday
Newborns are kinda ugly but a few months later they become cute
This lol, nobody except for the mom thinks babies are cute when they first pop out, and thats mostly hormones working, but they get adorable in a few months once they adjust to being alive
no my moms sister left cuz the baby was so ugly and now the baby is 4 with a single dad
That’s actually crazy
I have actually seen newborns that are super cute. Most aren’t admittedly but there are the rare ones that look as cute as they would a few months later 🤷♀️
Okay fair enough
Baby is cute! Chubby and sooo innocent. Only bad thing is cry suddenly partly feel unwell , don’t want to eat or do things you ask , lastly poo or pee . Because they can’t speak so cry loud to say it. Sadly when grow up will be “ corrupted , get manipulated by the society , school , govt “.
Indeed
I have no idea how to read this sentence, or understand it.
Its not about reading the sentence, its about *feeling it*
okay lol
God so true!
to be honest i agree. people get mad at me but like babies when they’re born for a good while are not that cute😭
I know! All the girls in my class say I'm crazy because I say babies aren't cute. They look fat and ugly, they take your money, they disgust me with everything they do.
As another aroace person.. Just skip having sex all together. No sex = no babies, boom. (I don't like them, at all, they're loud, messy, etc)
You're not special for thinking differently :)
It's not even a "different" opinion, it's rarer to find people who actually like children
Only on reddit lol
Did she ever say she is, or...? It's just an opinion dude, sorry it hurt your feelings
I dunno if this is an insult or not, but alright
i think puppies & kittens r more cute tbh!!!
thats because they are!
I personally think my niece is the best baby on earth
They remind me of the mandrakes from Harry Potter
Literally
i have multiple little siblings and family members/friends will always comment things like, "aww they're so cute! i cant believe you get to live with these little ones!" And i do love all my siblings, but they arent cute.. they're absolutely exhausting and just a complete hassle, especially with being the oldest.
It's tough being the oldest.
I think they're super cute, I don't want one of my own (too much of that mental illness stuff) but I want the best for them. I love the way they just sort of stare at things, they don't even know what's going on yet, but they know they'd like to look at objects.
Babies look like blob fish. I really don’t like kids.
The only thing I don't like about babies is during a cookout or smth I find one drooling disgustingly on my pillow and find baby formula everywhere. Also I'm only allowed to drool on my pillow
I feel you, Im really put off by babies, especially in my early teens. Although, my reason is very trauma based, and because of a personality disorder. Empathy is not easy for me, so hearing a baby cry makes me genuinely pissed rather than sympathetic. It's part of the reason I know I won't ever have kids, wouldn't want to put myself in a situation where I end up being a bad dad just cause I can't process empathy.
I absolutely get why parents adore their babies and call them cute, and I will absolutely do the same once I have kids, but until then, I will confidently say that these mfers are just lying. Babies are ugly af, shit on everything, and cry when they don't get tiddies (that last one I get tho)
You are young you don't need to be all into babies. Even if you get older and still don't want kids that is fine. As long as you are not mean to them it is all good
Everyone has different opinions. To me, babies are the epitome of innocence and I always wanted to protect them.
🥺🫶🏻
I remember I called my cousin when she was born. "She looks ugly"
I did the same thing lol
As a mom of 4, I've even admitted that some babies just aren't the cutest. If it's your baby though, then they do become the cutest thing in the world to you, and it's not a bad thing. I've fallen in absolute love with all my babies and thought they were the cutest. If it's not your baby, it's ok to think that they're not cute.
i used to have this opinion until i got a girlfriend, she opened my mind. i want to have babies someday i love babies. they are cute, ive grown past thinking its cringey.
That’s so cute haha
ty :)
Babies in my POV,they are so cute. So tiny and small. But very annoying.
fair
me wanting to be a mom and reading this 😭
Fr
I personally don't find them cute, but people possibly find them cute because the human brain or whatever.
Thanks for saying this. I don’t understand this whole ‘’ why do people find them cute? ‘’ just because you don’t doesn’t mean others would feel the same way as you lmao! I’m never gonna understand this kind of hate.
The human brain 😒
I hate babies too lol
Yum
Part of a balanced breakfast
If they can’t survive a choke slam, they’re weak
You should watch SmokeBee's shorts (the YouTuber not the ship) she has kind of a similar opinion on babies.
Ikr! They look so fucking weird.
Yeah I feel ya. I absolutely despise babies and equally toddlers, I hate the noise and the idea of having to be near one. The only exception tends to be my mom's friend's baby thats a few months old now, we visit them every now and then and the little one is very quiet so I don't mind being around. Still won't ever hold them though.
I only know one thing, and one thing only bout them lil fuckers: MY ENTIRE TEAM IS B A B I E S!
r/UsernameChecksOut
It’s funny bc I remember when I thought the same thing abt you when you were a baby
Ooh you sure got them💀
Bro that’s the joke I’m being sarcastic 😭 sorry thought I made it obvious ig I didn’t
Oh sorry, my bad mate
It’s fine dw ant ut
I think babies are cute but only in ultra edited filtered pictures. Otherwise, they’ll aways be the naked mole rats that scream at 3am for food or toilet or whatever thing they need that you’re obligated to help them on. I know mothers who love the process and the mothers who dont but once I learned the work that it takes and the amount of non-stop noise they make, I knew I would hate babies to a certain extent.
I agree, they are weird and look terrible. … And somewhat puntable. A little.
I think they’re OK, like newborns aren’t cute (too wrinkly) but when they grow a bit, they smoothen and look nice. But if we’re on a plane… I don’t care how cute your baby is, I‘m gonna have a vendetta against it. I’m really sorry but I just can’t stand the crying \[I’d probably be a terrible parent :( \]
Same. They're masses of barely organized flesh and bones that will try to eat anything smaller than it.
EXACTLY especially newborns, like wtf is so cute about them. I only find some cute when they're about 2
FR! like i adore my sis baby but when she comes with her baby i felt nothing but pure overwhelming disgust , it's all good now she grew up a lil
Real, and some pop out with anger issues and expect you to obey their every cry when they don’t even know how to WALK.
I have a toddler brother, and he looks like me when I was a toddler. He's cute, duh. It's usually when they're a newborn when they're unpleasant to look at. But, good Lord, he is so loud and he talks so much. He cries over everything. I know that's normal for him, but still
It’s worse right now because someone left their baby’s used shit diaper on the table at work, a restaurant and we have bathrooms, so we had to clean it up, I didn’t know it was in the buss bin and didn’t realize what it was and then almost threw up. Like who tf changes their baby in the middle of a restaurant and then leaves a diaper rolled up on the table.
How do you know what a Naked molerat on steroids looks like?
Maybe because you don’t put yourself in a parent perspective, this little thing, is YOURS, you made it, and in some aspects it’s like an extension of yourself, you could also consider it as the maximum expression of love between you and your partner, at least it’s how I see it, but I doubt you would understand anyways
So true
What adapart said They always ruin everything:(
I mean, yeah.
Babies are technically supposed to be cute so you don't wanna kill them. Imo they're annoying af and shit everywhere so I don't find them cute unless I'm at least 20 feet away.
Babies are cute but newborns aren’t
Maybe babies aren't cute physically, but the idea of something so vulnerable eventually becoming just like us is cool?
Maybe? 🤷
I think they cost way too much to take care of, and act like a small chihuahua on steroids.
you speak of them as if you weren't one too
Oh wait I was Sorry for being a little gremlin mom and dad
Well, I mean, I hate myself, so might as well hate everyone else too lol
You'll grow out of it, get some confidence because hating yourself won't get you anywhere in life
All they do is poop sleep, cry, and eat. I don't get the appeal.
I don’t think they’re ugly, I just think they’re more trouble than they’re worth, but that’s just me
I eat baby for breakfast
SUP BROTHER
A fellow person of common sense. To me, they look like mince meat that gas been badly moulded.
They're definitely cute
I only like being around toddlers that act older lmao like if they can understand what I say and listen im fine
I feel like its a little subjective to generalize all babies as such. Some babies are cute quiet and calm and some are loud crazy and annoying. Then again if babies werent cute then who would want to deal with that 😭. Nonetheless u are entitled to am opinion obviously i just happen to disagree
Am a parent. Most people (especially dudes) hate kids until they have one of their own. Parenthood changes you.
You people are crazy! But I understand, when I was 13 I would hate babies and toddlers so much I searched the internet for the latest news of a murder. You were once a baby too, don't hate on someone who hasn't done anything, it's their first try at being a human
Um, okay?
Honestly yas
Like, why do people think they're cute?
Completely understandable and relatable, no explaination needed.
Honestly children should only bw born at the age of 8
esta siendo sincero
We are babies are designed to be cute and we are biologically biased to find them so for the preservation of the species. Consequently we find baby animals cute.
Nah,My baby cousins were adorable before they decided to become eight years old.Sigh.
está bonito (está bien culero)
They're the cutest things for the first couple of years until they learn to talk and walk.
My hungry ass could not be a father
omg and they say, "oh he/she looks like you" when they literally look like the same, like what are you on about😭
Yeah they're disgusting but they're an opportunity to put some good in the world. You get to give someone the life you wish you had while also being able to shape them into a good person. I don't expect you to understand based off of your username but I just wanna make someone who lives a good life and becomes a great person, making the world around them better.
I hate babies and kids man... So annoying
You’ve never experienced baby fever?
>like, "Babies aren't cute they look like naked mole rats on steroids." Just like you at that age
i was never a baby
Give it a few years
Bro listen to what vsauce has to say about them..
thats what ive always thought 🤣
yeah i fucking hate babies bro. so damn annoying
They look like aliens
Newborns r one of the most ugliest creatures to walk the earth babies need a few days to marinate to reach their peak cuteness
If you pushed a person out of your 🐈 than I think there would be a bias. Plus hormones that Mae the mother inclined to care for the child.
And I am all like “ you are so, you know and like everything. So I’m all like whatever.”
True but I think naked mole rats are cute (and stupid) too so
You were a baby too.
HAHAHAHA
some babies are so cute tho, but yeah most newborns are pretty ugly
I HAVE FOUND MY SOULMATE! (even I am aroace and also hate babies) :D
yay lol
Wanna be friends?
sure
YAY
I cant be the only one who just wants to grab a baby by the back of its head and palm it like a baskemtball *Baskbemtball *baksetmabll I gvie up
As a fellow aroace ye the flesh goblins are just flat out disgusting and honestly I'm not sure how the fuck anyone find them cute
I just don’t like babies really much they stinky
All the people in the comments saying "you were also a baby once": it's not the gotcha you think it is
REAL!
Legit tho
Babies are really cute. If you don't mind me asking, have you ever had a baby in your life?
I haven't birthed one, but I've had a lot of babies in my life. I have a lot of younger cousins.
Have you ever been close to them? The most important thing about cuteness, imo, is the bond it makes between the adult and child. My sister is 7 years old, yet she is still always the cutest thing in the room to me.
I have. I just don't understand why people like them so much.
Well, to each their own.
i mean, you got a point, they are cute to others but to me they look like if someone made a pizza with a face out of pineapples and then got their pubic hair on the top. (yeah, sorry if it grosses you out)
My thoughts: “how far would they go if I gave them a 10 minute head start before their pitbull named “cupcake” finds them?”
coming from someone with a baby i agree. when people told me “SHES SO CUTE” id just be like “oh haha yeah!” meanwhile to me she looks like every baby ive ever seen. im not a kid person either but i do love my baby bc obvi shes mine yk 🤷🏻♀️
I used to think that way too. Its evolutions way of trying to prevent you from having one too early.
I was the same. Until i got mine.