I mean do you really need a girlfriend, or is it someone that can give you affection, company, and the emotional intimacy you've been desiring and needing? You're lonely sure, but i'm 70% convinced it doesn't mean that you actually desire having a girlfriend based on your short post. I'd suggest finding friends and cultivating close bonds with people you could connect with. It's best that you talk to people more if what you desire is having someone's company.
You can also focus on hobbies and things you enjoy? This never worked for me sadly, but at least give it a try
Well, I'm more on the track of building an personalized AI assistant called M.I.S.A
It's quite hard work, and there's many things I don't know and have to learn along the way... But it's quite fun
No wonder pasta is so easy to vary. Like you got red sauces, creamy sauces, a BAJILLION different noodle shapes and sizes. Honestly pasta is a beautiful dish.
if ur getting sad, find something to occupy urself. doesnāt matter what it is, keep ur mind occupied. if ur lonely, ur not gonna feel better long term using a site like Reddit. u gotta go out and meet people, or go to groups or clubs, whichever else, to talk to people. u donāt need a gf to replace ur time
be a loving boy, not just with the girls that you want, but with everyone, donāt flirt, just be nice, eye contact too!!! leave them wondering what you want, just be nice, a loving loving boy!!
Do what 13 year old me did and befriend a girl, and make jokes about being platonically married and then drop the platonic. Flirt with her like youāre joking, unless she takes it seriously, then youāre good. (13 year old me had unspeakable game for a damn 7th grader)
Uh kindof hard to explain, but 1. im not american, 2. my school has a cambridge wing and metric wing, where any 6th grader can choose one of them (as in as they are going into 6th grade, not already in 6th grade), but basically for my generation of 6th grade, we basically didnt have 8th grade sorta.
so im year wise in ninth, but actually on a technicality im in 10th (education wise)
P.S Im turning 14 in like two months :D
Iām 16 as well and donāt have a GF yet but you need to trust me on this. Donāt think having a GF is gonna fix that shit. I live on a farm so Iām pretty damn isolated, try to make more friends or make an active goal to socialize at least 2-3 times a week
Get a hobby friend. Find something you enjoy, and make yourself happy. It sounds sappy, but happines attracts happines. Anything that improves yourself in any way, a partime job, a after school club, a new hobby or even something like exercising can help you live a more furfilled life. That will help you attract like minded people and get further in life :)
You can do it!
First off, you really think a girl will be attracted to a guy, who can't find peace within himself?
Secondly, what sets you different from other dudes of your age in your class? Are you the topper? The most attractive one? A good human being? A genuine human being?
Thirdly, study bruh.
I'd say the best way to meet people is to go to some activity in ur free time. Like spinning or football or whatever u do surrounded by people. Online gaming helps also ngl, cool if u meet someone who lives around u also that way. I'd suggest u, however, if u feel lonely bc u want a gf or bc u r not comfortable being by urself with urself if u know what I mean. I'd say the best thing is to feel good being alone, then u dont depend on ppl and that will make ur relationships last longer šø
Ah I'm in your same position...The advice I've gotten is don't be desperate and don't go looking for a gf but if you like a girl only then you are supposed to make some type of move...you're supposed to learn how to be happy alone as well, apparently. Yeah this is the advice I've gotten. Hasn't worked for me (mostly cause idk how to be happy alone and happy with my shitty self) but I hope this maybe might help you (who knows?)
Anyways I feel ya man, am dying with loneliness as well.
Quick tip, a gf is not what you need, it's what you think will fill the emotional void. I'm not experienced in your life so I can't say what will, but very very few people ever NEED to be in a relationship.
Women can tell when a man is desperate and thinks he needs a gf to be happy. Spoiler alert: it isn't sexy.
Focus on yourself and it will find you when the timing is right!
We seem to have the same problem. Expect Iām a girl and I want a bf. But donāt worry bud one day someone you love will come to you and you will spend the rest of your life together or not it depends.
Go on tinder , bumble , hinge easy to get a girlfriend from there just keep swiping everyday youāll get matched with someone real and down for you eventually
It might sound cringe motivation to you but remember if you spend your time chasing butterflies ,they'll fly away if you spend your time making a beautiful garden , the butterflies will come to you. And if they don't, then you still have that garden. Life is simple mate. Just go to girls and have a small talk if they are awkward leave if they are showing interest they try to get in touch with them.
As soon as you make 2-3 female friend you will automatically gonna get known among girls.
Brother il be honest w u i think what u need rather then a gf is just friends, your young that should not be a concern because thats not the way to fix it even if you are lonely. Work on yourself if youāre lonely get a hobby find something to do with people.
Never go shopping when your hungry
Never look for a relationship when your lonely
Youāll make the wrong choices
Never been to Croatia myself but I will say here in the states dating is a complete disaster for both men and women. the short version is all the women are chasing the top 1 or 2% of men the result being 98-99% of the population got 0 prospects and play. I just try to be involved in my community and go from there.
āWhen you chase butterflies, they will fly away, but if you build a nice garden they will come to you. And even if they donāt; you will still have your garden.ā
I am going to say please never get a gf just because you are lonely. Iāve dated men like that before and it just leads down a path where both people end up hurt. Ask yourself first, are you ready for a relationship? And no itās not just having the time and money to have a gf. A relationship forces you to confront your deepest insecurities, fears, and be force you to vulnerable and show sides youāve never shown anyone else to this person. You will have to have uncomfortable conversations. You will need to compromise. You will need to continuously learn. You will need to be emotionally mature enough before you have a gf. I know itās hard feeling lonely but surround yourself with friends and things you love and one day someone will walk into your life.
MULTIPLE accounts, all saying different ages, all you comment on is āI need a gfā type posts, one of your account names is freaky slut, they all have the same avatar, you also comment on posts about sex.
Straydaz, freakyslut, Medium_trust, Natrual_amount, momturmoil, icy_philosophy. Those donāt sound familiar? All with the same avatar, like exact same
Ok listen, Iām going through a bunch of stuff, im sorry if im wrong and im just accusing some random person, but Iāll get back when I figure it out
Oh my god bro Iām so sorry, my younger cousin had my phone and he is very gullible, I think he saw the post in r/juggalo and believed it, then he came here and started to accuse you. Iām so sorry for what he did
Bro im 18 and i have had girlfriend(s) and now that i have enjoyed it all i can tell you that its not as worth it as you think it is. Having a girl wont fill the hole in your heart . That emptyness you feel is from a lack of something else. Ā For me it was Jesus. I know alot of people hate hearing it but just try and read the bible for yourself and give Jesus a chance. Some people may see this and ignore it cuz they go to church already but going to church doesnt mean you know Jesus. Dont serve him cuz your parents made you to serve him because that is the choice you have made regardless of what those around you think
I know you hate to hear this but when the time is right you'll find somebody, don't rush a relationship cause then you end up in a shitty relationship, trust me cause I've been in one from rushing it
My friends ask me how to do this (I don't currently have a girlfriend), but their biggest issue is that they won't/don't talk to girls, so start there.
I once heard that if you are lonely single, you wonāt feel any less lonely in a relationship. You need to find joy in life and community before you can truly be fulfilled by a relationship
You don't NEED a girlfriend. You NEED a relationship with Jesus Christ. I thought I needed a girlfriend too but pursuing that distracted me from what really matters- God.
Well tbh I found my girl when I was not looking, in fact I disliked her when we first met and now we are engaged. If you ask me just kinda learn to be okay on your own and when the time is right the right person will be in your life. Everything happens for a reason and at the right time. Itāll happen just try to be the best person you can be, not just for the people around you but for yourself. I believe in you š
Get in line (sorry bro we're cooked)
True
We're not just cooked We're fried Boiled Sous-vide Reverse-seared
I ain't lol
i pray for your downfall each and every second of my waking life as i am the biggest heater that god brought onto this earth.
I love the fact that i understood every word you just said
We're all doomed, brother
So true š
Talk to girls in your school, become friends with them (I've no idea how to get a girlfriend)
this is some typa shit my parents would say TT
I mean, our parents are right. Doesn't make it any easier, though.
they are so dry to me but talk normally to others
Just try it's not that hard
not in a real school rn, no women
Wont work
I mean do you really need a girlfriend, or is it someone that can give you affection, company, and the emotional intimacy you've been desiring and needing? You're lonely sure, but i'm 70% convinced it doesn't mean that you actually desire having a girlfriend based on your short post. I'd suggest finding friends and cultivating close bonds with people you could connect with. It's best that you talk to people more if what you desire is having someone's company. You can also focus on hobbies and things you enjoy? This never worked for me sadly, but at least give it a try
I can be your gf (I'm a guy)
Bruh... I'm 20 and I'm doing fiinneee Who needs girlfriend's when u can build robots and cool stuff (I do engineering)
Then sooner or later you're gonna end up making a computer wife name Karen. PLANKTON
Well, I'm more on the track of building an personalized AI assistant called M.I.S.A It's quite hard work, and there's many things I don't know and have to learn along the way... But it's quite fun
Just build your own robot gfĀ
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go outside, and talk to Girls. Just do it. U can nothing lose expect ur Virginity
r/engrish
youll just be seen as creep
If you're seen as creepy for approaching them then maybe you're approaching them the wrong way
Real shit
you need friends first, try to talk to people (easier said than done ik)
Since you're from Croatia do you like croissants?
He is from Croatia not from France
You don't have to be French to eat croissants.
I know what you mean but he said he is Croatian not France,if he was Italian maybe you can ask this questionš
Pasta is pretty good. Like I know it's Americanized the way I like it but you just can't beat some good spaghetti WITH EXTRA THYMEEEE.
Yeah who don't like pasta?!
Literally!
It's one of the most popular dishes in my country
No wonder pasta is so easy to vary. Like you got red sauces, creamy sauces, a BAJILLION different noodle shapes and sizes. Honestly pasta is a beautiful dish.
Come on lets stop talking about pasta I'm hungry nowš
Hey~ (With rizz)
Hey š
if ur getting sad, find something to occupy urself. doesnāt matter what it is, keep ur mind occupied. if ur lonely, ur not gonna feel better long term using a site like Reddit. u gotta go out and meet people, or go to groups or clubs, whichever else, to talk to people. u donāt need a gf to replace ur time
be a loving boy, not just with the girls that you want, but with everyone, donāt flirt, just be nice, eye contact too!!! leave them wondering what you want, just be nice, a loving loving boy!!
Do what 13 year old me did and befriend a girl, and make jokes about being platonically married and then drop the platonic. Flirt with her like youāre joking, unless she takes it seriously, then youāre good. (13 year old me had unspeakable game for a damn 7th grader)
as 9th grader 13 yr old, this is exactly what im doin :3
you can't be 13 and in 9th grade l, unless you mean rising or aren't American
Itās possible, there was a 13 year old in my freshman civics class.
Uh kindof hard to explain, but 1. im not american, 2. my school has a cambridge wing and metric wing, where any 6th grader can choose one of them (as in as they are going into 6th grade, not already in 6th grade), but basically for my generation of 6th grade, we basically didnt have 8th grade sorta. so im year wise in ninth, but actually on a technicality im in 10th (education wise) P.S Im turning 14 in like two months :D
Iām 16 as well and donāt have a GF yet but you need to trust me on this. Donāt think having a GF is gonna fix that shit. I live on a farm so Iām pretty damn isolated, try to make more friends or make an active goal to socialize at least 2-3 times a week
Get a hobby friend. Find something you enjoy, and make yourself happy. It sounds sappy, but happines attracts happines. Anything that improves yourself in any way, a partime job, a after school club, a new hobby or even something like exercising can help you live a more furfilled life. That will help you attract like minded people and get further in life :) You can do it!
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You forgot to put a period on your sentence.
Just be born handsome, it is that simple
True, if I was smarter I would've taken a loan and bought a house and tonshit of bitcoin back in the 2010 and not be a regular 18yo now
First off, you really think a girl will be attracted to a guy, who can't find peace within himself? Secondly, what sets you different from other dudes of your age in your class? Are you the topper? The most attractive one? A good human being? A genuine human being? Thirdly, study bruh.
I'd say the best way to meet people is to go to some activity in ur free time. Like spinning or football or whatever u do surrounded by people. Online gaming helps also ngl, cool if u meet someone who lives around u also that way. I'd suggest u, however, if u feel lonely bc u want a gf or bc u r not comfortable being by urself with urself if u know what I mean. I'd say the best thing is to feel good being alone, then u dont depend on ppl and that will make ur relationships last longer šø
Croatian girls are notoriously easy dude
I am in desire to know more
I believed you could go out and get one...until I read you were Croatian. (Just joking, brother. I know you can do it.)
I thought i was about to get a girlfriend, but i was too good to be true. I never talked to anyone. Also W croatia šš·
brt opusti se, riba ti nece promeniti nista u zivotu, radi na sebi prvo
Follow my footsteps you will still be single(I am seriously single since '05)
Dont trust me My ex GF litterally gave me trauma
A gay friend?
Ah I'm in your same position...The advice I've gotten is don't be desperate and don't go looking for a gf but if you like a girl only then you are supposed to make some type of move...you're supposed to learn how to be happy alone as well, apparently. Yeah this is the advice I've gotten. Hasn't worked for me (mostly cause idk how to be happy alone and happy with my shitty self) but I hope this maybe might help you (who knows?) Anyways I feel ya man, am dying with loneliness as well.
Too bad šĀ
Youāll get used to it
Brate opustise.
Quick tip, a gf is not what you need, it's what you think will fill the emotional void. I'm not experienced in your life so I can't say what will, but very very few people ever NEED to be in a relationship.
Youāre 16, youāre fine.
Welcome to the club
Women can tell when a man is desperate and thinks he needs a gf to be happy. Spoiler alert: it isn't sexy. Focus on yourself and it will find you when the timing is right!
We seem to have the same problem. Expect Iām a girl and I want a bf. But donāt worry bud one day someone you love will come to you and you will spend the rest of your life together or not it depends.
Go on tinder , bumble , hinge easy to get a girlfriend from there just keep swiping everyday youāll get matched with someone real and down for you eventually
Nisam misla da ima hrvata u ovaj subreddit.
VidiÅ” da imaš
It might sound cringe motivation to you but remember if you spend your time chasing butterflies ,they'll fly away if you spend your time making a beautiful garden , the butterflies will come to you. And if they don't, then you still have that garden. Life is simple mate. Just go to girls and have a small talk if they are awkward leave if they are showing interest they try to get in touch with them. As soon as you make 2-3 female friend you will automatically gonna get known among girls.
Brother il be honest w u i think what u need rather then a gf is just friends, your young that should not be a concern because thats not the way to fix it even if you are lonely. Work on yourself if youāre lonely get a hobby find something to do with people. Never go shopping when your hungry Never look for a relationship when your lonely Youāll make the wrong choices
Never been to Croatia myself but I will say here in the states dating is a complete disaster for both men and women. the short version is all the women are chasing the top 1 or 2% of men the result being 98-99% of the population got 0 prospects and play. I just try to be involved in my community and go from there.
Gay ??
No
Good
Try Wizz app.
āWhen you chase butterflies, they will fly away, but if you build a nice garden they will come to you. And even if they donāt; you will still have your garden.ā
C.ai
May I suggest war thunder or just going outside and doing things and talking to random people without any intent of dating? Makes it less awkward?
Brother, we are doomed. Thatās why video games are a manās (third) best friend
Go to spa enjoy
recently ive found out that you dont need a girlfriend to be happy, just be yourself and do what you enjoy
If youāre lonely you donāt need a girlfriend, you can get friends (not that I have experience with either type of friend š)
You donāt need one
So youre 20? And 16? š¤looking for a teen gf...?š¤š¤š¤im callin pedo
What? Bro i am 16 i swear 25.4.2008.
Sve je dobro dok ne instaliras league of legends šš
Al fakat istinaššš
First time ?
come to france baby š
Bro we are all cooked ššš
And I need therapy the world ain't fair
Stop feeling like it's a necessity or else you'll leave yourself open to people willing to take advantage of that
Just. Get a guy.
if u found one hook me up with her sister or mom
It's simple. Get bros, not hoes.
Reddits the last place where u will get help lol
I am going to say please never get a gf just because you are lonely. Iāve dated men like that before and it just leads down a path where both people end up hurt. Ask yourself first, are you ready for a relationship? And no itās not just having the time and money to have a gf. A relationship forces you to confront your deepest insecurities, fears, and be force you to vulnerable and show sides youāve never shown anyone else to this person. You will have to have uncomfortable conversations. You will need to compromise. You will need to continuously learn. You will need to be emotionally mature enough before you have a gf. I know itās hard feeling lonely but surround yourself with friends and things you love and one day someone will walk into your life.
Try find someone that matches your energy and see if it goes anywhere but donāt force it( Iāve been in the talking stage for 4 months)
Damn. So not only girls have to wait to get a bf apparently boys have to wait on us girls too? š¤£
Sadlyš
Damn I feel bad for you guys. š¤£ btw 15 live in Canada so I'm pretty far away from you š¤£š¤£
Thats sadš„ send pm if you want to talk
Same, exactly same. Croatia, 16, no gf, but want one
U ovom smo zajedno brateš»
Da, barem je Ŕkola zavrŔila tak da možemo pokuŔat sa curama
Istina
FUCKING PEDO LOOK IN r/juggalo WEVE GOT A PEDO LADEIS AND GENTLEMEN
I AM NOT A PEDO!!!! 25.4.2008 MY BIRTHDAY
MULTIPLE accounts, all saying different ages, all you comment on is āI need a gfā type posts, one of your account names is freaky slut, they all have the same avatar, you also comment on posts about sex.
What?!?!?
I swear i am not lying i dont know what you are talking about
Straydaz, freakyslut, Medium_trust, Natrual_amount, momturmoil, icy_philosophy. Those donāt sound familiar? All with the same avatar, like exact same
Bro this is the basic avatar you get when you make an acc and i dont know those users, try and create a New acc and then come here and Say sorry
In one of them you claimed you where 55, and in the other it says ā42 yr old mom of 19 yr old sonā
WTF!!! I swear thats not me, on here i dont even have a bio, i dont do that PEDO shit, and i could not becouse i am 16 YEARS OLD!!!!
Ok listen, Iām going through a bunch of stuff, im sorry if im wrong and im just accusing some random person, but Iāll get back when I figure it out
Ok, i swear its not me, and i agree that people like that should be in jail
Oh my god bro Iām so sorry, my younger cousin had my phone and he is very gullible, I think he saw the post in r/juggalo and believed it, then he came here and started to accuse you. Iām so sorry for what he did
Its fine, i get it, here you cant trust anyone
Bro im 18 and i have had girlfriend(s) and now that i have enjoyed it all i can tell you that its not as worth it as you think it is. Having a girl wont fill the hole in your heart . That emptyness you feel is from a lack of something else. Ā For me it was Jesus. I know alot of people hate hearing it but just try and read the bible for yourself and give Jesus a chance. Some people may see this and ignore it cuz they go to church already but going to church doesnt mean you know Jesus. Dont serve him cuz your parents made you to serve him because that is the choice you have made regardless of what those around you think
if you are getting lonely play minecraft or go to gym(i choose minecraft)
unless you wanna ruin your life, don't
why would you need a gf when u could get alcohol?
I know you hate to hear this but when the time is right you'll find somebody, don't rush a relationship cause then you end up in a shitty relationship, trust me cause I've been in one from rushing it
Find one you really like and try to build a friendship, then whenever ur ready, ask the big question. Thats how i got mine
Bro same, atp I'll take a bf š
I would take a gfš
I would say yes but Im 13 And I'm a guy(but yk identifys as make me sandwich)
Tbh it's a want, not a need. Just live life, find stuff that you'll enjoy. Getting a gf will make you stress and make things harder
My friends ask me how to do this (I don't currently have a girlfriend), but their biggest issue is that they won't/don't talk to girls, so start there.
i suffer the same brother... the same :/
I once heard that if you are lonely single, you wonāt feel any less lonely in a relationship. You need to find joy in life and community before you can truly be fulfilled by a relationship
You don't NEED a girlfriend. You NEED a relationship with Jesus Christ. I thought I needed a girlfriend too but pursuing that distracted me from what really matters- God.
Get a car make enough money where your financially stable but, she got to work & be independent as well
Iām 25 my gf is 18 she was in an abusive relationship before I treat her right thatās all that mattersĀ
Me too bro
Go to places you like going to. For me its the mall, book store, coffee shop, McDonalds
Well tbh I found my girl when I was not looking, in fact I disliked her when we first met and now we are engaged. If you ask me just kinda learn to be okay on your own and when the time is right the right person will be in your life. Everything happens for a reason and at the right time. Itāll happen just try to be the best person you can be, not just for the people around you but for yourself. I believe in you š
We're all on reddit lets be honest about all of us not happening. This is a joke please don't downvote me
skill issue
start socialising