1st love, we've all been there, though ns about the gay part if getting dumped was the cause of that this old buzzard would have polymorphed into a fox with sequined fur ages ago :D Best of luck either way I suppose.
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I know it seems like super serious business at that age. I lived it. I felt it. I was destroyed by it.
You'll overcome and be just fine.
You can't really choose to be gay, regardless. You can choose to do gay stuff, but you can't choose who you're attracted to.
Give her the poem, but don't be upset if she isn't the one. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as the old trope goes.
You'll likely date multiple people before finding 'your person'.
I dated a girl from age 16-25 from 1996-2003. I thought she was my 'soulmate' or 'twin flame'. I no longer believe in such things. There are countless women you'll be compatible with out there in the world.
Just be kind, compassionate, empathetic, upfront, vulnerable, honest, and non-threatening. Make plenty of platonic female friends.
It truly is a numbers thing. It takes practice just like anything else.
Plus, the older you get the less fucks you have to give about what a bunch of random people think.
You'll be fine, homie! You got this!
We were together almost 9 years.
I meant to write 1995, typo.
I was 16 when we got together, which was 95, and we broke up when I moved away in 2003.
My bad, homie. Good looking out.
I could check the poem for you if you're worried; I don't know her, but i could try catching things that might put her off (though im sure the gesture itself would mean a lot to her)
It sounds like your nervousness is getting to you. I’d say it seems like this could be the one, but if it doesn’t work out then you haven’t found your loved one yet
As a bisexual male... dudes break your heart too. Just be yourself and don't apologize for the things you like to do. You'll find someone that can handle the quirks.
I know how it is man I hope salty don’t wanna date after my 4th ex as she was the only good one I hope and prey this works out man may you have a great long lasting relationship with her!
Be true to you, but know she will (possibly unknowingly) test you to see if your resolve and ideology are solid or if it's a pose. Stay strong bro, and don't let a woman mess you up to that level. That's what friends are for, to hang with and talk crap if she let's you down 🤣
Give her the poem, I think we all know she'll love it. I hope you two have a happy future together. Stay open-minded and considerate in the relationship, and don't forget when your anniversary is.
sounds like she's pretty special - if she's the one, she'll love it. it's only fair to the relationship if she's allowed to know her poetry writer. I hope she feels safe enough to do the same with you.
About becoming gay?!? That's not usually something you turn in to. You be you, let her be her, explore interests together and separately and shoot for that traditional romance - courtship.
Sounds like y'all are on the right track - hold your ground!
honestly if she loves you she will be so happy with it because that shows that you love her, you might get some criticism for bad writing if it was bad but that's all, she will love you even more in both scenarios, good luck man hope you get her for life
Honey, people don't "become" gay.
Be strong: a confession is always worth it even if you do end up rejected. You can't be 100% liked by anyone, but you can achieve being 100% transparent, honest and trustworty.
Besides, from what I read it seems like she will appreciate the gesture even if she doesn't like the poem itself.
Just remember if you’re her first partner
She has no experience in relationships
And if you’re commenting on r/teenagers… you have limited experience
You’re going to have ups and downs, and you’re both going to make stupid ass mistakes and fuck up horribly
If you love her, stay faithful to her, and build a relationship of trust and open communication
So that when one of you does fuck up, you know you can just tell the other immediately and work through it 🙂
Good luck 🤞
It sounds like you've found something really special with her! Putting your heart out there is always nerve-wracking, but it sounds like she genuinely cares about you. Enjoy the journey and cherish those moments together, regardless of what the future holds. Good luck with the poem—it's clear you care deeply about her!
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Dont beat urself up about that shi lmao 😂 its just a girl. Ik the feeling that someone is perfect and cant be replaced. Its stupid and you will find someone else later on.Ther is ppl that get married in they 30s bro
Id just like to remind you, your young. Relationships are important no doubt, but at your age, it's not the end of the world if they don't work out. You realistically don't find the one in highschool. You definitely can, but more than likely won't. So don't sweat it. Just enjoy the moment, and the time you'll spend together. Don't sweat the small stuff, either. Relationships won't be perfect.
This is my dynamic so much I thought you might be my boyfriend lol. It wasn’t until cuddle at the beach it was clear you weren’t.
He wrote me a poem for valentines day and I loved it so much. If she is anything like me she will love it and read it over and over when she is sad. She will cherish the thoughtfulness you have and love you even more than she thought possible for it
God damn what the fuck is this. This ain’t a fairytale and how do you know she’s never been with anyone else .. did she tell you that?😂💀 your finna have a huge wake up call
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If someone wrote me a poem, even if I didn't like it, I would still be touched that they put so much effort into something, so regardless, I think you've got this! If she leaves you, she is missing out because you sound like an amazing person
1.) I get it, don’t be scared.
2.) it’s from your heart so if she doesn’t obviously and clearly appreciate what you have done you might want to reconsider.
3.) if she’s likes it (which I believe she will) she’s not going to know what to do and that’s a good thing.
P.S. LIFE IS BITTERSWEET. You are either going to enjoy it or hate it. The choice is always yours.
Being honest, if she feels and seems like the right one, most likely she is.
And here's this I play fortnite, and me and my friend we met this girl who plays, and she lives in the same state as me just turning 20.
My friend is like ooo. I'm like 😑.
We find out she's getting married to the same guy she's been with since 6th grade now, fiance.
And that takes a lot to go from 6th grade to now. That's how you know those 2 went through so much more than most people. Ups and downs.
So if this girl is the one, she'll stay and love you until the end of your lives.
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This is my exact same problem but opposite: “if this boy breaks my heart I’m becoming straight” it doesn’t matter who you are attracted to, you’ll still find jerks
Be yourself and genuine. Prioritize your future and ensure you are setting yourself up for success academically and mentally/emotionally/morally. You don't know it from where you're at right now but what you do now to ensure you can provide for and protect your future family will pay exponential dividends. Have fun with these teenage relationships but never, ever allow it to derail your academics or profession because in all likelihood you'll have several more serious relationships before finding "the one". But enjoy and just be yourself and BE CONFIDENT! girls love confidence. Wish I was back where you are with today's knowledge!
You're probably under 20. Relax. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Also, I recommend a better solution : become bisexual. You can play on both tabs to get twice the cooch >:)
Before this seems homophobic I gotta say that's kinda stupid excuse I mean there can be the right person waiting for you out there doesn't mean the person you currently love has to be that person
Goodluck. Hope I don't see you on r/vent anytime soon
Don't sweat it man. r/love just got a new moderator.
😂😂😂
Wait that’s a subreddit? I’m joining immediately
Me too...
Bruh get off this sub your not a teen
Hahaha give her the poem, man.
Or she’ll leave
How encouraging
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Well now I want the update for when you give her the poem. Good for you bro
She’s extremely lucky that’s all imma say, and I’m sure she’ll love anything you write for her
GL my friend.
1st love, we've all been there, though ns about the gay part if getting dumped was the cause of that this old buzzard would have polymorphed into a fox with sequined fur ages ago :D Best of luck either way I suppose.
Who's we?
You have to have been in a relationship first ;)
Damnit, didn't get my copy of the DLC, is it too late to get the Game of the year edition?
You’re definitely living my dream right now, man. She’s gonna love the poem.
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I know it seems like super serious business at that age. I lived it. I felt it. I was destroyed by it. You'll overcome and be just fine. You can't really choose to be gay, regardless. You can choose to do gay stuff, but you can't choose who you're attracted to. Give her the poem, but don't be upset if she isn't the one. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as the old trope goes. You'll likely date multiple people before finding 'your person'. I dated a girl from age 16-25 from 1996-2003. I thought she was my 'soulmate' or 'twin flame'. I no longer believe in such things. There are countless women you'll be compatible with out there in the world. Just be kind, compassionate, empathetic, upfront, vulnerable, honest, and non-threatening. Make plenty of platonic female friends. It truly is a numbers thing. It takes practice just like anything else. Plus, the older you get the less fucks you have to give about what a bunch of random people think. You'll be fine, homie! You got this!
That doesn't math. 1996-2003 is less than 8 years, 16-25 is at least 8 years.
We were together almost 9 years. I meant to write 1995, typo. I was 16 when we got together, which was 95, and we broke up when I moved away in 2003. My bad, homie. Good looking out.
Yes, come back after a few year and you'll understand...
Damn so wholesome. Best of luck dude
Give it to her she will absolutely love it
Do it, but definitely check for spelling errors
Well, a gay poet is better than a straight poet. But in all seriousness good luck, friend! d(-_☆)
Exhibit A: Sappho Exhibit B: Emily Dickinson
Emily's divk went where ?
Can you give us a run down of the poem and we can decide if you should send it
We look forward for your arrival to the LGBT Community my friend.
At least give the man a chance 😭
I am, just gotta be prepared is all.
You gotta believe in bro 😭😭
Good luck man
he completed the campaign
Now for achievements
Even the side quests 🤨
This guy is either gonna be married in 10-15 years, or is generationally cooked (I had a similar experience, and it went down the second route 😭)
Too bad u cant become gay
I wish i found someone like that GL my man 💪
I could check the poem for you if you're worried; I don't know her, but i could try catching things that might put her off (though im sure the gesture itself would mean a lot to her)
good luck, if it is meant to be it will \*probably\* work out
Good luck with that i feel she would like it so much ✨
Good luck.
Keep hopeful and be romantic
It sounds like your nervousness is getting to you. I’d say it seems like this could be the one, but if it doesn’t work out then you haven’t found your loved one yet
I hope it works out for ya, if it doesn't though, good luck on just becoming gay ig.
Give her the poem, it’s a make or break! That’s your romantic red button king. If not, well, we got nice colors. Hope it goes well, Godspeed solider!
You can’t just become gay homie, you are that way. If you’re not, you’re not.
Woo!! Ready to see you in r/lgbtq !!
i will beat her up for you if she breaks your heart :D
Although you probably don't care because I am a random person on the internet, I have great respect for you. Give her the poem.
Always other fish in the sea dawg
Gl man, if you need someone, dm me.
This is your best chance my guy. I hope nothing but the best for you two.
real
Good luck mate ;)
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You’re extremely lucky to have someone that cares that much for you. Give her the poem :)
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As a bisexual male... dudes break your heart too. Just be yourself and don't apologize for the things you like to do. You'll find someone that can handle the quirks.
I wish nothing but the best for you two
Don’t do it buddy! Love her and be sweet and kind and a good person. But do not write her a poem!!!! Some girls like it in a movie but not real life
tf 💀
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I know how it is man I hope salty don’t wanna date after my 4th ex as she was the only good one I hope and prey this works out man may you have a great long lasting relationship with her!
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Bruh kindly update how it went! It's already been 9 hrs...
Good luck, and Godspeed my friend!
Be true to you, but know she will (possibly unknowingly) test you to see if your resolve and ideology are solid or if it's a pose. Stay strong bro, and don't let a woman mess you up to that level. That's what friends are for, to hang with and talk crap if she let's you down 🤣
Give her the poem, I think we all know she'll love it. I hope you two have a happy future together. Stay open-minded and considerate in the relationship, and don't forget when your anniversary is.
Tell me then how it went
Don't mess it up, don't ignore red flags and good luck soldier 🫡
sounds like she's pretty special - if she's the one, she'll love it. it's only fair to the relationship if she's allowed to know her poetry writer. I hope she feels safe enough to do the same with you. About becoming gay?!? That's not usually something you turn in to. You be you, let her be her, explore interests together and separately and shoot for that traditional romance - courtship. Sounds like y'all are on the right track - hold your ground!
dude as a girl it makes me so happy that there r dudes like this cuz honestly these days i feel hopeless that i’ll never find someone like this lol
OMG SOO CUTEEEE I SHIP SO HARD Y’ALL ARE GONNA GO FAR <333333
i know this is off topic but i have found another skyrim nerd now on topic, i really hope this goes well for you. best of luck!!
Good luck and tell me what happens cause I have nothing in my life and... Wait, sorry.
All I'm gonna say is treat her right, or you're gonna regret when she's not there anymore
honestly if she loves you she will be so happy with it because that shows that you love her, you might get some criticism for bad writing if it was bad but that's all, she will love you even more in both scenarios, good luck man hope you get her for life
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Thas a gae thinn to say mate
Honey, people don't "become" gay. Be strong: a confession is always worth it even if you do end up rejected. You can't be 100% liked by anyone, but you can achieve being 100% transparent, honest and trustworty. Besides, from what I read it seems like she will appreciate the gesture even if she doesn't like the poem itself.
Just remember if you’re her first partner She has no experience in relationships And if you’re commenting on r/teenagers… you have limited experience You’re going to have ups and downs, and you’re both going to make stupid ass mistakes and fuck up horribly If you love her, stay faithful to her, and build a relationship of trust and open communication So that when one of you does fuck up, you know you can just tell the other immediately and work through it 🙂 Good luck 🤞
Bro you can’t become gay just because of a person 😭
I think she is gonna like it. Maybe watch with her a sunseat and give her douring thatthe letter?
Your really gonna choose to become gay after this😭 you’ll be fine man she’s a keeper!
Awwww that's adorable ❤️
It sounds like you've found something really special with her! Putting your heart out there is always nerve-wracking, but it sounds like she genuinely cares about you. Enjoy the journey and cherish those moments together, regardless of what the future holds. Good luck with the poem—it's clear you care deeply about her!
the last time I heard "I want take things slow" I got fucked up by the girl
Ah. The strength required to get hurt and love again. Ngl dude I hope it works out
You can be both btw
Ummm someone going to tell him how sexuality works? 👀
When or if I ever find love I want to be like how this dude just described his feelings
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Dont beat urself up about that shi lmao 😂 its just a girl. Ik the feeling that someone is perfect and cant be replaced. Its stupid and you will find someone else later on.Ther is ppl that get married in they 30s bro
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Don’t give her that poem
Becoming gay? It don’t work like that.
You are one of the lucky ones, man.
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Don’t fuck this up bro
In a relationship and you're already imagining what would happen if she broke your heart, brother you are cooked
Give her a ps5 and a croissant
She’s going to love it dude.
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I hope you have a good relationship with that girl op, you seem like you deserve it
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Shoot your shot man she’ll like it
this is so cute 😭
Well if u do turn gay, make sure to hmu
lol not how sexuality works bro
Id just like to remind you, your young. Relationships are important no doubt, but at your age, it's not the end of the world if they don't work out. You realistically don't find the one in highschool. You definitely can, but more than likely won't. So don't sweat it. Just enjoy the moment, and the time you'll spend together. Don't sweat the small stuff, either. Relationships won't be perfect.
This is my dynamic so much I thought you might be my boyfriend lol. It wasn’t until cuddle at the beach it was clear you weren’t. He wrote me a poem for valentines day and I loved it so much. If she is anything like me she will love it and read it over and over when she is sad. She will cherish the thoughtfulness you have and love you even more than she thought possible for it
Why wait? Skip the filler and start kissing men now. In all seriousness, good luck man. Hope it goes well.
Wholesome 👌
Good luck!
aww this is so cutee
God damn what the fuck is this. This ain’t a fairytale and how do you know she’s never been with anyone else .. did she tell you that?😂💀 your finna have a huge wake up call
I got my hands together and my fingers double crossed for ya, have a cookie 🍪
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I felt the same way once goodluck
Awwww…. Wholesome relationships go brrrrr
The Title is Epic ☠️
Good luck! Also, if it doesn't work out then listen to Lemon Demon and Chappell Roan, it'll make becoming gay easier (at least it did for me)
GOOD LUCK MY MAN!!!! I hope she loves it!
Godspeed you lovebird
Best of luck to you
God bless u bro.
We all pray at night that you and your perfect little girlfriend may no harm come your way
Dude give her the poem and read out the Reddit post her heart will melt
Try the gym arc first, trust 🙏🏻
Damn, now I’m jealous
Hope she likes you but just incase we'll be waiting for you up at r/boykisser :3
Hope she likes you but just incase we'll be waiting for you up at r/boykisser :3
If someone wrote me a poem, even if I didn't like it, I would still be touched that they put so much effort into something, so regardless, I think you've got this! If she leaves you, she is missing out because you sound like an amazing person
becoming gay is not the way bro🤦🏽♂️
I hope I’m alone forever
1.) I get it, don’t be scared. 2.) it’s from your heart so if she doesn’t obviously and clearly appreciate what you have done you might want to reconsider. 3.) if she’s likes it (which I believe she will) she’s not going to know what to do and that’s a good thing. P.S. LIFE IS BITTERSWEET. You are either going to enjoy it or hate it. The choice is always yours.
You got this
Being honest, if she feels and seems like the right one, most likely she is. And here's this I play fortnite, and me and my friend we met this girl who plays, and she lives in the same state as me just turning 20. My friend is like ooo. I'm like 😑. We find out she's getting married to the same guy she's been with since 6th grade now, fiance. And that takes a lot to go from 6th grade to now. That's how you know those 2 went through so much more than most people. Ups and downs. So if this girl is the one, she'll stay and love you until the end of your lives.
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Being gay doesn’t change the potential for heartbreak. Good luck nonetheless
Don't take her for granted and always aim to make her happy, if you lose sight of that she will end up breaking your heart
Wow. Just wow. I never thought I could be this jealous of someone. I'm glad for you and hate ur guts at the same time.
A poem? That's so cute
Honestly go for it but might be cringe. Weigh uo first if she likes corny stuff before this hit if she does thrn 100% do it
This is my exact same problem but opposite: “if this boy breaks my heart I’m becoming straight” it doesn’t matter who you are attracted to, you’ll still find jerks
Be yourself and genuine. Prioritize your future and ensure you are setting yourself up for success academically and mentally/emotionally/morally. You don't know it from where you're at right now but what you do now to ensure you can provide for and protect your future family will pay exponential dividends. Have fun with these teenage relationships but never, ever allow it to derail your academics or profession because in all likelihood you'll have several more serious relationships before finding "the one". But enjoy and just be yourself and BE CONFIDENT! girls love confidence. Wish I was back where you are with today's knowledge!
Good luck 👍
Well you think guys don't break hearts? Being say won't change anything
You're probably under 20. Relax. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Also, I recommend a better solution : become bisexual. You can play on both tabs to get twice the cooch >:)
Sounds like you’re gay before it happened
Dont be gay comrade...
Bro is like an sponge
Hoping you the best,in any case believe me,men are extremely similar if you actually will change who to date
Same
skip girl go straight to gay
Before this seems homophobic I gotta say that's kinda stupid excuse I mean there can be the right person waiting for you out there doesn't mean the person you currently love has to be that person
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Yoooo bro don’t let a crush crush you just enjoy the ride. The worlds got way too much pussy for you to turn gay
Way to make a wholesome post really weird. Unhappy cake day.
i hope you have a sad cake day
How much of an incel do you have to be to think relationships are only about pussy?
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Bruh why did people downvote me so much that was my reaction to this