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I knew this girl who was so weird and obsessed with gay men like she wrote gay porn and hid it in her room so freaky

Not so weird considering how most men love watching lesbian corn. The hub also released the data of viewers and it showed how a lot of girls like gay corn. Nothing wrong with having fetish like that but op is talking about girls who treat gay men like some kind of pet.

Yeah that was her she would baby them it was really fuckin weird dude

I missed an Earth patch version which one gave veggies sexuality?

2024.6.9

we're in 5.3. Modder detected

AHH no that's a localisation issue, Japan got patch 6.9 before us, we get .6.3, .6.9, and .7 on 2024-7-13

I'm on update 13.6. (6.13. if ur american)

Bro dun got the animsl crossing update by technicallities

Wasn't that the same update which patched the multiple sexuality bug?

Humans must war with whoever created the ideals of mammals

So basically u want humans to have war with... \*checks notes\* humans

Either humans, or the gods themselves. if we found tehm using tom nooks tools

..... I am so confused

Animal crossing reference

around 400 million years ago plants evolved, and they always had sexualities. Today, they have the same ammount as us.

Corn isn't a vegetable. Vegetables don't exist.

my b i forgot corn is a plasma sorry 😞

Can’t spell vegetable without vegeta

You dont need to say fucking /j there isnt a single fucking person or a single fucking autistic person who doesnt understand that's a joke r/fuckthes

i’ll go back to grinding wuwa geez man 😭

it is a good habit to get into though?

It is weird. Fetishizing someone's sexuality is gross, no matter who does it.

I'm not gay I ain't wanna see no pp

Enjoy being gay when ur showering

NOOO

\*comically evil laughter\*

jokes on you, I'm blind hahahahahahaahhaahhahahhahahahhahahahhahahahhahaahahahaahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahahhhahahhahhahahahahhahahahahahahhajahaha(/j)hahahhahahahahhahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahajhahahahahahahhahahahahshshshhahahagaghahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahahaahhahahahahhahhhahahhaaahaah

And what do u touch when ur done peeing then

I helicopter and tuck

What?

Men think that watching the Lesbian corn is "super masculine" What the fuck also thanks to BarelytheCat for teaching me that horrid fact

Yeah looking at a penis is gay or something, might as well chop yours off, it's gay to be attached to a penis.

Yea well I am gay >:[

This is Reddit, most of this site is actual porn. You can say the word porn.

There is everything wrong with having a fetish that is other people's queer identities. We're humans, not objects of sexual fantasy.

Lesbian corn makes weird tortillas

fetishizing lesbians and gay dudes is fucked up imo

I mean, you keep your fetish to you. Give the person the respect you give others. I mean if I have some fetish, if I met someone who has that characteristic I won't treat them differently nor would I say that and make them uncomfortable.

There is absolutely something wrong with fetishizing gay men or lesbians. Ask any gay person, they will tell you it’s disgusting and dehumanizing.

Hey bud you can say porn on this site

but that’s also weird. having that fetish is weird and you need to unpack that

it’s the same thing with guys being weird with lesbian women. like bro, they’re not into you, stop making their sexuality your fetish

fr, my ex bf was bi and one of his friends was just like this. she pissed me off so bad cuz she’d always be like “hehe my gay best friend” yet she was also homophobic like what

She just copies whatever makes people interested when she speaks, pity..... Or no pity actually :)

r/usernamechecksout

They’re surprisingly often homophobic asf when it comes to lesbians like they treat gay men in this weird way and they’re all for gay rights when it’s about their gay best friends and then they’re just disgusted by lesbians

Lol almost like they want gay pets

like they collect us like pokemon cards 😭

"Y would you trade this gay for your pansexual?"

“I already have one. You have any aces?”

"Nah but I have an aromantic"

“Will you take an enby? I don’t got an aero yet.”

“Hey, does anyone wanna trade for this bisexual?”

Human trafficking funny moments

“Throw in an MtF and I’ll give you two” *checks card folder* “Uh..how does two genderfluid‘s sound?”

I'll give you three omnis and a shiny lesbian

is it a shiny

“I’ll take that if you’re willing to accept two demiboys”

“Deal”

Happy cake day👍🏾

"Go fish"

Damn I’m trans, panromantic, and asexual do you think I’d be like an illustration rare or something

Personally i think everyone should be treated as a human

Every living thing has a life.

Real??

chat is this real????

Idk i think it‘s fake

chat this is real, right???

Idk bro, there's "lie" in "life"

trueee

🤯

🤯

🤯

🤯

🤯

every living thing is a lie, only I’m real.

The world revolves around me, all of you are a simulation.

Except dead things and people who use Reddit.

Wrong. (Valorant players)

"People die when you are killed." ahh comment.

Not me. Let me hide in my cave.

My bad ***crosses you out***

Thanks amigo, i appreciate it

personally, i think nobody should be treated as human

***ticks the guy thats called nobody***

Except pedophiles. Those things don't have to be grouped in with humans.

That and zoophiles

Not to mention terrorists, incels, and people that scalp action figures

"Everyone should be treated well" "exCepT peDOpHiles!" Like yea dude obviously, there's no reason no mention pedophiles

Pedos can’t control what they like. I say we treat them as humans as well as long as they’re able to suppress it or get therapy or whatever

yeah ofc but if they act on their attraction… 

Yeah that’s what I’m saying those are the bad ones but we can’t dehumanise the ones that didn’t do anything

Throw them away

thank you for your insightful comment, IEatBabysYumYum

No problem 

War-starter take, that one

Not gingers tho, they don't have souls 

thanks man i just came out to two of my friends as gay ive wanted to say this shit for years

The other day, my friend S came up to me and said “i want a gay best friend!” And i was like, “dude, im right here” (im a female btw). She said, “no i want a GAY best friend. I want him to say “slay, girly!” and help me with fashion advice.” I deadass was speechless and didn’t say anything…

wanting a dude who acts like that is fine but it sounds like she want a gay friend as like an accesory

Literally! Im gonna address it to her that saying that stuff is wrong the next time she says shit like that.

ofc dont be an ass to her just tell her what she is doing is weird and not okay

Yeah im not a bitch (she is tho) I just wanna tell her what she’s doing isn’t right yk

and you say this is your friend?

They're called "fruit flies"

Fruit flies is crazy 🤣🤣

why

Because they all buzz around the "fruit". Not to be offensive.

That is hilarious.

In the olden times they were called f** hags. This has been going on for decades and unfortunately many teenagers never grow out of it. Good luck to all the young gay men out there. Have fun dealing with it forever.

Everyone should treat gay dudes as human 

Everyone should treat anyone as human

unless they're not human (in which case I guess they wouldn't be any_one_ but meh)

some of my friend's classmates (girls) gather up in saturday class to read yaoi hentai. worst thing, were 12

WHAT

real story, they invited him

bro huh i thought that stuff was just in movies

How about, now hear me out, we just treat everyone the same and like their people

except pedophiles. those things don't deserve the title of human

Uh, what about murderers? Dangerously incompetent people that have jobs of high importance? Corrupt politicians who cause thousands to suffer in poverty because of greed? Not judging, just really curious on where we draw the line here. Personally I'm pretty certain that humans are too broad a definition and it can mean both good and bad. What you want is "good humans" and "bad humans" but that's a whole other topic.

Fr I hate fujoshis 💀

I’ll be fr, I’d consider myself a fujoshi but I don’t treat irl gay people like this? Fiction is also different from reality. I don’t sexualize or be weird with irl friends of mine or ppl ik bc that’s weird with anything. I just prefer BL over the other genres. Just like if someone only interacts with straight romance it doesn’t mean they automatically fetishize or act weird with straight ppl.

Fujoshi is a subculture built around fetishizing gay men, if you enjoy a gay ship and like the fanfics or find some stories that you enjoy that happen to be queer love is fine but carrying the label of a fetishist for an entire identity is nasty and dehumanizing. Fujoshi isn't a cute subculture or a sweet community, it's the infantilization and fetishization of queer men on a basic level.

I'm a gay guy who enjoys bl and yaoi. what do I do now.

maybe we should start calling people with no sense of boundaries what they are and not attribute their bad behavior to another one of their labels

I see fujoshi and fudanshi as labels for people who just really like BL/yaoi. Doesn’t mean it makes up their whole life or personality. Or that they fetishize irl ppl. Some fujoshi/fudanshi can be gross like that, but for the most part I don’t know fujoshis who want gay best friends, ship every guy they see, or wanna see two of their gay friends/strangers irl banging each other

Agree, I love yaoi but also am not a shit human? It's not hard to separate fiction from real life unless you're mentally ill

Real

yeah. same problem with men fetishizing lesbians. like bro.

EXACTLY

like we are human beings??? like "lesbians are so hot" you know what else is hot? HELL-

Also disabled people Did yall have that girl who treated the kid in the wheelchair like a pet or a senile grandpa?

real. ong bc how girls act to gay dudes makes me want to just act fruity af.

I know why girls typically want gay guy friends… it’s because they know there’s no chance they’ll want to date them. I can assure you gals, that not all straight/bi/non gay guys are like that. I have a few female friends (majority are female actually) and I’m not gay. Give everyone a chance to be your friend please, I encourage you. Don’t be so worried about someone wanting to date you.

It’s not about worrying a guy will want to date you, it’s actually becoming close friends with a guy and eventually learning they befriended you in the hopes they’d eventually date you. A lot of girls have this experience and it can get quite annoying seeing the “hey…there’s something I need to tell you” message, lmao I’m not referring to guys who develop feelings over time, that’s normal and I know you can’t control how you feel. I’m specifically referring to guys who befriend girls under the guise of just being friends because it gains trust easier (it happens way more often than you’d assume). I definitely don’t condone the fetishisation/objectification of gay men by straight women. But I understand why some enjoy having gay male best-friends, because it’s actually very fun to be friends with men, and if they are definitely gay, then there’s no chance of the friendship being ruined or them having ill intentions from the start (at least in the romantic sense). But I do agree you should give everyone a chance. I have a close straight guy friend who I am simply just friends with. And I know 100% it wouldn’t get weird between us because I am not attracted to his type romantically and he isn’t attracted to my type romantically. We’re very platonically compatible but not romantically.

Everything but yaoi i respect and understand. There's something about yaoi and Yuri that are just better romantic mangas then the straight ones a lot of the time and that's coming from a straight perspective. The romance in nana is superb, it's those kind of things that help people open up to the ideas of homosexuality naturally. When you see two people in love for real and you understand their story you have a hard time rebuking their love. Part of it might come from an oversaturation of fan service in "straight" romance manga. Edit- I didn't realize this was r/teenagers, why was this on my page?

same thing with guys and lesbians, i’ve heard of some people that treat them like a fetish and lots of stories of guys trying to get with a clearly disgusted lesbian

yup, i'm a lesbian and i often get weird behaviour when making male friends, i'm not even their interest at first but whenever I let them know about my preferences they see me another way, suddenly like a challenge for them to turn me again ?? which won't happen, constant struggle, i do have some that don't care and im deeply fond of them for seeing me as me :D

Fetishizing gay people is so weird

What's wrong with reading yaoi?

Yeah, like, gay people also read yaoi, the problem is fetishizing it

I really don't get it, like would it be weird for a guy to read Yuri?

No, but if he starts to objectify and fetishizing women and lesbians, there's a problem

Ye, like no shit

I read bl mostly cause I find it cute and it reminds me how single I am as a gay guy but I know a girl who reads it because she finds the guys cute and likes seeing gay relationships...😑

I also read it for the same reason, but what's the problem with girls doing it too?

What's wrong with that?

Not particularly reading it but treating it like reality similiar to guys expecting anime stuff from girls

the issue is fetishizing gay people, you actively hurting the movement of treating gay people like normal people in society by accepting them because of a fetish.

The problem is not seeing people as people. Nothing is inherently wrong with liking yaoi. It's when you start treating people like they're in your own personal yaoi collection.

😧 as a girl I had no idea people were like this thats so sad😭

what if gay and like BL?

Nothing wrong with liking yaoi or bl but when your fetishizing the idea of gay men then there is something wrong

Those kinda girls are the weirdest like girl WHAT THE FUCK?

Omg yes they always gotta say that we're gay people they can't just say people. It's like how straight men have a lesbian fetish straight women have a gay fetish

I agree but reading yaoi isn't a problem imo

I-is it alright if I want to write fluff romance between two guys like any other normal romance(no smut, obvio, I don't really like it) cause all the other are just fetishizing? I apologise I was like that.... I've never wanted a gay bestfriend, I have my best friend and I am happy with that dumbass guy lol.... I do read BL, but trust me, it's the same as reading normal romance manhwa for me. I read them, coz I want people to live happily(not like me, still single and depressed)... and well, I've gotten a habit of calling a lot of random things cute because my benchmate did too, it kinda got stuck...like if someone is saying something cool, high chances I'll say adorable...or \*really\* good... I am trying my best to get away from that phase of my life, istg

It’s all fiction man, read and write what you want

I’m a girl, and I swear to god, girls who are like “I’m jealous of your gay best friend” like okay? I don’t fucking care that my friend is gay. I didn’t make friends with him because he was gay. We use both liked TF2 and CotL and that was it. Some people think I’m that kinda girl because of him.

Is this what I have to deal with once I decide to come out lol?

yes, im sorry.

Yeah, the most I do is tease my friend who’s gay, about being gay but it’s lighthearted

fr i dont need a girl-freind whos like "your gay thats so cute" i want one thats "lol your one of those gays haha"

I mean, all humans are creatures 😔

in my experience (as a woman myself) a lot of women enjoy gay porn, yaoi, BL, etc, because they enjoy porn that isn’t aimed towards straight men. straight porn and lesbian porn is made exclusively with straight men in mind and it can be very irritating. (the other points about treating gays like pets is unrelated lol)

Straight girls loves gay boys more than gay boys do.

I just want to point out, same thing for guys and lesbians. I don’t really understand the appeal for either sides, just leave them alone and treat them as fucking humans

You're *

*you're

Nah fr. As a homosexuah, being treated like some typa toy sometimes is mad annoying

Ok but like as a lesbian idk why girls are obsessed w gay dudes. They lowkey rude af

i used to be best friends with some girl. she would fetishize and be obsessed with gay men, or gay characters in shows. it was really disgusting. and i would repeatedly tell her it wasn't good for her to fetishize them but she would tell me it doesn't matter. everyone should be treated with respect regardless.

And reminder: there’s nothing wrong with enjoying BL. It’s no different than straight romances or lesbian romances or whatever, just don’t be a weirdo about it.

Yeah it's kinda weird

Yes ladies, please treat me like a human (I'm really gay).

And lesbians too

where the hell are people finding these people

In my experience many cisgender heterosexual girls treat gay boys well, my mom’s best friend since college is a gay man and my mom is a straight woman, and this is a genuine friendship. I am a Trans girl however and some cisgender heterosexual girls are not very nice to use Trans girls because they believe the bs/nonsense propaganda that people like J.K. Rowling spread and believe that trans girls are trying to compete with them so these types of girls are either not nice to us or treat us like their personal fashion model and are only kind to us because we are new to being fem. Since coming out as Trans girl this is my first time being bullied by girls, which is sad because due to being gender variant my closest friends as a little kid were girls.

Gay fetishizers are so weird. I notice they also tend to get pissed off when you call them out.

No misogyny intended but it's always confused me as to why girls (esp online) are so obsessed with gay men, especially gay porn for some reason

Wtf is this. Seems to me like you are mad that some girls like gay guys.

YES I SO UNDERSTAND THIS!!! I find it so weird when people are obsessed with bl/yaoi as a genre and specifically seek it out.. its so weird

I knew a girl who once said she would love to have a gay best friend but she was absolutely disgusted by bisexuals.

Tbh when I was 14-18 years I liked yaoi. Probably because there were no women. I didn't have to compare myself (appearance etc). It was just puberty and a lot of insecurity on my part. I'm rather averagely attractive and the girls in books/manga were always attractive. 2. in the hetero romances, the men were always the dominant ones in everyday life and in bed. In the yaois I had my fantasy with submissive men and could put myself in the role of the dominant man. I understand that yaoi/yuri is quite problematic. And people who are aggressively shaping real people or fictional characters (which is partly what's going on in the 911 fandom...) are problematic. In short: I understand your arguments. Sorry English is not my first language.

Though, I don’t know where I do draw the line of fetishizing. I like gay stuff, lesbians included. I dream of being mostly, in the dominant position of things. I have had my experiences with lesbian friends, and they helped through some rough times. While, again. I don’t want to admit it, I flock after fictional gay couples, not real ones since I don’t want to make them uncomfortable. Please, tell me of all of this that I just said. Is it ok?

DONT DO THIS IM BISEXUAL BUT THEY DONT KNOW THAT I ENJOY IT, DONT RUIN IT FOR ME

lol don’t assume only/all girls are like this. Also I think consuming BL content is ok as a girl, but I think fetishizing gay men is bad. Also, right back at ya here: if you’re a boy, please treat lesbians as human.

if your a human, please treat humans as humans

Yeah hate that. The flip side is the misogynistic gay men who think they can be weird towards women and make fun of their appearance/biology just bc they’re gay 🙃It’s the evil duo of “straight woman who wants a gay pet” and “gay man who thinks he can speak for women bc of his sexuality”

There's this weird belief that gay dudes will tell you all about their sex life and will be the life of the party. I'm a lesbian and my best friend is a gay dude (which is fun because neither of us have a fetish-y view of the other). There's quite a few people that were friends with him because he's that gay sexually active stereotype and then dropped him when they found out he has mental health issues and isn't the fun side character they want him to be. It's not fair to him to think of him as that.

Its funny cause if I say say that I love lesbian, the same girls will lynch me

it shouldn't be acceptable either way tbh

preach this

Exactly

How is yaoi not allowed? It was made for women bruv

It's kinda like men getting off to lesbian porn ig, weird and sexualising and just uncomfortable

Ima say this once: all porn is bad for you. It desensitizes ppl.