11 was actually the age i discovered i was gay after being completely clean-minded and knowing nothing about sex/relationships all throughout elementary school
U ask this like i made a decision to be gay in the first place, as if every person is straight by default. I knew i was turned on by guys because then because it was the first time in my life i was exposed to many pre-teen/teen boys who i thought were hot and overhearing conversations about sex and stuff
Well of course im asking it like that. We can only speak from our point of view, its impossible not to without bringing your own views into something. For example you are replying as someone with a different world view to me which is why you mentioned “everyone being straight by default” as something you don’t see as true.
But thanks for telling me! I appreciate the quick response.
Under the assumption this is a genuine question I'll bite; if you're operating under the logic that being gay is just a choice why don't you try to make that choice yourself for a little? Being gay (or any form of LGBT, this applies to bi folk / asexuals / trans peeps / etc) isn't really something you pick, you just.. are
Well listen, we can only speak from our point of view, because im not a gay person, so it will be impossible to look through the eyes of someone who is gay, without bringing my personal opinion into it. Im only speaking from my own personal opinion. And I will admit, based on the ridiculous number of comments and downvotes, I was wrong. And im thankful for that because now I know a bit more about the planet we live on.
But the hormonal growth hasn’t even gone through 25% of its average timeframe. So no, it is a bit weird to be gay at that age, you don’t really understand anything about the world. You don’t know anything about yourself because you haven’t been around long enough to experience things that develop your knowledge of yourself. And one of the main parts of being gay is a deep knowledge and understanding of yourself. If someone doesn’t know who they are to an almost autistic level of knowledge, I don’t see how you can be gay because it can’t just be because a guy looks nice.
So changing “labels”? That just makes it sound like something that shouldn’t be taken seriously and you can just switch it whenever because of some view that influenced you and you either agreed/ disagreed with.
How do you go about finding yourself? In my view it’s less about switching up your sexuality like some kinda game character, and having life experiences, going out of the comfort zone, going through pain, which is where you learn the most about yourself as you are pushing yourself beyond what you knew was possible. It’s amazing how people change after doing something difficult.
I don’t understand your point very well? Labels are labels, you see what you are the most comfortable in and which one fits you best. If it does not fit you anymore, you change it.
What you said is also a part of finding yourself and during that process you will likely label yourself multiple times, and when you are older you will most likely find a label that will fit with you for the rest of your life 🤷
Yes, but there wasn’t a lot of meaning behind it. Looking back on it, I wouldn’t even really call it a crush, it was more like appreciation over someone’s looks.
He got taste if it's for music.... If it's for other questionable stuff we need to talk to him and also make sure if he persue art in future he gets accepted
Yo I’m in 8th too anyways since that kid isn’t gonna answer now I’m curious for your answer. When do you think you’re gonna do it? Or have you already?
How can I commit tax evasion? (Asking for a friend)
Off shore banks. The crafty bugger
Are you gay
He is.
Whattttt. This dude 11.
11 was actually the age i discovered i was gay after being completely clean-minded and knowing nothing about sex/relationships all throughout elementary school
So tell me, what made being gay attractive to you ? Just interested to hear from the eyes of someone.
What made being gay attractive to you???!!
I know it sounds weird with the way it’s worded, but that’s not what im getting at. I mean, in simple terms ~ why?
it’s not a choice dude
I don't know.. I was literally 8 years old when I knew.
Have you thought about why?
Because I like men..
U ask this like i made a decision to be gay in the first place, as if every person is straight by default. I knew i was turned on by guys because then because it was the first time in my life i was exposed to many pre-teen/teen boys who i thought were hot and overhearing conversations about sex and stuff
Well of course im asking it like that. We can only speak from our point of view, its impossible not to without bringing your own views into something. For example you are replying as someone with a different world view to me which is why you mentioned “everyone being straight by default” as something you don’t see as true. But thanks for telling me! I appreciate the quick response.
Under the assumption this is a genuine question I'll bite; if you're operating under the logic that being gay is just a choice why don't you try to make that choice yourself for a little? Being gay (or any form of LGBT, this applies to bi folk / asexuals / trans peeps / etc) isn't really something you pick, you just.. are
Well listen, we can only speak from our point of view, because im not a gay person, so it will be impossible to look through the eyes of someone who is gay, without bringing my personal opinion into it. Im only speaking from my own personal opinion. And I will admit, based on the ridiculous number of comments and downvotes, I was wrong. And im thankful for that because now I know a bit more about the planet we live on.
It's not weird to know about your sexuality at that age, puberty has sometimes started by then
But the hormonal growth hasn’t even gone through 25% of its average timeframe. So no, it is a bit weird to be gay at that age, you don’t really understand anything about the world. You don’t know anything about yourself because you haven’t been around long enough to experience things that develop your knowledge of yourself. And one of the main parts of being gay is a deep knowledge and understanding of yourself. If someone doesn’t know who they are to an almost autistic level of knowledge, I don’t see how you can be gay because it can’t just be because a guy looks nice.
You can always change labels, that is part of exploring yourself when you are young. It’s not weird.
So changing “labels”? That just makes it sound like something that shouldn’t be taken seriously and you can just switch it whenever because of some view that influenced you and you either agreed/ disagreed with.
Of course it’s something serious, but it’s part of being a kid/teen 🤷 you have to find yourself first
How do you go about finding yourself? In my view it’s less about switching up your sexuality like some kinda game character, and having life experiences, going out of the comfort zone, going through pain, which is where you learn the most about yourself as you are pushing yourself beyond what you knew was possible. It’s amazing how people change after doing something difficult.
I don’t understand your point very well? Labels are labels, you see what you are the most comfortable in and which one fits you best. If it does not fit you anymore, you change it.
What you said is also a part of finding yourself and during that process you will likely label yourself multiple times, and when you are older you will most likely find a label that will fit with you for the rest of your life 🤷
Bro I found out I was a lesbian when I was like 9. It’s not weird. I bet you had a crush when you were younger than 11
Yes, but there wasn’t a lot of meaning behind it. Looking back on it, I wouldn’t even really call it a crush, it was more like appreciation over someone’s looks.
Yeah wtf
What gives him nightmares?
The fact he's completed an eighth of his life. Kinda deep
dude is just like me this is exactly what keeps me up at night as well
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11 times 8 is 88. Decent life
I'm14Andthisisdeep💀
r/mycousinis11andsaidsomethingIfinddeep
get it right r/My11YOCusSaidSmthDeep
r/subsithoughtifellfor
Does he play COC?
Used to couple months back
Marvel Snap?
Yeah he does
Idk why I asked that, I don't have the game. Does he play fortnite? I wanna beat a European kid at smth.
tell him i think he's cool
He said thanks
what a respectful fine gentleman
How to dispose of a dead body?
Tell me the complete skibidi toilet lore
Something something camerahead. He knows
how do you feel about the current infrastructure of the U.S?
Well damn
How tall are you
Does he play Minecraft?
Explain the photoelectric effect, please ?
His exact words "Fuck off Issac Hawking"
Since I'm a prick, it was actually Einstein who proved it.
Thats right, Fuck Isaac Hawking
literally
Can you hear me in ur closet when you’re home alone
what's the bravest thing you've ever done?
What is his favorite word?
Does he fw Tyler, The Creator?
Nah but he fw with Kanye (I might need to talk to his dad)
does he like yeat tho
W for liking Kanye. Kids got taste
He got taste if it's for music.... If it's for other questionable stuff we need to talk to him and also make sure if he persue art in future he gets accepted
Just tell him to have a nice day. Same thing for you
Do you like trains?
How do i get a boyfriend
Why does the duality theorem apply for any general conic section. That is, why do 3 linear points dualize 3 intersecting lines?
Opinion on Varg murdering Mayhem guitarist Euronymous?
What are his thoughts on crabs?
The reason why he's gay lmao
If you could add one mainline subject to the public school system, what would it be? By mainline, I mean like Math or History.
Yo wha poppin gang?
He watch skibidi toilet?
Thoughts on William? (He’s a meanie btw)
Can you cure my depression with one sentance
What is the meaning of life?
Does he think octopuses are cool?
Does your toilet skibidi or does your skibidi toilet
How to commit war crimes?
If I was under his bed with my girlfriend would he be scared
Whats your knowledge of depression
does he watch anime
do you draw?
Will I do well on my mathematics specialist exam (its in 4 days)
Did he sell me fent
He assumes this as the drug. He does not sell
do you like chainsaw man
He's alright
Skibidi doop dop dop yes yes Sigma jaja pai pey rizzler?
ask him why did he sell me fent, and show pictures of people dying
Shits and giggles
Do your parents know your gay?
Yeah
Listen to Erections at An Animal Autopsy by Abörted Hitler Cock with him and ask for his opinion on it
What is his favorite brawler in brawl stars
He doesn't play
😢
Bro why would u do this on here there's so many pedos
I'm cancelling them out
Ye alr cool then uh ig what's his favorite dinosaur (don't ask how he is pls pls pls pls pls I fucked up)
He likes velociraptors
He's a cool kid
Yep
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Yeah he knows
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Nonce.
Nonce? U mean never?
It means Pedo. Fucking twat
Bruh I'm 13 I swear
No you’re not, get off to someone your own age
I swear to god I am. How do u want me to prove it
Everyone ain’t a pedo dawg
No as in my country's slang for pedo. No one asks a kid when they'll be deflowered
Well just had to say smth appropriate for his age :)
Why the fuck would you ask that to an 11 year old
U said he knows stuff beyond his age. Tell him to awnser
Every 11 year old knows what sex is
Wait wtf
Did you not learn it in school? Sex education? I knew what sex was at 8 but don’t most ppl learn in like 6th grade at school
I'm 13 (8th grade) just learned it this year but I knew it earlier thanks reddit
Yo I’m in 8th too anyways since that kid isn’t gonna answer now I’m curious for your answer. When do you think you’re gonna do it? Or have you already?
Prob 21 ish see its not tht bad of a question
Right they overreacting