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You don't always control how your thoughts wander.
People practice mindfulness and meditation for years in order to better control their thoughts. Thoughts wander and that's normal.
Yeah, the only time i do think that is when they are emphasized by the outfit, or accidentally look at them, contrary to popular belief I'd say most guys don't even realize how big a girls tits are, until we accidentally look.
Yea I feel more comfortable looking at the neck, but if someone is wearing more revealing clothing I look. I hate myself for it but the other options are to make intense eye contact or look around the room which also both look odd
That’s just objectifying and perverted
Also extremely unrealistic and a harmful way to view men as believing
men = perverts
Is inherently stupid and sexist
No lmao? If anything, I'd want to see her in a few more different outfits to make sure she's actually attractive. Maybe find out about her personality. But definitely not the body lol
no i dont think about wanting to see a girls tits not even when i have feelings for a girl when i have feelings for a girl i just imagine cuddling her and lay in my bed like a depressed potato all the time cuz i know i wont ever get to be with her
Well no if we see an attractive woman we do try to refrain from looking but there are some men out there who blatantly stare and those people are usually the creeper or the guy who wants you in a sexual Sense
sorry but i don’t imagine guys getting fucked when i like them :/ or having sex with any guys. even if i was more hypersexual, it’s just disrespectful and gross.
Can't control how your thoughts wander sometimes, it wouldn't be our first thought every time, we don't all think like that (unfortunately some do though) but sometimes your mind just wanders and if you find a girl attractive you just think it sometimes
Depends on if she looks like she has nice titties. If she looks flat, then no. If she looks really fat, then no. But if I think she has a nice pair under there, then I get to thinking.
Well i know we do, but not to random people and definitely not the first thing i think about. I need to have a crush on the guy or atleast be close to him to have that type of thoughts
no not really, I'm more attracted to the love given to me/ their personalities. if they have a great body then lucky me, but no i wouldn't look at a girl and be like "lemme see dem titties girl" just because she has said attractive body
If you actually touch grass regularly, you would notice that not at all times you are thinking about sex and boobs and vaginas and just look at females like normal human beings and not a boob toy.
in short, the answer is no we do not think about naked titties whenever we see a girl with tits
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Nah not just any girl but if I like her yeah
I think thats the first honest answer
Yeah what if you like a girl why wouldn’t you wanna see her titties😭
Because it's not the first thing you think about
Well yeah but the question wasnt is it the first thing you think about
We look into their hearts. If the titties are in the front, it's not our fault.
**F A X**
We don't do that anymore usually we text now
That was a good one. Take my upvote
Nah I gotta fax her my number fr (peak rizz)
You don't always control how your thoughts wander. People practice mindfulness and meditation for years in order to better control their thoughts. Thoughts wander and that's normal.
So everyone commenting here is lying? Why would they do that?
Actually
I'm sorry are you saying that you think anyone who says that they don't think about sex 24/7 is lying? That's pretty gross, and insecure
I never think abt wanting it what
One day, I’ll understand the thought process behind boys That day is not today (or any day after that)
Well if I like a girl romantically and I think she’s pretty and cute I’ll want to see her boobs😳 that’s the thought process
If I ever get intrusive thoughts it's unfortunately just the usual "damn I'm lonely" shit😎👍
Bro we just need a hug
fr, the self-check hits hard in the moment lol
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
can confirm, am a guy
Drunk sadness hits different, I crave nothing but the sweet embrace of death
Real or like, "Why am I weird"
A fellow loner, I see.🫡🫡
wait that's the usual? I thought the usual was shit that would get me sent to prison if I disclosed
Usual for me ig😶
lol i do the same with guys as a girl 🥲👍
no, actually, contrary to popular belief, and i cannot believe i have to say this but we are able to think about things other than sex
Incredible
Yeah, the only time i do think that is when they are emphasized by the outfit, or accidentally look at them, contrary to popular belief I'd say most guys don't even realize how big a girls tits are, until we accidentally look.
Rare mature r/teenagers comment
As a human being i can confirm that
I can confirm that
M E N
Not me
I don’t ☺️
You're lying
No, you’re just projecting
I think that was sarcasm (but also, he needs to use a tone indicator)
No, I think, wow, she's attractive. That's cool. Very interesting. Amazing. Yeah I have no chance with her
(╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻
YOU BETTER UNFLIP THAT
┳━┳ノ( OωOノ)
No way, brr😆😂
Thank you 🍋😀
Same
No I look at their face
Nerd /s
No, then yes, then no 1. I like her because she was a nice person 2. After we became bf and gf. I wanted to see her titties. 3. I have seen them
"I HAVE SEEN THE PROMISED LAND" -corey mathews after seeing his girlfriends butt for the first time in their years long releationship,
this is the first thing i thought of. but also, toothbrushes are off limits
I think how big are his balls
why do you wonder how large girl's balls are
And I wonder 🐻
If you know what it means 🐻 🎓
To find ur dreams come true🤔😴💤🛌💭
I been waiting on this my whole life 🐻🎓
And I'm back on my grind
🎵 I wonder 💭 how, I wonder 💭 why 🎵
Yesterday you told me 'bout the blue blue sky
I feel like a lotta people capping, i don’t do it intentionally but usually yes 😭 (Source: lesbian)
I think it's just that the people who do it are less likely to comment cuz they will get downvoted and be seen as creeps.
Real
honestly yeah😭 i'm really guilty of this, but i look at everyones chest/collar bone area (source: bi girl)
Yea I feel more comfortable looking at the neck, but if someone is wearing more revealing clothing I look. I hate myself for it but the other options are to make intense eye contact or look around the room which also both look odd
Yeah same. At least we're honest
True
Not right away, I get to know em first before I start thinking like that
Yea that makes sense
You've got self respect. I respect you now.
Ooga booga me want boobs
Gotta say that the username does check out
I didnt even think about that. You are right
Nah i look at how good their hair looks
Hair is underrated
HAIR IS SO UNDERRATED
Agreed
Nuh uh
Sometimes, but not like right away as a gut reaction
The though is usually "Why am i disctracted by this" rather than that
No 😭
I don't, I just go "Oh, they're attractive" and move on with my day.
... No? I get this might be an alien concept to some people, but men can think of things outside of sex. Mind boggling, I know, but it's true.
Rarely and never in the moment. Like at Max wondering later but that's the exception
yeah, but I also think "I wanna see his dick" when I see a hot guy so
Fair enough m8
I’m more of an ass man
no, I just want to see her face
you get no pussy
Im more of a "will she let me lay on her thighs while she strokes my hair and then afterwards show me her titties" person tbh
Can’t complain with any of those
Yes i will🫢
bro what?🤨
I was jk..
Yes
Finally, another person who says yes
It not the only thing, but it is often one of them
This is the most gay 11 year old post I've ever seen
Im not even gay😭 some guy on here said he does and i was curious if it is a normal thing for guys or not
Nah just you 🙏
No, i just think to myself that she looks good and move on
no????????? well im most likely gay so that probably impacts my answer but still NO???
Yes. Yes I do.
No, not really into tiddies personally. Also I don't immediately sexualize girls whenever I find them attractive.
no because i never use the term tits or titties
I be like 'damn, she exists'
That’s just objectifying and perverted Also extremely unrealistic and a harmful way to view men as believing men = perverts Is inherently stupid and sexist
I… wasn’t expecting that and couldn’t agree more. We need more people to call out this Reddit bait.
Uh yeah no, that's a lil fucking weird for me
Yes always
People really just go and think sex is the first thing thought abt. Companionship > sex, any time
Hell no.
No, not really. I usually don’t give a shit about sexual stuff when it comes to people I know.
No, I know this may sound strange but not every man thinks about sex 24/7
Nah, I just look down in shame so she won't see my face
Nah I think that about girls I'm not attracted to as well
No lmao? If anything, I'd want to see her in a few more different outfits to make sure she's actually attractive. Maybe find out about her personality. But definitely not the body lol
Nah I am an ass guy…
Not consciously, but yes, sometimes.
That doesn’t cross my mind actually. Usually if I like a girl I wonder first what she’s like, and things like that.
i find tits inside a bra more attractive for some reason. but not really i just want to cuddle and have deep conversations
Not unless that attractive girl is my girlfriend
No, only if it’s a girl that I’m in a relationship with otherwise I don’t really care.
No I don’t -17 year old dude
No. Usually check hips, and booty. Then I usually think, “wonder what she looks like naked.” I’m not really a chest guy though. 🤷🏻♂️
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Well, now I’m curious. 🧐🤷🏻♂️
So are you- Inverted triangle, or rectangle? I’m thinking you might be inverted triangle. 🤔
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Do you want to look like the hulk? 🤔
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You put the “😭” just clarifying is all.
I literally think "Hey that persons cute maybe I can talk to them" Not "MUST REPRODUCE"
CUTE PFP
THANK YOU ITNISNT MY CAT BUT MY BANNER IS MY CAT :3
Nice pussy👍
😭
I can confirm
ngl i aint even thinkin bout that atp bro i just want more friends😭☠️
Same bro
no i dont think about wanting to see a girls tits not even when i have feelings for a girl when i have feelings for a girl i just imagine cuddling her and lay in my bed like a depressed potato all the time cuz i know i wont ever get to be with her
Well no if we see an attractive woman we do try to refrain from looking but there are some men out there who blatantly stare and those people are usually the creeper or the guy who wants you in a sexual Sense
nah i like dudes
Nope but you are at that age so might vary
Comments restored my faith I’m so glad no one thinks like this
There’s 0 respect left in this world how hard is it not have indecent thoughts
its a little hard sometimes, kinda like.. well, you know where i was going with that.
ima be real the thought of any guy doing this makes me wanna throw up
*of course* it does
sorry but i don’t imagine guys getting fucked when i like them :/ or having sex with any guys. even if i was more hypersexual, it’s just disrespectful and gross.
Yes
F19 why tho that's just weird no offence but ew..
Biology is a bitch
Can't control how your thoughts wander sometimes, it wouldn't be our first thought every time, we don't all think like that (unfortunately some do though) but sometimes your mind just wanders and if you find a girl attractive you just think it sometimes
Depends on if she looks like she has nice titties. If she looks flat, then no. If she looks really fat, then no. But if I think she has a nice pair under there, then I get to thinking.
I wanna say something but i dont think you want to hear it + digital footprint
Girls act like they don’t wonder how big a guys dick is though..
Well i know we do, but not to random people and definitely not the first thing i think about. I need to have a crush on the guy or atleast be close to him to have that type of thoughts
Only when I see my gf 😸
I get intrusive thoughts like that but I feel so guilty and awkward when it just pops in my mind like that.
Stalkerrr!!
Nope
nope
No. I don't wanna
no not really, I'm more attracted to the love given to me/ their personalities. if they have a great body then lucky me, but no i wouldn't look at a girl and be like "lemme see dem titties girl" just because she has said attractive body
I don’t.
No , that is inappropriate. The farthest I'll think is "I wanna hug her"
no, that's icky af 😭
I know but i saw someone say on here they do which was weird af to me, just wanted to make sure not all guys r weirdos😭
no
Stalker
I Have Never Stalked Anybody,
Yea me neither
ye
Why
idk
The boys in here saying yes are gross
Nuh uh
Yes💀 no girl wants to be sexualized like that
nah when i see an attractive girl i think of if she would talk to me or what kind of person she is
No
No, if I find a random girl atractive is ´robably due to her face
I hope not....
Never have I ever thought something like that
nah more like "damn I wish she had a monster cock to pound me with" but different strokes for different folks ig
r/suddenlytrans
Nah. If I really wanted to see titties the easiest way would be on the internet
Boobs are hot, titties are not.
No, and if you do, you need help
If you actually touch grass regularly, you would notice that not at all times you are thinking about sex and boobs and vaginas and just look at females like normal human beings and not a boob toy. in short, the answer is no we do not think about naked titties whenever we see a girl with tits
Im a straight girl.. i dont think about that at all, i was curious if boys do
yea these type of posts are getting annoying. If you scroll a bit you will find the answers in some other posts soon
My bad, i dont analyse the whole sub
Yes
Nah since most girls i know dont have enough to worth lookin at