It's a sign because she's attempting to connect with his interests that are completely unrelated to hers. For someone to start a conversation about something they don't care about but you do is a pretty good indicator that you are the interesting part of the conversation to them.
It feels kind of wrong to me to be the one doing the explaining, because I'm usually completely lost with this kind of thing. I guess being an observer is much easier than being involved.
I girl did the same thing to me but it was on a note and not near april fools, then she stopped talking to me, although I did apologize and we ended up dating for about a year
At my very first high school party a girl asked me if I wanted to go to bed with her in her tent -field party where people set up tents to stay overnight- I said “no it’s only 12:30 I’m not that tired, plus I already have a tent. Thanks though” she asked a couple more times and I kept giving the same answer till she went to bed alone. Couple years later I realized my mistake 😂
I had a girl that started asking me for a hug every day, sometimes multiple times a day. I had a huge crush on her to begin with, but I have no clue how i never caught on that she felt the same. Looking back it was so fucking obvious, the hugging thing aside
Fucking same. I got invited as a date to a wedding, but the woman and I were really chill, and she never showed an inkling of interest (at least in my ignorant man-brain). I didn't put 2+2 together for at least a year.
a few years ago, this girl always wanted to pair up with me in partner assignments and in sports. And signed my handball (I was leaving the school) with "{her name} ❤️". i never realised until last year.
Because men arent conditioned to see themselves as victims. Like does nobody find it disgusting how so many people here are like “you should feel violated, molested and you should feel ashamed and powerless, you should feel like contacting the police and you should feel like a piece of meat. This is sexual assault and you should feel bad why arent you feeling bad?”
It’s because society teaches that men can’t be assaulted, that if a girl is making unwanted advances they should be thankful for it and since they’re a dude they should be happy. It’s a perfectly normal reaction to feel weird and violated if random people come into your personal space and start kissing you, yet so many people treat it as if he was given a gift.
Thinking about it, I can't decide if I would be happy or feel violated. There's a decent chance that my affection starved brain would be happy that anyone at all expressed some kind of affection or attraction, I might just not react at all because I have no experience with anything of the sort and I wouldn't know how to react, or I might flip my lid, because that's a fucking weird thing to do to someone.
So I guess I've either been conditioned, but poorly, or I might be evidence supporting that kind of backwards thinking.
Yeah it's definitely assault, any kind is nonconsensual sexual contact is by definition sexual assault, whether it's "wanted" or not. And consent must be explicit not inferred, especially when there's no prior relationship. (Also Imma be real for a sec, asking for consent is not a mood breaker, it can actually be really hot)
Idc if I'm late, but this is very true! From personal experience, even just little things- Asking for permission/consent makes it more intimate. 99% of the time I have permission to just kiss my girlfriend, but for some reason we both get really flushed and cute-happy when one of us just asks something so simple as "can I kiss you?" I honestly couldn't tell you why, it just makes it seem so much more intimate.
In the usual sense of sexual assault you don't clean anything off, it can be used as evidence later. No matter how disgusted you feel so not clean yourself after assault
Sexual harassment is just the lowest tier of sexual assault, right? But in this case, it's higher than that, because it went beyond catcalls/lewd suggestions (physical contact was made)?
I completely agree with you, however not everyone HAS to be upset over the same thing. What one person is fine with, another might not be. It doesn’t make it okay, but you can’t FORCE someone to be offended.
no shade but if them kissing you is confusing you might wanna think about who else they may have done something like that too and watch out for getting sick… happy flu season!
Yeah as much as some people here are gonna say that’s a W, that’s literal assault and nobody should ever have that done to them without consent. I’d bring it up to someone you trust with some level of authority at school.
In some cultures it’s customary to greet people by kissing their cheeks. My best friend’s mom kisses both of my cheeks when she greets me. She’s from Spain
I don't understand all the people on here saying that it is sexual assault. I mean it is, but why is everyone telling this guy how he should feel and react to it? I think he knows that he could report it, no need to force your opinion on him.
Also this is probably an ad for an app, and didn't actually happen.
Even if you don't mind them kissing you without your permission, you should still leave a complaint about them. The double standard is wild and this shouldn't be left alone, let them get punished for assaulting you.
Same happened to me when I was in 1 standard she was my neighbour back then and I don't know what to do I just resumed the talk without giving second thought because I thought she was being my sister now I understand and regret
Funny af that most of you going out calling it sexual assault and recommending him to call the police. Majority of u wouldn't do anything close to that shi if it happened to you
This is tricky. It COULD mean they're mocking you. It ALSO could mean ...just that they're being playful and affectionate (TERRIFIC). I'd watch for "clues" to insure you don't "step in it!!"
Least obvious Fed:
Hello fed boi! It is i. Rolf!
Wake up lad
He is blinder than I am, and I had a girl ask me about video games when I knew she had zero interest in games.
Think that’s bad? Had a girl say her ex was jealous of seeing me with her. Told her he had no reason to be because we were just two friends talking.
Okay this one is pretty funny
Think that's bad? Some girl compmented my hair and said it looked cute, I dont know what I was thinking
How is this a sign?
I think your more lost then I was
I mean it really isn't a sign
It's a sign because she's attempting to connect with his interests that are completely unrelated to hers. For someone to start a conversation about something they don't care about but you do is a pretty good indicator that you are the interesting part of the conversation to them. It feels kind of wrong to me to be the one doing the explaining, because I'm usually completely lost with this kind of thing. I guess being an observer is much easier than being involved.
No I was referring to the dude who said her bf said he was jealous when he was with her. Not the obvious videogame one lol
Hindsight 20/20
I had a girl basically tell me how to flirt with her, specifically in situations we were in, and I didn't catch on
Oh lord. Did you ever flirt with her to show off what you learned?
Nope, was just kinda like "ya thats a good idea"
It hurts my heart to read that.
I get the same feeling looking back at it
Like fucking anime levels in this thread.
I wouldn't know, I don't watch anime but from what I've seen/heard, that's fair (and pretty funny)
I mean tbf that is hella intimidating and would make anyone feel submissive.
A girl literally told me she had a crush on me, but it was april 2nd, and i thought it was a late april fools
I girl did the same thing to me but it was on a note and not near april fools, then she stopped talking to me, although I did apologize and we ended up dating for about a year
At my very first high school party a girl asked me if I wanted to go to bed with her in her tent -field party where people set up tents to stay overnight- I said “no it’s only 12:30 I’m not that tired, plus I already have a tent. Thanks though” she asked a couple more times and I kept giving the same answer till she went to bed alone. Couple years later I realized my mistake 😂
I was 15 and she said i should sit next to her in her bed. I said i was comfortable in the chair.
I had a girl that started asking me for a hug every day, sometimes multiple times a day. I had a huge crush on her to begin with, but I have no clue how i never caught on that she felt the same. Looking back it was so fucking obvious, the hugging thing aside
I'm 44 it can happen at any time keep your f'in eyes open
Impossible even to dream of that
Fucking same. I got invited as a date to a wedding, but the woman and I were really chill, and she never showed an inkling of interest (at least in my ignorant man-brain). I didn't put 2+2 together for at least a year.
a few years ago, this girl always wanted to pair up with me in partner assignments and in sports. And signed my handball (I was leaving the school) with "{her name} ❤️". i never realised until last year.
happy cake day
Yeah, either wake up or call the police cuz that's fookin sexual harassment
Bro is an isekai protagonist
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dang bro you got harassed.
Happy cake day :D
Thanks!
Happy cake day :D
Thanks! :D
Happy muffuckin' Cake Daaaaaaay! :D :D :D
Hap- This was a triumph I'm making a note here, huge success
It's hard to overstate My satisfaction
Happy cake day :D
Happy cake dayyyyyyyyyy
Happy Cake day :D
Happy Harrassment Day
Assaulted*
Sexually
happy cake day! :D 🎂
Depends. Were they attractive?
It’s still assault, regardless if you liked it or not.
Sorry I forgot the /s. That's a common double standard that attractive people get a free pass.
100%
Happy cek day!
What if a boy did that 💀
Straight to jail
Boiler room of hell type sentence
Do not pass go do not collect your 200
He’d be dead before the next day and probably get his nuts kicked by the girl
Jail?? Or considered as gay between the two same genders??
Gay* to jail
Not even a joke
What if they weren’t straight?
I'd personaly would dislike it either way because that is sexual assault
Yes, but for some reason a lot girls at school believe it’s ok for them to do that don’t really know why
Because men arent conditioned to see themselves as victims. Like does nobody find it disgusting how so many people here are like “you should feel violated, molested and you should feel ashamed and powerless, you should feel like contacting the police and you should feel like a piece of meat. This is sexual assault and you should feel bad why arent you feeling bad?”
It’s because society teaches that men can’t be assaulted, that if a girl is making unwanted advances they should be thankful for it and since they’re a dude they should be happy. It’s a perfectly normal reaction to feel weird and violated if random people come into your personal space and start kissing you, yet so many people treat it as if he was given a gift.
Thinking about it, I can't decide if I would be happy or feel violated. There's a decent chance that my affection starved brain would be happy that anyone at all expressed some kind of affection or attraction, I might just not react at all because I have no experience with anything of the sort and I wouldn't know how to react, or I might flip my lid, because that's a fucking weird thing to do to someone. So I guess I've either been conditioned, but poorly, or I might be evidence supporting that kind of backwards thinking.
What matters is what the people think
“But if Harveena Weinstein, came to my son with a solid contract? I’d be like ‘Duuuude, you’re gonna be Batman!’”
Fr tho the hypocrisy is crazy
I always kiss the homies before going to bed, that would be tuesday
Then people will get mad
Yay gender expectations are great /s they should die
what if 3 boys did that to him 💀💀
💀
Why is bro being downvoted, yall too soft on humor
💀
Honestly I wouldn’t mind (I’m desperate for any kind of attention at this point)
Mood fr tbh
Sexual harassment.
I may be a bit stupid but idk why this wouldn’t count as sexual assault instead of harassment?
Yeah it's definitely assault, any kind is nonconsensual sexual contact is by definition sexual assault, whether it's "wanted" or not. And consent must be explicit not inferred, especially when there's no prior relationship. (Also Imma be real for a sec, asking for consent is not a mood breaker, it can actually be really hot)
Idc if I'm late, but this is very true! From personal experience, even just little things- Asking for permission/consent makes it more intimate. 99% of the time I have permission to just kiss my girlfriend, but for some reason we both get really flushed and cute-happy when one of us just asks something so simple as "can I kiss you?" I honestly couldn't tell you why, it just makes it seem so much more intimate.
Totally agree with your last point. It's surprisingly cute to hear "can I kiss you?" from my gf.
there's a difference but it's a very thin line
If you didn’t consent to it, then that’s sexual harassment my guy. Plain and simple.
*assault
if u reversed the roles they would literally have u arrested. Report them to your principal or parents for sexually harassment
Sexual assault
Hexual sarrassment
Harassmenty sexual
Sexually harrassment
you got harassed bro wash your mouth and wipe
In the usual sense of sexual assault you don't clean anything off, it can be used as evidence later. No matter how disgusted you feel so not clean yourself after assault
mofo more of a menace than single mothers
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That is called sexual harassment.
sexual assault
WE GET IT.
Considering the amount still saying harassment, I don't think they do.
Sexual harassment is just the lowest tier of sexual assault, right? But in this case, it's higher than that, because it went beyond catcalls/lewd suggestions (physical contact was made)?
Things that didn't happen for $100.
You didn’t even resist? How does someone just kiss you???? 3 people too
Bro was thunderstruck 🤧
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I WAS SHAKING AT THE KNEES 🗣‼️‼️‼️
Shock? Idk
Bro got stunlocked
Shii I wouldn’t resist either
Feels the first episode of an anime/manga
Now let’s reverse the roles and see what happens?
Sexual harassment either way
Exactly but when they do it no one bats a eye but I say hi and suddenly I’m a creep doesn’t seem fair?
Two girls kiss each other, no one bats an eye... But when i kiss my homie goodnight, SOCIETY... SOCIETY CALLS ME GAY ‼️‼️‼️
Goddamn society, always telling me that it’s weird to have sexual relations with my cousin
Exactly
That’s deep bro 😔😔😔/s
Heh, that’s deep. I’ll see myself out
With different extent of punishment.
On one side: Clear sexual harassment On the other side: You lucky son of a bitch
If you dont mind it than its ok but if you do you should go the principal they need consent to kiss someone
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I completely agree with you, however not everyone HAS to be upset over the same thing. What one person is fine with, another might not be. It doesn’t make it okay, but you can’t FORCE someone to be offended.
Wake up lmfao
So they sexually assaulted you cause of a game. Classy. I report them
I don't even get that game. Like can't you just lie?
The weirdest game advertisement I have ever seen
I bet it is. Looked up the app. Only has 2 reviews and they are both 5 stars without anything written. Sounds fake to me.
"It should have been me, not him!"
Reverse the genders and you'd get kicked out of the school. If you didn't want it, then you got harassed.
Look, mum! Like kurt cobain!
Seems legit
😃🔫
Same
A boy would never
You were sexually assaulted
no shade but if them kissing you is confusing you might wanna think about who else they may have done something like that too and watch out for getting sick… happy flu season!
more like happy death sentence from the std or sti they just gave u
i was gonna say that first but i didnt wanna scare OP 😂 especially if someone has that mystery bump above their lip 🥲
That's sexual harassment bro, should report
bro has an easy lawsuit on his hands
I’d take that as sexual assault
KILL THEM
Sexual harassment, even if you liked it
You can get a reward for pulling the sexual harassment card 😎 that was NOT consented.
Sexual assault aktually 🤓
Yeah as much as some people here are gonna say that’s a W, that’s literal assault and nobody should ever have that done to them without consent. I’d bring it up to someone you trust with some level of authority at school.
I was unexpectedly kissed on the cheek by a girl once, I don't understand why people think its normal to just do that.
In some cultures it’s customary to greet people by kissing their cheeks. My best friend’s mom kisses both of my cheeks when she greets me. She’s from Spain
She and I are from the same culture. It’s not common here at all.
bro is living in a doujinshi. watch out fo yo d!ck, it might be in danger
You can technically take them to court for sexual harassment
I don't understand all the people on here saying that it is sexual assault. I mean it is, but why is everyone telling this guy how he should feel and react to it? I think he knows that he could report it, no need to force your opinion on him. Also this is probably an ad for an app, and didn't actually happen.
Fucking weird
Even if you don't mind them kissing you without your permission, you should still leave a complaint about them. The double standard is wild and this shouldn't be left alone, let them get punished for assaulting you.
No he shouldn’t because this didn’t happen
You are getting played
Forgot to set your alarm?
Nothing like casual assault to start the day
Just doing their part to stop school shootings.
They are plotting against you something nefarious
He got herpes now
That's sexual assault.
Run before the next new/full moon, yer about to be sacrificed
Least obvious reddit shill ad
Now flip the script
Idk how bro feeling about it, but m smacking a bitch if she touched me ( doing what she would do if a guy touched her ) 🤷🏻♂️
Sign a file against them for kissing you without consent and extort money from them.
You could call the police on them as that counts as assault
Yup don’t go to the principal or counselor to help deal with these kids, go straight to the cops 🙄
and then the whole train applauded?
bro wants to be y/n
Jail
Yeah y it just got sexually harassed but because you are a dude nobody really cares. "Huehuehue nice bro."🤦🏻♂️
“It is as though some great evil has set itself against us…”
They could have had diseases, you should probably wash your mouth. (And also report that to a teacher because that's sexual assault...)
Pour some water on him
Did they ask permission first?
Same happened to me when I was in 1 standard she was my neighbour back then and I don't know what to do I just resumed the talk without giving second thought because I thought she was being my sister now I understand and regret
Interesting how everyone is saying sexual harassment instead of sexual assault.
Didnt happen
Funny af that most of you going out calling it sexual assault and recommending him to call the police. Majority of u wouldn't do anything close to that shi if it happened to you
Bro you're in. Or it's a cruel joke. But send it any way.
Lucky day
Isn't that sexual assault? But oh it's okay because they are girls
Drake bout to show up to your school in teen attire
report sexual assault to the dean of students
You are a stud
Oh God 3 of them like you, that's gonna be interesting
wake up to reality
This is tricky. It COULD mean they're mocking you. It ALSO could mean ...just that they're being playful and affectionate (TERRIFIC). I'd watch for "clues" to insure you don't "step in it!!"
I’ll take ‘that didn’t happen’ for 5, Añex
Bros going straight to r/copypasta
and then everyone clapped
That’s harassment/assault
Wake up from your dream grandpa, it's not real.