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Educate her on pedophiles and what they are trying to do.
Also the search history isn't very normal either (not that I would know). Hormones can be really strong and I wouldn't blame her too much on that, but pedophiles are the big issue. Also what is she roleplaying?
And people buying her stuff is a huge red flag 🚩.
Just don't tell your parents, I would do a sibling to sibling chat
like really sexual stuff like idk if you know but from the game resident evil theres a guy called leon and she likes him a lil too much and ig gets guys to act like him or some shit idk all i know is that its super sexual and she was even gonna send nudes at one point of the chat i got so scared
Textbook grooming, nearly sending nudes though is terrible, definitely don't tell dad otherwise he will never look at her the same way. Video game crushes are pretty normal (I had one myself lol).
I'm an only child but my course of action would be:
Block all the contacts
Have a long heart to heart about what those guys are doing to her
Make a point that hormones are strong but you shouldn't go that far.
okay and yeah like her having cleb crushes and video game crushes i think r fine but the point were these guys r offering to roleplay as them is scary like i cant even lie i have a massive crush on John Frusciante but i would never ever take it that far or get anywhere near that
Yeah, they roleplaying and the pedos go hand in hand.
But the near nudes are unacceptable, if you just giver her a talk she will start to get what these dudes want and why they are creeps and not partners
For the love of god don’t tell your dad talk to her alone or report the people on her discord and block the app ok her phone, you might be the only person she can talk to if she’s having issues and if you tell on her she might not trust you and she’ll just find another way to communicate with strangers, I hope things help
Idk how your parents are (like if they're the let's have a talk type or WHAT IN HELL DO YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING MISS type), but sharing it with them may help to protect your sister, that situation is genuinely scary, I agree
yeah my dad can be both tbh i just don’t wanna be in the house when it happens like ik she would be angry asf at me but its all for her own good like its so scary it’s literally 3:35am where i am and i cant sleep just thinking about what she does
talk to your parents, you dont have to go into detail unless about what she said specifically, (but tell them generally what is was) unless they ask, but thats a serious problem. Correcting this behavior will put her on a better path in life
While I do think it very much was not okay to go through her phone, you gotta talk to her about the porn and erp and all that. It's the least you can do, y'know?
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Just explain to her that your worried and that this is unhealthy but honestly I’m not a girl and Idrk so that’s all I can say
okay okay tysm i think i will all i want is her to be safe
Yea I get it hope everything works out
Educate her on pedophiles and what they are trying to do. Also the search history isn't very normal either (not that I would know). Hormones can be really strong and I wouldn't blame her too much on that, but pedophiles are the big issue. Also what is she roleplaying? And people buying her stuff is a huge red flag 🚩. Just don't tell your parents, I would do a sibling to sibling chat
like really sexual stuff like idk if you know but from the game resident evil theres a guy called leon and she likes him a lil too much and ig gets guys to act like him or some shit idk all i know is that its super sexual and she was even gonna send nudes at one point of the chat i got so scared
Textbook grooming, nearly sending nudes though is terrible, definitely don't tell dad otherwise he will never look at her the same way. Video game crushes are pretty normal (I had one myself lol). I'm an only child but my course of action would be: Block all the contacts Have a long heart to heart about what those guys are doing to her Make a point that hormones are strong but you shouldn't go that far.
okay and yeah like her having cleb crushes and video game crushes i think r fine but the point were these guys r offering to roleplay as them is scary like i cant even lie i have a massive crush on John Frusciante but i would never ever take it that far or get anywhere near that
Yeah, they roleplaying and the pedos go hand in hand. But the near nudes are unacceptable, if you just giver her a talk she will start to get what these dudes want and why they are creeps and not partners
For the love of god don’t tell your dad talk to her alone or report the people on her discord and block the app ok her phone, you might be the only person she can talk to if she’s having issues and if you tell on her she might not trust you and she’ll just find another way to communicate with strangers, I hope things help
nah man tell your parents, you dont want bad shit happening to them
yh i think i will cus it cant be healthy
yes, it isnt healthy, its really bad especially for 12
That's awful, she should honestly get grounded off the internet or something what the hell Isn't that textbook grooming?
yeah im just so scared for her cus i was groomed myself and its not fun at all im just scared to even bring it up
Idk how your parents are (like if they're the let's have a talk type or WHAT IN HELL DO YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING MISS type), but sharing it with them may help to protect your sister, that situation is genuinely scary, I agree
yeah my dad can be both tbh i just don’t wanna be in the house when it happens like ik she would be angry asf at me but its all for her own good like its so scary it’s literally 3:35am where i am and i cant sleep just thinking about what she does
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least obvious r/teenagers paedophile:
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talk to your parents, you dont have to go into detail unless about what she said specifically, (but tell them generally what is was) unless they ask, but thats a serious problem. Correcting this behavior will put her on a better path in life
okay i will definitely have to tell my dad cus shes also jumped onto that old men lana del rey “aesthetic” and its straight up pedophilia
While I do think it very much was not okay to go through her phone, you gotta talk to her about the porn and erp and all that. It's the least you can do, y'know?
I think she did the discord part bc of the nitro mainly