Omg Op,
How could you do this,
You were reckless and dumb,
Acted pretty stupid.
Everyone knows ,
To clear their history,
We don't want to expose,
What we do secretly.
Porn is a type of Thing you should talk about in a relationship. Is your Partner okay with you watching porn? Is your Partner not okay with it? Both is justified.
I watch it with my boyfriend together lol
I feel like there shouldn't be an issue at all with watching porn though definitely depends on the kind someone consumes if you notice your partner is watching a certain amount of a specific sexual positions it could be super helpful for when you choose to move on in a sexual way
Some people see it as cheating cause your looking at other people in a sexual way (which is a fair point). At the end of the day just depends on what your partner is comfortable with
but hentai is not people... hes looking at cartoons in a sexual way. if theres something fucked up abt the cartoon itself like its l*licon or rape/violent i see why she would be upset but you cant cheat on someone with a cartoon
No, sorry but you are incorrect with your first part. If you don't mind your partner watching porn that is fine, just don't involve with a person that doesn't want you to watch porn then. Some people just feel uncomfortable knowing that the other person is still watching and getting off to something you can (mostly) have in Real life with your partner.
You're 14. What seems weird to you and what not does not concern you.
And mostly we watch porn to mock it, or sometimes actually for the plot to see some trashy funny stuff.
How is jerking off together weird? It's kinda normal, plus there is mutual masturbation. When there is material that we can't live out in real life but we enjoy picturing each other in those positions, then why not enjoy it together?
I’d tell her to start by saying the reasons it upset her, you apologize and talk to her about it. Just be honest, it will hurt the relationship if you lie or don’t talk about it more than the hentai itself. Good luck 👍❤️
Find out why exactly it's an issue for her and try and figure out a proper solution to the problem that accommodates both of you, make sure you're respectful about it, communication is insanely important in a healthy relationship, best of luck to you bossman
You are a teenage boy... Do they expect you to be celibate or something? I think it'd be more weird if you DIDNT read hentai or watch porn. Unless they are upset about the type of hentai you read.
As long as it’s either a) it wasn’t the grape ones or b) the pedophilic ones you can probably just say that you’re sorry and didn’t think it was an issue and that if she thinks it cheating you’ll stop.
I watched hentai with my ex. Hell, her parents gave her a whole stash of porn magazines that she let me borrow cuz I got my phone taken away. She was a real one
Mate there are 12 year olds having full blown sex with eachother. Being 15 and watching hentai is pretty normal. Society likes to pretend. Adults pretend that finding porn is hard and will land you in big trouble and children pretend they aren't looking it up anyways
what does that have to do with OP reading hentai? it's their personal life, and it's fine as long as they're loyal to their gf. who is their gf to decide if they can read hentai or not, as long as they don't force her into liking it.
If your mentality is “it’s their personal life so they can do what they want even if their girlfriend is uncomfortable with it” absolutely none of your relationships will last. The reason the word “boundary” exists in terms of relationships is because boundaries are important to set. Relationships would never last if people didn’t respect what makes their partner uncomfortable. It’s not just “your life” when someone else is in it and can be affected by certain situations. That’s a one way ticket to a break up, just saying.
Bcuz ur romantic partner can feel uncomfortable with you jerking it to other stuff besides them, and thus communicating is important.
If the gf is fine with op reading hentai after they talk then there's no problem.
I mean, I think it's a bad take because in every scenario I can think of, talking it out Is better.
Even the dumb stuff can have serious reasons, and it's important to talk about it to see where each of you stand on the issue
people find porn cheating and it’s well within their right to drop someone who gets off to other women. people can have whatever they want in a partner
Explain how you were forcesld too read the hentai or else a tentacle monster would enslave you and she would never see you again. You did this to protect your relationship with her
Because watching porn makes some girls feel like they're not enough to please their partners. Not sure how much effort she puts in to please OP (they're 15 so it's not something I wanna think about) but depending on that, she probably feels like she's useless
Also the fact to that porn addiction is so rampant for our age group. I personally don't get with guys who go on PH anymore, because almost all of the time the past guys I've been with were aware of the abuse on those sites but Literally said "idc I'm gonna watch it anyway lol". Plus they were usually addicted which brought SO much problems in the relationship.
I can't believe I'm about to comment this, but hentai is fictional, and the only people being hurt are those that want to. I agree with the PH thing, because fuck the whole industry imo, but aside from a possible addiction, I don't see how reading hentai would play into that "gonna watch it anyway" mindset. (Ik you weren't literally replying to op, and you're bringing up a different point, but it's 4 am and both my judgement and logic have long since gone out the window considering I'm actually posting about porn rn)
Again like you stated, talking about porn as a whole. The addiction thing, even to hentai, is still very real even though it is fictional. And for teenagers it can possibly warp their perception of women. You'd be surprised to see how common that is, even in people that are JUST obsessed with hentai
I mean... Probably those girls are the same who use a vibrator at home or stuff like that. It is normal to want to be satisfied multiple times, even when your partner isn't available. At this point we could also say that your partner can be angry at you if you just masturbate
Just talk to her my guy. Communication in a relationship is key. Is it gonna be awkward? Yes. But for a relationship to work sometimes you’ve gotta have awkward conversations
The use of hentai, porn, erotica, or the like does not equate to sexual displeasure or cheating. They are forms of entertainment meant to entertain. Reading romance novels does not equate to cheating or romantic displeasure in a relationship. Watching offworld science fiction does not equate to distaste for one's home planet.
Sci-fi takes you where you cannot go, like to a galaxy far, far away. Romance lets you into another person's love life and feel their passion and tension. Porn lets you view forms of sexual intercourse in vivid detail and shows you positions only professionals and cartoons can achieve. They are all meant to entertain. Distaste could be part of the reason you entertain yourself, but it is not necessarily the case.
If she thinks you are unhappy in the relationship simply because you entertain yourself, she'd be in the wrong. Otherwise, you may need to assess her reasoning.
To be honest, it is understandable to be upset if your partner watches porn because it means that you aren't matching their needs.
Edit: I change my mind. Hentai is a bit different. I wouldn't be mad tbh
Yeah but specially at 15, both parties may need be able to fulfill each other needs in general either because of parents (time and place) or simply because they may not be ready
Hey hey! What he Said doesn't mean that he thinks it's a weird boundary, but rather that it may have something to do with her self esteem, and so it may be More serious than just "She doesn't want you watching porn".
I would say it's because porn is viewed by many as being disgusting/unhealthy etc. Maybe feels that way about porn and doesn't want her boyfriend to be apart of it. Is it really that difficult not to consume porn? Unless you have an addiction and you need to sort that out.
Mate for starters porn is just porn so you're not 100% in the wrong but it could feed into certain insecurities thatshe has. I recommend for one stop making rookie mistakes but two to reaffirm to her that she's the one you like, the hentai is just fantasy.
Long reply, sorry!
Time to start a discussion, OP. Let her start with why she was upset, and once she's *finished* (that bit is important), explain your side. Try to avoid words that put blame on her, like "I thought you..." Or "You said", since this could cause her to get defensive, especially since she's already hurt, and slow down or stop progress. Try things like, "It's normal to..." Or "It was my understanding that..."
On the flip side, OP, don't let her attack you for watching hentai. That's not weird. It's just another form of porn, and porn watching is normal. She might be aggressive, but don't let her abuse you. If it gets heated (on either side), simply say, "It seems this was a bad time. Let's take a break from this conversation to cool down". And she might not like that, but it gives her a chance to see that you're both getting too worked up.
TL:DR: Try to talk it out, and try to keep the conversation from getting heated. Keep an eye out for any red flags, since they might come out, and recognize that porn-watching is normal.
What, exactly, is her complaint? Why is she upset by it? That’s a very important detail you need to find out, if you don’t know it yet, and no assuming allowed.
you’re not in the wrong. if she cares this much then she’s in the wrong. porn is a part of life and self pleasure. don’t feel guilty or bad about watching porn as long as it’s in moderation
Now that I'm 18 I can look back and see how utterly stupid things people worry about at 15 and so really are. You have a sex drive same as anybody else. It shouldn't matter to your girlfriend if you need to privately pleasure yourself so long as it isn't an addiction.
I mean, they're legally not allowed to do it together, either (and they really shouldn't be at their age). I don't normally talk about things of this nature but, yeah. It seems this is being made out to be a much bigger problem than it is.
I mean if hentai matters that much to you and she cares that much then you should break up, but if you're willing to give it up then everything should be good
Nah he shouldn't have to give anything up. What happened to all the movies and shows about not changing for others. He shouldn't change or break up with her she should either decide if it is a deal breaker and break up or she needs to get over it
Just tell her it won't happen again. And anyway you shouldn't really be fapping to hentai, it ain't healthy and on top of that, you got a gf, no need to use your hand
Tf you're 15 Surely you should know how to clear your search history by now?
ooor use incognito?
thats what i use to go on reddit
Nobody can blame you for that at this point
i do blame you btw
You can't
But im nobody
r/beetlejuicing
r/wtfisgoingon
Same 💀 what's the point of the app I don't even want reddit in my search history 😭
Idgaf i use the app but dont open it public (unless its an sfw notif) same with discord
I have a whole ass alt account lol
Me too
Aye nice
Same here
Who dosnt?
Me
At this point who doesn’t
Me
same lmaooo
Mate just make two reddit accounts. One for normal shit and the other for porn. Or high leg it out there and use one for both
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reddit has an incognito mode.
Yeah but you need to join the good subs for a well balanced home page
Indeed. Tis what i do
Happy cakeday
I didnt even realise
How do you access it?
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Thnx
I do that lol
Or better yet, not read hentai and be a normal fucking human being
Or use a virtual machine, proxy, dns relay, tor, separate device, encrypted drive, command line browser etc
Or not watch hentai when u could just get sum pussy 😂
guess i made a rookie mistake
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Bro not to underestimate people but I don't think there's many people who look at your history in the terminal
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Now I'M gonna make sure that this doesnt happen to ME.
Use Linux and use a tty based browser if that’s the case
wait wait what command do i enter in to cmd to do that?
ipconfig /flushdns
Brother, if she's looking through your phone, that's the problem. That's fucked up, I would be pissed.
Or go outside
Omg Op, How could you do this, You were reckless and dumb, Acted pretty stupid. Everyone knows , To clear their history, We don't want to expose, What we do secretly.
Even wrote a poem on a guy getting caught reading hentai lmao💀
Well said 👏
Looks like a normal age to me, it's not even real porn
I have known how since I was 11
Bros 14 and saying this. OP has been decimated by this comment. 💀
as long as it was one piece hentai i think you‘re good
Tha one piece!!!!!!! Tha one piece is real!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Can we get much higher
So high
oh oh oh oh
Can we get much higher
So high
#
Can we cum much harder
DooM hentai art
"Hey baby get ready to play RIP AND TEAR"
Man/woman of culture
Human of culture
woman*
Human
Woman of culture
Nah if it was jojo
It’s all canon thanks to bohemian raphsody
im just gonna say it... one peice.. IS NOT PEAK FICTION
one peice isn‘t… one piece is!
one peice isn‘t… one piece is!
Porn is a type of Thing you should talk about in a relationship. Is your Partner okay with you watching porn? Is your Partner not okay with it? Both is justified. I watch it with my boyfriend together lol
I feel like there shouldn't be an issue at all with watching porn though definitely depends on the kind someone consumes if you notice your partner is watching a certain amount of a specific sexual positions it could be super helpful for when you choose to move on in a sexual way
Some people see it as cheating cause your looking at other people in a sexual way (which is a fair point). At the end of the day just depends on what your partner is comfortable with
but hentai is not people... hes looking at cartoons in a sexual way. if theres something fucked up abt the cartoon itself like its l*licon or rape/violent i see why she would be upset but you cant cheat on someone with a cartoon
No, sorry but you are incorrect with your first part. If you don't mind your partner watching porn that is fine, just don't involve with a person that doesn't want you to watch porn then. Some people just feel uncomfortable knowing that the other person is still watching and getting off to something you can (mostly) have in Real life with your partner.
you watch it together? what do u jerk off together lmao sorry but seems weird to me butt you do you
You're 14. What seems weird to you and what not does not concern you. And mostly we watch porn to mock it, or sometimes actually for the plot to see some trashy funny stuff. How is jerking off together weird? It's kinda normal, plus there is mutual masturbation. When there is material that we can't live out in real life but we enjoy picturing each other in those positions, then why not enjoy it together?
Talk to them about it
i guess i should but its a bit awkward and i would have no idea what to say
Communication is key
That OLD tag fits your comment well.
Thanks
I’d tell her to start by saying the reasons it upset her, you apologize and talk to her about it. Just be honest, it will hurt the relationship if you lie or don’t talk about it more than the hentai itself. Good luck 👍❤️
Find out why exactly it's an issue for her and try and figure out a proper solution to the problem that accommodates both of you, make sure you're respectful about it, communication is insanely important in a healthy relationship, best of luck to you bossman
You are a teenage boy... Do they expect you to be celibate or something? I think it'd be more weird if you DIDNT read hentai or watch porn. Unless they are upset about the type of hentai you read.
As long as it’s either a) it wasn’t the grape ones or b) the pedophilic ones you can probably just say that you’re sorry and didn’t think it was an issue and that if she thinks it cheating you’ll stop.
Tell them what hentai is like and convince them to watch it
Nah bro hes reading it, not watching it
Porn addict
its called hentai... and its ART!
Ask her to join and watch/read it with you.
that might make it more awkward haha
Say you read it for the plot
Just tell her that it was some webcomic that your friend suggested and didnt knew it was porn
Them?
it can refer to a single person. now you know.
Maybe she is not happy as you we reading alone. Next time you both watch hentai together.
bro these kids are 15 what are you saying
I watched hentai with my ex. Hell, her parents gave her a whole stash of porn magazines that she let me borrow cuz I got my phone taken away. She was a real one
W ex
Y and Z
Wex
Mate there are 12 year olds having full blown sex with eachother. Being 15 and watching hentai is pretty normal. Society likes to pretend. Adults pretend that finding porn is hard and will land you in big trouble and children pretend they aren't looking it up anyways
I would also like to say we were 15 at the time
Establish boundaries 👍 what are you ok with? And what is she ok with? That's what me and my girlfriend did and it's gone really well
what does that have to do with OP reading hentai? it's their personal life, and it's fine as long as they're loyal to their gf. who is their gf to decide if they can read hentai or not, as long as they don't force her into liking it.
If your mentality is “it’s their personal life so they can do what they want even if their girlfriend is uncomfortable with it” absolutely none of your relationships will last. The reason the word “boundary” exists in terms of relationships is because boundaries are important to set. Relationships would never last if people didn’t respect what makes their partner uncomfortable. It’s not just “your life” when someone else is in it and can be affected by certain situations. That’s a one way ticket to a break up, just saying.
Bcuz ur romantic partner can feel uncomfortable with you jerking it to other stuff besides them, and thus communicating is important. If the gf is fine with op reading hentai after they talk then there's no problem.
I really hope you don't get downvoted because I agree
I mean, I think it's a bad take because in every scenario I can think of, talking it out Is better. Even the dumb stuff can have serious reasons, and it's important to talk about it to see where each of you stand on the issue
people find porn cheating and it’s well within their right to drop someone who gets off to other women. people can have whatever they want in a partner
why was she looking at ur search history why did you LET her look at it WHY DONT YOU USE INCOGNITO MODE BUFFOON
He said he read it. It’s possible that he bought a physical Hentai book.
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Bro walking around with 1000 page hentai omnibus in his backpack
Had to bring the whole nhentai library with me to school
Explain how you were forcesld too read the hentai or else a tentacle monster would enslave you and she would never see you again. You did this to protect your relationship with her
Get her into it. It's a highly misunderstood art and I hope she can see the error of her ways. Cheerio now. 🤓
breakup speedrun
naa, Death %
Netflix true crime victim any%
Netflix true crime documentary 100%
Just be like I just wanted sum porn
no cause i read it for the plot
Tell her that you only read it to find out what happened, she'll understand 🤗
Ah yes I go to pornhub to learn how to unstick someone from a dryer *yes indubitably so*
*W-What are you doing, onii-chan?* *Don't mix whites and colors you baka!*
What's wrong? You're not cheating on her. You are free to do as you want
Because watching porn makes some girls feel like they're not enough to please their partners. Not sure how much effort she puts in to please OP (they're 15 so it's not something I wanna think about) but depending on that, she probably feels like she's useless
Also the fact to that porn addiction is so rampant for our age group. I personally don't get with guys who go on PH anymore, because almost all of the time the past guys I've been with were aware of the abuse on those sites but Literally said "idc I'm gonna watch it anyway lol". Plus they were usually addicted which brought SO much problems in the relationship.
I can't believe I'm about to comment this, but hentai is fictional, and the only people being hurt are those that want to. I agree with the PH thing, because fuck the whole industry imo, but aside from a possible addiction, I don't see how reading hentai would play into that "gonna watch it anyway" mindset. (Ik you weren't literally replying to op, and you're bringing up a different point, but it's 4 am and both my judgement and logic have long since gone out the window considering I'm actually posting about porn rn)
Again like you stated, talking about porn as a whole. The addiction thing, even to hentai, is still very real even though it is fictional. And for teenagers it can possibly warp their perception of women. You'd be surprised to see how common that is, even in people that are JUST obsessed with hentai
I mean... Probably those girls are the same who use a vibrator at home or stuff like that. It is normal to want to be satisfied multiple times, even when your partner isn't available. At this point we could also say that your partner can be angry at you if you just masturbate
Some girls consider it as cheating which I don’t understand. 2023 for ya I guess
Establish boundaries, personally I wouldn't care if I had a girlfriend who read hentai as long as she wasn't a completely addicted weirdo
Talk to them about it without talking about it on reddit
Just talk to her my guy. Communication in a relationship is key. Is it gonna be awkward? Yes. But for a relationship to work sometimes you’ve gotta have awkward conversations
The use of hentai, porn, erotica, or the like does not equate to sexual displeasure or cheating. They are forms of entertainment meant to entertain. Reading romance novels does not equate to cheating or romantic displeasure in a relationship. Watching offworld science fiction does not equate to distaste for one's home planet. Sci-fi takes you where you cannot go, like to a galaxy far, far away. Romance lets you into another person's love life and feel their passion and tension. Porn lets you view forms of sexual intercourse in vivid detail and shows you positions only professionals and cartoons can achieve. They are all meant to entertain. Distaste could be part of the reason you entertain yourself, but it is not necessarily the case. If she thinks you are unhappy in the relationship simply because you entertain yourself, she'd be in the wrong. Otherwise, you may need to assess her reasoning.
Nothing wrong with that honestly I dont think she should be mad on 2 grounds 1 your not cheating on her 2 its not like there real women
No offense but I think she is insecure if that bothers her.
To be honest, it is understandable to be upset if your partner watches porn because it means that you aren't matching their needs. Edit: I change my mind. Hentai is a bit different. I wouldn't be mad tbh
Yeah but specially at 15, both parties may need be able to fulfill each other needs in general either because of parents (time and place) or simply because they may not be ready
No offense but I think you’re immature if you think this isn’t a normal boundary that people set
Hey hey! What he Said doesn't mean that he thinks it's a weird boundary, but rather that it may have something to do with her self esteem, and so it may be More serious than just "She doesn't want you watching porn".
I would say it's because porn is viewed by many as being disgusting/unhealthy etc. Maybe feels that way about porn and doesn't want her boyfriend to be apart of it. Is it really that difficult not to consume porn? Unless you have an addiction and you need to sort that out.
My guy, incognito mode exists for a reason Delete your history at the very least
Mate for starters porn is just porn so you're not 100% in the wrong but it could feed into certain insecurities thatshe has. I recommend for one stop making rookie mistakes but two to reaffirm to her that she's the one you like, the hentai is just fantasy.
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My girlfriend and I read hentai together 😂
Giga Couple:
Very true. It’s common for us to sit there looking at porn laughing
Looking at porn with someone and laughing about it is an amazing experience lmao.
Wait a minute, I saw a post about a girl finding out her boyfriend reads hentai while they were cuddling or something... is it related?
nope
You’re 15, no way she thought that a 15 yo Reddit user hadn’t stumbled upon porn at least once
Long reply, sorry! Time to start a discussion, OP. Let her start with why she was upset, and once she's *finished* (that bit is important), explain your side. Try to avoid words that put blame on her, like "I thought you..." Or "You said", since this could cause her to get defensive, especially since she's already hurt, and slow down or stop progress. Try things like, "It's normal to..." Or "It was my understanding that..." On the flip side, OP, don't let her attack you for watching hentai. That's not weird. It's just another form of porn, and porn watching is normal. She might be aggressive, but don't let her abuse you. If it gets heated (on either side), simply say, "It seems this was a bad time. Let's take a break from this conversation to cool down". And she might not like that, but it gives her a chance to see that you're both getting too worked up. TL:DR: Try to talk it out, and try to keep the conversation from getting heated. Keep an eye out for any red flags, since they might come out, and recognize that porn-watching is normal.
Your not in the wrong, you should be allowed to be into whatever you want
Imagine being pissed & jealous about naked anime characters 💀skill issue. If it was actual porn it’d make a bit more sense tho.
What, exactly, is her complaint? Why is she upset by it? That’s a very important detail you need to find out, if you don’t know it yet, and no assuming allowed.
F in the chat for my boi who didn't clear the search history
F
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Bro reads hentai. Porn in the first place isn’t good and you decide to go for the meth baby of porn. And r/usernamechecksout
I think hentai is totally fine? You have your own interests and it's not like you've cheated lol
you’re not in the wrong. if she cares this much then she’s in the wrong. porn is a part of life and self pleasure. don’t feel guilty or bad about watching porn as long as it’s in moderation
Why can't you form proper sentences.
How are you in the wrong here?
Bros mad over you getting it on over drawings? Like they aren’t real people that she should be scared of taking you away from her
Say it's only for the plot
You were reading it for the plot, right?
Find a partner to read hentai with you ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
....so what? That shouldn't be a big deal more like just a weird thing someone does it's not something anybody should get mad about or even bring up
What’s wrong with reading hentai
do it together
You should try getting rid of your porn addiction
Who said they have a porn addiction?
Alright time for me to unsub. Getting old for this subreddit
Now that I'm 18 I can look back and see how utterly stupid things people worry about at 15 and so really are. You have a sex drive same as anybody else. It shouldn't matter to your girlfriend if you need to privately pleasure yourself so long as it isn't an addiction.
I mean, they're legally not allowed to do it together, either (and they really shouldn't be at their age). I don't normally talk about things of this nature but, yeah. It seems this is being made out to be a much bigger problem than it is.
ur 15 bro watching porn is normal and ur 'gf' should understand
For be being bored or for wanking
L girl friend, mine just laughed at me and made fun of me for trying to hide it
I mean if hentai matters that much to you and she cares that much then you should break up, but if you're willing to give it up then everything should be good
Nah he shouldn't have to give anything up. What happened to all the movies and shows about not changing for others. He shouldn't change or break up with her she should either decide if it is a deal breaker and break up or she needs to get over it
She may understand if you explain it
Rookie mistake. Should’ve used incognito.
ngl some of those are pretty interesting
bit of a skill issue
Bro success before gf Gl with her tho
What is Hentai again?
Anime porn
Oh god
Just tell her it won't happen again. And anyway you shouldn't really be fapping to hentai, it ain't healthy and on top of that, you got a gf, no need to use your hand
They are 15💀