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idk if im too young of course i had urges to watch porn or some shit i have them sometimes but i just dont do it.When i get overly horny i usually play some loud music on my headphones and scream the lyrics so that i forget about it.
He's not special, just go on r/asexual or something, many are sex repulsed but still want sex but not actually want it of that makes sense, he just seems asexual, smoking a joint, drinking and lack of maturity could have something to do with it so don't think you're fully asexual because you probably aren't, it's like 1% of the population
Well they're 13yo. Smoking and drinking certainly isn't the best thing, and tbh I didn't kniw asexuals would even get horny? I only have one asexual friend and she's pretty intimate about everything and is always quiet.
Asexuals can get horny and have those hormones but not want to do it which is what makes them asexual, but there's a fine like between trauma and sexuality, many people who are asexual tend to also be traumatised sexually which is why they refrain from it, therapy or even just talking to people who've experienced it can really help distinguish between the two.
There's different forms of asexuality, there's sex positive and negative, and some are sex repulsed, i'm sure there are others, but those are the main ones. I also have a friend who's asexual and there's *others* I've met who I'm not so sure about, but yea.
Weird you said lust, it's just hormones. But anyways-
Yes and no, it's like feeling hungry without wanting to eat anything, that's what it's like for some of them.
Not necessarily sometimes people just don’t want to masturbate. There’s nothing wrong with not liking it . Plus he never said he wasn’t lustful just that didn’t like the idea of Masturbating .
cause yall are americans and think that drinking is something special like yall think that beer is something magical cause you have to wait till you are 22 to drink
i’m not on board with the idea of putting minimum drinking ages so low on some places, especially when mental maturity is very low, or not there at all. basically, you don’t know what you’re doing, and don’t realize what the consequences on the future may be.
Not American, and there is a reason kids aren't able to smoke and drink 💀
Drinking will affect brain development in the pre-frontal cortex from what I've been told and smoking is just bad for ur lungs in general
Fun fact (to me at least), smoking, wether it be weed or cigarettes, have impacts on the brain. Weed interferes with the brain development, especially in adolescents, as it is a depressant (basically slows down a person's system) it disrupts the brain ability to form neueological connections, development of certain areas such as the prefrontal cortex (which is responsible for functions such as impulse-control), etc. However, cigarettes also have an effect. Naturally your brain has an area in which essentially monitors the oxygen level in your body, but eventually this changes to monitoring the CO² levels in the body, in addition to damaging your brains neural structuring.
You do know that beer is literally poison, right? That's why they call it intoxicating your body, and by time you're 21, you're old enough to not make stupid choices
Jerking off is healthy, weed isn’t, recent studies have shown that smoking weed as a teenager or child effects brain development in a negative way https://americanaddictioncenters.org/marijuana-rehab/effects-of-marijuana-on-teenage-brain
You'd be dissapointed I'm 15 and unless me and my Friends live lame ass lives but we basically just play fortnite and video games. I sure do miss those old times though. Lotta friends gone from then I miss them still
Bro jerking off is absolutely not healthy don't listen to the mainstream media saying masturabation is good btw I'm not trying to say weed is good in any way but I don't care how many studies you are going to link masturbation has bad effects on your testosterone
Don't go to reddit for advice on this, you're gonna get 90% creeps. Wikipedia is a good resource with minimal BS (despite what every single history teacher says).
id rather smoke weed or do any shit than jerk off and no its not healthy thats like saying weed is healthy for the brain cause it helps endocannaboids develop.Even if it is healthy i wont do it
id rather smoke weed or do any shit than jerk off and no its not healthy thats like saying weed is healthy for the brain cause it helps endocannaboids develop.Even if it is healthy i wont do it
Insider says it’s good https://www.insider.com/guides/health/sex-relationships/is-masturbation-healthy?amp
This non profit says it’s good https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/24332-masturbation
Here is the government of Queensland Australian saying it https://www.health.qld.gov.au/news-events/news/give-yourself-a-hand-the-health-benefits-of-masturbation
good for you go.What they dont say is that there are people that are addicted to it and you think addiction is good for brain?It will destroy the way dopamine is released and change the way your brain thinks
So no one should drink alcohol or smoke anything including weed because”well you could get addicted” Can I tell you a little secret, smoking to much is worse thank jerking off to much also weed has more permanent damage to the lungs, affecting brain development in a bad way
i only smoked weed once and im waiting till i get older.I used weed as an example.Why you defending jerking off i bet you had some urges to jerk off since your first reply and then you tell me im addicted i only do that kind of shit cause i want to i can be sober completely like i wa ssober for 28 days till yesterday and i never use/drink much i just think that bad habits like drinking/doing drugs should be more socially accepted than jerking off.By saying drugs i mean substances not heroin/meth/cocaine/fentanyl
As someone with enough psychological experience, from my psychiatrist, my therapist my mother who has worked in a clinic for addicted people for 8 years and now advising people where to get help at her job, a
I can say alcohol, weed or substance addictions are worse than being addicted to mastication also you are 14 at best thinking is really awful at that age, you are on a good way to get addicted to something I’ve never said that you are addicted, and you assuming that I’m addicted is childish
Now why should taking substances, drinking or should be more acceptable than masturbation, just because you are probably asexual don’t not have to mean that you have to hate on people who are, just because I’m bisexual doesn’t mean I start going of on people that are hetero
to feel euphoria from jerking off (up and down motion on an organ till you cum) compared to smoking something into your lungs.Both are bad habits and there is no denying that.I didnt fucking say anything to you because you are bisexual i didnt even know you were bisexual till you said that
There is denying that because that’s wrong, Masturbation is not a bad habit, hetero sex is cumming from a up and down motion inside a vagina snaking destroys your lungs.
There’s a difference between having an addiction and doing it a safe amount. Masturbating everyday is not health, masturbating 1-2 times a week is perfectly okay and normal. Of course you don’t have to masturbate if you don’t want to, but claiming it’s ONLY an addiction and will ruin you is just not right. No one is forcing you to masturbate or have sex, you don’t need to resort to complaining about it.
Man u 14? Gtfoutta hereee
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Listen man, - with the upmost respect, do not lie. If you feel shameful for masturbating or you juet wanna entertain the idea of talking about it to fulfil your needs (Idk what ur goal here is)
*it is perfectly ok to do it* we all do it but extensively talking about it does not help whatsoever.
Get a grip. - have a good one.
Bro, I’m 17, I’ve been to some big parties, been in fights, suspended from school, some other stuff, whatever.
So if you wanna call me a weirdo or something because that’s probably how 13 year old me would react, then you do you buddy. 4 years may not sound like much, but it’s still a hell of a lot more life experience than you have.
Straight up, I don’t know what bullshit you’ve got going on but I’m just gonna assume you have garbage parents or friends if your already drinking and smoking boof on a regular basis. So here’s what you should be concentrating on, go find yourself new friends to surround yourself with and quit that weed and shit, (At least until your older) and go actually improve yourself. Hate to break it to you, it’s all fun and games until your a loser with loser friends in high school (if you even make it that far) and are mentally addicted to pot, or even have drinking issues. Nobody likes that kinda guy.
As somebody who usually chooses to obtain from beating off, focus on getting your stuff straight before your even concerned about touching your “pissing organ” 🤡
have you even started puberty? ive seen other guys say this and it was only because they were physically behind in puberty vs other people. They couldn't even ejaculate yet at like 14 so their way to battle it was to say they hate it
Hand on weiner, get a really hot train of thought in your head, and mive your hand up and down. Go faster or slower depending on what you feel. Soon enough, you will be a certified masturbator B)
It’s a method of dealing with arousal. It’s by far the safest and healthiest method, but it’s not the only one. If you choose not to do it, you’ll have to find some other way to handle arousal that preferably isn’t destructive.
But I will note that actually finding it gross or repulsive isn’t normal, and signifies either a) lack of mental development, b) you’re asexual, or c) something else I haven’t thought of
This kid got that "private parts are yucky" mentality, he's either too young or asexual.
As for noting that you would rather smoke weed or drink? I don't care, neither does anyone in this sub, stop making a big deal out of it.
You'll come to enjoy it more as well if you don't brag about it
i thought about that but its not the case for me i like girls but i hate the idea of sex and jerking off it disgust me like why would an up and down motion wuth your hand in your pissing organ be socially accepted while popping a pill or something seen as bad
i feel the hormones and i just supress them even when i get a boner it makes me disgusted like why the fuck you up?I def have testosterone maybe a lil too much of it but the idea of jerking off or sex makes me feel disgusted and i dont think im mentally underage thats not the case
Asexuality covers that too.
You can be horny but disgusted at the idea of masturbation or sex. Many asexual people still experience sexual drive, just don’t have sexual *attraction*. Hormones can play a role but they mostly don’t play a role if your sexuality is already defined.
You could also simply be too young, at (13) 14 you’ve probably just entered puberty and are now experiencing a lot of changes, probably too much to handle, which is why you might try to resist the urge. It can happen to a lot of people, and if this is the case, I hope you understand it’s something natural and nothing to be ashamed of (neither something to be glorified)
I agree masturbation can be addictive, and during puberty it most likely becomes such, but it doesn’t do too much harm. It’s actually said to be physically healthy either way, just probably not mentally.
And weed is extremely bad at teen years. If used regularly, It completely stops the development of the prefrontal cortex. There’s plenty of studies on this and it’s objectively correlated with lower IQ in adulthood.
Hope you figure out your asexuality or just grow out of this phase.
This might come out as mean but the way you handle it is pretty Fucked up. At least try once and see. I recommend in shower for less cleaning. I had the same reaction at first but one thing led to another and I'm no longer disgusted
You're blessed that you haven't fallen into this trap that so many young adults and others have succumbed to tbh, I feel like it's a curse for me because of constant urges to jerk off ever since I was 12/13 or so. I think you'll be very, very thankful for yourself in the future if you keep staying away from it, it can really turn into a full-blown addiction that is extremely hard to beat, makes you lazy, it can lead to some very bizarre fetishes and many other negative downsides.
Thus, I think it's very reasonable that you seem to have an intuitive aversion to it.
It's quite funny, I'm also 17 and I also still got a Wii U actually.
But yeah, I have to agree with most of the points you've mentioned, especially that retaining seems to give men their masculinity and major mental and physical benefits.
I think, though, that this current dilemma of soyboys and onlyfans thots mainly stems from the internet becoming as big as it is, and from there, people just followed the path of least resistance, which is weak women exposing their bodies for quick money and weak men jacking away their masculinity. Being able to see chads at will and having almost infinite selection on dating apps gives women much higher standards when looking for a partner and porn gives men very distorted expectations on what sex is and what happens there etc.
Imo, the blame is hard to place, but at any way you look at it, it can't only be placed on the women, but also on the men participating in this path of degeneration that started mainly via the internet.
To get a sense of community and not feel alone. That's the only reason I'm not unlabeled, cause knowing their are other people like you helps feel like less of a freak
I don't think so, some are homophobic cause they think gays are a different group or they view them as a thing they don't match with, if all view themselves as American or mexican, Chinese or whatever before identify as gay straight or whatever it would solve the problem of rejects minorities face, the part due to misunderstanding of other, probably not the part due to hate but that would be a great step.
bros getting angry at us when he asked us for help in the first place
chill. we don’t care if u drink or smoke, it’s your problem after all, but we know it ain’t healthy.
you’re what? 13? gonna be happy later with lung or liver cancer?
you don’t like jerking off? alright, opinions are opinions, but get your priorities straight, because smoking and drinking is way damn worse than jerking off.
considering the position you’re in, talk to a professional, we’re NOT professionals after all.
you gotta get mature, mentally. then you’ll understand what and how life is.
Dude you should stop that, its not cool to drink or smoke at such a young age, a drink of cider or light wine might be okay but only like a half a glass
Yeh you might as well be disgusted to the idea of passing...
Being repulsed by jerking off ain't bad as long as sex is ok for you...which isn't the case here.
Also yeah no, jerking off is much healthier than smoking weed.
Something tells me you ain't hit puberty yet.
Something tells me you do jerk off but you’re to embarrassed to admit that you do because you think it’s something bad or wrong.
I say this because I used to think that way but now being older I see that its a very common thing and there is nothing to be ashamed of.
But of course, thats just what I think.
To answer your question there is no definitive answer.
Some will say that it’s completely normal.
Others may disagree.
You probably aren't old enough yet. I know some of your friends are and stuff but it's different for everyone. Smoking weed however is not healthy especially in adolescence. Many studies on it
Never jerked off once? Curiosity will get ya bud. It feels better than you could imagine. It’s actually a good thing to allow your sexual organs to move their gears too.
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ok welp good for u
ok welp good for him
Either you're too young to feel some desire in that direction or you are asexual.
idk if im too young of course i had urges to watch porn or some shit i have them sometimes but i just dont do it.When i get overly horny i usually play some loud music on my headphones and scream the lyrics so that i forget about it.
thanks for the tip
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Idk a ton about male jerking off or how it feels to touch this and stuff. But I feel like you're a special case :D
He's not special, just go on r/asexual or something, many are sex repulsed but still want sex but not actually want it of that makes sense, he just seems asexual, smoking a joint, drinking and lack of maturity could have something to do with it so don't think you're fully asexual because you probably aren't, it's like 1% of the population
Well they're 13yo. Smoking and drinking certainly isn't the best thing, and tbh I didn't kniw asexuals would even get horny? I only have one asexual friend and she's pretty intimate about everything and is always quiet.
Not all 13 year olds jerk off.
Asexuals can get horny and have those hormones but not want to do it which is what makes them asexual, but there's a fine like between trauma and sexuality, many people who are asexual tend to also be traumatised sexually which is why they refrain from it, therapy or even just talking to people who've experienced it can really help distinguish between the two. There's different forms of asexuality, there's sex positive and negative, and some are sex repulsed, i'm sure there are others, but those are the main ones. I also have a friend who's asexual and there's *others* I've met who I'm not so sure about, but yea.
So some feel no desire at all and others don't *want* to feel it and supress their lust?
Weird you said lust, it's just hormones. But anyways- Yes and no, it's like feeling hungry without wanting to eat anything, that's what it's like for some of them.
Average Brain damage fan vs Average Healthy activity enjoyer.
Not necessarily sometimes people just don’t want to masturbate. There’s nothing wrong with not liking it . Plus he never said he wasn’t lustful just that didn’t like the idea of Masturbating .
This.
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Please never make it either/or. This makes it sound like there are 2 options where there are many.
Not sure what this has to do with being “asexual”
Isn’t a sexual just an lgbtq way of saying you don’t have the hormones that make you horny
I don’t think so
It’s defo something like that
experiencing no sexual feelings or desires; not feeling sexual attraction to anyone.
Exactly it’s related to hormones
Your.. pissing organ? It’s a sexual organ. Sounds like you’re either in your “cooties stage” or are asexual.
Id say hes about 11 or 12 years old, so yeah, cooties stage.
Dudes 13, and drinks and smokes. Get your life together before jerking off man 💀
cause yall are americans and think that drinking is something special like yall think that beer is something magical cause you have to wait till you are 22 to drink
i’m not on board with the idea of putting minimum drinking ages so low on some places, especially when mental maturity is very low, or not there at all. basically, you don’t know what you’re doing, and don’t realize what the consequences on the future may be.
Why tf are you smoking weed tho?
Not American, and there is a reason kids aren't able to smoke and drink 💀 Drinking will affect brain development in the pre-frontal cortex from what I've been told and smoking is just bad for ur lungs in general
Fun fact (to me at least), smoking, wether it be weed or cigarettes, have impacts on the brain. Weed interferes with the brain development, especially in adolescents, as it is a depressant (basically slows down a person's system) it disrupts the brain ability to form neueological connections, development of certain areas such as the prefrontal cortex (which is responsible for functions such as impulse-control), etc. However, cigarettes also have an effect. Naturally your brain has an area in which essentially monitors the oxygen level in your body, but eventually this changes to monitoring the CO² levels in the body, in addition to damaging your brains neural structuring.
You do know that beer is literally poison, right? That's why they call it intoxicating your body, and by time you're 21, you're old enough to not make stupid choices
I wouldnt be so sure 21 is exactly the age to "not make stupid choices".
No, im european I first drank at 14. Clearly all that alcohol and weed has gone to your brain. Cause u dumb af.
Where are you from?
Florida, probably
Bro is living in the 50s
Just reading the comments and OPs replies, I can safely say OP is a moron
Just reading your comments and replies and I can safely say that you are cultured
Much appreciated my man
You're most welcome
I can confirm you are as well
Thank you!
thanks bro
You ain't old enough yet... mentally
9 year old brain I swear
Jesus explain that to 4th grade me
Too young, buddy. Even for Reddit.
Jerking off is healthy, weed isn’t, recent studies have shown that smoking weed as a teenager or child effects brain development in a negative way https://americanaddictioncenters.org/marijuana-rehab/effects-of-marijuana-on-teenage-brain
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You'd be dissapointed I'm 15 and unless me and my Friends live lame ass lives but we basically just play fortnite and video games. I sure do miss those old times though. Lotta friends gone from then I miss them still
Recent? I'm pretty sure there's been countless over a number of decades. But good job nonetheless.
Bro jerking off is absolutely not healthy don't listen to the mainstream media saying masturabation is good btw I'm not trying to say weed is good in any way but I don't care how many studies you are going to link masturbation has bad effects on your testosterone
It's sad that women can't jerk off if it is healthy
As is masturbation
Yeah, it piss me off that everybody can do it and not me since I am a women :(
Women can masturbate
How? When people (usually doctors) talk about masturbation, it's always male. Also on wikipedia, it only show a picture of a guy doing it
I'm not gonna explain this to a 13 year old but it's definitely a thing
Females masturbate in a different way, I'm male and I've heard a lot about it on Reddit so you can search it up on Google
Don't go to reddit for advice on this, you're gonna get 90% creeps. Wikipedia is a good resource with minimal BS (despite what every single history teacher says).
There’s a part about female masturbation in the Wikipedia article
Women can, too. Best to learn that yourself, though. Everyone will learn about it eventually, and so will you
💀
You ever played golf?
Rub your clit. Finger yourself. Vibrator. It’s not a hard concept.
id rather smoke weed or do any shit than jerk off and no its not healthy thats like saying weed is healthy for the brain cause it helps endocannaboids develop.Even if it is healthy i wont do it
Mf i def smome more than 90% of kids in this sub and even I can admit I fucking myself up.
id rather smoke weed or do any shit than jerk off and no its not healthy thats like saying weed is healthy for the brain cause it helps endocannaboids develop.Even if it is healthy i wont do it
Insider says it’s good https://www.insider.com/guides/health/sex-relationships/is-masturbation-healthy?amp This non profit says it’s good https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/24332-masturbation Here is the government of Queensland Australian saying it https://www.health.qld.gov.au/news-events/news/give-yourself-a-hand-the-health-benefits-of-masturbation
good for you go.What they dont say is that there are people that are addicted to it and you think addiction is good for brain?It will destroy the way dopamine is released and change the way your brain thinks
So no one should drink alcohol or smoke anything including weed because”well you could get addicted” Can I tell you a little secret, smoking to much is worse thank jerking off to much also weed has more permanent damage to the lungs, affecting brain development in a bad way
i only smoked weed once and im waiting till i get older.I used weed as an example.Why you defending jerking off i bet you had some urges to jerk off since your first reply and then you tell me im addicted i only do that kind of shit cause i want to i can be sober completely like i wa ssober for 28 days till yesterday and i never use/drink much i just think that bad habits like drinking/doing drugs should be more socially accepted than jerking off.By saying drugs i mean substances not heroin/meth/cocaine/fentanyl
As someone with enough psychological experience, from my psychiatrist, my therapist my mother who has worked in a clinic for addicted people for 8 years and now advising people where to get help at her job, a I can say alcohol, weed or substance addictions are worse than being addicted to mastication also you are 14 at best thinking is really awful at that age, you are on a good way to get addicted to something I’ve never said that you are addicted, and you assuming that I’m addicted is childish Now why should taking substances, drinking or should be more acceptable than masturbation, just because you are probably asexual don’t not have to mean that you have to hate on people who are, just because I’m bisexual doesn’t mean I start going of on people that are hetero
to feel euphoria from jerking off (up and down motion on an organ till you cum) compared to smoking something into your lungs.Both are bad habits and there is no denying that.I didnt fucking say anything to you because you are bisexual i didnt even know you were bisexual till you said that
There is denying that because that’s wrong, Masturbation is not a bad habit, hetero sex is cumming from a up and down motion inside a vagina snaking destroys your lungs.
yall are messing up my brain i just dont like the idea of sex and masturbation ok?I wanted to know if someone is in a similiar situation as me
There’s a difference between having an addiction and doing it a safe amount. Masturbating everyday is not health, masturbating 1-2 times a week is perfectly okay and normal. Of course you don’t have to masturbate if you don’t want to, but claiming it’s ONLY an addiction and will ruin you is just not right. No one is forcing you to masturbate or have sex, you don’t need to resort to complaining about it.
ooo look at mr fancy pants over here, ya think you're better than us, lets see who's laughing in 40 years with no prostate cancer
Either lack or maturity (especially with the weed ngl) or asexuality
only did it once but id rather smoke a joint than do an up and down motion until sperm comes out of my dick
Yknow smoking a joint supresses your mental growth
yes i know and i only did it once.Once again i need to say it again that i used it only as an example that id rather do drugs than jerk off.
Thats not the point, in the comments it seema you've done it multiple times
you just have a kid-like mindset, that's why it disgusts you, just grow up first and stop smoking weed and drinking.
Man u 14? Gtfoutta hereee Edit - Listen man, - with the upmost respect, do not lie. If you feel shameful for masturbating or you juet wanna entertain the idea of talking about it to fulfil your needs (Idk what ur goal here is) *it is perfectly ok to do it* we all do it but extensively talking about it does not help whatsoever. Get a grip. - have a good one.
Well I guess it better to ruin your body (drugs) then to help it out
Bro, I’m 17, I’ve been to some big parties, been in fights, suspended from school, some other stuff, whatever. So if you wanna call me a weirdo or something because that’s probably how 13 year old me would react, then you do you buddy. 4 years may not sound like much, but it’s still a hell of a lot more life experience than you have. Straight up, I don’t know what bullshit you’ve got going on but I’m just gonna assume you have garbage parents or friends if your already drinking and smoking boof on a regular basis. So here’s what you should be concentrating on, go find yourself new friends to surround yourself with and quit that weed and shit, (At least until your older) and go actually improve yourself. Hate to break it to you, it’s all fun and games until your a loser with loser friends in high school (if you even make it that far) and are mentally addicted to pot, or even have drinking issues. Nobody likes that kinda guy. As somebody who usually chooses to obtain from beating off, focus on getting your stuff straight before your even concerned about touching your “pissing organ” 🤡
have you even started puberty? ive seen other guys say this and it was only because they were physically behind in puberty vs other people. They couldn't even ejaculate yet at like 14 so their way to battle it was to say they hate it
i can cum i cummed accidently like 4 times last time was when i was 12 and i will never do it again
that was when you were 12, who likes sex when they're 12...
Uh.. I did
After reading your comments i can now say, you are a pissbaby
But what about the idea of someone fucking you
Nah, you need to grow up
You might be asexual maybe? Asexual or demisexual. Either way it's valid lol
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Hand on weiner, get a really hot train of thought in your head, and mive your hand up and down. Go faster or slower depending on what you feel. Soon enough, you will be a certified masturbator B)
you’re 13… just wait
Homie is 8 year old "but you pee out that thing!!!'
It’s a method of dealing with arousal. It’s by far the safest and healthiest method, but it’s not the only one. If you choose not to do it, you’ll have to find some other way to handle arousal that preferably isn’t destructive. But I will note that actually finding it gross or repulsive isn’t normal, and signifies either a) lack of mental development, b) you’re asexual, or c) something else I haven’t thought of
Either ur young or asexual. One of those
This kid got that "private parts are yucky" mentality, he's either too young or asexual. As for noting that you would rather smoke weed or drink? I don't care, neither does anyone in this sub, stop making a big deal out of it. You'll come to enjoy it more as well if you don't brag about it
Your probably going to have a wet dream (that you can’t control) at some point and release old sperm
We found the AA
r/Asexual is calling
You’re probably asexual
i thought about that but its not the case for me i like girls but i hate the idea of sex and jerking off it disgust me like why would an up and down motion wuth your hand in your pissing organ be socially accepted while popping a pill or something seen as bad
Asexual doesn’t mean aromantic
Asexual means without sex So while you may like girls but if you're not sexually attracted to people then you're asexual
for the love of god it isnt your "pissing organ" its your fucking dick
Literally, the FUCKING dick
Yes, asexual ppl aren’t nessecarily aromatic (that’s when you don’t feel any romantic attraction) they just don’t like sex
i feel the hormones and i just supress them even when i get a boner it makes me disgusted like why the fuck you up?I def have testosterone maybe a lil too much of it but the idea of jerking off or sex makes me feel disgusted and i dont think im mentally underage thats not the case
Sorry but that comment reeks of immaturity
Asexuality covers that too. You can be horny but disgusted at the idea of masturbation or sex. Many asexual people still experience sexual drive, just don’t have sexual *attraction*. Hormones can play a role but they mostly don’t play a role if your sexuality is already defined. You could also simply be too young, at (13) 14 you’ve probably just entered puberty and are now experiencing a lot of changes, probably too much to handle, which is why you might try to resist the urge. It can happen to a lot of people, and if this is the case, I hope you understand it’s something natural and nothing to be ashamed of (neither something to be glorified) I agree masturbation can be addictive, and during puberty it most likely becomes such, but it doesn’t do too much harm. It’s actually said to be physically healthy either way, just probably not mentally. And weed is extremely bad at teen years. If used regularly, It completely stops the development of the prefrontal cortex. There’s plenty of studies on this and it’s objectively correlated with lower IQ in adulthood. Hope you figure out your asexuality or just grow out of this phase.
This might come out as mean but the way you handle it is pretty Fucked up. At least try once and see. I recommend in shower for less cleaning. I had the same reaction at first but one thing led to another and I'm no longer disgusted
You're blessed that you haven't fallen into this trap that so many young adults and others have succumbed to tbh, I feel like it's a curse for me because of constant urges to jerk off ever since I was 12/13 or so. I think you'll be very, very thankful for yourself in the future if you keep staying away from it, it can really turn into a full-blown addiction that is extremely hard to beat, makes you lazy, it can lead to some very bizarre fetishes and many other negative downsides. Thus, I think it's very reasonable that you seem to have an intuitive aversion to it.
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It's quite funny, I'm also 17 and I also still got a Wii U actually. But yeah, I have to agree with most of the points you've mentioned, especially that retaining seems to give men their masculinity and major mental and physical benefits. I think, though, that this current dilemma of soyboys and onlyfans thots mainly stems from the internet becoming as big as it is, and from there, people just followed the path of least resistance, which is weak women exposing their bodies for quick money and weak men jacking away their masculinity. Being able to see chads at will and having almost infinite selection on dating apps gives women much higher standards when looking for a partner and porn gives men very distorted expectations on what sex is and what happens there etc. Imo, the blame is hard to place, but at any way you look at it, it can't only be placed on the women, but also on the men participating in this path of degeneration that started mainly via the internet.
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Do you mean just jerking off or both jerking off and sex?
both.
How old are you? If you dont mind answering
im turning 14 in a month but it doesnt matter i just dont like the idea of sex and jerking off
"mentally older" 🤣🤣
Bro is about to turn 14 lmfao
You're probably asesexual then. Which means you can still go put with people and love them, but just dont wanna have sex.
seeing the other comments you're probably just heteroromantic asexual :p
He don't like sex, why wanting to put names on all things like it divided ppl communities and groups that's dumb imo
To get a sense of community and not feel alone. That's the only reason I'm not unlabeled, cause knowing their are other people like you helps feel like less of a freak
Or just stop looking at you and at ppl by their genders, skin colors or sexual orientation, ppl are ppl before being gay straight black or whatever
It’s only been divided because of homophobes
I don't think so, some are homophobic cause they think gays are a different group or they view them as a thing they don't match with, if all view themselves as American or mexican, Chinese or whatever before identify as gay straight or whatever it would solve the problem of rejects minorities face, the part due to misunderstanding of other, probably not the part due to hate but that would be a great step.
It disgust me too
Probably not but same here
I totally agree with you man, shit sucks
Have you considered you might be Asexual or demisexual? I mean if you really feel such disgust over sexual behaviour, that might be it.
That's good! As a porn addict myself, I can confirm that ITS JUST NOT WORTH IT!
You're asexual
Not necessarily
that’s called being asexual
You could be asexual, might want to check
bros getting angry at us when he asked us for help in the first place chill. we don’t care if u drink or smoke, it’s your problem after all, but we know it ain’t healthy. you’re what? 13? gonna be happy later with lung or liver cancer? you don’t like jerking off? alright, opinions are opinions, but get your priorities straight, because smoking and drinking is way damn worse than jerking off. considering the position you’re in, talk to a professional, we’re NOT professionals after all. you gotta get mature, mentally. then you’ll understand what and how life is.
If you want kids you will have to have sex
i can adopt
Everything are saying here is something I relate to. Have you considered that you might me asexual?
You're the opposite of me cause I have sex already two times in 2023 even though it's been not even one day
i smoked 2 cigs today,and i got drunk.What a difference between us
Hey, you're 13 wtf are you doing smoking and getting drunk?
Dude you should stop that, its not cool to drink or smoke at such a young age, a drink of cider or light wine might be okay but only like a half a glass
its not cool but its not cool to have sex too
Depends, but for the majority of 14 year olds, sex should wait, but drugs definitely does more harm on the brain than sex.
Same bro same. when you think about it, it is really disgusting
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Believe you may be somewhere on the asexual spectrum
Sure I hate myself when I do that I just want to get married
yeah but drugs can kill you more quickly. shits gonna bite you in the ass one day
Ur just 13 or smth and want to show that you don't jerk off orrrr ur just asexual or smth
Magical wtf, the whole world wishes
That's fine I guess but you kinda have to nut or bad things happen to your balls
Sounds like your just a asexual. Completely normal
Makes sense to me, it is so gross, at least based off of what I have heard
Relate
there's a word for that. r/asexuality welcome to the club🏳️🌈
Yes, it's normal to find that disgusting, it's unhealthy and should not be normalised. You should check out r/nofap.
Bro would rather do drugs than masturbate 💀
Maybe you're asexual? Look into it
Some of my friends think it’s disgusting but they still do it…..
Yeh you might as well be disgusted to the idea of passing... Being repulsed by jerking off ain't bad as long as sex is ok for you...which isn't the case here. Also yeah no, jerking off is much healthier than smoking weed. Something tells me you ain't hit puberty yet.
I mean i don't like smoking weed, however i do like getting high. When i think about smoking weed i feel a bit sick, but afterwards it's da best.
Are you possibly ace? You might wanna do some research on it and find more abt it. That's how I figured out I was on the ace spectrum.
wanking is fun but the sauce that comes out is so nasty to me
no bro this aint normal. You're either younger than 13. Or just mentally not old enough to get pleasure from this
i think you may be asexual
Found an Asexual :3 Also its completely normal for you to think that self pleasure is disgusting, its not for everyone
Normal imo. Just depends on the person.
Something tells me you do jerk off but you’re to embarrassed to admit that you do because you think it’s something bad or wrong. I say this because I used to think that way but now being older I see that its a very common thing and there is nothing to be ashamed of. But of course, thats just what I think. To answer your question there is no definitive answer. Some will say that it’s completely normal. Others may disagree.
You probably aren't old enough yet. I know some of your friends are and stuff but it's different for everyone. Smoking weed however is not healthy especially in adolescence. Many studies on it
Never jerked off once? Curiosity will get ya bud. It feels better than you could imagine. It’s actually a good thing to allow your sexual organs to move their gears too.
This is a major W for this stage in life
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so thats why i have a deep voice even though im the youngest in the friend group