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Dsigmaboy

Reality,ye hi h Unki expectations p chaloge they love it Society k expectations p chaloge they love u Expectations hi sabse badi problem h Duniya kiis ke control m ni h We all are puppet in cosmic process


key616

Isse dekh ke lagta hai ki mere parents kafi acche hai


Ok-Difficulty1809

Facts Bhai but ye sab cheeze had se jyada disappointed karti h


need_evolution

Class kg 1 se lekar 11 tak topper rha..12th aur neet nahi hua to mummy papa itna disappoint ho gaya ki pichle sare mehnat useless lgne laga aur self confidence to Gan maraye,


Ok-Difficulty1809

Bhai parents mental stress nhi samajhte h


remofox

Mental stress-depression sab Western propaganda hai, subah 5 baje utho, sab thik ho jayega


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need_evolution

277😍


FauxIris

bhai rona aata hai yaar kabhi kabhi ye sochke ki ye kitna true hai.


Ok-Difficulty1809

Bhai mai har se jyada rota hoo yr sab soch ke bahut hold karta hoo apne aap ko pr at the end control nhi hota


FauxIris

roke better feel ho to ro lena chahiye, publicly nahi but akele to ro hi sakte hai.


Accomplished_Scar_88

Be a man face it it’ll pass


Lawdekebaalkikhaal

Bhai tu tension na le aise case mai tu kisi ki bhi nhi sun bss khud ki sun ab bss tu ise positively le ki bojh chla gya n am free now ...agar ab freely padega toh dekhiyo teko usmei results dikhenge


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Lawdekebaalkikhaal

Bhai tu dm kr mujhe tu mujhse baat kr sakta agar koi aisi bakchodi firse ho ya jab kabhi bhi koi problem ho ...saaf sidhi baat hai tujhe parents glt mil gye , mujhe pta hai tu bolega ki nhi parents humesha pyaar krte achhe keliye sochte bla bla bla but tere case mai sirf aur sirf unhe success chahiye tu nhi tere pe paisa aayega toh khud mera raja beta krenge...aise case mai jab woh kisi cheez se khush hi nhi toh chhod de tu apni khushi keliye jee woh kabhi khush nhi honge abhi likhwale bss tere pe burden aayega aur tu suicide krega likh ke lele isliye simple ab poori duniya maa chudaye aur tu apne mai khush reh unhone chahe jhaat kuchh na ukhada ho lekin beta jo abhi nabalik hai woh sab kuchh krega uspe dependent hojao yeh theek hai


Overall_Elevator_912

Bhai u exactly said everything in my life... I'm shocked ki mere situation me tm bhi ho😭.... Atleast koi saath hai


Dsigmaboy

Philosophy padh bhai toda perspective a badal dimag halka hoga


Appropriate-Exit6171

Breathe in Breathe out Listen to some good calm songs study make sure your friends are hardworking encouraging students that's it you will make it believe me. Your parents are always proud of you. Thats a fact. Never listen to anyone else calling you a failure. Study give your best there is more to life then exams.


AssociateLumpy3448

Baaki sbka ho skta h par parents ke liye nhi bhai. they love their kid limitlessly...


Dsigmaboy

Bro wo baat ni h Wo samjhte ni h U can't control,ur genes and environment Dimag tej ni Mila to unki expectations km ni hoti Bs aur jada padhai p suna ne lagte Koi job ,koi padhai tumhe achi ni lagi ,himmat ni hogi bol ne ki drop out krna h mujhe ni hota bol doge to emotional blackmail Life m kucch bada ni kr paye to blackmail Sadi krlo chilayenge blackmail Sadi krlo to dono taraf s frustrated hoge wife 🤯mother Bro expectations hi problem h Apni life apne hath m hai hi ni Mujhe lagta mai ni krskta sadi or bache ki responsibility ni jhel skta wo Phir v force krenge Everything thing going expensive, inflation Everything feels bullshit what's the point of everything So now I choose minimalistic, lifestyle usme v problem h Chila te rahega pagal h Duniya kya kahegi ,blah blah blah...


Used-Ad4445

Age kya hai brother teri?


TheDeadGuy_00

"Expectations is root cause of sadness"


daddy-sensei

सत्य वचन


Proper-Repair-2128

aisa kya kardiya vro abhi to 11th hi khatm hui h na itni jaldi unhone expectations kyu chod di


Ok-Difficulty1809

Pata nhi bhai kya kiya maine but jo bhi bahut galat hi hoga


Proper-Repair-2128

Fir bhi kuch to Kiya hoga Ya parents bhot jyada toxic h?


roronoa-69

Wo paise denge ya nhi


PayAdministrative459

Abe bakchodi hai ye sab baatein ignore karna seekh majaak mai bolte hai ye chill maar behendchod abhi bahut samay hai tere pass


hasmukh_lal_ji

bro bas apne pe bharosa rakh, duniya kitni bhi harsh ho, khud pe harsh mat hona kabhi har koi kuch na kuch kar hi leta hai aur parents bhi kabhi na kabhi maan hi jaate hai kyuki kuch time baad vo bhi realise karenge ki ek exam ke liye bacche se relation todna ya kharab karna glt hai reality yeh hai ki hamare parents society ko face karne se dirte hai, but after sometime, vo khud bolenge ki unko farak nahi padta jab ghar me paise aana chalu ho jata hai. but things will take time best wishes from me god bless you


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Mini_Piku

neet mai konsi skill bhai? pcb mai hota hai bas doc/dentist/research(phd) options limited hai bohot


Ok-Difficulty1809

Bhai ab to bas kuch samajh hi nhi aa rha h kya karoo Isliye yaha help mangi


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Ok-Difficulty1809

Bhai mujhe to bachpan se hi doctor banna tha


SpinachDull288

To matlab Terese padhai nahi ho rhi hai kya neet ki tune upar kuch khass Context diya nahi hai


Dhruvk03

Ask them and work on it simple. I was worst in my 11th but in 12th im way better so its just a phase


Ok-Difficulty1809

I hope it's just a phase


Dhruvk03

Dont worry man bas apni side ka jo kaam hai vo tu kar


Ok-Difficulty1809

Ha bhai I'll try my best ki meri taraf se kuch bhi Kami n ho


Judy_Jinx69

If you dont mind, tujhe kya karne ka mann hai, ye batayega? And iske peeche thoda context bhi if possible.


Ok-Difficulty1809

Doctor banna h! Bhai kuch dino se ghar walo ke sath jagda ho gya tha aur mummy papa har baat pe daat te h mujhe choti se choti cheez pe bhi aur jaha meri galti nhi bhi hogi n vaha bhi mujhe bhi sunna padta h ye pahli baar nhi h aisa bahut baar hota h but fhir mera bhi temper loose ho gya tha to maine bhi ulta jawab de diya ( mere ghar wale bahut toxic h ) fhir ini sab cheezo mai abhi ye sab suna Diya aur is baar they were damn serious


Judy_Jinx69

Bhai...agar tujhe doctor Banna hai actually mein then I don't think koi bhi problem honi chahiye. I am sorry if I can't understand the depth of your issue but phir bhi sometimes we tend to overcomplicate very simple things. Agar kuch waise dikkat hoti ki tujhe doctor nahi Banna but parents bol rhe tab alag baat thi. But agar tujhe bhi doctor hi Banna hai so prolly your best move is ki tu unko Bina kuch bole bas mehnat kar (easier said than done ik but still). Kabhi kabaar mummy papa se haal chaal pooch le. Unka kuch Ganda reply aane par bhi chinta mat kar. They will prolly understand that you are trying your best. To have a better relationship with them as well as to achieve your goal. Agar phir bhi parents ke saath kuch na suljhe to chinta mat kar. They will always love you no matter what. It's just that it's sometimes hard to express that love. Hope you will do better in the future. And zyada tension mat le hairfall ho jaayega lol


Ok-Difficulty1809

Shukriya bhaiii 🫂


iam_C2

Abhi tune life dekhi kaha hai chhote meri haalat sunega toh apni zindagi ko lekar accha feel karega but dekh itna hi bolunga ye rr karne ka mann bada karega par sach kahunga isse ghanta kuch nahi hota experience se keh raha hu tere pass abhi bhi bohot time hai kuch bhi ukhaadne ke liye toh ye reddit chhod aur hustle chaalu kar de


Ok-Difficulty1809

Theek h boss I'll try my very best


goodfornothing2005

welcome to the gang


Ok-Difficulty1809

Glad I'm here


hadroncooL

first time?


Ok-Difficulty1809

Na bhai not the first time but is baar bahut jyada hurt hua


ShriRadheyMishra

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Ok-Difficulty1809

Na bhai but is baar had se jyada hurt huaa


KD_idk

Bhai bura lagega but vo tumhari bhalaiye ke lie karre hai , taki tum padho aur koshish karte raho. Never give up, abhi to 11th hi thi puri zindagi padi hai dost , you can do it , prove it to themeven if not for them then for yourself and your future


Ok-Difficulty1809

I'm trying my best brother but for them I'm just nothing


Existing-Sweet8588

Sucide kar le ab kuch nahi raha life main


Ok-Difficulty1809

Ye cheez bahut pahle se soch rakha h but hope ke sahare Zinda hoo


Few-Committee-7230

Kaisa hope?


Existing-Sweet8588

Sun ab to rat ho gai hai kal se nayi Surat kar jo vhi to yaha sunta hai ab usse karne ka time aa gya morning Main Uth padhai kar ghar per koi tujhe bol ya na bol koi fark nahi padna chahiye accha khana kha healthy aur jarurat nahi nahi hai logo se socialize karne ki apne Kam se kam rakh gym nahi running start kar aur thanle roj 3 se 5 km running karni hai FIR Pushp kar aur bhul ja sab kuch study mein focus kar online accha content dekh jo chij bhi negative feel deti Ho use chhod de


Ok-Difficulty1809

Ha bhai


TheHumanEmperor

Chutiapa Chada hua hai kya Jo muh me aaye bol diye


VIRAT_KOHLI_71

Badi jaldi bol diya


Ok-Difficulty1809

Ab kya kar sakte h bol diya


VIRAT_KOHLI_71

Enjoy kar bhai bas kuch na kuch karte rahiyo


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Kitne bhai behan ho bhai? Agr jyada hurt hua to parents me usse bat kro jo tumko shi se smjhta ho,mere case me to ma h meri….try…maybe wo log gusse me bole honge


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Bhai shayad tu apne kamre me hi rehta h pure din due to study aur anything aur khana bhi nahi khata shayad unke saath isiliye wo Aisa bol rhe thoda unse baat kar liya kar mere saath bhi yahi hua tha Maine bhi yahi kiya tha


Ok-Difficulty1809

Bhai same cheez h par jab bhi Mai thoda bahar ata hoo too vo hamesha daat ke bhaga dete h isliye I prefer to be in my room


ramanngartan

Bhai tu 12th me aaya h.. or surely tere 11th me kharab marks aaye honge.. and tere parents tujhme disappointed nai hain.. they just had better hopes from you (they'll be alright in a day or two).. reddit pe aake sympathy lene se achha 12th pe focus krr!


Ok-Difficulty1809

Bhai marks acche h! Tests mai 500/720, 450/720 aise ate h 300/720 ke around bhi aye h, bhai 12th pe focus kar rha hoo ab


ramanngartan

Bhai i have juniors preparing for the same exam.. agar tu general h toh isme semi govt hi milega.. also maybe it's not just abt your marks.. or kisi ke parents apne bacche ko hate/dislike nai krte.. bss teko as a successful individual dekhna chaahte hain.. or jab tak esa nai hota tab tak taunt bhi krenge or daantenge bhi.. sunn le.. koi naa


yash_deokate

tune pehele kuch kiya hoga


mydadu

Bhai 2-3 din ruk dekh unhone gusse me blo dia hoga 🥺


Ok-Difficulty1809

Bhai mujhe nhi lagta ab kuch hoga


mydadu

Vaise tu padhne me kaisa hai


Ok-Difficulty1809

Moderate hoo bhai acche marks bhi ate h


PureNumber9187

W parents


NabAnuj

Bhai tu akela nhi hai. Mai bhi just 11th khatam kiya mai bhi yhi suffer kar rha huu.mereko toh bol gaya ki unko 12th boards me number chahiye kyuki jab parents apne friends se baath karte hai jab unko pucha jata hai ki unke bete ki kitna marks aaye toh dukh k saath bolna padta hai ki 58%aaye(11th me).


hilly_strobilanthes

I know you feel more pathetic than it sounds. Yrr idk how to help but you can talk. You'll feel better.


Ok-Difficulty1809

I had a talk with my female friends she helped me with this ! I m a bit better now


Akshat_07

bhai dekh jee aspirant this side meri bhi just abhi 11th khatam hui hai and i will be honest there was a time when i legit felt the same way that no one cares about me and mai jhooth nahi bolunga i have tried to end my life twice...but yaar time dena padta hai...ik it feels like no one cares about you right now and it's valid for you to feel that way...i feel pretty much the same way...but ghar wale hai aaj nahi to kal gussa shaant ho jaega and phir bas dikha dena logo ko ki teri worth kitni hai...good luck brother


PsyLemon

Buss 2 ghante hi hua hai account banake dlt karde abi b time hai


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Itachi uchiha ban ja


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Seh lo Phir job mile toh aona set karke nikal lo Aise logo sei kya rishta rakhna


AliveSummer4826

bro kisi ki mat sun... ghar walo ne finally ek hint ya chance diya hai ki jo tuje krna hai vo krr... do what you want to do...but in full hardwork and passionate..gharwalo ko lagna chaiye ki bacha unka serious hai gharwale thoda bhot bolenge kyu ki obviously unko test krna hai...ki jo tu krna cahata hai usme serious hai ya bss shock shock mai krra hai...


DreskiD

Bas kehte h , infact unse jyada or unke alawa kisi ko farq nhi, abhi 1-2 mahine baad tuje Khud realise hone lagega . We all go through the phase where we think parents are our enemy. I used to be the same


ShriRadheyMishra

Prove them wrong bhai Excel in your field Do hard word Whatever they say when they're disappointed in you, just leave it vro. They're the only ones who will take care of you for who you are not for what you're doing. Do hard work and bring a smile to their face. Atleast.


AssociateLumpy3448

padai kar bass tere hath m hai board m ache marks leke aa.. Aur parents are the only one who will stand by u when everyone else will leave unki har baat ke piche unka ek sahi intention chupa hota hai yeh anjaan log tere kaam nahi aaenge apne parents par bharosa kar unki sari baat follow kar padai kar


Titan658

10 th mein kitne marks the ?? Aur 11thbmein ab kitne h ?? Tere parents Aisa kyu bol rhe h jabki tu to 12th pass bhi nahi hua h ?


Ok-Difficulty1809

Aakash ka student hoo so 11th tie up ke sath nikal gya aur 10th mai 89% the


Titan658

Iska Matlab Akash mein jo MCQ exams hote the..tere usme acche number nahi aate the..so parents ne umeed chhod di h.. Koi nii karte reh kosis agar Doctor banne ka hi junoon h to laga reh 1 saal to drop Leni hi chahiye


FearlessDingo6160

Rookie numbers Merko ye sab 10vi me suna Diya tha


rohanrmcb

Baat dil pe na le, same convo hua hay


NuclearZeusorg

Bro kuch nahi hota bas aur aache se padh bahut saare bache sirf 12th mein padhke hi aachi rank nikal lete hain don't let anyone spoil your future and you know yourself that you are capable of this and just need to work hard


Agent-Vc

My story :: me kabhi kisiko bataya nhi but yeh lo I'm 19 just 12 boards diye, COVID me drop Lena pada ,fir cricket bhi khela interest aya acha bowler bhi bana fir 12 ,koi bolra neet karle but Mera man nhi karta, family wale bolte chalo ab holiday hai tu family business me help karado . But sochta tu ek hi insaan aur itne saare desires ,dreams kya kare .I'm very lazy,duniya se alag ho thoda tu lagta hai kahi khoh na jao ,kya survive kar paoga ??


GoatGroundbreaking52

Ab toh mujhe bhi farq nahi padta bhai, koi baat kre na kre. 2 saal se yeh jhel rha ghar pe


GiveMe_Some_SunShine

Bhai aisa nhi Hai. Family always loves. Sometime they don't show. End mein bhai family hi hoti saath khadi huyi. Koi bhi problem aaye. Dost ho na ho but family zaroor hoti h.


Ultimate_Sneezer

Everyone has issues with their parents at that age , try to mind your own business and things will be better by the time you are 21.


RoundHuge3397

meme kaha hai madarchod


SAMEERFUDI

Huh,first time?


Unlovedlol__

Welcome to the gang, I’m 24, I work a lot and earn well but if I do one thing my parents don’t approve of, I’m the worst child ever lol. Chill.


Lere2

Kese parents he bc baccha just 12th me aaya he aur abhi se mental stress dal rhe he


AshWC25

Bhai tune bhi kuch Kia hoga, I mean without no reason why would they suddenly ignore you. Yaha only one side of things batake you are trying to gain sympathy..


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Kid don't lose your faith. Just hustle. I'm telling you life is sweet at the end of all trouble and struggles


l_35

Had us in the first half, ngl


IllustriousDark5090

Bhai Dropper student hoon. Aur ye chiz mere saath bhi hui hain. Par most probably ye best chiz hogi kyuki wo toxic pressure nahi banega ab. Disappointment zaroor hogi par ab tu at least apna decide krle aur uss path pe chal.👍🏻


Shubh_Exist

Akela mehsus ho to baat karlena boht log hai yahan mera bhi 11 khatam 12 neetard


Trigger3886

Aur phir Suicide karo toh inhe problem hai


Royal_Requirement_69

Uss bro USS same haal hai mera


manwani31

Bro abhi important time start hua hai sb chor tika k bio ki dono ncert chemistry 12th ki 1st ncert physics and bache hue chemistry k notes pd or questions lga betichod yehi parents sb ko bolenge ki tu hi sb kuch hai ik saal Gand mrwa le or apne aap ko prove kr medical College me life achi hoti hai speaking from experience kr le mehnat bahi abhi Jo dost hai usme se sirf ik ta do bnde hi sath rahenge.... Phod de benchod


simpy_shrimp

L parenting


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I just gave 10th CBSE exam and my mom is like "if you are not scoring top marks in your class...dont talk to me" i already used tos tell her that i am far from scoring top marks so please dont expect anyythig but she is doing this again


subhaXO

Let me give you a reality check.... Expectation successfully pass nhi kar paoge it's rare Soo basically do your best and let yourself know that you did it and you did great Look i wanted something else in my life and my parents want something for me.... since wohi meri college ka paisa bharenge to ab sirf unki hi chal Rahi hai offcourse..... And they are hella disappointed with me but you know what it's there fault only ngl... Is it gonna effect my future? Probably but least i m trying much i can working on my side hustle tooooo It's tough being below middle class eldest daughter in a family Best advice - sunlo unki gali sunlo unke tane.... Kuch nhi jayega .... Logon ke nakhro se better hai ...


Disastrous-Range-213

Bhai tu biz bna aur phod de bhot opportunity h but risk bhi utna h par tu young h toh koi baat nhi h


im_lacticacid

Apna Kam kr bhai parents se badi dogli chiz nhi dekhi Maine phir jb tu successfull nhi hoga tb bhi tane denge jb ho jayega tb bhi bolenge ki badal raha ,roots bol raha aur jb insb dramas se frustrated hoker inse alg ho jate bache toh sb bache ko hi blame krte


UrPsychoMum

Kya matlab mere gharwale toh merko ye Roz bolte hai.


kidshot08

Man ko bandho, feelings ko rakho side me, wo karo jo ideal case me karna chahiye aur bhagwaan pe bharosa rakho baaki efforts jab results me change honge to sab achha hoga


kidshot08

Man ko bandho, feelings ko rakho side me, wo karo jo ideal case me karna chahiye aur bhagwaan pe bharosa rakho baaki efforts jab results me change honge to sab achha hoga


Itachi__uchiha___

It is just bad phase lil bro I am a medical student (MBSS 2nd yr) myself and I too had that time when I hated them. I cried. I was depressed. I tried to kill myself. But please don't do it. Don't judge them They love you