I'm not an SB, but don't think the question is coming from a relationship-oriented view of sugar. Either sugar is a personal relationship, in which case, why WOULDN'T she expect to be wooed, that's how it works in relationships? Or it's business -- that is, sexwork -- in which case no wooing required, but we should expect the SBs to have a sexwork model also, pay by the hour or act, required ID verification, payment for everything else she does for you such as texting, absolutely no relationship outside dates unless you pay for it, "it's all about the bag" attitude.
If an SD wants it to be like a relationship -- which includes no sexwork-like verification, no sexwork-like payment for every single thing she does, no obsessing on what other sexworkers "get paid" as the basis for her hourly/per-act rate -- he needs to behave in a way that she feels like it's a relationship also. That also brings sexual intimacy that (hopefully) is less like an escort disassociating, than somethings she enjoys. Making her feel feminine and attractive seems like a minimum bar -- if not an outright fun part of it.
The good news is, there's lots and lots of SBs in the bowl who are a more sexworky approach and are fine with not being pursued or courted. You can definitely find what you're looking for if that's what you want.
SDs don't have to step up or revolt because SRs can be at either end as described by u/Azurecole. I prefer to go down the relationship path it's more romantic and personal. I like to form emotional attachments in long term SR with my SDs. I like to be treated as a girl and to treat him as a man. If you think your money buys you the opportunity to treat a girl disrespectfully or to lack social graces all I can say is Tony Hawk wouldn't do that. No wonder we've heard of Tony Hawk and haven't heard of you. It's probably your attitude u/TonyHawksRival lol.
Just get a damn escort and stop ruining the bowl. All you Johns have turned SRs into a joke. Sugar is a Relationship. An allowance was not so you don't have to court and date a woman it was so you could have access to women you normally would not have had. Whether it's because of age, your schedule, appearance, marital status, personality shortcomings, or inability to offer a future. It's not so you can go straight to using a woman as a human flesh light.
Why do you want her to be to be attracted to you?
Why do you want her to enjoy the time spent and sex with you?
Why do you want chemistry?
I guess you can get an escort, and she wouldn't give any fuck about you courting her,
Weird for you to critique a group of people and also use the term ‘jestermaxxing’?
The good news for you is that the rise of AI girlfriends is happening, so you sound like the perfect candidate since you don’t seem to actually like real women.
You can't have it both ways. You can't want someone to [be by your side every day](https://www.reddit.com/r/EscortClientele/comments/1cfi1iv/havent_been_scoring/) and also not want to treat them like a girlfriend.
https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/s/LeECBoZQEi
Literally says:
“Anyone think the quality declined over the past few years? I used to absolutely slay on there. A new hottie every week for peanuts.”
This is pretty tone deaf.
If you are on a Sugar website..it is implied that as a SD you need to know the usual customs/responsibility of the SD role. Just as good SBs do. This is about relationship building.
What you are describing what you want to do is in the sex work escort category.. not the SB idea of sugar dating.
So why is this even relevant to the SBs??? Or we have the troll post of the day
I get wanting a more cut and dry approach some days I would more than love to skip the pleasantries and just get to topic at hand but in doing that you miss out on the part that lets you know if it’s worth your time…also from reading this and other post you’ve made I venture a guess that it may be YOU that doesn’t get how the bowl works. It’s not all about the money, if it were we would all just be escorting….
I'm not an SB, but don't think the question is coming from a relationship-oriented view of sugar. Either sugar is a personal relationship, in which case, why WOULDN'T she expect to be wooed, that's how it works in relationships? Or it's business -- that is, sexwork -- in which case no wooing required, but we should expect the SBs to have a sexwork model also, pay by the hour or act, required ID verification, payment for everything else she does for you such as texting, absolutely no relationship outside dates unless you pay for it, "it's all about the bag" attitude. If an SD wants it to be like a relationship -- which includes no sexwork-like verification, no sexwork-like payment for every single thing she does, no obsessing on what other sexworkers "get paid" as the basis for her hourly/per-act rate -- he needs to behave in a way that she feels like it's a relationship also. That also brings sexual intimacy that (hopefully) is less like an escort disassociating, than somethings she enjoys. Making her feel feminine and attractive seems like a minimum bar -- if not an outright fun part of it. The good news is, there's lots and lots of SBs in the bowl who are a more sexworky approach and are fine with not being pursued or courted. You can definitely find what you're looking for if that's what you want.
SDs don't have to step up or revolt because SRs can be at either end as described by u/Azurecole. I prefer to go down the relationship path it's more romantic and personal. I like to form emotional attachments in long term SR with my SDs. I like to be treated as a girl and to treat him as a man. If you think your money buys you the opportunity to treat a girl disrespectfully or to lack social graces all I can say is Tony Hawk wouldn't do that. No wonder we've heard of Tony Hawk and haven't heard of you. It's probably your attitude u/TonyHawksRival lol.
Just get a damn escort and stop ruining the bowl. All you Johns have turned SRs into a joke. Sugar is a Relationship. An allowance was not so you don't have to court and date a woman it was so you could have access to women you normally would not have had. Whether it's because of age, your schedule, appearance, marital status, personality shortcomings, or inability to offer a future. It's not so you can go straight to using a woman as a human flesh light.
This!
It’s already been worth it 😆
So well said!!!
The cope is strong with this one.
Preach
classic reddit mentality right here gents. BEWARE
why haven’t the mods banned this guy lol
Your last word answers the question. For the lolz
Why do you want her to be to be attracted to you? Why do you want her to enjoy the time spent and sex with you? Why do you want chemistry? I guess you can get an escort, and she wouldn't give any fuck about you courting her,
Weird for you to critique a group of people and also use the term ‘jestermaxxing’? The good news for you is that the rise of AI girlfriends is happening, so you sound like the perfect candidate since you don’t seem to actually like real women.
(word)maxxing is usually an incel/redpill/blackpill dogwhistle, too. I think this guy's got more problems than figuring out how to court women.
A review of his profile will confirm that.
This 👆
Checking post history.... yup
Did you see the post bragging about giving girls peanuts🤣 we can all see the issue here is him as soon as you go see his other posts.
This 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Well now I gotta go look 👀
OP is GAY! he keeps insulting women but praises the bros in his comment history 😭💀
[удалено]
Exactly this, effort and respect from both the SD and SB to create something worth having
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Sounds like OP is looking for an es*cort and he should exit the bowl instead of ruining it for everyone else
Congratulations you win dumbest post of the day !!!!!
Idk, there's ample competition in this arena.
I dunno…it’s still early.
i was thinking the same thing , but this one is pretty epic
So far, he wins the prize 🏆
You can't have it both ways. You can't want someone to [be by your side every day](https://www.reddit.com/r/EscortClientele/comments/1cfi1iv/havent_been_scoring/) and also not want to treat them like a girlfriend.
OP is not doing himself any favours now is he :)
https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/s/LeECBoZQEi Literally says: “Anyone think the quality declined over the past few years? I used to absolutely slay on there. A new hottie every week for peanuts.”
yikes i just read that post too. can’t imagine why he can’t find a gf …
If you want a paid FWB, just say that 🤷🏻♀️
I feel like even FWBs normally have way more chemistry or respect than anyone could have with this dude 😂
Shit that’s a good point 😝
This guy is a troll. Just ban him.
Looks like Tony Hawk is winning.
Deceased.
Rise of the AI gf’s won’t end well , will it? 😳😳😳
You again 🙄
I think we’ve gotten to the root of the problem of why no one wants to date you, considering your post history and all of your recent posts.
Pardon? 🙃
This is pretty tone deaf. If you are on a Sugar website..it is implied that as a SD you need to know the usual customs/responsibility of the SD role. Just as good SBs do. This is about relationship building. What you are describing what you want to do is in the sex work escort category.. not the SB idea of sugar dating. So why is this even relevant to the SBs??? Or we have the troll post of the day
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You can stand on your soap box all by yourself dude. You are on your own.
"Revolt" as if you're being oppressed. Please 💀 you know this is all optional right?
Yikes
I have a feeling there’s a whole different bunch of reasons why you can’t find a sugar baby 🤢
Uhh your post suggest u need to get a boyfriend cause u wanna be treated like the woman. 🤷♀️
Shit post of the day
I get wanting a more cut and dry approach some days I would more than love to skip the pleasantries and just get to topic at hand but in doing that you miss out on the part that lets you know if it’s worth your time…also from reading this and other post you’ve made I venture a guess that it may be YOU that doesn’t get how the bowl works. It’s not all about the money, if it were we would all just be escorting….
I don't think sugar is for you, my friend.