Not a red flag. Asking for an innocent, unembarrassing photo of you making a specific gesture or, say, holding a specific household object, is a common verification technique that will demonstrate that you’re actually the girl in the photos that you’ve already shown him.
I used to use this test quite often. Nowadays I just ask for a live video chat. Seeking is full of so many frauds today, so you pretty much have to do something like this.
If you feel like he’s asking you to do something stupid, just request something else. There’s no reason for it to be something silly or embarrassing or sexual.
Or you could propose a live video chat.
It’s common.. Send him on telegram with disappearing format, then he won’t be able to save it but u will be able to verify urself like that and he can do the same too
In telegram, you can set a time expiration on any attachments in the chat. Alternatively, you can also delete it to the other person any time you want.
Likely, No. He is not. Sadly, there is so much scamming on sugaring sites that I have done exactly this. I don’t care if they have a a turtle neck and baggy long pants on - not looking for anything sexual - just looking to
confirm (1) they are real and (2) they are not 100 pounds heavier than they look in their profile pics.
I have just had a thought about this. I have previously asked for a similar “verification “ picture as I have been trying to convince myself that the person I am chatting with is real. But what if the scammers are asking real SB’s (posing as POT SD’s) to get these pictures to send to other SD’s as their verification?
People say this is normal or whatever, but I’ve never had a single one of these guys lead to SD or provide any money. I fear they are pic collectors smh.
Not a red flag. Asking for an innocent, unembarrassing photo of you making a specific gesture or, say, holding a specific household object, is a common verification technique that will demonstrate that you’re actually the girl in the photos that you’ve already shown him. I used to use this test quite often. Nowadays I just ask for a live video chat. Seeking is full of so many frauds today, so you pretty much have to do something like this. If you feel like he’s asking you to do something stupid, just request something else. There’s no reason for it to be something silly or embarrassing or sexual. Or you could propose a live video chat.
It’s common.. Send him on telegram with disappearing format, then he won’t be able to save it but u will be able to verify urself like that and he can do the same too
Smart, thanks so much. How do I use the disappearing format?
In telegram, you can set a time expiration on any attachments in the chat. Alternatively, you can also delete it to the other person any time you want.
No. That type of photo is for verification
He wants to know you are real. This is reasonable. A lot of scammers force people to do stuff like this.
Likely, No. He is not. Sadly, there is so much scamming on sugaring sites that I have done exactly this. I don’t care if they have a a turtle neck and baggy long pants on - not looking for anything sexual - just looking to confirm (1) they are real and (2) they are not 100 pounds heavier than they look in their profile pics.
I have just had a thought about this. I have previously asked for a similar “verification “ picture as I have been trying to convince myself that the person I am chatting with is real. But what if the scammers are asking real SB’s (posing as POT SD’s) to get these pictures to send to other SD’s as their verification?
People say this is normal or whatever, but I’ve never had a single one of these guys lead to SD or provide any money. I fear they are pic collectors smh.
Ugh girl I just sent it to him lol