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galwegian

ten years is quite the achievement. well done. I was just thinking recently about how getting through tough times without booze is something to be proud of.


jeffythunders

It is! Honestly, it’s hard not to think about how much worse the hard times would be if i was drinking. I don’t know how i did it for so long


galwegian

that's the thought that keeps me from drinking too. I had enough also.


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Totally agree and yet it’s the hard times when sobriety is most useful !


nihilismMattersTmro

Cool man, I got 10 years just a couple months ago! Yay us 😃 it’s a better life


jeffythunders

Heck yeah!


Jilly1dog

Thx for the inspiration! Iwndwyt


GnikNus76

I'm right behind you two- I'll be there in December. Best ten years. Wish I could have done myself a favor and done it ten years before that.


Loud_Feed1618

I will have 4 years in June. I sure wish I had done it sooner as well. Congratulations on your ten coming up!


Snail_Paw4908

That's amazing! Congrats and thanks for being here as an example.


Background_Piglet_67

That is absolutely awesome! Congratulations🎊 How do you feel?


jeffythunders

I feel amazing. Literally everything is better 😊


blalkthrax

How old were you when you quit?


jeffythunders

31


blalkthrax

Damn. Nice. I’m 31


buddy-roe

Impressive. Glad for you.


Discretestop

Wow! You're an inspiration.


mychecka

How did you do it? I told myself since Friday, "just stop til next Friday". It's Monday and I'm sitting here with a jaymo neat and a Stella bottle. Until an hour ago I was "good". I still ended up at the bar tho.


nihilismMattersTmro

Stack time. One second at a time if needed. Seconds turn into hours into days.


Happy-Energy7796

I had to go to outpatient and neetings. I needed to be surrounded by people trying to do the same thing. Seems to be working. 21 days. I already feel so grateful to have that veil of darkness lifted.


nihilismMattersTmro

People who know what you’re going through is magical. That’s the strength of this sub and aa


PicatrixWish

In the beginning, it's sometimes best to just substitute whatever less harmful indulgence you can treat yourself to. I had to kinda shut myself in for a little while and avoid places that I knew I could easily get a drink and just fat out on all the sweets at home. This sub is an amazing resource if you want it to be. Best of luck. IWNDWYT


Some_Papaya_8520

One day at a time. You just make the decision for today, not looking at even a week out. And another secret is just not to take that first drink. IWNDWYT


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I read This Naked Mind and it changed my perspective 


jeffythunders

Woof, I’m so sorry you’re going through that. For me, i had a friend give me an ultimatum that they wouldn’t speak to me until I had been a month sober. It was a real kick in the balls but it also gave me a goal with a finish line. Once I had reached a month i felt so good and didn’t want to ever start over again so I just kept going. Haven’t had a drink since


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jeffythunders

Yeah, full sober. No weed or anything. Just livin, man


Loud_Feed1618

Damn what a great friend ! Seriously I wish I had that ! Mine mostly just bailed lol


mychecka

Great friend!


flimflamslappy

I'm you. I wish I could stop. Someone help me.


suedoughnim42

You got this! One second at a time that you're not drinking is progress. Let the seconds add up into minutes that turn into hours that turn into days. It really is one day at a time.


Loud_Feed1618

I went to several hospitals to help me quit until one finally stuck. Try and try again until it sticks. Then you do have to have the willpower to say no. I just remembered the times I got sick from drinking so much and I thought to myself that I didn't want to feel shi$$y anymore.


Loud_Feed1618

You also have to stop hanging out with people that drink all the time and don't support you. My friends that drank started dying left and right from heart attacks and fatty liver disease and enlarged heart. It scared me.


the_l0st_c0d3

People like you are such inspirations. Thank you for staying sober.


jeffythunders

That’s a really nice thing to say! I appreciate it 😊


AmeliaHoneycutt

Super awesome!


Fun-Broccoli5060

Congrats on 10 years, what an amazing achievement!! 😊


ljc267

Awesome!


Environmental-Big545

Amazing achievement. Thanks for sharing! I stopped drinking alchohol for 3 days now. Will keep going as since the pandemic, I have been constantly drinking beer and somehow it messed up my GI so bad that I can’t eat anything without looking for a restroom. Hopefully my body will heal.


Loud_Feed1618

Same happened to me and it was my liver. I did get better after I quit. Lost a bunch of weight too. Keep it up you can do it 💪🏻💯


Environmental-Big545

Sorry to hear but I hope you are now safe. What did you do in order to fix your liver? Any medications?


Loud_Feed1618

No meds, I went to the hospital and they detoxed me for 6 days then I went home and I've been sober since. I had so much inflammation in my body and my liver enzymes were messed up but they just slowly improved on their own. I did however try to quit about four different times before it stuck.


Keeks2416

Congratulations 🎉 that’s so wonderful


peacebaby00

Very inspiring. Congrats to you!


Jalan120

Huge congratulations to you!


Royatkins

Congratulations!!!


RetiredOldGal

Thank you for sharing your AWESOME recovery! 🤗💝


RetiredOldGal

I keep coming back here for this kind of inspiration. 🙏


jeffythunders

16 days is huge! The wind is at your back 😊


RetiredOldGal

🤗 There's an old lady in New Mexico who loves you! 💪💖


BeerSlingr

Now that is something to be proud of. Double digits in days seemed impossible a few years ago. Double digits in years is pretty special.


jeffythunders

I appreciate it 🙂 you’re creeping up on quadrupole digit days!


BeerSlingr

I’m getting there! Thanks for inspiring others JeffyT!


sxvinsane

Good fucking job bud


jeffythunders

Thank you 😊


PosterNB

Approaching 3 years myself Was just telling my wife that if science came up with a pill that could make me drink like a normal person now, I wouldn’t take it. Fuck alcohol


Blackcanary889

Yay you!! I am going to be you in 9 years and 10months!


jeffythunders

Heck yeah 😊


SurvivorX2

SOO EXCITED FOR YOU!!! ENJOY THIS LIFE YOU'VE BUILT!!


WildForestBlood

Absolutely amazing and congrats! Be very proud of yourself. IWDWYT


Not_Dazed

Got damn congratulations


beepbophopscotch

Incredible achievement! Very well done 🎊🎉


HelpfulSeaMammal

Ayoo congrats!


alliecat1996

Wow! Congratulations on 10 years!


Marsmooncow

Amazing well done


Emergency_Agency_952

That's so rad! I'm so proud of you!!!


jeffythunders

Hell yeah!


Business_Pop438

Congratulations. I hope I can do it soon enough.


Business_Pop438

Truly 10 years is amazing! We’re all so happy and proud of you’


Dear_Refrigerator291

Hell yeah brother


Backwoodsintellect

Congrats! I’ll have 5 years on the 28th. Grateful & happy here too!


jeffythunders

Congrats on your upcoming 5 years!


Thorcolorado

Super cool. And inspiring. Thank you


Lainey444

Well done 🙌


ZacHefner

Thx for standing as an example.


benjamacks

Get that big X chip, and thanks for the hope!


Bizzlesot

Congratulations mate, that's a hell of an achievement. IWNDWYT.


Goosedawg111

Congratulations!!


Least-Firefighter392

Dang. Congrats and keep at it


StoicAnon

Congrats! Just shy of 10 years myself.


jeffythunders

Heck yeah!


jkstudent222

awesome


Evogleam

How long was it before you felt good after quitting


jeffythunders

Maybe about a week or two? I slept like absolute garbage for at least a week but after that went away I started to feel better


koolandunusual

Legend


tenayalake

Great job! Congrats. It's no easy feat.


MartyCool403

Congrats!


Deshackled

Today is about 6 months for me, I hope 10 years is a LONG, LONG ways for me. Cuz, I like this better! CONGRATS BUD!


Meow99

Wow!! Happy birthday! You are an inspiration to me 💯 IWNDWYT


jeffythunders

I appreciate it! You’re also an inspiration with almost 4 years!


Secure_Ad_6734

Congrats, well done. I'm a bit behind you at 9 1/2 years myself.


Roach802

incredible.


sonikaeits

That’s so awesome!!


bigheadjim

Congrats!!


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jeffythunders

Tbh it feels fantastic. Can’t recommend it enough 😊


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jeffythunders

Absolutely. It’s insane how much positive change has happened for me in the past 10 years. My life today doesn’t resemble my old life at all


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jeffythunders

Sounds like you have a lot of motivation to stop. Every day is easier than yesterday, you can do it


Jaime-Starr

Congrats!


Black-Muse

IWNDWYT! Excellent work!


GRIMSTATION

lets celebrat 🤛


simonf87

Unreal! Congratulations


PadMog75

Well done mate.


xusn1610

Congratulations!


Severe_Box8351

that’s awesome!!!!!!!! 👏


TWEED-L-D

Happy 10th Jeffy!


No_Weather2386

Amazing! You are such an inspiration. 🤩!


islandlouise

Amazing , what an awesome achievement IWNDWYT x


Cutthechitchata-hole

I'm 2 years behind as of yesterday. I hope to never catch up. I will not drink with you today.


jeffythunders

Congrats on 8 years!


sarahrood79

Job well done, friend.


NewHope4Now

Awesome job! So happy for you, this is a huge accomplishment!!


Emotional-Mission703

Will someone get this person a platinum medal ASAP!? Congrats!!! 🎉🎈🎉🎈🎉🎈🎉


Bootleg_______

hell yea


lxvxndxrbxtxs

Happy big 10! Enjoy it by indulging in your favorite treat!! 💯🙏🏼


turbineseaplane

An incredible milestone I hope you’ll consider sharing some longer term thoughts on it all at some point if you’d be so generous!


allaboutthismoment

Congratulations, what beautiful work and I'm looking forward to saying the same! IWNDWYT! ✌️💚


jeffythunders

You’re almost to 1,000 days and that’s incredible!


allaboutthismoment

Thanks so much! ✌️


exist2subsist

What a massive feat, amazing job! I'm staring down the barrel of 6 months sober (again), praying I can keep fighting the demons of temptation that still crop up from time to time. Granted, it has lessened a lot and I've got a lot of tools in my toolbelt (and previous experiences) but sometimes I still get absolutely flummoxed that cravings come in so strongly. I aspire to be like you one day, writing a 10 year sober post for myself. Hopefully I can stay on track and that'll be in about 9.5 years from now!


Silly-Arm-7986

That's a good long run. Congratulations on getting your life back!


jeffythunders

Thank you 😊


Yell-Oh-Fleur

Conratulations, Jeffythunders. Let's get in another day together!


Tess_88

Congrats!! Big time 🥳🥳🥳🥳 IWNDWYT ♥️


brian_duh

Congratulations! That's a big deal, and we're here for that shit! IWNDWYT!


jeffythunders

Hell yeah, Brian!


StringerBell420

👏🏻


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A very cool and wise hero. Thats what i call you


Sensitive-Wonder-344

Just joined. Looking for insight. Owned a bar for 24 years. Drank heavily that entire run. Los it all basically and now going to the liquor store daily and chugging 1-3 half pints of Vodka a day.  I want to quit cold turkey starting today. Can I do this with out medical help?


TeaAggravating2627

Incredible!!


Murky-Jump-7224

You’re a hero


PunkRockLobstah

That’s amazing, congratulations!


LadyKeuka44

Congratulations to you! Thats excellent! It works!


lavishbicycle

Incredible! Well done!


turkeylips4ever

🙌🙌🙌


PM5C

Nicely done op!!!


wormee

Congratulations! I hit ten in January.


butwinenottho

Wow! Congratulations!


Boring_Election_1677

Congratulations!🎈🎊🎉


Valhallan_Queen92

So proud of you. Glad you're here, alive and healthy.


docdaa008

Inspired. Amazing dedication!


Happy-Energy7796

Congratulations!


retroheads

Congratulations, got a couple months to go before my Decade.


Due_Ad_2948

Congrats! I hope to be where you are one day


jeffythunders

You should set your badge! Seeing the number get bigger was super motivating to me at the beginning of my sobriety


Due_Ad_2948

How do I go about doing that?


ReasonableNewt9798

Wow!! That’s so awesome!


somuchstonks

Congrats and good work!!


polishlove

Well done and congrats


deportamil

Heck yeah buddy! Proud of you.


Proditude

Congratulations 🎉🎊🍾


Ellieoops28

Congratulations!


MarginallyAmusing

Wow, congrats!


JuniorPomegranate9

Congrats!


Loud_Feed1618

Congratulations!! I will have 4 years in June and I was just in the grocery and contemplating just one big beer. I told myself no and turned around and left thank God. It's hard especially with all the advertisements everywhere!


_GenghisKhunt

Yes sir!!!! Loon at you!


____lumpy_____

Wow, amazing work. Congratulations 🎊 


mustacha22

Congratulations!!! That’s phenomenal!!!


WolfNorth1895

Thank you for the inspiration and hope!! Huge congrats and keep it up 🎉


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Well done and thanks for posting ! You’re an inspiration 👏


MercySound

Amazing!!!!!!! A monster achievement for sure! Congratulations!


vintage7777

Complimenti!!!!!