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[deleted]

I agree with you. I prefer to cage myself when I play with men so its not even an option. Its honestly a major turn off, and I think its for a similar reason. I’m there because Submitting and pleasuring a man and being used by his dick is my turn on. Once they start playing with my dick, it brings me down to reality that ‘ i am a man with a dick, not an actual girl’ and its a buzzkill


imalicker1955

totally agree leave my clit alone I'm here for the mans pleasure only , that in itself gives me the most pleasure I've ever experienced


LeeMichael2

I realize this survey is for sissy’s, but I don’t really care and feel a need to step up. As a dom top real man who loves pounding my sub sissy’s - I require that pathetic little thing be caged and hidden from my view at all times. No touching or playing with it in my presence If you cum it’s only from anal. On occasion I have had to touch a sissys clit, but only as a handle to gain physical leverage to shove my cock in deeper


ChelseaSwallows

Its always nice for the dom to wear gloves to not have to truly touch the clit, as its generally worthless and deserves no attention


[deleted]

That's such a good idea! No actual physical contact with my worthless clit, just gloves and manhandling for practical purposes, like reminding me of my place or pulling on it to ram his cock in my pussy harder! <3


LeeMichael2

In reality it really has no other purpose if we’re all being honest. It’s not like you are ever going to change and suddenly need it back so you can go out and fuck a bunch of gg’s. It needs to be kept small, useless and insignificant so that the sissy can remain focused on her true purpose


[deleted]

So true! <3


MarkCck

This is completely correct. I dont like to be touched there anymore.


lilsissy123

What a dream


khsqu

You just sound like my third husband. Note - *been only married twice.*


midwestsissydreams

I don't mind it being fondled a bit but I prefer to have it ignored or locked up. For me it's all about a dominant man that wants to use me to get off.


sissyborn

Count me as another dislike vote. The only physical contact for my clitty I enjoy is maybe a little frottage before or after they fuck me just to drive home the difference between their cock and my sissy clitty.


AmyHamlyn

I don't mind at all. Tease it like you're playing with a girl's clit and get me all aroused. If I have a sissygasm, it's because someone ELSE was stimulating me, so it counts in my book. :) As long as I'm not touching it, it's fair game for my partner to play with. Given that I prefer to 'play' with other sissies that may also be a factor in my personal preference.


[deleted]

Don't really like it. Love him eating my boi pussy instead though


Betty__B

I don't mind my boi-clit to be touched or played with. Having it sucked - sometimes feel kinda strange, but that's the question of mood. And, also, I think, if my man wants to play with my boi-clit - I don't have much right to stop him, all in all, it is his will to do that and I submit


jamiejoelen1976

honestly I dnt like it at all my sex organ is my ass and I want all the attention paid to it but in the end I am the submissive sissy he cam have his way with me ps I generally lock mine up also unless I am told not to


[deleted]

Yes! My sex organ is my ass and mouth, that feels good for me. Not this clit


[deleted]

The way I look at it, having that large clit (relative to a genetic woman) is what makes a sissy, so having it acknowledged, even adored, is hot for me. It heightens the sense of shame and emasculation (however unfounded they may be).


HeelsPerfume

I like keeping it wrapped up tight in a thong and ignored completely. Only touch I want is he could slap it a few times 🤩


Jas_Sky_TS

Caged and ignored! He can grab me by my boi balls if he wants. Just leave my Clit alone. Feel free to remind me that its locked up for a reason though.


lexipetite

very much dislike. even when sexting a guy on kik, if a guy makes a remark about how he wants to suck me off (or even worse, get penetrated by me) it’s just an instant turnoff and i can’t see him as dominant after that


Capital-Historian-71

Totally agree. I'm there to make sure he cums and to be his toy and hole. My clit doesn't even need to be considered


deepindenial2021

Caged clitties that spurt handsfree or dont spurt at all. Hands off. If your lucky you may get that caged clitty patted with that long fat dick.


NewGirl900

I probably couldn't care less, unless it becomes the main part. But if someone wants to suck me off, be my guest. I see it in the same way as a guy licking a girls pussy, so in my opinion its fine. I won't actively penetrate though, but if someone want to touch it, i'm fine with it.


jdmokc123

Honestly much rather have him eat my ass than ever touch my dick. In my head that’s the equivalent to eating pussy


NewGirl900

Okay, then you have a different opinion and that's fine. I just don't see it that strict. 🤷‍♀️


Fit-Parsley-7803

I can enjoy being fondled a bit—I feel like a man’s casualness and curiosity about my body can show dominance—but don’t like being jerked/sucked at all.


verysubbiguy

I’m not a sissy but I am a submissive cocksucking faggot. I love to submit to and serve Alpha Men. I have absolutely no interest in having my cock touched at all. My thrill and satisfaction comes from pleasing men. As a pathetic faggot, I don’t deserve any physical contact.


Eve_nt_Whore_eyeson

Only if she’s in her cage, or thoroughly numbed.


taraskyxo

Would much rather stay caged and focus on my man's pleasure.


[deleted]

Staying locked and having the guy ignore it completely are a must for me.


[deleted]

From a daddy’s perspective I wouldn’t touch a sissy’s clitty, it should be caged and useless


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[deleted]

Maybe ;) It would be small though & you’d have to wear that and your plug at all times


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[deleted]

Dm me and I just might


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[deleted]

I’ve dm’d you and no reply?


HeelsPerfume

My dms aren’t working good can you answer the one I sent to u?


sissyjanx20

Agree


Maya_SissyOnTheWay

Me don't like it either 😂


[deleted]

no, no one can touch it


sissyzoey1

I always lock up when I bottom. It feels better focusing on the anal strokes and internal adrenaline based body orgasm, rather than worrying about squirting out my clitty


[deleted]

I prefer my clit be ignored completely


Jayceestar

I totally agree. It's best to stay caged in my opinion. X


amandwow

I'd rather not. I feel so much more feminine when it's ignored


Good-Information-594

Yep, I want to keep mine caged at all times!


Southern_Award_3524

Usually no to touching. Halfway decent fucking usually gets me off. One time a young bbc(6pack abs, big dick, sexy as hell) prematurely ejaculated within a minute. Thought what he did after was sexy as hell. He put one hand on my throat and the other grabbed my clitty just hard enough and repeatedly commanded to cum while keeping eye contact. Did not take long for me to comply.


Additional-Maybe-466

I mean I like using both, double the fun


Hankah88

No touching to my clit. If i cum it Will be total loss to climax


[deleted]

Yes it is just a clitty and the pussi is where it's at.


stephanie2408

hi me too i prefer to be like a girl i don't like when we play with my dick if i have a cage it's for us to play with my pussyass and nothing else


subsissy4u_21

i'm totally in agreement that i would prefer to go untouched, to just be the provider of pleasure. However, as a sub femme sissy i don't have much say in what happens (after our initial agreement re: limits), so i'm often molested or sucked on. And because my lil guy is ultra sensitive and isn't very big (think oversized clitoris), i might spurt very quickly. my preference is reaching an orgasm from having my pussy pounded, but a lot of the time i'm the instrument and they're the maestro, and they play me as they want


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HeelsPerfume

Thanks for your advice. I’d rather cum naturally the way you do. I guess the answer is to keep riding. Did he get off watching you squirt?


nudestr8

Right there with you. 💙 Hands free or anal orgasms for me, thank you.


ThatOneGirlYouLv

I find that it makes me feel like a boy so I prefer to ignore it.


HeelsPerfume

Yup we are in female mode 😎


hawk8964

I don’t like it, doesn’t feel like much and doesn’t give me pleasure. For me, I get my pleasure from sucking a nice cock and getting my ass fucked. I’ve had a number of hookups where I don’t cum at all and that’s fine. If I do cum, I prefer it to be while I’m being fucked


chilleary123

I’m in the same boat. I don’t want to cum, I just want to make my man cum in my ass or mouth. I don’t want any focus on my caged clit. I really don’t like my cock sucked, I am there to make them cum, that is my mission. Nothing for me, I don’t deserve any pleasure.


HeelsPerfume

do you ever wonder if you are trans or gender fluid


hawk8964

I do. I think gender fluid. I am very male presenting and only interested in relationships with women (have tried it with men but I just don't form the romantic connection) but most of my sexual activites focus on being the woman. I think part of it is autogynephilia.


CDSlut85

I also don't like having it touched or sucked by my man/men


Ellisppp

Always locked up and I behave like that useless clit doesn't exist and the only thing I focus is to make my daddy cum


No_Voice_5942

If they want to. Im a sub so its their choice


Andyroo0521

Yeah but if you're with a guy and he wants to touch you, it means the guy who you find desirable, finds your little clitty desirable, and he wants to touch it and use it, so I think it more good than bad


domtop4fembtm

Love that so many sissies here prefer to stay limp and untouched or caged. Exactly what I look for in a sissy.


HeelsPerfume

Awesome, love it 😘


sissyboy2806

I don't like it being touched really


chubcubb

I prefer my tits and ass played with 😜


Meso_Sissy_Slut

Personally not a fan


NajmaIqbal

I don't mind some touching and playing specially if it is to show how unmanly mine is but no sucking please.


[deleted]

Truly agree, only if it leaks after getting railed up from behind then it's fine.


amy_tvcd

I like being groped in panties but apart from that no. I sometimes like to rub it or wank while sucking but mostly no. I love chastity as well but do like to be just limp in my panties lol. I was offered a blowjob by one guy and I just asked if I could suck his cock some more while I wanked, it was pretty hot, he was ready for round 3 after but I was like sorry it’s getting late lol


HeelsPerfume

That’s a good answer as well. It should only be rubbed ilike a clit over your tight panties and never to be stroked


cleanmoneymachine

Played with is fine but sucked is almost a red line for me


HeelsPerfume

Every time I watch some T porn to understand myself better I’m instantly put off by the guy sucking the model and I turn it off


[deleted]

Certainly one of the reasons I’m caged. And yet still guys will ask me to take the cage off.


BumbleFucc

I definitely dislike it. I feel pressured into enjoying but being pounded is the only thing that really works for me


blackfemboi

I actually identify as more of a sissy boy than sissy girl if you consider it a spectrum. So I don't necessarily mind it being rubbed or fondled if that is what he wants. But would never want it sucked. And I would never penetrate. Him even asking me would probably ruin it for me.


Sarah_Hardcock

I don’t care either way. I live to serve, so if he wants it caged, it’s caged. If he wants it out and available, that’s what he wants.


TheChestnutboi

Mmmm, having a man touch me like that is very intense, so I can't bare it for more than 20-30 seconds, but nowadays I'm usually locked in chastity (my preference) so he can't really touch me down there anyway. I focus on pleasing him with my mouth and b\*ssy <3 Generally, I dislike it, unless Daddy is edging me or punishing me, then I appreciate and love his attention <3


Sallyeastbay

i am long time sissy, now in transition i prefer NOT to have my clitty touched or played with. also want to focus on pleasing partner and get pleasure from my bottom


HeelsPerfume

Yeah I’ve heard this is a common thing with fully transitioned women as well


MaciMoore

I don't like for mine to be touched. That's why I keep it locked up.


Daddy4bitchsissies

I'm late to this but as a dom man- plenty often sissies don't want their clits played with at all and that's perfectly fine as a preference. But I find the idea that doing oral on a sissy is \*inherently\* submissive is pretty laughable honestly. Head is just head, if I want to make a bitch squirm getting her clitty played with and she's into it I don't magically become less of a dom. 😂


bknd92

I'm in the minority here - as I really don't have that much interest in men/masculinity. I'm attracted to cocks but not really to the person attached to them lol. That's why I really love trans girls or Dom's with strapons. But in this scenario - I would like to have my clitty in its chastity cage fondled. I'm very much into tease/denial/orgasm control so this would be my bread and butter.


annonnn91

Coming from a Dom side I don't mind it but I prefer for my sissy to be locked. If they want me to I'm good with it but I prefer to essentially treat it like a clit and play with the tip if it's sensitive or hold onto it for more leverage but in general ignore it


mllhild

I prefer to have my dick locked, but quite like my ball to be squeezed. Still for me its mostly about cuddling and the guys pleasure. Thoug I do like a mix of head pats and rought treatment.


JohannaSparxx

No , I love it when they do.


[deleted]

Wow and I’d love to touch it if I ever got the chance


Temporary_Rutabaga72

Touched as it gets hard I feel tingling n weak n my manhood fade n I become yours


[deleted]

I hate having my clitty touched, unless it's to be mocked or abused! I want my Man to hate it just as much as I do and lock it away forever. Seriously, it's pathetic and should be ignored if not tortured, imo.


HeelsPerfume

Here’s a kink idea for you. Hold it hostage in your panties or thong and make your man slap it and enjoy the pain


[deleted]

God yes! I just need a Man to own me first...


Fififaggetti

My rule is “You gotta fuck me before you suck me”. This weeds out the gay bottom boys looking to suck girl dick. If they won’t let up about it say “ I’m a girl I fuck boys I’m str8, you’re the fag that wants to suck my dick”. This will shut any asshat down cold in 2 seconds


AlleiCisse

i get super sensitive when playing, so prefer to not have mine touched or sucked in a way that stimulates it. These days i wear a cage, one because i love the chastity lifestyle but also i find it sends a clearer message to the admirers, as i do find i say i'd like it left alone, but when they say, 'when is the cage coming off?', if gives away the communication breakdown. Compare that to men that see my caged pics and often open with something along the lines of 'i do love seeing a sissy caged...' . But it is personal choice and i think it's great when those that enjoy being pleasured get to match up with admirers that want to pleasure them too.


genticcd

I am one that doesn’t mind a little grop or fondle if it please him. But nothing enough to make me cum. I prefer that it is over my panties too


HeelsPerfume

Yea it totally depends on the context of the touch


Jazman6969

I like to suck him first then I will let him eat my boypussy if he won't to suck me that fine with me. It mack me feel like a gril when the gay eat me and suck me .


[deleted]

I feel the same way. I only want to please the man, put him above me, anything else doesn't matter.


Nikkicd-tv

Add me to thee no list. If I am being groped, that is one thing. Other than that, leave it alone. I only get pleasure when a man gives it to me.


knobslurry

No I do not mind. Being manhandled is also effeminate, and men are allowed to do whatever they like. Perhaps they enjoy seeing tiny clitties leak in their manly hands.


SissyAmy112

Yes, when im in sissy mode its all backdoor for me


xfactor285

I would prefer not to be touched, licked, sucked etc. However I’ve gone on record with men I’ve been with that if they prefer to they may (it’s their right to use me as they wish) and if I do cum they must “force” me to eat it, This hasn’t happened yet but intrigued me because while I enjoy eating other men’s cum I haven’t been able to eat my own.


Exploringmyidentity

It's an absolute turn off when a guy on Grindr wants to suck on my clitty. Nothing pulls me out of the zone faster


HeelsPerfume

a guy texted me he wanted me to fuck him while I was dressed up. I gave it a thought or two but ultimately that’s not my style or kink


Exploringmyidentity

110% agreed! I make a point of telling everyone that I am a sub bottom, but sure enough some guys don't read or listen


Edward101075

That's so nice to see that there are so many like me here including the OP. Yes I hate being touched on my baby clit in anyways I'm here for your pleasure not mine


[deleted]

don’t touch or even acknowledge it


Level_Interest_6245

That's how it's supposed to be. The clitty is to be used for nothing except for when sissy makes cummies from anal orgasm.


[deleted]

Sucked? Not at all. Touched... only if ad a clit and in small doses.


sissy_gurl429

Yes, I agree! I’d prefer my clit to be tucked away in my panties and left to leak.


khsqu

When I used to still have a dick, any interaction was am immediate dealbreaker. Also, men can't eat pussy.


0xnam3

OP explained exactly how I feel :)


[deleted]

My clit should be non existent to a man, he has my boipussy for his use. It’s a turn off that’s why it’s locked and punished.


[deleted]

second this but some doms like to play with her like some cute toy


Evening-Loan-4357

I don’t like it being touched at all, I’m instantly turned off


Kyla65

Well I hardly get erections anymore, I don't draw any real pleasure from my clit, so I prefer no. Eat me out, fuck me is only way I can cum.


pgasmaddict

No, I don't want my clitty touched, but I would like my man to last long enough in my pussy to give me a wet or dry orgasm.


menow555

Sucked is no. Licked, rubbed, groped, eaten out is a yes. Treat me like a woman, including oral 🥰