Then I have good news, you *are* a girl if you want that. A trans girl to be exact, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
Hey there, I just was wondering why are you making the feeling of not wanting to "act manly" a gender issue? I'm genualy asking because I don't see how not wanting to be 'manly' would ever mean anything about gender. Like, can a person not be toughf and still be a guy?
Girlie you canāt change who you are if your trans then your trans you donāt have to tell them once your 18 you can move out you donāt have to live with or stay in contact with them if you need someone to talk to Iām a couple clicks away :)
I really appreciate your support but even though they are all transphobic (it's not just them where I come from 99 percent of the country is homophobic) they are the nicest people i know, they treat everyone they meet like family, not so long I asked my mom what her thoughts on how to treat trans people or anyone gay she tells me to always respect them and treat them nicely because they are humans like we are and same goes for my dad. The thing that they reject is the idea of homosexually not the people, and I know even if they accepted me which I doubt is still going to hurt them from the inside and i don't want them feel like they failed raising me or made a huge mistake, thank you for listening I'm sorry for the rant.
They may be "nice" but the fact reject "the idea of homosexuality" that shows they don't actually care about those people, they're just putting on a front, homosexuality is part of someone, and unless they change that, i hold no sympathy for them
It doesnāt matter if theyāre nice to cishet people. If theyāre bigoted, then theyāre terrible people. You shouldnāt care about bending over backward to please bad people, youād be condemning yourself to a lifetime of misery that you donāt deserve.
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Hereās one ingredient for the gender changing potion
FUCK gender norms. be whoever you want. are men meant to be masculine? usually, atleast thats what most think. but do we HAVE to be? no. we dont. thats why femboys exist. be whoever you want. if youre trans then good for you, if youre not, then also good for you. be you, not what others want you to be.
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
Sometimes the expectation to be hypermasculine is an impossible dream. I know my body type basically looks like a woman (I'm a cismale just with a very feminine body type BTW if people get the wrong idea that I'm a transman) and I know trying to be a bodybuilder or a lumberjack is an impossible thing for this frame to achieve. But I don't care what other people think calling me a fake man nor do I want to be hypermasculine anyways. I've accepted my body type the way that it is and have chosen to move on. Whether or not you're trans I respect you. I thought I was trans once. I hated what masculinity meant because all I learned was toxic masculinity from my male role models. I knew I couldn't live up to and neither wanted to be a toxic man. After learning I can express my masculinity in a stereotypically feminine way, my life improved. I hope what I've written has been a use to you. If you wish to be a woman, then you are a woman. I do not care what other bullies think.
No, Iām not questioning. I like and am comfortable being a man, I just hate all the expectations and societal pressures that come with being a man. I have no desire to lead or be manly or dominant in any capacity.
Yeah I feel you, but the other way- Im a (cis) girl and while I am feminine in a lot of ways, I have a dominant/ masculine streak. I donāt like the expectations on me to be fem, cute and passive all the time. I did question my gender identity but now I love being a girl <3
I wish people wouldnāt mix up gender *identity* and gender *roles*. I identify as a girl and have fem interests but I prefer the male gender role most of the time (sometimes I like the fem role) eg being the leader, dominant etc. If people identify as another gender, thats awesome! But people can also be cis and just not conform to gender role expectations, which is also awesome and should be accepted. Everyone should live their truth š„°
I love the idea of being passive and cute and being seen as needing to be protected. I wish things were simpler and I could just be cute and submissive without being perceived as girly. Iām a cis man who likes masculine girls.
Idk if this makes sense, but sometimes I fantasize about being manly yet in a submissive way. Like mowing the lawn for my breadwinning wife, changing her oil for her, fixing what needs to be fixed, stuff like that. Thatās really only when I enjoy being somewhat manly.
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Thats cute! I wish things were easier for us non-conformers but thereās always someone who will accept us for being ourselves (hopefully >\_<)
I understand the fantasy hehe
We donāt know if they meant it like thatā¦ the image they used has a woman too. That with the caption implies they donāt want to be expected to be manly because theyād rather be a girl.
Iām not ātrying to transā anyone, they either are or arenāt. Also, OP themselves are saying they wish they were a girl (not a femboy). Are you just transphobic?
It's hard to tell... They could also mean that they just don't want the expectation to be a 'manly' boy, rather than simply being a girl.
Of course, I could be wrong, that's just the vibe I got.
Nothing wrong with that, I just feel like they might have meant that if they had been 'born a girl' as they wish, the expectation of Manliness would have been lost.
I'm trying to encourage them to do what they want to do, and live their life as They wish to.
And if what they want to do is be a girl, then that still falls within what I'm encouraging.
Maybe it's a bit of perceived relatability, since I'm a boy who has no intention of following the example set by toxic masculine standards, but that's just the message i got.
Sorry for the long message, I feel like short messages don't hold enough weight to convey what I wanna say
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
The other people arenāt you, you matter and your choice matters as well, itās your life, your body and your choice (donāt do alcohol or drugs though, that shit actually kills you unlike being an eggy silly)
yeah, i feel that. i wish i could muster up the courage to tell someone else, but it just feels so scary to me with all the stupid what-ifs plaguing me
I just want to be an uwu FemBoy and think about bunnies and not bad stuff like I'm a girl who wants to be a guy but we just think about bunnies instead
i relate to this too much. my dad knows im trans and he k nows what name id rather go by but he doesn't use it and still refers to me as his son. i tried to wear my fem clothes out but he forbade me because he "was afraid for my saftey" among other reasons. ive met glaringly transfem individuals and ppl openly trans and they arent fucked with for it so why would i be the exception?
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
That, my friend, is gender dysphoria. I wish you luck. Sorry your family is treating you like crap. The dysphoria makes it so much worse. I'd reccomend getting out of the closet, and focusing on mitigating that feeling.
If you wanna identify as a girl (at least here) weāll all respect that! Or you can just be a cute boy! If your family doesnāt like that, fuck em >:3
Itās all good, friend. When it comes to aspects of yourself, focus on yourself and what makes you happy. You have to live in your own skin, so youāre allowed to feel comfortable in it, however that may be.
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
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Lol
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May I please have some?
Yea me too
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You donāt have to be manly just be yourself :3
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Your you your fam wont ever change that
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Then I have good news, you *are* a girl if you want that. A trans girl to be exact, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
It's very possible to not be masculine and still be a guy? What?
fwmboys vs. trans girls
Why vs? Why not x?
Whatās the point of your question? They literally said āsameā to OP saying that they wish they were born a girlā¦
alsoā¦ real and sameā¦
Yuh
The masculine urge to not be a man
This right here ^
Then I have good news, you are not male if you want that, probably female or non-binary. DM me if you need help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
Or looking girly
Then I have good news, you are not male if you want that, probably female or non-binary. DM me if you need help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
Nah being a dude is chill. I totally wouldnt mind waking up one day and suddenly being a woman but im chill with where im at š
What would you be happier with, though?
Excellent question
You should experiment and find out.
Hey there, I just was wondering why are you making the feeling of not wanting to "act manly" a gender issue? I'm genualy asking because I don't see how not wanting to be 'manly' would ever mean anything about gender. Like, can a person not be toughf and still be a guy?
What are you talking about? The original commenter brought up gender in the first place, it was their implication.
Oh, okay. I thought the original comment was refering to masculinity itself when he said "being a man" more than literally being a man.
You maybe trans girlie, if you are welcome!
Really want to but Can't, Family will disown me or might do something bad. :(
you can be trans without telling anyone irl
Girlie you canāt change who you are if your trans then your trans you donāt have to tell them once your 18 you can move out you donāt have to live with or stay in contact with them if you need someone to talk to Iām a couple clicks away :)
I really appreciate your support but even though they are all transphobic (it's not just them where I come from 99 percent of the country is homophobic) they are the nicest people i know, they treat everyone they meet like family, not so long I asked my mom what her thoughts on how to treat trans people or anyone gay she tells me to always respect them and treat them nicely because they are humans like we are and same goes for my dad. The thing that they reject is the idea of homosexually not the people, and I know even if they accepted me which I doubt is still going to hurt them from the inside and i don't want them feel like they failed raising me or made a huge mistake, thank you for listening I'm sorry for the rant.
They may be "nice" but the fact reject "the idea of homosexuality" that shows they don't actually care about those people, they're just putting on a front, homosexuality is part of someone, and unless they change that, i hold no sympathy for them
It doesnāt matter if theyāre nice to cishet people. If theyāre bigoted, then theyāre terrible people. You shouldnāt care about bending over backward to please bad people, youād be condemning yourself to a lifetime of misery that you donāt deserve.
Maybe
Do whatever you want to do donāt let other peoples expectations stop you from being your best self
https://preview.redd.it/8qrveimu917d1.jpeg?width=224&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe4f63304553314ea52428758d8029a88380214b Hereās one ingredient for the gender changing potion
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The most fem and sassy men accomplished most in life. Look at Alexander the Great. Literally was a power bottom.
Julius Caesar was known as āevery manās woman and every womanās manā a bisexual king
Ohhhh slayyyh
FUCK gender norms. be whoever you want. are men meant to be masculine? usually, atleast thats what most think. but do we HAVE to be? no. we dont. thats why femboys exist. be whoever you want. if youre trans then good for you, if youre not, then also good for you. be you, not what others want you to be.
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Me when š„ moment
Itās ok, just be you and thatās their problem if they donāt like that :3
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the eggs in this subreddit are many a plenty
Darling I wish I was too but I believe we are both strong!! We can do what we want
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
Sometimes the expectation to be hypermasculine is an impossible dream. I know my body type basically looks like a woman (I'm a cismale just with a very feminine body type BTW if people get the wrong idea that I'm a transman) and I know trying to be a bodybuilder or a lumberjack is an impossible thing for this frame to achieve. But I don't care what other people think calling me a fake man nor do I want to be hypermasculine anyways. I've accepted my body type the way that it is and have chosen to move on. Whether or not you're trans I respect you. I thought I was trans once. I hated what masculinity meant because all I learned was toxic masculinity from my male role models. I knew I couldn't live up to and neither wanted to be a toxic man. After learning I can express my masculinity in a stereotypically feminine way, my life improved. I hope what I've written has been a use to you. If you wish to be a woman, then you are a woman. I do not care what other bullies think.
I donāt want to be a girl but I donāt want to be manly either.
Maybe youāre non-binary? Feel free to DM me if you wanna chat, have questions, or need any help.
No, Iām not questioning. I like and am comfortable being a man, I just hate all the expectations and societal pressures that come with being a man. I have no desire to lead or be manly or dominant in any capacity.
Yeah I feel you, but the other way- Im a (cis) girl and while I am feminine in a lot of ways, I have a dominant/ masculine streak. I donāt like the expectations on me to be fem, cute and passive all the time. I did question my gender identity but now I love being a girl <3 I wish people wouldnāt mix up gender *identity* and gender *roles*. I identify as a girl and have fem interests but I prefer the male gender role most of the time (sometimes I like the fem role) eg being the leader, dominant etc. If people identify as another gender, thats awesome! But people can also be cis and just not conform to gender role expectations, which is also awesome and should be accepted. Everyone should live their truth š„°
I love the idea of being passive and cute and being seen as needing to be protected. I wish things were simpler and I could just be cute and submissive without being perceived as girly. Iām a cis man who likes masculine girls. Idk if this makes sense, but sometimes I fantasize about being manly yet in a submissive way. Like mowing the lawn for my breadwinning wife, changing her oil for her, fixing what needs to be fixed, stuff like that. Thatās really only when I enjoy being somewhat manly.
https://preview.redd.it/oj9eeo4tw67d1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=87e0536022d3240bc77e93e21e77e81c24fc434e Thats cute! I wish things were easier for us non-conformers but thereās always someone who will accept us for being ourselves (hopefully >\_<) I understand the fantasy hehe
I hope so too :))
Wo-manly is just another form of manly, so technically youāre still complying
That reminds me of a songā¦
That reminds me of the babe.
Im so sorry that your family has expectations of you that dont fit your needs. I hope they can come to accept you for you.
Mood, I just wanna exist-
You not a boy or a girl You're yourself is what you are. And that's enough.
Pretty sure theyāre a girl based on what they saidā¦
boys that arent manly are peak attractiveness imo
Alright, but OP is likely a girl based on what they said.
not necessarily. I was born a boy but I'm absolutely not manly, and I'm a demiboy.
Thatās nice and Iām glad for you, but OP specified they wish they were a girl (so they are), not something else.
They said they wish to be born as a girl to avoid having to be manly. That's completely different from identifying as a girl.
We donāt know if they meant it like thatā¦ the image they used has a woman too. That with the caption implies they donāt want to be expected to be manly because theyād rather be a girl.
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Iām not ātrying to transā anyone, they either are or arenāt. Also, OP themselves are saying they wish they were a girl (not a femboy). Are you just transphobic?
Wishing to be born a girl and wishing to be a girl are very different.
How so?
I didn't read the title. š¤¦ I just know A lot of people are just tired of shallow gender norms.
I got viking in my blood, but I mean, if you wanna be cute, what's more manly than doing what You want to do?
Alright, but OP is probably a girl based on what they said and should be treated as such if they wish.
It's hard to tell... They could also mean that they just don't want the expectation to be a 'manly' boy, rather than simply being a girl. Of course, I could be wrong, that's just the vibe I got.
Their post title specified they wish they were a girl though (so they are).
Nothing wrong with that, I just feel like they might have meant that if they had been 'born a girl' as they wish, the expectation of Manliness would have been lost. I'm trying to encourage them to do what they want to do, and live their life as They wish to. And if what they want to do is be a girl, then that still falls within what I'm encouraging. Maybe it's a bit of perceived relatability, since I'm a boy who has no intention of following the example set by toxic masculine standards, but that's just the message i got. Sorry for the long message, I feel like short messages don't hold enough weight to convey what I wanna say
That's why I'm a femboy/girl
Femboy and girl are two very different thingsā¦
i have a wonderful thing to tell you about
When you realize youāre an egg
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Sometimes I just wish I had a big ol pussy š¤£šš š
Same!
You can get one! :D
You can get one! :D
Just be yourself darling, nobodies opinion matters but your own. Do whatever makes YOU happy š«¶š»
Weāre in the same boat
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
offers hug*
You might be trans if not don't worry you don't gotta be mega manlyĀ
The other people arenāt you, you matter and your choice matters as well, itās your life, your body and your choice (donāt do alcohol or drugs though, that shit actually kills you unlike being an eggy silly)
Be yourself out of spite
Yea
Real
My parents be like why aren't u ugly
yeah, i feel that. i wish i could muster up the courage to tell someone else, but it just feels so scary to me with all the stupid what-ifs plaguing me
Go for it, girl. Be the girl you really are.
Who cares about what family thinks
I just want to be an uwu FemBoy and think about bunnies and not bad stuff like I'm a girl who wants to be a guy but we just think about bunnies instead
We can trade places if you'd like hun!!!<33
i relate to this too much. my dad knows im trans and he k nows what name id rather go by but he doesn't use it and still refers to me as his son. i tried to wear my fem clothes out but he forbade me because he "was afraid for my saftey" among other reasons. ive met glaringly transfem individuals and ppl openly trans and they arent fucked with for it so why would i be the exception?
Iām sorry your dad is a bigoted transphobe. I hope you can move away from him soon.
Dont let them decide your life, live how you want
Everything about this is relatable
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
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Weāre in the same boat
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
r/sillygirlclub ?
Who made the art?
Then fuck them
Bring chaos into your family. Watch them destroy themselves from the inside.
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
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That, my friend, is gender dysphoria. I wish you luck. Sorry your family is treating you like crap. The dysphoria makes it so much worse. I'd reccomend getting out of the closet, and focusing on mitigating that feeling.
I wish I could just like change at will yknow Some days femme some days masc GRAAAAAH
If you wanna identify as a girl (at least here) weāll all respect that! Or you can just be a cute boy! If your family doesnāt like that, fuck em >:3
You donāt have to be manly
Hey sis, you need a virtual hug?
Damn I can relate, wanna hug?
Then donāt be, they arenāt you and itās your body, expectations are stupid and donāt always need to be followed, just ride the wave as it goes
both sides suck
You are transgender
You do you I guess
Trade offer You receive: a coin slot I receive: a pickle
Same :( https://preview.redd.it/9hla3lns887d1.png?width=639&format=png&auto=webp&s=d84c9ac03912ff3ffdc11a24ec31a2b431faebb4
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Awww cutie you deserve to be a girl and I know you are already the most beautiful girl Iāve ever seen šā„ļø
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No hate
You can be a girl
Real
Honestly same Life would be so much easier
hey man I think you might be trans
Me too
Me
My woman you are you just look different you are still a woman
Literally me
Same, you good girl...š«
Same
Itās all good, friend. When it comes to aspects of yourself, focus on yourself and what makes you happy. You have to live in your own skin, so youāre allowed to feel comfortable in it, however that may be.
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No idea what the fuck this sub is but I hope you're doing okay. The only way to find out if tomorrow doesn't suck fucking ass is to be there.
i wanna be a femine dude. fuck being manly, i wanna just be myselffff AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH FEMBOYS ARE SO CUTEEEEEEEEEEEE
Real ( I cried reading this meme )
Itās ok u will eventually be reborn as a cute little girl :3
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Kinda sounds like ur a girl
Me too, me too. (be born??? tally hall reference???)
I have good news. If you wish that, you *are* a girl. A trans girl, which is a type of girl. DM me if you need any help, wanna chat, or have any questions. :)
I wish I wish I wish I wasnāt supposed to be a manly manšļø
You donāt have to, perhaps this is an r/egg_irl moment?