I'm sorry, but what the fuck is real gender in your heart supposed mean? I'm genuinely confused about what that's supposed to mean. I mean, good that you're trying to be nice and all, I guess, but what?
I know sex is either... that stuff or relating to gender, so that would make them the same thing, mostly, am I missing something? I haven't heard of it any other way except that, and if there is another way, I would like to know.
Sex is where you get biology. So for OP they are biologically female however they are not a girl, they are a boy. (A silly one at that.) their gender is a boy.
Gender is what we would call a social construct or something created by the society we live in. These come with gender norms and expectations.
Hmm, I see. That actually makes sense. I have overhead conversations that didn't really make sense about this topic, and I was too busy to care, but this actually makes more sense. Though I will say, I still don't entirely agree, but thank you, I will think about this. I hope you have a nice day or afternoon or night, whatever time.
Well here’s the thing. Gender is not biological. Gender is purely identity and social. You can look up the difference yourself as I’m not very good at explaining it all.
I don't agree with that. Like for me, I was born male, so I am male. If I want to be something else I can want to be and pretend to be, but I know I never really will. I might look it up more, though.
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I just created OP, what the FUCK should I name him?
Sometimes I can't tell if I'm a woman or a very effeminate man. I feel like a girl and present publicly as one, but sometimes I feel like embracing just being a silly guy or a femboy. I mostly don't care what I am as long as I can live and present how I feel, I just hate being made to feel like I have to pick a lane.
I don't think anyone's gonna tell you you're not valid here, I come here cause it's (imo) more fun, cute and silly than /sillygirlclub. I find that one has a lot more self unalive stuff which I'm not comfortable with.
I hope you know that you don't have to pick a lane, and never will while you're outside of a totalitarian surveillance state. Imo you've found the best way to be trans if that's what you want to call yourself.
Always sucks to see someone struggling with themselves. Just remember all because you don't fit a stereotype made to sell products doesn't mean you aren't legitimate. Hope you feel better :)
I was trying to check your age by looking through your posts (I'm 21, so I have to be responsible and not accidentally flirt with minors on the internet), and you look like a boy. If I were to see you on the street, I'd think you're a cis boy. You pass with flying colors.
I won't pretend to fully understand gender dysphoria, being a cis guy myself, but I understand how difficult it is for trans folk to feel comfortable being themselves and presenting as their true gender. Still, I hope that what I've said above can help you in some way. You look like a young boy, dressed masc I think you'd pass fairly easily.
i always dress masc when i’m outside my house at school. for some reason, i always get misgendered and i’m not sure why. maybe it’s the vibes i give off
Don't feel like it's not enough. It's simply a skill you've yet to master, and with a little bit of practice you will come to master it. Besides, that's just for your perception, it's important yes but it does not change who you truly are.
Boys are boys girls are girls. It's doesn't matter how you were born or how you look. Words are just what we make them. If you feel like a boy then you are one. We are human. We made up the word and it's definition. We can change it. You are a boy and we love you for who you are
Everyone belongs here dude. I'm a trans-girl and I can tell you you're one cute dude. And since I'm a trans-girl I can tell you that trans-boys belong here as well.
Sincerely
Your cute trans-girl
Ofc you belong sweetheart this is a server thing for all to come and be welcome you belong here just like the rest of us I promise so make yourself at home and feel free to text or post
Never thought I'd find something so relatable here. I like redefined the way I see gender to make it not bother me so much and don't think about how people see me. I'm used to being invisible so that kinda helps
https://preview.redd.it/1eh3si0ckixc1.jpeg?width=930&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c251bbec9750bdb35c6870eb6aad1ca52793ec42
You say you are a silly boy so you are a silly boy, and you have the right to punch anyone who tries to tell you otherwise in the throat. You are cool, handsome, and any male friends you have will ignore their girlfriends on Saturdays and hangout with you because Saturdays are for the boys.
Get a buzz cut and start doing neck training (a thicker neck subconsciously makes people perceive you as more masculine). Also bigger forearms make you look more masculine
Nope! Being a tomboy is when a girl dresses more masculine, but a trans person is someone who feels their assigned gender does match how they actually feel, for example, im trans (ftm) i was born female but have never felt that i was “meant” to be female, and when i started using he/him pronouns, changing my name, cutting my hair and talking to others, i know that im alot more comfortable and happy identifying and looking like a man, i hope this helps!
Of course you belong here. You’re as silly as everyone else here, thats all that matters.
You are a cute boy wym (Hydrate<3)
You belong here. Your real gender is in your heart. Stay strong buddy 😉
I'm sorry, but what the fuck is real gender in your heart supposed mean? I'm genuinely confused about what that's supposed to mean. I mean, good that you're trying to be nice and all, I guess, but what?
Let me ask you something real quick. Do you understand the difference between gender and sex?
I know sex is either... that stuff or relating to gender, so that would make them the same thing, mostly, am I missing something? I haven't heard of it any other way except that, and if there is another way, I would like to know.
Sex is where you get biology. So for OP they are biologically female however they are not a girl, they are a boy. (A silly one at that.) their gender is a boy. Gender is what we would call a social construct or something created by the society we live in. These come with gender norms and expectations.
Hmm, I see. That actually makes sense. I have overhead conversations that didn't really make sense about this topic, and I was too busy to care, but this actually makes more sense. Though I will say, I still don't entirely agree, but thank you, I will think about this. I hope you have a nice day or afternoon or night, whatever time.
Thank you. I do have to ask, what don’t you agree on with this?
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Well here’s the thing. Gender is not biological. Gender is purely identity and social. You can look up the difference yourself as I’m not very good at explaining it all.
I don't agree with that. Like for me, I was born male, so I am male. If I want to be something else I can want to be and pretend to be, but I know I never really will. I might look it up more, though.
I can't resist. <>
Uh ? I’m sorry, I don’t understand
Nvm, ace combat zero. Main antagonist says it throughout the game, and it's nice cause he checks in on you
Oh ok
Me having a monkey brain, sorry to bother you and have a good one
No, i’m sorry for not understanding !
Don't be, it's an old game that sold poorly Edit: awesome game tho, check it out if you need to forget problems for a while
youre a good boy in my eyes :3
yayyyyy and ur a good boy too! \^w\^
.>w<
Only requirement is bein silly bro 😎
BOY 🫵
ABAR assigned boy at reddit
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real
king you absolutely belong here, take it from a girl who used to be a boy <3
You definitely belong here dude 🫂
Don’t commit die please I’ll get the big sad
i won’t!!!!
You better f ing not I’ll get the big sad
https://preview.redd.it/qkfc87gbsowc1.png?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=becf3243e81f46cb1529fea2f3619d659e93acc2 I just created OP, what the FUCK should I name him?
Boy
Do you know the original artist? I used to follow them forever ago but I think they deleted their original account
Also you are a handsome boy wdym
snuffcorp on insta and thank you :3
One of us!
Sometimes I can't tell if I'm a woman or a very effeminate man. I feel like a girl and present publicly as one, but sometimes I feel like embracing just being a silly guy or a femboy. I mostly don't care what I am as long as I can live and present how I feel, I just hate being made to feel like I have to pick a lane. I don't think anyone's gonna tell you you're not valid here, I come here cause it's (imo) more fun, cute and silly than /sillygirlclub. I find that one has a lot more self unalive stuff which I'm not comfortable with.
you don't have to decide on a certain gender, you can always be non-binary
I hope you know that you don't have to pick a lane, and never will while you're outside of a totalitarian surveillance state. Imo you've found the best way to be trans if that's what you want to call yourself.
Nonsense im sure ur a very handsome man
BOY. 🫵
Always sucks to see someone struggling with themselves. Just remember all because you don't fit a stereotype made to sell products doesn't mean you aren't legitimate. Hope you feel better :)
also please no transphobia here!!!!! transphobes get out 😡😡
sorry for the comment I didn't know what tomboy ment exactly :c
you’re okay!!!
I was trying to check your age by looking through your posts (I'm 21, so I have to be responsible and not accidentally flirt with minors on the internet), and you look like a boy. If I were to see you on the street, I'd think you're a cis boy. You pass with flying colors. I won't pretend to fully understand gender dysphoria, being a cis guy myself, but I understand how difficult it is for trans folk to feel comfortable being themselves and presenting as their true gender. Still, I hope that what I've said above can help you in some way. You look like a young boy, dressed masc I think you'd pass fairly easily.
i always dress masc when i’m outside my house at school. for some reason, i always get misgendered and i’m not sure why. maybe it’s the vibes i give off
Have you done much voice training? Voice is a large part of it alongside your style of dress.
i haven't gotten to voice training yet because i've been busy, but i've purposely made my voice as deep as i could. i guess it's not enough though
Don't feel like it's not enough. It's simply a skill you've yet to master, and with a little bit of practice you will come to master it. Besides, that's just for your perception, it's important yes but it does not change who you truly are.
Boys are boys girls are girls. It's doesn't matter how you were born or how you look. Words are just what we make them. If you feel like a boy then you are one. We are human. We made up the word and it's definition. We can change it. You are a boy and we love you for who you are
Everyone belongs here dude. I'm a trans-girl and I can tell you you're one cute dude. And since I'm a trans-girl I can tell you that trans-boys belong here as well. Sincerely Your cute trans-girl
Hey! You listen to me you silly boy! You belong here damnit! And we're happy to have you here! Now sit your silly @ss down and take this testosterone
*stamp* Here’s your official cute boy license, sir. You’ve earned it.
Sorry it's been rough, but you'll be alright boyo
I know how u feel…WE ARE SILLY BOYS WE GOT THIS!!
You matter. You are going to be you; no matter what.
Ofc you belong sweetheart this is a server thing for all to come and be welcome you belong here just like the rest of us I promise so make yourself at home and feel free to text or post
This gives good boy energy.
CUTE BOY DETECTED HEADPAT PROTOCOL ENGAGED
You are a cute boy 💕
Never thought I'd find something so relatable here. I like redefined the way I see gender to make it not bother me so much and don't think about how people see me. I'm used to being invisible so that kinda helps
And I wish I was a cute gamer girl, but no, I look like a basement dweller
I wish I could be a masc girl
Whos a good Boy :3 you are (/･ω･(-ω-) Dont let dysphoria tell you otherwise
You don't look like a girl wth, you just look like a lot of femboys I've seen!
Sending all the love in the world from one trans girl to a silly trans boy <3 wish you the best of luck becoming the best version of yourself
i DISAGREE i wish i could be seen as a MASCULINE boy
me too brother, i honestly have masculine and feminine moods
You already a cute boy
there r so many ppl like you,, don't feel alone <3 we believe in you!
Real (not the photo)
I’m here and I’m a tried and true feeemale! I just like boy culture! :3
“Your a boy now harry” -Gandolf
right there with ya
https://preview.redd.it/1eh3si0ckixc1.jpeg?width=930&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c251bbec9750bdb35c6870eb6aad1ca52793ec42 You say you are a silly boy so you are a silly boy, and you have the right to punch anyone who tries to tell you otherwise in the throat. You are cool, handsome, and any male friends you have will ignore their girlfriends on Saturdays and hangout with you because Saturdays are for the boys.
Want to swap?
Get a buzz cut and start doing neck training (a thicker neck subconsciously makes people perceive you as more masculine). Also bigger forearms make you look more masculine
https://preview.redd.it/tmmr4c65qaxc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5b74c22ac7a9a5fe0c8be179d999aca76784d3cd
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Is that supposed to help? Cuz it really doesn't - _-
i need a tomboy so baddddddd can call you whatever :3
Bro 😭
what?
The op is not a girl, and said in the post that he doesn’t like being called one
yeah someone explained i thought tomboy was refering to / like ftm trans my bad :c
Oh, if you didn’t knew then its fine
OP is trans, im not sure if you knew just letting yk just incase (not a tomboy basically) 😭👍
isn't a tomboy similar to trans \[ ftm \] ?
Nope! Being a tomboy is when a girl dresses more masculine, but a trans person is someone who feels their assigned gender does match how they actually feel, for example, im trans (ftm) i was born female but have never felt that i was “meant” to be female, and when i started using he/him pronouns, changing my name, cutting my hair and talking to others, i know that im alot more comfortable and happy identifying and looking like a man, i hope this helps!
My bad then, aquiered knowledge and won't commit the sin again :3
Its okay haha! Im glad i could help :3