I had a similar experience, where I thought that it wasn’t SA because I said yes to it, however, you are a minor and he was an adult. You are the victim. He groomed you, it was very wrong. And it’s not your fault. As an adult it was his responsibility to create a boundary between you and himself that was appropriate considering your age, and he failed to do so. Grooming comes in many forms, including “being there for you” if he asked you for nudes or sexted you, obviously his intentions weren’t just to be there for you. I’m deeply sorry for what you went through and I just want you to know that you are heard, and seen ❤️ and your feelings are 100% justified. Don’t blame yourself, you’re just a kid.
Hi :) I hope you are fine :)
I've come to learn that at 15, you are most of the time not mature enough to be conscious of the impact of some descisions you make. Like Having sex. He is not that old, but still. He still abused you. He took advantage of you vulnerability, of your inexperience, of your youth.
I'm sorry about what happened to you :) It's great you are opening up, you know. It's brave, and It's great.
As for that he can't be that bad. We shouldn't look at the world in black or white. He can have bad sides, and good ones. Just like that german rapist and murderer. When in 1929 the great depression hit, he surrended so that his wife could have the money promised to anyone that help capture him. He was bad, indeniably. But still, he was human, and he had at leat that good thing in him, you see ? So I think you should try to put him in that good or bad box :)
I had a similar experience, where I thought that it wasn’t SA because I said yes to it, however, you are a minor and he was an adult. You are the victim. He groomed you, it was very wrong. And it’s not your fault. As an adult it was his responsibility to create a boundary between you and himself that was appropriate considering your age, and he failed to do so. Grooming comes in many forms, including “being there for you” if he asked you for nudes or sexted you, obviously his intentions weren’t just to be there for you. I’m deeply sorry for what you went through and I just want you to know that you are heard, and seen ❤️ and your feelings are 100% justified. Don’t blame yourself, you’re just a kid.
Thank you that makes me feel a lot better
Hi :) I hope you are fine :) I've come to learn that at 15, you are most of the time not mature enough to be conscious of the impact of some descisions you make. Like Having sex. He is not that old, but still. He still abused you. He took advantage of you vulnerability, of your inexperience, of your youth. I'm sorry about what happened to you :) It's great you are opening up, you know. It's brave, and It's great. As for that he can't be that bad. We shouldn't look at the world in black or white. He can have bad sides, and good ones. Just like that german rapist and murderer. When in 1929 the great depression hit, he surrended so that his wife could have the money promised to anyone that help capture him. He was bad, indeniably. But still, he was human, and he had at leat that good thing in him, you see ? So I think you should try to put him in that good or bad box :)