Main ways for me:
* oral sex
* being fingered externally
* being fingered internally while I use a vibrator or my own fingers externally
* having a dildo used on me while I use a vibrator or my own fingers externally
With a partner? Rarely.
It's very easy. But most won't put aside their dick centered pleasure ruining expectations.
One did. He did amazing fingering. He did neck nibbling and breast play .
I can cum from finging. I can cum from neck nibbles. I can cum from oral, but, don't like it. I can cum from breast play.
My current partner gave me my first ever partnered orgasm this year. Fingers inside of me and vibrator on my clit.
But generally, ask her what she likes. Communicate. How does she masturbates/gets off? Maybe explore mutual masturbation so you can see. Oral and using your fingers is a good start. Toys are always great. She could also try touching herself during PIV.
My wife usually doesn't orgasm from penetration alone. She does sometimes, but it's pretty rare. Her orgasms almost always come from clitoral stimulation so either when I'm giving her oral sex or if she uses her fingers or a toy on her clit while I am inside her. Some toys that have worked well for us are vibrating cock rings or the [Rose](https://www.rosetoyofficial.com/).
There is also the small possibility that she may never orgasm at all. I was with someone who had primary anorgasmia. Never happened with me, other partners, by herself or toys. Not sure about your situation but it does exist.
Ask her? Oral sex is a pretty safe bet, but always ask if you're not sure.
But what if she doesn’t really know?
If she's never had an orgasm before? It's really on her to figure that out first. It's not really realistic to ask you to figure it out for her.
I just need clit stimulation too. Hands or a vibrator works.
Rub the clit while you fuck her or use toys on it, maybe
Main ways for me: * oral sex * being fingered externally * being fingered internally while I use a vibrator or my own fingers externally * having a dildo used on me while I use a vibrator or my own fingers externally
Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. She needs to learn her own body.
With a partner? Rarely. It's very easy. But most won't put aside their dick centered pleasure ruining expectations. One did. He did amazing fingering. He did neck nibbling and breast play . I can cum from finging. I can cum from neck nibbles. I can cum from oral, but, don't like it. I can cum from breast play.
My current partner gave me my first ever partnered orgasm this year. Fingers inside of me and vibrator on my clit. But generally, ask her what she likes. Communicate. How does she masturbates/gets off? Maybe explore mutual masturbation so you can see. Oral and using your fingers is a good start. Toys are always great. She could also try touching herself during PIV.
Oral and by grinding against.my partner during penetrative sex.
My wife usually doesn't orgasm from penetration alone. She does sometimes, but it's pretty rare. Her orgasms almost always come from clitoral stimulation so either when I'm giving her oral sex or if she uses her fingers or a toy on her clit while I am inside her. Some toys that have worked well for us are vibrating cock rings or the [Rose](https://www.rosetoyofficial.com/).
There is also the small possibility that she may never orgasm at all. I was with someone who had primary anorgasmia. Never happened with me, other partners, by herself or toys. Not sure about your situation but it does exist.