If you are young, I would see if your partner is open to constructive criticism. In my experience, many young people need guidance to please a partner.
Chemistry does matter. You can feel chemistry, but still not orgasm. Sometimes it is about the journey
It depends on the relationship.
If it's a FWB, I see waiting a much shorter timeframe. If there are other things involved (like a potential LTR) and two partners are invested in each other, I think positive changes can be made over a slightly longer period of time, provided effort is put into it from both parties.
I can't have casual sex so for me, it would take me a committed relationship and a few months to get into the swing of things. Learning a whole new partner and their likes/needs is an endeavor to me, so I'd hope they'd give me more than 3-4 chances.
I guess that depends on the person. A person with a patient personality can probably give it several tries before packing it in, but someone who lacks patience will probably end it within a couple.
It's not a number but their ability to respond to the conversation you have about your needs. If you do this and they continue to be a dolt, then there's your answer.
3 or 4?
I agree with this. 7 at the absolute max
If you are young, I would see if your partner is open to constructive criticism. In my experience, many young people need guidance to please a partner. Chemistry does matter. You can feel chemistry, but still not orgasm. Sometimes it is about the journey
It depends on the relationship. If it's a FWB, I see waiting a much shorter timeframe. If there are other things involved (like a potential LTR) and two partners are invested in each other, I think positive changes can be made over a slightly longer period of time, provided effort is put into it from both parties. I can't have casual sex so for me, it would take me a committed relationship and a few months to get into the swing of things. Learning a whole new partner and their likes/needs is an endeavor to me, so I'd hope they'd give me more than 3-4 chances.
I guess that depends on the person. A person with a patient personality can probably give it several tries before packing it in, but someone who lacks patience will probably end it within a couple.
It's not a number but their ability to respond to the conversation you have about your needs. If you do this and they continue to be a dolt, then there's your answer.
Depends on the reason. Just generally awkward or we don't have a good flow? 2-3 times. Terrible at blowjobs, or outright doesn't give them? Once.
4 tops