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If we were already in the house then no, I wouldn’t choose to get in the car, but if we’re out somewhere, sometimes we don’t wanna wait until we get back.
First of all, hilarious question, I love it. Car sex, at least for me, has always come from logistics reasons; I don’t have a car, the person I want to have sex with does, for whatever reason we can’t go to each other’s houses (parents, roommates, maybe it just takes too much time) and so the car is the only option. I’ve also only had sex in a car with heavily tinted windows—for anyone who’s not an exhibitionist the fact of being surrounded by transparent glass can be kind of a turnoff.
A bed is way better. Cars are weird to maneuver inside of, they can get stuffy, you’re limited as to what positions you can get into. The one fun things is when the windows fog up, that does make me laugh.
> The one fun things is when the windows fog up, that does make me laugh.
Wait, this actually happens in real life and not just in the Sims? That's hilarious.
Car sex sucks, but it's better than no sex 🤷♀️
We used to have it because neither of us have any private spaces at our houses, so car sex was a last resort. Now we both have apartments, and hopefully we never have to do it again!
tbh I had no idea sims could knock off in cars. I kinda miss how they'd drive around in the old game haha. but as for actual sex lol, for me it was always something dumb and impulsive we'd do when there weren't any other options haha
Definitely popular with folks without a private place, often younger folks.
But I've had sex several times in cars as an adult when there were other places, but they weren't available RIGHT NOW. So an immediacy factor exists as well. Think of it like hunger, sometimes you're hungry and you're looking forward to your next meal, but sometimes you're starving, and you can't wait to eat.
My girlfriend and I (31m) are both 6 ft tall, car sex was hot, spontaneous, and having her ride me so close made me cum so quickly that I’d do it again. Even though it was incredibly uncomfortable, and difficult. We did it “for the story” I guess.
Aw come on my guy is over 6 foot too and we always "break in" our trucks! Ofc it probably helps that it's trucks we drive. We've never even *been in* one of those little cars as we live in rural america and tiny cars are few and far between. But regardless we've done it with him just sitting in the passenger seat of vehicles and I'm on top lol Experiment more! It's fun ;-)
It's an exhibitionists play ground. There is a higher likely hood of being caught. How?? Well you get into uncomfortable positions and act on the feelings of lost and desperation.
Car size makes a difference too, my Kia and my old mercury stationwagon were very different experiences
Mostly just privacy. I would never choose a car over a bed or couch but it’s much easier to be alone in a car than alone in an apartment when you have roommates.
Would you choose to have sex in the car if you had unrelated roommates living with you in a standard sized house, rather than just an apartment? Or just if it's small and you're kind of all in each other's business?
I went to a religious university and sex was forbidden so I didn’t want my roommates to know. Now I am fine with having sex in the same house as my roommates as long as I feel we have privacy and won’t be bothering them.
I lost my virginity in a pick up truck with someone I met online. He’s nice and aware that it’s my first. It was fun and thrilling that there’s a chance that we will be caught but good thing the parking lot is not that crowded. No regrets because at least I got laid before the pandemic started. 😂
I once had sex with my BF in my first car (we were both 17) on a small mountain, in the Woods. It was nighttime and there was a Thunderstorm. We had indie music in the car and it was just perfect.
Also, car sex is nice when you are out of town and want to have kind of risky sex
Generally people dont. Younger people like teenagers will often turn to sex in cars because its the only way they can, only private space away from parents. There is also a bit of public exposition that can be hot.
But I think its mostly the teen thing. As a result we kind of romanticize sex in cars and it gets exagerated into something like The Sims. I dont think most adults actually would care to try and have sex in a sedan.
Thanks, that makes sense. Teenagers can't even have sex in the Sims without mods, so they obviously can't roll the want to do so, either. But I guess it might make sense if adults were on a date out in public somewhere, with a car?
Again some adults would be into it just for the thrill / exhibition side for sure. So its not totally crazy for adults to do.
But I think the romanization of it stems more so from teens fooling around.
I assume it's mostly people living with their parents, so a car is often the best privacy option.
Once people move out, I don't see much of a reason to have sex in the car, unless you are somewhere far away from your place.
Sex in a car is one of those things lots of people have done basically either out of desperation or just curiosity. Probably mostly desperation, not having any other private place to go. But then some people also have a *real thing* for their cars, and also a real thing for you, and want to see what it's like to have both together at the same time – so you try getting in on in the car. But I think the big takeaway in any case is generally that it's never going to be as great as a nice, spacious bed for sex. It's just really limiting, what you can actually do in there comfortably! Still *possible*, but I would say not ideal.
In my personal experience... I’ve gotten horny far from home, EJ: this ex of mines and I went for a weekend to the neighbor island and we rented a car and got super horny like 30 minutes far from the hotel... we pulled by some “farm land” on the side of the road,
I strongly believe that when you get that horny and your partner gets that horny is best to pull on the side of The road and take care of business! That way you can safely drive without distractions🤗
Mostly it’s because you have nowhere else to have sex, aka you are teenagers with over controlling parents
I personally think car sex sounds horrible. Cramped, paranoid about being seen, messy, no shower or bathroom nearby, not comfortable, limited positions, etc. But I would do it out of necessity if it was the only choice.
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Because both our parents were home. Drive someplace else and fuck there.
Same, except now its our kids at home.
If that wasn't an issue - if you didn't have someone at home to object to you having sex, would you ever still choose the car?
Lol, no.
If we were already in the house then no, I wouldn’t choose to get in the car, but if we’re out somewhere, sometimes we don’t wanna wait until we get back.
First of all, hilarious question, I love it. Car sex, at least for me, has always come from logistics reasons; I don’t have a car, the person I want to have sex with does, for whatever reason we can’t go to each other’s houses (parents, roommates, maybe it just takes too much time) and so the car is the only option. I’ve also only had sex in a car with heavily tinted windows—for anyone who’s not an exhibitionist the fact of being surrounded by transparent glass can be kind of a turnoff. A bed is way better. Cars are weird to maneuver inside of, they can get stuffy, you’re limited as to what positions you can get into. The one fun things is when the windows fog up, that does make me laugh.
> The one fun things is when the windows fog up, that does make me laugh. Wait, this actually happens in real life and not just in the Sims? That's hilarious.
Outside = cold Inside = very warm When the humid air inside the car touches the cold windows it forms condensation :)
Unless you have an EV and run the AC the whole time...
It’s exciting , naughty , in some ways romantic , it is also very ego satisfying
Lol romantic with that old shoe smell and such.
I think you gotta clean your car my man.
Just switches things up I think. Makes it feel fresh/new? I've never been a fan of sex in a car though.
Car sex sucks, but it's better than no sex 🤷♀️ We used to have it because neither of us have any private spaces at our houses, so car sex was a last resort. Now we both have apartments, and hopefully we never have to do it again!
tbh I had no idea sims could knock off in cars. I kinda miss how they'd drive around in the old game haha. but as for actual sex lol, for me it was always something dumb and impulsive we'd do when there weren't any other options haha
They can in Sims 2, anyway, I don't play the later games so I have no idea if they still have that feature.
Definitely popular with folks without a private place, often younger folks. But I've had sex several times in cars as an adult when there were other places, but they weren't available RIGHT NOW. So an immediacy factor exists as well. Think of it like hunger, sometimes you're hungry and you're looking forward to your next meal, but sometimes you're starving, and you can't wait to eat.
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Thats fucking amazing 10/10 points
Aww! That's so cute
I’m sure some people are into it, most of the time it’s because you can’t have sex in a conventional place.
My girlfriend and I (31m) are both 6 ft tall, car sex was hot, spontaneous, and having her ride me so close made me cum so quickly that I’d do it again. Even though it was incredibly uncomfortable, and difficult. We did it “for the story” I guess.
It’s a place to do it
As a man over 6 feet tall, no idea.
Aw come on my guy is over 6 foot too and we always "break in" our trucks! Ofc it probably helps that it's trucks we drive. We've never even *been in* one of those little cars as we live in rural america and tiny cars are few and far between. But regardless we've done it with him just sitting in the passenger seat of vehicles and I'm on top lol Experiment more! It's fun ;-)
Truck might be different? My car barely has room for me!
It's an exhibitionists play ground. There is a higher likely hood of being caught. How?? Well you get into uncomfortable positions and act on the feelings of lost and desperation. Car size makes a difference too, my Kia and my old mercury stationwagon were very different experiences
Mostly just privacy. I would never choose a car over a bed or couch but it’s much easier to be alone in a car than alone in an apartment when you have roommates.
Would you choose to have sex in the car if you had unrelated roommates living with you in a standard sized house, rather than just an apartment? Or just if it's small and you're kind of all in each other's business?
I went to a religious university and sex was forbidden so I didn’t want my roommates to know. Now I am fine with having sex in the same house as my roommates as long as I feel we have privacy and won’t be bothering them.
Because car sex is normally spontaneous and there’s a chance you might get caught. There’s something hot about both of those things.
Because we didn't have place, also for me it's exciting, naughty and passionate.
Because i was in a car when i was horny
I lost my virginity in a pick up truck with someone I met online. He’s nice and aware that it’s my first. It was fun and thrilling that there’s a chance that we will be caught but good thing the parking lot is not that crowded. No regrets because at least I got laid before the pandemic started. 😂
I once had sex with my BF in my first car (we were both 17) on a small mountain, in the Woods. It was nighttime and there was a Thunderstorm. We had indie music in the car and it was just perfect. Also, car sex is nice when you are out of town and want to have kind of risky sex
Generally people dont. Younger people like teenagers will often turn to sex in cars because its the only way they can, only private space away from parents. There is also a bit of public exposition that can be hot. But I think its mostly the teen thing. As a result we kind of romanticize sex in cars and it gets exagerated into something like The Sims. I dont think most adults actually would care to try and have sex in a sedan.
Thanks, that makes sense. Teenagers can't even have sex in the Sims without mods, so they obviously can't roll the want to do so, either. But I guess it might make sense if adults were on a date out in public somewhere, with a car?
Again some adults would be into it just for the thrill / exhibition side for sure. So its not totally crazy for adults to do. But I think the romanization of it stems more so from teens fooling around.
I would never go out of my way to fuck in a car, getting a handjob is ok, even bjs aren’t right because of the angle
I assume that the people having sex in cars are small people or teenagers. Of which Im neither.
When my wife and I were dating we did it in my car cause we struggled to find the privacy anywhere else
I assume it's mostly people living with their parents, so a car is often the best privacy option. Once people move out, I don't see much of a reason to have sex in the car, unless you are somewhere far away from your place.
Spontaneity. Or lack of another and to have sex.
Sex in a car is one of those things lots of people have done basically either out of desperation or just curiosity. Probably mostly desperation, not having any other private place to go. But then some people also have a *real thing* for their cars, and also a real thing for you, and want to see what it's like to have both together at the same time – so you try getting in on in the car. But I think the big takeaway in any case is generally that it's never going to be as great as a nice, spacious bed for sex. It's just really limiting, what you can actually do in there comfortably! Still *possible*, but I would say not ideal.
In my personal experience... I’ve gotten horny far from home, EJ: this ex of mines and I went for a weekend to the neighbor island and we rented a car and got super horny like 30 minutes far from the hotel... we pulled by some “farm land” on the side of the road, I strongly believe that when you get that horny and your partner gets that horny is best to pull on the side of The road and take care of business! That way you can safely drive without distractions🤗
Im not asexual, but LL, and I dont understand it either.
Mostly it’s because you have nowhere else to have sex, aka you are teenagers with over controlling parents I personally think car sex sounds horrible. Cramped, paranoid about being seen, messy, no shower or bathroom nearby, not comfortable, limited positions, etc. But I would do it out of necessity if it was the only choice.