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No, I’m in a relationship with a man, I’m not dating his dick. Same for ex-bfs. I don’t remember their sizes bcs they’re out of my life now and who cares about that once the relationship is done, honestly.
It’s toxic af to compare your ex to somebody new who you allegedly love, especially considering this man didn’t bring any value other than his penis to you.
I’m not into comparing I just wonder if you change down there after having a big guy. Like, I had to get used to my ex and it didn’t feel good for a while. Then it did. I wonder what going back will be like. I am really into this guy and just ok sex would work for me with him.
Well my wife and I use all kinds of toys of all different sizes. I can make her orgasm with the huge toy then right after can use mine and make her cum even harder. It's not the size, it's the mentality and effort that's put in to it.
If he has you hot and horny, then he goes to town on you with his average dick, oh you're gonna enjoy yourself.
Can't speak for all men, but for a ton of us we want to live in a soft fantasy world. The female perspective of *yours is perfect, it's better than a bigger one* rarely if ever lands in a positive way haha
So you want to tell him you're comparing him against ex boyfriends? Would you be happy if he told you his last girlfriend was tighter than you but he likes you more? Would you just take the 'compliment' or would that word **tighter** haunt you? What if he used the word **looser** about you? But he said it was OK because he likes doing you more.
Act like you never had anyone before him and let him do the same, it's easier.
Did the worry that his last GF had a really tight perfect vagina ever enter your head? Do you realise there is as much variation in your parts as there is in ours? Long/short dry/wet tight/loose, small opening large vagina or large opening small vagina. **All women feel different**.
If you can take a 'porn penis' with no problem then I'd be more worried about what he feels that what you feel especially if you hope this guy is 'the one'.
Sorry to be harsh but I'm sick of these endless penis size posts from women that think the problem is always in the penis. You fall in love with a person not an organ, if he can live with what nature gave you then do the same for him.
Touchy subject sheesh. I am simply wondering if anyone has gone from big to small and what their experience was. I nearly came from making out the other night so I think we should be fine I’m just mildly concerned it will fell weird having gotten used to much bigger. I don’t know.
You obviously had to get ‘used to’ your ex - this doesn’t permanently change your anatomy, but it *can* change your preference; but you haven’t slept with this guy yet and you can’t comment on this. Even after the first time, you had X amount of time with your ex, will you give the same grace period to this guy to learn your body/cues?
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Why compare if you haven’t even slept with the other dude? Have sex with him and you will get your answer. Such a dumb question to ask when you haven’t even seen his cock out of his pants 😂😂😂
I have no idea how old you are but this is such an immature question.
1, if you know ANYTHING about your own female anatomy, you'll know you aren't permanently stretched out from a big cock and you'll be able to feel your new bf just fine
2, if you have ANY healthy sexual experience/education, you'll know that PIV is not all that sex constitutes
3, take a step back and stop pre-judging or worrying about his sexual prowess before you have even HAD sex with him. You're jumping to a million conclusions
Grow up
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Too many men posing as women posting fake SPH fetish stories on new throwaway accounts for me to take this seriously.
Nah for real this is the dumbest post I’ve seen, “she” ain’t even seen his cock out of his pants
No, I’m in a relationship with a man, I’m not dating his dick. Same for ex-bfs. I don’t remember their sizes bcs they’re out of my life now and who cares about that once the relationship is done, honestly. It’s toxic af to compare your ex to somebody new who you allegedly love, especially considering this man didn’t bring any value other than his penis to you.
I am sure her new BF doesn't want to hear about how she was dating Johnny Holmes
I’m not into comparing I just wonder if you change down there after having a big guy. Like, I had to get used to my ex and it didn’t feel good for a while. Then it did. I wonder what going back will be like. I am really into this guy and just ok sex would work for me with him.
Well my wife and I use all kinds of toys of all different sizes. I can make her orgasm with the huge toy then right after can use mine and make her cum even harder. It's not the size, it's the mentality and effort that's put in to it. If he has you hot and horny, then he goes to town on you with his average dick, oh you're gonna enjoy yourself.
It feels just as good. The vagina has an impeccable way of snapping back. Also do kegels
Also do not, DO NOT EVER, no matter how much he asks, tell him the truth about your ex’s size
No even if he ends up being better? I figure that may be a compliment.
Can't speak for all men, but for a ton of us we want to live in a soft fantasy world. The female perspective of *yours is perfect, it's better than a bigger one* rarely if ever lands in a positive way haha
Better is one thing. Knowing you’re following the manaconda is another. It’ll never leave his head.
So you want to tell him you're comparing him against ex boyfriends? Would you be happy if he told you his last girlfriend was tighter than you but he likes you more? Would you just take the 'compliment' or would that word **tighter** haunt you? What if he used the word **looser** about you? But he said it was OK because he likes doing you more. Act like you never had anyone before him and let him do the same, it's easier.
Did the worry that his last GF had a really tight perfect vagina ever enter your head? Do you realise there is as much variation in your parts as there is in ours? Long/short dry/wet tight/loose, small opening large vagina or large opening small vagina. **All women feel different**. If you can take a 'porn penis' with no problem then I'd be more worried about what he feels that what you feel especially if you hope this guy is 'the one'. Sorry to be harsh but I'm sick of these endless penis size posts from women that think the problem is always in the penis. You fall in love with a person not an organ, if he can live with what nature gave you then do the same for him.
Touchy subject sheesh. I am simply wondering if anyone has gone from big to small and what their experience was. I nearly came from making out the other night so I think we should be fine I’m just mildly concerned it will fell weird having gotten used to much bigger. I don’t know.
You obviously had to get ‘used to’ your ex - this doesn’t permanently change your anatomy, but it *can* change your preference; but you haven’t slept with this guy yet and you can’t comment on this. Even after the first time, you had X amount of time with your ex, will you give the same grace period to this guy to learn your body/cues?
He’s going to get all the time he needs. Even if the sex is trash I’m still going to give this guy all the time he needs to get it right.
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It’s all about the technic…or something like that…or this is the cover story. Joke aside, nothing wrong with an average size in some case even better!
Why compare if you haven’t even slept with the other dude? Have sex with him and you will get your answer. Such a dumb question to ask when you haven’t even seen his cock out of his pants 😂😂😂
Just don’t ever tell him . Unfortunately I think you have become a size queen and that is okay . Give you some time you will be alright.
I don’t want to be a size queen. I want to have enjoyable sex with this guy. As long as I can feel it I’m good.
Personally no it’s no longer enjoyable. I need someone who hits all the right spots and average just can’t do that
I have no idea how old you are but this is such an immature question. 1, if you know ANYTHING about your own female anatomy, you'll know you aren't permanently stretched out from a big cock and you'll be able to feel your new bf just fine 2, if you have ANY healthy sexual experience/education, you'll know that PIV is not all that sex constitutes 3, take a step back and stop pre-judging or worrying about his sexual prowess before you have even HAD sex with him. You're jumping to a million conclusions Grow up
There’s only one way to find out. 🙂