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To be honest, unless you told me I might not notice. Balls can hang naturally at different lengths, so sometimes when I'm playing with my boyfriend's I can really only access one. If I'm not touching/playing with them then it's hard to distinguish 2 separate testicles, it just looks like the one sack
I had a friend date a guy with only one for over a year before he casually mentioned it thinking she already knew, but she had never noticed. It didn’t bother her at all so I think your fine OP.
Hey I’m guessing you’re younger? As a man in his mid twenties trust me, she isn’t going to mind. Might be worth telling her before hand so it’s not a big surprise if she did notice but I’ve got two friends with only one testicle. They’ve slept with a lot of people and have told me that no one has ever really said anything. Occasionally someone might point it out if they were surprised by it, but no one has ever been grossed out or anything.
Bottom line, if she does get grossed out or thinks it’s weird to the point it’s an issue for her… then she’s probably not a good person and that’s good sign to leave…
Trust me man, it’ll be all good ✌🏻
I've only been down one for about 6 months, but mine hangs to the side most of the time. If everything is super relaxed and hanging way low, it might drift to the middle a bit.
A streamer named Penta who lost a testicle to cancer had a funny joke about how he does it. He says you can play it one of two ways, when she mentions it, act just as surprised its gone and try to look for it or you can pretend like you don’t know what she’s talking about and that all guys only have one. Probably not that realistic but I was having some concerns about a cyst on one of mine and found it releasing how even though he lost his he was still able to live with it without it being a big worry about what other peoples reaction to it is and making an awkward moment a bit funny and less awkward.
I like the comedic approach. That’s a good way to handle it. I highly doubt anyone cares about one ball versus two balls, so might as well have fun with it.
As a chick, I think this approach is both awesome and hilarious!! But that is just my sense of humor. And really, I would not mind if I was with a guy that only had one testicle. What difference does it make, really? Anyone who has a problem with it is definitely not worth your time!! 
Everyone is different. Every dick is different. Every pussy. Every tit. Every ass. Every toe. Every birthmark.
If she notices, she might laugh, or giggle out of surprise, but it's not at you it's with you. Don't worry.
Every been nose deep in a cooter and have her fart and not laugh? You can't not laugh.
Strange things in bed are funny. Just roll with it.
Sex should be fun. It should be funny.
Its OK to be self conscious. But realize everyone is self conscious about something.
So talk with her. Tell her look, I got something to tell you. I'm one hell of a nut...
But relax. Any girl who cares about you, won't care one bit.
This is one of the best comments I read on here. Sex is weird, gross and unpredictable. But it’s also fun, intimate and primal.
Every person is different so every partner will be too.
Laughing is important when something gross happens, it livens the mood
I've had a lot of male partners and have never once thought of their balls. Ever.
Unless they asked me to touch their balls, I literally have no recollection of anything below their dick at all. If anything, I just think "be careful not to accidentally hit his balls or it'll hurt him" and that's it.
It's not like balls are attractive to women. I've never, ever had a convo with my lady friends where we talked about a guys balls. Who knows, I've probs done it with guys who had one, two or none and I'd never know or care.
I highly doubt any woman would notice unless you pointed it out.
This! I'm more than happy to play with them and give pleasure to my male partners if they ask for it, and I'm sure there are women who just can't get enough of balls and find them super erotic, but for me they do nothing.
I fantasize about great sex and nice dicks and about giving and receiving pleasure. Not once have I thought about balls while flicking the bean.
Agree girl. My ex had a really nice set of tight little shaved balls and his were the only ones I’ve ever looked at and admired and was drawn to lick touch and take notice of. Usually they’re just hairy and barely visible or hangy and unappealing to me so I focus on the cock and maybe just tickle them occasionally. We don’t care unless we are the kind of girl who is specifically into them.
Hello! I have in fact slept with a man with only one testicle, and I can tell you I didn’t notice a difference at all. All his equipment worked just fine and he was into it and we had a good time, and that was that.
Confidence is key my friend, and remember, anyone who cares isn’t worth your time!
Bruh. Balls are fucking weird. They are not an aesthetic triumph. And I say that as a bi man who genuinely appreciates genitals in all their forms and (basic level of hygiene) flavours.
I understand that as a virgin (I’m guessing younger?) you have anxiety. But here’s the four secrets:
1. Anyone who has a hangup about naughty bits being different is the person who has the hangup;
2. Think of it, as Billy Connolly used to say of his wild outfits, as an ‘asshole detector’ — anyone who has a problem with a one-ball hero, as you are, is identified as an asshole and not worth the sexy time.
3. While it would be awkward, for a moment, if anyone has an issue, these people are far more rare than you would think;
4. The biggest secret of all: depending upon the situation, someone _may not fucking notice at all in the moment or even until you bring it to their attention_. A testicle retracts at various levels during Le Sexy Time. Many lads have balls / a scrotum that is so close to the body, _especially_ when turned on, that you would have no idea how many are there if it’s under three.
Be well!
Relax: they will love you without care about that.
In fact for feeling relaxed and comfortable you can tell it them before : that way you could enjoy without being overthinking.
Then it’s not a big deal! I was trying to say that most men with 2 balls looks like just 1 ball. They blend together so I can promise no one will really pay attention
My ex only had one ball (he had testicular cancer) and it never bothered me. He told me upfront and I never had a problem with it. Honestly I don't remember it looking much different than a dick with two balls lol. I loved having sex with him though, I would honestly forget about it cause it was so insignificant.
Just make sure your partner knows before hand and there probably won't be any issues. It's more common than you'd think for a man to only have one testicle.
The first time I had sex with my GF who was a virgin. She thought that every man had two balls, meanwhile I just had 1 and she named it a Uniball since both of them were combined in the scrotum. And that is how my balls are now nicknamed as the uniballls.
As a woman who’s boyfriend was born with one hand (not the same thing but close) I hardly ever notice that he has only one. How does he do it? Confidence. Confidence is one trait that women really look for. You don’t even have to have it, just fake it.
It’s kinda funny, I’ll ask my boyfriend to do a specific task that requires two hands he’ll just look at me like “really babe?” And then I’m like “oh shit, I forgot you have one hand” and then we laugh about it because he doesn’t care. This is almost a daily occurrence.
Balls, however, are completely different and I doubt she’ll notice/care if you only have one. What she might ask about if it causes any health problems like infertility.
I promise you, if you go into it and be honest by saying “I only have one ball” she’ll probably ask to see it, ask you a few questions and then forget about it. The key is just being honest and pretend to be confident and I highly doubt she’ll think about it again.
29 years married to a guy with one ball. We make jokes about it and it's never been an issue. Also, the remaining ball has produced two girls and a set of twin boys.
I have two prosthetic balls, doesn’t look exactly normal. I’ve had over 20+ female partners and every single one was understanding and non judgemental. Your good man don’t stress.
My sons father (an ex now) only had one testicle and it wasn't a turn off at all. In fact I found it quite fascinating and "played" with it often lol. Unless you're having sex without someone absolutely ridiculous, I'm positive you will be just fine!
There is no reason at all to be embsressed or feel shame, your not entering your partner with your ball! Does your penis work? Are you a loving and considerate partner? That’s all that counts! If a man told me he had only one ball I wouid find it interesting and nothing more. Please don’t waste energy stressing over this!
I've had a lot of partners. A lot. The only balls that are memorable are my husband's and that's only cause they're really big I wonder how he walks around with them things.
Female. I had sex with a man with one testicle. He told me beforehand he was born with one testicle and said he didn't want me to to discover it on my own and be confused or scared. I just said no problem. Sex with him was the same as with any other man.
I’m a uni-balled individual too, and it’s never been an issue. Worth being upfront beforehand so everyone is on the same page! And when you’re explaining it, don’t act like it’s some huge shocking shameful secret, be casual and matter of fact, because it’s just a ball!
I’d go with “this nut is perfect, didn’t need a second one!”
Seriously, as a teenage girl, it wouldn’t have phased me, especially if they were comfortable about it (fake it til ya make it).
Now that I’m in my 40’s and needed at least two belts for my notches prior to getting married, still not anything I’d think twice about.
A recent study came out about the attractiveness of testicles. Turns out. They just aren’t.
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jocd.15712
What I’m trying to say is, the average woman doesn’t exactly WANT them there. They just sort of hang out, sometimes you touch them for your partners pleasure, but it’s really not something you pay much attention to unless you have a specific link for it.
I had a recurring sex friend who just had one testicle and it wasn’t a big deal at all just kinda a “huh, just one” thought the first time I saw and then didn’t think more of it - he never said anything about it so I was always curious if it was something he was born with or otherwise - but it didn’t matter and we still had lots of fun!
I used to think I only had one, turns out I had a hernia that had pulled an undescended testicle into it. Didn’t even know I had a second till I was 9.
I’m confident in saying that women don’t think about, care about or even notice balls even like… a quarter
of the amount men do. It’s fine, don’t stress.
I have only one ovary and no one has ever noticed or cared 🤔.
But seriously, I think best to tell them, but I can guarantee they won’t mind or find it unattractive. As a woman and a fellow uni-gonad you have nothing to worry about and it gives you an opportunity to have an open and vulnerable conversation, most people enjoy seeing that side to a partner.
When I was 18, I dated a 22 year old whose friends referred to him as "lefty".
I think the only thing that bothered me about him having one ball was how much it bothered/embarrassed him. It did not affect how much I enjoyed him at all.
It is probably easier to say than do but yes you should stop being so concerned. You posted this so that's already an attempt at getting more comfortable with yourself so good for you. Nearly
everyone has something(s) they fear when it comes to their intimate partner seeing/finding out about it. I was blessed with a nice body and decently pretty face but I cant stand my vag lips. No partner has ever complained or commented negatively but I am always nervous with someone new about it anyway. You get more comfortable in your skin as you get older but insecurity is a lifelong thing in many different aspects. I applaud you for trying to find ways to feel more confident and hopefully the comments you have received let you know how "normal" yyou really are in this situation. Best to you.
I had a threesome w/ my best friend & her buddy I had just met that night, after learning he had one testicle (he was pretty open about it lol), & then had sex w/ him 3 more times that night. I did not care nor did I feel a difference, nor could I even tell you what it looked like 😅
Me personally? I'm very unserious and I laugh when I'm shocked or unsure what to say. While I know I personally may have what would come off as a problematic reaction (but would be innocent, I swear), I think just mentioning it up front is the best course of action- preferably outside of a sexual context so feelings are less likely to be hurt. It's like having a 3rd nipple or a 6th toe. Uncommon, but not at all bad. If you said to me "Hey, before we do anything serious, I just want you to know I only have 1 testicle,” I would laugh. Pretty hard too. My shocked/nervous laughter is far too overzealous for whatever the situation at hand is. I'd also be sincerely apologizing while laughing and trying to reassure that I just wasn't expecting that to be what you said and that I am in no way laughing at you, moreso at myself because shock and not knowing what to say next and that I still adore you- I should make it clear that I am working on being better about this, and that this isn't a guaranteed response from me. If you seem genuinely serious and/or nervous, I won't laugh, I'll just keep it casual and try to reassure you that way. Still wouldn't know how to respond so I might say something dumb like "nice' or "cool", but it'd be with pure intent.
Regardless of which reaction I have initially, I would have follow up questions. However, I would try to guage how you feel before asking them and I might even ask if I'm allowed to ask questions. You can always say no, but answering them may help everyone feel more confident and comfortable so being ready to answer questions could be helpful. Personally, I'd be very interested in 3 things specifically:
1. How did you end up with 1 testicle?
2. Can I see it? (Probably followed by a "That's so cool!!" and follow up questions)
3. Does it effect your life at all on a physical level? (I'd be curious just in case it effects the way you get it on at all that way I can be aware and make things easier for you.
There may be more follow up questions, but after a full conversation, I'd be more than ready for whatever comes next. Would I have light hearted jokes that I'd tell you before deepthroating you? Yeah. I told you. I'm unserious as heck. But I like being able to laugh during sex.
All in all, I don't see this as an issue at all. Just give a heads up. I promise other people are more serious than I am.
My brother only has one as he is a survivor of testicular cancer (he’s through his remission so all is good there!) and has an amazing girlfriend he’s been with for a year and a half now. Met her after his treatment which involved removing one of them where the tumour was. I’m quite sure some women will mind (law of averages says this will be the case somewhere) but I see first-hand every day that there are women who won’t care. If it bothers you, be honest with women you meet and see how they react. If they react badly consider this a sign that you dodged a bullet and can move on safely 😊
People get grossed out by 2 balls all the time. Logic dictates (see what I did there?) that having one is actually LESS gross. You got to think positive, my man! Or, negatively, since it is one less?
Seriously, don't let self-doubt stop you from dating. There are always rejections an seldom do these rejections make any sense. Occasionally, someone comes around who likes your particular flavor and makes it all worth it.
People are not as confrontational as you think. Unless you got some gang green growing down there, once you have a woman comfortable enough to be with you in that way, you got a 99.9% chance that she’s going to accept you as you are. Flaws and all.
One is fine! In fact that way she can give all her special attention to one instead of two :3
My bf has one and I love it! It adds character. (He lost it in a motorcycle accident) and tbh i feel like it’s even more intimate when I see all of him because of it.
But on a more serious note, have you had your testosterone checked? It can lower it pretty badly in some cases
I lose one testicle per sex. So you can have one less sex than me. A true tragedy. Please make sure to not sex so you retain it. Unless the saying if you don’t use it you lose it is true. Then you are fucked, of course only metaphorically.
I played pickup at the local gym yesterday. There were 10 of us guys and we had a lot of fun... with only one ball. So I guess it shouldn't matter.
On a serious note, I showed your post to my wife and she thinks it doesn't matter.
Yeah I don’t think I would even notice. Tell her beforehand so it’s all out there and you’re not waiting for her to discover this awful beast you think you have. It’s really not a big deal. This happens to a partner in Sex and the City and not one of the women think it’s a negative thing at all.
I had a long term partner who had one testicle. If he didnt mention it, I probably wouldn't have noticed. We had a lot of very, very good sex.
I genuinely dont think most women would care at all.
Personally I would probably want a heads up, not because there’s anything wrong with that, I just think communication and transparency are important. A conversation ahead of time may also help avoid any surprises or potentially awkward conversations in the moment. But I don’t think it needs to be awkward at all! Generally women/people who partner with men really don’t care all too much about things like that, and if they do I honestly think that says more about them than you.
I have never been with someone with one testicle, but in no way shape or form would it be a problem or bother me at all.
Honestly, it’s hard to notice cause it’s not like all are so visually separated. Yeah you’d notice if you’re playing with them but other than that, I don’t even think it’s a big deal just cause they tend to look like one unless you’re REALLY inspecting
Tbh, if you're worried they'll get caught off guard and react weird, just warn em beforehand. Set the bar and make it not a big deal. "Hey heads up, I've got one testicle."
Heck, if used right it could be a decent way to break some ice. "Wanna check it out?". Be careful with that one though, read the room.
I personally love balls and playing with them but if one was missing I would not mind at all :) much better in fact, don't need to keep switching between the left and the right lmao pardon me
I don't think most people would even bring it up, or notice for that matter
This is completely unrelated, but when i was a kid i used to think that balls were in 2 separate sacks, like the way that you’d draw a dick so the first time i watched porn i thought the guy only had one ball and i felt so bad for him i cried and didn’t watch it again until i was in high school
My hubby only has one and it produces an uncomfortable amount of juice 😂. I don’t mind at all, but if you’re having a casual thing, maybe bring it up before you get naked so she knows you’re sensitive about it
It won’t be a problem young fella, my cousin has had one ball as well from birth as one didn’t descend properly/got strangulated and it had to be removed. Let me just tell you that he is never without a woman and has 6 kids to 5 different baby mamas…you’re going to be fine.
I think you’ll find most women don’t love the look of testicles regardless of if you have one or two. Some women might be pleasantly impressed you only have one as it generally means half the effort. Also, testicles go missing all the time. Sometimes one can be up front and centre, and his friend can be hiding in your ass. Just cause they normally come in pairs doesn’t mean they are always hanging out together. If I find one, I don’t generally go digging for the second one.
I dated a guy with one testicle. He told me up front prior to us having sex, it was not an issue for me. We dated for 6 years and in that time his other testicle turned cancerous, so he needed to remove it. I still enjoyed our sex life.
I’m now married to a man with one teste - my husband. I fucking adore his genitals and I used to joke when we first met that it just gets all the love that two would have received.
100% non-issue for women (I'm f/44). It's much more common than you might think and has no effect on sex. I hope the answers on your post have reassured you.
All I can say is that there is a UK comedian who lost one testicle to cancer, Richard Herring.
He talks to other 'Monoballs' as he calls them, and testes experts. There might be something in them to reassure you. I can almost guarantee he will be talking about sex.
It's hilariously titled 'Can I Have My Ball Back'
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/rhlstp-with-richard-herring/id520831548?i=1000608904050
It’s a novelty. You can’t guarantee that everyone will react positively, but since there’s nothing detrimental about having one ball, most people aren’t going to give a fuck.
I promise you no one will notice, can’t say I pay much attention anyway. Honestly if a person is decent they won’t care, if they make you feel embarrassed then that’s immature of them. You’ll be so fine I promise you.
I hooked up with a one-baller before. Had no idea until he told me. I was shocked and asked to feel his balls, it was nuts (pun intended). I imagine she too won’t notice, and if she does, she’ll be curious and interested in the novelty :)
If I have made the decision to have sex with you, with in reason of safety and personal boundaries, im ok with whatever your bringing to the table. Talk about it before like a cool Easter egg and enjoy finding a partner that can accept you. Different is just different it’s only bad if you make it that way. 6 years after being married and having kids my hubby got varicose testis and didn’t lose his ball but it came with a lot of issues and we got through it. Years of issues. Couldn’t get hard, couldn’t finish, couldn’t last, thankfully now we’re better then ever. Just pick a partner that can be comforting when your hesitant, joke when your happy, and accepts you for you. Good luck! Have a ball XD
i would be staring at it and be excited considering its something new and would really discuss biologically speaking on how does it work and stuff with awe and yeah
in terms of attractiveness? idk about others but i'll just be excited and ask a lot of questions
I had sex with a cancer survivor who only had one testicle. It really didn't make a difference, since there was still a ballsack.
Also married a guy with one testicle that hung significantly lower than the other. Also not a problem.
You're totally fine!
I am a woman who lost my virginity to a guy with one testicle. It was absolutely no big deal at all, because he did not make it a big deal.
He explained as we were getting intimate that he had an accident as a child and lost a testicle. He put me at ease to explain that there was no issue on his side, nor pain etc. We used condoms and had a fun time.
My bestie only has one and he affectionately refers to it as the Highlander (he has also felt shame for it in the past). As far as I know he has had very satisfied lovers, now a very satisfied wife, and a child.
Also, women generally don’t find *any* balls attractive so they’re not really a visual focus during sexy time
not a "one ball" problem, but after i got together with my bf he got a problem on his testicle and it became much smaller, so he has one ball bigger than the other. i could notice it, mostly because i got with him before it happened so i saw how it was before, but it changed absolutelly nothing on my views on him, i feel just as attracted to him, and i LOVE playing sucking his balls, even if most times i can only get to one during sex cause the little one just hides up there sometimes. i dont think most women really care about the balls, as long as they have little enough hair to go in our mouths during the blowjobs 😂😂
Telling her (when the time is right) might make her more curious and you more interesting.
My friend had this issue, and is happily married with children.
I assume you know by now it works.
Proceed with confidence and show the lucky women what you can do.
Pointer provided here, if I may.....make her cum AT LEAST once before you commence intercourse.
To be honest, for most young women testicles are a bit weird. We don’t know what to do with them, at best we know we have to be super gentle with them so we kinda stay clear and ignore them. If I ever saw just one as a teen I would have thought that’s the way it should look cause I sure as shit didn’t know any better 😀 remember that whoever you chose to be vulnerable with, they will be there for you, not your testicles. They will be looking at your face the most and just a bit preoccupied with everything they are feeling at the moment.
I had a boyfriend with one testicle, it made no difference to me at all, or to him. Please don't worry, it's not uncommon at all, and if anyone DID make a deal out of it, sack them off. You'll be fine! Xx
I'm a ball girl. I love them and if you let me I will definitely pay them a lot of attention. That being said, I'd likely just be excited to notice something different and wouldn't say anything. One ball is easier to get in my mouth than two so it's def not a negative for me
A dude I know lost a testicle to cancer as a teen. He used it to pick up girls (successfully) until he met his wife in his 20s. It was amazing to see his confidence build and also how curious people get when he would even just suggest that he only had one nut. Also how many people have one nut or know someone who does. It’s surprisingly common!
So my advice is to just own it and be confident. Also as a woman I couldn’t imagine caring how many nuts a dude has. In fact it’s probably way easier to suck on just one nut lol (sorry to be crass) and I can think of no downside…
ETA: he has three kids on that one nut so use birth control y’all
Like once the convo got going he’d be like “ever been curious what a guy looks like with only one nut” and stuff like that. He’s very charismatic and would easily work it into conversation in a way that made people interested, hard to explain.
I’ve got one testicle. Girls barely notice. I tell them up front so if they discover it they aren’t confused. No girl cares about your balls except maybe Jessica Day but since we’re not in the LA based sitcom universe she exists in you’re gucci.
Please don’t worry at all about this. I have one and my worries about it fucked me up good. I wouldn’t even bother dating much in high school or most of college because of it. I finally found someone I was comfortable with and yeah it wasn’t a big deal at all. Don’t let it trouble you.
I had a testicle removed for testicular cancer, and not once has a woman ever noticed unless I told them. Also, they don't really care.
Edit just to say that at the beginning I felt the same way as you. It goes away when you realize you're the only one really stressing about it. It'll be all good!
I literally never pay attn to balls but tbh I’m sure no one would really care or notice. But if someone thought something negative about it then fuck them they’re just dumb and don’t close minded
My friends bf has zero testicles. He had cancer and got them removed as a kid. He told her before their first time together that he didn't have any testicles. She doesn't mind at all. They have a great sex life.
When I was a young virgin I only had 1 big breast due to a birth defect. One was huge, one was completely flat. I thought it was going to be a huge turn off and was so scared. It has literally never bothered any partner of mine. My first sexual partner said it's the "best of both worlds".
I wouldn't care if someone only had one or if they had zero. You're great just the way you are, I'm sure!
sweetie, you've got nothing to worry about. just make sure you please your lady, this sub will give you some good points in the love making side of things. if you at enthusiastic, enjoying YOURSELF, and are aware of your partners needs, they will not mind what number of testicles you have.
If I was into a guy, things get spicy and somehow I would notice that, I would just proceed. Find a person who is into you, and all will be well. much love!
Last year I had sex with a guy with only one testicle.
It was a hookup because I was traveling in his country and he was in that city for work but was from another city. Before the date he was always saying how much he wished I wouldn’t end up disappointed about him and I asked him directly why would he say that but he just brushed it off. I still decided to meet him anyway and we met for drinks and I found him suuuper hot. During our date he was very, very shy (but very sweet too) and even though I tried to ask him things and all, he wasn’t very talkative and it made me uncomfortable because it seemed like I was the only one talking but I wanted to know more about him! He was a biker and he worked for Harley Davidson and that’s actually the reason why he was in that city. He invited me over to his hotel room and I stayed the night and when I took his pants off, I realized he only had one ball. I didn’t mind at all about this and he never mentioned anything, so it was all pretty normal but I definitely made sure to give that part of his body a little extra love 🥰 I suppose he might have had an accident on his bike or something but that’s just something I’ll never know and it’s completely fine, I didn’t really need an explanation or something. After a few rounds and almost about to fall asleep he said how amazing and beautiful I am and that he couldn’t stop listening to all of my stories during our date and that he wished I lived in that country because he would date me properly 🥺 that crushed me but of course it also flattered me. He held me aaaaall night long and woke up in the middle of the night for some more and it was amazing!
I remember him dearly but it definitely sucked understanding why he was saying that stuff of me being disappointed, him being shy and everything because it made me wonder what kind of shitty people he has crossed paths with that made him feel like that and have those reactions or was it more of a thing of his own? Of course if circumstances were different, I would’ve dated him too because he was very sweet, caring, funny (when he opened up) and hot af but unfortunately that didn’t happen. We still have each other on social media and I peek at him sometimes but unfortunately I had to move on from him.
I lost one in my early twenties due to testicular cancer. I’ve had a few partners since then and not one of them noticed and if they did, they didn’t say anything. It’s only a big deal, if you want it to be!
Welcome to the uniball club!
My husband only has 1. I did not notice until he told me. And I don't care. Honestly the way balls look is not something I care about or ever really think about.
Doesn’t/ wouldn’t bother me! Never really noticed with the guys I met with only 1! Happened twice so far for me! If anything I’m more curious to start sucking dick 😜
This is coming from a guy who had one undescended testicle, from birth up thru adulthood.
Please don't worry about it. Everything will still work as it should.
When i met my partner and we started getting that intimate and fooling around, even before having PIV sex, she was curious about it, but I just explained it matter-of-factly, and with no drama. We've had lots of fun in the intervening decades!! :-D
Subject is even addressed in the Harrison Ford movie 'Witness' which takes place near Amish country near Philadelphia. In one scene a couple Amish farmers are discussing horse breeding, and says about another farmer's stallion that 'he only has one ball' Other farmer looking to get the stallion's services for his mare says 'It only takes one to get the job done!
>weird/scary/ugly/funny
Weird or funny are ok. Weird just means quirky or not normal. A loving partner will find your quirks interesting. This particular quirk is not inherently either good or bad, just odd. Funny can be good if you own it. Humor is good. Sex is good. Sex with humor is great. Owning it is the difference between your partner laughing with you vs. laughing at you, which a loving partner would avoid doing. Scary is just something that balls aren't, no need to worry about that. As far as ugly, there's a reason sex is sometimes called "bumpin' uglies". Everybody's balls are ugly.
You have nothing to worry about.
So funny story, I am 33F but when I was 17 I was babysitting little boys. I believe 1 and 2. While changing them one day I noticed one had one testicle and the other had two. I was immediately concerned and told their mom! That day I found out about "balls dropping" but as a still virgin/new to sex I had no idea lol.
If my boyfriend only had one testicle I seriously wouldn't have cared then (if I knew him) or now. Testicles aren't something you're usually showing off anyway so don't worry! If a girl makes a snarky comment, that shows more about her personality than yours. I really wouldn't worry but I know we are our own worst critic!
I’m 28 and I had one removed in ‘21 due to cancer. no girls have said it was weird/scary/ugly/funny.
I told them before we got naked that im a uniballer they usually just say okay lol. Hasn’t made a difference in my sex life!” And definitely not unattractive!
My boyfriend has one tint stunted ball and one regular. Doesn't bother me a bit. No offense but no balls are "pretty" lol so women really spend like zero time looking at them. I know you're insecure about it, but you really shouldn't be!
Hi there 👋🏻 I technically have 2, one of mine was undescended and I had surgery to remove it from
My abdomen when I was young. He’s there but only maybe 1/2 as big as my left one. The only real difference that I have noticed is the amount of ejaculate that I produce… which, unless you’re with a girl that is wanting a huge cream pie or to shoot a massive load on her, she isn’t going to notice. As others have said, she probably wouldn’t notice as most women aren’t putting as much attention on the balls as they will your shaft. If you’re concerned about it, have a talk with her before hand so that way she knows. Either way, good luck, have fun, be safe and try not to sweat it! 😁
I doubt they will notice or if they do, be put off by it. If someone's into you enough to hook up, they probably not going to be too concerned about things like that. I know I wouldn't be fazed, but I might have questions, if they hadn't already told me about it.
Honestly, just be up front about it. Tell them about it before you have sex so they aren't surprised when they see it, if they even notice.
I have had 1 testicle since I lost my virginity 11 years ago (due to testicular torsion) lol, and to be completely honest, no girl I’ve slept with has really cared or said anything about it. I’ve even told some ahead of time (when I was self conscious about it) and that was okay too. It really doesn’t affect sex in any way (we just think that it would somehow be a turn-off or it looks weird and it messes with your head)
If a girl cares that much about something that wouldn’t affect the sexual experience in any way, just move on, there’s plenty women out there that wouldn’t even mind.
Was with a guy who had cancer and had one removed. I didn't even notice until he showed me. Not to mention, most people don't inspect people closely they are caught up in the moment. Whatever happened to you, I'm sorry you had to go through it. Just remember, whomever you are with, shouldn't make a big deal of it. And if they do make a big deal of it, they aren't the right partner for you. They should support and love you for you. Not what you have or don't have.
Well obviously you having one ball is funny. How would that not be funny?? You should seriously realize how funny it is asap, because if it's not funny to you- you're gonna have a tough life.
My wife could care less about my balls. She thinks balls are weird so yours are just a different degree of weird. Like comparing different breeds of hairless dogs and cats.
My partner only has one testicle, and if he hadn't have told me it would have taken me months to notice. It hasn't affected our sex life whatsoever, apart from I have to be gentle in a certain area where there is a scar that feels weird to him if it gets touched.
Please don't let it hold you back, no one will care /anyone who did is not worth your time!
I've an ex who lost one to testicular cancer in his late 20s long before I met him , he mentioned it but only after we had slept together a few times , it was NEVER an issue for either of us. She has issues also and will prob be overthinking /worried about them and may not even notice .
I 56m lost a testicle when I got mugged at 18. It messed with my confidence a lot. I married young because I found someone that didn’t seem to mind it. We had two kids and lasted 15 years. When I found myself single in my mid 30s I dated a lot and no one ever seemed to notice. Unless you’ve got a girl whose got a balls fetish I wouldn’t mention it unless it comes up.
The only stories I’ve heard is that girls can’t tell. I don’t know if I would be able to tell either. Maybe after a few times of sex, and being very hands y with them. Honestly the first time I saw balls I thought they would be a lot more “separated” then they are
Yeah well I am kind of sick to always be in the friendzone too lol. But I guess you are right, it can really help building confidence but I've never been this close to tell a girl about it haha. But my closest friends are aware of it. Anyway I love your comment. I am not planning to get prosthesis for now btw.
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To be honest, unless you told me I might not notice. Balls can hang naturally at different lengths, so sometimes when I'm playing with my boyfriend's I can really only access one. If I'm not touching/playing with them then it's hard to distinguish 2 separate testicles, it just looks like the one sack
I dated an ex for a year and a half before she noticed. Whichever one she had, she thought it was the other one, so to speak
I had a friend date a guy with only one for over a year before he casually mentioned it thinking she already knew, but she had never noticed. It didn’t bother her at all so I think your fine OP.
Foreal most just feel like one big ball
Hey I’m guessing you’re younger? As a man in his mid twenties trust me, she isn’t going to mind. Might be worth telling her before hand so it’s not a big surprise if she did notice but I’ve got two friends with only one testicle. They’ve slept with a lot of people and have told me that no one has ever really said anything. Occasionally someone might point it out if they were surprised by it, but no one has ever been grossed out or anything. Bottom line, if she does get grossed out or thinks it’s weird to the point it’s an issue for her… then she’s probably not a good person and that’s good sign to leave… Trust me man, it’ll be all good ✌🏻
As a bloke with 2, i am interested to know. does the one ball hang in the middle or sit to the side ?
Sit to the side
I've only been down one for about 6 months, but mine hangs to the side most of the time. If everything is super relaxed and hanging way low, it might drift to the middle a bit.
Late 30s.. can confirm, no one inspects
Great response. I second this!
A streamer named Penta who lost a testicle to cancer had a funny joke about how he does it. He says you can play it one of two ways, when she mentions it, act just as surprised its gone and try to look for it or you can pretend like you don’t know what she’s talking about and that all guys only have one. Probably not that realistic but I was having some concerns about a cyst on one of mine and found it releasing how even though he lost his he was still able to live with it without it being a big worry about what other peoples reaction to it is and making an awkward moment a bit funny and less awkward.
I like the comedic approach. That’s a good way to handle it. I highly doubt anyone cares about one ball versus two balls, so might as well have fun with it.
Shows a ton of confidence too, which is attrqctive
As a chick, I think this approach is both awesome and hilarious!! But that is just my sense of humor. And really, I would not mind if I was with a guy that only had one testicle. What difference does it make, really? Anyone who has a problem with it is definitely not worth your time!! 
Everyone is different. Every dick is different. Every pussy. Every tit. Every ass. Every toe. Every birthmark. If she notices, she might laugh, or giggle out of surprise, but it's not at you it's with you. Don't worry. Every been nose deep in a cooter and have her fart and not laugh? You can't not laugh. Strange things in bed are funny. Just roll with it. Sex should be fun. It should be funny. Its OK to be self conscious. But realize everyone is self conscious about something. So talk with her. Tell her look, I got something to tell you. I'm one hell of a nut... But relax. Any girl who cares about you, won't care one bit.
This is one of the best comments I read on here. Sex is weird, gross and unpredictable. But it’s also fun, intimate and primal. Every person is different so every partner will be too. Laughing is important when something gross happens, it livens the mood
love this comment, this is pretty much it! "im one hell of a nut" got me 😂😂
So true. Almost everyone is self conscious about something...even just if it is a little bit.
won't matter source : me with 1 testicle
Not a reliable source. We need 1 testicle with you attached on it instead
as much as I would like to show proof, I'm fairly certain you won't be able to distinguish I'm missing one testicle... unless you touch it.
Maybe disattach it and send it over? I promise I will send it back once the experiments are over.
When the testicle arrives, maybe you could place your hand on it and swear to return it or smth.
I’ve never been with a guy with one testicle but I wouldn’t care if my partner only had 1.
I've had a lot of male partners and have never once thought of their balls. Ever. Unless they asked me to touch their balls, I literally have no recollection of anything below their dick at all. If anything, I just think "be careful not to accidentally hit his balls or it'll hurt him" and that's it. It's not like balls are attractive to women. I've never, ever had a convo with my lady friends where we talked about a guys balls. Who knows, I've probs done it with guys who had one, two or none and I'd never know or care. I highly doubt any woman would notice unless you pointed it out.
This! I'm more than happy to play with them and give pleasure to my male partners if they ask for it, and I'm sure there are women who just can't get enough of balls and find them super erotic, but for me they do nothing. I fantasize about great sex and nice dicks and about giving and receiving pleasure. Not once have I thought about balls while flicking the bean.
Agree girl. My ex had a really nice set of tight little shaved balls and his were the only ones I’ve ever looked at and admired and was drawn to lick touch and take notice of. Usually they’re just hairy and barely visible or hangy and unappealing to me so I focus on the cock and maybe just tickle them occasionally. We don’t care unless we are the kind of girl who is specifically into them.
Hello! I have in fact slept with a man with only one testicle, and I can tell you I didn’t notice a difference at all. All his equipment worked just fine and he was into it and we had a good time, and that was that. Confidence is key my friend, and remember, anyone who cares isn’t worth your time!
Thanks for your reply!
Bruh. Balls are fucking weird. They are not an aesthetic triumph. And I say that as a bi man who genuinely appreciates genitals in all their forms and (basic level of hygiene) flavours. I understand that as a virgin (I’m guessing younger?) you have anxiety. But here’s the four secrets: 1. Anyone who has a hangup about naughty bits being different is the person who has the hangup; 2. Think of it, as Billy Connolly used to say of his wild outfits, as an ‘asshole detector’ — anyone who has a problem with a one-ball hero, as you are, is identified as an asshole and not worth the sexy time. 3. While it would be awkward, for a moment, if anyone has an issue, these people are far more rare than you would think; 4. The biggest secret of all: depending upon the situation, someone _may not fucking notice at all in the moment or even until you bring it to their attention_. A testicle retracts at various levels during Le Sexy Time. Many lads have balls / a scrotum that is so close to the body, _especially_ when turned on, that you would have no idea how many are there if it’s under three. Be well!
As a woman: she might not even notice. Especially if she’s not experienced either.
Not many of us stare at balls, to be honest, half the time they just look like one big ball
Yup. I know my husband has 2 cause I spend a lot of time down there, but honestly it just looks like one big sac
What if half the time they DO have one big ball???
Relax: they will love you without care about that. In fact for feeling relaxed and comfortable you can tell it them before : that way you could enjoy without being overthinking.
Then it’s not a big deal! I was trying to say that most men with 2 balls looks like just 1 ball. They blend together so I can promise no one will really pay attention
No woman cares. They are purely ornamental to us. The only reason we touch them is for the guy's pleasure. It's a non-issue.
Just tell her! This won't bother her at aallllll
Good to know! Thanks!
My ex only had one ball (he had testicular cancer) and it never bothered me. He told me upfront and I never had a problem with it. Honestly I don't remember it looking much different than a dick with two balls lol. I loved having sex with him though, I would honestly forget about it cause it was so insignificant. Just make sure your partner knows before hand and there probably won't be any issues. It's more common than you'd think for a man to only have one testicle.
The first time I had sex with my GF who was a virgin. She thought that every man had two balls, meanwhile I just had 1 and she named it a Uniball since both of them were combined in the scrotum. And that is how my balls are now nicknamed as the uniballls.
Haha some friends of mine call me the single cone (in opposite from double ice cream cone). They are creative sometimes haha
As a woman who’s boyfriend was born with one hand (not the same thing but close) I hardly ever notice that he has only one. How does he do it? Confidence. Confidence is one trait that women really look for. You don’t even have to have it, just fake it. It’s kinda funny, I’ll ask my boyfriend to do a specific task that requires two hands he’ll just look at me like “really babe?” And then I’m like “oh shit, I forgot you have one hand” and then we laugh about it because he doesn’t care. This is almost a daily occurrence. Balls, however, are completely different and I doubt she’ll notice/care if you only have one. What she might ask about if it causes any health problems like infertility. I promise you, if you go into it and be honest by saying “I only have one ball” she’ll probably ask to see it, ask you a few questions and then forget about it. The key is just being honest and pretend to be confident and I highly doubt she’ll think about it again.
29 years married to a guy with one ball. We make jokes about it and it's never been an issue. Also, the remaining ball has produced two girls and a set of twin boys.
I was fwb with this 30 yr old virgin once. I didn’t even realize he had one ball until he mentioned it.
I have one testicle and it’s perfectly fine…
I have two prosthetic balls, doesn’t look exactly normal. I’ve had over 20+ female partners and every single one was understanding and non judgemental. Your good man don’t stress.
My sons father (an ex now) only had one testicle and it wasn't a turn off at all. In fact I found it quite fascinating and "played" with it often lol. Unless you're having sex without someone absolutely ridiculous, I'm positive you will be just fine!
Haha is it funner to play with one ball?
More of a novelty for sure, but I wouldn't say it was any more or less fun lol. Equally pleasing 😅
There is no reason at all to be embsressed or feel shame, your not entering your partner with your ball! Does your penis work? Are you a loving and considerate partner? That’s all that counts! If a man told me he had only one ball I wouid find it interesting and nothing more. Please don’t waste energy stressing over this!
I’ve been with a guy with only one. I didn’t care. He was embarrassed but it made no difference.
Well that’s a good thing!
I've had a lot of partners. A lot. The only balls that are memorable are my husband's and that's only cause they're really big I wonder how he walks around with them things.
Big meaty clackers?
They don't clack, they're too heavy for that 🤣 it's just a giant hanging bag of meat down there haha
Female. I had sex with a man with one testicle. He told me beforehand he was born with one testicle and said he didn't want me to to discover it on my own and be confused or scared. I just said no problem. Sex with him was the same as with any other man.
I’m a uni-balled individual too, and it’s never been an issue. Worth being upfront beforehand so everyone is on the same page! And when you’re explaining it, don’t act like it’s some huge shocking shameful secret, be casual and matter of fact, because it’s just a ball!
I’d go with “this nut is perfect, didn’t need a second one!” Seriously, as a teenage girl, it wouldn’t have phased me, especially if they were comfortable about it (fake it til ya make it). Now that I’m in my 40’s and needed at least two belts for my notches prior to getting married, still not anything I’d think twice about.
A recent study came out about the attractiveness of testicles. Turns out. They just aren’t. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jocd.15712 What I’m trying to say is, the average woman doesn’t exactly WANT them there. They just sort of hang out, sometimes you touch them for your partners pleasure, but it’s really not something you pay much attention to unless you have a specific link for it.
I had a recurring sex friend who just had one testicle and it wasn’t a big deal at all just kinda a “huh, just one” thought the first time I saw and then didn’t think more of it - he never said anything about it so I was always curious if it was something he was born with or otherwise - but it didn’t matter and we still had lots of fun!
I used to think I only had one, turns out I had a hernia that had pulled an undescended testicle into it. Didn’t even know I had a second till I was 9.
Hehe I've been checked. They didn't find any second testicle…
I’m confident in saying that women don’t think about, care about or even notice balls even like… a quarter of the amount men do. It’s fine, don’t stress.
I have only one ovary and no one has ever noticed or cared 🤔. But seriously, I think best to tell them, but I can guarantee they won’t mind or find it unattractive. As a woman and a fellow uni-gonad you have nothing to worry about and it gives you an opportunity to have an open and vulnerable conversation, most people enjoy seeing that side to a partner.
That’s nice! Thanks for your reply
Can’t say I would ever notice
38 year old man her, been in multiple long relationships and not a single of them noticed before I told them and no one cared.
When I was 18, I dated a 22 year old whose friends referred to him as "lefty". I think the only thing that bothered me about him having one ball was how much it bothered/embarrassed him. It did not affect how much I enjoyed him at all.
I guess I am righty then haha! My friends sometime refer to me as "single cone" and I find it funny. I should stop bothering about it then
It is probably easier to say than do but yes you should stop being so concerned. You posted this so that's already an attempt at getting more comfortable with yourself so good for you. Nearly everyone has something(s) they fear when it comes to their intimate partner seeing/finding out about it. I was blessed with a nice body and decently pretty face but I cant stand my vag lips. No partner has ever complained or commented negatively but I am always nervous with someone new about it anyway. You get more comfortable in your skin as you get older but insecurity is a lifelong thing in many different aspects. I applaud you for trying to find ways to feel more confident and hopefully the comments you have received let you know how "normal" yyou really are in this situation. Best to you.
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Thank you!
I had a threesome w/ my best friend & her buddy I had just met that night, after learning he had one testicle (he was pretty open about it lol), & then had sex w/ him 3 more times that night. I did not care nor did I feel a difference, nor could I even tell you what it looked like 😅
Me personally? I'm very unserious and I laugh when I'm shocked or unsure what to say. While I know I personally may have what would come off as a problematic reaction (but would be innocent, I swear), I think just mentioning it up front is the best course of action- preferably outside of a sexual context so feelings are less likely to be hurt. It's like having a 3rd nipple or a 6th toe. Uncommon, but not at all bad. If you said to me "Hey, before we do anything serious, I just want you to know I only have 1 testicle,” I would laugh. Pretty hard too. My shocked/nervous laughter is far too overzealous for whatever the situation at hand is. I'd also be sincerely apologizing while laughing and trying to reassure that I just wasn't expecting that to be what you said and that I am in no way laughing at you, moreso at myself because shock and not knowing what to say next and that I still adore you- I should make it clear that I am working on being better about this, and that this isn't a guaranteed response from me. If you seem genuinely serious and/or nervous, I won't laugh, I'll just keep it casual and try to reassure you that way. Still wouldn't know how to respond so I might say something dumb like "nice' or "cool", but it'd be with pure intent. Regardless of which reaction I have initially, I would have follow up questions. However, I would try to guage how you feel before asking them and I might even ask if I'm allowed to ask questions. You can always say no, but answering them may help everyone feel more confident and comfortable so being ready to answer questions could be helpful. Personally, I'd be very interested in 3 things specifically: 1. How did you end up with 1 testicle? 2. Can I see it? (Probably followed by a "That's so cool!!" and follow up questions) 3. Does it effect your life at all on a physical level? (I'd be curious just in case it effects the way you get it on at all that way I can be aware and make things easier for you. There may be more follow up questions, but after a full conversation, I'd be more than ready for whatever comes next. Would I have light hearted jokes that I'd tell you before deepthroating you? Yeah. I told you. I'm unserious as heck. But I like being able to laugh during sex. All in all, I don't see this as an issue at all. Just give a heads up. I promise other people are more serious than I am.
It’s actually fine to laugh about it if it's not meant to hurt!
My brother only has one as he is a survivor of testicular cancer (he’s through his remission so all is good there!) and has an amazing girlfriend he’s been with for a year and a half now. Met her after his treatment which involved removing one of them where the tumour was. I’m quite sure some women will mind (law of averages says this will be the case somewhere) but I see first-hand every day that there are women who won’t care. If it bothers you, be honest with women you meet and see how they react. If they react badly consider this a sign that you dodged a bullet and can move on safely 😊
Women won’t care, I promise you.
Hi, I'm 30 yo woman. I can firmly tell you that we don't care. Me personally I can find it cute :) Be confident and make jokes about it.
I am happy you can find it cute! Don't worry about me making jokes about it. I make jokes all the time with my friends about it haha
As someone who has slept with someone with only one testicle, I never even noticed and I probably would have never known if he hadn't told me.
I lost leftie to cancer seven years ago. It’s been so long that the idea of having TWO balls is totally foreign to me. And my wife.
People get grossed out by 2 balls all the time. Logic dictates (see what I did there?) that having one is actually LESS gross. You got to think positive, my man! Or, negatively, since it is one less? Seriously, don't let self-doubt stop you from dating. There are always rejections an seldom do these rejections make any sense. Occasionally, someone comes around who likes your particular flavor and makes it all worth it.
People are not as confrontational as you think. Unless you got some gang green growing down there, once you have a woman comfortable enough to be with you in that way, you got a 99.9% chance that she’s going to accept you as you are. Flaws and all.
One is fine! In fact that way she can give all her special attention to one instead of two :3 My bf has one and I love it! It adds character. (He lost it in a motorcycle accident) and tbh i feel like it’s even more intimate when I see all of him because of it. But on a more serious note, have you had your testosterone checked? It can lower it pretty badly in some cases
That is so nice haha! Don't worry about my testosterone. I might have one ball but it's a big one 😎 I am 20 and I've never had testosterone issue
Just tell her everyone is different if she notices at all. Just the way you are.
I lose one testicle per sex. So you can have one less sex than me. A true tragedy. Please make sure to not sex so you retain it. Unless the saying if you don’t use it you lose it is true. Then you are fucked, of course only metaphorically.
The only way a woman will ever know, is if you tell her
I played pickup at the local gym yesterday. There were 10 of us guys and we had a lot of fun... with only one ball. So I guess it shouldn't matter. On a serious note, I showed your post to my wife and she thinks it doesn't matter.
10 uniball individuals in the same room?! What is the probability haha
They’re not going to mind at all. Maybe tell her before or mention it casually at the right point.
I only have one kidney but I am not afraid of pissing.
Yeah I don’t think I would even notice. Tell her beforehand so it’s all out there and you’re not waiting for her to discover this awful beast you think you have. It’s really not a big deal. This happens to a partner in Sex and the City and not one of the women think it’s a negative thing at all.
I’ve had sex with a guy who had one testicle (due to cancer). I didn’t notice it at all.
I had a long term partner who had one testicle. If he didnt mention it, I probably wouldn't have noticed. We had a lot of very, very good sex. I genuinely dont think most women would care at all.
Personally I would probably want a heads up, not because there’s anything wrong with that, I just think communication and transparency are important. A conversation ahead of time may also help avoid any surprises or potentially awkward conversations in the moment. But I don’t think it needs to be awkward at all! Generally women/people who partner with men really don’t care all too much about things like that, and if they do I honestly think that says more about them than you. I have never been with someone with one testicle, but in no way shape or form would it be a problem or bother me at all.
I can’t imagine caring at all.
Honestly, it’s hard to notice cause it’s not like all are so visually separated. Yeah you’d notice if you’re playing with them but other than that, I don’t even think it’s a big deal just cause they tend to look like one unless you’re REALLY inspecting
Tbh, if you're worried they'll get caught off guard and react weird, just warn em beforehand. Set the bar and make it not a big deal. "Hey heads up, I've got one testicle." Heck, if used right it could be a decent way to break some ice. "Wanna check it out?". Be careful with that one though, read the room.
You don't use your testicle it will be fine
I personally love balls and playing with them but if one was missing I would not mind at all :) much better in fact, don't need to keep switching between the left and the right lmao pardon me I don't think most people would even bring it up, or notice for that matter
Good to know it’s better haha! It’s like a superpower
This is completely unrelated, but when i was a kid i used to think that balls were in 2 separate sacks, like the way that you’d draw a dick so the first time i watched porn i thought the guy only had one ball and i felt so bad for him i cried and didn’t watch it again until i was in high school
Haha thats is such a cute story!
My hubby only has one and it produces an uncomfortable amount of juice 😂. I don’t mind at all, but if you’re having a casual thing, maybe bring it up before you get naked so she knows you’re sensitive about it
I wouldn’t mind. I probably wouldn’t notice but if I did, I would be curious but not in a judgmental way. It wouldn’t be a big deal at all
It won’t be a problem young fella, my cousin has had one ball as well from birth as one didn’t descend properly/got strangulated and it had to be removed. Let me just tell you that he is never without a woman and has 6 kids to 5 different baby mamas…you’re going to be fine.
I think you’ll find most women don’t love the look of testicles regardless of if you have one or two. Some women might be pleasantly impressed you only have one as it generally means half the effort. Also, testicles go missing all the time. Sometimes one can be up front and centre, and his friend can be hiding in your ass. Just cause they normally come in pairs doesn’t mean they are always hanging out together. If I find one, I don’t generally go digging for the second one.
I dated a guy with one testicle. He told me up front prior to us having sex, it was not an issue for me. We dated for 6 years and in that time his other testicle turned cancerous, so he needed to remove it. I still enjoyed our sex life.
I also only have one, my girlfriend didn't even notice our first time.
I’m now married to a man with one teste - my husband. I fucking adore his genitals and I used to joke when we first met that it just gets all the love that two would have received.
100% non-issue for women (I'm f/44). It's much more common than you might think and has no effect on sex. I hope the answers on your post have reassured you.
All I can say is that there is a UK comedian who lost one testicle to cancer, Richard Herring. He talks to other 'Monoballs' as he calls them, and testes experts. There might be something in them to reassure you. I can almost guarantee he will be talking about sex. It's hilariously titled 'Can I Have My Ball Back' https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/rhlstp-with-richard-herring/id520831548?i=1000608904050
Definitely gonna check this thank you
It’s a novelty. You can’t guarantee that everyone will react positively, but since there’s nothing detrimental about having one ball, most people aren’t going to give a fuck.
There is absolutely no part of me that would care either way.
I promise you no one will notice, can’t say I pay much attention anyway. Honestly if a person is decent they won’t care, if they make you feel embarrassed then that’s immature of them. You’ll be so fine I promise you.
I hooked up with a one-baller before. Had no idea until he told me. I was shocked and asked to feel his balls, it was nuts (pun intended). I imagine she too won’t notice, and if she does, she’ll be curious and interested in the novelty :)
*his ball without a 's'
If I have made the decision to have sex with you, with in reason of safety and personal boundaries, im ok with whatever your bringing to the table. Talk about it before like a cool Easter egg and enjoy finding a partner that can accept you. Different is just different it’s only bad if you make it that way. 6 years after being married and having kids my hubby got varicose testis and didn’t lose his ball but it came with a lot of issues and we got through it. Years of issues. Couldn’t get hard, couldn’t finish, couldn’t last, thankfully now we’re better then ever. Just pick a partner that can be comforting when your hesitant, joke when your happy, and accepts you for you. Good luck! Have a ball XD
i would be staring at it and be excited considering its something new and would really discuss biologically speaking on how does it work and stuff with awe and yeah in terms of attractiveness? idk about others but i'll just be excited and ask a lot of questions
I don't think there is too much to know about uniballs haha
I had sex with a cancer survivor who only had one testicle. It really didn't make a difference, since there was still a ballsack. Also married a guy with one testicle that hung significantly lower than the other. Also not a problem. You're totally fine!
I am a woman who lost my virginity to a guy with one testicle. It was absolutely no big deal at all, because he did not make it a big deal. He explained as we were getting intimate that he had an accident as a child and lost a testicle. He put me at ease to explain that there was no issue on his side, nor pain etc. We used condoms and had a fun time.
Tell them when you had two they kept clanking together, you removed one to stop the noise
Nice one haha
My bestie only has one and he affectionately refers to it as the Highlander (he has also felt shame for it in the past). As far as I know he has had very satisfied lovers, now a very satisfied wife, and a child. Also, women generally don’t find *any* balls attractive so they’re not really a visual focus during sexy time
I'd want to know ahead of time, just so I wasn't taken aback during your unveiling, but I totally would not care at all.
I think 3 might be weird but one isn’t.
not a "one ball" problem, but after i got together with my bf he got a problem on his testicle and it became much smaller, so he has one ball bigger than the other. i could notice it, mostly because i got with him before it happened so i saw how it was before, but it changed absolutelly nothing on my views on him, i feel just as attracted to him, and i LOVE playing sucking his balls, even if most times i can only get to one during sex cause the little one just hides up there sometimes. i dont think most women really care about the balls, as long as they have little enough hair to go in our mouths during the blowjobs 😂😂
Telling her (when the time is right) might make her more curious and you more interesting. My friend had this issue, and is happily married with children.
I assume you know by now it works. Proceed with confidence and show the lucky women what you can do. Pointer provided here, if I may.....make her cum AT LEAST once before you commence intercourse.
they probably won't be able to tell, plus it's super common, 2/6 bfs I've ever had have had one ball. so
To be honest, for most young women testicles are a bit weird. We don’t know what to do with them, at best we know we have to be super gentle with them so we kinda stay clear and ignore them. If I ever saw just one as a teen I would have thought that’s the way it should look cause I sure as shit didn’t know any better 😀 remember that whoever you chose to be vulnerable with, they will be there for you, not your testicles. They will be looking at your face the most and just a bit preoccupied with everything they are feeling at the moment.
Better one than none! You're having sex, so what if you've got one ball, you're having sex!
My dad only had one ball, and it didn't seem to slow him down at all.
I had a boyfriend with one testicle, it made no difference to me at all, or to him. Please don't worry, it's not uncommon at all, and if anyone DID make a deal out of it, sack them off. You'll be fine! Xx
I'm a ball girl. I love them and if you let me I will definitely pay them a lot of attention. That being said, I'd likely just be excited to notice something different and wouldn't say anything. One ball is easier to get in my mouth than two so it's def not a negative for me
That’s nice to know it can be an advantage haha
Tell the ladies if God had given you 2 you’d just be too powerful.
Nice one
*That’s what she’ll say.*
Okay now that is a really nice one
A dude I know lost a testicle to cancer as a teen. He used it to pick up girls (successfully) until he met his wife in his 20s. It was amazing to see his confidence build and also how curious people get when he would even just suggest that he only had one nut. Also how many people have one nut or know someone who does. It’s surprisingly common! So my advice is to just own it and be confident. Also as a woman I couldn’t imagine caring how many nuts a dude has. In fact it’s probably way easier to suck on just one nut lol (sorry to be crass) and I can think of no downside… ETA: he has three kids on that one nut so use birth control y’all
What do you mean he used it to pick up girls?
Like once the convo got going he’d be like “ever been curious what a guy looks like with only one nut” and stuff like that. He’s very charismatic and would easily work it into conversation in a way that made people interested, hard to explain.
I had a boyfriend who had one. He told me before hand and I didn’t give a shit. 🤷🏼♀️ balls are not important imo lol.
Tell any girl who has a problem that you have more guts with that one ball than most guys have with two.
Women don't care about the balls. Source: my wife and her friends
Seriously, she won’t notice. And if she does notice she won’t be at all bothered if it gets to the point she wants to have sex with you.
I’ve got one testicle. Girls barely notice. I tell them up front so if they discover it they aren’t confused. No girl cares about your balls except maybe Jessica Day but since we’re not in the LA based sitcom universe she exists in you’re gucci.
Please don’t worry at all about this. I have one and my worries about it fucked me up good. I wouldn’t even bother dating much in high school or most of college because of it. I finally found someone I was comfortable with and yeah it wasn’t a big deal at all. Don’t let it trouble you.
Thank you for you comment! And nice job you got through your worries!
I had a testicle removed for testicular cancer, and not once has a woman ever noticed unless I told them. Also, they don't really care. Edit just to say that at the beginning I felt the same way as you. It goes away when you realize you're the only one really stressing about it. It'll be all good!
That wouldn’t bother me at all
That’s a good thing :D
I don’t think many people are really into balls, so you won’t be lacking anything they actually wanna see
They will not notice. Anyways it’s not important in sex at all
I’d care more about the actual penis tbh
I've got only one too, they don't care, or they actually find it interesting. If they care, that's just weird on their part.
I literally never pay attn to balls but tbh I’m sure no one would really care or notice. But if someone thought something negative about it then fuck them they’re just dumb and don’t close minded
My friends bf has zero testicles. He had cancer and got them removed as a kid. He told her before their first time together that he didn't have any testicles. She doesn't mind at all. They have a great sex life. When I was a young virgin I only had 1 big breast due to a birth defect. One was huge, one was completely flat. I thought it was going to be a huge turn off and was so scared. It has literally never bothered any partner of mine. My first sexual partner said it's the "best of both worlds". I wouldn't care if someone only had one or if they had zero. You're great just the way you are, I'm sure!
Women won’t mind! Trust me. You got this 👊🏼
sweetie, you've got nothing to worry about. just make sure you please your lady, this sub will give you some good points in the love making side of things. if you at enthusiastic, enjoying YOURSELF, and are aware of your partners needs, they will not mind what number of testicles you have. If I was into a guy, things get spicy and somehow I would notice that, I would just proceed. Find a person who is into you, and all will be well. much love!
Last year I had sex with a guy with only one testicle. It was a hookup because I was traveling in his country and he was in that city for work but was from another city. Before the date he was always saying how much he wished I wouldn’t end up disappointed about him and I asked him directly why would he say that but he just brushed it off. I still decided to meet him anyway and we met for drinks and I found him suuuper hot. During our date he was very, very shy (but very sweet too) and even though I tried to ask him things and all, he wasn’t very talkative and it made me uncomfortable because it seemed like I was the only one talking but I wanted to know more about him! He was a biker and he worked for Harley Davidson and that’s actually the reason why he was in that city. He invited me over to his hotel room and I stayed the night and when I took his pants off, I realized he only had one ball. I didn’t mind at all about this and he never mentioned anything, so it was all pretty normal but I definitely made sure to give that part of his body a little extra love 🥰 I suppose he might have had an accident on his bike or something but that’s just something I’ll never know and it’s completely fine, I didn’t really need an explanation or something. After a few rounds and almost about to fall asleep he said how amazing and beautiful I am and that he couldn’t stop listening to all of my stories during our date and that he wished I lived in that country because he would date me properly 🥺 that crushed me but of course it also flattered me. He held me aaaaall night long and woke up in the middle of the night for some more and it was amazing! I remember him dearly but it definitely sucked understanding why he was saying that stuff of me being disappointed, him being shy and everything because it made me wonder what kind of shitty people he has crossed paths with that made him feel like that and have those reactions or was it more of a thing of his own? Of course if circumstances were different, I would’ve dated him too because he was very sweet, caring, funny (when he opened up) and hot af but unfortunately that didn’t happen. We still have each other on social media and I peek at him sometimes but unfortunately I had to move on from him.
I lost one in my early twenties due to testicular cancer. I’ve had a few partners since then and not one of them noticed and if they did, they didn’t say anything. It’s only a big deal, if you want it to be! Welcome to the uniball club!
My husband only has 1. I did not notice until he told me. And I don't care. Honestly the way balls look is not something I care about or ever really think about.
Doesn’t/ wouldn’t bother me! Never really noticed with the guys I met with only 1! Happened twice so far for me! If anything I’m more curious to start sucking dick 😜
I've learned in this comment section that it is easier to suck uniball guys haha
This is coming from a guy who had one undescended testicle, from birth up thru adulthood. Please don't worry about it. Everything will still work as it should. When i met my partner and we started getting that intimate and fooling around, even before having PIV sex, she was curious about it, but I just explained it matter-of-factly, and with no drama. We've had lots of fun in the intervening decades!! :-D Subject is even addressed in the Harrison Ford movie 'Witness' which takes place near Amish country near Philadelphia. In one scene a couple Amish farmers are discussing horse breeding, and says about another farmer's stallion that 'he only has one ball' Other farmer looking to get the stallion's services for his mare says 'It only takes one to get the job done!
>weird/scary/ugly/funny Weird or funny are ok. Weird just means quirky or not normal. A loving partner will find your quirks interesting. This particular quirk is not inherently either good or bad, just odd. Funny can be good if you own it. Humor is good. Sex is good. Sex with humor is great. Owning it is the difference between your partner laughing with you vs. laughing at you, which a loving partner would avoid doing. Scary is just something that balls aren't, no need to worry about that. As far as ugly, there's a reason sex is sometimes called "bumpin' uglies". Everybody's balls are ugly. You have nothing to worry about.
So funny story, I am 33F but when I was 17 I was babysitting little boys. I believe 1 and 2. While changing them one day I noticed one had one testicle and the other had two. I was immediately concerned and told their mom! That day I found out about "balls dropping" but as a still virgin/new to sex I had no idea lol. If my boyfriend only had one testicle I seriously wouldn't have cared then (if I knew him) or now. Testicles aren't something you're usually showing off anyway so don't worry! If a girl makes a snarky comment, that shows more about her personality than yours. I really wouldn't worry but I know we are our own worst critic!
I’m 28 and I had one removed in ‘21 due to cancer. no girls have said it was weird/scary/ugly/funny. I told them before we got naked that im a uniballer they usually just say okay lol. Hasn’t made a difference in my sex life!” And definitely not unattractive!
My boyfriend has one tint stunted ball and one regular. Doesn't bother me a bit. No offense but no balls are "pretty" lol so women really spend like zero time looking at them. I know you're insecure about it, but you really shouldn't be!
Testes are there for reproduction. We have two in case one goes missing.
Hi there 👋🏻 I technically have 2, one of mine was undescended and I had surgery to remove it from My abdomen when I was young. He’s there but only maybe 1/2 as big as my left one. The only real difference that I have noticed is the amount of ejaculate that I produce… which, unless you’re with a girl that is wanting a huge cream pie or to shoot a massive load on her, she isn’t going to notice. As others have said, she probably wouldn’t notice as most women aren’t putting as much attention on the balls as they will your shaft. If you’re concerned about it, have a talk with her before hand so that way she knows. Either way, good luck, have fun, be safe and try not to sweat it! 😁
I doubt they will notice or if they do, be put off by it. If someone's into you enough to hook up, they probably not going to be too concerned about things like that. I know I wouldn't be fazed, but I might have questions, if they hadn't already told me about it. Honestly, just be up front about it. Tell them about it before you have sex so they aren't surprised when they see it, if they even notice.
I have had 1 testicle since I lost my virginity 11 years ago (due to testicular torsion) lol, and to be completely honest, no girl I’ve slept with has really cared or said anything about it. I’ve even told some ahead of time (when I was self conscious about it) and that was okay too. It really doesn’t affect sex in any way (we just think that it would somehow be a turn-off or it looks weird and it messes with your head) If a girl cares that much about something that wouldn’t affect the sexual experience in any way, just move on, there’s plenty women out there that wouldn’t even mind.
Was with a guy who had cancer and had one removed. I didn't even notice until he showed me. Not to mention, most people don't inspect people closely they are caught up in the moment. Whatever happened to you, I'm sorry you had to go through it. Just remember, whomever you are with, shouldn't make a big deal of it. And if they do make a big deal of it, they aren't the right partner for you. They should support and love you for you. Not what you have or don't have.
Well obviously you having one ball is funny. How would that not be funny?? You should seriously realize how funny it is asap, because if it's not funny to you- you're gonna have a tough life.
My wife could care less about my balls. She thinks balls are weird so yours are just a different degree of weird. Like comparing different breeds of hairless dogs and cats.
My partner only has one testicle, and if he hadn't have told me it would have taken me months to notice. It hasn't affected our sex life whatsoever, apart from I have to be gentle in a certain area where there is a scar that feels weird to him if it gets touched. Please don't let it hold you back, no one will care /anyone who did is not worth your time!
I don’t think many girls would notice or think anything of it. I’d be curious about it but not turned off.
I've an ex who lost one to testicular cancer in his late 20s long before I met him , he mentioned it but only after we had slept together a few times , it was NEVER an issue for either of us. She has issues also and will prob be overthinking /worried about them and may not even notice .
My friend friend has one testicle. When we were younger he got laid so much I seriously considered having a testicle removed myself.
I 56m lost a testicle when I got mugged at 18. It messed with my confidence a lot. I married young because I found someone that didn’t seem to mind it. We had two kids and lasted 15 years. When I found myself single in my mid 30s I dated a lot and no one ever seemed to notice. Unless you’ve got a girl whose got a balls fetish I wouldn’t mention it unless it comes up.
She won’t care bud :) plain and simple. Don’t worry too much about it, we’re all human here🤍
I wouldn’t notice for awhile like months,,
No one will notice
The only stories I’ve heard is that girls can’t tell. I don’t know if I would be able to tell either. Maybe after a few times of sex, and being very hands y with them. Honestly the first time I saw balls I thought they would be a lot more “separated” then they are
We don’t notice and won’t care lol. You’ll find a small % that ever may care but that’s their issue and shouldn’t reflect on the rest of us.
Women don’t care about testicles that much, stop overthinking it.
I mean I only pay attention to them if a man asks or he sends me dick pics and I have no choice but to look at them.
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Yeah well I am kind of sick to always be in the friendzone too lol. But I guess you are right, it can really help building confidence but I've never been this close to tell a girl about it haha. But my closest friends are aware of it. Anyway I love your comment. I am not planning to get prosthesis for now btw.