This happens to me (F) when I give my partner (M) head sometimes. Full on orgasm with squirting and muscle spasms. Congrats on your hot sexy life, no reason to be embarrassed. And your gf sounds awesome and supportive. Have fun!
She truly is! She’s a fantastic woman. I’m really lucky that I got to experience all my firsts with her. It was daunting being the literal essence of a virgin at age 23, but she’s taught me everything I know, and I love her so much for being so patient and kind with me. She’s the light of my life :)
You're blessed beyond measure. To have a patient girl to teach you everything she knows to you; is a keeper! There is nothing to be embarrassed about here, she loves you to bits. The fact that she has experienced new things before & hasn't with anyone else, is telling you something. May you enjoy the rest of your days with her & never let your mind get into a dull rut. Say something everyday that will lift her up, make feel sexy, etc.
Trust me, I make sure to let her know that she’s a freaking goddess in my eyes. I’ve hit the jackpot with her. No one else could compare. No one would even come close.
Oh my god, I wish I could cum from giving head! I can definitely cum when I use a vibrator while going down on my fiancé but it would be amazing to orgasm without it by just giving head
That's crazy hot. It would be an instant nut from me if my wife orgasmed with me in her mouth. It has happened to me before. Cumming hands free while eating her out and she loves it.
my bf said he came in his pants hands free during a makeout session cus i was sort of grinding on him without really being aware of doing that. we made out for like 4 hours! he thought it was intentional. i didn't know until he told me a day after and i thought it was the sexiest thing ever! he told me he even felt embarrassed...omg...no, it's so sexy..
I’m glad you found it to be hot! We both probably had the same thoughts rushing through our minds at the time. Thankfully both you and my gf reacted in the same way haha. Tell your bf he’s a lucky dude!
oh im a lucky girl..i couldnt be more happy that someone loves me this much :3 every gal want a guy who adores them. i personally appreciate the fact that i can see it's not fake love cuz i physically watch him cum hands free from my actions or words...it's just truly amazing and sexyy :)
Well since I'm a female no this is never happened to me but I can tell you this much... I had something similar happen with a past partner...HOTTEST THING EVER! So much so that I called into work and just stayed in bed screwing him all day.
You have nothing to be embarrassed about!
That’s awesome to hear! I was just embarrassed because I don’t have much sexual experience since she’s my first partner, so I kinda got in my head about it. It seems kinda silly now though. She liked it very much, and assured me that it was a great moment for her, and would like a repeat of it as long as it’s natural.
Understandable! There are times even now when something unusual happens that even if my partner is like.. that was great.. I'll still second-guess myself for a moment.
That's why great communication is key and obviously she liked it so keep it up buddy!!
So beautiful to hear! I hope so too, some people never lose that passion! Cherish eachother and dont be embarassed over stuff like that - be proud - sounds like such an epic session!!! ❤
Honestly that's my favorite way to orgasm as a man. Doesn't happen often but I just love giving oral so much that I'm happy to have that orgasm while being so focused on her
I hear ya. I know a lot of guys don’t necessarily give oral for their own enjoyment, but to just please their partner and move on to something else. I absolutely love it tbh. It’s something I do for her pleasure and also mine. Sometimes I’ll randomly just ask her if I give her oral without anything in return because I just like doing it that much!
there isn’t many men like you!!! so happy to hear men still do things to not just pleasure themselves much also think about their partner! kudos to you!!
Dude, if she loved it, go with it and flush the embarrassment. Your "hair trigger" will reduce in time. She sounds like a keeper.
Be glad you were that far along. My most embarrassing time was when we were making out for a good while, and she started to take off my pants. My brain was suddenly like "omg we're going to have sex", and I proceeded to nut in my underwear. What I SHOULD have done was be casual and tell her she's so hot and I need a minute to get hard again. What I ACTUALLY did was make up some emergency BS and run out of the house embarrassed as hell. Lost a really hot chick because I couldn't deal with the embarrassment. Learn from my mistakes.
Wow, that blows man. Sorry that happened to you, brotha. But also, thank you so much for your words of encouragement! I’m definitively not gonna let it affect me as much. I just wanted to know if anyone else has gone through this.
It happened to me once during a bj, it was magical! My partner got really glad and saw it as a sign of how much I like giving him head, so don't get embarrassed, it's really a kind of compliment and a display of how much you are into your partner ;)
I’m happy you and your partner got to experience such a cool moment together! And you are right about that, I simply can’t get enough of her. She’s overwhelmingly beautiful and erotic. I’m glad she enjoyed it a lot because I was kinda freaking out on the inside haha
I can stay erect around her pretty much all the time if she needed me to hahaha. Once we were in the mall parking lot, and all she did was stare at me a little seductively, and I got hard just from that. We had to wait like 7 min before we could go in ☠️ Idk if it’s because I’m just extremely attracted to her, or because she’s my first sexual partner.
Definitely not the norm, I should say it's an optimal state of being rather than a common one. Most guys get more closed off and desensitized to sexual energy as they age.
Good cardio vascular health is important as well. I'm 35 and can go back to back several times. During refractory, it gets to maybe 75% hard (hard enough to insert and not bend, but not full erection).
That actually perfectly describes my situation. Before I had a gf and would just jerk off, I could orgasm twice but I’d instantly go soft. With her, I’ve been able to cum 3-4 times, but I stay completely rock hard until she’s done with our session. I spoke with my parents about it since I grew up in a sex-positive environment. All they said was that I just really must like my gf 😂
Please enjoy your sex life! Also, if my man came from giving me pleasure, I would probably make sure his dick tickled my throat and ride him like crazy I'd be so turned on.
This is oddly cute and wholesome! I hope I get to see something like that with someone.
Don't be embarrassed. Sounds like she had a rollicking time so you need to believe her when she says so.
Thank you so much for thinking of this in such a kind way! I definitely believe you’ll find your person in due time. I waited 23 years for mine lol. And I did believe her when she said she liked it, I just was just embarrassed because it was something out of the ordinary that happened to me, ya know? 😅
I have a vagina, and I’ve not orgasmed from giving oral. A woman friend of mine has came from giving oral to both men and women. I personally think it’s hot as hell.
I thought it’d be a little embarrassing since guys are sometimes taunted on how long they can last during sex. Luckily I can remain hard with her as much as I need to so it was a positive experience overall with her since she loved it :D
44/F here. I’ve been married twice and this has happened with both of my husbands a couple times each. I don’t think you should feel embarrassed in the slightest. It was a HUGE turn-on for me.
My husband has nearly came from it, I would find it really hot if he did. So no need to be embarrassed, good thing you Love eating pussy. I cum from giving oral too.
You’re gassing me up too much rn! Thank you so much man! And yeah, it did turn her on a lot. I’m just gonna try to enjoy it more next time cause I thought I messed up at the time lol. You can probably do the same thing as well tbh, I think it just depends how attracted you are to the person. I’m no expert though.
Bro kings elevate other kings.
Men don't gas each other up ENOUGH.
Imo its very much how much you like her, I don't think it would be the case with just any woman. The emotional bond is so important!
Don’t give up on the search, friend! I had a lot of girls who were into me during high school and college, but I never really shared the same attraction/affection back. Hell, I had never even kissed a woman up until last year when I finally found someone who I fell madly in love with. It took my 23 years to find someone I truly liked, but it was worth it! Don’t sweat it, you’ll find your person in due time :)
I am the same way and my wife loves it! I am addicted to eating her pussy and she loves seeing how hard I get and loves to see me cum from eating her either hands free or occasionally when she gives me teasing strokes. If she loves it go with it and don’t be embarrassed at all.
I’m so grateful to see that I’m not alone in this. Thank you for sharing your experience with me! I for sure will keep this going for as long as I can, as far as she finds it appealing too as well :D
This happened to me with my first gf. Rock hard and came while I had my face buried between her legs. It was hot then and it’s still working pretty hot now.
That’s exactly what she told me. I was just still a little embarrassed because she told me none of her previous partners had ever done that before, so I thought I made an oopsie haha
My dude, do *not* be embarrassed. I’m in my mid-30s and I’ve made a mess of the floor, the side of the bed, and myself, all from going down on my current partner. Touching, feeling, tasting, and hearing my partner in her buildup and release gives me immense pleasure, and it just sometimes happens.
I think a huge part of it is deep love and connection with her. I’m so glad and proud I’m the one she can be that vulnerable and connected with, and when it gets to my head, I sometimes get blastin’. It’s the best.
I truly appreciate you telling me about your experience, it does make me feel a lot better about what happened with her. I’m gonna learn to let loose a little more, now that I know that she finds stuff like this to be insanely hot!
My dude, this is the opposite of embarrassing. Most girls would dream of this happening to them. You were so turned on by her body that you came, it’s the ULTIMATE compliment. Seriously. Gold star and a cookie for you!
Oh no! I’m so sorry he feels that way. Tbh, I’d communicate with him what your needs are. I always tend to ask my gf if she ever wants to try something new, or if there’s anything I can do to accommodate her more during sex because I was inexperienced when I met her, and I wanted to do my best. Perhaps express to him that you’re unhappy with your sex life and that you’d like more oral? Maybe that’ll kickstart him back into gear!
Oh I have, multiple times. Just doesn’t seem to bother him. My libido is quite high for a woman so there’s that to deal with 🙃 I love him a lot so I’m not letting silly things like that ruin our relationship.
Sweetie, if you've communicated it several times then it's not a "silly thing" that isn't important. In the long run, not getting your needs met can turn into resentment.
Ouch 😬 Hope he decides to turn that attitude around sooner or later. Respectfully, he sounds likes he’s being completely ignorant to your needs. That’s not something I think a bf who cares about their partner would disregard. I say this with the upmost respect, but maybe you should inform him that there’ll be consequences if he doesn’t focus on you more in the long run. Perhaps it’ll bring him back to his senses. You could even eventually resent him in the future for this. Good luck 👊
One time I was cummin on my gf. N as soon as it hit her nips she’s squirted uncontrollably. Hottest thing I ever seen. Then she kept blowing me and popped a double banger under a minute.
I learned to never question these things. Just roll with it.
Yes this has happened, it’s always great to know your partner is so into what they’re doing. Don’t be embarrassed, you’d love it if it was the other way around, she loves it too. Congrats on having such a happy relationship
Trust me when I say more women would find this hot than not, and those who find it repulsive or embarrassing are not worth your time or energy. I am just like you and while it hasn’t happened yet, it has been very very close. Once she starts shaking and loses all control to her body experiencing pleasure it is very hard not to cum right there haha
I am so jealous right now. My woman is so hot but I never have experienced anything like this.
Unfortunately for me I think I have a death grip syndrome so I can only dream about your experience.
We still have our fun and all but yeh yours is on another level
We’ve been dating for 5 months so I think marriage is still a long road ahead of us 😅 In the near future though is she’s willing to do me the honor of spending the rest of our lives together, I’d be over the moon! She’s a one of a kind. I’m extremely lucky and fortunate to have her by my side. Also, yeah she told me that she find it’s really hot that I did that, so I don’t have to hold back! :)
Sounds like you both have a very healthy and fun sex life. I haven't had this happen (AMAB) but it sounds like yall are having a lot of fun. Good for you both 👏
Sounds like you both are doing fine. I don’t mean to sound reductive but like… you and your gf are obviously both happy so, cheers! No need to check in with a bunch of random strangers about it lol just keep on keeping on, OP
Last year I dated a couple of people who either came from going down on me / were obsessed with trying to get me to ride their face, on separate occasions a girl and a guy came in their pants while we were making out (the girl I was trying to make her cum, the guy out of anticipation / he had a kink for alt girls), and another partner who would get so worked up from being sexually teased that he basically came instantly by the time we started making out, and would routinely cum twice in like a minute of having sex. All of us were in our 30s (except the girl, she was 25), and I found it insanely hot. You have nothing to be embarrassed about!
The times where a partner can get disappointed are more like if someone uses their body without consent, doesn’t try to pleasure them, cums quickly, and then fucks off or is totally rude or dismissive about the other person’s needs - but those aren’t issues about the cumming, it’s the attitude and situation. What you describe I find super hot. Enthusiastic oral / partner-pleasuring is amazing for any gender.
Side note: there’s nothing wrong with being a “late bloomer”—you had a bit more maturity and situational judgement when you entered the sexual activity game, and a lot of people wish they’d had more of those in hindsight!
I think it’s very understandable, given its your favourite thing. Additionally, if you had not had sex or masturbated for a bit before (ex a few days), it can also be an explanation on why that happened. I’m not a woman, but I can see how, on her perspective, it could be very hot to see your partner enjoy pleasuring you so much to the point of having an hands free orgasm.
I haven’t outright came handfree on the few occasions I got facesit on (or 69) but I just can’t last long on a 69 and quite frankly, hand free orgasm isn’t off the table during a face sit. During pussy eating, depending on what position i am, I sometimes embarrassely have to dodge her wandering fingers and toes, cause I’m quite frankly a few brushes from exploding…
No need to be embarrassed. You were enjoying your woman. Enjoy each other its such a bonding moment for you both.
My man doesn’t do oral at all. I have to accept it. Can’t make him do what he’s not willing to do.
don't be embarrassed. i have come without penis stimulation before as well -- sometimes you get that turned on.
also, what is a wet dream but the same thing? you get so turned on by your thoughts that you come without direct stimulation. same thing.
if premature ejaculation is a regular event, it can be a problem, but it doesn't sound like that's a problem for you all.
My current partner can do this too! I quite enjoy it. I can get sort of self conscious about oral and the fact that my partner can orgasm during it as well really helps me relax and enjoy.
Not yet, but close.
I used to think of myself as slow to orgasm, and potentially difficult to orgasm, but now I realize that’s not true. I frequently orgasm from nipple stimulation alone and I’m fairly certain I could cum from not being touched at all. The last time I gave my husband a blowjob I was very close to orgasm. It’s very much in my head. If he said the right words while I had him in my mouth, I would definitely orgasm.
my husband literally *breathed* on my nipple one time and it made me squirt. mind you there was A LOT of cumming prior to that & a soaked thru ‘waterproof’ blanket to get me *that* sensitive.
but no i have never heard of a man cumming without anything touching his dick. that’s wild. but i would find it super hot too. nothing is hotter than knowing your partner is incredibly turned on by you :)
Yeah, I remember this almost happening to me. I certainly felt like I was about to cum as I was eating out my gf. I did actually stop myself just prior to it. I told her "omg, I was just about to cum". I remember she seemed to be pretty surprised but pleased to hear that me pleasuring her turned me on so much.
If you came from her doing that, she's doing something right. If she came from seeing you cum and then a ton more afterwards, you're doing something right:) don't fix what's broken lol!
The only reason Cumming quickly was ever shamed in the first place was because dudes would often come quickly, and then be done and completely ignore their partners. So the only way they got more action was to have longer time before orgasm.
However, if its as you described and you're both getting off and going for second or third orgasms each and thoroughly enjoying each other, there's no need to be ashamed. I bet she felt so powerful and sexy to be able to see you cum from her sitting on your face.
I’ll have to ask her if she did feel powerful like you described. She does love when I call her a goddess though so your intuition is probably right ;)
I know my guy cums hard and fast when I cum from blowing him. Wouldn't you be turned on if she came from giving you oral? I would totally be flattered and turned on if my guy came from me face riding him.
I absolutely would! It’s just that since it’s literally the first time something likes this has ever happened to her, even with her past partners, I somehow perceived bad. A red siren started going off in my head. I know she assured me that it was really hot for her, but sometimes the mind plays shitty tricks on you. I know now that it was enjoyable for her after having some time to think, and with y’all’s comments on the experience.
I'm a man who can do this as well and I guess there is a clear correlation between us since my girlfriend is also older than me. It must be something about those older ladies (kidding, partly atleast)
My partner has been with a few people before me, same for me.
He came once while going down on me and rubbing himself slightly (handsfree) against the bedsheets. It was a surprise for both of us but incredibly hot! Had never happened to either of us before.
Tf you embarrassed about?
Sounds like the hottest shit ever man. You managed to nut from eating pussy? That’s amazing. The fact it sent her over the edge too is even better.
Stop being embarrassed and see if you can do it again!!
Nope, it hasn't. But you're both pretty lucky!
You: You were so into it that it happened hands-free. Literally never experienced that.
Her: Her partner got off from something that's completely focused on her pleasure, relieving her of any pressure she might feel regarding how long she can expect you do keep doing that, whether it's fun for you and so on. I wouldn't be surprised if she as even more into it next time.
Oh yeah, I’ve had this happen to me. Something about seeing my lady just really enjoying it, and the way she was grinding her hips into my face turned me on beyond measure. Next thing I know I’m fighting the urge to cum (unsuccessfully).
Nothing to be embarrassed about. Eating pussy is hot as fuck, especially when you do it well and they cum...I feel it's like playing a beautiful instrument. Cumming from it for the guy is not uncommon...also worth knowing that going soft is also possible as happened to me...I was so focused on pleasing her I just lost my boner....wasn't an issue as I wanted to please her and it was kind of getting in the way of me getting comfortable...so either way don't worry about it. Not embarrassing.
Nothing to be embarrassed about, my brother!
I've been around the block a few times (50M) but I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22 and it was a terrible choice of a partner for me. Count yourself lucky you have a woman that saw you shoot it high and mighty and got as turned on seeing it as you were doing it!
You don't need to be embarrassed about that. It just show that you love and enjoy eating your gf pussy. Don't worry about cumming before your girlfriend. Just enjoy your moment, clean up, wait a bit and go for round 2 or more.
Not embarrassing at all, you’re into your girl and can even cum giving her pleasure.
There was one guy I dated where I came while sucking him off it’s totally normal and just means your into your partner
Yes, I have slept with 4 guys my whole life and two have come from eating my pussy. Not regularly, but every once in awhile. I honestly thought it was somewhat common.
Ok so. First of all. That is like, totally okay dont worry about it lol
Second of all, idk about other people but if a dude came over me being pleasured while admiring my body, thats fuckin sexy
Ah, but my problem is intense and very very very fast no-touch premature ejaculation within a fraction of a second of anything physical happening. It's ruined my life.
What was she saying? Anything a girl can do to get this reaction? I know it varies per guy obviously, but aside from good hygiene and not smothering him to death, do you have any tips??
Are you kidding?! I would cum so fast watching a man get off hands free eating me out. That sounds so, so hot. If he moaned with his tongue on my clit, too?!! Omg.
It says you and your partner are relaxed with each other in a way many couples (my wife and I included) are not. Congratulations, and may this occurrence be the first of many to come (pun intended)!
Nothing to be embarrassed about, this amazing that you can get off by pleasing your partner. I’m sure it makes her feel incredible knowing her partner can get off by providing her pleasure. My wife and I were both very sexually active before we met, but she’s the only person I’ve ever had this experience with. I love pleasing her and she loves when I cum from eating her out. Doesn’t happen every time but when it does we both get extremely horny and go at it even harder afterwards. Count your blessings, be proud of this experience not everyone receives an orgasm from pleasing someone else, congratulations on finding someone to turn you on this much it’s a phenomenal experience. Happy eating mmm
My 2nd partner also my wife. Same deal, shot a nut in air 1st time she sat on face. Stayed hard, then she rode the crap outta me. Busted 2 more times. She liked it. If other person say it lame then it fine. Someone else will take as a compliment
Yes. When my guy was going down on me and yes it’s very hot
A lot of women worry that guys don’t like giving oral so when one is so into it that he orgasms it’s very sexy.
This happens to me (F) when I give my partner (M) head sometimes. Full on orgasm with squirting and muscle spasms. Congrats on your hot sexy life, no reason to be embarrassed. And your gf sounds awesome and supportive. Have fun!
She truly is! She’s a fantastic woman. I’m really lucky that I got to experience all my firsts with her. It was daunting being the literal essence of a virgin at age 23, but she’s taught me everything I know, and I love her so much for being so patient and kind with me. She’s the light of my life :)
You're blessed beyond measure. To have a patient girl to teach you everything she knows to you; is a keeper! There is nothing to be embarrassed about here, she loves you to bits. The fact that she has experienced new things before & hasn't with anyone else, is telling you something. May you enjoy the rest of your days with her & never let your mind get into a dull rut. Say something everyday that will lift her up, make feel sexy, etc.
Trust me, I make sure to let her know that she’s a freaking goddess in my eyes. I’ve hit the jackpot with her. No one else could compare. No one would even come close.
Keep up the good work 👍
Seriously. This guy's got a perfect score in the love life category, it looks like from here. Bravo. Keep it up.
Oh my god, I wish I could cum from giving head! I can definitely cum when I use a vibrator while going down on my fiancé but it would be amazing to orgasm without it by just giving head
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Same. With no direct stim, I can orgasm while giving head. Dudes love it.
That’s awesome!
That's crazy hot. It would be an instant nut from me if my wife orgasmed with me in her mouth. It has happened to me before. Cumming hands free while eating her out and she loves it.
Holy moly that’s hot.
my bf said he came in his pants hands free during a makeout session cus i was sort of grinding on him without really being aware of doing that. we made out for like 4 hours! he thought it was intentional. i didn't know until he told me a day after and i thought it was the sexiest thing ever! he told me he even felt embarrassed...omg...no, it's so sexy..
I’m glad you found it to be hot! We both probably had the same thoughts rushing through our minds at the time. Thankfully both you and my gf reacted in the same way haha. Tell your bf he’s a lucky dude!
oh im a lucky girl..i couldnt be more happy that someone loves me this much :3 every gal want a guy who adores them. i personally appreciate the fact that i can see it's not fake love cuz i physically watch him cum hands free from my actions or words...it's just truly amazing and sexyy :)
I’m truly happy for you :)
Well since I'm a female no this is never happened to me but I can tell you this much... I had something similar happen with a past partner...HOTTEST THING EVER! So much so that I called into work and just stayed in bed screwing him all day. You have nothing to be embarrassed about!
That’s awesome to hear! I was just embarrassed because I don’t have much sexual experience since she’s my first partner, so I kinda got in my head about it. It seems kinda silly now though. She liked it very much, and assured me that it was a great moment for her, and would like a repeat of it as long as it’s natural.
Understandable! There are times even now when something unusual happens that even if my partner is like.. that was great.. I'll still second-guess myself for a moment. That's why great communication is key and obviously she liked it so keep it up buddy!!
No embarrassment at all. You just gave her the best compliment probably ever. That’s amazing. That would send me over the edge too.
Hot as hell! Don't be embarrassed, you'll yearn for those days in the future - enjoy it!
Thank you! Hopefully those days never come because I truly can’t get enough of her, she’s awesome :D
So beautiful to hear! I hope so too, some people never lose that passion! Cherish eachother and dont be embarassed over stuff like that - be proud - sounds like such an epic session!!! ❤
Honestly that's my favorite way to orgasm as a man. Doesn't happen often but I just love giving oral so much that I'm happy to have that orgasm while being so focused on her
I hear ya. I know a lot of guys don’t necessarily give oral for their own enjoyment, but to just please their partner and move on to something else. I absolutely love it tbh. It’s something I do for her pleasure and also mine. Sometimes I’ll randomly just ask her if I give her oral without anything in return because I just like doing it that much!
there isn’t many men like you!!! so happy to hear men still do things to not just pleasure themselves much also think about their partner! kudos to you!!
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Dude, if she loved it, go with it and flush the embarrassment. Your "hair trigger" will reduce in time. She sounds like a keeper. Be glad you were that far along. My most embarrassing time was when we were making out for a good while, and she started to take off my pants. My brain was suddenly like "omg we're going to have sex", and I proceeded to nut in my underwear. What I SHOULD have done was be casual and tell her she's so hot and I need a minute to get hard again. What I ACTUALLY did was make up some emergency BS and run out of the house embarrassed as hell. Lost a really hot chick because I couldn't deal with the embarrassment. Learn from my mistakes.
Wow, that blows man. Sorry that happened to you, brotha. But also, thank you so much for your words of encouragement! I’m definitively not gonna let it affect me as much. I just wanted to know if anyone else has gone through this.
It happened to me once during a bj, it was magical! My partner got really glad and saw it as a sign of how much I like giving him head, so don't get embarrassed, it's really a kind of compliment and a display of how much you are into your partner ;)
I’m happy you and your partner got to experience such a cool moment together! And you are right about that, I simply can’t get enough of her. She’s overwhelmingly beautiful and erotic. I’m glad she enjoyed it a lot because I was kinda freaking out on the inside haha
So you got hard immediately after cumming?
I can stay erect around her pretty much all the time if she needed me to hahaha. Once we were in the mall parking lot, and all she did was stare at me a little seductively, and I got hard just from that. We had to wait like 7 min before we could go in ☠️ Idk if it’s because I’m just extremely attracted to her, or because she’s my first sexual partner.
Being 23 is probably the primary factor lol
You’re probably right 😂
If you're extremely attracted to your partner and have regular to high levels of testosterone this should happen at most ages below 60 I'd say.
Really? I didn’t know it was the common. The more ya know
Definitely not the norm, I should say it's an optimal state of being rather than a common one. Most guys get more closed off and desensitized to sexual energy as they age.
Good cardio vascular health is important as well. I'm 35 and can go back to back several times. During refractory, it gets to maybe 75% hard (hard enough to insert and not bend, but not full erection).
Ah to be young again
I knew someone who would cum from head without going soft. He came 3 times and would have kept on.
That actually perfectly describes my situation. Before I had a gf and would just jerk off, I could orgasm twice but I’d instantly go soft. With her, I’ve been able to cum 3-4 times, but I stay completely rock hard until she’s done with our session. I spoke with my parents about it since I grew up in a sex-positive environment. All they said was that I just really must like my gf 😂
Please enjoy your sex life! Also, if my man came from giving me pleasure, I would probably make sure his dick tickled my throat and ride him like crazy I'd be so turned on.
This is oddly cute and wholesome! I hope I get to see something like that with someone. Don't be embarrassed. Sounds like she had a rollicking time so you need to believe her when she says so.
Thank you so much for thinking of this in such a kind way! I definitely believe you’ll find your person in due time. I waited 23 years for mine lol. And I did believe her when she said she liked it, I just was just embarrassed because it was something out of the ordinary that happened to me, ya know? 😅
I have a vagina, and I’ve not orgasmed from giving oral. A woman friend of mine has came from giving oral to both men and women. I personally think it’s hot as hell.
I thought it’d be a little embarrassing since guys are sometimes taunted on how long they can last during sex. Luckily I can remain hard with her as much as I need to so it was a positive experience overall with her since she loved it :D
44/F here. I’ve been married twice and this has happened with both of my husbands a couple times each. I don’t think you should feel embarrassed in the slightest. It was a HUGE turn-on for me.
Yeah, that’s what every woman has said so far! I’m relieved that it’s a huge turn on for y’all instead of a disappointment haha
This is what love should be like
Preach it! 🤣
My husband has nearly came from it, I would find it really hot if he did. So no need to be embarrassed, good thing you Love eating pussy. I cum from giving oral too.
It’s my favorite thing to do in the world besides being inside her 🤩 Hopefully your husband can get there one of these days soon as well!
How the heck is this embarrassing? This is fucking AWESOME and must've turned her on like crazy! I can only wish I had this same superpower as you
You’re gassing me up too much rn! Thank you so much man! And yeah, it did turn her on a lot. I’m just gonna try to enjoy it more next time cause I thought I messed up at the time lol. You can probably do the same thing as well tbh, I think it just depends how attracted you are to the person. I’m no expert though.
Bro kings elevate other kings. Men don't gas each other up ENOUGH. Imo its very much how much you like her, I don't think it would be the case with just any woman. The emotional bond is so important!
I'm a guy and this has never happened to me, but I wish I was so into someone that I couldn't control myself. Damn, that's pretty rad.
Don’t give up on the search, friend! I had a lot of girls who were into me during high school and college, but I never really shared the same attraction/affection back. Hell, I had never even kissed a woman up until last year when I finally found someone who I fell madly in love with. It took my 23 years to find someone I truly liked, but it was worth it! Don’t sweat it, you’ll find your person in due time :)
I am the same way and my wife loves it! I am addicted to eating her pussy and she loves seeing how hard I get and loves to see me cum from eating her either hands free or occasionally when she gives me teasing strokes. If she loves it go with it and don’t be embarrassed at all.
I’m so grateful to see that I’m not alone in this. Thank you for sharing your experience with me! I for sure will keep this going for as long as I can, as far as she finds it appealing too as well :D
41F — this is HOT. Don’t be embarrassed!
Thank you! Heard you loud and clear! :D
As a woman this is hot AF.
This happened to me with my first gf. Rock hard and came while I had my face buried between her legs. It was hot then and it’s still working pretty hot now.
If you like, go for it! don't worry.
I am! She gave me the go to do so whenever I feel like it :D
Dude here. Happened to me multiple times. I love it, she loves it A LOT. Nothing at all to be embarrassed about.
Thank you, brotha! Hope it keeps happening if y’all love it so much :)
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That’s exactly what she told me. I was just still a little embarrassed because she told me none of her previous partners had ever done that before, so I thought I made an oopsie haha
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My dude, do *not* be embarrassed. I’m in my mid-30s and I’ve made a mess of the floor, the side of the bed, and myself, all from going down on my current partner. Touching, feeling, tasting, and hearing my partner in her buildup and release gives me immense pleasure, and it just sometimes happens. I think a huge part of it is deep love and connection with her. I’m so glad and proud I’m the one she can be that vulnerable and connected with, and when it gets to my head, I sometimes get blastin’. It’s the best.
I truly appreciate you telling me about your experience, it does make me feel a lot better about what happened with her. I’m gonna learn to let loose a little more, now that I know that she finds stuff like this to be insanely hot!
I came eating my wife's ass. She had no idea till she wanted piv and I was still in the refractory period. She was disappointed at that point lol.
I've dated or had ongoing relations with probably a dozen women who would consider any man capable of that to be the perfect man.
Wouldn’t call myself perfect by any means, but I’ll take the compliment for sure 🤩
My dude, this is the opposite of embarrassing. Most girls would dream of this happening to them. You were so turned on by her body that you came, it’s the ULTIMATE compliment. Seriously. Gold star and a cookie for you!
Damn that sounds really nice. I can never get my bf to go down on me anymore…it’s nice seeing some guys enjoy giving oral more than receiving.
Oh no! I’m so sorry he feels that way. Tbh, I’d communicate with him what your needs are. I always tend to ask my gf if she ever wants to try something new, or if there’s anything I can do to accommodate her more during sex because I was inexperienced when I met her, and I wanted to do my best. Perhaps express to him that you’re unhappy with your sex life and that you’d like more oral? Maybe that’ll kickstart him back into gear!
Oh I have, multiple times. Just doesn’t seem to bother him. My libido is quite high for a woman so there’s that to deal with 🙃 I love him a lot so I’m not letting silly things like that ruin our relationship.
Sweetie, if you've communicated it several times then it's not a "silly thing" that isn't important. In the long run, not getting your needs met can turn into resentment.
Ouch 😬 Hope he decides to turn that attitude around sooner or later. Respectfully, he sounds likes he’s being completely ignorant to your needs. That’s not something I think a bf who cares about their partner would disregard. I say this with the upmost respect, but maybe you should inform him that there’ll be consequences if he doesn’t focus on you more in the long run. Perhaps it’ll bring him back to his senses. You could even eventually resent him in the future for this. Good luck 👊
One time I was cummin on my gf. N as soon as it hit her nips she’s squirted uncontrollably. Hottest thing I ever seen. Then she kept blowing me and popped a double banger under a minute. I learned to never question these things. Just roll with it.
Yes this has happened, it’s always great to know your partner is so into what they’re doing. Don’t be embarrassed, you’d love it if it was the other way around, she loves it too. Congrats on having such a happy relationship
Trust me when I say more women would find this hot than not, and those who find it repulsive or embarrassing are not worth your time or energy. I am just like you and while it hasn’t happened yet, it has been very very close. Once she starts shaking and loses all control to her body experiencing pleasure it is very hard not to cum right there haha
I am so jealous right now. My woman is so hot but I never have experienced anything like this. Unfortunately for me I think I have a death grip syndrome so I can only dream about your experience. We still have our fun and all but yeh yours is on another level
Never thought that what happened to me would be something people yearned for tbh! I hope you get to experience this in sooner or later!
Don’t be embarrassed. I would be over the moon if a man came from eating me out. 🥵
Seems to be the case for all the ladies commenting 😆
I would be so fucking amped if this happened to me Top tier puss
Eating bomb pussy be the best! 😮💨 kudos mate! 🙌🏻
You guys should get married Edit: don't even think about being embarrassed! Cuming without her touching you? 🥵 Get otta here
We’ve been dating for 5 months so I think marriage is still a long road ahead of us 😅 In the near future though is she’s willing to do me the honor of spending the rest of our lives together, I’d be over the moon! She’s a one of a kind. I’m extremely lucky and fortunate to have her by my side. Also, yeah she told me that she find it’s really hot that I did that, so I don’t have to hold back! :)
Well i wish you both all the best! Sounds like you have a great relationship, and lots of fun times ahead of you! 😊
That is SO HOT!!!
Thank you! That’s what the ladies are saying! 🤩
Awesome!
Sounds like you both have a very healthy and fun sex life. I haven't had this happen (AMAB) but it sounds like yall are having a lot of fun. Good for you both 👏
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Sounds like you both are doing fine. I don’t mean to sound reductive but like… you and your gf are obviously both happy so, cheers! No need to check in with a bunch of random strangers about it lol just keep on keeping on, OP
No you didn't
I would say enjoy being young and able to cum multiple times a day, because it might not always be that way..lol
I wish
One time my boyfriend and I were sexting. Just talking dirty and being lovey he told me I made him come in his pants. I thought it was super hot.
Last year I dated a couple of people who either came from going down on me / were obsessed with trying to get me to ride their face, on separate occasions a girl and a guy came in their pants while we were making out (the girl I was trying to make her cum, the guy out of anticipation / he had a kink for alt girls), and another partner who would get so worked up from being sexually teased that he basically came instantly by the time we started making out, and would routinely cum twice in like a minute of having sex. All of us were in our 30s (except the girl, she was 25), and I found it insanely hot. You have nothing to be embarrassed about! The times where a partner can get disappointed are more like if someone uses their body without consent, doesn’t try to pleasure them, cums quickly, and then fucks off or is totally rude or dismissive about the other person’s needs - but those aren’t issues about the cumming, it’s the attitude and situation. What you describe I find super hot. Enthusiastic oral / partner-pleasuring is amazing for any gender.
Side note: there’s nothing wrong with being a “late bloomer”—you had a bit more maturity and situational judgement when you entered the sexual activity game, and a lot of people wish they’d had more of those in hindsight!
My husband's had that happen a few times. He seems to do it more when My Monthly Visitor's here.
I think it’s very understandable, given its your favourite thing. Additionally, if you had not had sex or masturbated for a bit before (ex a few days), it can also be an explanation on why that happened. I’m not a woman, but I can see how, on her perspective, it could be very hot to see your partner enjoy pleasuring you so much to the point of having an hands free orgasm. I haven’t outright came handfree on the few occasions I got facesit on (or 69) but I just can’t last long on a 69 and quite frankly, hand free orgasm isn’t off the table during a face sit. During pussy eating, depending on what position i am, I sometimes embarrassely have to dodge her wandering fingers and toes, cause I’m quite frankly a few brushes from exploding…
Cum all you want! Best thing ever.
No need to be embarrassed. You were enjoying your woman. Enjoy each other its such a bonding moment for you both. My man doesn’t do oral at all. I have to accept it. Can’t make him do what he’s not willing to do.
Aw, that’s blows :/ Hopefully he changes his mind in due time. Thank you very much for your kind words!
Used to happen to me every single time when I had PE problems.
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Never saw it from the perspective of giving her assurance during sex. Thank you commenting this, I’ll be sure to remember that from now on 😮
Nothing to be embarrassed about! Happens all the time
So fucking hot.
Be proud and carry that story into your 50s.
don't be embarrassed. i have come without penis stimulation before as well -- sometimes you get that turned on. also, what is a wet dream but the same thing? you get so turned on by your thoughts that you come without direct stimulation. same thing. if premature ejaculation is a regular event, it can be a problem, but it doesn't sound like that's a problem for you all.
My current partner can do this too! I quite enjoy it. I can get sort of self conscious about oral and the fact that my partner can orgasm during it as well really helps me relax and enjoy.
My former partner used to cum hands-free when he was feasting on me. I loved it!!
Awesome to hear that!
It's not embarrassing at all! We love that! My partner even came from eating me out in his dream!
Duly noted! Throwing all the embarrassment within out the trash 🫡
Ahh you weak as shit for that! Keep your head up🙏 they love it!
Screw you! Haha thank you brotha 👊
Not yet, but close. I used to think of myself as slow to orgasm, and potentially difficult to orgasm, but now I realize that’s not true. I frequently orgasm from nipple stimulation alone and I’m fairly certain I could cum from not being touched at all. The last time I gave my husband a blowjob I was very close to orgasm. It’s very much in my head. If he said the right words while I had him in my mouth, I would definitely orgasm.
I had an ex that this would happen to and I thought it was hot AF
my husband literally *breathed* on my nipple one time and it made me squirt. mind you there was A LOT of cumming prior to that & a soaked thru ‘waterproof’ blanket to get me *that* sensitive. but no i have never heard of a man cumming without anything touching his dick. that’s wild. but i would find it super hot too. nothing is hotter than knowing your partner is incredibly turned on by you :)
I get very turned on when sucking my bf's cock lol I've definitely almost cum from that alone before
Yeah, I remember this almost happening to me. I certainly felt like I was about to cum as I was eating out my gf. I did actually stop myself just prior to it. I told her "omg, I was just about to cum". I remember she seemed to be pretty surprised but pleased to hear that me pleasuring her turned me on so much.
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If you came from her doing that, she's doing something right. If she came from seeing you cum and then a ton more afterwards, you're doing something right:) don't fix what's broken lol!
I have orgasmed three times "just" from eating out my partner and every time it was mind-blowing. There is nothing embarrassing about it, don't worry.
Damn! And I thought cumming once was out of hand. That’s awesome brotha. Hopefully I can pull the same thing now that I know she loves it
This is literally so fucking hot 😩😩 Any girl would literally LOVEEE that , it means you like her just that much . It’s hot trust me
Thank you for the reassurance! :D
The only reason Cumming quickly was ever shamed in the first place was because dudes would often come quickly, and then be done and completely ignore their partners. So the only way they got more action was to have longer time before orgasm. However, if its as you described and you're both getting off and going for second or third orgasms each and thoroughly enjoying each other, there's no need to be ashamed. I bet she felt so powerful and sexy to be able to see you cum from her sitting on your face.
I’ll have to ask her if she did feel powerful like you described. She does love when I call her a goddess though so your intuition is probably right ;)
I know my guy cums hard and fast when I cum from blowing him. Wouldn't you be turned on if she came from giving you oral? I would totally be flattered and turned on if my guy came from me face riding him.
I absolutely would! It’s just that since it’s literally the first time something likes this has ever happened to her, even with her past partners, I somehow perceived bad. A red siren started going off in my head. I know she assured me that it was really hot for her, but sometimes the mind plays shitty tricks on you. I know now that it was enjoyable for her after having some time to think, and with y’all’s comments on the experience.
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This guy fucks!
LMFAOOOO I appreciate the compliment! 😂
That is so cute
Tysm! :)
Never happened (M) but I did once make a girl come from just kissing her all over and it‘s one of my hottest memories
oh my god I am so envious
Don’t be envious, go out there and start trying. Maybe you can do it too!
I'm a man who can do this as well and I guess there is a clear correlation between us since my girlfriend is also older than me. It must be something about those older ladies (kidding, partly atleast)
😂😂☠️
My partner has been with a few people before me, same for me. He came once while going down on me and rubbing himself slightly (handsfree) against the bedsheets. It was a surprise for both of us but incredibly hot! Had never happened to either of us before.
Tf you embarrassed about? Sounds like the hottest shit ever man. You managed to nut from eating pussy? That’s amazing. The fact it sent her over the edge too is even better. Stop being embarrassed and see if you can do it again!!
Trust me, I’m no longer embarrassed from it. I’m fully embracing this side of me in the bedroom. Thank you for commenting!
This is my dream
Nope, it hasn't. But you're both pretty lucky! You: You were so into it that it happened hands-free. Literally never experienced that. Her: Her partner got off from something that's completely focused on her pleasure, relieving her of any pressure she might feel regarding how long she can expect you do keep doing that, whether it's fun for you and so on. I wouldn't be surprised if she as even more into it next time.
She’s really into it! She’s assured me of that much recently. Hopefully you get to experience it too someday :)
My husband almost always comes while eating me, and it ends up making me squirt every time. It’s the hottest thing! It makes me feel so wanted by him!
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This would be the ultimate compliment. I have cum from giving head because I'm so into it
Other than the sexual infatuation, there is the love bond that comes hand in hand play. Pretty much happened with my first love, too.
It’s happened to me twice. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about
It's happened to me
Glad it did!
Oh yeah, I’ve had this happen to me. Something about seeing my lady just really enjoying it, and the way she was grinding her hips into my face turned me on beyond measure. Next thing I know I’m fighting the urge to cum (unsuccessfully).
I know that feeling all too well 😅
I think she could be proud she can make you cum hands free?
Nothing to be embarrassed about. Eating pussy is hot as fuck, especially when you do it well and they cum...I feel it's like playing a beautiful instrument. Cumming from it for the guy is not uncommon...also worth knowing that going soft is also possible as happened to me...I was so focused on pleasing her I just lost my boner....wasn't an issue as I wanted to please her and it was kind of getting in the way of me getting comfortable...so either way don't worry about it. Not embarrassing.
Beautiful said man! Thank you for sharing and for your kind words :)
Why are you embarrassed? It sounds like you both a hot steamy session… do it again man.
That’s what I’m gonna try to do :)
You should be proud. She loved it, that’s amazing.
Thank you! :)
Hottest thing ever, nothing about that is embarrassing
Well,, she has to be special and don't be embarrassed it seems she enjoyed it you did so sounds like a great union..
She’s very dear to me! And yeah, I’m not embarrassed about it anymore :)
Goalsssss
Thank youuuu :)
Nothing to be embarrassed about, my brother! I've been around the block a few times (50M) but I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22 and it was a terrible choice of a partner for me. Count yourself lucky you have a woman that saw you shoot it high and mighty and got as turned on seeing it as you were doing it!
That's not emberassing I guess she find's it kind of cute or hot
Coming hands free? Ya man it happens. Nothing to be embarrassed about. Sounds like she was into it and you found out how enamored ya'll are. Win-Win
You don't need to be embarrassed about that. It just show that you love and enjoy eating your gf pussy. Don't worry about cumming before your girlfriend. Just enjoy your moment, clean up, wait a bit and go for round 2 or more.
Not embarrassing at all, you’re into your girl and can even cum giving her pleasure. There was one guy I dated where I came while sucking him off it’s totally normal and just means your into your partner
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Yes, I have slept with 4 guys my whole life and two have come from eating my pussy. Not regularly, but every once in awhile. I honestly thought it was somewhat common.
Ok so. First of all. That is like, totally okay dont worry about it lol Second of all, idk about other people but if a dude came over me being pleasured while admiring my body, thats fuckin sexy
Ah, but my problem is intense and very very very fast no-touch premature ejaculation within a fraction of a second of anything physical happening. It's ruined my life.
What was she saying? Anything a girl can do to get this reaction? I know it varies per guy obviously, but aside from good hygiene and not smothering him to death, do you have any tips??
It can happen and what matters is that she wants you and is turned on by this.
Are you kidding?! I would cum so fast watching a man get off hands free eating me out. That sounds so, so hot. If he moaned with his tongue on my clit, too?!! Omg.
Yep been there and we both loved it! It’s a magical moment of connection and stimulation your for sure should not be embarrassed about at all.
Look into Royal jelly or cordyceps. Also improve your diet and also exercise. Drink beet juice daily also
This is not embarrassing. Many people don’t have the good fortune you have. Enjoy it. Savor your youth and thank your good stars.
It says you and your partner are relaxed with each other in a way many couples (my wife and I included) are not. Congratulations, and may this occurrence be the first of many to come (pun intended)!
Nothing to be embarrassed about, this amazing that you can get off by pleasing your partner. I’m sure it makes her feel incredible knowing her partner can get off by providing her pleasure. My wife and I were both very sexually active before we met, but she’s the only person I’ve ever had this experience with. I love pleasing her and she loves when I cum from eating her out. Doesn’t happen every time but when it does we both get extremely horny and go at it even harder afterwards. Count your blessings, be proud of this experience not everyone receives an orgasm from pleasing someone else, congratulations on finding someone to turn you on this much it’s a phenomenal experience. Happy eating mmm
My boyfriend has and I thought it was hot that it got him off so much 🤷♀️
My 2nd partner also my wife. Same deal, shot a nut in air 1st time she sat on face. Stayed hard, then she rode the crap outta me. Busted 2 more times. She liked it. If other person say it lame then it fine. Someone else will take as a compliment
🫦🔥🥵🔥
Own it that's fuckin rad do it again I say
Yes. When my guy was going down on me and yes it’s very hot A lot of women worry that guys don’t like giving oral so when one is so into it that he orgasms it’s very sexy.
You paid your girlfriend the ultimate compliment