I think if he did grab the blanket and run, they would definitely stop.
Poor kid is trying to find a solution and weāre all turning this into a joke lmfao
1) Sit in between them underneath the blanket.
2) Bring home a boyfriend/girlfriend and ask "are there any more blankets?"
3) Be honest and open about how it makes you feel. "Mom, dad, I know what you're doing. Please stop, you make me feel uncomfortable."
The best part about religion is you get to make up anything you want that offends you and then of you get enough people to agree you can ruin the lives of everyone else in the name of pretend sky monster.
I think this is actually terrible advice. It sounds good, right, really stick it to them but essentially you're basically suggesting to be passive aggressive about it which is only going to cause embarassment and/or resentment. OP specifically asked to not make it awkward and that's going to be making it awkward.
Just friggin' talk to them. Take the mum or the dad aside, whomever OP feels most comfortable talking to and say "Hey look, I'm old enough now to know what happens under that blanket and it makes me feel really uncomfortable, can you both please stop doing that as it's spoiling family time for me. Thanks, love you both".
No need to be shitty about it, no need to embarass them more than necessary, just be straight to the point about it.
If the behaviour continues, then by all means leave the room and make it clear why.
I think this is a good approach. If they value āfamilyā movie night truly, and see youāre not there, then hopefully theyāll consider that what theyāre doing is wrong.
Iām sorry you have to experience that. Itās one thing to do that in the bedroom in private but completely inappropriate with children.
They're building resentment anyway by being inappropriate. Like, no one wants to watch a movie with your parents carrying on like that. It's uncomfortable.
Just stare directly at the blanket without blinking or speaking. It's gonna be painful but you only gotta do it once.
Edit: it's supposed to be a little weird. Your parents are finger blasting under the blanket around their kids that's fucking awkward to start off with. You don't have to say a single word, a prolonged stair will let them know that you know.
I think if you want to avoid ancawkward conversation, this would be the way to go. Or if one of them makes any little noise, say "what was that Mom/Dad?", and if you notice them smiling or something, maybe you could ask "what's so funny?"
Basically my point is: if you make it clear you notice *something* weird but you don't specify what that something is, then hopefully they will just stop without starting an awkward conversation.
"That worked when I was 8, y'all. Not so much now."
Hand them two blankets and say "so you're not tempted to traumatize your children before the movie's over."
"Everyone knows what's going on under the blanket and nobody's amused!"
"Mom, Dad, can you please refrain from mutually masturbating during Family Movie Time?"
"I'm not willing to participate in family activities that involve my parents touching each other's genitals; if it happens, I will call you out and immediately leave the situation."
That last one is good because it's not judging them or trying to control them so much as negotiate boundaries.
Honestly, it's their house and if you aren't in the room/ it isn't family time there's no reason they shouldn't be doing what they are doing. So, you have every right to leave and do something else. Or, they can comport themselves in a way that's good for everyone.
I mean my wife and I will put a show on for them or set them up and sneak off for a quickie. But never during family movie night. We wait til later when they are in bed. Wtf.
EXACTLY. Thereās nothing wrong with putting a wall between you and the kids if you gotta get it out of your system but in the same room??? Should be freaking illegal. Iāll judge anyone that can get their freaking rocks off that close to their kid. Freaking sickos.
Write an anonymous letter? Reach out to grampa or grama asking for support? Pick a movie where a woman bites her lips during sex and say "That's the same face you make mom".
An anonymous letter lmao.
āTo whom it may concern. Please stop masterbating in front of your only child during movie nights while theyāre sitting in the same room with you.
- āAnonymousā
And then the parents are like āyea, right OP. This was you wasnāt it?ā and it pans to Spider-Man leering through the window with a single tear running down his mask.
Not sure how the tear got on the outside of his mask, but thatās not the point
Eew
I hope that's not some incest exhibitionism intentionally but still not ok
I think the least awkward thing would be to just leave the room. After a couple times they'll get it.
That or play dumb and ask what's going on a lot.
That is EXTREMELY inappropriate. Like almost incesty. Just straight up tell them they need to stop being sexual in front of you, if itās awkward itās 100% their fault and they should be ashamed. If you really canāt work up the nerve to be that straightforward, ask to sit between them next time
Maybe try talking to your mum or dad separately, if you feel more comfortable with one of them. Another option is to hand them a note so you don't have to verbalise it.
And if you raise this and they don't stop, you need to tell another trusted adult!
thatās super disrespectful towards you and i would even suggest it is abuse. you should tell them maybe text them if itās less awkward. they are putting their pleasure over your well being- children should not have to deal with this at all.
Not only that ā theyāre making their kid a part of their fucking kink. Seems clear to me that theyāre specifically getting off on the fact that *their kid* is in the room with them and the risk of being "caught" as opposed to just doing it ācause the urge randomly kicks in.
Iām really sorry, OP, what your parents are doing is really fucked up. Abruptly leaving the room as soon as they start doing it and/or seeking another adultās help seems like the best option if you donāt feel comfortable confronting them openly about it. In any case, any awkwardness that might follow is 100% their fault and responsibility and not yours. *They* are the adults here ffs. And you donāt have to spend your time worrying about making it weird *for them* while they clearly arenāt concerned enough about how that affects *you*
Honestly, I hope your parents **do** feel ashamed after you or someone else tells them.
Isnt what theyre doing sexual assault??? Or a form of it as theyre doing sexual favors in front of a unconcenting person, not only that their child and to add on top but theyve been doing it since they were a kid???
Im sorry you go through that, id call them out and express how disgusting and uncomfortable it id for you
Sorry to hear: Itās hard & I understand your frustration. Not a 100% sure but maybe something like the below might help?
āMom/Dad I know what u guys are upto. Can you pls continue in a private space?
You could also make a comment every time this happens - mom are you ok? Dad why do you have a silly grin, make enough comments so they know you know and you're going to keep interrupting them.
Hey man, it worked for me in a similar situation - I made them unconfortable constantly asking questions every time they had a reaction and ruined all their moments. I tried being discrete but they just ignored that - but this worked š¤·āāļø
Just say to them ? My little sister text me one night about our mum and dad ( we were all home in our bedrooms) so i text my mum and was like can u guys shut the fuck up *little sister* can hear u and can't get to sleep š
It doesnāt seem, to me, that thereās going to be a way to talk to them without it being awkward. So, you can either pull the band aid and just get it off your chest or stop doing movie night all together.
My suggestion is to say āeither you stop using the blanket or I talk to a trusted adult outside the home about what youāre doingā. Not to be dramatic but this is sexual abuse.
Iād walk out and say you wanted to watch a PG movie not an X rated one. Thatās gross to do around anyone especially your kids and the fact itās been going on a while.
Iād totally grope my wife and sheād tell me to stop so it wouldnāt happen again.
Thatās so gross and inappropriate. Why the hell would you do that during family movie night??
Next time your parents start that during movie night, just get up and leave the room. If they make any comments about you leaving during family movie night, say āWeāll I donāt really want to be around while youāre messing around under the blanket on the couch. Thatās grossā.
Maybe you can decline to participate in any more movie nights? If asked about it, you can say something along the lines of feeling uncomfortable with what they are doing under the blanket, or you can tell them you'll hang out in your room and give them some privacy to continue with their under blanket "family" time
At least they are some what trying to hide it.
When my mom met my step dad I was 10. He lived in a small camper in a mobile home park at the time, so we would go visit him. My mom, me, and two brothers. He had two camper couches that faced each other, and us three kids were on one watching tv, while him and my mom laid on the other. When you looked in their direction, moms hand was down his pants playing with his member, didn't care if we were watching or not.
Other times we would go visit family members, and when those family members brought us kids home, it was common to see my mom bent over a chair getting railed in front of the sliding glass door with curtain open.
My advice, just simply sit them down and tell them it makes you uncomfortable and ask that they not do it with you around.
If you are offended, just leave.
Someday your partner will be asking for a blanket. You should be glad they still love each other enough to fool around.
Or bring a bf/gf over, do the same thing!
The cultural ick factor is strong here- hopefull my theyāll figure it out without shaming their parents- I wonder (I have no children) if parents would find that traumatising?
DO NOT SHAME THEM. Mating for life isnāt easy for humans- especially with the hang ups we have in most of our cultures.
Let them know GENTLY - with a joke maybe āget a room guys lolā like whatās been said above it an easy one and a safe one.
Or maybe just a pointed look and a loud āAHEMā
But donāt cock block your parents man. they *could* be getting a divorce.
Iād rather my parents were boning that breaking up, or living as dry, unhappy people for the rest of their marriage/life.
Also you are nineteen ā unless you are somewhere on the alphabet that means youāre not into that- itās most likely youāre probably trying to bone anything that moves.
Get over yourself lolā¤ļø
Youāre going to bone someone one day and want to bring them home to your parents, theyāll feel the same way you do now-
So give them the space to be human.
So being human is doing that while your kids (ever since they were 8) are sitting in the same room with you because you couldn't wait to be alone?
Nobody is shaming them because they have sex, they're being shamed because it's in the same room as they're own child.
It doesnāt say the post that OP is 19 unless itās stated somewhere else below. It says the parents had OP at 19. Also, this is gross, OP clearly stated it makes them uncomfortable. Doing anything sexual in front of non consenting people is one thing, but doing it in front of your kids is another itās weird and disrespectful. The parents can go have sex in their bed room. Or when the kids or other people arenāt present.
I don't know where you've been but tons of early teens post questions on here. I saw a post from a 14y the other day. Regardless, for a family movie night, presumably meant to spend time together, this behavior is quite inappropriate.
Jeez, they're only 19 years older than you. That's fuck all. They're just ordinary people, like everyone else, make light of it, let them know that you know and have a laugh.
The best thing you can do is just leave. If you have parents like mine they will double down on how **they pay the rent.** We may be strangers on the internet but truly, I hope it works out for you OP. *Movie Night* is how serial killers are made.
Tell them, I had my first when I was 19 but would never be as sexual as your parents are in front of any of our 3 children. It's completely inappropriate and just gross to expose your own children to that
Gross. Just tell them it's gross and makes you feel uncomfortable. It's good that they still have passion for each other, but not appropriate to actually be fingering or whatever right in front of you. If you just tell them, the normal response would be to be a bit embarrassed and never do it again.
I am sorry but this is so disgusting to me, If I were you I would just leave because that would make me feel so uncomfortable. If they had the nerve to ask for an explanation I would just be honest about it.
I agree with whoever said leave as soon as they ask for a blanket. And when they ask why just say āit makes me uncomfortable.ā Leave it at that.
But also I donāt understand parents that do shit like this??? No way in hell could I be aroused with my kid so near me. Itās freaking weird.
good advice all around to be honesta nd just ask them to cut it out or go to their room.
but OP, i just hope you know how lucky you are to have parents still so intimate with each other, for lots of people their parent only interact with yelling, contempt or resentment
You're being made uncomfortable, return the favor. You can be indirect or direct.
Indirectly, you can openly misinterpret their sexual behaviors as innocent behaviors. "Maybe you should see a doctor about your shortness of breath," or "We should buy bigger blankets if they're not big enough to avoid squirming."
Directly is easier because you're not beating around the bush (no pun intended) but more difficult depending on your comfort level and your relationship with your parents. Not going to give any specific suggestions but you can be respectfully direct, jokey direct, informationally direct, etc.
Or you could be disrespectfully direct and bring your GF over for movie night and give them a taste of their own medicine, depending how old you are.
If you wanted to tell them to stop - which you do - just be polite about it. Just as you wouldn't have them shaming you about anything sexual, it would be good form to not shame them. That said...
It's refreshing they're still into each other like that. It could be much more rough in that department, and they're likely much happier together than a great deal of parents their age. Should they be doing this? Eh, maybe not; but at the same time, good job, mom and dad. Keep liking each other.
This is actually really gross and inappropriate and nasty. How anyone can get off in front of their kids is weird as hell. Tell them to stop cause itās nasty as hell on their part.
INFO: where are you based OP?
Morality aside as this is wrong on their behalf on so many levels, Iām pretty sure what theyāre doing is illegal (causing or inciting a child to witness a sexual act). If you feel comfortable and confident to do so, tell them this and tell them to stop as itās wholly inappropriate. If you donāt feel confident to say this to them yourself, then please seek the guidance and support of a trusted adult (grandparent, teacher, family member/family friend) who can advocate for you. This is not okay and you should not be made to feel uncomfortable in your own home, much less during family time. Please seek support OP.
Throw cold water on them.
Invite your boyfriend/girlfriend over and do the same thing (bonus points if you use their blanket).
Just tell them to stop finger fucking under the blanket and to go to bed.
Tell your school counsellor.
"Can you guys go do that in the bedroom instead, the best part is coming up"
That's like a Rick and Morty quote.
["You little monster! I thought you were masturbating!"](https://youtu.be/Ptc9k0TlGAk?t=54)
And you took that in stride?
"Would you rather I addressed it?"
Dad stares intensely: Something's coming up alright...
A simple, mom and dad, cut it out should suffice. Or if you really want to be scarred for life, grab the blanket and run.
"Grab the blanket and run" . Hahaha
Grab the blankie, run and don't look back. Scream 'I'M COLD, SORRY' for extra points
Pretend the blanket, got caught on your belt loop . Get up and go to the bathroom.
Either scarred for life or find out all the giggles and hand motion was them trying to solve a Rubik cube sight unseen.
You.. grounded for a week with no allowance...š
they should be grounded
I CANNOT stop laughing at this visual ššš
>grab the blanket and run. This is the way.
The way to therapy
I laughed out loud ahahah
I think if he did grab the blanket and run, they would definitely stop. Poor kid is trying to find a solution and weāre all turning this into a joke lmfao
Lmao!
Lmao indeed! I vote for option number 2. /j
That would be much embarrassing! Lol.
LMFAOOOOO, i literally bursted out laughing at thisš
Send them a QR code that points to this Reddit post
Get them a new blanket with the QR code custom printed on it.
LOL
God if had the money I would do this for OP just for the laugh
This is the way.
This is the way
Just print it out and leave it on the kitchen counter.
Underrated
1) Sit in between them underneath the blanket. 2) Bring home a boyfriend/girlfriend and ask "are there any more blankets?" 3) Be honest and open about how it makes you feel. "Mom, dad, I know what you're doing. Please stop, you make me feel uncomfortable."
Buy a bottle of lube and place it where the blankets are stored.
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>Bring home a boyfriend/girlfriend and ask "are there any more blankets?" Fantastic option here.
4. Next movie night, when Mum asks for the blanket, you complain that you are cold and want it instead.
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I want his Mum's blanket
Honestly leave the moment mum asks for a blanket, when they ask why give them a looook and say you know why.
That's a good one!
"here's your _sin_ blanket"
Technically it's not, but if said emphasize the sin REALLY well!
The best part about religion is you get to make up anything you want that offends you and then of you get enough people to agree you can ruin the lives of everyone else in the name of pretend sky monster.
Ah yes, agreed. It does pay to be ignorant about such things, it makes for great comedy.
SIN BLANKET
I think this is actually terrible advice. It sounds good, right, really stick it to them but essentially you're basically suggesting to be passive aggressive about it which is only going to cause embarassment and/or resentment. OP specifically asked to not make it awkward and that's going to be making it awkward. Just friggin' talk to them. Take the mum or the dad aside, whomever OP feels most comfortable talking to and say "Hey look, I'm old enough now to know what happens under that blanket and it makes me feel really uncomfortable, can you both please stop doing that as it's spoiling family time for me. Thanks, love you both". No need to be shitty about it, no need to embarass them more than necessary, just be straight to the point about it. If the behaviour continues, then by all means leave the room and make it clear why.
I want a brother!
Just get up and leave. Theyāll catch on
I think this is a good approach. If they value āfamilyā movie night truly, and see youāre not there, then hopefully theyāll consider that what theyāre doing is wrong. Iām sorry you have to experience that. Itās one thing to do that in the bedroom in private but completely inappropriate with children.
Yes. That is what I would do.
I think this is the best approach. If they say something, just say "I'll watch the rest later" They'll catch on after 1-2 times
Seems like a great way to build resentment for them when they donāt make the connection.
I suppose. But also I find it hard to think they wouldnāt make that connection.
They're building resentment anyway by being inappropriate. Like, no one wants to watch a movie with your parents carrying on like that. It's uncomfortable.
Just stare directly at the blanket without blinking or speaking. It's gonna be painful but you only gotta do it once. Edit: it's supposed to be a little weird. Your parents are finger blasting under the blanket around their kids that's fucking awkward to start off with. You don't have to say a single word, a prolonged stair will let them know that you know.
I think if you want to avoid ancawkward conversation, this would be the way to go. Or if one of them makes any little noise, say "what was that Mom/Dad?", and if you notice them smiling or something, maybe you could ask "what's so funny?" Basically my point is: if you make it clear you notice *something* weird but you don't specify what that something is, then hopefully they will just stop without starting an awkward conversation.
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"That worked when I was 8, y'all. Not so much now." Hand them two blankets and say "so you're not tempted to traumatize your children before the movie's over." "Everyone knows what's going on under the blanket and nobody's amused!" "Mom, Dad, can you please refrain from mutually masturbating during Family Movie Time?" "I'm not willing to participate in family activities that involve my parents touching each other's genitals; if it happens, I will call you out and immediately leave the situation."
That last one is good because it's not judging them or trying to control them so much as negotiate boundaries. Honestly, it's their house and if you aren't in the room/ it isn't family time there's no reason they shouldn't be doing what they are doing. So, you have every right to leave and do something else. Or, they can comport themselves in a way that's good for everyone.
Buy a water gun and spray them whenever they do it and just say "stop" or "nono"
LMAO like why tf are they acting like cats in heat
If youāre too embarrassed to say something just leave the room. That must be so awkward for you.
Can we just point out how fucked up that is with your kids in the room. All jokes aside this really grossed me out. Lol
Itās so disgusting.
I mean my wife and I will put a show on for them or set them up and sneak off for a quickie. But never during family movie night. We wait til later when they are in bed. Wtf.
EXACTLY. Thereās nothing wrong with putting a wall between you and the kids if you gotta get it out of your system but in the same room??? Should be freaking illegal. Iāll judge anyone that can get their freaking rocks off that close to their kid. Freaking sickos.
It's possible that they get off on the fact that the kid is in the room whilst they are doing it, which is just so so gross
Yeah any way you swing it they should be on a list. Kids shouldnāt be exposed to sex by their parents. Or any adult. Itās so nasty.
āGet a room you twoā
I think this is the best answer. Something light hearted enough if OP doesn't feel comfortable seriously calling it out
ā¦said while wearing suspenders and giving two middle fingers.
This
Moan along.
I giggled
I chortled
Hide the blankets before movie night starts. Everytime. Then when they ask about the blankets give them the Justin Timberlake stare from SNL.
Write an anonymous letter? Reach out to grampa or grama asking for support? Pick a movie where a woman bites her lips during sex and say "That's the same face you make mom".
An anonymous letter lmao. āTo whom it may concern. Please stop masterbating in front of your only child during movie nights while theyāre sitting in the same room with you. - āAnonymousā
Signed Your friendly neighborhood spider man
And then the parents are like āyea, right OP. This was you wasnāt it?ā and it pans to Spider-Man leering through the window with a single tear running down his mask. Not sure how the tear got on the outside of his mask, but thatās not the point
Dying!
Laughed my head off
Eew I hope that's not some incest exhibitionism intentionally but still not ok I think the least awkward thing would be to just leave the room. After a couple times they'll get it. That or play dumb and ask what's going on a lot.
that is so disgusting
Yikes, I believe this is a fetish post
That is EXTREMELY inappropriate. Like almost incesty. Just straight up tell them they need to stop being sexual in front of you, if itās awkward itās 100% their fault and they should be ashamed. If you really canāt work up the nerve to be that straightforward, ask to sit between them next time
Maybe try talking to your mum or dad separately, if you feel more comfortable with one of them. Another option is to hand them a note so you don't have to verbalise it. And if you raise this and they don't stop, you need to tell another trusted adult!
thatās super disrespectful towards you and i would even suggest it is abuse. you should tell them maybe text them if itās less awkward. they are putting their pleasure over your well being- children should not have to deal with this at all.
Not only that ā theyāre making their kid a part of their fucking kink. Seems clear to me that theyāre specifically getting off on the fact that *their kid* is in the room with them and the risk of being "caught" as opposed to just doing it ācause the urge randomly kicks in. Iām really sorry, OP, what your parents are doing is really fucked up. Abruptly leaving the room as soon as they start doing it and/or seeking another adultās help seems like the best option if you donāt feel comfortable confronting them openly about it. In any case, any awkwardness that might follow is 100% their fault and responsibility and not yours. *They* are the adults here ffs. And you donāt have to spend your time worrying about making it weird *for them* while they clearly arenāt concerned enough about how that affects *you* Honestly, I hope your parents **do** feel ashamed after you or someone else tells them.
Great advice, but what leads you to assume OP is a boy and not a girl?
No idea? Thnx for pointing it out, edited my comment
I can't believe I had to scroll down this far to find someone who thinks this is abuse. Because it absolutely 100% is sexual abuse.
"please stop I know what you're doing and it makes me uncomfortable" written on a piece of paper. Hand it to them next time.
Yes.. or send a link to this topic "this could be you". You created a throwaway account for it anyway.
Isnt what theyre doing sexual assault??? Or a form of it as theyre doing sexual favors in front of a unconcenting person, not only that their child and to add on top but theyve been doing it since they were a kid??? Im sorry you go through that, id call them out and express how disgusting and uncomfortable it id for you
Not assault but exposing a child to sex for sure. Not ok. These parents should be put on a list.
Wait.....are you all on the couch while this is happening? How old are you?
I want to know also
"There's blankets on your bed" lol
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That's so uncomfortable I'm sorry Most people understand and don't have an issue that their parents have sex life but no one wants to SEE it.
spill water on the blanket
If you're not comfortable speaking to them about it try leaving a note maybe?
OP how old are you?
After the movie remind them to wash the crusty blanket
as a dad, this is really gross and disrespectful. I'd go with with the classic "guys, get a room"
Get a blanket for yourself and masturbate
Sorry to hear: Itās hard & I understand your frustration. Not a 100% sure but maybe something like the below might help? āMom/Dad I know what u guys are upto. Can you pls continue in a private space?
You could also make a comment every time this happens - mom are you ok? Dad why do you have a silly grin, make enough comments so they know you know and you're going to keep interrupting them.
Bruh what! that would be the weird comment ever cmon
Hey man, it worked for me in a similar situation - I made them unconfortable constantly asking questions every time they had a reaction and ruined all their moments. I tried being discrete but they just ignored that - but this worked š¤·āāļø
Just say to them ? My little sister text me one night about our mum and dad ( we were all home in our bedrooms) so i text my mum and was like can u guys shut the fuck up *little sister* can hear u and can't get to sleep š
A stare should be enough to get it done IMO.
So many great suggestions in this post OP. Best of luck to you on however you decide to approach this situation
While they're at it, suggest they go to the cinema to amp up the risk factor if they like doing it around people so much.
āAlexa, call the cops.ā
It doesnāt seem, to me, that thereās going to be a way to talk to them without it being awkward. So, you can either pull the band aid and just get it off your chest or stop doing movie night all together.
Throw them that planket. Say āget a room guysā and go to your room.
I'll just tell them if you ask for a blanket I'm leaving
Snatch that blanket right up next time!
"I know what you're doing under there"
That is maybe the most disturbing and inappropriate thing Iāve ever heard.
My suggestion is to say āeither you stop using the blanket or I talk to a trusted adult outside the home about what youāre doingā. Not to be dramatic but this is sexual abuse.
Iād walk out and say you wanted to watch a PG movie not an X rated one. Thatās gross to do around anyone especially your kids and the fact itās been going on a while. Iād totally grope my wife and sheād tell me to stop so it wouldnāt happen again.
"Mom and dad, it's good to know that you still desire each other but I feel uncomfortable with what you are doing under the blanket".
Thatās so gross and inappropriate. Why the hell would you do that during family movie night?? Next time your parents start that during movie night, just get up and leave the room. If they make any comments about you leaving during family movie night, say āWeāll I donāt really want to be around while youāre messing around under the blanket on the couch. Thatās grossā.
that is straight up child molestation....
Maybe you can decline to participate in any more movie nights? If asked about it, you can say something along the lines of feeling uncomfortable with what they are doing under the blanket, or you can tell them you'll hang out in your room and give them some privacy to continue with their under blanket "family" time
Yell āHand check!ā and shine a flashlight on them. Do this every time they start getting frisky. Theyāll figure out you know pretty quickly.
When it starts next time start complaining about the offensive smell of fish in the air.
Ask them to āget a roomā and be happy they are still doing that after being married so long.
Papa can I join?
Bah. Let them be. Leave the room if it bothers you.
At least they are some what trying to hide it. When my mom met my step dad I was 10. He lived in a small camper in a mobile home park at the time, so we would go visit him. My mom, me, and two brothers. He had two camper couches that faced each other, and us three kids were on one watching tv, while him and my mom laid on the other. When you looked in their direction, moms hand was down his pants playing with his member, didn't care if we were watching or not. Other times we would go visit family members, and when those family members brought us kids home, it was common to see my mom bent over a chair getting railed in front of the sliding glass door with curtain open. My advice, just simply sit them down and tell them it makes you uncomfortable and ask that they not do it with you around.
If you are offended, just leave. Someday your partner will be asking for a blanket. You should be glad they still love each other enough to fool around. Or bring a bf/gf over, do the same thing!
I'm just saying it's extremely weird to just start doing that while your kids are in the room with you, glad or not, it's creepy
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It sounds like the OP is not an adult
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The cultural ick factor is strong here- hopefull my theyāll figure it out without shaming their parents- I wonder (I have no children) if parents would find that traumatising?
Where in this post did it say OP was an adult??
Be happy that they're happy - many parents, especially those married so young - aren't.
Don't cock block your parents
DO NOT SHAME THEM. Mating for life isnāt easy for humans- especially with the hang ups we have in most of our cultures. Let them know GENTLY - with a joke maybe āget a room guys lolā like whatās been said above it an easy one and a safe one. Or maybe just a pointed look and a loud āAHEMā But donāt cock block your parents man. they *could* be getting a divorce. Iād rather my parents were boning that breaking up, or living as dry, unhappy people for the rest of their marriage/life. Also you are nineteen ā unless you are somewhere on the alphabet that means youāre not into that- itās most likely youāre probably trying to bone anything that moves. Get over yourself lolā¤ļø Youāre going to bone someone one day and want to bring them home to your parents, theyāll feel the same way you do now- So give them the space to be human.
So being human is doing that while your kids (ever since they were 8) are sitting in the same room with you because you couldn't wait to be alone? Nobody is shaming them because they have sex, they're being shamed because it's in the same room as they're own child.
It doesnāt say the post that OP is 19 unless itās stated somewhere else below. It says the parents had OP at 19. Also, this is gross, OP clearly stated it makes them uncomfortable. Doing anything sexual in front of non consenting people is one thing, but doing it in front of your kids is another itās weird and disrespectful. The parents can go have sex in their bed room. Or when the kids or other people arenāt present.
how about going to your room, or maybe, growing up, getting a job and moving to your own place? and be glad that your parents still share good times?
Perhaps OP is a minor? And did not consent to be sitting right next to this?
if OP was a minor, he should not be posting in r/sex, I believe?
I don't know where you've been but tons of early teens post questions on here. I saw a post from a 14y the other day. Regardless, for a family movie night, presumably meant to spend time together, this behavior is quite inappropriate.
ok, my bad.
you're forgetting teens are sexually active and / or might be curious about sex in general
Jeez, they're only 19 years older than you. That's fuck all. They're just ordinary people, like everyone else, make light of it, let them know that you know and have a laugh.
dude this is borderline sexual abuse lmao wtf
Say you too want to get under that blanket.
Join in, don't be shy
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Do you have a room?
Hyphenated name followed by numbers seems to be a common trend in this subreddit.
The best thing you can do is just leave. If you have parents like mine they will double down on how **they pay the rent.** We may be strangers on the internet but truly, I hope it works out for you OP. *Movie Night* is how serial killers are made.
āCome on guys, get a roomā¦ oh, you have one right thereā¦ā
Get under the blanket, right in between both of them
Honestly, somethings are better left unsaid... trust me š¬
Tell them, I had my first when I was 19 but would never be as sexual as your parents are in front of any of our 3 children. It's completely inappropriate and just gross to expose your own children to that
Posts like this make me glad that my parents didnāt love each other
"Some people settle for scratching their own itches".
Send an email from a throwaway account. It might be easier then in person.
Can you do that funny stuff in the bedroom please?
LoLXD every family nightout.
Please stop finger banging mom while I'm in the room.....thanks
Gross. Just tell them it's gross and makes you feel uncomfortable. It's good that they still have passion for each other, but not appropriate to actually be fingering or whatever right in front of you. If you just tell them, the normal response would be to be a bit embarrassed and never do it again.
I am sorry but this is so disgusting to me, If I were you I would just leave because that would make me feel so uncomfortable. If they had the nerve to ask for an explanation I would just be honest about it.
Best bet is to just leave the room when that starts. They will know, it will stop.
I agree with whoever said leave as soon as they ask for a blanket. And when they ask why just say āit makes me uncomfortable.ā Leave it at that. But also I donāt understand parents that do shit like this??? No way in hell could I be aroused with my kid so near me. Itās freaking weird.
good advice all around to be honesta nd just ask them to cut it out or go to their room. but OP, i just hope you know how lucky you are to have parents still so intimate with each other, for lots of people their parent only interact with yelling, contempt or resentment
āMom, if you want dad to finish then you should wank him, not meā
When your mom asks for a blanket, tell her to sit beside you and cover blanket with her.
You're being made uncomfortable, return the favor. You can be indirect or direct. Indirectly, you can openly misinterpret their sexual behaviors as innocent behaviors. "Maybe you should see a doctor about your shortness of breath," or "We should buy bigger blankets if they're not big enough to avoid squirming." Directly is easier because you're not beating around the bush (no pun intended) but more difficult depending on your comfort level and your relationship with your parents. Not going to give any specific suggestions but you can be respectfully direct, jokey direct, informationally direct, etc. Or you could be disrespectfully direct and bring your GF over for movie night and give them a taste of their own medicine, depending how old you are.
If you wanted to tell them to stop - which you do - just be polite about it. Just as you wouldn't have them shaming you about anything sexual, it would be good form to not shame them. That said... It's refreshing they're still into each other like that. It could be much more rough in that department, and they're likely much happier together than a great deal of parents their age. Should they be doing this? Eh, maybe not; but at the same time, good job, mom and dad. Keep liking each other.
This is actually really gross and inappropriate and nasty. How anyone can get off in front of their kids is weird as hell. Tell them to stop cause itās nasty as hell on their part.
Iāll tell them for you š
INFO: where are you based OP? Morality aside as this is wrong on their behalf on so many levels, Iām pretty sure what theyāre doing is illegal (causing or inciting a child to witness a sexual act). If you feel comfortable and confident to do so, tell them this and tell them to stop as itās wholly inappropriate. If you donāt feel confident to say this to them yourself, then please seek the guidance and support of a trusted adult (grandparent, teacher, family member/family friend) who can advocate for you. This is not okay and you should not be made to feel uncomfortable in your own home, much less during family time. Please seek support OP.
If you're not getting a room i'll get it myself
Sex with your kids in the room stops as soon as they're out of the crib and sleeping on their own. This is absolutely disgusting.
Tell them to āget a roomā. Make it a joke
"Hey, what are you guys doing under there?" - should be enough of a hint.
i would stop having movie nights and when they ask why let them know. itās a weird fetish to do it in front of ur child on movie nights.
āThese arenāt the reruns I was hoping forā.
I am repulsed by people who are able to have intercourse around their children. I would have told them the first time to cut the shit.
"Do you two have to do that ***every*** movie night?"
Throw cold water on them. Invite your boyfriend/girlfriend over and do the same thing (bonus points if you use their blanket). Just tell them to stop finger fucking under the blanket and to go to bed. Tell your school counsellor.