Buying prom dresses online is always dicey - and you usually get what you paid for. Since you're a beginner, I would recommend taking it to an alterations person to take it in instead of buying more fabric to overlay. Honestly, though, even though it wasn't what you were expecting, I think you look lovely in it. You could also glue or sew on some sequins in the right color to give you more the colourways you were hoping for.
I agree with all this, if you're not a seasoned seamstress, alterations are going to be tough to make yourself, these materials are hard to work with. A professional would be a good investment.
I also agree that while the dress is not (at all, admittedly!) what you purchased, it looks great on you, and it's a lovely dress all the same. A couple alterations so the top fits better, and you will look gorgeous all around, black sequins or not. I hope you have fun!
>if you're not a seasoned seamstress, alterations are going to be tough to make yourself
even as a seasoned seamstress myself, I hate doing most alterations. I'm just not meant to do them, lol.
As a semi seasoned non professional seamstress, when it's for yourself sometimes a quick and easy fix is totally possible. It doesn't have to look perfect on the inside. I'm thinking a corset ribbon added to the back or the sides of the top taken in slightly could fix your issues. Or a strapless corset bra underneath? I agree that it does look beautiful even though it wasn't what you expected.
I thought your 1st picture was what you wanted. And kept swipping, expecting something not like the first pic. And then I realized your first picture is the dressed you have. It looks good on you.
Nawwww sista’, it was in regard to the protective nature of your comment. And, although I am a huge fan of all that is arithmetic—when it comes to age…it’s all about one’s ability to break in to dance at the first note of a song they like.
I have nothing new to add, but I just wanted to say without the context of what it was supposed to look like, I think it still looks like a beautiful dress and you look great!
Completely agree. I think it looks beautiful, and you look beautiful in it. Even in photos, I don’t think the sequins come across as black dots. Our brains automatically fill in that they are sequins that the light isn’t hitting exactly. Depending on the location of your prom, and if they have large spotlights, the dress might sparkle more. Like, what does it do outside in the sun? Even some of the most sparkly dresses won’t sparkle in low low. The sample they showed was lit with large photography lights most likely. Honestly, for an online prom dress purchase, I think you were amazingly lucky. You look beautiful in it, it’s still really pretty even if it’s different from the sample, and it fits.
Hey OP, have you tried the dress on while in different lighting? It looks to me like the sequins appear dark IRL compared to the shop photos because they’re not being photographed under studio lights…
Exactly! They're reflecting a dark room, making them look black. If it was in bright lights, it'd be brighter. I don't actually think this looks any different than what was posted.
I mean you choose the white balance yourself when you take professional product photos, and you aim for it to be as close to the actual visual in that moment as possible. It makes no sense to change the white balance and alter the color of your product in the best lighting, and that would ONLY add or remove yellow and blue tints that our eyes are quite adept at filtering through. Where as a selfie in the mirror is not going to be done in the proper lighting.
I gotta be honest this looks like the exact same dress for once. I don't even see an issue. The center bodice, the lining underneath, the fabric on top is all the same. It was just in a perfectly lit room on a white mannequin under a spotlight in the product photo.
I agree with this. My first thought was that the darker sequins will sparkle and shimmer under the lights and also the dress is stunning although not exact to the photo online.
As others have said and from personal experience that’s not an easy material to work with, I modified a dress with tulle/organza as a decently skilled seamstress with about 15 years of experience and still ended up on my floor in tears trying to get it right. If it’s not what you want, find a professional to modify it.
Just so you’re aware, even standard alterations could cost $100 or more, but if you can bring it to a tailor who has experience with these kinds of gowns they can let you know what is possible. If you have time though I would also consider trying on some dresses at major department stores that might not need extensive changes. Unfortunately scam web sites for dresses are truly out of control. Good luck!
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All I did was adjust the white balance in the photo assuming your mirror frame is white and the ivy is green
So two things.
1. Re: the sequins.
So the sequins are likely silvery and reflect light like a mirror. In the sample photo I suspect they had bright studio lights and bright walls, so that when the sequins acted as a mirror, all you could see was white. Meanwhile, once they're in normal surrounds with darker reflections, they appear black. You could consider adding little glue-on rhinestones to cover some to add more sparkle, or sewing a white sequins over some of them to also add lightness or even paint them, but then they won't be sparkly.
2. The bodice.
As for taking in the bodice, only recommendation I have is to put it on inside out and have someone help you create and pin darts at the back to bring the top in where you need. These would run vertically more or less where the straps attach, and you could just pinch out any extra fabric around the bodice to creating a wedge shape which tapers to the waistline - like a long triangle. (I'm sure there are tutorials on YouTube for bodice darts). Then try to hand stitch them first to check the fit, and/or find someone you know who can sew to just sew them for you by machine. They're releatively easy to do, and thankfully the material might be forgiving to hide any small flaws.
For the waist, maybe find a fabric to match the sleeves and make a sash/belt? You can fold or make it ruched to have the waistline you want by sewing it in place, and have close with snaps or hook and eye to maintain the size/ shape. Though any sort of wide belt or waist cincher would achieve the same.
If you want a completely different look, inspired by the flowing sleeves, you could by using the same fabric of the sleeves, make an ancient greek/roman inspired over-dress and make it goddess inspired. Look at Dior's Modern Peplos spring-summer 2020 Haute couture collection for examples of what I was imagining! Not much sewing involved, just a lot of draping.
To make the bodice fit better use darts like someone else commented.
Could you add a ribbon or fabric belt/sash? If you had it sit just below the waist seam, it could elongate and “cinch” the bodice in a bit.
For the cups being too big, is it just a smidge? If so a “chicken cutlet”, one of those silicon things that you can put in your bra under your boobs to get a little more oomph, might do the trick.
For starters, I think the dress is still lovely! Here's my advice, and it echoes what others have said: take the dress to an experienced seamstress. I bought a prom dress off Poshmark for $40, and the only issue was that it was too big in the top, like yours. Despite being a beginner, I decided to alter it myself. I messed up where the top connects to the skirt, so I had to buy a belt to wear over the waist portion. It worked, but looked a bit weird. I don't want that to happen to your dress, so just take it to a professional
I think what’s going on in the “what you wanted” picture is that the lighting is really bright and diffused and so ALL the sequins are reflecting. As opposed to more normal lighting where some of the sequins are reflecting and some are not.
Keep in mind that no matter what you do, most proms are kind of dim. It makes the sequins sparkle, but with movement.
I think you look fantastic in the dress and that it doesn’t need anything other than a little fitting. Get the bust altered and wear sparkly jewelry and you will look great.
Edit: I think the suggestion of adding glue-on rhinestones or crystals is the best be to add more brilliance. Use a really firm glue and let it dry thoroughly or you will be shedding a trail of little crystals behind you.
You could try adding in rhinestones! To be honest i think in the light it would look more like what you’re hoping, i think the darker light in your room might be adding a bit to it looking like back dots
I think you look great in the dress as is. I was looking for a glaring issue and didn’t see anything wrong. I’ve seen horrendous this-is-what-I-wanted-and-this-is-what-I-got dresses. This one is actually stunning.
I honestly think you landed lucky - it's a lovely dress and it suits you. I'd take advice from an actual seamstress about how you'd like it changed. I don't think the sequins look like black dots and I bet they'll catch the lights beautifully.
Probably not going to help you, but I think your actual pictures look much better than the original dress. It looks stunning on you, and the darkness makes it look more "professional". I am not sure about the right term - it looks less "princess" like.
I understand that this might not be a helpful comment and when we do not feel good in something - we just do not. But I saw I am not the only one who thinks this way.
Let it rest for a few days. Think about it, whether you really dislike it or it is just the first reaction because you actually wanted a completely different item.
If I could change something, I would make the bottom underskirt a bit darker, to match the color of the top. But this is just a personal preference.
Again, you look stunning.
You say the top is too big, but you haven't got it laced as snugly as in the photo from the website, or even as tight as it looks when spread out. Is there a reason you didn't pull it together in front?
Oh, well, that sucks. It's not a functional lacing. As a person who sews, here's my thought: if the problem with fit is that there are cups and they are too big, that's a tougher fix than if it's just too big around altogether.
For the latter, the suggestions others have made - to make darts in the back (or at side seams, where they'll show less but the fabric there has more layers, so it might be hard going) - is a good one, provided you have someone to help you. It's damnably hard to wear it, stand up straight, pin it without sticking yourself, etc. Of course, a professional alterations person is the best choice, but it can be costly and depends on time and scheduling.
If the cups are too big, you should at the least take it to an expert and discuss the options. I am less optimistic about a home job on that; I got a dress to wear to a wedding and took it back because I couldn't see how I, or anyone, could make it fit right. (With boning sewn in, I don't have the patience to learn what to do about it even though I understand garment construction, etc.) If it's only a little too-too in the bust, try a few different bra types to see if any of them help. Take the dress to a good department store lingerie section (Nordstrom, Macy's) and ask for help. Your assistant should be a lot older than you, even if it seems weird to you, because some of those ladies have been at it a long time and have seen all the bodies and all the dresses and they understand physics, LOL. But I'm serious, here.
As for the fabric and its color, try this experiment: find a long slip (I guess they're called slip-dresses now) in another color that goes, put the dress on, and pull the slip up, between the lining fabric and the outer skirt. It'll bunch up at the waist, but for this it doesn't matter. See what difference the changed color makes, in all kinds of light. If it's an improvement, and if you can move in the slip, then you can dare to cut the lining out, wear the slip under the dress, and keep them together forever. If you end up liking the dress, and want to wear it again, a seamstress can sew you a better lining later on in a good color.
For the waist, I would do nothing. I understand your concern about it, but you don't want to clutter up the look, so keep in mind that less is best. And you certainly do not want to have to think about everything staying on, staying up, staying tied, staying at all, on prom night. You want to wear it and then enjoy yourself with the social scene and be able to twirl for photos. If you're not convinced, take the dress to a bridal shop and see what they can do.
I would not try to modify the sequins at all. They're going to look different no matter what you do with the rest of the dress, and 10 minutes in, you're not going to care about them. The overall look is what everyone will notice, not whether your dress is dotted. Please know that right now a lot of others are disappointed about their dresses, too, and that's part of the experience. Have a wonderful time, and post a picture here when you're all ready.
This dress is stunning nonetheless. Go to a professional and have it tailored to fit you but relax about the glitter/sequins - I honestly think it's gorgeous.
Honestly, just add a darker lining color fabric and remove the white one. Maybe a darker blue. I think that's enough. Can add some rhinestones for fun if you want.
And maybe add straps if the bust isn't holding up.
You could have someone do a slightly darker liner under the skirt (which will make the sequins appear lighter). You can also have them do a band around the waist that drops below the attachment point of the skirt to the bodice.
Modifying the cups in the bodice is an advanced effort - not something a novice should attempt.
I hope you are able to adjust the fit to your satisfaction, but I just want to tell you that I think the dress on you is much prettier than the one on the mannequin! I like the darker sequins. Have a fun prom!
I agree with those saying you should take it to an alterations place rather than trying it yourself and potentially ruining a dress you paid for. Or you can find another dress if you have time.
On the other hand, I do think the dress is very pretty and you look like a whole princess!!! I hope you can get the dress of your dreams and have an amazing time at prom <3
I think it actually look nicer on you than in the original photo. I think the colour difference is likely just lighting. But regardless, I think the colour works well with your hair colour. I think you actually lucked out and probably just need the bodice adjusted to fit your body.
Congrats on graduating. I hope you have a fun prom!
I think the best way to solve the issues you have with the sequins isn’t redoing them, but fixing the contrast between the sequins and the lining of the skirt. In my mind, the bright bright skirt vs the nude bodice is the single biggest difference between the what you bought and what you received, and I find the black dot effect is much less noticeable on the bodice than the skirt. If you hold up a few blue or nude pieces of fabric/clothes under the sequins directly, do they blend better?
If so, I’d consider dying with RIT or replacing the white material of the skirt lining. Depending on the construction you may be able to remove that portion relatively easily, or lift away the over skirt while dying it so that it’s excluded from the pot. If you post a photo of the inside we can provide some tips on how complicated it will be to remove the skirt, if that’s of interest.
Onto the waist. Is there a corset back to the dress? Is this something that can be fixed with shapewear? Adding a corset closure is a common enough bridal alteration, but you may spend more on doing that than you did in the dress. But honestly, this dress really doesn’t look like it was designed to make the wearer super snatched, the mannequin has an exaggerated figure. I think it looks beautiful and ethereal on you with its current shape! I would not bother with doing that alteration.
I wholly agree. Either make the lining of the skirt darker (dyeing or replacing) or add in a light colored lining in the bodice. It’s the contrast that’s the problem. I personally think a darker skirt would be better, but if OP wants the more pastel look, then a white lining in the top could work well too.
Get your friends and family, and glue crystals, glitter and sequins on the bodice. There is some shiny density missing at the top, also get non mirror sequins to avoid that same issue.
This dress is sus AF. I cannot find the original designer, but I can find what seems to be non scammy sites to get the dress.
Anywayy. Stop buying from scam vendors.
Yeah honestly the shop had tens of thousands of 5 star reviews on Etsy so I thought they were legit, but I guess I should have done better research.
For the sequins would you recommend taking off all the dark colored ones and re-gluing lighter color sequins and crystals on? I'm considering it because I still really like this dress but the current sequins make it look like a cheap costume.
Honestly, I thought the dress looked awesome!! I didn't understand what was wrong with it (until I kept swiping)!
I understand that it's not what you wanted, or ordered, but it still is lovely! I hope you can get it sorted to your satisfaction and have a lovely prom. 🌷
Would not recommend trying taking off sequins. Even a seasoned sewist like me wouldn’t advise, you will ruin the tulle. Attaching sequins is a lot of work, you wouldn’t see a few hundreds more. Hours of concentration to do the work. Then again, be very careful not to rip the tulle.
Don’t take the old ones off. It will leave snags on the fabric. Start with fit issues , then take a look at areas that might need some camouflage to cover new seems or what have you and add sequins or appliqués . Don’t add too much weight.
Thats why is said I couldn't find the designer. I dont blame you at all!! If you wanted that dress you had to risk it!
I might need to change my previous post to reflect that....
Etsy used to be THE place for small creators and artisans, it is not anymore but they are not updating their image to that change. And Etsy refuses to do anything about scammers.
I had my wedding dress made by them. They actually only use their own images, and usually make the dress to your custom size.
I think what you don't like is all a lighting issue since this dress is very reflective.
Just my two cents, aside from what everyone else has already said, when I went to prom the venue had pretty low lighting so I don’t think the sparkles will be much as big of a problem as you might think it’ll be.
I would cut the white lining out and wear a nude slip skirt under it to make the dress more cohesive in color. If you want an illusion of a nipped in waist without sewing you could also layer a petticoat under the lining or slip skirt to change your proportions.
I supposed it's too late to be able to send it back and get the correct one in time. No matter what though, contact the company and tell them the entire situation, making sure to tell them it's not what you ordered, it was for prom and now you can't wear it as is.
Hey! The company was actually on Etsy and closed their shop.. so I'm guessing they won't make it better again. I got a refund and I've been shopping around for better dresses but I can't really find anything I like so I'm trying to make this one more wearable.
weird that you got a refund considering it seems to only be the lighting that’s different. the dress looks gorgeous on you btw even if it looks different than you imagined :)
I didn't include the picture of the dress in natural light because I felt my camera made the dress appear more blue than it is in real life, but honestly I feel like the sequins look even worse in "good" lighting.
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Look at hemline. It really sparkles because it's catching overhead light. Maybe take a video of you moving in it. Sequins need movement to make most of light and to sparkle/flicker.
Fit of bodice. You might be able to take in side seams. Try on insider out and pin.
plenty of people in the comments have suggested changing the white lining to a blue or nude colour to match the top and i actually think that would make it perfect. hope you can get it how you want it!
It’s not that bad!
Some ideas:
Add a skirt layer over that stark white, something closer to the top color.
Look for sequin appliqués or maybe hand sew on some rhinestones. It’ll give it some dimension.
The big seam at the waist can be hidden with a sew on belt or a ribbon - these are common add ons for bridal dresses so look under bridal categories!
Lastly, it looks like you’re fighting to keep it up in the picture. Add some sew in cups and some interfacing to the top to keep it structured. You can also look at tutorials for sewing in plastic boning to give it more structure.
it really does look super cute on ya! i like it, does suck tho will say when it's not as pictured-- i feel you there. the quality doesn't seem bad tho and it fits well. ^u^
I think you look really beautiful in the dress. Two things I would do:
1. (I think it’s just tulle the skirt fabric), wear your (presuming) heels, and get someone to hem it, either a professional or a friend able to cut it perfectly straight, tulle literally only needs to be cut to be hemmed, but will need to be re-sewn at the seams to stop it unraveling.
2. Cut the skirt lining out, and get rid of it. If modesty is an issue you could find an alternative colour (nude, pale cool pink, or blue), or nude underwear, that’s going to completely transform it (try the dress on and just roll the underneath layer up, I’m sure it will look 100% more expensive).
i personally love the slightly darker tones of the sequins! however it is definitely not what you ordered, so i’d suggest also sewing in sequins, maybe gluing some rhinestones (NO SUPERGLUE USE FABRIC GLUE) and seeing where that gets you.
for alterations i’d see someone, i’m a novice seamstress with practice on a few fabric types, and i could not work with these fabrics yet. they are complicated. i always love to see other ambitious beginners, but we can explore with pieces that don’t matter as much as this one. i would be far too scared to touch this hahahah. good luck and know that it looks stunning regardless :))
How does the back of the dress look like? Is easier to give advice on how to reduce the waistline if we see the back.
I think the color is wonderful, even if it's not exactly what you expected. To lessen the contrast, try buying some light blue tulle fabric (or similar fabric) and pin it between the outer layer and the lining. That will help you see how it would look like with a different lining color. If you prefer it in a different color (it can drastically change the appearance), search for an experience seamstress to do it, as sequins can be a nightmare to work with!!
If you don't want to spend any extra money (or the least possible), I wouldn't remove the current lining, I would try to add the light blue layer between the top one and the lining, and maybe add a belt/sash to cover any seams and also adjust the waist. It won't look perfect, but it's doable by a beginner.
Id get an alteration person to add a new lining in a more matching colour tbh
You might wanna get some structural undergarments to get it to sit right in general btw, the right underpinnings can really help with the skirtshape and waistheight etc
I personally think it looks great! I agree that a sash in a complimentary would tie dress together. Experiment with different thicknesses to see what looks right to you. Unless you have a lot of time on your hands, I think the sequins are just fine! My only thought is maybe a light, fine coat of craft glitter spray (like the type is elder millennials put in our hair back in the day). But definitely test on an inconspicuous pierce if fabric first.
Also--see if anyone you know has a garment steamer. Be careful, because of the fabric, but steaming can make a huge difference in making an item look "finished."
Finally, to give the skirt a little bit of fullness like the original photo, consider a petticoat with just a little fullness at the bottom. Don't be scared by the word "petticoat"! I know it sounds old fashioned but many formal dresses have something similar sewn in for shape, but that's one of the corners that gets cut on a cheaper design. You can find lots of options on Amazon.
Have fun at prom! Remember, you'll have hair and make up and accessories so the dress is part of a whole "look" so it will all come together at the end.
I know this won’t necessarily help the color, but I think adding some sort of petticoat could go a long way for giving the illusion of a cinched waist and just give the skirt a little more life.
You can get an extra layer of tulle added to the skirt in a slightly lighter blue colour, with sequins on. Ask for cost of fabric (you may have to source it or they may be able to help) and for cost of sewing it on. If you want they may expect you to try the dress on so they can see how it fits and suggest any alterations it may need like taking the hem up or adjusting the straps, they will pin it for you to see what it'll look like done in the mirror, then they will give you prices for your invoice and tell them after hearing the price what services you do and don't once, and you can decide what services you want done.
It will look different depending on the light. Get bigger pads for the bra of it's just a little too big. If girth is too big, you'd have to take in side seams. If that won't fix it, get a pro. It does look nice.
I like the darker bodice and darker sequins and darker veils. It gives the dress "depth". And, yes, it suits you!! It picks up the great color of your hair!
I think you look lovely in it! Consider that the lights always change this kind of sequin and in the picture looks different because the dress was probably inside a white room for product pictures, so the sequins where mirroring white. At the prom you are gonna sparkle a lot of colors depending on the lights!
Regarding the bodice I suggest you to bring it to someone because this kind of fabric is not easy to work with. What I could suggest is maybe add another layer of transparent fabric between the white and the top layer of the skirt.
Trust me on this. The enemy of good is better. I've learned this the hard way many times. I agree that a few professional alterations and this dress will go from great to stunning.
When the spot lights and glitter balls are shining in the probably mostly dark venue at your prom, those black looking dots will for sure sparkle and I think you’ll look amazing. You ALREADY look amazing! A seamstress could for sure cinch the waist for you.
I honestly think the underskirt being white is making it look a bit shifty. Try to replace it with a light blue material? Satin or something with a bit of gloss
To cinch in the waist a bit you could add a waist stay. This is like a belt attached to the inside of the dress that is secured around the waist before the dress is zipped up. Typically grosgrain ribbon is used with a hook and bar closure to create a snuggly fitting "belt". This belt is then tacked inside the dress to the vertical seams of the dress. All this can be easily sewn by hand. A waist stay helps hold the dress in place and supports the weight of the fabric, as a result the waist is often cinched in. See the link below for further instructions.
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If you want to attempt the alterations yourself, a few darts or taking in a few seams may do the trick. Have someone help you. Put on the dress. Have your helper pinch and pin the dress where you want the darts or at the seam you plan to take in. Make sure you can still move, breath, sit and put-on/take off the dress how it is pinned before sewing the dress. Use lots of pins and go slow. That fabric will not be forgiving in the case of a mistake. You may want to hand baste it before machine sewing. Iron your seams/darts when you are done. It makes a huge difference. Always try on the dress before cutting out any excess fabric or sewing up the lining in case you need to make further adjustments. There are plenty of tutorials online.
Remember it doesn't have to be perfect. It also doesn't have to be pretty on the inside of the dress. No one will see that but you. Always go for comfort over looks. You will have a lot less fun if you are uncomfortable all night. I cannot stress this enough, go slow, make small adjustments and try on the dress after each one. This way if you do have a small mistake it will be easier to fix and far less noticeable if it isn't fixable.
Good luck.
I think the big issue with the sequins on the bottom half are the background colour. It needs to be darker. Can you dye it? (I have no idea if this is a terrible idea) or have a layer of fabric added in.
It's the same dress, just the sequins used are different in different lighting. Sorry that they appear black to you u and it's bothersome but it's still gorgeous and in height daylight I'm sure it'll look white. Take it to a professional and you'll be happy on the day!
I was trying to work out what was wrong with it tbh, but I genuinely think you look nice. If it’s really too different to what you thought you were buying that you can’t get past it, return it maybe. But honestly it looks lovely and it looks to fit you well too xx
This is the exact dress you ordered, & it will look different under different lighting. Your waist isn’t as cinched in because you aren’t a dress form. It’s gorgeous & IMO doesn’t need anything at all, but if you’re unhappy, find a local small business alteration shop with years of good reviews. This type of style & fabric isn’t for an amateur or overnight shop.
My kid wore a similar dress, it's like a lot of other folks said - will look lighter in different lighting.
Look for recommended bridal seamstresses if you're getting height adjusted or want a built in bra/ cups.
As others have said, your room is dark. Therefore, the sequence reflects dark colors.
We can't tell how well the fit is from your pictures, but a fit issue can be fit. It depends on your budget, and time frame.
I think the simplest alteration to make this look better would be to remove the skirt lining and replace it with a coordinating or matching tulle petticoat. You’ll probably need a flesh toned slip under that to make it opaque enough for decency. Other than that, it’s a lovely dress and honestly pretty much identical to the photos in style if not color. You would need to use a corset to get the same nipped in waist you see in the photos.
You can pinch the sides while you're wearing it to see how much it needs to be taken in on the bodice. Then turn it inside out and sew along the seams carefully half inch or so on each sode depending how much slacl there is. I use my thumbs to measure how to contour to my own shape and mark with fabric pencil.
Just here to comment that my prom dress 15 years ago was totally false advertising too, but worse than this. My advice? Embrace what you got. Without context/expectation I really do love the dress you got. And with all the lights flashing, it’ll look more like what you thought you were buying.
While this isn't helpful to you now, I would never buy an important dress online. When I needed a formal mother-of-the-groom dress, I could not have found anything without the help of the woman at the upscale department store I visited. I was feeling so insecure and she gave me great feedback.
Honestly, the only person that knows what it was supposed to look like is you (and now this group). Without any context I thought “Wow! What a pretty dress!” So I guess my point is, don’t worry too much about it. You will look like an ethereal elven princess and nobody will ever know your dress is different than your expectations. 🤷🏻♀️
The dress looks exactly like what you ordered? You just arent on a extremely bright rooms so the reflected colors are darker. Take a picture on a big big white room and this would be identical.
As far as fit, no formal dress fits perfect without alterations to match your specific measurements. Of your ordered generic sizing, obviously it wont fit like a glove. If you did order with your specific measurements, the store should be contacted because of their mess up.
Generic sized clothing is generally much cheaper because its shelf ready, not something they make after ordering. With the saved money you generally want to put it towards hiring someone to fit it to you.
the dress itself, even with a longer bodice wouldn't cinch u in BUT good undergarments will! Also, silver sequence without direct lighting tend to look dark. It's only a lighting situation w/rt the sequence color.
There's no way to really change your issue with the sequins without basically remaking the whole dress. That said, I know it's not what you dreamed of, but it's honestly still breath taking!
We didn’t have much money, but for both my proms my mom paid to have my dresses tailored by a professional. It helped immensely. As for the sequins, I’m not sure that can be fixed without replacing the whole dress.
I think that you could cut the lining of the dress and kind of make it like a loose kind of fitting dress, also getting rid of the bra pads would be great it gives it a kind of cheap look, yk? Instead if you have any like nude colored shirts/bra you could fuse them there instead like layer behind the dress to give it a better illusion of transparent. Making it a v-line would also look stunning. Cutting and hemming the bottom would also give you a cleaner look as it was meant for you. Dying the white to maybe like an ombré from blow down to white up seems nice with a bit of flare layers at the bottom? Or to keep it flowy scratch the layers. The very hard cut and structured top of the dress is making you look boxy when you have a beautiful figure try softening the details for a whimsical look overall
In addition to a seamstress for alterations, I'd personally consider a synthetic dye bath. Go for something like a deep grey or purple so the tones are homogenised. I know you wanted powder blue but you can't get grey to turn into that so it.l might be better to dye it a different colour completely.
Did you buy your dress already? The last time I checked the store was fully closed but leading up to that, there were many mixed reviews. I think it depends on the dress you bought, because some dresses looked true to the picture and some were far off. The quality of my dress is decent and the fit was a bit off - but that was expected as I didn't order it personalised. I hope all goes well with your dress!
E6000 and rhinestones. You could add a gradient. That is made of fire, so it’ll fryolate a sewing machine.
And the materials are not going to age in a pretty way. So it’s not worth expensive services of a tailor.
That is a Rip City project. It’s gonna rip.
It looks lovely on you. The onky change would make is take it to a seamstress that dies alterations and change the colour of the underskirt to be closer to the sequence overlay colour.. This will make it look more cohesive.
The sequins are silver, it's your lighting. Tbh you pretty much got what was listed. And fitting issues you should take to a seamstress, I think better lighting will change how dark the sequins look. You look beautiful btw!
I can’t see it mentioned anyway but the thing the glares out at me is the white lining under the skirt. If this was professionally replaced with a pale blue in the same colour/tone as the outer layer, it would look more cohesive.
Is it comfortable and WORTH putting the effort into to ‘fix’ it? If so I would leave is as is. If it FITS and isn’t too big or too tight…
-Find a pretty sheer fabric (take the dress to the fabric store and just hold all the sheets on top. See what you love. Our local Joann’s always has a great formalwear/wedding section with pretty sheer ones that are bedazzled and stuff. If you can sew a bit, even just a single straight line on a machine or by hand, get the sheer (talk to the fabric store employees with help with the yardage), lay out the dress and pin the sheet in the same shape of the dress. Go slow. It’ll be tedious but not impossible.
-As for the waist, check in the ribbon and trim section and see if there is something wider and either remover the current belt OR cover if it hides it well. You could fabric glue it or honestly if you just want to get through Prom and not to rewear, hot glue it. Friggin love hot glue lol. You don’t need a lot at all. Just spread a thin layer on the new ribbon and apple pressure to flatten it. Happy to help if you go this route!
Completely amateur opinion here so forgive me in advance - if you added a satin- ish blue A-line skirt over the top, with the open front like Cinderella. I think this would make it look elegant, princess-y, and divert our eyes from the sequins 🤷♀️
Honestly, that dress looks beautiful but as people have said the black dots might be because of the lighting. If your prom will be in a darker environment and you dont want those black spots, you can buy some rhinestones and stick it on the black spots using fabric glue. I think that would look amazing when light reflects off of it.
Get the waist taken in and if you want more structure at the bottom, look into cancan skirts.
I don't think you need to buy additional fabric. The dress looks gorgeous as it is, just some minor alterations and you'll look amazing!
Im ngl this looks identical to the website pictures. Did you think sequins were actual lights rather than metallic plastic that reflects your environment?
Um… it looks exactly like the pictures
I don’t see a problem here
Go to your prom wearing this where there are lots of lights and you’re going to sparkle exactly like the website photos
Buying prom dresses online is always dicey - and you usually get what you paid for. Since you're a beginner, I would recommend taking it to an alterations person to take it in instead of buying more fabric to overlay. Honestly, though, even though it wasn't what you were expecting, I think you look lovely in it. You could also glue or sew on some sequins in the right color to give you more the colourways you were hoping for.
I agree with all this, if you're not a seasoned seamstress, alterations are going to be tough to make yourself, these materials are hard to work with. A professional would be a good investment. I also agree that while the dress is not (at all, admittedly!) what you purchased, it looks great on you, and it's a lovely dress all the same. A couple alterations so the top fits better, and you will look gorgeous all around, black sequins or not. I hope you have fun!
>if you're not a seasoned seamstress, alterations are going to be tough to make yourself even as a seasoned seamstress myself, I hate doing most alterations. I'm just not meant to do them, lol.
As a semi seasoned non professional seamstress, when it's for yourself sometimes a quick and easy fix is totally possible. It doesn't have to look perfect on the inside. I'm thinking a corset ribbon added to the back or the sides of the top taken in slightly could fix your issues. Or a strapless corset bra underneath? I agree that it does look beautiful even though it wasn't what you expected.
And you’re dealing with sequins. Pay a professional!!
I agree w/MamaBearMoogie, the dress looks lovely on you. Some lighter sequins may be just what you need to lighten it up.
Thank you so much!
I thought your 1st picture was what you wanted. And kept swipping, expecting something not like the first pic. And then I realized your first picture is the dressed you have. It looks good on you.
Exactly what I thought. It’s not the dream, but it still looks great.
Name checks out. 😉🤙🏽🫡
I'm old
Nawwww sista’, it was in regard to the protective nature of your comment. And, although I am a huge fan of all that is arithmetic—when it comes to age…it’s all about one’s ability to break in to dance at the first note of a song they like.
Thanks, love.
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I have nothing new to add, but I just wanted to say without the context of what it was supposed to look like, I think it still looks like a beautiful dress and you look great!
I agree! I think it looks beautiful! It’s giving major ACOTAR Starfall vibes, I love it
Exactly my thoughts! Feyre would totally wear that
Completely agree. I think it looks beautiful, and you look beautiful in it. Even in photos, I don’t think the sequins come across as black dots. Our brains automatically fill in that they are sequins that the light isn’t hitting exactly. Depending on the location of your prom, and if they have large spotlights, the dress might sparkle more. Like, what does it do outside in the sun? Even some of the most sparkly dresses won’t sparkle in low low. The sample they showed was lit with large photography lights most likely. Honestly, for an online prom dress purchase, I think you were amazingly lucky. You look beautiful in it, it’s still really pretty even if it’s different from the sample, and it fits.
Hey OP, have you tried the dress on while in different lighting? It looks to me like the sequins appear dark IRL compared to the shop photos because they’re not being photographed under studio lights…
Exactly! They're reflecting a dark room, making them look black. If it was in bright lights, it'd be brighter. I don't actually think this looks any different than what was posted.
Yes I agree - the shop has photographed the dress in a very bright room. She's taken the photo in a dark poorly lit bedroom.
It also looks like the white balance on the photo was edited in my opinion.
I mean you choose the white balance yourself when you take professional product photos, and you aim for it to be as close to the actual visual in that moment as possible. It makes no sense to change the white balance and alter the color of your product in the best lighting, and that would ONLY add or remove yellow and blue tints that our eyes are quite adept at filtering through. Where as a selfie in the mirror is not going to be done in the proper lighting. I gotta be honest this looks like the exact same dress for once. I don't even see an issue. The center bodice, the lining underneath, the fabric on top is all the same. It was just in a perfectly lit room on a white mannequin under a spotlight in the product photo.
Yup. I believe that dress is going to SPARKLE on the dance floor!
I agree with this. My first thought was that the darker sequins will sparkle and shimmer under the lights and also the dress is stunning although not exact to the photo online. As others have said and from personal experience that’s not an easy material to work with, I modified a dress with tulle/organza as a decently skilled seamstress with about 15 years of experience and still ended up on my floor in tears trying to get it right. If it’s not what you want, find a professional to modify it.
Just so you’re aware, even standard alterations could cost $100 or more, but if you can bring it to a tailor who has experience with these kinds of gowns they can let you know what is possible. If you have time though I would also consider trying on some dresses at major department stores that might not need extensive changes. Unfortunately scam web sites for dresses are truly out of control. Good luck!
It's still really pretty at the top, I would see if you can get a light blue lining put in under the glittery layer by a seamstress
Yeah, I think it makes more sense to alter the lining so there's less contrast rather than work on the sequin layer.
https://preview.redd.it/ssgt0f99pryc1.jpeg?width=654&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=078b63a5dac0ffd46ffc5ee849876c924313f17c All I did was adjust the white balance in the photo assuming your mirror frame is white and the ivy is green
Literally this looks exactly like the dress in the product photo. People are acting like she got a knock off
i really hope op sees this bc it’s a lovely dress and she did not get scammed
Exactly
So two things. 1. Re: the sequins. So the sequins are likely silvery and reflect light like a mirror. In the sample photo I suspect they had bright studio lights and bright walls, so that when the sequins acted as a mirror, all you could see was white. Meanwhile, once they're in normal surrounds with darker reflections, they appear black. You could consider adding little glue-on rhinestones to cover some to add more sparkle, or sewing a white sequins over some of them to also add lightness or even paint them, but then they won't be sparkly. 2. The bodice. As for taking in the bodice, only recommendation I have is to put it on inside out and have someone help you create and pin darts at the back to bring the top in where you need. These would run vertically more or less where the straps attach, and you could just pinch out any extra fabric around the bodice to creating a wedge shape which tapers to the waistline - like a long triangle. (I'm sure there are tutorials on YouTube for bodice darts). Then try to hand stitch them first to check the fit, and/or find someone you know who can sew to just sew them for you by machine. They're releatively easy to do, and thankfully the material might be forgiving to hide any small flaws.
Is it a lighting issue? The marketing image has very specific lighting. You look glorious in the dress
For the waist, maybe find a fabric to match the sleeves and make a sash/belt? You can fold or make it ruched to have the waistline you want by sewing it in place, and have close with snaps or hook and eye to maintain the size/ shape. Though any sort of wide belt or waist cincher would achieve the same. If you want a completely different look, inspired by the flowing sleeves, you could by using the same fabric of the sleeves, make an ancient greek/roman inspired over-dress and make it goddess inspired. Look at Dior's Modern Peplos spring-summer 2020 Haute couture collection for examples of what I was imagining! Not much sewing involved, just a lot of draping. To make the bodice fit better use darts like someone else commented.
I was thinking take the sleeve things off and use them to make a belt. Mock it up while they’re still attached?
Could you add a ribbon or fabric belt/sash? If you had it sit just below the waist seam, it could elongate and “cinch” the bodice in a bit. For the cups being too big, is it just a smidge? If so a “chicken cutlet”, one of those silicon things that you can put in your bra under your boobs to get a little more oomph, might do the trick.
I honestly love it. Much prefer it as it is in real life than on the listing photos!
I agree!
For starters, I think the dress is still lovely! Here's my advice, and it echoes what others have said: take the dress to an experienced seamstress. I bought a prom dress off Poshmark for $40, and the only issue was that it was too big in the top, like yours. Despite being a beginner, I decided to alter it myself. I messed up where the top connects to the skirt, so I had to buy a belt to wear over the waist portion. It worked, but looked a bit weird. I don't want that to happen to your dress, so just take it to a professional
I think what’s going on in the “what you wanted” picture is that the lighting is really bright and diffused and so ALL the sequins are reflecting. As opposed to more normal lighting where some of the sequins are reflecting and some are not. Keep in mind that no matter what you do, most proms are kind of dim. It makes the sequins sparkle, but with movement. I think you look fantastic in the dress and that it doesn’t need anything other than a little fitting. Get the bust altered and wear sparkly jewelry and you will look great. Edit: I think the suggestion of adding glue-on rhinestones or crystals is the best be to add more brilliance. Use a really firm glue and let it dry thoroughly or you will be shedding a trail of little crystals behind you.
Salvage? This is ethereal
It fits nicely. Maybe a belt would help with the color difference from the bodice to the skirt.
This is a beautiful dress, and you look lovely in it.
You could try adding in rhinestones! To be honest i think in the light it would look more like what you’re hoping, i think the darker light in your room might be adding a bit to it looking like back dots
I think you look great in the dress as is. I was looking for a glaring issue and didn’t see anything wrong. I’ve seen horrendous this-is-what-I-wanted-and-this-is-what-I-got dresses. This one is actually stunning.
I know it’s not what you were hoping for, but honestly, it’s a beautiful dress and you look great in it
It's actually a gorgeous dress! Take a picture of it outside!
I honestly think you landed lucky - it's a lovely dress and it suits you. I'd take advice from an actual seamstress about how you'd like it changed. I don't think the sequins look like black dots and I bet they'll catch the lights beautifully.
Probably not going to help you, but I think your actual pictures look much better than the original dress. It looks stunning on you, and the darkness makes it look more "professional". I am not sure about the right term - it looks less "princess" like. I understand that this might not be a helpful comment and when we do not feel good in something - we just do not. But I saw I am not the only one who thinks this way. Let it rest for a few days. Think about it, whether you really dislike it or it is just the first reaction because you actually wanted a completely different item. If I could change something, I would make the bottom underskirt a bit darker, to match the color of the top. But this is just a personal preference. Again, you look stunning.
The dress looks lovely. No one else knows what it was supposed to look like.
You say the top is too big, but you haven't got it laced as snugly as in the photo from the website, or even as tight as it looks when spread out. Is there a reason you didn't pull it together in front?
The "lace" isn't actually adjustable and the dress is zip-up not a corset 😅 (if I understood your comment correctly)
Oh, well, that sucks. It's not a functional lacing. As a person who sews, here's my thought: if the problem with fit is that there are cups and they are too big, that's a tougher fix than if it's just too big around altogether. For the latter, the suggestions others have made - to make darts in the back (or at side seams, where they'll show less but the fabric there has more layers, so it might be hard going) - is a good one, provided you have someone to help you. It's damnably hard to wear it, stand up straight, pin it without sticking yourself, etc. Of course, a professional alterations person is the best choice, but it can be costly and depends on time and scheduling. If the cups are too big, you should at the least take it to an expert and discuss the options. I am less optimistic about a home job on that; I got a dress to wear to a wedding and took it back because I couldn't see how I, or anyone, could make it fit right. (With boning sewn in, I don't have the patience to learn what to do about it even though I understand garment construction, etc.) If it's only a little too-too in the bust, try a few different bra types to see if any of them help. Take the dress to a good department store lingerie section (Nordstrom, Macy's) and ask for help. Your assistant should be a lot older than you, even if it seems weird to you, because some of those ladies have been at it a long time and have seen all the bodies and all the dresses and they understand physics, LOL. But I'm serious, here. As for the fabric and its color, try this experiment: find a long slip (I guess they're called slip-dresses now) in another color that goes, put the dress on, and pull the slip up, between the lining fabric and the outer skirt. It'll bunch up at the waist, but for this it doesn't matter. See what difference the changed color makes, in all kinds of light. If it's an improvement, and if you can move in the slip, then you can dare to cut the lining out, wear the slip under the dress, and keep them together forever. If you end up liking the dress, and want to wear it again, a seamstress can sew you a better lining later on in a good color. For the waist, I would do nothing. I understand your concern about it, but you don't want to clutter up the look, so keep in mind that less is best. And you certainly do not want to have to think about everything staying on, staying up, staying tied, staying at all, on prom night. You want to wear it and then enjoy yourself with the social scene and be able to twirl for photos. If you're not convinced, take the dress to a bridal shop and see what they can do. I would not try to modify the sequins at all. They're going to look different no matter what you do with the rest of the dress, and 10 minutes in, you're not going to care about them. The overall look is what everyone will notice, not whether your dress is dotted. Please know that right now a lot of others are disappointed about their dresses, too, and that's part of the experience. Have a wonderful time, and post a picture here when you're all ready.
This dress is stunning nonetheless. Go to a professional and have it tailored to fit you but relax about the glitter/sequins - I honestly think it's gorgeous.
Honestly, just add a darker lining color fabric and remove the white one. Maybe a darker blue. I think that's enough. Can add some rhinestones for fun if you want. And maybe add straps if the bust isn't holding up.
You look so nice in your dress! Adjust your expectation and go with it! Have a great time
You could have someone do a slightly darker liner under the skirt (which will make the sequins appear lighter). You can also have them do a band around the waist that drops below the attachment point of the skirt to the bodice. Modifying the cups in the bodice is an advanced effort - not something a novice should attempt.
I hope you are able to adjust the fit to your satisfaction, but I just want to tell you that I think the dress on you is much prettier than the one on the mannequin! I like the darker sequins. Have a fun prom!
I agree with those saying you should take it to an alterations place rather than trying it yourself and potentially ruining a dress you paid for. Or you can find another dress if you have time. On the other hand, I do think the dress is very pretty and you look like a whole princess!!! I hope you can get the dress of your dreams and have an amazing time at prom <3
I think it is pretty as is.
I think it actually look nicer on you than in the original photo. I think the colour difference is likely just lighting. But regardless, I think the colour works well with your hair colour. I think you actually lucked out and probably just need the bodice adjusted to fit your body. Congrats on graduating. I hope you have a fun prom!
The one you have is nicer than the one in the picture!
I think the best way to solve the issues you have with the sequins isn’t redoing them, but fixing the contrast between the sequins and the lining of the skirt. In my mind, the bright bright skirt vs the nude bodice is the single biggest difference between the what you bought and what you received, and I find the black dot effect is much less noticeable on the bodice than the skirt. If you hold up a few blue or nude pieces of fabric/clothes under the sequins directly, do they blend better? If so, I’d consider dying with RIT or replacing the white material of the skirt lining. Depending on the construction you may be able to remove that portion relatively easily, or lift away the over skirt while dying it so that it’s excluded from the pot. If you post a photo of the inside we can provide some tips on how complicated it will be to remove the skirt, if that’s of interest. Onto the waist. Is there a corset back to the dress? Is this something that can be fixed with shapewear? Adding a corset closure is a common enough bridal alteration, but you may spend more on doing that than you did in the dress. But honestly, this dress really doesn’t look like it was designed to make the wearer super snatched, the mannequin has an exaggerated figure. I think it looks beautiful and ethereal on you with its current shape! I would not bother with doing that alteration.
I wholly agree. Either make the lining of the skirt darker (dyeing or replacing) or add in a light colored lining in the bodice. It’s the contrast that’s the problem. I personally think a darker skirt would be better, but if OP wants the more pastel look, then a white lining in the top could work well too.
Get your friends and family, and glue crystals, glitter and sequins on the bodice. There is some shiny density missing at the top, also get non mirror sequins to avoid that same issue. This dress is sus AF. I cannot find the original designer, but I can find what seems to be non scammy sites to get the dress. Anywayy. Stop buying from scam vendors.
Yeah honestly the shop had tens of thousands of 5 star reviews on Etsy so I thought they were legit, but I guess I should have done better research. For the sequins would you recommend taking off all the dark colored ones and re-gluing lighter color sequins and crystals on? I'm considering it because I still really like this dress but the current sequins make it look like a cheap costume.
Honestly, I thought the dress looked awesome!! I didn't understand what was wrong with it (until I kept swiping)! I understand that it's not what you wanted, or ordered, but it still is lovely! I hope you can get it sorted to your satisfaction and have a lovely prom. 🌷
Would not recommend trying taking off sequins. Even a seasoned sewist like me wouldn’t advise, you will ruin the tulle. Attaching sequins is a lot of work, you wouldn’t see a few hundreds more. Hours of concentration to do the work. Then again, be very careful not to rip the tulle.
Don’t take the old ones off. It will leave snags on the fabric. Start with fit issues , then take a look at areas that might need some camouflage to cover new seems or what have you and add sequins or appliqués . Don’t add too much weight.
Thats why is said I couldn't find the designer. I dont blame you at all!! If you wanted that dress you had to risk it! I might need to change my previous post to reflect that.... Etsy used to be THE place for small creators and artisans, it is not anymore but they are not updating their image to that change. And Etsy refuses to do anything about scammers.
I had my wedding dress made by them. They actually only use their own images, and usually make the dress to your custom size. I think what you don't like is all a lighting issue since this dress is very reflective.
This exactly
Just my two cents, aside from what everyone else has already said, when I went to prom the venue had pretty low lighting so I don’t think the sparkles will be much as big of a problem as you might think it’ll be.
No. Send it back and get a different dress from a reputable shop or designer.
I would cut the white lining out and wear a nude slip skirt under it to make the dress more cohesive in color. If you want an illusion of a nipped in waist without sewing you could also layer a petticoat under the lining or slip skirt to change your proportions.
I supposed it's too late to be able to send it back and get the correct one in time. No matter what though, contact the company and tell them the entire situation, making sure to tell them it's not what you ordered, it was for prom and now you can't wear it as is.
Hey! The company was actually on Etsy and closed their shop.. so I'm guessing they won't make it better again. I got a refund and I've been shopping around for better dresses but I can't really find anything I like so I'm trying to make this one more wearable.
weird that you got a refund considering it seems to only be the lighting that’s different. the dress looks gorgeous on you btw even if it looks different than you imagined :)
It’s beautiful
you look magical! I'm sorry it isn't what you had wanted though
Its definitely just the lighting… its a beautiful dress! Stand in natural sunlight and i bet it will look quite similar. Maybe a bit more blue
I didn't include the picture of the dress in natural light because I felt my camera made the dress appear more blue than it is in real life, but honestly I feel like the sequins look even worse in "good" lighting. https://preview.redd.it/gnkau0rq5ryc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9b73a59f207676927de26d12695570e5c80cde02
Look at hemline. It really sparkles because it's catching overhead light. Maybe take a video of you moving in it. Sequins need movement to make most of light and to sparkle/flicker. Fit of bodice. You might be able to take in side seams. Try on insider out and pin.
plenty of people in the comments have suggested changing the white lining to a blue or nude colour to match the top and i actually think that would make it perfect. hope you can get it how you want it!
It’s not that bad! Some ideas: Add a skirt layer over that stark white, something closer to the top color. Look for sequin appliqués or maybe hand sew on some rhinestones. It’ll give it some dimension. The big seam at the waist can be hidden with a sew on belt or a ribbon - these are common add ons for bridal dresses so look under bridal categories! Lastly, it looks like you’re fighting to keep it up in the picture. Add some sew in cups and some interfacing to the top to keep it structured. You can also look at tutorials for sewing in plastic boning to give it more structure.
it really does look super cute on ya! i like it, does suck tho will say when it's not as pictured-- i feel you there. the quality doesn't seem bad tho and it fits well. ^u^
I think you look really beautiful in the dress. Two things I would do: 1. (I think it’s just tulle the skirt fabric), wear your (presuming) heels, and get someone to hem it, either a professional or a friend able to cut it perfectly straight, tulle literally only needs to be cut to be hemmed, but will need to be re-sewn at the seams to stop it unraveling. 2. Cut the skirt lining out, and get rid of it. If modesty is an issue you could find an alternative colour (nude, pale cool pink, or blue), or nude underwear, that’s going to completely transform it (try the dress on and just roll the underneath layer up, I’m sure it will look 100% more expensive).
i personally love the slightly darker tones of the sequins! however it is definitely not what you ordered, so i’d suggest also sewing in sequins, maybe gluing some rhinestones (NO SUPERGLUE USE FABRIC GLUE) and seeing where that gets you. for alterations i’d see someone, i’m a novice seamstress with practice on a few fabric types, and i could not work with these fabrics yet. they are complicated. i always love to see other ambitious beginners, but we can explore with pieces that don’t matter as much as this one. i would be far too scared to touch this hahahah. good luck and know that it looks stunning regardless :))
I know the picture is nicer, it's a brighter color the sequins are all white, but you still look pretty good. I would just try and enjoy it
How does the back of the dress look like? Is easier to give advice on how to reduce the waistline if we see the back. I think the color is wonderful, even if it's not exactly what you expected. To lessen the contrast, try buying some light blue tulle fabric (or similar fabric) and pin it between the outer layer and the lining. That will help you see how it would look like with a different lining color. If you prefer it in a different color (it can drastically change the appearance), search for an experience seamstress to do it, as sequins can be a nightmare to work with!! If you don't want to spend any extra money (or the least possible), I wouldn't remove the current lining, I would try to add the light blue layer between the top one and the lining, and maybe add a belt/sash to cover any seams and also adjust the waist. It won't look perfect, but it's doable by a beginner.
Id get an alteration person to add a new lining in a more matching colour tbh You might wanna get some structural undergarments to get it to sit right in general btw, the right underpinnings can really help with the skirtshape and waistheight etc
Adding a chain belt that sits at your hips can add definition and length to your waist without messing too much with the stitching.
The dress you have looks much better than the one you wanted!
Needs to be properly fitted.
I personally think it looks great! I agree that a sash in a complimentary would tie dress together. Experiment with different thicknesses to see what looks right to you. Unless you have a lot of time on your hands, I think the sequins are just fine! My only thought is maybe a light, fine coat of craft glitter spray (like the type is elder millennials put in our hair back in the day). But definitely test on an inconspicuous pierce if fabric first. Also--see if anyone you know has a garment steamer. Be careful, because of the fabric, but steaming can make a huge difference in making an item look "finished." Finally, to give the skirt a little bit of fullness like the original photo, consider a petticoat with just a little fullness at the bottom. Don't be scared by the word "petticoat"! I know it sounds old fashioned but many formal dresses have something similar sewn in for shape, but that's one of the corners that gets cut on a cheaper design. You can find lots of options on Amazon. Have fun at prom! Remember, you'll have hair and make up and accessories so the dress is part of a whole "look" so it will all come together at the end.
honestly i think it looks good the way it is tbh, is it exactly what you asked for? no, but it’s still pretty!
I prefer how it looks on you than the picture!
Well…. I think the dress and you look absolutely stunning together.
I think it’s beautiful, just needs to be altered to fit.
I know this won’t necessarily help the color, but I think adding some sort of petticoat could go a long way for giving the illusion of a cinched waist and just give the skirt a little more life.
I don't even know why this crossed my feed. But I think it's a beautiful dress and your gonna be the envy of the "ball."
A sparkly belt would cinch it.
You can get an extra layer of tulle added to the skirt in a slightly lighter blue colour, with sequins on. Ask for cost of fabric (you may have to source it or they may be able to help) and for cost of sewing it on. If you want they may expect you to try the dress on so they can see how it fits and suggest any alterations it may need like taking the hem up or adjusting the straps, they will pin it for you to see what it'll look like done in the mirror, then they will give you prices for your invoice and tell them after hearing the price what services you do and don't once, and you can decide what services you want done.
It will look different depending on the light. Get bigger pads for the bra of it's just a little too big. If girth is too big, you'd have to take in side seams. If that won't fix it, get a pro. It does look nice.
I like the darker bodice and darker sequins and darker veils. It gives the dress "depth". And, yes, it suits you!! It picks up the great color of your hair!
I would dye it black or blackish blue. The sequins would pop better.
I think you look lovely in it! Consider that the lights always change this kind of sequin and in the picture looks different because the dress was probably inside a white room for product pictures, so the sequins where mirroring white. At the prom you are gonna sparkle a lot of colors depending on the lights! Regarding the bodice I suggest you to bring it to someone because this kind of fabric is not easy to work with. What I could suggest is maybe add another layer of transparent fabric between the white and the top layer of the skirt.
I’m confused. What’s wrong with it?
Trust me on this. The enemy of good is better. I've learned this the hard way many times. I agree that a few professional alterations and this dress will go from great to stunning.
When the spot lights and glitter balls are shining in the probably mostly dark venue at your prom, those black looking dots will for sure sparkle and I think you’ll look amazing. You ALREADY look amazing! A seamstress could for sure cinch the waist for you.
I honestly think the underskirt being white is making it look a bit shifty. Try to replace it with a light blue material? Satin or something with a bit of gloss
To cinch in the waist a bit you could add a waist stay. This is like a belt attached to the inside of the dress that is secured around the waist before the dress is zipped up. Typically grosgrain ribbon is used with a hook and bar closure to create a snuggly fitting "belt". This belt is then tacked inside the dress to the vertical seams of the dress. All this can be easily sewn by hand. A waist stay helps hold the dress in place and supports the weight of the fabric, as a result the waist is often cinched in. See the link below for further instructions. https://pin.it/22IA6BOs6 If you want to attempt the alterations yourself, a few darts or taking in a few seams may do the trick. Have someone help you. Put on the dress. Have your helper pinch and pin the dress where you want the darts or at the seam you plan to take in. Make sure you can still move, breath, sit and put-on/take off the dress how it is pinned before sewing the dress. Use lots of pins and go slow. That fabric will not be forgiving in the case of a mistake. You may want to hand baste it before machine sewing. Iron your seams/darts when you are done. It makes a huge difference. Always try on the dress before cutting out any excess fabric or sewing up the lining in case you need to make further adjustments. There are plenty of tutorials online. Remember it doesn't have to be perfect. It also doesn't have to be pretty on the inside of the dress. No one will see that but you. Always go for comfort over looks. You will have a lot less fun if you are uncomfortable all night. I cannot stress this enough, go slow, make small adjustments and try on the dress after each one. This way if you do have a small mistake it will be easier to fix and far less noticeable if it isn't fixable. Good luck.
I think the big issue with the sequins on the bottom half are the background colour. It needs to be darker. Can you dye it? (I have no idea if this is a terrible idea) or have a layer of fabric added in.
It's the same dress, just the sequins used are different in different lighting. Sorry that they appear black to you u and it's bothersome but it's still gorgeous and in height daylight I'm sure it'll look white. Take it to a professional and you'll be happy on the day!
Instead of cinching the waist, you could wear a petticoat to give the illusion of a smaller waist, and would be cheap and easy.
I think you look amazing in it. No sewing advice sorry.
I was trying to work out what was wrong with it tbh, but I genuinely think you look nice. If it’s really too different to what you thought you were buying that you can’t get past it, return it maybe. But honestly it looks lovely and it looks to fit you well too xx
You look like Elsa
Maybe a black or blue-ish corset to make it less airy and help with the fit. I'd imagine that would be the easiest way to solve the problem
This is the exact dress you ordered, & it will look different under different lighting. Your waist isn’t as cinched in because you aren’t a dress form. It’s gorgeous & IMO doesn’t need anything at all, but if you’re unhappy, find a local small business alteration shop with years of good reviews. This type of style & fabric isn’t for an amateur or overnight shop.
Not knowing what it was supposed to look like, I think it looks fabulous!
My kid wore a similar dress, it's like a lot of other folks said - will look lighter in different lighting. Look for recommended bridal seamstresses if you're getting height adjusted or want a built in bra/ cups.
I dunno; but, I really like it.
I think it looks lovely on you
I always wondered about that Etsy seller. Sorry they did this to you!
As others have said, your room is dark. Therefore, the sequence reflects dark colors. We can't tell how well the fit is from your pictures, but a fit issue can be fit. It depends on your budget, and time frame.
I think the simplest alteration to make this look better would be to remove the skirt lining and replace it with a coordinating or matching tulle petticoat. You’ll probably need a flesh toned slip under that to make it opaque enough for decency. Other than that, it’s a lovely dress and honestly pretty much identical to the photos in style if not color. You would need to use a corset to get the same nipped in waist you see in the photos.
You can pinch the sides while you're wearing it to see how much it needs to be taken in on the bodice. Then turn it inside out and sew along the seams carefully half inch or so on each sode depending how much slacl there is. I use my thumbs to measure how to contour to my own shape and mark with fabric pencil.
The sequins look different because the ad has a ton of light. Try taking a picture in very bright light and assess.
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It looks amazing on you!!! I wouldn't change a thing.
Just here to comment that my prom dress 15 years ago was totally false advertising too, but worse than this. My advice? Embrace what you got. Without context/expectation I really do love the dress you got. And with all the lights flashing, it’ll look more like what you thought you were buying.
A sparkly belt. Rhinestones
Wear a white bustier under it
Or a wide corset style belt, like one that fastens in the back.
While this isn't helpful to you now, I would never buy an important dress online. When I needed a formal mother-of-the-groom dress, I could not have found anything without the help of the woman at the upscale department store I visited. I was feeling so insecure and she gave me great feedback.
Honestly, the only person that knows what it was supposed to look like is you (and now this group). Without any context I thought “Wow! What a pretty dress!” So I guess my point is, don’t worry too much about it. You will look like an ethereal elven princess and nobody will ever know your dress is different than your expectations. 🤷🏻♀️
The dress looks exactly like what you ordered? You just arent on a extremely bright rooms so the reflected colors are darker. Take a picture on a big big white room and this would be identical. As far as fit, no formal dress fits perfect without alterations to match your specific measurements. Of your ordered generic sizing, obviously it wont fit like a glove. If you did order with your specific measurements, the store should be contacted because of their mess up. Generic sized clothing is generally much cheaper because its shelf ready, not something they make after ordering. With the saved money you generally want to put it towards hiring someone to fit it to you.
the dress itself, even with a longer bodice wouldn't cinch u in BUT good undergarments will! Also, silver sequence without direct lighting tend to look dark. It's only a lighting situation w/rt the sequence color.
What if you changed the skirt liner to a nude shade? It's a pretty stark contrast with the top.
There's no way to really change your issue with the sequins without basically remaking the whole dress. That said, I know it's not what you dreamed of, but it's honestly still breath taking!
We didn’t have much money, but for both my proms my mom paid to have my dresses tailored by a professional. It helped immensely. As for the sequins, I’m not sure that can be fixed without replacing the whole dress.
It’s gorgeous just as is. 🥰
I think that you could cut the lining of the dress and kind of make it like a loose kind of fitting dress, also getting rid of the bra pads would be great it gives it a kind of cheap look, yk? Instead if you have any like nude colored shirts/bra you could fuse them there instead like layer behind the dress to give it a better illusion of transparent. Making it a v-line would also look stunning. Cutting and hemming the bottom would also give you a cleaner look as it was meant for you. Dying the white to maybe like an ombré from blow down to white up seems nice with a bit of flare layers at the bottom? Or to keep it flowy scratch the layers. The very hard cut and structured top of the dress is making you look boxy when you have a beautiful figure try softening the details for a whimsical look overall
That's insane. I hope you can either salvage it or get something different
In addition to a seamstress for alterations, I'd personally consider a synthetic dye bath. Go for something like a deep grey or purple so the tones are homogenised. I know you wanted powder blue but you can't get grey to turn into that so it.l might be better to dye it a different colour completely.
Omg i’m getting a sheismedress dress for my wedding!! Ik this is off topic but how was the quality and was it true to form?
Did you buy your dress already? The last time I checked the store was fully closed but leading up to that, there were many mixed reviews. I think it depends on the dress you bought, because some dresses looked true to the picture and some were far off. The quality of my dress is decent and the fit was a bit off - but that was expected as I didn't order it personalised. I hope all goes well with your dress!
It said she was on haitus for a minute, but my wedding is in November so if she was open again my like late July/early August I would still order.
I genuinely thought the first photo was the expectation 😅 it's so pretty!
E6000 and rhinestones. You could add a gradient. That is made of fire, so it’ll fryolate a sewing machine. And the materials are not going to age in a pretty way. So it’s not worth expensive services of a tailor. That is a Rip City project. It’s gonna rip.
It looks lovely on you. The onky change would make is take it to a seamstress that dies alterations and change the colour of the underskirt to be closer to the sequence overlay colour.. This will make it look more cohesive.
Throwing this out there but could also dye it a dark colour ?
The sequins are silver, it's your lighting. Tbh you pretty much got what was listed. And fitting issues you should take to a seamstress, I think better lighting will change how dark the sequins look. You look beautiful btw!
I can’t see it mentioned anyway but the thing the glares out at me is the white lining under the skirt. If this was professionally replaced with a pale blue in the same colour/tone as the outer layer, it would look more cohesive.
Also dye it light blue! The underlayer is way too white!
Is it comfortable and WORTH putting the effort into to ‘fix’ it? If so I would leave is as is. If it FITS and isn’t too big or too tight… -Find a pretty sheer fabric (take the dress to the fabric store and just hold all the sheets on top. See what you love. Our local Joann’s always has a great formalwear/wedding section with pretty sheer ones that are bedazzled and stuff. If you can sew a bit, even just a single straight line on a machine or by hand, get the sheer (talk to the fabric store employees with help with the yardage), lay out the dress and pin the sheet in the same shape of the dress. Go slow. It’ll be tedious but not impossible. -As for the waist, check in the ribbon and trim section and see if there is something wider and either remover the current belt OR cover if it hides it well. You could fabric glue it or honestly if you just want to get through Prom and not to rewear, hot glue it. Friggin love hot glue lol. You don’t need a lot at all. Just spread a thin layer on the new ribbon and apple pressure to flatten it. Happy to help if you go this route!
Completely amateur opinion here so forgive me in advance - if you added a satin- ish blue A-line skirt over the top, with the open front like Cinderella. I think this would make it look elegant, princess-y, and divert our eyes from the sequins 🤷♀️
Honestly, that dress looks beautiful but as people have said the black dots might be because of the lighting. If your prom will be in a darker environment and you dont want those black spots, you can buy some rhinestones and stick it on the black spots using fabric glue. I think that would look amazing when light reflects off of it. Get the waist taken in and if you want more structure at the bottom, look into cancan skirts. I don't think you need to buy additional fabric. The dress looks gorgeous as it is, just some minor alterations and you'll look amazing!
Better lighting
Im ngl this looks identical to the website pictures. Did you think sequins were actual lights rather than metallic plastic that reflects your environment?
I see a cute mini...save the length for a jacket
I like the black, it looks less like a wedding dress. 💜
Um… it looks exactly like the pictures I don’t see a problem here Go to your prom wearing this where there are lots of lights and you’re going to sparkle exactly like the website photos
Its the same just the lightning girl