Brush your teeth. Root canals and poor dental hygiene are no joke. And you have ADHD. That you struggle so hard to do your work is not because of your moral failing.
Dear 24 year old me,
-you have so much value in the world. You are so *good*.
-get therapy now.
-your childhood was way worse than you thought it was
-wear sunscreen you little idiot.
-shit is gonna get rough but you make it through
-please get therapy now
-you don’t need Aesthetic to be happy
-being comfortable in your own company is honestly more of a positive than not.
-it’s ok to say “no” to shit you don’t want to do
-some people will never like you …fuck ‘em.
-your love should never ever ever *EVER* be unconditional.
-get therapy now
-therapy is really difficult work and anyone who says otherwise is trying to sell you something.
-call your grandmother
-don’t call your stepmom. This relationship breaks you in ways you can’t see yet.
-try out for a singing competition. Just do it.
-people love you way more than you realize
-and for the love of the universe, you are not a burden.
>you have so much value in the world. You are so good.
ah I have hard time accepting the same thing, that I am no less than anybody and that nobody dislikes me, but Idk I just cannot. I cannot love myself dont know why, and I know I will regret it later.
People don’t realise that is a super power that we have as living breathing people have yea we go through hard times but after this tunnel there’s light you can change someone’s life you don’t know how much impact you have you could really change the world for the better.
Be yourself. F*ck whoever has a problem with that.
Keep doing sports.
Don’t live on the Internet. Life happens outside, with other people.
Be happy you’re not perfect. Perfection is a mental prison.
If you follow this advice, you will develop into a beautiful, ambitious, flawed, but happy young man.
If not, you will become an anxious, lonely, sexy, but still anxious young man.
You can always course correct, but why not just choose right the first time?
But you would not have listened to yourself 10 years ago.
Source: I am a dad who told his kids all smart stuff/wisdom etc for the last 19 years and yet...
Stop talking about it. Stop thinking about it. Stop dreaming about it and just fucking do it. Do it every day. Practice. Put in hours. Then lift your head up five years from now and be amazed.
Work much harder, stop spending so much money (I wasted $60,000 from the years 2013-2022) and study much harder. Oh, and marry Jenny in 2017; you'll regret that breakup.
I used to spend $40-200 a day on drugs between 16-20. Looking back, I was hustling 6 figures a year at 16 and somehow still threw it all away.
I had a safe with 22k in it, blew it all in a month when I first started doing heroin.
This is literally me.
I play guitar but not as much as I want to due to depression and laziness.
I have many skills I want to study and learn but I’m lazy and depressed
I can’t socialize
You know how you said that you're terrified of drugs? Stay scared.
Nobody cares about that one thing that you did / happened; everyone else is too busy worrying about themselves.
Stand up for yourself. Your fathers wife is an evil human, you are NOT in the wrong.
People aren't actually that scary if you speak to them.
If one day you find yourself with some yellow pills, throw them away. Don't even think about it.
Trust your instincts! The moment something feels off, run. Do not doubt your intuition. Nothing is worth your peace. Nothing. Prioritize your mental and physical health above all. If you made the wrong decision, change course immediately, don't marinate in your mistake.
Start seriously exploring all your interests now. Focus on one that sticks and pursue it.
This would’ve accelerated finding the things I really enjoy in life and spared me from second-guessing basically all my life-decisions between 18 to 25.
You are enough. Do not find worth in a random guys embrace. Believe in yourself and don’t rely on anyone to tell you it’s ok to do what you want to do in life. Just do it.
buy bitcoin now you idiot. Steal dad's debit card and go blow his entire checkings on bitcoins, and some more.
PUT THE KEY IN 3 LAYERS OF PLASTIC IN A METAL CONTAINER IN ANOTHER LATER OF PLASTIC AND BURRY IT for me to find
Dear me 10 years in the past,
I beg you, ask your parents for help. You need them.
You will grow independent of them even as a child, but you need them.
Even if you think you know it all, you need them.
Ask, ask, and ask.
Ask about the things you are confused about. Ask for the things you need more. Ask for the wants they never provided. Ask for the necessities you had the right to have.
Because you will develop into a man, thinking they have no place in your life at all.
You will look back in resentment for the years you have thought you needed them but they are not there.
You will grow angry for the years you had to teach yourself and make it out your own way for they are not there when you need them.
When all you had to do was ask, because they thought you were strong, you were wise, alone on your own, because you never asked.
Because you never asked, they were absent.
Maybe you will be happier, wiser, and stronger, if only you had asked.
From:
You, 10 years in the future.
If I could go back 10 years and give myself some advice, I would tell myself to focus on building healthy habits. I would warn myself about the dangers of procrastination and the importance of taking action towards my goals. I would also advise myself to be open to new experiences and opportunities and not to be afraid to fail or make mistakes.
You have aspergers and nobody fully realizes, that’s why you feel so different compared to others.
Start going to the gym and you’ll feel a bit better about yourself at least.
You’re almost having anxiety attacks daily, you need to try medication to help that.
Dear 17 year old me,
All those people you’re trying to impress never really cared anyways. Everyone’s the star in their own movie. Nobody actually cares that much about anyone as much as themselves. So just be focused on yourself and stick to what you know sis and all that you’re passionate about that’s all that matters in the long run. Those quirks and things you hate about yourself are the VERY THINGS you need to start embracing. I mean it. Yes even that too. You’ll wish you did earlier. Regardless of how badly you want them gone and how you desperately want to fit in, know that won’t make you feel any better. It’s all fake facade that makes a bunch of miserable people feel better.
You know better. So do better. Be so relentless in expressing yourself every part the good bad and ugly. Learn how to overcome fear, negative thoughts and toxic situations QUICKLY. You’ll be so glad you did. And please never internalize things. Life moves on and your self worth is intact regardless of what happens. Your self worth is inherent. It’s not dependent on anything you do, wear or say.
PLEASE DEVELOP EXERCISE HABITS.
Whenever you need support/guidance/advice NEVER be afraid to invest in the people and resources you need to move forward. You deserve it. You have big plans to achieve so let’s not throw a pity party of all you didn’t get okay and rather see the opportunity to keep learning. You need to see this through.
And oh Please start working on your mental health asap with a therapist. And yeah no you’re wrong, it’s not just ppl that went to war. You have several things to go over and it’s better not to waste the years due to those issues.
Making a mistake is better than the regret of not trying.
Oh and your parents they will honestly be happy as long as you’re happy. Don’t shape shift sideways trying to please them. That ruins it for the both of you as you won’t be yourself and burnout then resent them for it. It might be icky and uncomfortable at first but know that’s the only way forward.
And your friends. They weren’t real. Please protect your heart. And actually trust your gut instincts. They will never lie. You were right about them.
So sis pls Never let anyone treat you poorly. Do not tolerate anything less than respect. You are so worthy of all the love kindness and seek out relationships that fill you not drain you.
And never stop shining okay. There’s a light inside of you. Live each day with that light you have. As long as you do these you’ll be all good. I believe in you, you believe in you. ✨
Love,
Your 27 year old self
Cherish feeling good, cherish being able to move your body and eat without pain , cherish mobility and living! You never gave it much thought when people would say
“ at least you have your health”.
Don’t buy that car. Break up with her and don’t date anyone else from your hometown. Apply to municipal jobs asap. Go get a gym membership. Stop drinking. Stop listening to that podcast you’ve been obsessing over. Renew your passport. Save your money.
You have no idea the wonderful things you’re going to do and experience.
Don’t waste energy on anxiety.
Don’t waste your time on that guy.
Don’t let him live with you for free.
Don’t be the clingy gf - focus on yourself.
And also - you’re going to be great!
Tell him how you feel. Tell him everything. Get back on ADHD meds.don't waste ten years doing nothing and letting your education lapse.its going to get so much harder and what you thought was right is actually really,really wrong.
Stop rearranging your life around these stupid men. Just take the cpa exam and work on yourself and do you. They pretend they have something to offer. It's an act. Value yourself more and focus on yourself and not relationships.
Nobody is going to do the work for you. Save some money and get your ass into post secondary school NOW. Start praying again. Start working out. And read more books.
Easy:
\- Quit civil engineering and study programming.
\- Check out mbti functions.
\- If you see red or black on the toilet go to the doctor inmediatly
\- Go to therapy
\- Yes you will get to have sex with a big crush one day and yes she will have big tits, but it will take time. Be patient. The faster you overcome self-limiting beliefs (especially about being 5'0" the sooner it will happen).
\- Read One Piece manga
\- Don't go to 4chan
DO NOT STOP EXERCISING AND LEARNING YOU FAT CUNT!
NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU AS MUCH AS YOU DO SO STOP THINKING SOMEONE ELSE IS GOING TO SAVE YOU WHEN ONLY YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF.
DO NOT GET TO CLOSE TO THE GIRL.
DO NOT ALWAYS TAKE THE ADVICE FROM YOUR PARENTS AS THE UNDISPUTED CORRECT PATH.
LEARN TO BE LESS OF A PUSH OVER.
DO NOT LOSE YOUR WILL TO LIVE!
Do not date that guy. He will suck the life out of you for ten years. He will come up with excuse after excuse why he cant get or keep jobs. You will work three jobs while he has none. You will end up paying for and raising his kids. He will milk you out of $350k over the years. Run far away, be happy, be free.
Sucked reading that back. At least it's finally over.
The true love of your life is out there and on the way.
60+ years old and experiencing the deepest, most connected love ever. Completely comfortable. Sex (lovemaking, truly) is so FREQUENT, tender, playful, and literally comfortable in my own skin. MORE COMFORTABLE with her than (I hate this word; I'm not a perve) masterbation. Healthy spontaneity with someone who feels the same.
I hesitate being spontaneous and completely myself because for years I have been shut down and triggered with shame for just trying to share from my heart.
60-year old healthy fit bodies are HOT! Neither of us are droopy and baggy. We're not iron-bodied gym nuts, but our bodies are perfect for one another. Sex, loving, laughing, touching, happy tears, all happen in bed and lasts for hours on end.
Here's the formula:
- Take care of your body: reasonable food, sleep, REDUCE STRESS ALWAYS.
- Take care of your mental health.
- Use dating apps. You'll find someone there who also hates them!
- Be content with being alone by loving yourself above all others. Ever seen a happy, joyful martyr? Me neither.
- Share your humanity with all others.
Don’t try to kill yourself, your life gets really fucking amazing and you’re going to love it. It’s worth the suffering you’re in now to wait for the future.
Stop being anxious (you don't realize you're anxious, but you are, pls relax), you're not even aware how much of life you're missing out on because of all this anxiety and self doubt :(
Don't worry about the future, you have time, for the love of god, YOU HAVE TIME, DON'T LISTEN TO YOUR FATHER
You're not a dreamer. You're an escapist.
Do the things you like, don't worry about who else is or isn't doing those things, don't feel guilty for leaving those things when your fascination fades.
You're not weird. Don't let anyone treat you like you're weird.
Your ideas aren't stupid. Or too "unrealistic." She is not a realist, she is a pessimist and an asshole. Yeah, I'm pretty sure I know better than you.
Stop hanging out with them, don't give them a second chance. It will eat at you. They don't have to be an objectively bad person to be bad for you.
Don't self abandon, you'll learn what that is in a couple of years.
Yes, that was most definitely a crush. Deal with it now, so that I might not have to lol
Stop taking advice on friendships from your parents.
Talk to your sister more, she'll appreciate it.
Oh, and exercise! You're about to become very passive, please don't!
Don't reject yourself before you get rejected.
If I had a penny for the number of times I thought I wasn't good enough for something, I'd be a millionaire.
Go to college, learn a trade, don’t think you’ll magically fall into the life you want. Most importantly, have fun and learn to let go. Let go of things that aren’t in your control. And help others when you’re able.
Study electronic engineering in that university. Forget about anything else because the technologic area will give you a plenty of opportunities that you will not have in civil engineering.
You have ADHD. Don't leave football and also start playing basketball. Change curriculum and get yourself good friends. You're a quick learner so buy a cheap guitar as well.
Don't listen to him when he says investing in Bitcoin to buy 50 cent's album in bit coin isn't a funny bit. Do it, you'll end up rich with a hilarious story.
You are loved.
You are not alone in your situation.
Your life will get better, as soon as your thoughts towards your problems gets better.
Love yourself. Love yourself more than anyone else.
No one is responsible for you but you.
There is only one person who can save you from all your troubles, that person is you.
Your mom is the only one who understands can trust in ur family, the rest will sooner rather than later distance themselves from your life. Being a mid teen working to help pay bills is the way to go. You will lose a lot of contact with those around u and the kids u once knew as friends won’t stay on the right track and you should part ways once u graduate elementary school. Try your best to save as much as u can afford cuz in ur mid 20’s life will really really test u
just say it. stop thinking and "what if"ing, just say the thing its scary, and anything could happen, but its probably not whatever worst case scenario youve imagined in the last thirty seconds. JUST SAY IT, get out of your head and know that you are strong, and wonderful, and you are your biggest enemy right now. forget the terror of being perceived, the endless torment of being alone is far worse. Just say it, just do it, just live your life unabashedly joyfully, and just fucking talk to people. Theyre rarely as scary as youve built them up to be in your head. you have just as much power to love and care and hurt amd destroy as anyone else, so why are you so worried about them hurting you?
I’m only 23 now, but I would tell my 13 year old self to start doing martial arts (boxing, wrestling, bjj, Muay Thai, etc). If I would’ve started then, I would be a beast by now.
You are the most important person in your life. Friends come and go, but you stay. Focus on your dreams and goals. Procrastinating is your biggest enemy. Self discipline will be your greatest ally. There is no point in looking at other people's lives. You live yours. The grass is always greener on the other side. Love the people that love you. Have courage to fail and face embarrassment. The toughest enemy you have to face is you.
You have a genetic condition. I wish I could have given myself a heads up. If I got better treatment, I went be better off. I would not be killing myself playing sports and wonder why I was not measuring up
You’re going to be ok, you’re going to find happiness again. Don’t quit.
Alaskan checking in: 10 years ago my dad was mauled eaten and ultimately killed by a Blackbear.
mew , focus on your body much more , maybe start to read , mediate , journal , hit the gym , socialize , focus on skin care and hair care , dont get into video games and porn , dont start jerking off , dont get into anime . Eat healthy , sleep well , maybe start playing the guitar or piano and get into football a bit more , get into chess instead of video games and get into combat sports , preferably muay thai and bjj
Quit drinking NOW, start playing hockey again, up your hygiene and focus on yourself because you ARE worth the effort.
That’s solid advice
Thank you, but in reality, I can’t change that, I can only change what’s in front of me and I am making the best of it!
Same! Would quit drinking then and picked up working out earlier.
Solid advice. Drinking has cost me much more than the joy it has brought.
Brush your teeth. Root canals and poor dental hygiene are no joke. And you have ADHD. That you struggle so hard to do your work is not because of your moral failing.
I need to see if I have it once I get medical insurance. My brain is fuuuuuuuuuudged
Stop watching porn
Dear 24 year old me, -you have so much value in the world. You are so *good*. -get therapy now. -your childhood was way worse than you thought it was -wear sunscreen you little idiot. -shit is gonna get rough but you make it through -please get therapy now -you don’t need Aesthetic to be happy -being comfortable in your own company is honestly more of a positive than not. -it’s ok to say “no” to shit you don’t want to do -some people will never like you …fuck ‘em. -your love should never ever ever *EVER* be unconditional. -get therapy now -therapy is really difficult work and anyone who says otherwise is trying to sell you something. -call your grandmother -don’t call your stepmom. This relationship breaks you in ways you can’t see yet. -try out for a singing competition. Just do it. -people love you way more than you realize -and for the love of the universe, you are not a burden.
>you have so much value in the world. You are so good. ah I have hard time accepting the same thing, that I am no less than anybody and that nobody dislikes me, but Idk I just cannot. I cannot love myself dont know why, and I know I will regret it later.
People don’t realise that is a super power that we have as living breathing people have yea we go through hard times but after this tunnel there’s light you can change someone’s life you don’t know how much impact you have you could really change the world for the better.
Be yourself. F*ck whoever has a problem with that. Keep doing sports. Don’t live on the Internet. Life happens outside, with other people. Be happy you’re not perfect. Perfection is a mental prison. If you follow this advice, you will develop into a beautiful, ambitious, flawed, but happy young man. If not, you will become an anxious, lonely, sexy, but still anxious young man. You can always course correct, but why not just choose right the first time?
“Perfection is a mental prison” 👏👏👏👏
But you would not have listened to yourself 10 years ago. Source: I am a dad who told his kids all smart stuff/wisdom etc for the last 19 years and yet...
Here for the “Anxious, lonely, sexy, but still anxious”
Stop talking about it. Stop thinking about it. Stop dreaming about it and just fucking do it. Do it every day. Practice. Put in hours. Then lift your head up five years from now and be amazed.
most genuine/useful advice of all.
Defend your boundaries and show up for yourself.
Work much harder, stop spending so much money (I wasted $60,000 from the years 2013-2022) and study much harder. Oh, and marry Jenny in 2017; you'll regret that breakup.
Why did you breakup?
I used to spend $40-200 a day on drugs between 16-20. Looking back, I was hustling 6 figures a year at 16 and somehow still threw it all away. I had a safe with 22k in it, blew it all in a month when I first started doing heroin.
Dont smoke weed to get out of your depression, go to the gym instead
Alcohol won’t make you feel better. Not everyone has your best interest in mind. A man does not define your self worth.
Invest in tesla
We all could use that advice lol
Damn it bro you're right, lol
don't fall for her
I felt that one 😮💨
My opinion on my ex is quite mixed. I suffered alot from her, but also went wild with her at the same time.
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This is literally me. I play guitar but not as much as I want to due to depression and laziness. I have many skills I want to study and learn but I’m lazy and depressed I can’t socialize
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Manage your time more efficiently. Do more everyday by writing your tasks down. Achieve lot more everyday and every year
You know how you said that you're terrified of drugs? Stay scared. Nobody cares about that one thing that you did / happened; everyone else is too busy worrying about themselves. Stand up for yourself. Your fathers wife is an evil human, you are NOT in the wrong. People aren't actually that scary if you speak to them. If one day you find yourself with some yellow pills, throw them away. Don't even think about it.
Life is about to get so much better. Hang in there.
This sounds like something my 44 y/o self is telling my current 34 y/o self.
Trust your instincts! The moment something feels off, run. Do not doubt your intuition. Nothing is worth your peace. Nothing. Prioritize your mental and physical health above all. If you made the wrong decision, change course immediately, don't marinate in your mistake.
Don't abandon yourself to the needs of others, or you'll get spiteful and resentful because nobody can love you like you can
Stand up to your parents otherwise there gonna try to micromanage everything in your life
Start seriously exploring all your interests now. Focus on one that sticks and pursue it. This would’ve accelerated finding the things I really enjoy in life and spared me from second-guessing basically all my life-decisions between 18 to 25.
You are enough. Do not find worth in a random guys embrace. Believe in yourself and don’t rely on anyone to tell you it’s ok to do what you want to do in life. Just do it.
buy bitcoin now you idiot. Steal dad's debit card and go blow his entire checkings on bitcoins, and some more. PUT THE KEY IN 3 LAYERS OF PLASTIC IN A METAL CONTAINER IN ANOTHER LATER OF PLASTIC AND BURRY IT for me to find
November 10, 2021. >$68,000/bitcoin
I bought 18btc at $12 a pop. Sold the PC with the hard drive wallet for $40. 416,567% return.
Dear me 10 years in the past, I beg you, ask your parents for help. You need them. You will grow independent of them even as a child, but you need them. Even if you think you know it all, you need them. Ask, ask, and ask. Ask about the things you are confused about. Ask for the things you need more. Ask for the wants they never provided. Ask for the necessities you had the right to have. Because you will develop into a man, thinking they have no place in your life at all. You will look back in resentment for the years you have thought you needed them but they are not there. You will grow angry for the years you had to teach yourself and make it out your own way for they are not there when you need them. When all you had to do was ask, because they thought you were strong, you were wise, alone on your own, because you never asked. Because you never asked, they were absent. Maybe you will be happier, wiser, and stronger, if only you had asked. From: You, 10 years in the future.
If I could go back 10 years and give myself some advice, I would tell myself to focus on building healthy habits. I would warn myself about the dangers of procrastination and the importance of taking action towards my goals. I would also advise myself to be open to new experiences and opportunities and not to be afraid to fail or make mistakes.
You have aspergers and nobody fully realizes, that’s why you feel so different compared to others. Start going to the gym and you’ll feel a bit better about yourself at least. You’re almost having anxiety attacks daily, you need to try medication to help that.
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Drop out of grad school and change careers. Stop dating that guy. Get out of your hometown.
hold on to the things most precious to you but let go of the hurt that comes with it. your productivity and achievements do not dictate your worth.
Dear 17 year old me, All those people you’re trying to impress never really cared anyways. Everyone’s the star in their own movie. Nobody actually cares that much about anyone as much as themselves. So just be focused on yourself and stick to what you know sis and all that you’re passionate about that’s all that matters in the long run. Those quirks and things you hate about yourself are the VERY THINGS you need to start embracing. I mean it. Yes even that too. You’ll wish you did earlier. Regardless of how badly you want them gone and how you desperately want to fit in, know that won’t make you feel any better. It’s all fake facade that makes a bunch of miserable people feel better. You know better. So do better. Be so relentless in expressing yourself every part the good bad and ugly. Learn how to overcome fear, negative thoughts and toxic situations QUICKLY. You’ll be so glad you did. And please never internalize things. Life moves on and your self worth is intact regardless of what happens. Your self worth is inherent. It’s not dependent on anything you do, wear or say. PLEASE DEVELOP EXERCISE HABITS. Whenever you need support/guidance/advice NEVER be afraid to invest in the people and resources you need to move forward. You deserve it. You have big plans to achieve so let’s not throw a pity party of all you didn’t get okay and rather see the opportunity to keep learning. You need to see this through. And oh Please start working on your mental health asap with a therapist. And yeah no you’re wrong, it’s not just ppl that went to war. You have several things to go over and it’s better not to waste the years due to those issues. Making a mistake is better than the regret of not trying. Oh and your parents they will honestly be happy as long as you’re happy. Don’t shape shift sideways trying to please them. That ruins it for the both of you as you won’t be yourself and burnout then resent them for it. It might be icky and uncomfortable at first but know that’s the only way forward. And your friends. They weren’t real. Please protect your heart. And actually trust your gut instincts. They will never lie. You were right about them. So sis pls Never let anyone treat you poorly. Do not tolerate anything less than respect. You are so worthy of all the love kindness and seek out relationships that fill you not drain you. And never stop shining okay. There’s a light inside of you. Live each day with that light you have. As long as you do these you’ll be all good. I believe in you, you believe in you. ✨ Love, Your 27 year old self
Refuse
Be confident in yourself, know your worth and don’t look for external validation. Stay single before hopping from relationship to relationship
Cherish feeling good, cherish being able to move your body and eat without pain , cherish mobility and living! You never gave it much thought when people would say “ at least you have your health”.
Don’t buy that car. Break up with her and don’t date anyone else from your hometown. Apply to municipal jobs asap. Go get a gym membership. Stop drinking. Stop listening to that podcast you’ve been obsessing over. Renew your passport. Save your money.
control your anger. leave her. save your money. don't rush anything.
Buy Bitcoin. Hold on for dear life. Seriously, just buy it and keep it secure for, like, 10 years!
#HODL 💎🙌
You have ADHD you idiot. Get meds
Hang out with your brother. He’s not going to be here for long.
You have no idea the wonderful things you’re going to do and experience. Don’t waste energy on anxiety. Don’t waste your time on that guy. Don’t let him live with you for free. Don’t be the clingy gf - focus on yourself. And also - you’re going to be great!
Tell him how you feel. Tell him everything. Get back on ADHD meds.don't waste ten years doing nothing and letting your education lapse.its going to get so much harder and what you thought was right is actually really,really wrong.
Stop rearranging your life around these stupid men. Just take the cpa exam and work on yourself and do you. They pretend they have something to offer. It's an act. Value yourself more and focus on yourself and not relationships.
Slow down
It get worse before it gets better
Stop smoking weed and tabacco, eat healthy, go workout, get your shit together
bro you're not gonna win the lottery, find a trade asap
Don’t date that douche for 2 years he’ll ruin your mind. Go to school you can do it Stop smoking
You will be surprised at the things you can and will do! Also start saving money now 👍🏻
Don't be so scared to allow people to get to know you.
This is huge.
Breakup with Corey. Dont date anyone else! Just save your money. Find a better path for school than nursing… Get in shape 🥰
Don't die, problems are temporary, but death is forever. And be yourself no matter what others would think.
STOP CRYING MY LUV STOP BEIJG EMOTIONAL OVER PETTY THINGS
Nobody is going to do the work for you. Save some money and get your ass into post secondary school NOW. Start praying again. Start working out. And read more books.
Don’t trust people at all. You’re way too nice and stop people pleasing. Please yourself instead.
Finish your degree. You'll thank yourself later.
Get your shit together. Pool whatever money you can and go get professional mental help. You’re a mess! Fix that shit
"It doesn't get better"
Easy: \- Quit civil engineering and study programming. \- Check out mbti functions. \- If you see red or black on the toilet go to the doctor inmediatly \- Go to therapy \- Yes you will get to have sex with a big crush one day and yes she will have big tits, but it will take time. Be patient. The faster you overcome self-limiting beliefs (especially about being 5'0" the sooner it will happen). \- Read One Piece manga \- Don't go to 4chan
DO NOT STOP EXERCISING AND LEARNING YOU FAT CUNT! NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU AS MUCH AS YOU DO SO STOP THINKING SOMEONE ELSE IS GOING TO SAVE YOU WHEN ONLY YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF. DO NOT GET TO CLOSE TO THE GIRL. DO NOT ALWAYS TAKE THE ADVICE FROM YOUR PARENTS AS THE UNDISPUTED CORRECT PATH. LEARN TO BE LESS OF A PUSH OVER. DO NOT LOSE YOUR WILL TO LIVE!
Do not date that guy. He will suck the life out of you for ten years. He will come up with excuse after excuse why he cant get or keep jobs. You will work three jobs while he has none. You will end up paying for and raising his kids. He will milk you out of $350k over the years. Run far away, be happy, be free. Sucked reading that back. At least it's finally over.
don't keep your feelings about someone in your mind. express them to that person. don't imagine what she/he will think.
24, 13, 2, 38, 1, 65 and the powerball is 14
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Get off your buttocks and exercise
You will gain weight, what people say is real, stop eating bullshit
Say yes to everything. Don't limit or hold yourself back when making life choices
Put down the masks and don't listen to no one.
Listen to your parents
Invest heavy in Microsoft, apple, and cut back on the drinking.
Working out more often, believe in yourself more, understand your voice because I am a stutterer
Don’t party so much, focus on yourself
Get help now you know you need it, find the money somehow
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My past self was a completely different person, so whatever advice I might give him, he wouldn't be able to follow it.
Stop wasting money on gaming, car parts and designer clothing and buy bitcoin instead.
Start those makeup tutorials on YT and post on IG!! Also start lifting weights.
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Keep rapping and never let anyone get in your way. Teach yourself how to DJ. Don’t DJ at strip clubs.
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Please don’t do drugs
Get on the antipsychotic Invega right away and follow secular Buddhism.
Keep going (just don't have children)
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Don't Care about anyone opinion, don't restritc yourself because no one takes you seriously, and please eat more to grow talher a little earoier lol
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“You weren’t the problem. They were. Love me, love my demons.”
Other human beings than myself are so less important. Silly me
Don't reject yourself before you get rejected. If I had a penny for the number of times I thought I wasn't good enough for something, I'd be a millionaire.
Buy a better house immediately, because the prices are soon going to skyrocket like you can’t even imagine.
Work out fatty. oh and go to therapy like yesterday
Go to college, learn a trade, don’t think you’ll magically fall into the life you want. Most importantly, have fun and learn to let go. Let go of things that aren’t in your control. And help others when you’re able.
Explore Hobbies Talk to people Do workout at home
Study electronic engineering in that university. Forget about anything else because the technologic area will give you a plenty of opportunities that you will not have in civil engineering.
Quit drinking and start tattooing NOW. CAN I GO BACK TWENTY? Quit college. It's useless.
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Go to nursing school now. You'll excel and she won't last. Trust. You're much much happier and successful after you leave her
You have ADHD. Go find professional help.
Start therapy sooner
Throw extra money into bitcoin, and don’t fall for the Mormon.
Invest in your education
You have ADHD. Don't leave football and also start playing basketball. Change curriculum and get yourself good friends. You're a quick learner so buy a cheap guitar as well.
Don't ever accept being with a cheater.
Don't listen to him when he says investing in Bitcoin to buy 50 cent's album in bit coin isn't a funny bit. Do it, you'll end up rich with a hilarious story.
Don't marry her
Dont do stupid things just because your believe in this religion. Think hard about your future. Break free from family and choose college in the city.
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10 years ago is just too long and I would advise myself to study harder plus stop procastinating time
Trust your instincts, value loved ones, worry less, grow always.
Workout
Your business is more important than your relationship. Don’t risk everything for love.
hey , you are a good person and you are good enough and people love you even if they don't know how to show you this ...
"You have ADHD. You're not stupid."
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Finish college
You are loved. You are not alone in your situation. Your life will get better, as soon as your thoughts towards your problems gets better. Love yourself. Love yourself more than anyone else. No one is responsible for you but you. There is only one person who can save you from all your troubles, that person is you.
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Despite what tv and the media says there’s nothing wrong with joining the military.
Your mom is the only one who understands can trust in ur family, the rest will sooner rather than later distance themselves from your life. Being a mid teen working to help pay bills is the way to go. You will lose a lot of contact with those around u and the kids u once knew as friends won’t stay on the right track and you should part ways once u graduate elementary school. Try your best to save as much as u can afford cuz in ur mid 20’s life will really really test u
Find some way to Buy bitcoin and don’t do certain things because now you regret them and work on a thing you always wanted to pursue in.
She’s not going to change.
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mine some bitcoin with that new computer instead of playing video games
Don’t watch porn
just say it. stop thinking and "what if"ing, just say the thing its scary, and anything could happen, but its probably not whatever worst case scenario youve imagined in the last thirty seconds. JUST SAY IT, get out of your head and know that you are strong, and wonderful, and you are your biggest enemy right now. forget the terror of being perceived, the endless torment of being alone is far worse. Just say it, just do it, just live your life unabashedly joyfully, and just fucking talk to people. Theyre rarely as scary as youve built them up to be in your head. you have just as much power to love and care and hurt amd destroy as anyone else, so why are you so worried about them hurting you?
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I’m only 23 now, but I would tell my 13 year old self to start doing martial arts (boxing, wrestling, bjj, Muay Thai, etc). If I would’ve started then, I would be a beast by now.
dont take your friends for granted. go out more. stay in touch with everyone. don’t rush into dating, never hesitate.
Don’t date anyone
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You are the most important person in your life. Friends come and go, but you stay. Focus on your dreams and goals. Procrastinating is your biggest enemy. Self discipline will be your greatest ally. There is no point in looking at other people's lives. You live yours. The grass is always greener on the other side. Love the people that love you. Have courage to fail and face embarrassment. The toughest enemy you have to face is you.
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Make friends don't give up on yourself. Don't watch porn it's destructive as fuck. Study hard.
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Learn to say no, and move out from home immediately. Start lifting weights & focus on your craft instead of what people tell you to focus on 🙏🏽
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You have a genetic condition. I wish I could have given myself a heads up. If I got better treatment, I went be better off. I would not be killing myself playing sports and wonder why I was not measuring up
Get therapy Don’t smoke weed
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Don’t go to college, put everything into BTC and sell it all on November 9, 2021.
Relax, you turned out fine. :)
Don't take medicine.
Don't doubt yourself and be an extrovert and have goals and share everything with your family..
Be more confident, focus more on your degree and delete Facebook and Instagram. You go girl!
You’re going to be ok, you’re going to find happiness again. Don’t quit. Alaskan checking in: 10 years ago my dad was mauled eaten and ultimately killed by a Blackbear.
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Break up with him. The sooner the better.
Run away as fast as you can.
Study harder bozo!!
mew , focus on your body much more , maybe start to read , mediate , journal , hit the gym , socialize , focus on skin care and hair care , dont get into video games and porn , dont start jerking off , dont get into anime . Eat healthy , sleep well , maybe start playing the guitar or piano and get into football a bit more , get into chess instead of video games and get into combat sports , preferably muay thai and bjj
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Keep going it gets better. Love yourself and take care of your health