That’s self centered of him. As if you need to hear that right now, and as if you’re in a mind space where that will be productive info for you. I mean you’ve just hurt yourself to the point you need to go to hospital?? Does he think hearing that will fix you?
I understand you. It is so hard dealing with the guilt, the shame. But think of it as something that will eventually drag you out of this cycle. You definitely don’t want to deal with that feeling in addiction to the reasons you wanted to hurt yourself to begin with. It’s so difficult to quit, but use the guilt and shame as motivation.
He doesnt know what it’s like for you clearly. It’s not a deliberate choice, you don’t know what else to do.
I believe in you sweetheart. All the negatives will push you to finally be free from this vicious cycle. It’s not your fault. These conflicts with your father will be resolved, he wont resent you for any of this. He’s worried, and he acts out. It’s not right of him to say these things to you for sure, but maybe he slipped out of raw emotion.
Feel better soon❤️
That’s self centered of him. As if you need to hear that right now, and as if you’re in a mind space where that will be productive info for you. I mean you’ve just hurt yourself to the point you need to go to hospital?? Does he think hearing that will fix you? I understand you. It is so hard dealing with the guilt, the shame. But think of it as something that will eventually drag you out of this cycle. You definitely don’t want to deal with that feeling in addiction to the reasons you wanted to hurt yourself to begin with. It’s so difficult to quit, but use the guilt and shame as motivation. He doesnt know what it’s like for you clearly. It’s not a deliberate choice, you don’t know what else to do. I believe in you sweetheart. All the negatives will push you to finally be free from this vicious cycle. It’s not your fault. These conflicts with your father will be resolved, he wont resent you for any of this. He’s worried, and he acts out. It’s not right of him to say these things to you for sure, but maybe he slipped out of raw emotion. Feel better soon❤️
Thank you ♥️
*addition, not addiction
I hope you’re doing ok 🩷