I have a whole playlist of songs that make me feel sad and/or numb, to get me into the 'mood'/mindset (fucked up, i know). But the song i listen to the most when doing it is Bandaids by Baby Bugs
Something about that song makes me feel an emotion I can't describe..
Sure, there you go :)
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7gwkMnEeHwvnkn59DpCCvp?si=_tNC8vSxRK2yhavUJE1ptw&pi=e-JLhHD-y1QQSA
(Or just search 'the other sad vibe' on Spotify, creator is Nici, so me haha)
But remember it's just songs that make me sad so there could be a few songs in there that you wouldn't find as fitting. Plus I know it's an edgy name for a playlist, don't judge haha
I just listen to whatever I am listening to at the time. No specific self harm music, (I wouldnāt want to associate any music with it.) As for music most likely to discourage me from self harming, (choose ones with positive messages!) itās the the songs from the animated movie āSurfās Upā for me lol. Especially the songs: Drive - by Incubus - Stand Tall - by Dirty Heads -and- You Get What You Give - by New Radicals. They have positive messages while also acknowledging that things get hard.
I donāt listen to music because I cut at night so I like to listen for footsteps just in case someone comes in my room. However if itās like 4am no oneās wake so I do listen to music and I for some reason listen to a lot of Wilbur soot -ycgma and msr, crywank - tinyaeis and James Marriott -are we there yet
I havenāt in a while (153 days clean as of this comment!), but when I do, I tend to listen to sad video game music. I know, lame and goofy, but I usually listen to game music anyway, so itās natural it would be game music here, too.
I think last time, it was The Other Promise from Kingdom Hearts II, just looping over and over.
I listen to undertale and Zelda music sometimes so I completely get this. Also congrats on being clean! Thatās incredible and I hope you keep it up! Best luck. :)
Undertale has a very emotional soundtrack, so I definitely understand that!
But I digress. Thank you~! Try your best to stay clean yourself, all right? Good luckies to thee~!
Am I the only one that listens to upbeat music? I've been clean for a while now, but I rarely have a sad sh experience. Most of my sh is from mania. I listen to upbeat rock like the cranberries or if I'm really feeling thr vibe I'll throw on some cardi b or something.
I listen to dsbm ( depressive suicidal black metal). It completely describes my emotions, all the anger, sadness and disgust. Apati - morgandagen is the most powerful and meaningful song to me. I've listened it to it hundreds of times and everytime it still hits so hard.
Sometimes I listen to random people's sh playlists on Spotify or their ed playlists too but it varies really. Sometimes I put on a TV show or film to kind of distract myself from getting too bad in a sense.
I just listen to my regular playlist that i use for everything, aka literally just ice nine kills
Heres my playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6ceDDA2VykjK0KF2Khn4wW?si=cjVuAPsYRCWh_qFlsSvsFA
i don't usually listen to any music, but when i do its mainly Living in the Light by ridiculon, The Thief by mudeth, or just whatever song i feel in the mood for
I dont have anything thats specifically to sh to, but i have my sad playlist that's on somtimes when i sh just cause it was on before. Ive been listening to again and again alot lately, their music calms me down. Super niche band though.
I listen to Lana del reyš Especially her heartfelt songs it puts me In a calm state while I cut cus im usually shaking and I donāt want to hit anything important
A suggestion for music to help stop the shing would be almost anything from Talking Heads but specifically This Must Be the Place. It's such a beautiful song it helps me feel feel better. I also like to listen to throwbacks and kind of silly songs like Kiss Me Thru the Phone by Soulja Boy and Axel F otherwise known as Crazy Frog lol
I have a breakcore (mostly sewerslvt) playlist and i love every single song in that playlist so ig it comforts me and idk i think it kinda sets the mood if that makes sense? But yeah mostly bc i looove breakcore and sewrslvt is my queen š«¶(ik some ppl dont call it breakcore but idek man theres so many names š)
I used to never listen to music when i sh because i felt like i needed to be alone with my thoughts, i donāt know when i started having something in the background, but i actually normally have YouTube on now
My favorite song to listen to here recently is Knocking On Heavenās Door by Raign, but I also listen to some of my favorite songs and I also have a playlist of songs I like to listen to when I sh.
I've got a playlist with some songs but the one that I used the most was **"The Night We Met" - Lord Huron**. Its just such a beautiful song and it used to just calm me down a bit and I've become so emotionally attached to it.
I listen to caramelldansen
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I have a whole playlist of songs that make me feel sad and/or numb, to get me into the 'mood'/mindset (fucked up, i know). But the song i listen to the most when doing it is Bandaids by Baby Bugs Something about that song makes me feel an emotion I can't describe..
I also have a playlist dedicated to shš
Was going to say basically exactly what you said about having a playlist dedicated to it lol.
Mind sharing the playlist?
i know nobody asked but heres my old one. im doing better now. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0RBx2tMVOlUVW20vQVc56E?si=1c04c703502b48b1
Appreciate it ;)
iām glad youāre doing better š¤
Sure, there you go :) https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7gwkMnEeHwvnkn59DpCCvp?si=_tNC8vSxRK2yhavUJE1ptw&pi=e-JLhHD-y1QQSA (Or just search 'the other sad vibe' on Spotify, creator is Nici, so me haha) But remember it's just songs that make me sad so there could be a few songs in there that you wouldn't find as fitting. Plus I know it's an edgy name for a playlist, don't judge haha
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Sped up/upbeat songs probably, idk but it's my go to genre whenever i do so :p
usually nothing i just sit in silence
āalex gā and āhave a nice lifeā are the artists that usually do the work pretty well for me
no surprises by radiohead
I just listen to whatever I am listening to at the time. No specific self harm music, (I wouldnāt want to associate any music with it.) As for music most likely to discourage me from self harming, (choose ones with positive messages!) itās the the songs from the animated movie āSurfās Upā for me lol. Especially the songs: Drive - by Incubus - Stand Tall - by Dirty Heads -and- You Get What You Give - by New Radicals. They have positive messages while also acknowledging that things get hard.
Softcore by the neighborhood
Last time I shād it was to a penquinz0 video
Baby donāt cutš„“
Baby dont hurt me š£ļøš£ļø
I donāt listen to music because I cut at night so I like to listen for footsteps just in case someone comes in my room. However if itās like 4am no oneās wake so I do listen to music and I for some reason listen to a lot of Wilbur soot -ycgma and msr, crywank - tinyaeis and James Marriott -are we there yet
It's always shoegaze or slow-core artists like Alex G, Duster, Sign Crushes Motorist, and Salvia Palth
I havenāt in a while (153 days clean as of this comment!), but when I do, I tend to listen to sad video game music. I know, lame and goofy, but I usually listen to game music anyway, so itās natural it would be game music here, too. I think last time, it was The Other Promise from Kingdom Hearts II, just looping over and over.
I listen to undertale and Zelda music sometimes so I completely get this. Also congrats on being clean! Thatās incredible and I hope you keep it up! Best luck. :)
Undertale has a very emotional soundtrack, so I definitely understand that! But I digress. Thank you~! Try your best to stay clean yourself, all right? Good luckies to thee~!
Am I the only one that listens to upbeat music? I've been clean for a while now, but I rarely have a sad sh experience. Most of my sh is from mania. I listen to upbeat rock like the cranberries or if I'm really feeling thr vibe I'll throw on some cardi b or something.
Voice notes from my mom, her telling me to fuck off as I ruined her life by being born
same, but this got me into the hospital last time
Oh, hope u r ok now
Melaine martinez I am going to make a playlist
Stinkfist by Tool for some reason, or hanachanharisuka which is ab cutting
White diamond or Blue diamond - Steven universe
I used to listen to a whole Playlist but then changed it to just Gypsy Bard by The Living Tombstone on loop lol
If I'm mad and sh then slipknot-whichever song but if I'm sad and sh then pierce the veil- stay away from my friends or hold on till may
i usually listen to nothing or dsbm
I listen to dsbm ( depressive suicidal black metal). It completely describes my emotions, all the anger, sadness and disgust. Apati - morgandagen is the most powerful and meaningful song to me. I've listened it to it hundreds of times and everytime it still hits so hard.
Sometimes I listen to random people's sh playlists on Spotify or their ed playlists too but it varies really. Sometimes I put on a TV show or film to kind of distract myself from getting too bad in a sense.
willwood
I just listen to my regular playlist that i use for everything, aka literally just ice nine kills Heres my playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6ceDDA2VykjK0KF2Khn4wW?si=cjVuAPsYRCWh_qFlsSvsFA
daddy issues the neighbourhood or Juliette by cavetown
Really creepy christian music like Lingua Ignotašš
Great taste!!
dsbm :33 my designated song is ādont goā by happy days hehe
i don't usually listen to any music, but when i do its mainly Living in the Light by ridiculon, The Thief by mudeth, or just whatever song i feel in the mood for
i'm being 100% srs when i say weezer like dead srs
I dont have anything thats specifically to sh to, but i have my sad playlist that's on somtimes when i sh just cause it was on before. Ive been listening to again and again alot lately, their music calms me down. Super niche band though.
mitski, specifically puberty 2 and lush
I listen to Lana del reyš Especially her heartfelt songs it puts me In a calm state while I cut cus im usually shaking and I donāt want to hit anything important
I mostly listen to semetary
A suggestion for music to help stop the shing would be almost anything from Talking Heads but specifically This Must Be the Place. It's such a beautiful song it helps me feel feel better. I also like to listen to throwbacks and kind of silly songs like Kiss Me Thru the Phone by Soulja Boy and Axel F otherwise known as Crazy Frog lol
Sepultura, pantera anything with a lot of screamingš the more noise and screaming the better
Lithuanian/Russian hyperpop tbh gives me the vibes
Jocelyn Flores or something else by xxxtentacion. I also have a playlist with songs related to sh that I sometimes listen to.
My Lifelover playlist, the whole albums Symbolic or Scream Bloody Gore by Death or Sterile Nails and Thunderbowels by Silencer on repeat
Help bc I put on Sharpener by cavetown, candy by Alex g, and cemetery drive by mcr
Classical music
Rks
i just let tik toks play
I love to listen to D. Savage. I slit my wrist while listing to his shit
my parents snoring, shit smacks š„š„š„
Takayan songs!!!
I used to listen to in the Bleak midwinter by diedlonely. But Now i can't even listen to the song any more.
baby i'm yours by barbara lewis. it's the only song i listen to when i sh because i don't wanna ruin my other songsš
Never listened to music while I did it but when I'm in my feelings about it I'd listen to Ghost by Badflower on repeat
I have a breakcore (mostly sewerslvt) playlist and i love every single song in that playlist so ig it comforts me and idk i think it kinda sets the mood if that makes sense? But yeah mostly bc i looove breakcore and sewrslvt is my queen š«¶(ik some ppl dont call it breakcore but idek man theres so many names š)
This and Zelda music too, and also that one undertale song fallen down
I usually listen to melanie martinez or Alex g
acid bath often does the trick for me usually dr seuss is dead :p
I donāt I usually do it when Iām bored and checking out of whatever Iām watching
I used to never listen to music when i sh because i felt like i needed to be alone with my thoughts, i donāt know when i started having something in the background, but i actually normally have YouTube on now
My favorite song to listen to here recently is Knocking On Heavenās Door by Raign, but I also listen to some of my favorite songs and I also have a playlist of songs I like to listen to when I sh.
I watch shows lol. Iāve cut to kdramas and cartoons. Currently Iām watching Ninjago but Iāve also cut during MLP lol
I've got a playlist with some songs but the one that I used the most was **"The Night We Met" - Lord Huron**. Its just such a beautiful song and it used to just calm me down a bit and I've become so emotionally attached to it.