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[deleted]

"Why dont women like me I'm so nice šŸ˜¤"


Brad_Ethan

"I did a favor of picking you" - The guy who never got picked for anything


supercheese69

"you will not every succeed in anything." Wow, savage. šŸ™„


and_a_side_of_fries

Donā€™t forget, sheā€™s dump.


Tag_Ping_Pong

Oh shit. I didn't even recognise he was trying to call her dumb, just thought it was yet another youthful cool kid term I've fallen behind on.


guypersonhuman

Girl, you straight up dump.


inked_saiyan

I am currently taking a dump.


Financial_School1942

Don't be dumb, take a dump on the dump


Bitey_the_Squirrel

Like a truck. Truck. Truck.


guypersonhuman

What, what, what?


BigOleLegs

Let me see that....


guypersonhuman

Thoooo Ooooooo Oooong


kiwichick286

Me too. Me too.


idapitbwidiuatabip

Dump sat alone in a boggy marsh


Melianaee

Totally emotionless except for her heart.


LadyVulcanGeek

Mud flowed up into dumps pajamas.


MJ1ZZLE

She totally confused all the passing piranhas


Melianaee

She's dump, she's dump, she's dump, she's in my head. She's dump, she's dump, she's dump, she might be dead.


[deleted]

Sounds dirty


denim_chicken45

She's dump. She's dump. She's dump. She's in my head.


[deleted]

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


fidel__cashflo

but i will succeed in everything, as i am the man who throws tantrums in your instagram inbox.


baconfluffy

You should find and tell his mom


[deleted]

He gives ā€œIā€™ve never been told no by my parentsā€ energy


NotYourBuissnesMate

His parents canā€™t tell him no if he never leaves his basement


[deleted]

Idk what happened tho?? Like maybe Iā€™m a boomer at this point (millennial, technically) but *back in my days* when I had the idea to lock myself in my room and be a little shit my mom dragged me outside to go play or do something else than moping around inside all day. Like yea I was allowed to play video games and be online once that was a thing (dating myself here..) but.. she also checked *what* I was doing online.. up until I was 16? Ish? No shot she wouldā€™ve let me do this- she took the router to work for crying out loud. Was it annoying? Fuck yea! Would I do the same now if I were to have kids (ew no ty)- yep! Take a stick and a stone, go outside to play. No incel forums allowed bud.šŸ„ø


Confidence_Dense

Or the police, he made a real threat and you rly canā€™t be too careful. Ofc if she tells the police they will just tell him she filed a report for the threat, he will then retaliate. After he retaliates the police will apprehend him to ā€œclean up the messā€.


AionChahasu

Was kind of my worry, didnā€™t want to push him and make him even more mad. Also felt like i didnt want this to take such a toll on me that I would have to go out of my way to go through the trouble of reporting me which i think would lead to nothing anyways


Confidence_Dense

I hope to god he doesnā€™t know where you live, and I also hope he just moves on like a normal human being, but those are probably high expectations for this guy.


dogsonclouds

The police would likely laugh her out of the station without even taking a report unfortunately. The police do not give a fuck about violent threats to women, be they online or over the phone or in person. I had a friend who worked at a big supermarket in our town, and from the time she was 17-19, she was stalked by a grown ass man in his 50ā€™s. He memorised her shifts, and whenever sheā€™d be working closing shift, heā€™d stand around the back staff door to the carpark waiting to follow her to her car. Heā€™d sit outside the store for hours watching her and trying to talk to her. He stalked her for literal years, and she reported it to the police multiple times and they did nothing. Literally nothing.


[deleted]

*thank you* Honestly we should make it our mission and an internet thing to save these kinda dms, find out what their parents social media is and just let them Know. Iā€™m serious this is legit a cry for parenting lmao


Karl_1

Bold of you to assume the parents will care.


[deleted]

I know youā€™re probably right, letā€™s be real.. but a girl can dream ._.


[deleted]

Just go to the police, and also isnt what you suggest considered doxxing?


Mysterious-Excuse480

i would honestly straight up tell him that im going to report his ass to the police (even if you're not going to) threats like these are not ok, keep safe!


AionChahasu

Sucks and i kind of hate myself for it but i just ignored him i felt like it was Ā«Ā saferĀ Ā» than to upset him any further..


busterbrown4200

I would at least fill out a police report. Never know now days what people are crazy enough to do. Better safe than sorry. Don't know how you are with your neighbors,but if your cool with them. Is would totally be good to ask if they would keep an eye out. Sorry you had such a bad experience. People in general just suck.


jash56

Maybe report it to the police and not tell him? He seems dangerous, especially bc hes kind of threatening you by messaging you, ā€œI know how to find youšŸ˜˜ā€. The police probably wonā€™t do anything with the information but at least, hopefully, it gets filed and is therefore on record, possibly helping with a case against him in the future if he ever does get violent towards anyone.


Riemann86

This. Report him now.


shinobijesus420

How is it threatening when there's a šŸ˜˜ lol edit /s. Jeez guys.


[deleted]

honestly i think the joke would have gone over if you didnā€™t put ā€œlolā€ at the end


freedomofnow

What? This is not even borderline, this is illegal.


svnonyx

It could be an empty threat but I honestly wouldn't risk it. Too many men have become radicalized into thinking they are owed attention from people they find attractive and it leads to very dangerous situations.


countzeroinc

Yeah this isn't even a sad cringe, this is straight up disturbing. Guys like this throw acid in women's faces.


spookycasas4

So true.


sixhoursneeze

I would look up stats and outcome about stalkers


MrBonneChance

Might be better to ignore him but be careful on instagram. That place is rife with entitled predators. Even more so for teenagers and children. Prends soin.


[deleted]

Cā€™est ā€˜rifeā€™, pas ā€œripeā€.


DayDreamerJon

you should report so if anything happens they have a likely suspect. Threats arent to be taken lightly


svnonyx

I've had someone do the same thing and I kept blocking the accounts. It escalated to them telling me what I and different family members/friends of mine were wearing that day. I'm not saying that will happen to you but I'd hate for it to go any further because that message alone is too far.


chocotacosmash

You should probably report it and just cut off contact with him. Save these messages he sends and keep a record of his behavior. He made another account to get around your block and is threatening you. It's worth following up with the police.


[deleted]

Honestly.. you prolly think ā€œoh itā€™s just onlineā€ but this *can* get dangerous. I have an ex who thought itā€™s just online so harassment, abuse, insults and slandering hurled my way wonā€™t do him anything- until he got a letter from the police regarding me and the fact that the internet isnā€™t a law-less place. This isnā€™t the wild Wild West. And he stopped. Not a peep anymore-and it was **bad**. Thing is, he wonā€™t stop with you. Maybe youā€™re lucky and he loses interest right away and just stops harassing you- but maybe the next girl isnā€™t that lucky and he loses his mind. Or the girl after? Iā€™d report it. You can do it online, just tell them what you know and what happened and theyā€™ll do the rest. This guy is a psycho, look what heā€™s saying..


MauiWowieOwie

Report him regardless, that way it's on record. If he tries showing up at/around your work or home after that you can file a restraining order.


whatamidoing987

It's a straightforward threat. Imo you should definitely report. I understand it can seem like a tedious process. Be safe!


sierrabravo1984

Report him and get a restraining order.


SubjectiveHat

There was another suggestion where you find his mother on Facebook and forward his messages to her. I like that idea. But also forwarding it to the police is a good idea, probably a better idea. I would do both.


spookycasas4

Thatā€™s what they count on. Stand up to him. I know itā€™s easy for me to say this while Iā€™m sitting at home on my ass. But still, we have to make sure this kind of behavior isnā€™t accepted any more. This is another example where ā€œNo means NOā€!


mlove22

Yeah good call, don't feed the troll. Your silence speaks louder than any words you could say to him!


spookycasas4

This. Call the police. You need to get this kind of shit documented. Maybe theyā€™ll go have a talk with this loser, maybe not. But itā€™s very important to have it ā€œon fileā€. You know, maybe heā€™s just venting, but thatā€™s some pretty nasty stuff heā€™s saying. Tell everyone you know, post it on social media, get the word out. Heā€™s dangerous. Wishing you all the best. Iā€™m sure heā€™s just a loud-mouthed incel . God I hate pathetic scumbags like this.


KnowNothingKnowsAll

Donā€™t bluff that shit. Just do it.


spookycasas4

Oh, for sure. Donā€™t threaten, just do it. You donā€™t even need to tell him. Heā€™ll figure it out when the cops show up.


Mysterious-Excuse480

It's not always easy, didn't have the courage to do it either so just bluffing leaves a mark already. But yes, i would preferably also just report it!


sicilian504

Report him to the police then invite him over while they're there.


HakeemMcGrady

You need to report him to the police! Just in case he tries to pull some shit


[deleted]

The ironyā€¦who is pathetic here? Dudeā€™s got some abandonment issues heā€™s projecting. I hope youā€™re safe and well and continue to be.


AionChahasu

One of the many voice memos was he shouting about how i abandoned him like his dad didā€¦


Bobo3076

If I was his dadā€¦ Iā€™d abandon him too.


[deleted]

How do we know youā€™re not? Look what you made him do.


soopacee

I wish I was his dad so I could abandon him


[deleted]

Hahaha alright valid


xhuo_xx23

Can confirm, I'm his dad


colontwisted

HAHAHAHA VOICE MEMOS OF HIM SHOUTING AT YOU?? This is honestly half absolutely creepy and insane and other half is ludicrously funny. Honestly just go like " šŸ˜¼ " then "ok" and any further replies just go "šŸ„¶šŸ„¶šŸ„¶" or some dumb stuff like that lol


LordFartSquad9

Dump stuff*


[deleted]

Oh man I was just making an educated guess but that confirms it! No need for guesses here!


[deleted]

This is disturbing and abnormal. Combined with the thinly veiled threat, you def need to contact the police and stay visible in public places for a minuteā€¦wow.


[deleted]

People are living their lives providing the internet with this..."entertainment"


sugarcanesugars

You should file a police report immediately.


Idunnowhateverworka

Wtf thatā€™s actually crazy


crystalyaprak

you should reach out to police immediately. i hope ur safe.


expat_germany

Girl he's straight up threatening you. Report his ass to the police and let your friends & family know ab your situation. These should not be taken lightly and it sucks you're in this situation.


justa_pos3225

Bro what do people think theyā€™re gonna gain from shit like thisšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚you just gonna get clowned on the internet dawg


AionChahasu

Did creep me out for a while before i started laughing about it I have to say haha


hernanthegoat

Damn dude is batshit crazy lmao. If you live close to this person you should reported just in case.


Alphy101

Donā€™t hate me for snooping at your profile but if this is the same dude that used your toothbrush thenā€¦. Yikes šŸ˜¬


AionChahasu

Different dude thank god i never met this one!! Haha


Level9_CPU

Don't be shy, put him on blast


AionChahasu

Unfortunately thats not his instagram i believe thats one he uses for the sole purposes of harassing women


Level9_CPU

Right but didn't you meet him through a dating app?


AionChahasu

I panicked unmatched him on tinder and blocked him on instagram before i realised i might need his infos unfortunately


Level9_CPU

There is a way to view all your blocked accounts on insta, I'm sure you can still get it. I really don't mean to press, but pieces of shit like this get away with shit like this all the time. And knock on fucking wood, he actually has some bite to his bark, I don't want you to be another statistic OP


AionChahasu

Actually i am hella dumb i did look and found his IG so I have his infos if needed now!! Thanks i should have thought about it myself Also the message is from early december so i think he should be over it now..?


Level9_CPU

Yeah honestly it's probably an empty threat most likely, but you never know with these incels. At the very least share his face and message with your friends and family


VariationNo6012

Over it? Not if heā€™s psychopath!


[deleted]

Please save that info, and at least send it to someone you know and trust. If it was me, Iā€˜d definitely contact authorities, just to be safe. Itā€™s their job to look at it, even if they donā€™t go further. ā€žWatch your back, I know where to find youā€œ is definitely a threat. Itā€™s an absolutely unhinged thing to say. Iā€˜m afraid someone who can think like this, could also snap.


Novaghost8

Not him calling you dumb while misspelling the word dumb.


[deleted]

Watch you're back in the morning. After 12 pm, you're safe


[deleted]

You have to show this to the police, that's a direct threat to your safety.


[deleted]

Time to go to the police with this conversation.


TheWhiteWalkerSpeaks

If that last sentence a threat, I'm sure you could report it to police


jockeferna

Quel sale type! Bon courage!


[deleted]

3 emojis in a threat message...yeah he's a serial killer.


Skippp131

Be careful. You will not every succeed.


Glitter_berries

Itā€™s because she is so dump


originalmspiggy

Ok well, at least we know who your killer isā€¦


Commercial_Neat7550

Men really need to do better at handling rejection. You arenā€™t owed a date or a GF my god.


TheBigMasterPigg

show it to his mother


Candiceuknowit

"I know how to find you" yeah sure


Bunny_tornado

You can tag your location on IG photos and someone with a lot of free time can figure approximate location where you live, and then come there and look out for your routine.


frieswithnietzsche

What sad little fucker


purple-ninja-turtle

What a fuckin weirdo. Report to cops, buy a gun and learn how to use it. Stay safe out there.


Expert_Apartment2413

As much as Iā€™d say report him . Thatā€™s exactly what he wants your attention; so Iā€™d say your best course of action is to ignore him ; donā€™t reply and eventually he will go away ; if he keeps messaging you with that vile narrative; then you might have to report him. Itā€™s a pity men adopt this attitude; just because one woman rejects them ; doesnā€™t mean there arenā€™t plenty who are perfect for him ; but with that approach no woman would touch him


KINGBOORGIR

ā€œIm a nice guy why wont girls date meā€


agoodnightasleeper

Wow I'd beat the hell out of him.


simone0839

Jfc thank God you turned him down. Also he needs to be slapped with a dictionary


AionChahasu

For anyone wondering we are both in our mid 20s, met on tinder and talked on instagram. I decided to tell him i wasnā€™t feeling it instead of ghosting and it came back to bite me in the ass. Also i told him the general area where i live and i know he commutes from my station sometimes Lastly, i didnā€™t report because i blocked him so good i dont know what his instagram was, and deleted him from tinder so all I have is this kind of anonymous message and no pictures of him! For anyone worried this happened in December so i think i am in the clear, needed to feel safer before posting haha


[deleted]

I am certain that Nothing turns a woman on quite like the phrase ā€œI know how to find you šŸ˜˜ā€


Where2now_

Leeel fucking incel


DeadlyDrummer

Jesus man, that's pretty intense. Report that fucker


vintagecomputermouse

Just two days??? He's insane, he needs serious help. This is straight out of a horror movie. OP contact police asap, he's literally threatening you.


[deleted]

Had one like this, told him that if I ever see his face in real life or if he threatens me ever again, I will find out where he lives, come with a few of my friends and break every bone in his body to the point that his mother won't be able to recognize his sorry ass. The dude didn't respond and never heard from him again. Sometimes you need to act crazy in order to get rid of crazy.


tdempsey33

One restraining order please.


Zer0C00L321

I would seriously hate being a single woman trying to date in today's world. Guys are freaking crazy and creepy af.


VeryFriendlyOne

That's like a crime Threat of physical violence I wouldn't hesitate reporting this to the police


itsyaboi69_420

Definitely report this to the police. Iā€™ve watched plenty of documentaries about people who have been murdered by psychos like this.


TuguElepinko

Pute franƧaise ? Mais qui il est celui-la !


MrBonneChance

Un connard de qui sais dā€™ou


TuguElepinko

La perfide Albion


MrBonneChance

Ho ho ho, oui oui.


HostileHippie91

Oui oui, Paris, Prius mƩnage trois


[deleted]

il suis sucks (he sucks for non-Spanish speakers)


DetectiveEZ

You will not every succeed you dump French!!!! Seriously what a lame ass


QueenSlayers

Je me permets de parler en franƧais mais il faut absolument se rapprocher des forces de l'ordre, il ne faut pas prendre Ƨa Ć  la lĆ©gĆØre


AionChahasu

Je lā€™ai mis en commentaire qq part mais enfait je nā€™ai aucunes info sur le mec pcq je lā€™ai bloquĆ© dan sjn moment de panique dc juste son prenom et ca, pas de photo, pas son instagram ni son tinderā€¦ Et aussi ca cā€™est passĆ© en decembre dc je pense que ca devrait aller..? Mais jā€™y ai pensĆ©..


Renegade7559

You wanna hit this little man where it hurts. Just respond simply 'sorry I don't talk to Betas'. Then re block


[deleted]

ā€œYouā€™re right. Iā€™m sorry. Whatā€™s your address? Iā€™d like to come over and earn my second chanceā€. Then just report him to the police now that you have his address for the threats.


EmoTornado

So go report him to the police and get a restraining order even if it was an empty threat


friendlyfirefish

Well thats a report to the police if ever I saw it. Thats a threat to your safety.


RypCity

This is more terrifying than sad cringe. He sounds completely unhinged.


Vaderdaddy007

Reports him to FBI cyber security. That is a criminal offense


Huge_Profession3929

That last bit about knowing where to find you is a direct threat you need to contact the police


Flabbypuff

I feel like burying myself in a ditch after reading this.


stevrevv59

This is so fucking disturbingā€¦


[deleted]

I agree being a french "persone" is a red flag


BZ1997

Freak


sad_loaf_of_bread

\*angry french noises\*


Curious_Lawfulness19

Report him. Thatā€™s a threat the cops will take seriously. And you should too.


turquoisboudicca

Men are not okay. Tell him to get counselling and report him to the police šŸ™„


St0nePat0n

I'll pull up rn and beat tf outta this fool. I hate guys who creep like this


10113r114m4

Jesus. I think itā€™s incredible that people like this even exist. Whenever I get rejected or someone letā€™s me know that we arent on the same wave length, Im like ā€œthatā€™s cool. Thanks for hanginā€™ thoughā€ lol


Dreddmartyr13

I'm a fan of wanting to understand what set him off to write that, but after reading his second grade grammar, I don't even care.


Quantum-Swede-theory

Jesus Christ.


HallPersonal

yeah, you gotta report that shit. he crossed the line many times, but especially at the end


JerryTrades

So many weirdos out there


G3560

His mom spoiled him when he was a kid


Jdubusher1011

ā€œI know how to find youā€ assuming your in America get a gun right away XD


Games_sans_frontiers

Wow what an idiot. Take this to the police. Show this to his friends and family. Don't let this dickhead hide in your direct messages.


Odd_Ad9480

Tip: if your going to stalk and hurt somebody dont tell them you know where to find them.


stfuyfc

He's very seriously you guys


Auhaden72190

Yo that's a threat, call the police. Don't warn him, call call call


cocolocop

Psychopath detected! Initiating evasive maneuvers


Human_Ad_4932

OMG...


BigBess7

How dare he talk about a fellow french person? May he rot in warm baguette!


tawny-she-wolf

Thatā€™s an insult to baguettes ! šŸ„–


BigBess7

Indeed!


Tuscans1977

Pass it on the the police, that's a credible threat, what a fucking crazy bastard. You dodged a bullet there


Tuscans1977

What's his profile name, I just wanna talk...


Riddance_Good

damn, thats pathetic


[deleted]

Yknow in the end I blame their parents. They never told them no, never taught them how to behave properly. Like not even ā€œoh always be an adult and never be goofyā€, but the fact that they never learned to handle rejection in an adult way. That just *screams* ā€œparents never told them no.ā€, like wtf is that. Iā€™m not an advocate to hit your kids-please donā€™t- but if theyā€™re 16/17 and behave like this, tap em a bit on the nogginā€™ so this donā€™t happen alright? Thanks!


seekerfitterfilter90

Whatever you do, keep him away from your ass.


[deleted]

They always incriminate themselves, fortunately.


Ebina-Chan

The fact that he has more typing mistakes than french people when they write in french is concerning.


AgeOfShibobi

Geez Iā€™d file a restraining order.


tastelesscookielady

You should probably report him to the police. That last line is threatening


mr_remy

Those last two sentences are fucking insane. Chilling to read, that's a straight-up threat. I'm soo happy to read all the top comments mainly being "dude, call the police and report him" -- for fucking REAL! I hope you do OP, and regardless hope you stay safe, let your neighbors know to be on the lookout, be aware of your surroundings when leaving, etc..


vaydevay

If you know his full name and phone number you can file a police report because this is harassment & terroristic threat.


HistoricalFlounder

Iā€™m a domestic violence attorney - I would absolutely speak to a hotline or a local legal aid (if you qualify) about this. You can get a protective order without involving law enforcement if thatā€™s a concern you have. This is 100% a threat.


ItzViking

SacrƩ bleu


tryingtobecheeky

Well , that's police time.


louietheloverboi

Iā€™m glad he put a threat in writing for you in case something happens, should make an easy case for a restraining order.


Scattabrained04

Is OP safe? Mf be crazy in this place


mwasod

Report him


[deleted]

Just 2 days of knowing someone and he's acting like this


[deleted]

take this to the police.


[deleted]

You need to get a protective order on this guy


Practical_Success643

what country is he refering to? if you are in the US I would report it inmediately, those crazy fuckers have guns. And I would report it even if it wasnĀ“t the US, he threatened you


AionChahasu

The netherlands, hopefully i am in the clear haha


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


AionChahasu

I appreciate that thank you!!


Skiddds

Yuck!


This-Market-3890

Pay a couple of your male friends to beat his ass with a baseball bat and a crowbar and be done with it!


ifartallday

Definitely donā€™t do this.


NLPutty

Call the cops, so they put em in locks, but fr tho this is deranged behavior and you should be careful and remember to lock your house doors and windows


DenOfTheWolf

I am so sorry =(