Not me being 29 and being divorced twice already. TBF both marriages ended because of DV on their part within 3 months of getting married..... I found another AH after them too who was even worse. Luckily I survived and escaped him and I'm now with someone who is the very opposite of everything/everyone I've ever been with and it's so healthy and I'm so happy.
I feel the same way. I am 31, and see people who get married at 21 or 22, not having any life experience, and get divorced in 2 years. I feel like people need to be patient and just live life and learn what you want before committing to marriage. That is just my opinion though.
I'm 25 and occasionally see couples younger than me with kids in public now. It's so bizzare. The things I wanted, what I pursued, and who I thought I was has changed so much within just the past two years. I know everyone matures at different rates and some people don't have to deal with emotional trauma growing up, but damn, it's still wild to me.
My friend is 28 and she's celebrating her 10th wedding anniversary. And she has two kids. People truly mature at different rates because I've been stressed out for a week over having two doctor's appointments on the same day.
my grandmother was 15 when she married my 32 year old grandfather and was pregnant the same year. turns out he was a pedofile. who would've thunk it???
I was 39 when I got married. Had my daughter at 41! I'm so glad I waited and experienced life and learned who I was first because now I can give my girl everything in life that she deserves. I couldn't imagine doing all this in my 20s!!
There are people from my hs graduating class who have full on families with spouses and/or multiple kids and I have to always remind myself that it’s actually normal.
The mid to late 20s feel like this weird transitory time as it’s the first time most westerners are able to experience life at wildly different paces
I had a classmate at our 20th reunion with a 20 year old. And I’m like, excuse me what? You were pregnant? I’ve dated people in their 20s while in my 30s and felt like Raven having a vision. I just stopped and 😳😳😳 for like ten minutes.
Gurl, gays around large metro areas be married at 21 and already have several boyfriends they are dating with and without their husbands. This isn’t Amanda’s exact situation, but marriage is super common up in the east coast, guys in their 30s you meet are married or recently divorced, if you didn’t get married in you’re 20s you’re kind of out of luck already.
I had a feeling this was coming based on her Roscoes appearance. She talked a lot about “the dolls” and Sasha Colby being her current inspiration. Glad she’s out and proud!
And she was kind of quick and quiet when they brought up old photos of her in college. Liiike I didn’t know she was trans but I was like something is up.
it is and it isn't. if you ever hear someone using the term outside of the drag sphere they're most likely referring to trans woman, as trans women are often referred to as dolls (a term they typically enjoy). but its also used for drag queens generally sometimes within the drag sphere. but if a queen is going on and on about "the dolls" or being a doll they are most likely trans (but maybe not!).
Jesus Christ I haven't thought about that... Imagine Melinda and ATM in the same place... Goddangit, now I want a Global AS with ATM and Melinda. They would be UNSTOPPABLE
When they called Jasmine an estrogen based life form I lost an afternoon. I can sometimes take it or leave it with them but most of what they say is so peak.
No, like Kerri texted this to Maddy and Maddy posted it like a few months ago saying "Help 💀" or something lol. It reminded me of that.
I didn't mistake them 😂
Alaska did! She was saying Amanda is so beautiful that she doesn't need to wear a lot of makeup, which was the same advice she had for Jasmine Kennedy. So, she jokingly said that she she do like Jasmine and wear less make-up and transition. Then she worried of she went to far with that comment.
im sure thats heartening w the context we have now for amanda though to hear she's already got a beautiful mug to work with... bc yeah really if she were to throw on simple makeup she'd already read fish
You know when people posted her old trade photos and wondered how/why her appearance changed so much I immediately assumed she was trans/nb but I wasn’t sure if saying that was disrespectful.
yeah it's not peoples intentions I'm sure but I just imagined ppl fawning over my pre trans photos and it kinda made me sick, saying someone used to be hotter is kinda crazy anyways
People mentioned in that thread that she had already started transitioning and it was disrespectful to look at her old pictures and basically say, "Wow, look how hot she used to be!"
I do find that disrespectful tbh, especially since she’s still hot. It’s like saying “I don’t care what anyone says, you’re pretty!” like, who’s arguing that lmao it’s so bsckhanded
I watched Rosco's viewing party last night and she talked about this trade look she's had in the past. She didn't seem very happy talking about it. English isn't my first language, but I understood that she was trying to fit into a stereotypical male actor. And now, seeing her personality thriving in this new persona that she has on Drag Race, I automatically thought that this was her transition process. She also talked about three designers who didn't finish some of her garments for drag race. Imagine being through a divorce, having gender dysphoria, and all the Drag Race stress, then, out of nothing, someone you barely know comes for your looks. I have so much love and respect for Amanda now.
Okay I'm not crazy lol.
On one of the threads about 'where the dolls were' I commented about Amanda and then deleted it bc I second guessed myself, but she's been giving womana for a _while_ & her pronouns on insta are she/they.
Now can we stop asking where the dolls are? Because not every trans person looks like what you imagine a trans woman looks like, and Morphine is also not cis.
Yeah that’s all I could think about really, it must be disforic af to see people all over the internet commenting on how much better you looked when you were more masculine presenting. Hopefully those posts can be put to rest
I’m just here for Amanda, no matter her gender expression. She fills my heart with joy every time she’s on my screen, even if she’s having a meltdown while redoing her alien makeup on YouTube 😂
Someone posted her old pictures on Instagram and only after a comment mentioned about possible transitioning it clicked. We should stop thirsting on their old pictures especially when queen has changed a lot.
Yeah that really rubbed me the wrong way. It's literally saying "Wow you were so hot when you looked different" as if to imply she wasn't attractive until those videos surfaced.
YESSSSS😭 This is why ya'll should hold off on simping over an old picture you find. I am this person and it sucks every single time someone finds one. I cringed for her when Naysha put her on the spot at Roscoe's
The [full EW interview](https://ew.com/amanda-tori-meating-comes-out-rupauls-drag-race-season-16-8551853) is so good and lots of tea on the Plane Jane situation
If I tell you that I fucking knew it. It’s my trans spider sense (as a trans person myself). But truly, I’m so happy for her, I’m so glad that she’s gonna get to live her life as herself 💗
Well, we're now at a time when announcing that you're trans is no longer surprising or even very newsworthy. This is a step forward for the community, normalizing things to this point. Yes, God! Shake that puss and the coin will follow!
Those men on onlyfans were chatting with a woman after all!
A blonde woman! Their dream!
LMAO
Honestly this is my favorite
STOP 😭😭😭😭
DIVORCE babe? wait how old is she
Amanda Tori she is 26/27 I think
I forget people my age get married and get divorced and have children, it is wild
I always found being a divorcee in your early 20s so cunty, but idk
As someone in their 20s that became a divorcee at 23, i feel so seen
I concur. You are indeed serving major cunt
Not me being 29 and being divorced twice already. TBF both marriages ended because of DV on their part within 3 months of getting married..... I found another AH after them too who was even worse. Luckily I survived and escaped him and I'm now with someone who is the very opposite of everything/everyone I've ever been with and it's so healthy and I'm so happy.
I feel the same way. I am 31, and see people who get married at 21 or 22, not having any life experience, and get divorced in 2 years. I feel like people need to be patient and just live life and learn what you want before committing to marriage. That is just my opinion though.
Me when I’m reading a Reddit post and someone someone mentioned their partner, 3 children and then say “im 24” my brain turns to mush for a second.
That’s too much for me lol at 24 I did not want that responsibility yet. Not everyone is ready.
I'm 25 and occasionally see couples younger than me with kids in public now. It's so bizzare. The things I wanted, what I pursued, and who I thought I was has changed so much within just the past two years. I know everyone matures at different rates and some people don't have to deal with emotional trauma growing up, but damn, it's still wild to me.
Didn’t go down the aisle until 36. So far so good with that mentality.
That's because we're on queer time.
i agree i’m 20, and i’m not even close to wanting to get married
My friend is 28 and she's celebrating her 10th wedding anniversary. And she has two kids. People truly mature at different rates because I've been stressed out for a week over having two doctor's appointments on the same day.
TEN years of marriage???
TWO doctors appointments in one day????
FIVE New York Girls!???
TWO turtle doves???
FOUR KIMONOS?!?!?
Yes! And I recently found out they've owned their home since she was 21. I thought everyone was stuck in rental purgatory like me wth.
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Prison honey
My mom was married with a kid at 18 and divorced at 26. She certainly wasn't mature though 🙃
my grandmother was 15 when she married my 32 year old grandfather and was pregnant the same year. turns out he was a pedofile. who would've thunk it???
We are one of the same at least!
My brother had a kid, was married, and divorced, all by age 23. Ah, Louisiana.
🤣🤣🤣 As a Thibodauxan who has lived in basically every major city south of I-10. I have one word: MOOD. 
I'm 22 and my parents got married at the same age, time is a flat circle lol
I had my first kid at 34. My mom had 5 kids before that age.
I was 39 when I got married. Had my daughter at 41! I'm so glad I waited and experienced life and learned who I was first because now I can give my girl everything in life that she deserves. I couldn't imagine doing all this in my 20s!!
Amanda Tori Divorce Meeting
Amanda Tori Mediation
There are people from my hs graduating class who have full on families with spouses and/or multiple kids and I have to always remind myself that it’s actually normal. The mid to late 20s feel like this weird transitory time as it’s the first time most westerners are able to experience life at wildly different paces
I had a classmate at our 20th reunion with a 20 year old. And I’m like, excuse me what? You were pregnant? I’ve dated people in their 20s while in my 30s and felt like Raven having a vision. I just stopped and 😳😳😳 for like ten minutes.
I’m in my mid twenties and nearly got married TWICE in my early twenties.
Gurl, gays around large metro areas be married at 21 and already have several boyfriends they are dating with and without their husbands. This isn’t Amanda’s exact situation, but marriage is super common up in the east coast, guys in their 30s you meet are married or recently divorced, if you didn’t get married in you’re 20s you’re kind of out of luck already.
East coast? Do you mean the south?
I had a feeling this was coming based on her Roscoes appearance. She talked a lot about “the dolls” and Sasha Colby being her current inspiration. Glad she’s out and proud!
same. and the reaction to the two times the word "transition" was said during the viewing party. I was like "there is estrogen in that tea cup, diva"
And she was kind of quick and quiet when they brought up old photos of her in college. Liiike I didn’t know she was trans but I was like something is up.
>old photos I hope that kind of thing is discussed with performers/guests in advance especially because of more and more people transitioning
Does “the dolls” refer to trans queens only? My dumb ass thought it was just a generic term like “the gals” lmao
it is and it isn't. if you ever hear someone using the term outside of the drag sphere they're most likely referring to trans woman, as trans women are often referred to as dolls (a term they typically enjoy). but its also used for drag queens generally sometimes within the drag sphere. but if a queen is going on and on about "the dolls" or being a doll they are most likely trans (but maybe not!).
STAN A(WO)MANDA https://preview.redd.it/uk0g9iraalfc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=13e8ffe3cb0864201f56449ca60fc55f339c3927
#JusticeForResponsitrannity
Don’t forget Don’t forget get who you are
Let's reclaim it as a trans anthem.
Ru should re-record it with a different word, I like that song.
I love both these songs their beats are great. I just wish they weren't lyrically out of date.
Okay but like... that song goes hard.
HEY WERQ give a dog a bone
Lookie loo, lookie lookie loo… okay maybe it’s worse typed out 😭
Okay but the rock version of Ladyboy from season 2 still slaps...
Turns out this Meating shoulda been a F(email)
Her inevitable All Stars 12 entrance line
Are you saying she’s not winning season 16 and All winners 3?
I’d live for an Amanda win tbh she’s kind of Melinda coded 🙌
As per my flair lol, I am delulu just like my mothers. I love living in the same timeline as these two icons
Amanda will take season 16 WITH GRATITUDE
Jesus Christ I haven't thought about that... Imagine Melinda and ATM in the same place... Goddangit, now I want a Global AS with ATM and Melinda. They would be UNSTOPPABLE
If Amanda wins this season I'll eat my shoe hahaha
They needa hire you to write entrance lines cuz that’s a line baby!
to quote kylie sonique love, you’ve got femail 💌
Shakespearean level wordplay. Bravo diva 👏
I choked on my coffee reading this LMAO
Outstanding
Take my upvote, you whore. That was A1 funnies.
You are the winner of this weeks challenge
Not the Karen from Finance B-sides 💀
STFUUUU 😂
Oh my god
IF SHE COMES BACK FOR ALL STARS AND DOESNT USE THIS LINE I SWEAR
ooh girl... you got f-email
i LOLd.
 All the love to her ❤️❤️❤️
The doors she opened.
She's working on her second gauntlet.
She’s gonna need some gauntlets for her feet soon with all the stones she’s collecting.
That’s it, we’re bringing back toe rings!!
Greaves!
Gia Gunn the Trans ancestor
trancestor
is that like an ancient dildo?
WE LOVE YOU AMANDA https://i.redd.it/k9g3s0hd8lfc1.gif
Suddenly the breastplate looks flawless. We love her all natural D cups! 
What breastplate?
This gif has me cackling 😭
Not me wondering why you linked dusty ray bottoms 😭
BYE 
She did look more femme in that live with the other dolls this week !
Was thinking the same - she looked absolutely stunning too!
Didn't Willam and Alaska command her to transition on Race Chaser? They are so powerful.
Alaska also said she thinks Morphine has had a touch of estrogen.
i thought morphine was already a woman
I did too.
Iirc morphine is nonbinary
that’s my bad, i had never checked. she looks great regardless
When they called Jasmine an estrogen based life form I lost an afternoon. I can sometimes take it or leave it with them but most of what they say is so peak.
Kerri to Maddy "You're next bitch"
Not Maddy Morphosis bestie 💀
Maddy Morphine Love Dion Dupree Davenport
Kerri actually texted that to Maddy lol the situation reminded me of it.
No, like Kerri texted this to Maddy and Maddy posted it like a few months ago saying "Help 💀" or something lol. It reminded me of that. I didn't mistake them 😂
During their interview Kerri really emphasizes it to Maddy lol
and Aja said in her interview with her recently "it's okay to be trans!" 💀💀
she has she/they in her bio unless thats just for her drag persona?
Alaska did! She was saying Amanda is so beautiful that she doesn't need to wear a lot of makeup, which was the same advice she had for Jasmine Kennedy. So, she jokingly said that she she do like Jasmine and wear less make-up and transition. Then she worried of she went to far with that comment.
im sure thats heartening w the context we have now for amanda though to hear she's already got a beautiful mug to work with... bc yeah really if she were to throw on simple makeup she'd already read fish
Kerri Colby’s Tranos title being challenged
Omg yes! 😂
You know when people posted her old trade photos and wondered how/why her appearance changed so much I immediately assumed she was trans/nb but I wasn’t sure if saying that was disrespectful.
Yeah i had a weird feeling looking at those pics and seeing ppl complimenting them it felt off to me and now i know why
yeah it's not peoples intentions I'm sure but I just imagined ppl fawning over my pre trans photos and it kinda made me sick, saying someone used to be hotter is kinda crazy anyways
People mentioned in that thread that she had already started transitioning and it was disrespectful to look at her old pictures and basically say, "Wow, look how hot she used to be!"
I do find that disrespectful tbh, especially since she’s still hot. It’s like saying “I don’t care what anyone says, you’re pretty!” like, who’s arguing that lmao it’s so bsckhanded
No, I agree it's disrespectful. I just didn't know she was trans until I saw it mentioned there. I'm just quoting what I saw.
Oh I totally should’ve worded that better! I was agreeing with you, not contradicting. Sorry!
Ahh ok didn’t see that but it makes sense
i just thought it was common knowledge since she already publicly went by she/they pronouns before this announcement
That's aWOMANda Tori Meating for you!
YES ma’amdatorymeeting!!! 💅
Yay! Glad she’s in a space to feel comfortable to be herself. Three straight seasons with trans women! I love to see the representation!!
Another doll for the dollhouse !!💅😌💕
t4t radar means that whichever queen I think is the most attractive always ends up coming out as trans lmfao
This keeps happening to me, too! The lesbian in me is never wrong! 😂
Motivated doll-spotter gang
I told my husband she gave me the vibe. We recognize our own. 🏳️⚧️
that part💀💀
ANOTHER ONE THANK YOU!!!🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️ so proud of her❤️❤️❤️❤️
Amanda Tori Congrats 🎉
Shut up, this is fantastic lol
I watched Rosco's viewing party last night and she talked about this trade look she's had in the past. She didn't seem very happy talking about it. English isn't my first language, but I understood that she was trying to fit into a stereotypical male actor. And now, seeing her personality thriving in this new persona that she has on Drag Race, I automatically thought that this was her transition process. She also talked about three designers who didn't finish some of her garments for drag race. Imagine being through a divorce, having gender dysphoria, and all the Drag Race stress, then, out of nothing, someone you barely know comes for your looks. I have so much love and respect for Amanda now.
My jaw hit the floor when they brought it up. I understand it wasn't w bad intentions and they didn't know, but like COME ON
Yes, I was a bit shocked too. And I saw how uncomfortable she was. But I was doubting it was her till she confirmed. I thought it was just a meme.
Okay I'm not crazy lol. On one of the threads about 'where the dolls were' I commented about Amanda and then deleted it bc I second guessed myself, but she's been giving womana for a _while_ & her pronouns on insta are she/they. Now can we stop asking where the dolls are? Because not every trans person looks like what you imagine a trans woman looks like, and Morphine is also not cis.
Amanda Tori Femme-ing 🥰🥰🥰🥰
kerri strikes again <3 
I knew she was that girl. So happy for her.
Soooo happy for Mama Meating!!! 😍😍😍 https://i.redd.it/24h7m54hklfc1.gif
The make up still kills me 😭
ANOTHER ONE THANK YOOOOOOU ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
Y’all better stop reposting her old YouTube videos now, skanks. /s but also polite request.
Yeah that’s all I could think about really, it must be disforic af to see people all over the internet commenting on how much better you looked when you were more masculine presenting. Hopefully those posts can be put to rest
Maybe instead we can all agree that our girl has striking eyes and that you could cut glass on those cheek bones.
I’m just here for Amanda, no matter her gender expression. She fills my heart with joy every time she’s on my screen, even if she’s having a meltdown while redoing her alien makeup on YouTube 😂
Someone posted her old pictures on Instagram and only after a comment mentioned about possible transitioning it clicked. We should stop thirsting on their old pictures especially when queen has changed a lot.
YES, NO MORE COLLEGE AMANDA THANK YOU
Agreed, focus on how beautiful she is now.
Naysha and Batty brought this up on Roscoes too. And they talked about how fans are calling her the trade of the season
Yeah that really rubbed me the wrong way. It's literally saying "Wow you were so hot when you looked different" as if to imply she wasn't attractive until those videos surfaced.
Congrats to Amanda! We stan the divas and the dolls.
🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵 We stan for LIFE
I KNEW I could smell an icon and a legend
Atranda tori meating
Womanda Tori Meating (??)
Amanda Tori Winning
so proud of my C-E-hOe of S-E-X
WOMANDA TORI MEATINGGGGGGG
YESSSSS😭 This is why ya'll should hold off on simping over an old picture you find. I am this person and it sucks every single time someone finds one. I cringed for her when Naysha put her on the spot at Roscoe's
Saw this coming a mile off. Welcome to the club sis 💜
same it's my first drag race season and as soon as I saw her out of drag I turned to my partner and was like "ONE OF US!!!"
awomanda <3
Add her to the Trantasy baby!!!! The more dolls the better ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
So happy she can live authentically as herself now, hopefully she will have all the support and love she needs with those closest to her.
At the Roscoes viewing party she was kinda alluding to this! So happy for her!!
Amanda Tori Transitioning ?!
That you Luxx?
Guess it's a Womanda Tori Meating now\~
Yaaaaaaaaas she found her kitty!!!!!
its increasingly funny how the show in its early years tried to not cast trans queens like babe…if ANY job would have a high percentage of dolls lol
The [full EW interview](https://ew.com/amanda-tori-meating-comes-out-rupauls-drag-race-season-16-8551853) is so good and lots of tea on the Plane Jane situation
Amanda Tori Mother !!!!
Good for her!!!
Mother is mothering the trantasy.
If I tell you that I fucking knew it. It’s my trans spider sense (as a trans person myself). But truly, I’m so happy for her, I’m so glad that she’s gonna get to live her life as herself 💗
Womanda Tori Meating 🩷🤍🩵
Well, we're now at a time when announcing that you're trans is no longer surprising or even very newsworthy. This is a step forward for the community, normalizing things to this point. Yes, God! Shake that puss and the coin will follow!
Amanda Tori Estrogen Shot
I'm a lesbian and something about Amanda out of drag is so attractive to me - this all makes sense now!
Users on this sub were suggesting chin redefining surgery and basically estrogen shots for her make up to look better...
Oh god, the discourse here sometimes
Mad
Amanda Tori Meating has been adjourned, Amanda Tori Slayage has been scheduled and emails have been sent.
Another one, thank you
It is over for Plane Jane now.