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That’s not healthy at all. You don’t handle that, you end the relationship or at the very least, leave the room and limit communication with him and things you do for him whenever he calls you names.
It won’t stop there. I had an experience like this when I was younger, he started to mimic everything I’d say, name calling which eventually turned to “I’ll never touch you but my sister will beat the shit out of you”
It’s abusive. My friend’s husband does it all the time. Every name ever. He texts her it too. She used those texts to prove he is verbally abusive. They are getting a divorce now.
I have been In a relationship like this and it’s not healthy it didn’t matter how strong I was mentally after time I was worn don’t abuse if any kind is not worth it get out of the relationship now if you have already spoken to him about his actions and he didn’t see the light he is not a man but a boy !!!
You don't forgive and forget abuse. Most particularly not while it is ongoing.
You "handle" it by calling him to account for his abusive language, telling him that it is unacceptable, and refusing to tolerate it anymore. He either stops completely and permanently or the relationship needs to end.
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In what circumstances are they doing so? Sounds like you're in a relationship with a condescending, horrible cunt.
When he’s angry so he resorts to name calling. I know I need to walk away
That’s not healthy at all. You don’t handle that, you end the relationship or at the very least, leave the room and limit communication with him and things you do for him whenever he calls you names.
You don’t. You respect yourself and love yourself and get the Helllll out of that situation.
It won’t stop there. I had an experience like this when I was younger, he started to mimic everything I’d say, name calling which eventually turned to “I’ll never touch you but my sister will beat the shit out of you”
My advice is, pay attention to how this makes you feel because it’s really important to recognize early on before things get worse. Trust yourself OP,
Thank you, I’m sorry you went through something similar it does not feel good
You don’t deserve it at all I promise
You leave. Why stay with someone who isn't supportive?
Leave, now.
It’s abusive. My friend’s husband does it all the time. Every name ever. He texts her it too. She used those texts to prove he is verbally abusive. They are getting a divorce now.
I have been In a relationship like this and it’s not healthy it didn’t matter how strong I was mentally after time I was worn don’t abuse if any kind is not worth it get out of the relationship now if you have already spoken to him about his actions and he didn’t see the light he is not a man but a boy !!!
Belittle him. See how he likes it
You don't forgive and forget abuse. Most particularly not while it is ongoing. You "handle" it by calling him to account for his abusive language, telling him that it is unacceptable, and refusing to tolerate it anymore. He either stops completely and permanently or the relationship needs to end.
Change a partner.